IS IT OKAY TO KEEP YOUR EXES CLOTHES?!?!

EP 72: In this episode we talk about how a lot of guys go in for a kiss very strangely and some have even been so bad the girls have had to push them away because they were so turned off by it. We also talk about if it would be worst if you found out your partner cheated on you by kissing someone else vs "doing the deed" with someone else. We finally wrap it up by talking about if it's weird if your partner still keeps clothes or gifts from their exes and if we'd feel uncomfortable dating someone who still wears their exes clothes. HOPE YA'LL ENJOY!!! :D
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[@JimmyZhang]

best podcast in the game

[@DBrostwins]

Two of my fav creators!

[@reeqovlogs9407]

I agree 🕺🏻

[@lhea4925]

Ong

[@shilohhbanda]

true

[@alwayskim4901]

its actually so funny how we know so much of ur guys's sex life. we know sage almost always never do casual hook-ups bc thats the most intimate thing for him (physical touch love language) & cynthia may be the same, she's also in her healing era so. christine is a god. nick hits it raw. maru does casual sex. and devin,,, has a gf

[@trouvaille1558]

lmao on point

[@kaylamiano5465]

LMFAOO devin😭

[@user-tb3lj3lg9s]

how are they meeting all these ppl tho😭😭

[@lizbvth]

@@user-tb3lj3lg9s theyre in college ! and they go out so im pretty sure they meet new people

[@L6901Malice]

I wouldn't say a god......... 🤣🤣🤣

[@zoediys1708]

Am I the only one that gets anxious when Cynthia or Nick brings up separating Sage and Devin like NOOOO the jokes when they are together are so funny 😂😭don't be separating the besties :(

[@cweencarolyn]

someone commented “Christine has a story for every guy because she Fr took her moms advice of dating everyone” and I think about that often

[@franmcverry9090]

Mind blown stop omg.

[@blacked6513]

2s2²

[@ten10dae96]

I mean.. it’s jus the truth.. If u find the right one then u find the right one but If u wanna enjoy life and see what you want ofc you’ll go to new ppl, it’s nothing bad, a lot of parents has said that advice cuz trust me it’s reality don’t settle at a young age

[@kaitlyndiep9526]

lmao

[@L6901Malice]

They never say "ran through" When Christine is on...

[@jessicaz23]

i gotta disagree w cynthia and christine i feel like keeping someone else's clothes/possessions is way more intimate and a bigger red flag than keeping a gift they gave you

[@life_with_emely]

Agree

[@muhammadharis2267]

100%

[@ariannagarcia6708]

was just about to comment this

[@dking6041]

Yeah 100% agree with the boys

[@SabrinaVeeee]

10000%

[@xotiffiny]

Ngl I laugh at the fact that Nick gets so anxious when Cynthia doesn't get to ask her question right away cause there's a possibility that she might forget 😂😭

[@ten10dae96]

cuz respectfuly cynthia is almost high every podcast or buzzed, or half are tipsy

[@jasonramirez6433]

She’s always chopped af 😂

[@Msprachinoor]

crazy how a single podcast can change a shitty day

[@Subllama]

Can y'all do an episode on how you guys overcame insecurities, problems and maybe how you guys have maintained a good social life? I'm always on my own and get uncomfortable around people Idk so It would be dope to hear y'all.

[@larose5783]

Upvote this!!!!!

[@aarijean5905]

upvote

[@oggb7022]

Maru and Sage are gonna be married in like 20 yrs time, they just don't know yet

[@theyyy_l0ve_leii60]

Right I feel like they would be so great but I think he has a gf because he said he did in one of Carey's vids

[@kamasbzxkmsnsnajas7093]

YESSSS BRO

[@Juju-fk6qv]

ikkkkkk agahah i want them to be together soooo bad

[@sheluvk2832]

Normal people: This used to belong to my ex so I'm not gonna wear it. Cynthia: "That's mineeeesss" 😂

[@giswurld]

No but it is though! Once it didn't end terribly where everything feels like it should be in a dumpster fire, it is mine lmaoo.

[@niaapie5437]

devin and sage fking kill me so much 😂😂😂 I died everytime they tried not to talk loudly before they get in trouble 🤣🤣🤣

[@bearugamas]

1:20:00 "I dont think it is an insecure thing, I think it is a respect thing" Sage is so right, I'm glad someone finally contradicted Christine🤦🏽‍♀️

[@noname-lt1mv]

Literally, people think shes more mature and always right but shes not.

[@Kaarkus]

@@noname-lt1mv she just has experience with a lot of guys. I think thats why

[@gracetakang7400]

@@noname-lt1mv just cause u disagree doesn’t mean she’s wrong… she obviously has more experience so they’re gonna listen or ask for her opinions 💀 notice how they didn’t get offended?

[@angelthbk5932]

@@gracetakang7400 More experience ≠ knowledge and success. There’s a reason why she’s with so many different guys

[@gabi8211]

@@angelthbk5932 ew, your thought process is nauseating

[@hxvlev]

I agree way more with the guys about keeping your exes clothes.. I would never wear my exes hoodie lol.

[@AlexR12341]

Maru is just to cute how she tries to explain something and then just doesn't want to 😍...And Sage and Devin are the best dude always in their own world!!👌

[@allantc6177]

Honestly putting this out on Mondays be going hard cause i REALLY need a laugh starting the week lmao

[@michellele7609]

maru is so cute!!!!!!!!!!!!! my face is hurting from smiling

[@urluvvlili]

I'm sick and this is just what I needed. Such a comfort podcast it always makes me smile 😄

[@lanorawatts8753]

Me too this is such a comfort podcast

[@jeffreybento9890]

I just got back from the ER, good way to end a shitty night.

[@froohn]

devin and sage are so fucking funny 😭😭

[@miaelle1500]

I think keeping anything that used to be the ex’s and wearing it around your new partner is weird. But with the gift, it depends on if it held any sentimental value. A necklace my ex got me for our anniversary is different than just a cute top he bought.

[@emilycruz1679]

Maru looks so pretty ❤️ her hair is so cute

[@_trellas24]

23:28 maru is so cute love herr :,)

[@macyrouillard1466]

When devin said “it was magical” and no one laughed but I was all dead asf☠️

[@rjv_-vs4yk]

For the a/c and heater smell try to change the cabin air filter. It’s behind the glove box. Sometimes condensation builds up, which causes mold to build up, which causes the smell.

[@josephdiego999]

respectfully, Christine seems absolutely intolerable😭😂

[@michaelkimbell7405]

ong

[@slayz1914]

Ongx2

[@Xx1melody1xX]

I definitely agree with the dudes more that a gift from an ex is more acceptable to keep than an article of clothing (e.g hoodie) that belonged to an ex. The ownership is very apparent: the gift solely belongs to YOU while the hoodie does not. To counter what the girls say, that gifted hoodie doesn’t have to have sentimental value, either, it’s just a hoodie. Exceptions to acceptable gifts to keep in later relationships would be things like anniversary gifts or jewelry that symbolizes an important time / bond you had with your ex.

[@Akira-ni3fi]

I think Cynthia’s question or statement should be rearranged, I think what she was tryna say (or this is how I interpreted it) was that she would be more upset if her guy was emotionally cheating on her than just fucking another bitch. Bc we live in hookup culture where we have sneaky links, boy toys, and one night stands and we don’t necessarily have any emotionally attraction to them, we kinda just use them as a good fuck and then move on with our day, but when someone cheats on you emotionally, it is a lot more intimate and has a lot more meaning behind it. I think id be more hurt if my s/o was cheating on me emotionally because we can’t come back from that, they have emotions for someone else and maybe even fallen in love with someone else. If they just fucked someone else, I’d still be mad, but there’s a chance they did it bc they’re horny looking for someone to pleasure them sexually instead of it being because they love them

[@joyfulsuul]

devin making me laugh is always what reminds me to press the like button

[@yahkeemthedream4287]

one thing i love about this podcast is the fact that were able to see how the male mind and female mind work.

[@cj2558]

6:48 She’s so cute lol 14:08 Maru remix 23:07 “Blewn” 23:29 🥺 42:57 Devin the instigator once again 43:58 “You just want me to shake some ass” 1:09:54 Awww 1:14:59 Sage giving tea kettle 1:17:25 :) 1:27:54 Sage the water bender claiming his next victim

[@l8kernation212]

Cynthia lowkey using these pods to hammer out her own toxic habits lol

[@ramonar4096]

I love the themed outfits for this podcast

[@sarahmendoza5713]

A guy once told while kissing “How long were you waiting for that?” And that was the biggest ick😅

[@pablopanesso1057]

Lmao Imagine you hit him with “actually, I’ve been trying to avoid this.”

[@ten10dae96]

I love how comfortable they are with one another, like they jus have fun n vibe like the part where Devin was to cynthia “u jus wanna grind on me” is literally shows how they jus have that humour n i’m all for it

[@neel213581]

Cynthia says “oh yeah I’ll be 21 soon” proceeds to pour a tall boy into a cup lowkey 😂😂

[@jenniferduckworth8615]

No because i think I’m the only one who dislikes Cynthia

[@samib3505]

bruh same i thought i was the only one. i mean i don’t hate her at all by any means but i just always disagree with her points and the way she acts.

[@evanlemons]

Bro I don’t know what it is but I am just not a fan of Christine

[@odestomyself]

I think it’s the way she cuts off ppl or is only interested in what she has to say and then when she was like are we going to start? In the beginning like it was her show it kinda gave off mean vibes but everyone’s different to each their own ur not always going to be a fan of everyone

[@evanlemons]

@@odestomyself well said

[@jadengalloway6003]

@@odestomyself yeah the “are we gonna start” comment was kinda 😐

[@odestomyself]

@@jadengalloway6003 I was literally just enjoying watching them settle in and then she said that and ruined the calm atmosphere 🧍🏻‍♀️like that could just be how she naturally acts with them but to the viewers it looks weird like she doesn’t want to be there or is annoyed like girl why’d you show up then

[@karinavillanueva7024]

@@odestomyself not literally, i feel like people have to walk around eggshells w her

[@j-ay7095]

Devin and Sage's friendship is so beautiful 😢

[@antoniosoliz3181]

Anyone else think it’s nice that Cynthia’s sisters on but she kinda doesn’t have to be on the podacast I feel like she be trying to be a know it all and control the narrative a lot

[@jasmvnee__]

i mean they ask her questions and she answers lmao , they all talk when they want to

[@urluvvlili]

I love Maru's pants so much, does anyone know where she got them? Or where I can find something similar

[@sacosta0904]

23:41 got me ROLLING the way they’re just sitting there looking at the camera💀

[@yami5556]

1:21:19 yeah uhm im with the guys on this one ngl😭 it’s kinda weird to keep a hoodie of an ex over a gift 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@angeliquetrevino4278]

Why do i always agree with the guys more than the girls 😬??? hahaha

[@juandoza98]

Cause everybody has different opinions 😂😂👌🏽

[@anavaleria.jpg3]

i need to be besties with christine because this girl has the best advice and insight when it comes to guys .. ugh she feels like such big sister 🧡😂

[@-Chen]

I can't be the only one that gets so hyped when I see a new Suburb Talks episode

[@paoola3345]

I love Cynthia’s laugh 🥹❤️ it makes my soul happy

[@britneyrodriguez214]

23:44 my favorite moment of the podcast they look so happy together

[@justineduafo7750]

this lineup is the dream team fr

[@justicemarshall754]

The fact they talk about the most relatable shit is why I’m so addicted to this podcast 💯 I feel like I can relate to Maru, Cynthia and Qwistine so much🤣

[@shinigamisecret]

Honestly, you shouldn't keep anything from your ex BUT keeping a sick ass gift is cool. It's a gift that was meant for you. Taking your ex's hoodie and keeping it past the relationship ain't cool. That shit aint yours. You're wearing another mans hoodie.

[@MinhMelt]

as soon as devin got moved, mans was quiet

[@MaleanaK]

36:16 nobody’s going to talk about when he said “was it you papa?”

[@briannamiller8256]

I never disagree with Cynthia and Christine but on this hoodie thing I cannot understand their side at all. Keeping something that was theirs in my opinion just means you are trying to keep a piece of them around and if I was your s/o that's a huge red flag for me

[@chloepower2820]

maru and sage. yea

[@lilliequintero3280]

Wait what do you mean ? 🤔😳

[@ramonar4096]

43:03 I fucking died🤣🤣🤣 idk why I laughed so hard at deven saying whale as wa-lé. Please the whole moment was chaotic 😭😭

[@sizzypop_]

this is the only podcast i can watch all the way through keep up the good work

[@alwayskim4901]

clothes: i think the guys feel hurt more if the girl "stole" a hoodie from the ex and kept wearing it, is bc guys like it when girls "steal" their clothes, they feel like it's an ownership type deal (not really a bad thing lol, i just dont know what term to use). while for girls, we're "stealing" bc we like the clothing and we know they would just give it to us bc it makes them feel good lol

[@gerovasquez4273]

MARU loooks sooooo cute 😭

[@trouvaille1558]

i don't understand why nick and christine kept asking sage why he faked it lol.. it's for the same reason girls fake it.. why is it understandable when a girl fake it and not voice her unsatisfaction but not the man🥴

[@melaniecueto6409]

The way Devin reacted when Sage took a chip 💀🤣🤣

[@rene4174]

any ex’s clothes belong in a dumpster fire

[@jaysonhershityup4115]

Maru will always be my favvvv

[@elizabethabijones4201]

LMAO THE BEST DUO IS DEVIN AND SAGE LIKE THEY ARE JUST SO FUNNY LMAO00000

[@vorockket2908]

I feel like a gift is something that you can’t ask back, but taking something from ur ex they can ask for it back. So gift is less weird

[@jluk04]

Not a fan of Christine.. feel like she overshadows Maru- keep the OG 5, it’s gold.

[@user-nw6hb1ql9n]

Agreeee

[@estheraneke6545]

don’t nobody care 😭

[@user-nw6hb1ql9n]

@@estheraneke6545 I care ! Better without Christine !

[@13kambri]

oh brother.. christine isn’t overshadowing anybody by talking 😭 if maru wanted to talk she’d talk like.. these people are grown

[@ariadnh8387]

nah i dont feel like anyone overshadows anyone. some are really loud and extrovert and some are more shy and quiet and they just figure it out. they all talk and share their opinions equally. thats just my opinion!!

[@plotsannoyin9131]

Nick,Sage and Devin really role played the two class clowns and the teacher 😭

[@alwayskim4901]

devin was IN this video bro 😭😭 his jokes are so on point and right on time.

[@adelagonzalez6317]

Idk what’s with the Christine hate I love her ! when she’s not on I always notice 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@5Stack_42]

Fella remember, " Give her my shirt before she leaves, imma need my shirt back." - J. Cole

[@imthewatcher100]

58:50 I feel like Sage has asked for a girl's opinion on getting a girl. I remember in a previous podcast he texted Maru for help with a girl situation and Maru said it was cute the way he's getting nervous and shit

[@trouvaille1558]

it wasn't sage lol

[@jaymadume4798]

It was luke I think

[@zoediys1708]

that was Luke not sage

[@user-hh9jc9hs8f]

I just leaned in and kissed my girlfriend for the first time last weekend and I loved hearing the kissing discussion.

[@hariutani6129]

The transition at 23:43 is the best thing I’ve seen in a while 😭😭 😭😭

[@river7128]

Nick just getting cuter and cuter

[@juliomiafuentes4001]

😂😂😂 tea

[@azianxballer5413]

ayo nick, if ur A/C in your car smells weird or nasty, change the cabin air filter in your car, your welcome

[@odestomyself]

LET DEVON AND SAGE SIT TOGETHER 😕

[@odestomyself]

devin****

[@awilhussein8336]

They are such a pretty group of friends

[@slayz1914]

Not being a hater but Christine kills the dynamic love the podcast tho ❤️ keep up the good work

[@briannaalvarenga8933]

i think that the whole sex cheating thing makes sense as to why the guys and the girls think differently girls often times see sex as more intimate so when girls cheat in any way if more emotional than physical which is why they see kissing just as bad because they would do it unless they had emotional ties to that person and for the guys it’s the opposite of that makes sense

[@mdlegr]

where can i find a friendgroup like this

[@C.liyahh]

This podcast has become an addiction 🫠

[@rubysummer9907]

justice for the sake of devin and sage sitting together 😭

[@ten10dae96]

Im sorry but i disagree with the two girls, cuz taking and gicing is two differnet things, you get giifts from the ppl yenno, taking it means its doesnt belong to you like if you keep ur ex stuff its watever but if you trip about then idk it doesnt make any sense how someone would get mad cuz someone gave them present like i would understand if the present has a meaning but if its jus a present wouldn't it been given meaning it wasn't there so that means theirs no connections to it, but taking it from ur ex its technicality still there's meaning it has more meaning cuz it was theres at the first place, they used it, wore it and it been with them then ex giving a gift

[@rizzya2913]

No if you kept something from your ex and it wasn’t a gift, I’d be weird out cause why do you still have it? anything a girl has they know when and where they got it from. so anytime they wear it, they know where they got it from. I’ll understand if it was a gift, cause that person bought it for you instead of you taking it from them and keeping it after the relationship (even if it was vice versa) I’m with the boys on that one

[@yami5556]

ngl i always look forward to your weekly podcasts 🫡

[@lindasakaula4809]

The way I’m rewatching som of the older eps and seeing Nick without the beard that he has now feels so incredibly weird almost scary…😭

[@mariahsurrency7403]

nahhh i agree with the guys on the exs clothes stuff

[@alexdudley369]

need more discussion about bad kissers i've had a couple recently and the women are making me feel so seen rn

[@emiiyu660]

Watching sage and Devin sitting next to each other in their own world will never get old, im cackling everytime 😭

[@alexiajp13]

that kissing thing is a psychological thing because of how men vs women relate to intimacy where girls are more likely to be mad at someone who cheats with just kissing/being closer with someone else (bc they believe that's more like "in love") whereas guys would see having sex as more cheating because that's what they believe is in love (i learned this awhile ago in social psych so it may be wrong but i think thats it)

[@alwayskim4901]

"it sounds like guys are more level-headed" OK IMMA TURN UP. im the same with cynthia, my girlies know to go to me when they want some tough love type shit but im not crazy. if i actually like the guy for her, im gonna get riled up with her THEN keep her in check. it's literally just letting her feel whatever she's feeling before we actually problem solve. men just solve without processing their emotions and then rage on video games

[@Sara-ww6jf]

Can Christine answer on the next podcast how she gets to date so many guys??

[@dakotadavenport.1874]

It’s like the question would you rather him cheat by having just sex with multiple women or having sex with one person multiple times, if it’s just one girl it’s more intimate in my opinion cause y’all built like a sort of relationship (both are horrible still btw😂)

[@life_with_emely]

I need to be in this podcast. My way of thinking is so different from Cynthia’s and Christine

[@Chiikabonita]

okay but honestly. if my bf asks for his hoodie back from his ex…i’d be upset because why are you asking for it back likeeee just buy a new one. if he asks for it before we’re even dating it’ll still bother me bc ik she wore that and ik she kept that and u wanted it back??? naurrr

[@jalenarellano2401]

Nicks face at @1:14:47 and the way it cut literally is gold

[@jeffreybento9890]

Much love to all yous but this group combo episodes hit different everytime

[@juanlejeune4649]

Bro change ur air filter and the smell will go away😭

[@Chelsea__zzn]

Separating sage and devin is like splitting up two giggling bffs in class😂

[@9jababes09]

The way devin was smiling had me dying 23:43

[@leahwimmer9676]

Its funny hiw its nicks podcast and they mostly talk about relationships despite the fact hes never been in one

[@joshrodas5437]

Nick and Cynthia laughing is adorable and funny