Is Being a Lingerie Model a Deal-breaker? | First Dates New Zealand

[@jagl8180]

She’s giving prettiest girl from small town vibes

[@laurakatona8850]

She is really full of herself 🥹🥹 no questions towards the guy!!! Everything about her- she is pretty outside but inside- she has so much to learn

[@MamawithAtude-ib4em]

LOL: "Clean the bits; get in the creases." This young model is quite quite funny. She is a catch. Gorgeous & candid.

[@Skeezer66]

It feels like 4 out of every 5 dates on First Dates New Zealand is a teenager and someone under 23. Looking at every other table there are older couples having discussions, laughing, why can't FDNZ get more couples like that? Are older people staying away?

[@wge621]

Some of the first date productions choose based on attractiveness I've noticed. Eg Australia, new Zealand, US. almost all except UK to be honest. Even Ireland is mostly attractive younger people

[@dairet1945]

@@wge621What did you mean even Ireland? 😂

[@wge621]

@@dairet1945 I just mean it's so close to the UK so you'd expect the production style and casting to be more similar, but they go for the typical 'hot young people mold.' don't worry, I find the irish very attractive, my husband is irish!

[@LeMerch]

@@wge621 I’ve noticed this too. I like the older couples, there’s always interesting conversations!

[@kylespringsrandomguy]

this woman is one notch away from unhinged and thats only what we see on tv

[@monicacarolina6480]

What's next? New Zealand first dates 16 year olds? Jees

[@sigma8995]

Tom seems mature and is a good company, not much to be said about him. As for his date Emily, what she got going for her is her youth, some good looks, and I like the fact that she can work the farm, not tatted up, cheers. What's concerning is her focus on modeling and about wanting guys to jump through hoops. Almost always, a woman's career choice does not matter to man. However, the few to avoid are: modeling, flight attendant, bar tender, and high power position. Now going back to Emily wanting to see that the guy shower 5:31. While having good hygiene is an obvious must, I don't think in her case it's a simple matter of hygiene, but rather, a compliance test. Gents, if you sense that a woman is asking you to do something that seems ridiculous, DO NOT do it. If you do it and think she will like you more, the opposite is true. She will begin to lose respect for you. She will subconsciously feel like she's in charge and you are not a man. This is fascinating since most of the time these women are doing this without realizing it. Going back to Tom, we can see how much he smiles at all her jokes and agrees with her. Too much agreeability and compliance already. I understand it's really difficult to do when there's a young, good looking girl sitting in front of you, but that will be your undoing.

[@wrestlingterrier8366]

Well said!

[@lauradelaney5457]

I agree with some of your comment but you can’t just avoid a certain cohort of females due to their profession? Unfortunately there are bad eggs in every job!

[@sigma8995]

​@@lauradelaney5457 I get what you are saying and it's fair to think this way. But what people seem to not remember is that certain professions, certain lifestyles attract certain things. For example, and I will use a male figure for this example, what do you think about dating a high power guy who runs the show for an adult entertainment company? Girls must get this guy's approval to shoot films or whatever they want to do. In other words, he has access to a lot of female attention and they need his approval. It may be nice to think, oh I'm sure everything will be fine if we date. He will be faithful. No need to be insecure. A prudent girl would think twice about dating someone like that. While it is not guaranteed that he will cheat or do something along that line, you are playing with odds and statistics here. Why would you put the odds against you? Another more concrete example is choosing to buy a home in a rough neighborhood. While you may never be harmed there, statistically, you are more at risk than if you were to live in a nicer neighborhood. Again, it's a matter of weighing the statistic and probability. I definitely agree that there are bad eggs in every job, in every scenario. There are always bad characters no matter where we go, or what we do. Crimes of course do happen in a good neighborhood. But the likelihood of that is lower than in a rough neighborhood. So going back to our case and point. Of course, there are good, loyal, and selfless women in those professions I mention. However, the odds are against it. Modeling attracts a lot of self absorb, narcissistic women. And if they aren't, well, you'd be surprised that their professional can slowly shift their worldview into something less desirable. Models, actresses, yea I do not advise men to date these types.

[@MrJeeves007]

Well said@@sigma8995

[@paolafriedrick]

Well said, this is true. I don't think women realize it but it's a subconscious test to see how far you can push the man's boundaries. A masculine man wouldn't put up with that and would be firm but gentle (definitely don't go the other way and be rude, simply stand your ground).

[@allyjoy5943]

For a girl her age she really Knows herself and loves herself and I am here for it 😊

[@tankiebot704]

Shss childish and not very classy

[@Robin-op8op]

She's one big red flag. Run, dude. You're way too good for her. 😮

[@elizabethmenegon8057]

She didn't like him pointing out her ocd

[@feingetarntesfischfilet4841]

Run, Mate, run❗ That girl is a nightmare.

[@MamawithAtude-ib4em]

She is so gorgeous, and young; 1 word of advice: give up the hair extensions. You are perfect as you are.

[@LoloO42]

She's masking a lot of insecurity. Very self conscious. She seems to think her only options for success are trophy wife or model? Pretty sad.

[@robertgelblum5154]

I won't lie: I find her extremely attractive, with a very pleasant, fun personality. The guy is also nice, good company - and I'm guessing would be considered a good-looking fella. I was happy to see that they agreed to a second date (doing "drift carding" - which I'm too scared to google!). But then I was disappointed to learn at the end that they only remained "friends." What's it going to take to get one of these "First Dates" blind dates to result in true love and a meaningful relationship?

[@Skeezer66]

It would help if they found people more serious about finding a serious relationship. They're not kids, but they've barely been adults for any time.

[@sigma8995]

@@Skeezer66 Good point

[@sigma8995]

Robert, at this age, most young adults are still trying to figure themselves out. Most will also put a lot weight onto physical attractiveness in a partner than they do with personality, long term life goals, compatibility. I was no exception when I was their age.

[@grinchoi1]

how do u know how they ended up? just curious

[@MamawithAtude-ib4em]

I know! I feel the same. I get a bit disappointed when I learn they stop talking or friend zone each other. I want to see them later moving in w/ each other!!!

[@Montrose173]

She walks kinda funny.

[@cityhawk]

Kind of like someone who is heavier.

[@ceciliacrocker390]

It's the heals, more practice is needed. 🙃

[@lizzlebizzle5003]

@@ceciliacrocker390Maybe even the heels, too. 👠🤔 Although I think she may need some heals as well. 😉

[@leigh7507]

These people are so mature. At 18/19 I was playing football with the lads and just going out for pints after. I certainly wasnt wearing button down shirts and dining models in swanky restaurarants.

[@sigma8995]

I have to say, they are well spoken and behave at that age. And that's sort of funny about you playing football with the lads vs going to a swanky restaurant. Well, at least you got the opportunity to spend quality time and experience bonding with men. That's quite important. Men want women whom are good company, can do activities and bond with us.

[@MaverickLee11]

it was a blind date, could have been the grinch in joggers

[@jasminaj3682]

She is stunning and I liked her personality

[@SAMMYJR00777]

Run, Mate, run. she is all about her self. next...

[@MC-cg2qx]

I dont think they ever list the actual ages for these people. Both of these 2 look/seem older than their stated age

[@TomNook.]

4:27 no worries guys

[@sigma8995]

That's where I begin to worry

[@angelmason5108]

The hair extension story!!!! 😹 I really like this girl.

[@gillowens24]

Sounds a bit werid though

[@maddymaxwell1947]

hair extensions are so funny😂i was swing dancing once and didn't put my hair up and the guy did a backflip with me and my extensions fell out onto the floor💀

[@luciamaununiemi6140]

​@@maddymaxwell1947😂😂😂😂ou God!

[@davidyardley512]

"I have to observe them having a shower" She's completely serious about that. Sounds like she wants a compliant pet. Find your purpose young man.

[@focabox5594]

This was seven years ago!

[@Skeezer66]

Really? Wow! I'd rather see what would happen if they went on a date now.

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

He seems nice but a go-cart racer is not going to win over many ladies. Her trade is not that great either. I would not feel secure with a lingerie model gf or if she had an OF.

[@sigma8995]

OF should just straight up be a deal breaker.

[@larrypatterson5363]

OF?

[@larrypatterson5363]

Only Fans…got it.

[@chadfeathers3001]

I would love to see her without hair extensions and eye lashes. She's cute and fun.

[@pinut187]

First time I see that the make-up blush or whatever you call it goes on to the neck.

[@antoniocolella1445]

ya too much makeup and she is short,model,really?

[@Bookwhiff]

Miniminter

[@jamiefrisby1914]

"Pretty Woman" great physique, good chat, banter, even though 18 reckon she would be way too much for him, he seams very quiet, only talked more when started getting some Dutch courage with the old amber nectar.

[@davemagpie]

She sounded like hard work

[@rogdawg123]

emily is jaw dropping beautiful 🔥🔥😍

[@tankiebot704]

Definitely a red flag

[@davidalfonso3042]

I am single, 37 years old, living in North Africa, looking for the love of my life

[@joesoap1727]

Body Count??

[@aprillorraine]

they’re so damn cute!!

[@itslikethesamebutdifferent8020]

4:28

[@AKiki-ct1ro]

Omg that's meeee I would make my boyfriend shower and brush his teeth my way before 😅

[@NuRespira]

my man 👏👏👏

[@LordFlashheart1]

A Jäger Bomb lol

[@Ianmundo]

pretty sure an 18 year old and a 22 year old are in different stages of life, she is a kid

[@edmardt]

whoa!

[@bloodynorahvan2203]

She has so many red flags

[@daniellerichard1385]

What a gorgeous young woman - so smart and confident. He is batting way out of his league here.

[@ralphlyda4545]

He is equally as hot as she is. He dodged a bullet by not acquiescing to her weird demands.

[@elcristoph7380]

she's 18, she's at the best looking and highest value stage of her life right now. he's only 23.. it'll take another decade for him to level up.. assuming he makes the right choices. comparing the 2 makes no sense, younger guys are always at a disadvantage at this age.

[@michellea9857]

This is what the failed sexual revolution has brought about, discussing your sexual hygiene with different guys on a first date with a guy, my word. Tacky.

[@monsieurmike2072]

Lingerie model...😉. Nuff Said!.

[@lindsandkev]

Perfect couple.

[@emperor.augustus]

she's gonna be single for a loooooooooong time

[@MasterofBlackJack]

So she pulls fowls from birthing cows but freaks out about her man's bathing habits?

[@invinciblevettel5]

it never went any further than friends ...... like that was a surprise. High maintenance gold digger.

[@TomNook.]

That is the scrawniest builder I have ever seen.

[@ianlaccohee7180]

That scrawny builder just got a second date with a beautiful woman.

[@TomNook.]

@@ianlaccohee7180 Read the description. Friendzoned.

[@sigma8995]

He's not a Chad and was too agreeable.

[@aron.gortman]

He's not on the stuff that 95% of tradesmen are on.

[@leigh7507]

I think he's really tall. My really tall mate didnt fill out until he was 24 or 25. When he did, he got so much attention from women it was unreal

[@telchalone7115]

She's had a few too,and peiky,ir however they pronounce it there )

[@Diyprincesss]

She has very short stumpy legs, kinda like a Shetland pony...

[@Missmouss]

I just dont get that men want model looking women but then they dont want them to actually model. Its like a child who wants his toy for himself... she is gorgeous by the way, and way out of his league to my opinion...!

[@mrhat50]

She’s so 😮‍💨😑

[@TheAndyweeras]

Clearly here for exposure.

[@ltrillium1000]

she is a game player, stay away

[@John_in_Oakland]

Why do all of these women wear F-me pumps?!

[@maximumachievement361]

She is 18 and looks better than most females in their 20s.

[@bluemoon8498]

18 year old child is annoying and immature. Gosh unsubbed, bad show.