Is Having No Friends REALLY That Bad?

[@lifenoggin]

Hey friends! Comment 3 things you like down below, and if you find someone with the same interests, respond to them! Let's start a giant friendship pool in the comment section! I like Fun Facts, Pokemon, and Pizza Bagels!

[@Bad-Edits]

I'm a big fan of editing, realizing I have no real editing, and then uploading bad edits onto youtube. It's working out great so far

[@scrunchiee4565]

I like crying, pokemon and feeling good

[@ZIONOMANIA]

I'm a big fan of playing, suffering and leaking documents in this one game called War Thunder :)

[@IDKgamergamingiscool]

I honestly think this is an awesome idea, but I'm still too scared lol

[@SpicyNetherrack]

Comics, Persona 5 Royal and Static Shock TV show

[@sohwhy1475]

I'm going to be honest here, I don't have any friends since graduating high school, so I'm really awkward when talking to people real life and online. Of course I tried to make friends before but it doesn't work out, and I think it was all because of my awkwardness. My life right now is just work, eat, play games, and sleep. I'm the worst...

[@lifenoggin]

Not the worst! Going through phases like this, especially post high school is normal. Making friends is tough and sometimes it's about finding the right person(s) that match you best. That's not going to happen easily sometimes. If you think your awkwardness is getting in the way, what exactly can you pin point about it? Is it internal? ALSO!!! What games do you play?

[@Bananappleboy]

These two are LEGENDS. (i say that ironically and unironically)

[@kaideane6973]

I'm going through something similar It's been really hard finding friendships after secondary school, and most of it is due to my social anxiety. I've come to the conclusion that, I need to be happy alone, because that's kinda the default at the moment. If I'm happy alone, even if I don't gain friendships, at least it'll be ok

[@ShadoFoxx]

Ya know, I used to be like this. I always had a very, VERY tough time making friends when I was in school, ever since middle school. When I graduated from high school, I had a small group of friends that I chatted with for about 2 years afterwards and then I was by myself again. Its always been easy to make friends, but difficult for me to keep them for whatever reason. I was about to make peace with it when I met my best friend by pure chance online back in 2015. I was an admin for a fanpage of this webseries that I liked and I did and 'Ask the Admin' like the others did and got no responses (was typical for me regarding that page, unfortunately) I almost deleted it and called it a night, but I decided to make another post, and he responded. He was the ONLY FAN to thoroughly engage with me, and was enthusiastic about it. We moved our convo to private messages and the rest I history. You know that silly little cliché about friends doing the same thing at the same time or sitting on the phone for hours with nothing but silence between the two of them, or where they finish each others sentences? I actually have that with him. I could be thinking about him, or he's thinking about me, and we message or call one another. He gets all of my little quirks and weird behaviors. I never, EVER have to explain myself to him, and that's such a liberating feeling. By the way, we met just a few months before I turned 21 and we'll be 30 next year. This year will be 8 years since we first met. of friendship and I can't imagine my life without him. I know its hard being alone, but I DO believe that anything is possible and that you'll more than likely meet the person that you've been waiting for in the unlikeliest place and the unlikeliest time. Hang in there! I believe in you 💜

[@benny71555]

@@kaideane6973 i can relate, trying to enjoy the time i spend alone instead of complaining about it, but it's not easy. stay stong guys

[@flyingchong]

You should’ve also mentioned the flip side: better to be alone than have ungrateful and awful friends. Learned that lately.

[@Edi-workingmum]

Yea, I agree. I hope you find friends that aren’t toxic.

[@mihailmilev9909]

Well alone is not good but yeah kinda basically

[@mihailmilev9909]

Sorry u had to go through that bro. I have what I think a drop in that experience as well. People suck sometimes. But u gotta find the ones that are right for u. That's part of what life's all about. And if u can't at the moment then it is what it is, but still don't stop talking to people completely forever u know. Please.

[@mihailmilev9909]

@@Edi-workingmum same

[@flyingchong]

@@Edi-workingmum Thanks

[@tayzonday]

When I put that I vomit portals on my dating profile, I get no matches ☹️😭

[@lifenoggin]

There's a lot of vomit in the sea, Tay! You'll find someone. ♥️

[@ChromicQuanta]

@@lifenoggin You ruined the beach for me damn it.

[@TabbyEgg312]

Chocolate rain! 😀

[@Dbzvp793]

I get no matches no matter what I put on my profile.

[@mannamedisaak3316]

@@ChromicQuantado you have emetaphobia to

[@user-wl5iu7pj6u]

The power of friendship really does exists. It helped completely change my life the last couple of years. I would not be the same without them.

[@user-wl5iu7pj6u]

And when I say friendship, I mean GOOD friends. Had friends before in grade school and those weren't real relationships

[@AlexanderCheong]

One of the biggest misconceptions is that being alone doesn't necessarily mean feeling lonely. If you truly enjoy being alone then you won't feel lonely. Hence, it should have NO negative effect on your health as well as lifespan.

[@btrdangerdan2010]

Friendship is very important to me. I missed out on making friends when I was in elementary -high school back when people were still children and had less responsibilities. I'd get bullied by the other kids and I'd isolate myself further. Long story short. Now I can interact with people on a nominal level. The few people I consider my real friends, sometimes it's hard to stay in touch or make plans with them when they or I'm so busy as we're older and have more responsibilities. But I just have to remind myself to be patient, true friendships don't happen overnight.

[@jaysoncadano]

When you're close to 30s with kids, making friends can be a little challenging. Specially maintaining it.

[@Kill_peter]

Skill issue

[@SaidBKD95]

Me irl

[@empirenow6068]

The comments saying skill issue would never have the opportunity to make a child. I understand the struggle dude. When one human steals all of your time it makes it hard to give what’s left to anyone else.

[@jaysoncadano]

I dont think its a skill issue for me. Like what@@empirenow6068 said, its about not having the time. Imagine having an 8 to 5 job, kids to take care of and making your wife happy. When you're trying to be a good provider, father and husband at the same time, it usually sacrifices the time for yourself.

[@empirenow6068]

@ATMEGA 16A you no days off p*ssies are hilarious

[@souldestroyer1696]

It is scientifically proven that the power of friendship exists

[@rundown132]

proven by anime*

[@Anonymous-cp3zm]

Winx agrees

[@frank.giogas.4271]

So my little pony was right and all this time I thought it was just a saying

[@MattGarcyaDC]

Damn so Naruto was right

[@Snaily]

In my case, my friends genuinely saved my life. Last year, with it being 5 years since my mum committed suicide, me dropping out of my college course, and struggling to find a job with looming homelessness due to my supported lodging coming to an end, I hit my lowest point mentally and nearly gave up several times, but every time I reached that point, someone would message in our Discord server asking to meet up. They kept me going long enough to find a place to live with a friend who keeps me sane and a job that keeps me active and pays well enough to support me, and I'm actually starting to do decently mentally even at a time of the year I tend to struggle.

[@xxxalienxo]

Wow, thanks for sharing! Proud of you 👍❤️‍🔥

[@Snaily]

Mmmmm spam

[@gianttacogod]

Damn man. Stay strong!

[@LuisC7]

@@Snaily congrats man keep up

[@rainmanshady]

So I'm nuerodivergent, diagnosed with Aspergers when I was younger, but that term has kind of dissolved into just being on the Autism Spectrum. I have the worst time meeting people and building relationships easily. I love art, specifically pens and paint I love oddities, like things you have to go out of your way to find in stores (preserved bugs, crystals, and local handmade artwork that may not be so traditional) I also love deep, meaningful conversations. I like small talk but I prefer talking about deeper subjects as well. I'm not really a pop culture person, so I don't watch normal everyday TV or watch the news. So I'm usually at a disconnect with people. My name is Dakota. Nice to meet you!

[@meganweber5057]

Hi! I'm on the same side of the spectrum, have a hard time connecting with people, love deep meaningful conversations, and don't watch many movies or TV shows.

[@rainmanshady]

@@meganweber5057 glad I know I'm not alone! What do you like to watch instead of TV?

[@androidgamers6276]

I also have hard time finding common things because I don't watch tv or do common things when I was in school Its very heard to start and continue a conversation . I like going deep about topics forming ideas . I keep myself busy by learning new things . not artistry like you are but love to know about you I really want to be creative and artistry but I don't have that skill I am more of a science/nerd one.

[@amjustbored]

Well hello Dakota. The third point made me connect with your interests.

[@BigCatnapDominus]

My past was bad. Although i did jerky things too, i still got neglected badly at my school until highschool. Since then I’m numb to any friendships

[@headsnap1190]

The Rhett and Link cameo tho

[@AvaFitz699]

3 things i enjoy -playing drums/guitar -listening to music -walking around my neighborhood

[@CommentTutorial]

Having friends is just something I’ve never been able to do. I’ve never had a good friend, so maybe I’ll die when I’m 33.

[@aftabanimates1068]

hey, don't think like that dude. keep your chin up, you'll have like 100 friends someday

[@jordynprothero8172]

Don't think like that you will find an amazing friend one day! The best friend anyone can have who is ALWAYS there for you is Jesus Christ! He loves everyone so much that He died for us all🥰

[@davidhenningson4782]

@@jordynprothero8172 er... so your one true friend died? That's sad🤔 Don't worry though you'll find others.

[@josefraf5539]

can i be your friend, no creepy way

[@ulydgsjwya]

i"ve never had a friend

[@Okamikurainya]

I can't have friends... I've had friends, they were great, but they grew and I didn't. I pretended it wasn't the case for a long time, but I understand now that any form of relationship with another human being is impossible for me, nor would it be enjoyable for either of us. So I keep to myself, and I've become physically healthier for it, contrary to what most people say. The stress of trying to maintain friendships, the guilt and shame of my failures and being someone I wasn't was doing more damage than any benefit a friend could ever have fixed.

[@gemain609]

NGL this mindset kinda hurts to hear. So you're stagnant and unwilling to change and evolve over the course of friendships and relationships so you just avoid them all together? I mean power to you but that just sounds incredibly lonely. Don't get me wrong maintaining friendships and relationships is hard work (my longest friendship is like 14 years and we both talk slot about how it's evolved since we were in HS to now) but it does bear fruit in having someone/people you can rely on and trust.

[@Okamikurainya]

@@gemain609 No, the entire premise of my comment was that I spent too much time trying to change and that stopping that improved my health. Too many years spent trying to fit a square peg in a round hole. Most people are far too fickle at worst, flexible at best for me and I tend not to be adaptable enough, nor intelligent enough to work around that.

[@orapoix6877]

bros irl hachiman that's quite impressive

[@meganweber5057]

I've often felt that I didn't really need friends to be happy, and that whenever I tried pursuing friendship I just ended up embarrasing myself. My autism doesn't help either. I love time alone, and I get really uncomfortable in most social situations, especially with more than 1 person. But I found the past couple years that while I hate parties and groups and small talk, I still really want to be able to have deep 1-on-1 conversations and just be fully myself with someone else. I think I just told myself I didn't need friends to protect myself from the fact that I have literally 0 clue how to get that.

[@meganweber5057]

Also, and closer to what OP was talking about, I don't know you, and I get that many people make it feel like you need to change to be their friend, but if you're just trying to be a better version of you, many people would love to be your friend just the way you are. I often forget that, too.

[@kreiyt28]

Dang, I guess I'm dead now.

[@fishfeet100]

real

[@MythicqI]

ha ha ha

[@non-shockingtopics7563]

Nah I'm your friend now. This is non-negotiable btw, whaddya think of that, Mr. living until he's 80?

[@mannamedisaak3316]

@@non-shockingtopics7563wanna be friends too

[@TheSast]

Ah, neat!.. Guess I'm dying.

[@tyla2003]

What a great video!! Also, be smart about the company that you pick as well, bc it can also work in the opposite if people are easily influenced by the wrong people. So yes, all of this is true, but also be careful about the company you keep as well. Just remember this old wise saying (one of many): "Birds of a feather flock together. "

[@loveandparty4118]

I've never had true friends, ever. All I have are classmates and coworkers and relatives. I'm 39 and still alive. I talked to one of my classmates and it seemed like we had pretty similar outcomes in life, even though he had a close-knit group of friends. And one classmate I had who had close friendships ended his life at 38...

[@tothebeyond6318]

Relatable, for someone who had no true friends. I don't even think I've done anything too problematic and yet here I am the easy target for people to talk crap about and spread rumours of since nobody feels the need to be on my side.

[@SleepyMook]

Three things I enjoy doing are: 1. Playing Video Games 2. Writing 3. Going out for a walk (sometimes with my dog or not).

[@LeakyTrees]

Woah! That's pretty much my whole life, minus the dog (for now)

[@breda-lee7201]

I like writing too!

[@amjustbored]

Heyyy, even i like writing. Im a screen writer and we'll i had a dog and she recently passed away so yeah walking makes us same again

[@PrishaOrSmthngIdk]

Wow that's really cool! Same here. I love playing video games, writing and I have like 10 pet dogs!

[@amjustbored]

@@PrishaOrSmthngIdk 10 dogs seriously? I have 4 😂

[@flareisroyalty]

I enjoy… 1. Making art 2. Listening to Shinedown 3. Playing Stardew Valley and Minecraft

[@chanelleright]

Thats nice. I also like making art and playing minecraft

[@IanElías]

Heyooo i love maincraft! too hehe send u discord uhh?? username

[@ax--media]

Minecraft let's GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...!!!!!

[@GarlicBreadEnjoyer]

You got good taste 👌 It's been a while since I've last played stardew valley lmao

[@IanElías]

@@ax--media Hey, pas your discord userneme to play it

[@Lisa-re5rq]

3 things I enjoy 1. Trying out new cafes or other cool places 2. Watching anime 3. Spending time with animals whoever reads this i hope you have a wonderful day! :)

[@bocephus4767]

thanks lisa

[@non-shockingtopics7563]

Which animes? Favorites? Personally I haven't gotten super into anime but I've been tangentially interested my entire life. Loved One Punch Man, liked Naruto but gave up after a while because SO MUCH FILLER, and tried an episode of My Hero Academia but ehh...

[@Lisa-re5rq]

@@non-shockingtopics7563 i don't really care lol if it sounds interesting i'll watch it. my fav right now is jujutsu kaisen tho. if you liked one punch man then you should definitely check out mob psycho 100! :)

[@amjustbored]

Thank you Lisa. I hope you are also having a good day. But if i may ask what animes do you watch?

[@ninjapirate123]

I would rather have no friends than to have bad friends

[@PrishaOrSmthngIdk]

3 things that I really like are: 1. Exploring cultures from different countries. 2. Writing stories or poems. 3.Playing Minecraft.

[@estellairon9448]

Just joining in on the fun 3 things I like: 1. SPAAAACE 2. Games and how they're made 3. Character design!

[@non-shockingtopics7563]

Hold up, hold up, hold up. SPAAAACE as in delusional metal ball with a yellow eye, or SPAAAACE as in the great expanse, or both? Either way we may have to discuss further. Also about games because that's cool too.

[@estellairon9448]

@@non-shockingtopics7563 Both, more the latter :P I like the endless starry expanse of stuff that just came together and made beautiful synchronies of ever so different, massive rocks, each with their own uniqueness and quirks, and their own window to space in a different perspective, everything all changing all the time...

[@fardeensheikh2153]

Three things I enjoy : 1.Weight Training 2.Cricket 3.Long drives

[@MarkoTubeJKL]

This is such a sweet video. I always like these types of topics since it just comes to show that we as a species evolved to be social, and I like science so it makes it even more interesting for me all though I don't understand some things from time to time 😂. So I encourage everyone to go out there and be social for a while maybe you'll end up making some friends. Of course it's easier said than done but the worst thing you can do is sit around and wait because friends don't just pop up one day, you have to earn people's trust and be yourself. I hope you all have a wonderful rest of your day!

[@Lackingworth]

U JUST POSTED A VIDEO SAYING “BEING LONLY MAKES DIE SOONER” AND NOW THIS. DOC JUST GUVE IT TO ME STRAIGHT

[@errornull390]

I diagnose you as loser retard

[@KaifamGaming]

@@errornull390 i diagnose you as a loser retard with a gigachad pfp

[@giggityking6505]

3 things that I like -Playing Tennis -Playing basketball -Cycling

[@zoinovum1970]

God

[@Toothpi_ck]

I've been watching for years, I'm amazed at how much you've progressed with animation

[@sketchyskies8531]

I appreciate the friends reference

[@rogerminnick6470]

Three things that I enjoy 1. Any Reese’s product 2. Putty 3. Ferrets

[@lifenoggin]

I like Reese's new trend of just shoving whatever they want into a peanut butter cup and calling it a day. Reese's puffs? Potato chips? Reese's pieces? THROW IT IN THE CUP!

[@IanElías]

@@lifenoggin chale no entendí

[@Cellardoor_]

1:25 What they don't tell you is that being underprivileged also has an impact on your relationships. Socially, people will be weary of you, and then there's the stress of keeping up with friends, like for example if you make friends with richer people who have plenty of expendable income and want to go places and then get mad at you for not coming but you can't because you literally live paycheck to paycheck. And then there's age.. the older you get the harder it is to make new friends and maintain them. If friends are a required part of life then underprivileged people are further pushed into less privilege, just like most things in life. In this case having friends is a privilege, and privilege is not something everyone has.

[@pootispencerguy]

Sending virtual hugs to everyone reading this without friends🤗 After spending my entire first 18 years of my life not making friends, I've been pushing myself to make a change and meet new people. I'm still a ways away from fully opening up to people, but now that I've experienced that initial bit of human interaction I've been missing, I can confidently say that the struggle will soon be well worth it Oh right and also: 1. Gaming (mostly watching competitive eSports) 2. Music (mostly EDM) 3. Science

[@concept5631]

I'm proud of you for coming this far. You have value and are worth it. I wish you the best.

[@pootispencerguy]

@@concept5631 thank you. I hope to have friends who are as kind as you in the future

[@jackcau1845]

im also interested in science and i also like gaming. do you want to chat?

[@pootispencerguy]

@@jackcau1845 my man! I'd be happy to chat! I'm free for an hour or so. What would you like to talk about?

[@scrunchiee4565]

I can't wait to see what type of relationship this might turn into

[@amjustbored]

Thank you blocko. My favourite 3 things would be 1. Watching movies/anime 2. Interacting with people and getting to know them. 3. Listening to music

[@golden_boar0651]

I had autism that had stunted my ability to socialize, making it harder to make friends in the real world. Now, I had overcome it and am now able to talk to friends when I have saved them in my contacts. Anyways: 1. Video games 2. Drawing 3. Animations, occasionally

[@chazzerg8567]

I like: - Landscape photography - aviation - Scifi/ fantasy & manga

[@KaifamGaming]

what kind of landscape photography?

[@chazzerg8567]

@@KaifamGaming i do alot of urban/ semi-urban landscapes. I live in the english midlands, where theres lots of historical industry so theres quite alot of old infrastructure dissecting the landscape which can make for interesting photos!

[@KaifamGaming]

@@chazzerg8567 sounds really nice

[@chazzerg8567]

@@KaifamGaming thanks, and yourself what are your interests?

[@IanElías]

Yo I LOVE PHOTOGRAPHY

[@erglwrgl]

Lol Rhett and Link as Life Noggin characters is hilarious

[@eliscerebralrecyclingbin7812]

Thanks!

[@Ai_Guy13]

I never really knew what it was like having real friends growing up. I thought I had friends, but they used me, stole my things, stole money, manipulated me, etc. I eventually just gave up and haven’t had any actual friends (besides friends online and on my twitch) but they very rarely talk to me, so I haven’t really experienced “Friendship” ever 😢 I haven’t experienced having any friends at all now for atleast 10+ years.. it’s very lonely and I fall into depression a lot from it because I just wish I had a lot of friends I could just hangout with during my streams on twitch, in game (PlayStation) on other social media apps like TikTok etc.. a lot of people loved me growing up, but I’m still trying to fill that void. Just would love to have some real friends 😪 I think that’d really help me a lot mentally in life.. I know that’s something thats been missing for a very long time. I do enjoy streaming on twitch, playing games, I’m outgoing and silly, full of positivity & have so much love to give. I just wish I could find the same out there, maybe one day.

[@tothebeyond6318]

Did anything changed yet?

[@Ai_Guy13]

@ not really unfortunately

[@tothebeyond6318]

@@Ai_Guy13 do you still go to school?

[@Ai_Guy13]

@ no

[@tothebeyond6318]

@@Ai_Guy13 work? college?

[@LauraFlacksNarrol]

Philosophy, role-playing games and singing

[@Friendship1nmillion]

That's 3 of my interests ( too ) . Do you write songs too ? Are you anything like Miley Cyrus ? { watching this from Sydney Australia 🇦🇺 } ♑️✍️🇳🇴

[@stenchofjustice]

oh crap I'm gonna die... at least I have great life noggin videos to watch in the meantime.

[@non-shockingtopics7563]

Nah I'm your friend now and you're gonna live till you're at least 80, whaddya think about that?

[@stenchofjustice]

@@non-shockingtopics7563 I hope you like pizza 🤪

[@colinfox2778]

Thanks for reminding me I'm going to die sooner than most. My only friend just got a girlfriend and now I have no one. Been losing friends this way all my life so I'm used to it. Doesn't make it any harder though. I'm happy for him; I just wonder when I'm going to be as lucky as he has been. Everyone I know is now married or with a girlfriend. I feel so alone. I just want to know what it's like to have another human being love you. What's it like being in a relationship?

[@amjustbored]

Oi don't think like that brother. Come on open up. We both can chat

[@L1feisgoodfriend]

Same. I'm 19 now and don't have any friends. Broke up with my first girlfriend 1 yeae ago, in a hard way.. All i want is to be a good person and i feel like nobody appreciates that

[@marinmilevoj4829]

1. Anime romances (romcoms) 2. roleplaying games 3. history

[@davidmcjeri_]

Life Noggin: Having Friends Can Save Your Life! Me: Guess I'll just go die then

[@kalebwieland4938]

This does give me an idea: Why not make a video on people who make up imaginary friends and their benefits? Right now, I have to resort to writing short stories/screenplays to keep myself busy outside of my work life.

[@ax--media]

Cool video. Here are some stuff I like to do: - Playing video games - Making video games - Modelling and animating in 3D

[@breda-lee7201]

So like some digital art, but you make models and animations? Thats so cool! I also do digital art but i just like to paint and stuff... Nothing 3D although it sounds awesome

[@Dan-sz7hp]

What programs do you use for 3d modeling and what programing languages for the games? I use sketchup, and basic functions of blender. For games i use C++, and before highschool i used Scratch

[@ax--media]

@@Dan-sz7hp 3D Modelling: - Modelbench (Propriety) - Blender (When I get use to the software) - MMD or MikuMikuDance (Obsolete) Pragram language for making games: - GML or GameMaker Language (Propriety) Other programming languages: - Java - C++ - C - Python - Lua - Scratch - GMV or GameMaker Visual

[@non-shockingtopics7563]

Cool, what kinda games do you play and/or like making?

[@ax--media]

@@non-shockingtopics7563 I play a lot of Minecraft because I love building bases and artworks in survival. I am currently working on some retro arcade titles and recreating FNF in gamemaker. I do hope to work on my own adventure game in the future.

[@JasonHorkles]

I actually met my best friend on Discord and we've been best friends for over 5 years now - he's definitely helped me through a lot of tough times and I look forward to meeting him in person one day

[@ExplodingSteve]

newer style animation, i’m liking it!!!

[@xdrazormon454]

Having a lot of friends is pure fantasy you’re going to have at most 4 true friends in your life people suck I get tired of rejection and hate or unreciprocated friendships love from fake friends who never cared about me since the beginning

[@ArmorAdv413]

Majora's mask, peanut butter, and iron man armored

[@AsherTheAngel]

Lol 😂

[@makadenmitchell2909]

So many references in this one!

[@KenniIsBored]

I live in a small town where everyone talks about one another. I can wait until I’m finished with school to move cities and make friends.

[@universalsubs6935]

Love the good mythical morning part there

[@AsherTheAngel]

Videogames Drawing Singing

[@xanderpearson731]

I enjoy 1{coding}, 2{conlanging}, and 3{D&D}.

[@suave605]

Haven’t had a real friend since 5th grade, i’ve had some school friends but no people i’d go out and do stuff with or even play games with. I have zero friends outside of school and i’m about to enter high school. My daily life consists of school, home, sleep etc. I’m not even awkward and i am confidant in creating friends but the thing is i am so incredibly lazy that i absolutely despise the thought of having a friend i need to talk with at times and it seems like a bother to me even if it’s not true at all. I know i gotta have friends and socialize but due to my laziness i’m just so pathetically lazy to talk with people because i like being alone. Even though i know this is wrong. I’ve become addicted to being alone, hell i don’t even have any real online friends that i can contact. Every game i play solo, everything i do is solo..

[@aftabanimates1068]

things I enjoy doing. 1: making art or animation. 2: Watching Cartoons, Anime, or any KZbin video. 3: playing a ton of video games. that's all I gotta say.

[@non-shockingtopics7563]

What kinda games you like?

[@aftabanimates1068]

@@non-shockingtopics7563 action, open-world, Platform, Racing, Etc.

[@coolcatcastle8]

2:12 i was not expecting that

[@SlendisFi_Universe]

RPing with friends on World of Warcraft. Playing other games with friends. Consumtion of... VODKA! VODKA! VODKA! (QUES KORPIKLAANI - VODKA!)

[@SIX.Sph3re]

Being alone isn’t bad.. If you like being alone. Being alone helps you think without influence and especially if that influences is toxic. My friends and family were the ones to tease-bully me so I enjoy being alone. Some are introverted or ambiverted but that doesn’t mean their lonely.. *BUT ANYWAY* , I love me some masked men 😫

[@A_Nutria]

I enjoy: -Playing Video Games -Learning -Art

[@non-shockingtopics7563]

What kind of video games do you play?

[@agooo1721]

sometimes I wonder if I made mistakes or if my personality is not the best, bc I used to have many friends and today I am all by myself! sometimes I get really sad about it, specially when I go to instagram and see all the people I know having fun without me.

[@FacterinoCommenterino]

Today's fact: Every second, Americans collectively eat one hundred pounds of chocolate.

[@ExplodingSteve]

im sure its more

[@elitecereal]

arent you the same guy who made that goofy first comment on the "so long nerds" video

[@PrincessSunnyoftheSandWings]

Hey I remember you from one of my videos!!

[@jay-zj2tc]

A great bonding experience

[@ksrandomchannel4544]

@Kitty 🅥 bot, also verification faking

[@cmjnwd]

Tried making friends, and still trying. Thing is I just don't get the 'connection'. I feel like the part of my brain that deals with relationships is missing the part that turns someone from being a stranger or acquaintance to being a friend.

[@GhostSamaritan]

Some of my most extraverted friends are like that. They kind of just hang out with whomever and switch out their friends all the time because the level of platonic intimacy those relationships reach is very low.

[@brodown64]

1. Gaming (mostly JRPGs, my favorite being The World Ends With You) 2. History 3. Fitness

[@uabir8338]

1. Coffee 2. Gym (mostly pullups) 3. Video games/KZbin/a good tv series

[@Dont_Twist_It]

I love doing Pullups, I find them easy even though I can do 3 of them. What is a good TV series that you would recomend?

[@IanElías]

I like a lot coffie but im intolerant, I go insane whit cafein.

[@reciprocatein]

Yooo! Love the animations! Cool vid Life Noggin!

[@GhostSamaritan]

I wonder if there are any outliers who aren't negatively affected. I mean I don't feel particularly lonely or like I'm missing out despite lacking friends. I don't talk to coworkers more than absolutely necessary, and I don't enjoy lounging or networking. I just like to work efficiently and independently, then go home and spend time on my hobbies. I've tried being social but it simply left me tired with no apparent benefits, so I stopped and now I'm way happier.

[@non-shockingtopics7563]

Sounds like you answered your own question honestly. Nothing wrong with that, just a different lifestyle.

[@GhostSamaritan]

@@non-shockingtopics7563 Well, I want to know of any studies discussed the outliers (if any were identified). 🙂

[@mysteryman6955]

Friends in the past have only dragged me down and betrayed me,as of rn in my life I keep people at a distance,I do well socially but I never pursue deeper connection with those I interact with

[@woshyyyyyyyyy]

okay but like BLOCKO WITH HAIR LOOKS SO COOL BUT UNCANNY

[@MrAqr2598]

Three things I enjoy: Facts about Dinosaurs Chinese Tea Discipline(Ceremony) Making Cocktails

[@IanElías]

I like "chinese" food, like Mexican tropicalized Chinese food

[@Jellybeansz]

Wow! Thanks for the video! Now all I need is a friend!

[@KaifamGaming]

im here

[@IanElías]

Cuales son tus intereses?

[@non-shockingtopics7563]

I am also here.

[@IanElías]

@@non-shockingtopics7563 hey, pas me ur discord username if u wanna talk :^)

[@marcelag5393]

I'm currently in high school and I have difficulties making friends. I always thought I was simply just the weird, boring type no one wants to talk with.

[@unionjack007]

1: History 2: Videogames (War Thunder Hearts of Iron 4 etc) 3: Great story teller

[@brodown64]

love War Thunder

[@unionjack007]

@@brodown64 Well hello there.

[@carolynsherman6631]

What I enjoy: Fandoms (Yandere Simulator, Hetalia, Anime, Vans, Vocaloid, etc.) Digital Arts Music

[@Spherey]

1:40 literally me on the top though the hair kinda just looks like that of a victorian child tho 💀 at least they tried though

[@seth6525]

l u l

[@FollowTDR]

I don't need friends... I got me myself and I

[@MinerBat]

do those studies distinguish between being ALONE and being LONELY? because i am the first, but not the second. i love being alone, and not so much being with humans

[@empirenow6068]

I’ve had many friends I had to cut out because of their drug habits and violent tendencies. When you’re a parent you can’t have people like that in your life no matter how much they mean to you. I wish more people just played video games so there was more than toxic 12 year olds for me to hangout with online.

[@alyssert1743]

To be honest I don’t think anyone will notice this comment, but I like typing so oh well. first, i’m just a middle schooler so I’m kind of a dumbass. I made a lot more friends way easier when I was in elementary school. Nowadays I wait for people to come to me, which most people don’t since who’s interested in that quiet kid anyway? and most people already have their own friend groups to be with so “what’s the point of wasting my time with that little brat?”. Anyway, I also realized what a f*cked up person I was in elementary school, and I regret every single thing I did and wish I could go back in time and beat the crap out of me. I see why my best friend told me she didn’t want to be my best friend anymore. We still talk occasionally but I feel like I’m making her mental state worse than it already is. I feel guilty every time I see my other friend because she’s been so nice to me and I just bullied her without knowing it. I apologize to her and she said that it’s okay but I still feel extremely guilty everytime I talk with her.

[@tothebeyond6318]

Did anything changed yet?

[@DoubleMagnet]

I enjoy 1. Playing Basketball 2. Singing 3. Listening to OMG by NewJeans

[@phillipsrafi4623]

Here's three things that I like : 1. Developing Applications 2. Any outdoor activities 3. Eating Vada Pav 😋

[@fothorso]

Uh. YEAH.

[@djp1234]

People with the same interests as me are also anti-social. We'll never find each other.

[@ethan5259]

According to this video, I need friends to increase the chance of my survival.Must follow the instruction to list 3 things others will find relatable........I mean 3 things I enjoy. 1. Play video games (good games are hard to find these days 2. Draw stuff ( but I'm not good at it 3. Walk my dog

[@ethan5259]

@@feldspxr Yeah I still draw things for fun from time yo time, but not planning make a living out of it. I do IT work ouo

[@ethan5259]

@@feldspxr I like hollow knight, dark souls III, Elden ring, slay the spire, Deadbolt, Katana zero, Risk of rain 2, Fallout4, Dead rising2 (idk what kind of game I enjoy so I will just list some of those comes into my mind

[@ethan5259]

@flyinsteve2522 Alright I'll check that out thx ouo

[@ethan5259]

@@feldspxr Alright, I will check that out too. Hey maybe this conversation won't last long but at least we find some new games we can check out so that's cool lol

[@mistingwolf]

What I have just a couple of friends, and don't feel lonely? I like seeing my friends, but then I need a couple of weeks of not seeing anyone to recharge. Am I weird for not feeling lonely or missing friends or family over long periods of time?

[@ry.hoshiko5482]

I have gone thru a phase in my highschool years being very miserable without friends and being isolated hoping I would have friends to hang out with. Sadly, it ultimately caused my mental health issues like depression and anxiety and I struggle with it for over a decade now. But at least I have a close group of friends now even though the damage has been done. So yeah having friends does save your life in a way. Also, you don't need a lot of friends, just few that matters is enough.

[@evilershark_2043]

Well guess ill die alone, oh well

[@tntkff9901]

From what kindergarten thru high school has taught me personally, people only try to be my friend in order to trick me, use me, or set me up. Friends cannot exist for me. I know this is not literally true, but my trust issues are so bad I'd be better off just living alone in a forest.

[@neoe5970]

you're not alone, I have a similar experience from life, but as I grew older I became more useless and noone ever talks to me ever

[@peksn]

I've learned through struggle that you need to respect yourself, and if you know someone is not good for you because they laught at you making you feel bad and don't stop when they see that you are bad and stuff like this they are not real friends and you should cut them off. I'm not exagerating, do that like now, just cut them off, you're going to feel so much better even in the short term. Do stuff that you like and joing groups that do this stuff you like, it doesn't matter if they are in the internet, as long as it is a person with whom later on in your friendship you can be there for one another, for the good and the bad, it doesn't matter where they are. But really, RESPECT YOURSELF. Cut those people who make you feel bad and don't respect you. Otherwise you stop respecting yourself and you let them do whatever they want with you. Respect yourself and stand up for yourself. This is the best advice. RESPECT YOURSELF. I once read the best way to drive points into people's minds was repetition. Respect yourself.

[@pootispencerguy]

@@peksn Exactly this. Couldn't have said it better myself 👏

[@lancetheking7524]

Ah the classic, manipulation and plastic friends. Trust me, it's maybe prevelant but you need the right school and right environment to find genuine friends before your trust issues die down, time heals all wounds Best of luck to you

[@breda-lee7201]

I am so sorry you had such a bad experience with friends 😕 I wouldnt completely close off that door to some people, you know? There are really good future friends out there that im sure when the timing is right, that you will meet them

[@Bad-Edits]

Great video! but now I gotta go get some friends

[@United_Wings]

Nice 🥺

[@sneezesloudly]

Curious if this also applies to introverts? What you're describing as healthy could be regarded as hell by an introvert or someone with social anxiety.

[@5ftOfRage]

Unfortunately I never had any friends because if I did none of them would have ghosted me when I was in school. In also got ghosted by my so-called friends when I had a MySpace account and a Facebook account

[@SudiPaddi]

I love the new clothes and hair style 😂

[@Varx13]

I wonder if there’s been studies on online friendships and if they’re comparable to health benefits from just in-person friendships

[@meganweber5057]

I've really enjoyed computer programming ever since I started learning it when I was about 13 years old, around 10 years ago. I'm hoping I'll be able to find my first job this year or next year. I'm autistic. I did 4 online community college classes.

[@TrickyPJM752]

For me, I don’t have any friends in real life. But I do have online friends who I call almost every day and I think it’s close enough

[@missbellakayeofficial]

it’s not very easy for me to make friends cause negativity usually gets in my way a lot people sometimes blame their problems on me they get upset when I accidentally get in their way or bump into them get all pissed off when I accidentally knock their stuff over and get mad at me when I’m infront of a screen when they can’t see

[@k0ndor4]

HAHAA this is actually so depressing undertale deltarune hyperpop B)