Is it Okay to Go Through Your Spouse's Phone?

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Is it ok to go through your spouse's phone?
So many people have mixed thoughts on this. Some say no, some say, "Yes, because my boyfriend should have anything to hide."
Since I have so many ladies asking me what I think, and you know I'm all about diving deep into behaviors that seem "innocent," I'm going to tell you what I believe in today's video.
You are going to be surprised to know what it says about you when you feel the need to check your spouse's phone.
Now, before you say, "well my (husband, boyfriend or girlfriend) lets me check who's calling them when it rings," that is NOT what we are talking about. We are discussing the intentional scrolling you do to make sure someone is on their best behavior.
Today we are going to talk about WHY and WHERE these, seemingly, small behaviors are the standard of our relationships. Like I said before, we are here to shine a light on these actions to see if there is a root issue we can uncover here.
And you know what? I can assure you, there is almost ALWAYS a root issue to uncover the reasons why you feel it's appropriate to go through your spouse's phone, but what is it?
Were you betrayed or hurt in the past that is leaving you feeling like you can't trust your significant other?
Do you have a blueprint of love that you adopted from mom or dad, that keeps you doing what you saw was "successful" in the home?
Do you have a voice inside of your head that tells you, you aren't enough and you are looking for proof that this voice is true?
Now, these are typical questions we don't consciously think about but in some way or another, dictate the behaviors that slowly disrupt the state of our relationships.
So, after today's video, I'd like to know what resonated with you. If you are someone who checks your partner's phone, what is the REAL reason why you do it? What questions did you uncover that you were unconsciously answering for yourself?
Meaning, what is the underlined fear you are caving into regarding your relationship? COMMENT BELOW! Only when we dive deep can we get clear about where we are and what's stopping us from feeling how we want to feel within our relationships.
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@beefypanda88 3 жыл бұрын

Tbh I have never tried or cared to check my significant other's phone, regardless of insecurity. I've always seem it as it's not my property I have no right to go through their messages, emails, accounts etc. Also I've always understood the fact of the matter is you could police your partner's phone all you want they can still cheat or find someone new regardless how much you snoop. It's a lot of wasted energy tbh

@carolmanning3299 Жыл бұрын

After my partner cheated I got firsthand information on everything without his knowledge via cyberlogics_

@nicolerojas1927 7 ай бұрын

listen, it is normal to have insecurities. my man and i have an open door policy. he can go through my phone and i can go through his. the goal is to stay together forever and we're not perfect people. sometimes we need that reassurance and that's ok.

@johncoviello8570 6 ай бұрын

Exactly! My wife was apologizing for going through my phone. I just said no problem, if that’s what you need to do to feel comfortable and reassured, then I’m happy you did.

@TheSaintAR15 3 жыл бұрын

Leave that person who gives you no space. Everyone needs freedom. You don't belong to anyone.

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@arnobothma403 5 ай бұрын

I started to have trust issues and anxiety after 18 years. Me andy wife always had a open relationship with our phones and we never had any reason to mistrusts each other. I had access to her phone and she to mine. Then all of a sudden she put a new screencode on and when I picked it up she she had her justifications but not one was really valid and she all of a sudden wanted her privacy. I started getting anxiety which I never new of and also trust issues. I was so focused on her strange actions all of a sudden with her phone that if affected my communication with her. I don't know if im paranoid but this brought some emotions out of me which I thought never existed. To be honest it broke me mentally and emotionally.

@shodan198 Жыл бұрын

Openness honesty and transparency is the key while I shouldn't go though it constely there shouldn't be an issue

@tashawilliams8093 3 жыл бұрын

Checking phones can cause your feelings to be hurt. For instance you might find texts from others about you that you don't like.

@billybob4532 3 жыл бұрын

And also that it’s a huge invasion of privacy?

@MariaArriaga 2 жыл бұрын

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@homerdadon6363 Жыл бұрын

true

@huyonwilliams8607 2 жыл бұрын

i have never felt the need to go through my girlfriends phone. she has two and they both on silent most of the time. i asked her about it. and she said its because of her notifications. i did not believe her, but gave her the benefit of doubt and left it at that. after a few weeks she admitted to going through my phone which i dont hide and she has the password to i my add. she pulled me up on a conversation i had about her with a close friend of the family. out of respect i want say what the conversation was about but, just that i needed outside advise. nothing bad was said in the message. it was just advise about a sensitive subject to do with my partner at the time. my point is i felt all the trust i had for her went with that. to me it felt like she wanted a reason to cheat or have an issue with me..

@drewdude8868 4 жыл бұрын

This lady is ignorant and has zero qualifications to speak about relationships. Marriage counseling 101 TRANSPARENCY is essential. Nobody should ever have to tolerate a spouse that keeps things from them.

@she_sings_delightful_things 4 жыл бұрын

Agreed 100%

@johnwilson5248 4 жыл бұрын

Okay answer me this if they didn't deny you access to their phone how often would you check it when letting you have access to their phone make you think differently or would you still say something else is up

@neldalaw7369 4 жыл бұрын

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@brittaniharold1880 3 жыл бұрын

@@neldalaw7369 is your partner your lover or your child?

@neldalaw7369 3 жыл бұрын

@@brittaniharold1880 is my partner lover

@jah3053 4 жыл бұрын

How do you find out if there is a betrayal?

@Darventure33 3 жыл бұрын

It’s more like. I’m protecting my heart. I see it as he keeps yanking his phone from me and then fights with me about it. So how am I supposed to go on with that? I don’t like that. And he’s telling me he has privet conversation with his best friend that’s a girl. So yeah how am I supposed to trust that. But I see it as. Hey I’ve been hurt if you got nothing to hide let me and he won’t. So idk wtf that’s supposed of mean. But I know for sure that I’m only protecting myself by going through his phone. I don’t like being hurt so going through his phone would give me more trust with him. I still trust him but I think it’s protecting myself and my heart.

@beefypanda88 3 жыл бұрын

Why not break up, if someone makes you feel insecure and the only way you can trust them is going on the low and searching the phone just to feel ok. Just break it

@justright6457 3 жыл бұрын

He cheating point blank

@giacomo1096 Жыл бұрын

sent this to my gf, thx for the video

@e24089 3 жыл бұрын

Felt stress free of checking spouse phone

@letstalkitwithcharity 2 жыл бұрын

This is the harrrd truth sis... We all have trust issues😂😂😂

@ms.williams6907 4 жыл бұрын

This very thing is what’s breaking my relationship. I, the woman, feel controlled . He waits until I go to sleep or I am intoxicated to have a field day in my phone. The moment I ASK to see his in person, his body language tells on him every time but I’m the one who’s cheating, right? It’s a form of control and leverage and it’s unhealthy and very annoying. Sometimes our perception isn’t reality and honestly, it’s torture being in an untrustworthy relationship. How many times does he have to go through my phone ? But you’re still here! I’m a horrible person but HES STILL HERE . Then it turned to controlling who I go out with, who I talk to, even criticizing my friends .....talking bad about women to me or listening to passive videos on KZbin around me as if I cannot tell or hear the content is about me- pfft whatever.

@zzztrynotzzz 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! I really needed this today… time for a mature direct conversation.

@bajo408 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video. Tonight I wanted to go through my wife’s phone due to a past issue. But your video spoke to me and has shown me that doing so would still show to her that I’d not trust her. I want to rebuild that trust and going through her phone would hinder that

@nabilashaikh2997 5 жыл бұрын

My husband checked my phone message and made an arguement that "I need to explain myself to him why he didn't know this". Even thought that message was texted before we met and got married. I am very mad at him because he didn't even apologize for his behavior but instead he blame me that I didn't tell him.

@thinkinsidetheboxsquarecir3303 4 жыл бұрын

He's a piece of shyt for that... practice the mirror effect.. show him why he was wrong for that!

@johnnymondragon3570 4 жыл бұрын

all you had to do was delete that out right before you got together. leaving it there raises a red flag. simple little things to do (delete) why wouldnt you erase makes the other feel insecure

@brittaniharold1880 3 жыл бұрын

So you just let your husband control you

@carolmanning3299 Жыл бұрын

After my partner cheated I got firsthand information on everything without his knowledge via cyberlogics_

@gabydaye2485 Жыл бұрын

I have a question, I did go through my gf's phone once and found out she's talking badly about me infront if her friends while she's not saying any of these things to my face.. So I decided not to talk about it and check if it's happen another time cause maybe she was just angry that day,, found out she does that casually and when I brought it up she started fighting me that I'm wrong for checking the phone but didn't say a word or apologized for what she was saying about me (which part of them was lies and the other part was sensitive/insecurity stuff i trusted her with).. PS: she's 38 years old and her bestfriends are 19-22 Years old.. and I'm 27.. Can anyone help I'm just tryna understand because she even called me a narcissist and I'm tryna be self aware if that makes sense

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@matthewcanfield6748 Жыл бұрын

My wife was showing me a pic on her phone when it somehow went to her text log. There was a man's pic and msg in it and as soon ad I seen it, my stomach knotted up...I just knew there is something there. We made an agreement several years ago that if one of us ever wanted to see the others phone. we would give it immediately. I've always let her have full access to mine, but she will never let me in hers I asked her when this happened, and she refused. I seperated from her and filed for divorce about a year ago, but thought we might be able to save it. I feel like a sucker. I'm going to finish the divorce

@megantanguay9851 2 жыл бұрын

I only started going through my fiancé’s phone because of an incident. On his birthday sitting in our garage having a smoke and watching tv. I glance over at him while he is on his phone. He had a text open and I saw a picture of some girls legs in short shorts at her driver seat. I didn’t say or do anything and he immediately said “I don’t know who the fuck that is” Well a few days later I cracked and looked through his phone and found way to much. He was talking to many females for 12 months and had a few profiles made as well. Currently working through it and have gone to couples councilling. Been together for a little over 6 years now and have a little girl together

@brownsugar5191 3 жыл бұрын

I’m a very curious person I ask my boyfriend if I can go through his phone.. He freak out, and yell at me. So he never did.. on day I caught him with another woman, I took pictures and ask him about it the next day. He say that wasn’t him, it was a guy look like him 😂 I took clear pictures his face , her face, the kissing part and he denied it all... so I left....He contacted me because he needs money.. 😡

@karellbattle3738 3 жыл бұрын

Girl i love you !! YOU JUST SPOKE THE ENTIRE TRUTH

@rosbeyond6970 6 жыл бұрын

when they give you their passcode is it still okay to check their phone or not and if you check their phone and they are saying harsh things about you two other people but in front of you putting on a front like they really love you I think it should be okay to check a spouse's phone to find out the hidden truth of your spouse's feelings toward you. I just found out this last night when I checked my woman's phone come to find out she is disrespecting me to other people while I talk highly of her to everybody you have to show you can be trusted in front of them and behind their back and it's good to know the truth cuz I think they were hurt you more if you find out that they was lying the whole time so you tell me Ar-k! "Rosbeyond Rosbi Ozaki"

@johnwilson5248 4 жыл бұрын

Trust me it will eventually come out in person what they are doing is venting just like how people do in Diaries and take some time to get their thoughts together and sometimes make sure they're not blowing things out of proportion.

@johnwilson5248 4 жыл бұрын

@freddiecantdance2043 5 жыл бұрын

Well me my phone is always open I mean I never locked or use password to unlock it so my GF always reading my messages and who's been calling me cause I had nothing to hide to her but I'm still a bad liar in a different manner especially in financial things..

@mariaanavlog8041 Ай бұрын

My husband didnt hide his phone and he let me check his phone but something is odd, he kept on deleting chat from a girl collegue, so what is that for?

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@jennyaverydfwrealestate-ex6218 4 жыл бұрын

This is some of THE WORST relationship advice I’ve ever heard. Transparency is a core value that builds trust in a relationship and should always be a priority in a healthy relationship.

@e24089 3 жыл бұрын

Good job👍🙏

@Idhrennielful 2 жыл бұрын

A better question is why would you have an issue with your partner going through your phone?

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💯💯💯

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You always make everything make sense!!

@jennyl.2689 4 жыл бұрын

A man should not let his wife feel she has to check his phone to begin with. Stop cheating and love the one you are with. If it never changes, move on. There are good people out in the world

@heinzkitzvelvet 4 жыл бұрын

That's bs and totally not fair at all.

@thescapegoatmechanism8704 5 жыл бұрын

But what if you find something?! That’s the question!

@andreabosley1669 4 жыл бұрын

If you look you shall find. This is something that I always think of. Even if that "something" is innocent, it can be interpreted wrong. It's either best to trust or better to let go.

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@beefypanda88 3 жыл бұрын

1st if your partner gives you feelings they may be cheating then address them if those feelings persist then state it and break up. A relationship without trust isn't a relationship and it will only cause further problems the more insecure you feel.

@troyspain7073 3 жыл бұрын

I got accused of cheating, my ex and our daughter are 8 hours away, I care for both of them deeply but we ran our course. We share a daughter! This is petty and shows red flags too me. And destructive.

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Trust is first before love.

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@doubtfuldreamer 3 жыл бұрын

the answer is yes

@mrs.liabletuhpostanythang4224 Жыл бұрын

Yes it is… if you’re married of course

@rosettemarshall3024 4 жыл бұрын

I checked my husbands phone because my intuition told me he was cheating. I was right!

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John philly?

@johnwilson5248 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah but even if you are right I can guarantee if somebody is up to no good they can get caught red-handed without having to invade their privacy is not always about if they are cheating or not sometimes it get can boil down to they have private conversations between family members that should be just between family there's endless reasons do not go through someone's phone without their permission at least let them know you're about to go through their phone they can hide whatever they want to but they can't hide how they act so just stay patient you will catch them red-handed anyways because now you're going to feel justified in going through everybody's phone and wonder why nobody wants to stay in that relationship just give it some time

@rosettemarshall3024 4 жыл бұрын

@@johnwilson5248 when you marry me, you have no privacy.

@neldalaw7369 4 жыл бұрын

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@rosettemarshall3024 4 жыл бұрын

@Blue Kid I have nothing to hide. If I let him have sex with me, how much more into my privacy can he get???

@cakes789 6 жыл бұрын

Never thought about the act of snooping on someone's phone in this way... Eye opening!!!

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@bponce26 5 жыл бұрын

I definitely don’t trust my husband at the moment. He has given me reasons to check his phone. I don’t want to played. I’m having a hard time trusting him. I don’t know what to do. Part of me wants to leave him because I don’t trust him but part of me wants to stay and work things out.

@a675432100 5 жыл бұрын

Stay and work things out. Going out is never the best option, until you have solid evidence. However, most of the time, your sixth senses will tell you the truth, about if something is happening. Watch videos on youtube about how to know when your spouse is cheating. Those signs will help you settle down in your approach.

@truckingwithtobee 4 жыл бұрын

Brenda P I’m having the same issues. Let’s talk🙋🏼‍♀️ayalatransport@hotmail.com

@ms.williams6907 4 жыл бұрын

Brenda P then fucking leave.

@brittaniharold1880 3 жыл бұрын

Then why stay?

@brittaniharold1880 3 жыл бұрын

@@truckingwithtobee so why are you still married?

@myallblogscreation7621 2 жыл бұрын

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@georgeorwell2994 2 жыл бұрын

I'm not cheating. I do have a son who is going through a tough time who I don't want to be left alienated. So at times I have not told my partner everything as it could cause more issues. My partner has checked my phone numerous times and I pretty much don't mind. But,I feel that if you look hard enough you will always find something to question especially if you're an untrusting person. So it ends up with multiple questions about things on my phone . For example, spam emails from old dating sites, rude messages from male friends. Yet if I confront her about similar things from her male friends she hits the roof and phones them up saying I'm accusing her of having an affair. Which I'm not. I'm just pointing out that she does similar things which I could be angry about but I'm actually ok with. Any response from a female perspective is welcome.

@littlebitsybee 3 жыл бұрын

100% opinions

@SageRobinTalks 3 жыл бұрын

Nailed it! I realised this in my 20s and was never interested. Trust is important as is privacy. If somethings going to happen, no amount of control will stop it. This communication you talk about has been most helpful in all areas of my life.

@johnnyglass1006 5 жыл бұрын

If you do it you have trust issues

@thescapegoatmechanism8704 5 жыл бұрын

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@lasnenastv6811 5 жыл бұрын

Ok so what if I was looking at pics because he has the oldest baby pics on his phone so I was reminiscing when he saw me he immediately began to act suspect🤔 I never wanted to go thru his phone but he sparked a doubt by his actions. And now I tease him to grab his phone and he jumps up to stop me like really? That's suspect, I dont care if he goes thru my phone so yeah it all depends not saying he's cheating but yet he's acting suspect.

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@AwesomeSauceToys21 4 жыл бұрын

Ana I don’t understand why it’s not okay? If they have nothing to hide then what’s the big deal? I have no problem with them checking mine. I knew a friend who went years without knowing her husband had an affair. if you want to be oblivious and waste time with someone that is cheating on you go ahead.

@La_br00tal_mija 2 жыл бұрын

She didnt at all explain how that means we dont trust ourselves....

@elcolin_ 4 ай бұрын

What about a potential double standard... the girl has gone through your phone... has reviewed almost 10yrs of like, Google Photo app history, sees your texts, sees your social media, asks for your password, expects complete transparancy on your part, but is extremely hesitant about showing you hers? But keeps telling you like, "Babe I just want you to trust me, you're the only man for me, I promise you, I want to feel comfortable to show you my phone I really do, but I just don't delete things and I don't want you getting mad about anything in the past" and you say, "yeah that's fine I'm not trying to judge you or care AT ALL about anything that happened (within reason) before you met me. What I care about is what's CURRENTLY happening. Who's CURRENTLY "sliding in your DMs" and who's messaging you that you're not telling me about?" - because ever since we started dating, it's like every week there's a new guy either some random stranger or some dude she used to talk to or might have dated before re-hitting her up seeing what's up and she gives the "haha sorry I have a boyfriend!" response?

@saurabhbhargava4917 3 жыл бұрын

Trust builds over time. Yes, you should check each other's phone or enjoy your life separately.

@homerdadon6363 Жыл бұрын

why should you need to check a phone, that sounds like a controlling person that wants their partner in a damn cage...

@lornakellier982 Жыл бұрын

I went in my ex phone and i regret it to this day. I see him communicating with is ex with lot of love text .So what you dont know won't hurt you .He left me for his ex.I will never go back in any man that i am with phone

@bleh2590 Жыл бұрын

Is crazy but even when i can , i don't check my spouse's phone but by letting him to check mine im called a liar, shady.... i think that the paranoic have to go to therapy first

@lindafelton2829 3 жыл бұрын

I do have trust issue but this video makes me look at my actions in a totally different way.

@justright6457 3 жыл бұрын

If she hiding her phone she cheating bro straight facts 💯

@justright6457 3 жыл бұрын

@Wealey Virgin lmao 😂

@leopardrockssherrylemeille1192 4 жыл бұрын

I trusted my first husband who never had a cell phone. Didn’t stop him from fkn someone but I still found out cus men are predictable and my gut knew he was screwing around so I divorced him

@psychologicalsiren5232 4 жыл бұрын

The lady in this video is very inexperienced and clueless. She's conflating privacy with secrecy. All relationships need transparency with everything from the get go! Including being normal and open about phones. Trust me lady, many men are going to take full advantage of your sheer naivety.

@stephenieg.yeieyah5197 4 жыл бұрын

@brittaniharold1880 3 жыл бұрын

Are they your kid or mate?You can't have it both ways

@EYES2CU 2 жыл бұрын

But she brings her past to a new relationship and well I got to cut and let go. It’s hard but I rather my sanity.

@user-tu6ju2pw4p 5 жыл бұрын

I don't check my boyfriend's phone and I don't like him to check mine, cuz I write some negative feelings and thoughts about him when I'm mad :)

@corzo420 5 жыл бұрын

Hi there, great video. A lot of what you said feels true. Do you think being in a long distance relationship changes anything? I'm in one and we both have each others passwords to pretty much everything. He barely ever checks any of my accounts but I obsessively check his and I have asked him to change his passwords but he doesn't want to lose access to mine.

@musicsnob4226 2 жыл бұрын

You can't go looking for an act of betrayal while committing an act of betrayal. Deal breaker.

@ganeshshankar5781 4 жыл бұрын

I think it's okay for my partner to check my phone bcoz I don't have anything to hide! But with only one condition.. Having maturity and the person should be able to differentiate between betrayal/cheating and my Friendship with others... If not, I definitely wouldn't suggest

@ericmartinez4869 2 жыл бұрын

She check my phone once,and i asked her if i Can check hers and she said “no is my phone”. If this ok???

@gabenunez7782 2 жыл бұрын

Not a counselor, but that doesn’t seem healthy. It is something you should open a dialogue about.

@billybob4532 3 жыл бұрын

Ok everyone in this comment section is just wrong, you ever heard of privacy? Like just talk to them if you’re feeling insecure.

@lizawork1093 6 жыл бұрын

Let them cheat and watch them suffer the consequences 😂

@onlyme6662 5 жыл бұрын

Liza Work ...you nailed it gf !!

@sandimarielavati2354 4 жыл бұрын

@stephenieg.yeieyah5197 4 жыл бұрын

@AwesomeSauceToys21 3 жыл бұрын

But the point is to catch them early on before it’s too late. Like before you guys sign a mortgage together, joint bank accounts and have KIDS.

@Sumsulsulsususj 3 жыл бұрын

What so you like going through people's privacy which creates trust issues? Like that's sign of a toxic relationship if you dont trust your boyfriend that much just break up

@jll9697 2 жыл бұрын

Its not ok. We all need some privacy.

@jilllibertucci9304 3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@prettydoll8690 2 жыл бұрын

I trust not to be stupid! Lmao

@jilllibertucci9304 3 жыл бұрын

Yep

@gilbertnolazco6998 4 жыл бұрын

Why not agree to swap phones for a few days?

@anjjpineda7402 4 жыл бұрын

transparency is more important in a relationship.. it builds comforrt and trust...you are already become one when you got married...

@syntheticmaplesyrup7217 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah.. an the same with mine...

@devin4329 2 жыл бұрын

Going through their phone to validate your intuition is imperative because if it comes down to trusting a liar to tell you the truth you’ll end up looking like bad guy who was crazy and paranoid and lost a good man and you’ll end up believing that yourself .

@samalldredge3536 2 ай бұрын

She keeps saying that it's you that the issue lies with. You chose to stay in the relationship and you need to build it back up. That language isn't correct, the correct languages both people need to build it back up. And if you are still having these intuition and feelings after your partner betrayed you, then you and your partner together haven't done the work to build that trust back.

@cqualif 2 жыл бұрын

Transparency equals trust. I don’t care about any other conversation than with the people flirting with you and how you’re responding to them. Flirt less, and there will be less phone checks. Both parties MUST be transparent.

@bahduh1 Жыл бұрын

I love only one my wife but if she always check my phone i feel hurt .... It's let me sometimes things my wife don't trust me ... Because always checking.

@MariaArriaga 2 жыл бұрын

Checking a spouses phone? Nothing wrong with it your married. Shouldn’t have anything to hide and it’s like if a woman is spreading her legs to you….I mean.

@GurpreetKaur-ov8wz 6 жыл бұрын

Makes sense

@skyie5951 Жыл бұрын

i am one of those people. i constantly checked the phone because i was afraid. i was hurt at times because of what i found. that’s what made me feel so bad , so he let me always check his phone even though he knew what i’d see, it showed he was ready to take his choices to his responsibility. i’m still scared yes. but i have been less “controlling?” on showing his phone. though he doesn’t mind. this video made me realize i need to trust him and stop worrying. it will be hard because i’m a horrible overthinker. but if it’s true love it will work out.

@MyroneAmericaan 2 ай бұрын

What privacy?? Becoming one has nothing to do with privacy.. becoming one is having nothing to hide and nothing prive

@appa71_17 2 жыл бұрын

My dad is in the military and I couldn't even begin to describe how upset my dad would feel if my mom was cheating on him especially since she would be his second divorce while serving(his first didn't cheat she just couldn't do the whole "moving all the time" lifestyle). I'm so sorry that happened to him and I hope he found someone better and moved on with his life(I also hope she was shamed for cheating on him by her own family) Cheating should be a crime and punish as one. It hurts so many people and end some as well. Cheaters will never understand all the harm they do. P.s thanks for the shout out M.r Whills appreciate it an it was a surprise. Much love WHILLS_WORLD

@reactionpods8954 4 жыл бұрын

It’s not ok

@marcelliabethel3718 3 жыл бұрын

Yesss

@drew1980ish 2 жыл бұрын

1st off its boundary , anyone who does that is a red flag , should work on themselves

@johnblue8029 3 жыл бұрын

Lol I told my gf all this two nights ago about going Thur my phone lol this great awesome video

@heinzkitzvelvet 4 жыл бұрын

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@lexbandz4 3 жыл бұрын

The other day my man told me if I don’t let him go through my phone he’s going to leave me.

@areionagarrett6718 3 жыл бұрын

Checking their phone not gone stop them from cheating if they are it’s gone help them find better ways to cheat! I don’t check phones anything that happens in the dark will ALWAYS come out

@26TptCoy 4 жыл бұрын

i am a man and I have seen people doing this, discussing this and argue about. It's a personal item that belongs not to you so leave it alone. It's not yours, it's none of your business. If you cant trust the person you are with or have normal conversation with them then your relationship is doomed. If you have issues put them on the table for sensible discussion, dont throw them at each other.