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Is Alpha Male Nate is a True Gentleman? | First Dates USA

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Жыл бұрын

Boss lady Jen and alpha male Nate are looking for love. Can you plan love?
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@meaty220
@meaty220 Жыл бұрын
Alpha male?? That's a label that can never be self-applied lol
@jojobee42
@jojobee42 Жыл бұрын
Exaaaactly... lol
@Zerion
@Zerion Жыл бұрын
Cringed when I hear that lol
@pleun315
@pleun315 Жыл бұрын
A label from our tiny little ego.....
@Youbarkimeow
@Youbarkimeow Жыл бұрын
Every time a dudes told me he's a alpha male ends up to be the complete opposite lol
@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja
@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja Жыл бұрын
Yeah. Many labels are not supposed to be self-applied. I once met a self-proclaimed "boss-lady" who was more of a bully. Cringed.
@bluemidnight5926
@bluemidnight5926 Жыл бұрын
I think we can all tell based on her "yes" to a second date, that it was actually a no.
@sergiomacias5145
@sergiomacias5145 Жыл бұрын
She definitely was interested. She almost cried when he starting playing the guitar 😂
@ENFPerspectives
@ENFPerspectives Жыл бұрын
No, she was interested. He might be a catch. However, the ending said she went to Cobo with someone else... so maybe she changed her mind later. Happens. Or perhaps you were right?! I thought he was hilarious. He needs to meet an INTJ.
@angytingz
@angytingz 11 ай бұрын
tnk god for that then
@jones2277
@jones2277 8 ай бұрын
the thing is, he's cute, a gentleman, sincere, but he's too uptight, so it's really a personality thing, but the thing is, sometimes people come off inauthentic bc they're nervous so i think she considered the possibility that if he calmed down he might be a great date because he had so much going for him.
@patrickwilson2474
@patrickwilson2474 6 күн бұрын
@@sergiomacias5145no she was not 😂😂😂 She was clearly feeling a little uncomfortable because he came on way too strong and as she put it (in a nicer way) tried too hard!
@RenaWith
@RenaWith Жыл бұрын
The question he should ask himself is why does he needs to try that hard. Your presence and curiosity should be enough. You should be enough...
@lavinder11
@lavinder11 Жыл бұрын
He was probably teased for being sensitive and most likely did not have too much success with women.
@biancahotca3244
@biancahotca3244 Жыл бұрын
He's very insecure about himself.
@mitjed
@mitjed 10 ай бұрын
He's an entrepreneur, he woos clients by doing that. He think of her as a client.
@shaneduffy7829
@shaneduffy7829 5 ай бұрын
Too much effort for a divorced girl-boss. An early twenties woman who wasn't world-weary would have been swept off their feet.
@Be1smaht
@Be1smaht 3 ай бұрын
I get why. Chicago is highly competitive
@jojobee42
@jojobee42 Жыл бұрын
He called himself an alpha male and then walked in the restaurant carrying THAT flower. 😂
@kaybennett5324
@kaybennett5324 Жыл бұрын
My thought exactly! Flowers on a first date is a bit much/cringe for me and not in masculine energy imo. Play it cool dude... Still lovely thought :)
@sigma8995
@sigma8995 Жыл бұрын
The guy is a blue pilled beta.
@sunflowerlady2057
@sunflowerlady2057 11 ай бұрын
He’s man and secure enough to carry a flower
@jones2277
@jones2277 8 ай бұрын
@@kaybennett5324 nothing wrong with flowers. it seems sincere. but calling yourself an "alpha" is cringe.
@Jonty161
@Jonty161 4 ай бұрын
@@sunflowerlady2057 Evn tho this is true, I think the flower was more of a strategy for further meetups as seen when he went to go "water the plant"...
@rtc3363
@rtc3363 Жыл бұрын
Yes he overdid it on a first date but the fact that he put that much thought and effort was charming in itself. They just didn’t connect at the same level.
@ambiven10
@ambiven10 Жыл бұрын
Whosover calls themselves as Alpha is opposite of Alpha..lol
@janc734
@janc734 Жыл бұрын
You are so right- those are wannabe alpha's 😂
@achannel1818
@achannel1818 Жыл бұрын
You gotta respect the effort. But holy crap that ending
@missjasyj9905
@missjasyj9905 Жыл бұрын
I dunno what I expected but it wasn’t that
@LdACSJJ
@LdACSJJ Ай бұрын
This guy needs a therapist.
@MDQC71
@MDQC71 Ай бұрын
She screwed him! Pulled off his jacket, ruffed up his hair then buggered off with Brad!! There's a lesson somewhere! 😂😂😂
@giovanirafael
@giovanirafael 26 күн бұрын
​@@MDQC71 But it was his own fault!
@nathanielkorb3931
@nathanielkorb3931 Жыл бұрын
Can we give this man his own show? Like imagine an entire season of him going on first dates but it always ends with the woman flying to Cabo with Dan Bilzerian. I would actually pay to watch that.
@gumdakji7207
@gumdakji7207 Жыл бұрын
Hahahah exactly what I thought
@Cantetinza17
@Cantetinza17 Жыл бұрын
He should be the next Bachelor.
@Annsunshine30
@Annsunshine30 Жыл бұрын
@@Cantetinza17 🤣🤣🤣
@kaz1819
@kaz1819 Жыл бұрын
lmaoo
@BinaGodiva
@BinaGodiva 7 ай бұрын
@nathanielkorb3931 you're funny! I think I'd feel a wee bit sorry for him. ❤
@ip795
@ip795 Жыл бұрын
He was just nervous, guys! He seems like a catch if 'unpacked'
@janebaker4912
@janebaker4912 Жыл бұрын
I agree.
@joshuag.4873
@joshuag.4873 Жыл бұрын
Very much so 🤤
@dorothyflanagan9535
@dorothyflanagan9535 4 ай бұрын
He is nice but quite nervous
@giovanirafael
@giovanirafael 26 күн бұрын
Yeah, but he himself didn't proclaim himself an alpha?! Real alpha males don't do that, maybe in his mind doing these things makes him an alpha but no.
@jeremyperdomo7618
@jeremyperdomo7618 Жыл бұрын
Nothing puts someone at ease quite like a board game on a first date 💀
@joshuag.4873
@joshuag.4873 Жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@Northstander
@Northstander Жыл бұрын
Maybe that is a suitable introduction to the metaphor of life and dating being like a game of chess, the ultimate aim is to conquer but there are times when you make the wrong move and are totally outdone by an opponent...he thought that he had all the moves but was left exposed and outsmarted...no mate!
@jfaustin1742
@jfaustin1742 Жыл бұрын
that was actually the best part. If only he kept it at that
@lucaslevonmusic
@lucaslevonmusic Жыл бұрын
The guitar and singing were much worse 😂
@_DeadlyNightshade_
@_DeadlyNightshade_ 10 ай бұрын
He was love bombing her with stuff, it was overwhelming for a first date.
@jameshumphries5059
@jameshumphries5059 Жыл бұрын
Any man that calls himself an alpha male isn’t one. An alpha male know he is one and everyone else does too. It doesn’t need to be said.
@TuanPham-oq9pv
@TuanPham-oq9pv Жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who thinks she is actually really nice? Instead of saying “no” and embarrassing him, she is giving him the benefits of the doubt to do a second date.
@h3x0r1984
@h3x0r1984 Жыл бұрын
Nah, that ain't fair 😄 Just for the sake of being nice or what?
@bari2883
@bari2883 Жыл бұрын
She was never going on that second date. She didn’t want to embarrass him on camera.
@h3x0r1984
@h3x0r1984 Жыл бұрын
Again, it's a question of yes and no on the show. If you can't play the rules, then split it. Fair and square.
@Aaron-kj8dv
@Aaron-kj8dv Жыл бұрын
Yeah I actually think it's nice to not embarrass someone on TV even if you aren't interested
@angytingz
@angytingz 11 ай бұрын
i mean...its not her job to not embarrass him, if he wants to feel embarrassed or not thats on him
@dr.nainayeri4706
@dr.nainayeri4706 Жыл бұрын
He's definitely a catch as far as I am concerned. He seems like someone who just needs someone he can be himself with, someone who really cherishes him for who he is.
@fredericklee6899
@fredericklee6899 7 ай бұрын
Ok desperado
@robinelliot5003
@robinelliot5003 Жыл бұрын
I liked the jenga game, I thought that was interesting! The guitar and singing pushed it over the edge, you could see her embarrassment while he was singing and I can understand her suspicion.
@latulip100
@latulip100 Жыл бұрын
Anyone who has been in a long term relationship wouldn’t put that much effort into getting one again. She doesn’t want to crush his poor idealistic heart.
@j.t.1086
@j.t.1086 6 ай бұрын
Yeah that (combined with never being in a LTR) pushed it over the edge from creative and thoughtful to, intensely chasing a fantasy.
@iamlegend68
@iamlegend68 Жыл бұрын
This is why you should keep it simple on a first date. He spent all that time trying to woo her and she ran off with someone else.
@509travel8
@509travel8 Жыл бұрын
This dude is a rookie, I understand it . He does not understand the basic principle of a first date " the Simpler ,the better . " First day should be fun and relax , don't try too hard . FOCUS MORE on getting to know your date vice-versa.
@McFraneth
@McFraneth Жыл бұрын
That's what makes him so charming.
@josephhall1049
@josephhall1049 Жыл бұрын
@@McFraneth was about to type some may find it charming before coming across ur comment
@giovanirafael
@giovanirafael 26 күн бұрын
Yes, but he considered himself an alpha when in reality he behaves more like a young virgin boy who went on a first date! 🤷🏽
@NecromancerTO
@NecromancerTO Жыл бұрын
Her most certainly overdid it. While I appreciate this thoughtfulness and talent, the woman was turned off. When she was asked if she wants to go on a 2nd date, she was forced to say yes coz she didn't want to hurt him, it was clear on her face.
@Von_RX
@Von_RX Жыл бұрын
It is not about what is done on a first date but how it is done. Simplification is key. High expectations can usually overcomplicate and ruin the date.
@angytingz
@angytingz 11 ай бұрын
agree
@wrestlingterrier8366
@wrestlingterrier8366 Жыл бұрын
Why is it that I did not like these two at first but ended up liking them very much by the end of their date? Deep down they are really nice people. They seemed to be a great match.
@sunflowerlady2057
@sunflowerlady2057 11 ай бұрын
Same
@Jafmanz
@Jafmanz 10 ай бұрын
She is a prime manipulator! she manipulated him through the entire date.
@candicepohlner3712
@candicepohlner3712 Жыл бұрын
Omg I thought he was amazing. Thoughtful, sweet, considerate, classy, civilised, romantic etc etc!! The ripping off of the bow tie was low, classless, and to humiliate him, which was undeserving. He's a diamond!!
@Midwest..
@Midwest.. Жыл бұрын
He's kind of weird 😕
@ddot9566
@ddot9566 Жыл бұрын
@@vkh1088 No, but bringing a jenga game into a fancy restaurant for your date to play on a first date and calling yourself an alpha male is weird.
@shaunbarnett2972
@shaunbarnett2972 Жыл бұрын
She did it because she could tell he was trying too hard, was putting on a big show when on the first date, all she wanted to know was who he was as a person. He was just putting the cart before the horse. Casual, informal dates first, then if the chemistry is there, THEN go to lots of trouble to really wow her and win her over completely. She was trying to break down the walls.
@user-bz6xc8ik7k
@user-bz6xc8ik7k Ай бұрын
@@ddot9566 not at all is thoughtful, that helps breaking the ice.
@McFraneth
@McFraneth Жыл бұрын
I love him! He is a total catch.
@PacificNWGrl
@PacificNWGrl Жыл бұрын
That handshake in the beginning ☠️
@NecromancerTO
@NecromancerTO Жыл бұрын
It's like they were going to sign billion dollar deal
@tatskamaster
@tatskamaster Жыл бұрын
Oof.. Didn't even catch that. Always hug a date..
@DJMarcusGrant
@DJMarcusGrant 10 ай бұрын
Glad I'm not the only one who noticed. It was like one of those 'bro' handshakes lmao. I think he went to go for a hug but she put her hand out to shake instead which made it look more awkward
@lexa6154
@lexa6154 Жыл бұрын
I think Nate’s gorgeous (beautiful eyes and nice skin), and a true gentleman; and an interesting person to talk to, and he made an effort. I’d be happy with a man like him, even if he didn’t have a single penny. He’s perfect just as he is, he doesn’t need to change. 💝🥰
@J.M..
@J.M.. Жыл бұрын
Yeah, he’s hot. He was way too good for her.
@SpanishCultureinKerala
@SpanishCultureinKerala Жыл бұрын
I agree i would have gone on a second date i dont know why said yes without any emotion should have said plainly was not her type.
@cbeautifulworld11
@cbeautifulworld11 11 ай бұрын
I agree too. He is a rare gem of a man.
@lavaunjohns7796
@lavaunjohns7796 Жыл бұрын
It's so hard for an old soul to find his "like" in today's world.
@cbeautifulworld11
@cbeautifulworld11 11 ай бұрын
That is a true, lovely way to describe him and many hidden others in the world.
@cbeautifulworld11
@cbeautifulworld11 Жыл бұрын
He's gorgeous, interesting, intelligent and willing to make an effort. I was in a relationship with a man similar to Nate - clothes had to be custom made, though 33, his longest relationship ever was only 8 months, with me, very specific standards. It became difficult to keep up with his meticulous requirements yet he was a world class classical musician with a genuine heart of gold. Everyone loved him once they knew him. Nate is obviously a good guy who can remain true to himself and keep his unique presence yet still break through some of the barriers of formality. It takes massive amounts of energy to be so "on" all of the time and he's young. A lifetime of such demanding effort would be exhausting for his partner and most of all for him. I wish the best for Nate. The right person exists and I hope they find each other.
@antitogaboratanelwe1118
@antitogaboratanelwe1118 Жыл бұрын
I love this. Well said
@angytingz
@angytingz 11 ай бұрын
mmmm if u say so
@nappygirl8653
@nappygirl8653 Жыл бұрын
she was trying to be nice bless her heart. One of the most intense first dates I have watched. He does seem like a genuinely nice guy though.
@Prince_ee
@Prince_ee Жыл бұрын
OMG, Do NOT touch people like that, lady manager or whatever. Have manners. That was very inappropriate. Imagine if the opposite happened & he touched her clothes like she did and messed her hair. Horrible move from her.
@ktp.
@ktp. Жыл бұрын
She knew she’d be able to get away with it because he already said he wanted a second date. They would have made a nice couple so her going to Cabo without him was a surprise! Lol
@sigma8995
@sigma8995 Жыл бұрын
Of all the comments, finally someone sees her behavior is inappropriate too. It’s a sign of her being rude, disrespectful, domineering and has no boundaries. Can’t wait to put a ring on that. *cringee
@nishantthaccker1173
@nishantthaccker1173 Жыл бұрын
@@sigma8995 - How was she rude ? On contrary I feel she was just being playful and it was kind of adorable, personal touch as she was trying to put him at ease. Not sure why people like to get offended at every little thing!!
@sigma8995
@sigma8995 Жыл бұрын
@@nishantthaccker1173 I mean if you can't see how grabbing someone's clothing and pulling it off without asking them isn't rude, I don't know what to tell you. She's not the playful type. I've dated many, many women and know what that looks like. She's the domineering type. Going back to your comment about people getting offended by little things. How would you like it if you went on a date, and a guy said, you don't look good with make up. Then he proceed to smear your makeup with his hand or a piece of napkin. Talk about a lack of respect for personal boundary.
@sigma8995
@sigma8995 Жыл бұрын
@@nishantthaccker1173 OH btw, I did not watched to the very end where she threw his vest on the ground and messed up his hair. JUST WOW. That is utterly disgusting. What if he turned around said, "okay you like what's underneath the bowtie? We'll I like what's underneath the make up and hair." Then proceed to mess up her make up, mess up her hair, undo jewelry and throw it on the ground. God god, this woman has one of the most disgusting behaviors I have seen in a very long time.
@UTFT27
@UTFT27 Жыл бұрын
Anyone that calls themselves an alpha male is quite the opposite. 💀
@jasmine_spicy98
@jasmine_spicy98 Жыл бұрын
His date was very performed and she made it clear she didn’t need all that, just him
@SweeetSpice
@SweeetSpice 5 ай бұрын
I actually think it’s really sweet of him to have put that much effort into this first date. I never had a guy bring a game (which honestly isn’t a bad idea) on a first date and I would definitely always remember him!
@AnthonyMonaghan
@AnthonyMonaghan 3 ай бұрын
You would probably have fallen for Ted Bundy. "I have a bow tie and a broken arm...can you help me Ma'am?"
@gayathrivadivelu5432
@gayathrivadivelu5432 9 ай бұрын
Someone tell me this man found the love of his life! He is so thoughtful and cute!
@TomNook.
@TomNook. Жыл бұрын
Calls himself an alpha but lets her manhandle him
@donaldauguston9740
@donaldauguston9740 Жыл бұрын
I think most self-appointed "alpha males" want to be manhandled by their women.
@janebaker4912
@janebaker4912 Жыл бұрын
But he looked so much better when she loosened up his look. And maybe it's an excuse to touch. Oh wait.. you believe in all that dominant alpha stuff 😬
@joshuag.4873
@joshuag.4873 Жыл бұрын
An alpha man will melt at the touch of the right partner 👌🏼
@TomNook.
@TomNook. Жыл бұрын
@@janebaker4912 Read the ending. What you say, isn't what you do.
@jarrodhall3686
@jarrodhall3686 10 ай бұрын
@@joshuag.4873Looking at your profile pic, you’re not speaking from experience 😂
@racheladams3556
@racheladams3556 4 ай бұрын
Did you bring this?? The water… Yes he did! 😂
@farzadjahanfard
@farzadjahanfard 7 ай бұрын
Love died from lack of mystery. He left nothing for her to discover that was his problem.
@foobar5809
@foobar5809 8 ай бұрын
do you own a T-Shirt? - No 😂
@jtla370
@jtla370 Жыл бұрын
Alpha's dont walk around saying "im an alpha male", you just know they are when they walk in the room...Nate isnt it!!!
@florenceasmr2442
@florenceasmr2442 Жыл бұрын
This man is treasure. Totally my type.
@thapilot4007
@thapilot4007 Жыл бұрын
Dude should just marry the flower
@RapidBlindfolds
@RapidBlindfolds Жыл бұрын
Lmao
@freeair7292
@freeair7292 Жыл бұрын
😂
@punisher0717
@punisher0717 Жыл бұрын
Oh that is hilarious…. I was thinking there’s no way he pulls this off… then they introduce the girl I’m like ok maybe if he can actually back it up…. By the end she was literally taking his clothes off 🤣
@RapidBlindfolds
@RapidBlindfolds Жыл бұрын
Big ick at the beginning with him calling himself an alpha male and wishing he could get a ‘custom woman’ 🤦‍♀️ But actually really like the creativity and initiative that he took with the date
@ajadegirl
@ajadegirl Жыл бұрын
"If he wants to, he would" but hollysht the ending... omg. I actualy really appreciated his sense of individuality and really owning himself.
@craiglewis4357
@craiglewis4357 Жыл бұрын
For a guy to be this prepared,deserves a 2nd date.👍👍👍👍👍
@jeezuschryst
@jeezuschryst Жыл бұрын
That's not how it works at all.
@tatskamaster
@tatskamaster Жыл бұрын
Way TOO prepared. You can't just buy and plan your way into a relationship.
@npbh.
@npbh. 10 ай бұрын
I don't know how I ended up on this video, but I kind of like them for each other!
@jasonbarney4278
@jasonbarney4278 Жыл бұрын
If he had softly played /sang Edelweiss from sound of music it wouldn’t have been perfect. Yikes. 😂😂❤❤
@joshuag.4873
@joshuag.4873 Жыл бұрын
That’s what I was expecting, then he started rocking out over a little flower lol
@janc734
@janc734 Жыл бұрын
@@joshuag.4873 was trying to impress her with an original song-failed.
@ToFunForThis
@ToFunForThis Жыл бұрын
I’d love to meet a guy like him!! Like damn all that effort!! I think she was too scared and not use to receiving all this love 😂 lady I think you need to loosen up 😅
@SamStone1964
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
She wasn't scared. She said she wanted a man who would take more control at home. This man was very inexperienced and too young emotionally and mentally for her. Great people, just not a match.
@janc734
@janc734 Жыл бұрын
I'd never want that much "love" on a first date- seems to desperate.
@leetee3207
@leetee3207 Жыл бұрын
​@@janc734 e Exactly. He brought an extremely rare plant for someone he was meeting for the first time ever! Yikes.
@alfredssongs
@alfredssongs Жыл бұрын
At first I taught bringing the Game was weird but as they started and she loved it I could see that was a genius idea.
@PROVOCATEURSK
@PROVOCATEURSK Жыл бұрын
Women think they have time for a family and will work until 35 and then they start wondering why don´t high value men chase when they have a career...
@avacadotoast5492
@avacadotoast5492 Жыл бұрын
LMAO that was not the ending I was expecting😂
@maximusasauluk7359
@maximusasauluk7359 Жыл бұрын
The only way it can get more American than this, is if you add a firearm and McDonalds in background lmao
@dantruong6412
@dantruong6412 Жыл бұрын
I’m sure she did Rubik’s cubes with the hunky guy in Cabo, while he played the accordion 😂
@duvine3882
@duvine3882 Жыл бұрын
Yep; for her looks, not money are everything; as she already makes her own money.
@aliceglass6141
@aliceglass6141 Жыл бұрын
I think he’s creepy Serial killer vibes 😮😂
@ytjhhh
@ytjhhh Жыл бұрын
Damn 😂
@tea2125
@tea2125 11 ай бұрын
When he said he said he's an alpha male🤣🤣🤣
@Kdija89
@Kdija89 Жыл бұрын
I thought that it was rude of her to start taking apart his outfit. He picked it out and dressed up for her. But, so many guys come disheveled and with wrinkled.clothes and dirty sneakers. This guy came dressed to impress. I'm sure he would loosen up for he 2nd date.
@anetak.9494
@anetak.9494 Жыл бұрын
He seemed to have appreciated it.
@SamStone1964
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
I thought it was very helpful of her to help him loosen up. He was obviously very inexperienced and nervous. She was being playful with him.
@jameswalker366
@jameswalker366 Жыл бұрын
Very disrespectful. Was an attempt to undermine him.
@vaanipapadakis2226
@vaanipapadakis2226 Жыл бұрын
I think they’re a good match.
@AhmadKhan-xz9ss
@AhmadKhan-xz9ss Жыл бұрын
"No one gets married, plans to have a divorce" Ahmem 18 year olds dating 60+ rich men. AHemmm
@oswaldjameslangston6008
@oswaldjameslangston6008 Жыл бұрын
Those men dont marry them and if they do its with a prenup
@jackstar254
@jackstar254 Жыл бұрын
I only attract gold diggers....oh....look at me, I'm so Alpha and so rich! lol
@janc734
@janc734 Жыл бұрын
An "Alpha" male would never try so hard to impress. She definitely held the upper hand here. I love the Jenga questions but I'd make them simple, even funny questions. I thought the plant, and definitely the guitar playing were over the top. That would totally turn me off.
@rickylumo8666
@rickylumo8666 Жыл бұрын
Seems like he came to do a presentation. Or a magic show. Not have a date. Much more interested in being seen than in learning about her.
@fionaswartz9158
@fionaswartz9158 Жыл бұрын
this is insightful
@ytjhhh
@ytjhhh Жыл бұрын
Hmm. True
@janebaker4912
@janebaker4912 Жыл бұрын
He looked so good without the bow tie. I'd give him a go. Only if he relaxed and just be himself. No gimmicks
@duvine3882
@duvine3882 Жыл бұрын
Odd for a woman not wanting to be a mom yet; she had soccer mom looks & vibes to play but with a hunk not a husband.
@TechAndWanderlust
@TechAndWanderlust Жыл бұрын
Guy plays a nice song. Girl: I’ll go with you if you loosen up 🤦🏾‍♂️ dude you need to dodge that bullet and find a sweet, feminine girl next door type
@sigma8995
@sigma8995 Жыл бұрын
She’s a “boss lady” dominant, rude, no boundaries. Typical toxic modern feminist.
@hungrywolf4454
@hungrywolf4454 Жыл бұрын
He makes an effort to her. But she thinks that he's too much of a nerd. But he was just being his self. Which most women don't understand out there.
@asteroidbee612
@asteroidbee612 Жыл бұрын
If only he would have sang Edelweiss from Sound of Music! Missed opportunity.
@RuPaulCharley
@RuPaulCharley Жыл бұрын
His insecurities are through the roof! He just need to breathe and relax. The movie he’s living in his head is not reality.
@2615ParkAvenueAssociates
@2615ParkAvenueAssociates Жыл бұрын
Oh Jen, you gave up too soon. There aren't a lot of guys like Nate!
@SharkyBG
@SharkyBG 19 күн бұрын
She felt sorry for him and decided to fix him for his future girlfriend. 😅 Two very nice people but not for each other.
@tgb1229
@tgb1229 Жыл бұрын
that was alot....but I thought he was going to sing Edelweiss from The Sound of Music, now THAT would have been impressive...
@moneymakermike6189
@moneymakermike6189 Жыл бұрын
Super insecure guy. Keeps looking for validation. Constant humblebrags. Tailored suit this, entrepreneur that. Trip to the Alps. I would not be surprised if he has CEO on his LinkedIn of a one-man webdesign studio that he tries to run after his 9-5 job. She is so much more matured and chill. Immediately sees through it all.
@muhammadmota6141
@muhammadmota6141 Жыл бұрын
I’d connect with this guy easily if he was into men. Shame he really did try and it was super sweet. Perhaps a bit forced but he’s put in effort.
@joshuag.4873
@joshuag.4873 Жыл бұрын
You’re very cute 👍🏼
@mnc365
@mnc365 Жыл бұрын
Moral of the story, nice guys finish last. He was very sweet and thoughtful. I'm sure there will be someone better for him that appreciates it.
@tea2125
@tea2125 11 ай бұрын
Has anyone seen the UK version of The Office, he even plays the guitar😂😂😂
@becomeacodeher1282
@becomeacodeher1282 Жыл бұрын
i really enjoyed him but after reading the comments, i dont know anymore🤣
@cristinaxo
@cristinaxo Жыл бұрын
He was super sweet!! Stop giving him flack everyone!!
@JamesCraigWhoop
@JamesCraigWhoop Жыл бұрын
US version of this show is suspicious sorry. I get the feeling these people are out for exposure for entertainment careers. The EURO versions seem more genuine.
@jojobee42
@jojobee42 Жыл бұрын
Yes! And everything else in it seems 'off' too ~ the butler (or whatever it's called), the barman, the narrator (Drew Barrymore) ~ it just doesn't work... It's not MAGICAL like the UK version!
@burkabrigade
@burkabrigade Жыл бұрын
Just mirroring American society and culture vs. European.
@Linfogirl
@Linfogirl Жыл бұрын
I'll totally date him ❤
@akainikki
@akainikki Ай бұрын
Dude needs to chill. The flowers and the song both came off as a humble brag over a well meaning gift.
@RuthT90
@RuthT90 Жыл бұрын
I liked the jenga, that was a fun idea and the plant was lovely. The song was just too much. He seems quite sweet though, they just obviously didn't click.
@Michael-bf1dt
@Michael-bf1dt 7 ай бұрын
Hi Ruth how are you. Greetings from Ireland. It’s a good video. Wish you a lovely week 👍🙏 Michael
@LordBurberryGB
@LordBurberryGB Жыл бұрын
GOOD GOD, as a man I actually felt more and more embarrassed for Nate every time he said "I had", "bespoke this" "bespoke that" "Alpha Male, type A guy" "private club" and not forgetting "bespoke and entrepreneur", ! The Edelweiss was bad enough, but the guitar and singing just killed it. He is a control freak and a show off who has not understood or researched James Bond or this show, as we British are ALL about understatement (we do not boast, we do not show off and we certainly do not want to reinvent the wheel). The concept of the show stands, it is about chatting and getting to know each other. It is not a "job interview with a 52 question test" it is not about promoting yourself and it is not about getting into the Guinness Book of Records with the most "BESPOKE" said in 10 minutes. Also, there is already a PERFECT song from the Sound of Music about "Edelweiss" and do your research on this show by watching about 10-20 couples and you will understand the concept. Sorry to say, no wonder the longest relationship has only been THREE AND A HALF MONTHS . Next time, dress well in casual evening clothes, bring one single pink rose if you have to bring a flower, talk about "HER", do not boast about yourself and change the 3 1/2 months to "under a year" ... DO NOT USE THE WORDS "bespoke" "private club" "alpha male" "entrepreneur" and just enjoy the company and date !!!
@SamStone1964
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
He was clearly very nervous and inexperienced. Too scared to just let the evening flow and spark.
@freeair7292
@freeair7292 Жыл бұрын
Cringe Lord for sure😂
@rampar77
@rampar77 2 ай бұрын
He tried too hard and over did everything. That game was crazy., even the flower was out of line. He got everything going without all of that.
@MrBananaChannel
@MrBananaChannel Жыл бұрын
Calls himself Alpha male but needs a board game to brake the ice
@Ubhntu3789
@Ubhntu3789 7 ай бұрын
I don’t think he needs to change anything about him. You will meet the right woman for you. I love sophisticated hood looking men who go out of the way to make something special. He should skip on the “I’m an alpha man” next time. I think he’s a good guy just a perfectionist. It’s cute”.
@gabijabizauskaite141
@gabijabizauskaite141 Жыл бұрын
That's what I normally expect from a guy on a first date, I think it's really nice that he put so much effort...I think that women now really don't expect much from men and are more into bad boys...The lady on a date seemed a bit cold and didn't appreciated all the effort...
@SamStone1964
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
He was trying to fill up all the spaces because he was uncomfortable with himself. He was not allowing the evening to flow and spark. That's exhausting for the other person. Relax and let the magic unfold.
@syerega
@syerega Жыл бұрын
I am shocked. I would never think they are a match.
@nattie911
@nattie911 Жыл бұрын
The Jenga is a very cute idea. I thought he needed to relax and be more relatable with the regular messy humanness. different strokes for different folks.
@anetak.9494
@anetak.9494 Жыл бұрын
Very cute but rather for a 2nd date I thought
@AintLoyalNK
@AintLoyalNK Жыл бұрын
Women! Imagine the guy rearranged her clothes ! So creep. He went to all that trouble, perfect gentleman and yet she chose a badboy to go to Cabo while saying she wants a relationship! Streets are rough.
@ambiven10
@ambiven10 Жыл бұрын
ya that was crazy. The guy put so much effort, but now she wants him to loosen up. If this doesnt workout, then she ll go back to her friends and say guys dont put too much effort on dates.
@SamStone1964
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
She was being playful. He was clearly very nervous and inexperienced.
@AintLoyalNK
@AintLoyalNK Жыл бұрын
@@SamStone1964 would u have said he was being playful if u reverse the genders? Nah
@SamStone1964
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
@@AintLoyalNK Yes I would have said he's being playful if she was comfortable with him.
@SpanishCultureinKerala
@SpanishCultureinKerala Жыл бұрын
She deserve the street not this man trying to enamour her. 😢😢
@notaclone1194
@notaclone1194 Жыл бұрын
he is trying so hard to be something he is not... overall a nice guy though
@MonstaMunch101
@MonstaMunch101 9 ай бұрын
Anyone who refers to themselves as an alpha almost certainly isn't.
@Agent77X
@Agent77X Жыл бұрын
This guy is definitely not an Alpha type guy! More of a Simp! He got at the end stood up because he was little strange and weird! Ladies like "bad guys"! He is the opposite of that! He a nice guy!
@renskedj
@renskedj Жыл бұрын
I expected him to go sing Edelweiss from the Sound of Music.
@alanmccarthy4004
@alanmccarthy4004 Жыл бұрын
I love this guy's enthusiasm. The song was cringe though. 🤣 Musically it was really good, can't fault him there. Just the social context took all the fun out of the music.
@daynasafranek7807
@daynasafranek7807 Жыл бұрын
I hope that he was able to get the coat hanger out of the shirt he was wearing as well. He was soooo stiff in the worst way possible 😂
@randallrg75g2
@randallrg75g2 11 ай бұрын
HAHAHAH the end killed me xD
@cindyoconnell2471
@cindyoconnell2471 4 ай бұрын
I would be highly embarrassed if a guy sang a song to me on a first date out on the town! A bit cringy!
@dianecarman1979
@dianecarman1979 Жыл бұрын
I like the song he played ....🎶 🎵
@ModelJames13
@ModelJames13 Жыл бұрын
If you introduce yourself as an alpha male................. you aren't one. 😎
@jubernardi23
@jubernardi23 Жыл бұрын
This boss woman look much older and unclassy, feminist type( wants tô take control of him in the first date??!!) and also she put ver career over a family and means that she is not a woman tô take serious. I loved this guy and i also love his outfit and he deserve better than this woman!!
@vaanipapadakis2226
@vaanipapadakis2226 Жыл бұрын
Wow that’s judgmental and sexist.
@jubernardi23
@jubernardi23 Жыл бұрын
@@vaanipapadakis2226 I don't care for this type of shame word( i' m not part of you failure group) because I'm came from a traditional catholic Family and culture. If you think like that you will not marry or Will maryy with a beta mela.
@SamStone1964
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
She was being playful. He was clearly too young and inexperienced.
@jameswalker366
@jameswalker366 Жыл бұрын
@@SamStone1964 Certainly was not.
@Smile4CommunityCam
@Smile4CommunityCam Жыл бұрын
The ending though
@joshuag.4873
@joshuag.4873 Жыл бұрын
What an absolutely beautiful, sweet man. I don’t blame her for starting to rip his clothes off…
@robertbeining141
@robertbeining141 Жыл бұрын
BOOOM!!!!
@cballard7471
@cballard7471 11 ай бұрын
not him Ken-ing her at the end with his guitar 😂
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