Is His Filipina Trying To Kill Him? A Foreigner Asks For Help

#philippines #relationship #filipina
Is his Filipina trying to kill him, right in his own home? That's what one foreigner wondered when his health began to decline, so he asked for our opinion on the matter - but her behavior may not be what he's imagining! In this episode of Mailbag Friday, we'll also hear from a guy who's girlfriend's constant picture-taking is driving him nuts, as well as a man who just wants an instant Filipina partner (hopefully one that's not trying to kill him)!
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👉My videos and the effort I put into them are 100% free for everyone to enjoy, and all I ask is that you leave a thumbs-up on any videos that you like and subscribe to my channel - I have never, and will never, ask you for anything else. For those of you that still wish to support my channel further, however, I’ve posted my links below. Thanks! 👉 Patreon: www.patreon.com/thefilipinapea 👉 Support through PayPal: paypal.me/thefilipinapea?country.x=PH&locale.x=en_US ✅ Pea's Pod Pals: www.paypal.com/webapps/billing/plans/subscribe?plan_id=P-3XR99427R5493902SMTIAASY 👉Join this channel to get access to perks: kzbin.info/door/rm4tEQqTrUP3MwB2G1mjHwjoin 👍🎬SUBCRIBE TO: kzbin.info ✅TWITTER ACCOUNT: 🐥 twitter.com/FilipinaPea ✅Follow me on INSTAGRAM: 📲 📸📸 the_filipinapea 📸📸filipinapea ✅Facebook Account: 💻 facebook.com/thefilipinapea facebook.com/filipina.pea ✅TikTok Account:🎬 🎶TheFilipinaPea

[@danp6101]

Hey Pea, where can I Send Email to you.

[@shawnm.smigel8694]

I have a story that started as one of the greatest love stories to the worst nightmare. The investigation is in the process now. I’m an American CEO/Security Director/QM. And she’s a Filipino surgeon turned porn. A few months till our visa is done.

[@user-zy1oh8jk7j]

​@@danp6101she listed her accounts in this comment. Patreon allows supporters to message creators.

[@rayflaherty3441]

I like your videos, but as I've mentioned before in the comments, I strongly disagree about being able to easily pick up women "in the wild" in the Philippines. Most of your audience members who are interested in finding a Filipina will have much more success by using a dating app after they get there. It's not impossible for me to walk into a mall and meet a potential mate who is 30-40 years younger than me, but it's much harder than spending a few minutes on Tinder.

[@user-zy1oh8jk7j]

@@rayflaherty3441 Apps do make it easy but I got tired and annoyed by all the plastic on them. They are easy to meet. Just say anything and look for their eye signals of encouragement. But a great method is to go to the local vegetable and fruit market. Talk to older women or workers there. Mention your looking for a girlfriend. You'll get plenty of invitations and maybe free meals. Grandma is always looking for a great catch for the single women in the family. Just remember to check the CENOMAR for all potentials before you spend time together.

[@jasongateley7286]

I met my wife on Cupid. We joked and had great conversation. I told her I wanted to become friends to maybe more. She was 100% on board with the plan. No stress. She is a high school teacher and her English is better than mine since I’m southern man from Tennessee. Well I’m back in the Philippines and we just got married and I couldn’t imagine my life without her! We plan to live here in the Philippines and fly back and forth for holidays. I was one of the first 700 subscribers to your channel and I appreciate all the knowledge you have given me. I guess I’m a Pea university Graduate now. Thanks so much for everything Pea.

[@rabyla6396]

My filipina wife is trying to kill me with food. As soon as I think I am done with my dinner she sets another full plate in front of me.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Ahhhhh, she’s fattening you up too! 😳🤣🤣🤣

[@rabyla6396]

@@TheFilipinaPea Yeah Her: what do you want to eat? Me: Just a scoop of rice and piece of chicken Her: Oh no, you need more than that. (Proceeds to create a rice mountain with a chicken on top)

[@xGunner]

Haha 😂, my Filipina GF says she can't eat that much and don't want to get fat when I told her I want to give her a whole cake

[@paulruano1903]

​@@xGunnergood. Because Oompa loompa filipinas are definitly not good to look at.

[@MeYou-yz2yz]

The food is that bad I think they're trying to poison us.

[@spincube5734]

I SUSPECTED MY FILIPINA GF WANTED TO POISON ME. So I spoke to my barangay captain, wanting him to talk to her before calling police. He agreed & called her in for interrogation. The next day he called me saying "wow, I spoke with her for 4 hours & my advice: take the poison! Never-ending entertainment, thanx Pea !!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍 You’re always good for a laugh!

[@charlescox2840]

@@spincube5734 The poison is the best option.

[@johnl9977]

My Filipina very seldom cooks for me, just herself and the kids, so it would be difficult to poison me. Maybe once a month I eat something she makes. Last night's dinner?, fish heads and veggies, had to pass on that.

[@abc-mf4jn]

"So I spoke to my barangay captain". Your wife tries to poison you and you go to the barangay captain? No wonder that you are in that deep shit.

[@paulruano1903]

​@johnl9977 your naive. Its easy to poison somrone, even if that person makes thrir own food. Thry vould contaminate the ingridients thry know you use. Example inside the milk, or even injected with a syringe inside a fruit, etc. Even in something as innocent as bringing you a cold drink or cold ice cream in the heat.

[@williammcaleese5551]

Once again, I must say. You are more wise than a majority of women. This is why we love watching your videos.

[@luther1546]

My ex-wife tried to get me to unalive myself by making my life as miserable as possible. She failed, but she did get all my money!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

😢😢😢😢😢

[@ARedMotorcycle]

The wahhhman always gets the money, house, and kids. And they still think men are the privileged ones.

[@ibdunny]

What nationality? It happened to me too. I hate malevolent women

[@dongshengdi773]

Success 🎉🎉🎉 Congratulations 🎉

[@ColinMacharia]

You kept your life though.. That's a win, Mate.

[@ABC-hi3fy]

Pea is hilarious. "There are more efficient ways to kill you". 😂. That was a Sherlock holme level of murder mystery takedown. Pea you are killing me.

[@closeredge5198]

As a single man, there is definitely a benefit to cooking your OWN meals 😮😮😮.....

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Apparently! 🤣🤣👍

[@Lightofdavid81]

100 variations of herself standing in the doorway, lmao, that comment had me cracking up.

[@slainteron4027]

The wife has so many duplicate worthless photos on her phone it's ridiculous. We sat down and I told her to get rid of the duplicates. 3gb of duplicate items. Then she said, WOW my phone works better. Great, I am going to bed now

[@TheFilipinaPea]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA I think I’m the only Filipina without that obsession 🤣👍

[@chinaexpat1827]

EVERYONE HAS SILLY WASTFUL HOBBIES, I HAVE AROUND 5 COMPUTERS AND USE 3 AT ONE TIME. I GOT MY WIFE AN EXTERNAL HARD DRIVE AND TAUGHT HER HOW TO BACKUP AND MOVE HER PHOTOS TO IT. SHE ALWAYS LET'S ME BE ME AND ENCOURAGES ME TO TO BUY THAT LAPTOP OR TABLET BECAUSE IT MAKES ME HAPPY. YOU GUYS COMPLAIN ABOUT CONTROLING WESTERN WOMEN THEN WANT TO BE CONTROLLING TO YOUR FOREIGN BORN WIVES. LOOK IN THE MIRROR

[@stoneagedjp]

@@TheFilipinaPea 💎

[@paulruano1903]

Next time buy her a mobile with less capacity;) She will then learn the hardway of having to prioritize, organize, discipline, and respect the work done that gave the money in the first place. Money do not hrow on trees. And its not healthy to be so obsessed about mobile and photos etc.

[@chinaexpat1827]

@@paulruano1903 YOU PROVE MY POINT

[@aliendroid1]

Dude this is exactly what happened to me with a Colombian woman, I talked to like hundreds of good women from all over the world and narrowed it down after a while to one woman from Colombia and we ended up being BF/GF before meeting in person, when I went to visit she took good care of me, cooked, and also showed me around, she was amazing and then I married her 17 years now married, 19 years of being together and she checks all my boxes and is awesome and I'm glad I didn't go there and date and get lost in that huge typhoon of options, better to narrow it down before the hormones take over once you are there because she's just the most perfect match as far as personality. Pea says don't do that but I say yes do that, it's better just be sure to facetime a lot before you decide so you see her.

[@gjm456]

I was with one for 8 years jealous A/F. with episodes of psycho. But WOW ! Was she fantastic in the sack !!!!

[@aliendroid1]

@@gjm456 You were with a Colombian woman? Mine is really stable, not insecure doesn't bother me much. I mean there is that mild level of jealousy, like a healthy level, like she's getting on me for watching these Phillapines youtubers like pea joking I'm looking to replace her but I'm not, but she doesn't get psycho about it, doesn't go through my phone or follow me around. Just like joking and that little bit of jealously leads into some good sex. You can get a crazy one anywhere I heard a guy died vomiting up all his blood on a flight from Thailand back to europe after seeing his Thai wife, that's poisoning right there, rat poison.

[@johnminichielli8957]

I know a guy who thought his PH wife was trying to poison him. He told his priest about it and the priest told him he would call his wife. A few days later the priest called the guy and told him he just got off the phone with his wife after a 3 hour call. The priest them asked the guy if he would like his opinion of what he should do. The guy said yes, and then the priest said, "Take the poison".

[@rayflaherty3441]

Why did you copy @spincube5734's joke?

[@captainmango1355]

Hi Pea, I hope you have a wonderful weekend! :) The guy who is paranoid about his food knows all the wrong things about nutrition! LOL!

[@alexd5637]

He's right about the sugar and "cooking" oil.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

What a horrible situation to think my partner was sabotaging me - or worse! 😳

[@gjm456]

@@TheFilipinaPea coconut oil ! 👍

[@blkman1576]

Hi Pea, just wanted too say that don't know what is going on with you. But you have been looking radiant over the last few weeks. Not that you where not looking that way before just that you are looking even more so it seems every new video. What ever is causing it I am happy for you. Love your work also 🙂

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Well thanks! I think it’s because I’m losing a lot of weight 👍😊

[@marclietzau7239]

Face-to-face grad A advice P also looking amazing so healthy keep up the good work

[@Sahrokh]

@@TheFilipinaPea I wanted to write a similar comment but I thought you'd think I am weird. But it's true, in the last videos you literally shine! I thought it was a video effect or something.

[@marcom2248]

​@@TheFilipinaPeaand it suits you well 😊

[@tomtodd950]

I agree, I agree 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@darkpharaoh542]

Wow that last one was wild. Thanks for the great insights, Pea. Have a great weekend.

[@erikgeorge3770]

❤❤ the lovely Pea on a Friday, my weekend has been made ❤❤

[@kranzonguam]

Outstanding break down of the sad trajectory of an unintended online romance!! The dangerous role of imagination and fantasy has always worried me as regards online relationships! Really good analysis, Pea! I hope that people hear it! Take good care!😊

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Kranz! Maybe at least one or two people will listen 🤣👍

[@bigdaddyboomakamr.knowital8079]

@@TheFilipinaPea All I know is if she is asking for Money 💰 🤑 💸 it is not an Online Romance..🤭🤣🤣 The Dummy 🥰 is in love with a woman who is running an online business in love ❤️ with Money. 💰 🤑

[@TomHenksYT]

I understand your point of starting to chat to girls on dating apps only while being there in the Philippines, so that theoretically dates can happen faster. However, I found that a lot of girls on dating apps aren't honest with regards to their location. Since I was going on a trip to Cebu City, I chatted to a bunch of girls who, supposedly, were from Cebu City according to their profile. But through chatting, it turned out none of them actually were. Most of them were from the province, 2 or 3 hours away from Cebu City in any direction, while one was from Bohol and one was from Samar. Point being, arranging a date with them the same day was practically impossible because they lied about their location. Guys, take this advice: Girls on dating sites know that some of us use filters to search for girls from certain cities/regions, and many of them will change their location to Cebu City, Dumaguete City, Metro Manila, or whatever other popular tourist/expat location is closest to them, even if it's many hours away. So always ask them where they are really from, because when you are chatting, they will tell you the truth.

[@tilapiadave3234]

With the vast majority of Foreigners being near completely IGNORANT of Philippines geography it is NOT surprising they quote the nearest large city as their home place.

[@TomHenksYT]

@@tilapiadave3234 yes, I'm not saying the girls are doing it out of malevolence or anything, but they know it increases their chances. And while yes it's true, most foreigners don't know much about Philippines geography, it's pretty easy to just open Google Maps and look up where her city is.

[@MyWatchIsEnded]

Addiction to social media is a very big red flag

[@johnl9977]

My gal is like that. Days she does not work, the whole day is poppo live and Facebook.

[@USA_to_Asia_in_2024]

@@johnl9977 She's looking to see who she can have that is much better than you.

[@gjm456]

You won't find many in the Fills that aren't.

[@user-bh1se9hn9j]

I don't use social media

[@MyWatchIsEnded]

@@user-bh1se9hn9j that's a very good thing it's toxic to use social media these days

[@stevenrobberts3238]

Excellent video as always Pea!!!! Excellent lessons as well.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Steven! 👍👍❤️

[@PASSPORTKING2106]

A Filipina doesn't have to try that hard to delete there foreigner all she has to do is cook some Filipino food especially the darn balut! Lol 😂

[@samual3006]

🤮🤮🤮

[@peony-676]

lame. like the duckling. lame.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

[@Warf_459]

I feel you!! I don't know how in the world they do that!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@timhusk2913]

I don't worry about the food I have a cast iron gut 😂😂

[@hamiljohn]

Insecurity isn't just Filipino, but it sure is prevalent.

[@samual3006]

It's a Filipino disease 😮

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It sure is, isn’t it 😳

[@mercerworldtravels5980]

I’m dating a Filipino woman. She is very lovely. We do everything we can together and I really love learning about her culture and we speak multiple languages already. Dare I say she is the most precious person I’ve ever met in my life and I’ll cherish her for the rest of mine. The weirdo is my best friend.

[@johnedgar7956]

Hi Pea! Thank you for another great video. That poor chap getting fattened up...just wow! I hope your well-reasoned, logical take on what is really happening there makes him feel a bit better. Thank you as always for the entertainment!

[@magclin]

Every meal out. Don’t touch until she takes a picture 🤦‍♂️

[@adamloadsman2133]

Yes! I get my hand slapped trying to eat because she hasn't taken a photo of the food yet. Wtf? Seriously? Why would anyone else give a S what we're eating?

[@magclin]

@@adamloadsman2133 😂 🤷‍♂️ We’ve been married for 38 years. I just go with whatever makes her happy.

[@MrWaterbugdesign]

Last guy is a loon. Says he "watches what he eats" but clearly doesn't.

[@Exalted_Example]

I guess he made the mistake of trusting a woman enough to complete a task he gave her.

[@alexbonner2128]

She was actually doing him a favor. Sugar substitutes are really bad for you as well as “low-fat” products

[@sifergy8412]

Sad to say but that’s quite normal for a lot of people - docs have a rule of thumb that when asking how much people eat they add X to the amount and when told how much exercise people do they subtract y from the response

[@spincube5734]

Sure he "watches what he eats", that's how he gets to his mouth every time?

[@jamesholland5761]

Great video Pea! Great information as well! You have already answered a big question for me! More and more you've got me convinced I need to visit the Philippines! Thank you for sharing and I will be looking forward to your next video!!

[@chipparmley]

Great vid wonderful advice all around

[@johnlobley]

What's in the bag today' Pea? ...and always let the ads play

[@TheFilipinaPea]

There’s a bronze medal in the bag today - and it’s yours 🥉🤣❤️

[@alexandersteipe2003]

You did not look into the bag properly. there is Ublock origin adblocker. I do not watch ads for more than 10 years already ;-)

[@Friedbrain11]

That one guy thinking she is trying to kill him is an idiot.

[@paulfreespirit]

Can't wait to Tuesday, have a great weekend Pea ❤❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Paul! I’ll be ready 👍❤️

[@tonywilliams7918]

Interesting, thank you for sharing, Pea.

[@danielrivera2140]

This sounds like black magic. My ex wife was from Capiz Roxas City Philippines . Her best friend was a Mababarang ( a witch who controls insects). She was giving me coffee with white powder milk a different brand than I was used too.. I was getting sick for no reason. I went to the Doctors they could not detect anything. At that time I did not believe in Black magic. I walked the streets of Capiz.. I saw a Psychic Vendor on the street. I did not say a word to her she told me these words: You are getting sick , the doctors don't know what you have. You have black and blue marks on your back. You are vomiting. I said how do u know that. She said I am having a vision. She told me my deceased Grandma sent me. She even said her name. I never told anyone my grandma's name. I asked her , why am I getting sick? She said your wife is putting black magic on you. She was using powered milk laced with magic. This kind lady had her cousin who was a healer from Siquijor performed a ritual that consisted of blowing some kind of water throw a straw. The water was black, she changed the water . Hours later I felt renewed. The black and blue marks disappeared. The street psychic told me to come back 3 days later for an amulet of protection. I arrived and picked up the amulet. I went in my pocket to give them 1000 pesos in appreciation for the help they have given me. They did not want my money . They only took 100 pesos. I divorced my wife. I know you hear a lot of stories of Filipinas scamming people, but there are beautiful people from the Philippines, who help you when you are down. This psychic did not want any money, she just wanted to help me. Philippines is a great country with warm loving people. When you have a friend Pinoy ... They will do anything for you.

[@tilapiadave3234]

Psycho's are the only ones that see Psychic's

[@fhorst02]

Amazing story, thanks for sharing!

[@hansreynders6853]

I'm curious how you divorced your wife since there's no divorce in the Philippines. Also, most stories about scamming Filipinos are fake or those foreigners choose the same kind of young girls because they think with the wrong head.

[@abritabroadinph]

@@hansreynders6853 exactly it's bs like his story

[@coffeebotography]

A delusion of someone trying to kill you is part of psychosis😢

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It certainly wouldn’t be a comfortable feeling to even consider it! 😳

[@Instantbeans]

I lived in a dangerous area, had guns pulled and all that good stuff, but never felt like anyone was actively trying to kill me. I definitely think it is a psyhcosis.

[@joekahno]

I had a couple of friends over the years that were clinically paranoid. However, one of them was also actually being pursued by the IRS and a vindictive ex doing her best to weaponize the family court system. Being delusional and experiencing a real threat are not mutually exclusive.

[@seanrichter5611]

That is inaccurate. There was a instance where a man suspected his wife was poisoning him. He set up cameras and caught her putting eye drops in his coffee or some cleaning substance. She is now in jail. Eye drops are odorless, tasteless but will kill you if enough is ingested. A simple google search will show you that is NOT psychosis. Not every man/woman is like this, but there are crazies in the world. Here is an instance from a news article: "Investigators say Lana Clayton claimed her husband's death was natural. Lana Clayton allegedly poisoned her husband with eye drops. A South Carolina judge has sentenced a woman to 25 years in prison after she admitted to poisoning her husband by inserting eye drops into his drinking water" Jan 16, 2020

[@bartphlegar8212]

Or maybe a red pill vision of reality... 😃

[@Want2Banexpat]

Thank you for educating me with all your videos.

[@leavinforadream]

Great video and I really enjoy these "mailbag" video. You provide some really great sound advice! Keep up the great work...!

[@davidlongley534]

Seems to be a lot of foreigners dying in the Philippines of late

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I recently heard about an Australian 🥺

[@lynic-0091]

wtf

[@davidlongley534]

Yes and his phillipino wife​@TheFilipinaPea

[@roadwarrior528]

For the last story, leave that woman asap. Although she wasn't trying to kill you, when you developed stomach pains, she didn't care enough for you to stop the pain by changing her cooking behaviors. This means she doesn't care if you suffer. To hell with her, no matter her reasons.

[@user-ji4os6qn4i]

Great advise Pea 😊

[@djvedits]

I LOVE YOU PEA! So glad to see you back on the tube. 🌹😊

[@RCFSULAW]

I had a gf that was mentally ill and had a closed minor criminal record for aggravated battery and attempted murder when she was 14 year old. One night I found out that her weapon of choice was a machete. Boy did I run fast. To top it off she was an electrical engineer at NASA.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

WOW 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳

[@oilairnalo]

She was no stranger to battery so she became an electrical engineer. Watch out. She now prefers battery electric chainsaw.

[@joedoe7706]

"Ship her over here like a pizza is pretty stupid" 😂😂😂 "She may not be hot or fresh" 😂😂😂 Love the blunt honesty

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣👍

[@rickyarvizu7535]

I always love your sense of humor, Miss Pea!

[@55018]

Great video Pea, made me laugh in places, and some good advice.

[@Shanghaimagic]

The last guy is absolutely insane. Nobody and I mean NOBODY sets off on a plan to kill their spouse by feeding them high cholesterol foods that will probably take 10-15 years to kill someone. He needs to seek help, clinical help. If he keeps his incessant accusals up his wife will want to leave him because she won't be able to take it.

[@johnl9977]

Maybe there is something in his treatment of her that kinda makes him think he has it coming?

[@dacritter8397]

sounds like a movie... "Murder on Philippine Time"

[@AllFather-TheStoicGod]

He'd be better off going *carnivore,* eating the extra fat, removing all carbs, grains and sugars and watch the weight gain melt away and the ripped body appear. *She'll be even more upset.* 😅

[@anwiii55]

i love keto haha

[@AllFather-TheStoicGod]

@@anwiii55 🤣🍽🥩

[@denishealey9899]

Hi Little Pea, as always very entertaining. Keep up the good work.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks my friend Denis! 👋❤️

[@duanebock840]

Hi Pea, just wanted you to know, I really appreciate your videos

[@NicolasLampkin-qr4rx]

Hi. I think that you are very silly. I like that. I recently realised that whenever I hear your intro music I find myself dancing. Stay silly and funny.

[@todd7756]

That last story was interesting and had never heard that one before....It was original! Thanks Pea for the good stories.

[@koster9770]

Great video as usual :)

[@KingReese9k]

Love you you Pea great video ❤❤❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Your Majesty! I hope you enjoyed my tribute to the King 🤣🤣

[@sandman6988]

Good information....wow! lots to digest that I never would have thought of.,.,..

[@raygalles2517]

Oh Pea, your honesty concerning on-line relationships matches your internal and external beauty. Again, thank you for your videos.

[@lechef1794]

Ooh finally a reason to feel good about being off work sick with a severe bacterial lung infection, I get to be about when a video is posted for once and not a few days later when I get chance. Thanks for the smiles Miss Pea.

[@bobcalder724]

One of your very best episodes.... I loved the photo story. So true ....

[@scottmason6282]

Great Video Pea , Thank You ! Hopefully This Will Save Someone Headaches ! I Hope You And Your Family Have A Wonderful Night ! 🥰🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏💯💯💯

[@randyXLT]

Your opinions are spot on....!

[@frankd4791]

Pea it's nice you always look on the bright side thanks can't wait to see your next video

[@danielwarnes7231]

As always very interesting.

[@JOHN-ny7xe]

Great advice as always and looking stunning my friend!!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks John! 👍😊

[@timcobb5941]

Such smart and honest answers

[@TheFilipinaPea]

THANKS Tim 👍👍❤️

[@paulbuckle8459]

Classic Pea , thanks 🙏👍😊

[@2Rugrats9597]

Excellent video again PEA, your parents did a wonderful job raising you! You’re one hell of a woman, the 1%!❤ You express yourself very well.

[@donmonroe5642]

Thank you , have a nice Sunday, Family too ❤

[@colesrobertson4788]

Hi Miss Pea, thank you for another informative and entertaining video. Not only is the content interesting, its also very amusing (except when more serious - which you also handle delicately). I should also thank you for your sound guidance, as I am one of the lucky guys that came across your channel in the past, and armed with the information you provided, I travelled to the Phillipines and navigated the dating scene and met the woman of my dreams! So, THANK YOU! Keep up the great work.

[@nate61]

Very interesting indeed what a great video and thank you teacher Pea I do my best come to your classes

[@saulgoodman7221]

Good morning PEA ! Happy Friday!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And to you too, my friend! ❤️😊

[@benlaw4647]

Thank you Pea! Love the mailbag videos! Never a dull moment! 😂. Have a wonderful weekend Pea! Love the dress , looking amazing Pea! 😊💝🙏

[@Nunyabizzy509]

I like your content. Listening to your advice regarding meeting a Filipina women and you explaining cultural differences, such as Filipina girls saying "I love you " early on a first date, has been great the know.

[@canuck728]

I am always blownen away by Pea. She is brilliant👌👌❤❤👍👍

[@user-ex1lp6jt8g]

I really think the half time show is lovely ,you rock Pea.

[@Cantfindahable]

Pea you are pure gold! It’s absolutely correct wait till you arrive to meet someone. I wore a shirt that says “ single, taking applications” I real ice breaker….. I met a lot of ladies that way

[@paulk8444]

Scott's problem hit home as I am trying to get my Filipina to go to the gym with me and she actually admitted she wanted to see me a little chunky as "a Filipino thing" that married couples carry a few extra pounds as it shows they are "Happy". So Scott is seeing it from a Cultural point of view. And while I agree being "Boots on the ground" is Best as i signed up 2 weeks before my flight landed and had about a half dozen ladies i was talking to which gave me the opportunity to travel around. And it was the Head and Heart that had me choosing my Lady; or I should say it was actually her being educated thanks to her mom being an English teacher. There were some real Beauties but I knew enough to keep it in the pants till I found the one I connected with on Multiple levels. And Yes her Family helped seal the deal as some women had some relatives i knew would end up causing me drama verses my girl where the opposite is true.So while you think a province girl is the answer sometimes the educated shy bookworm who you connect with and enjoy their company is allot better then the hoochie cutie with the broken English and unusual habits you can't seem to communicate about. Life is 24 hours a day not just the couple in the sack.

[@jandricaine]

I hear you on the dating sites. I am a member on Christian Filipina. I got so many messages and winks. I followed your advice on putting a word that they need to use in the message to show they actually read my profile. I also stated that I will not send any money. I am taking my time since I have some family obligations here before I visit. Keep up the great work.

[@lazylarrylee2421]

Pea, another great entertaining video. The person who was thinking about using a dating site should consider that by waiting until in the Philippines, he will cut down on the number of slammers. The slammers will not want to meet up in person, usually.

[@FancyActionNow]

Bold topic. Love it.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Fancy! 😊😊👍

[@zetrader]

I like your answers, full of common sense 👍

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Ze!! ❤️❤️👍

[@erniealonzo536]

Thank you for your videos, so inspiring. You are a beautiful lady. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Ernie!!! ❤️❤️❤️👍

[@hambone5547]

Sound advice Pea. Love the way you say football, by the way. Adorable. Great video!

[@Walts-Travel]

Have a great weekend, Pea. 🎉🎉🎉

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You too, Mister Walt! 👍❤️

[@dustinperry828]

I gotta say pea i wish your videos were online 20 years ago You could have saved me alot of issues from learning the hard way hahahaahahah Keep them coming you help so many people. Thank you pea

[@8967Logan]

I went to the Philippines for a few days, stayed in a 5-star hotel in Makati I think, took a tour to a waterfall (Pagsanjan), saw a typhoon, and spoke to nearly no one. I don't know where all the Pinay super models were that were supposed to be following me around the city waiting to get married, but I didn't see them.

[@keithandes2804]

Always giving solid feedback and thought provoking content!! Thanks Pea! I also love the look of your hair pulled back! You're always put together well I just love that look which I've never seen before!! Have a great weekend and look forward to seeing your videos next weeK 😃❤

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Keith! I like to keep changing my hairstyle 😊👍

[@tylerkeen3997]

That ending up with a favorite no matter what deal is exactly what happened with me. Thanks for pointing out the slope i didnt know i was sliding down 👍

[@danghilarducci50]

Good one Pea

[@clivedoe9674]

Wake up, grab coffee, and see that Pea posted another new video. It's been a good week!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Then I’ll make sure to give you two reasons to be happy each week ❤️👍😊

[@Murph_.]

These are always some of my favorite episodes... I've always said boots on the ground is the only way to find Mrs. Right ;) I've had the same problem with my wife... I plumped up to 200 pounds, and I started doing more workouts and cut out sweets. Within two weeks, I started losing weight pretty quickly, and I suddenly found a LOT of junk food in the house. More than we ever had before. And my wife was always saying "Do you want ice cream?' and other things. To this day, she would never tell me she preferred me to be fatter, but I knew that's what she wanted. We've been together 8 years now, and I don't have this problem any more, but early on... Pea, you are a paragon of wit and wisdom. I hope you never stop giving GREAT advice.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

They do seem to be very popular, so thanks for saying so ❤️👍

[@jbpost52]

As always, your loaded with very good information and good advice. I jumped the gun a number of years ago, and now I take the advice of those who live there and have had more experience than I have.

[@espaghetti99]

🤣🤣🤣😂 that analogy is priceless ❄️❄️😂😂😂😂🤣

[@bernardheight6871]

Wow you're looking amazing Ms. Pea ❤❤❤ your skin is looking amazing you're glowing ❤❤

[@Soundhypno]

Pea is the Dear Abby of the Philippines! Thank you Pea💯💯💯

[@davidcase1286]

you look great. the lighting is good.

[@brown55061]

I didn't realize it until I saw a video from a couple years ago. P, congrats on your fitness. Whatever you did it worked, you are doing so great. Keep it up! Thanks for the info from the PH.

[@George-ux6zz]

Goodnight and sweet dreams Pea. Take care and God bless you 🙏 🙂❤

[@Jeremylouallen]

Hi Pea, in regards to the second question, the Filipina I met online, well she first found me and messaged me on Facebook, and things have been good every since. We video chat almost everyday and message everyday, she even gotten mad with me several times for not replying to her after awhile so you're right about that part 😆. We have talked about her coming here in the US and being together, marriage and starting a new life here, and shes on board with it. But I'm not rushing things I'm just going to be patient and keep building our relationship. She's never asked me for anything, she's honest, great, sweet, I love her smile, shyness and I feel a connection with her. I don't know what made her message me randomly but I'm glad she did, plus every since meeting her, I've been doing a deep dive learning about Filipinas and the Philippine lifestyle. She also told me after a while, in the beginning she thought about blocking me because she thought I might be a scammer or not real, I thought BUT YOU MESSAGED ME FIRST, WHAT!?? 😆 just wanted to share, love your channel.

[@sbarmiueenl]

Honestly, it seems suspicious. She got mad with you... She accused you... Sometimes, scammers will play hot and cold, to train you into obedience. The antidote: brutal honesty. Never fear her reaction. Obviously, a part of you suspects that she's a scammer. I bet you didn't reverse the table when SHE accused YOU of scamming her? That may have been an obedience test. That tells her how much total nonsense BS she can make you swallow. Sorry mate.

[@Jeremylouallen]

@@sbarmiueenl no she didn't accuse me of being a scammer nor did she get mad. when she said scammer she meant that she thought my profile was fake, and there are a lot of fake profiles and she was just being cautious, don't we do the same? No I don't suspect she's a scammer at all. If she were I would have already seen the signs. She's never asked for anything not once. I think she's an honest good girl, she goes to church, we talk about the Lord a lot, she likes to read her Bible and pray, and she's sent many pictures of her at her church services and with her friends. I think she's good lol.

[@sbarmiueenl]

@@Jeremylouallen Oh, I see. And now I understand how she found you on FB, it wasn't totally random. I imagine the connection had to do with some common religion-related group or people. Then, good for you! Have you considered going to the Philippines yourself before taking on yourself the responsibility of bringing her to the US?

[@sbarmiueenl]

@@Jeremylouallen And if you're religious and not married, you may be relatively young.Thus her feeling of "too good to be true".

[@geostruth9115]

She never asked for anything? How long is NEVER?

[@gradyriewer1641]

When I was in a very poor part of Manila I was exploring and gave some kids candy. Before I left I went to a juice stand and drank juice for 45 minutes and talked to the lady working there. Nothing seemed off or awkward. We became friends on messenger. When I returned to Vietnam (where I live) she asked for some money and said she was in love with me and wanted to marry me. The next day while in Manila I was walking there were 2 boys and 2 girls probably in high school (I was 35). One of the girls said "Heeey!" And walked with me and held my arm for several seconds. This was just for a minute. The other girl said something like "there you go" to the friend. It was fun but a little awkward. They don't even do that in Japan or SE Asia. The guys asked where I'm from and such. A minute later we walked down different roads and parted ways. It probably helped that I'm considered good looking and was probably 30cm taller (I'm 190). Guys be careful. We're the "commodity" (I'm American BTW). Some may desire us for our looks and/or culture but some see dollar signs. "Vulcan Pea" talking about irresistible Filipinas on Talos IV has a point!

[@rebelandboltman]

My Friday dose of Pea 😊

[@Taylor.Hertz.]

If you're rich and old, Yes, and she also got multiple foreign and local boyfriends.

[@jejunamja]

Hey another great video and thanks for the cultural understanding especially with the man that thought his wife was trying to kill him knowing that wives like the fatten up their husband so they're not attractive gives it a whole new meaning to what that man was saying

[@JoeJennieJourney]

Agreed kaibigan Pea communications is the best way to be with any relationship