"Is it possible?" Korean Gay Couples meets Married Lesbian Couple for the first time! | LGBTQ+

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[@stellp2956]

Well that was heart breaking - the excitement they felt at meeting a legally married gay couple but then the realisation that that's not an option for them 😭 One day hopefully it will happen for Korea too ! Love to you all from Australia

[@LeztravelTogether]

Awww thank you♡ Maybe someday.

[@monicaking2140]

We fought hard for it but we are lucky in Australia now. Here’s hoping in Korea you will get to be equal one day soon xx ❤

[@stellp2956]

@@monicaking2140 yes it was mental - Australia also really far behind the rest of the world on that issue even though anti discrimination laws etc were good didn't make sense did it ??

[@monicaking2140]

@@stellp2956 Exactly. Then people had to vote on wether we could have equal rights, hurtful. I guess at least they cannot change it cause the people had their say.

[@stellp2956]

@@monicaking2140 one would hope that would never happen ! I’m 60, I’m not gay and neither are my children BUT other people are and they should be respected and accepted for what they are - heartbreaking to see my gay friends want to marry and not be able to, heartbreaking to see kids struggle to come out because of what people think and the whole scenario in Korea 🤦🏻‍♀️as much as I love the place I struggle with this😢

[@bong5901]

i want someone to look at me the way Carissa looks at her wife 😭❤

[@rayyagasim5261]

I will look at you

[@njegova.stara.cigara]

i thought i was the only one who noticed tht

[@Trouvaillebl]

Same😭

[@LeztravelTogether]

Awwwww ❤️

[@meishiketsu5814]

I know the look in her eyes just speaks "love, adoration" just like wow

[@iremaydemir4670]

Omg The way Carissa looks at her wife shows how deep their love is.

[@enaman5067]

Ik 😍

[@jinhub2175]

Awe🫠

[@StrawberryCake689]

the korean lesbian couple are so attractive😫😭

[@zoeyfzoha8820]

Ikrrr T-T

[@Hellokitty_391]

Frfrfr

[@filippa1434]

I truelly wish for every couple that their dreams come true. Its so sad to hear that people are forced to live in another country just to get officially married

[@chamselbach9786]

You guys, should consider Scandinavian countries, we are generally very accepting, I’m from Denmark, we have the longest history of legal commitments/marriage in the lgbtq+ community. And most of us speak English as a second or third language. Of course you’d still have to learn the local language 😂 but children seems to pick it up really quick, and adults are fine with speaking English. That part might actually be a bigger challenge compared to being accepted as a gay couple here. In my experience if someone says something bad about lgbtq+ or is rude about it everyone in the room will give them a mean stare, at the very least, if not directly scold them. Of course we still have old people who say whatever they feel like, and religious groups who have their own opinions but if they know what’s good for them they’ll only share those opinions behind closed doors. When I was a kid, being lgbtq+ was something people whispered about but I never knew anyone who was lgbtq+ (at least not openly), nowadays practically 1 in 3 kids will say they are lgbtq+ and nobody dares to tell them otherwise. After all they wouldn’t want to be labeled as ‘problematic’ or ‘homophobic’ so even if not all of those kids are actually queer they’ll let them figure that out for themselves😂

[@aoba2945]

Yeahhh, but due to immigrants (not all of them), homophobia and discrimination against lgbtq+ people is normal...

[@mushroomsinmygarden6764]

Hey I’m from Denmark too! I kind of agree! Most people don’t really care and won’t say anything,but I have also met a lot of homophobic people ! Both young and old

[@happyfan7984]

You are so wonderful! And I love Denmark. Can't wait to visit again. From the United States.

[@askosefamerve]

Instead of calling them off, let them make a change!

[@golbinnom]

but then again...the racism......

[@njegova.stara.cigara]

as a bisexual teenage girl living in a country of homophobic people, breaks my heart, but things avout this video the way Carissa looks at her wife makes me melt the way Hee-hoo rememberd the exact days the way Do-ha and Dan met makes me feel proud of who am i even tho im crushing for a guy that i met once in my lifetime and that im crushing to a girl thats sraight, god i wanna cry 💖💜💙

[@askosefamerve]

Turkish? If so, we have the same destiny girl...

[@ridashaikh924]

Sameee where do u live btw?

[@njegova.stara.cigara]

@@askosefamerve im not turkish sadly, but i go there with my parents im bosnian, we have almost identical tradition as turkish so we all same if u girls by any chance wanna talk ill give u my insta

[@schrj]

@@njegova.stara.cigara whats your insta?

[@njegova.stara.cigara]

@@schrj i.love.wony

[@arinyugrass]

I agree that marriage is not something that you absolutely need to do as a couple (my parents have been together forever 30+ years and never married) but as a Lesbian living in Canada, a place where I can freely do that with basically the same rights as a straight couple, I really wanna have that ceremony one day. To me (of course personally) it’s like paying tribute to all the ones before me who wished they could have done that but where never able and I should consider myself lucky that I’m able to marry who I want :)

[@jcravenclaw]

Me too... It just feels like a win that someone fought for. And I'd love to actually kinda "prove" that, even tho I'll marry a woman someday, we CAN be a family. Something a lot of people told me I couldn't have.

[@MinaSteph]

I see what you are saying. I also think that all you need to rep for is the CHOICE. You personally can decide to not marry without disrespecting those who fought for your right to marry. Similar to the women who choose not to work, choose to be a homemaker, etc. They are not spitting in the face of the suffragettes.

[@anadd6195]

Yeah, it's like it's one thing for you to be able to *choose* not to get married and a very different thing for you to not *be allowed* to do so.

[@hutao4671]

something people forget is the legality of marriage. when you are married to someone, if something happens to you in the hospital, your spouse is the one in charge of your medical decisions. gays during the aids crisis did not have that. their parents were the ones who had full control, people who were often kicking out and disowning their children for having aids. their partners could do nothing as their parents signed away on anything to kill their gay kids and bury them with their birth names for those who went by others. it also meant that every possession that was theirs became their parents. marriage is also impacts your taxes in the us, with married people paying less taxes in the hopes that it helps the economy/pays for their children/etc. that means any single/gay person who cannot marry is losing more money than straight married people. although this is no longer the reality for gays in the usa, remember that disabled people still cannot marry without losing all their benefits and are basically subject to everything i mentioned above.

[@lilacfields]

@@hutao4671 ​ ​ i’m glad you brought this up bcs it’s very important to remember this. i’ve seen many lgbt people ask why we even fought for marriage when it was an institution made for straight religious people but if anything gay people need the support from marriage more than anybody. the ability to have a legally recognized family member outside of your birth family is so so valuable.

[@musicfeedsyoursoul8070]

I wish I had Ji-won’s confidence! I could never just see someone on the street and ask for their number lololol

[@aictopus]

The option for us LGBTQ+ people to get married in the first place is SO important, regardless of if a couple wants to be married or not. It should be our right, just like it is for straight couples.

[@andressaqueiroz8263]

I hope all of us LGBTQ+ people who want to do these things can get legally married and have kids like everyone else one day without being an issue. I believe in a better future. This video is very much appreciated, thank you for the amazing work.

[@stranger8447]

This is so eyeopening and i got so emotional

[@zeawifuu8141]

Fr. I teared up .

[@baakojernigan7095]

I don't think the answer is always just to move out of SK. In order for things to change there has to be brave people (like the first people in america for example) to expand what society's perception of "family" is, people staying is the best way for it to finally start getting normalized... however if health, safety, and happiness is really being jeopardized then it would unfortunately be better to move out

[@lilfreak.j]

this is true but also these things take time. the legislation for a same sex couple to be able to marry each other and hv kids could take years. and if the couple want kids not everyone can fight for it in time for it to still be possible for them. i live in korea, and even just officially changing the aging system from Korean (birth = 1yo) to the international aging system, they are having a hard time rolling this out. a lot of older koreans are hard to convince and getting them onboard is very difficult. the reality is the fight will be long, if same sex couples want to achieve where they can be seen and function properly as a family in society within the next 10 years, they won't be able to do that except outside of korea

[@JustAnotherNameYo]

Exactly what I was thinking. People are still fighting to keep those rights in place. Also the fact that not everyone is able to just leave their whole life behind whether it is for financial reasons or family and emotional attachment.

[@bjoardar]

When she said "Florida", I just burst out a: *"WHAT!?"* like that meme. Instant reaction lol

[@try9749]

sending them all so much love and happiness I hope both lovely couples stay together forever

[@retro_mxxn3334]

The way Carrisa eyes follow Eugene is just so cute. It’s really beautiful to see people in love and just having that emotion all over their face and the way she watches her talk to the other couples in Korean and Eugene telling Carrisa what they’re talking about in English. I love them and I wish them a happy future together and hopefully a baby soon❤🎉

[@idfkmantisold]

I think South Korea will take a very long time to change their stance on same sex marriage, particularly because Koreans don't seem to be very vocal about social issues and rallying for change. I could be wrong, but a lot of the gay Koreans I've watched online just seem to accept that they can't be married and that society treats them badly, rather than fighting against it and building a community together and rallying for change. Also it seems most straight people in Korea have very little or no opinion on LGBT issues so they don't really consider themselves "allies" like the majority of left leaning people in the US. As much as it sucks to say, without allies fighting alongside us it's very difficult for minorities to make change happen on our own. Hopefully with Taiwan, Thailand, and eventually maybe India working towards changes to marriage it will start a wave of other Asian countries following.

[@tylerphuoc2653]

Taiwan legalized same-sex marriage back in 2019. That does make me wonder why so many Korean couples featured here think of moving to the US, rather than Taiwan where the language is significantly more similar (easier to learn) and there's stronger anti-discrimination laws

[@chicken7762]

You can't be married in Taiwan you need to have citizenship to get married

[@andromedamessier3176]

Society wise, Thailand is definitely more accepting. But their government is just ugh 😑 they also have to deal with the king as well.

[@biditadas4992]

Feel extremely sorry for them as they have to change their country for legally getting married...I wish it becomes legal in Korea... But yeass I got a second hand embarrassment and could fully relate as I am in the same situation being a lesbian....🥺🥺🙃🙃🙃🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

[@Mauvegek]

THE WAY CARRISA WAS LOOKING AT HER WIFE IS SO CUTE AHH

[@BookNerd4Music]

Thank you for bringing up not ALL Americans are accepting, but they will mostly just let it go for the most part, unless it directly affects htat person life. I really do hope that more Korean people will push back against what is considered norm and just step and be the 2nd or 3rd and not leave the pioneers out there fighting alone.

[@itisejay]

Wait, you mean to say a lesbian actually did that in public to get the girl she thought was her type ... God Tier.

[@emir5009]

When u look gay as a lesbian it sometimes makes you known to other gay people that may look Straight and will never be approached because they look stright

[@meishiketsu5814]

I am from the Philippines and tell you what this warms my heart, the fact that they were able to hold that big a ceremony here in my home country makes me see hope in LGBTQ marriage cause I know what happens behind the impression "It's more fun in the Philippines" yes that is true but as like all countries out there we also have these types of problems

[@xsseoos]

yesss

[@SteffanyKirkpatrick]

As a lesbian i love hearing and seeing this i think it is amazing how they all learned about eachothers standing points and everything i just love it a lot.

[@GreenGoblin9]

1년 후에 갑자기 알로리즈에 떠서 늦게 보게 되긴했지만... 게스트분들의 말 한마디 한마디에 정말 감동하고 울컥했어요. 국내에서도 하루빨리 다양한 형태의 가족과 부부가 법적으로 보호받고 사회적으로 인정받았으면 좋겠습니다. 좋은 영상 감사해요~

[@maf.eats2024]

I’m from the Philippines and I’m interested to know where did they got married here because Philippines is really strict when it comes to marriage. Even the law for equality (SOGIE BILL) has been trashed by law makers here. Maybe it’s not a religion wedding but either way, congratulations to them!

[@daimeonryan8088]

@4:54. Sounds like they had a ceremony/celebration in the Philippines and got legally married in the US

[@teatea1115]

I believe they had a wedding in the Philippines, they said they did their legal documents in the US and are legally married in the US. Some people have destination weddings.

[@KatherineSinahon]

SAME!!! iyaq pa ako non nung nanalo si he who must not be named kase alam kong di uusad ang talks of SOGIE and Queer Marriages sometime soon tapos gulat ako mamshii nung sinabi nilang PH pero reading the replies, it made sense naman. Sana all nalang pu

[@Anggi410]

because God created man as a pair of male and female. some countries have laws without being based on religious principles, that's why many countries legalize same-sex marriage and and countries that make regulations on the basis of religion will not legalize…

[@heyitsrosie]

You can get married in Argentina too!

[@heyyy7290]

The Korean lesbian couple is so pretty ahh

[@Vlc506]

Canada is also very accepting and allows gay marriage.🇨🇦

[@danvieira22]

What a precious video!! ❤I know the conditions are difficult for LGBTQIA+ couples in most part of the world, but the ones in the video give me hope for a better future. Greeting from Brazil 🏳‍🌈

[@mamacho1464]

미국에서 사는 50중반 엄마입니다. 제가 개인적으로 개이 레스비언 결혼해서 아이를 키우는 친구들만 4명입니다. 하나는 Texas, Arizona, 둘은 Georgia 입니다. 아이들은 거의 힘들어하지 안아요. 만약 경져격 문제면 타격이 더 클탠데, 제 친구들은 의사, 박사, 교수 등등이니, 아이들한테 신경을 많이쓰고, 여행도 자주 갑니다. 아무리 미국이라고 해도 도시, 주마나 편견이 심한데가 있지만, 동성애자 결혼이나 둘이 아이를 키운다는것은 별로 큰이슈가 아닙니다. 한 아이는 벌써 명문 대학 졸업하고, 박사 과정을 한는데, 제 쌍둥이들이랑 15년째 친구여요. 완전 밝고, 생각이 깊고, 철이 일찍들어 효자입니다. 어쩜 엄마가 둘이니, 어린나이에 철이 들었나봐요. 한국도 하루빨리 법적으로 동성애자를 허락하는 날을 기다립니다. 저도 레스비안 딸을 가진 한국엄마로서 마음이 간절합니다. 모도 힘내세요.

[@user-oo1sn3zc7s]

딸의 sexuality를 받아들인 어머님이시군요.대단하세요.저도 여친 있는데 가족 몰래 사랑하고 있어요.저희 커플도 해피엔딩이었으면 좋겠어요..

[@zaqueenzaza]

The love in Carissa's eyes💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@happyfan7984]

My congratulations to all couples! I love all of you and wish you the best for a lifetime of happiness.

[@Searan]

For some reason i want the Korean gay couple to be my parents they have this warm feeling they are giving life is cruel i wish to be their kid so bad now

[@Lonnloven]

This was a really good conversation, thanks for sharing this! I wish and hope all the couples in the video gets to see their dreams come true! We'll keep breaking down the barriers, one by one!

[@anitalamnio2797]

Lot of love from India🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳 Thanks for video😍😍

[@jennie_lin295]

you guys should come to New Zealand :) lgbtq+ couples can legally get married here!

[@jamberstone1]

i just want to add that social change is really hard to predict - change can sometomes happen really fast - and it is hard to know why or how - just keep being yourself & keep trying and plan as though the change you want will soon come! I am 68 yrs old & have seen social acceptance take forever for one thing & happen in a snap for something else - right now the broad acceptance of gay & lesbian couples among young people is still very surprising to me - & so wonderful! I was with my girlfriend for 28 years but she died before marriage was declared legal in the US, but we were lucky to be able to be very open about our relationship

[@Jaszzzzzzz]

Sending all of u so much love!

[@IcyTii]

I’m living for this area of acceptance, freedom and love. Even if the road is still very long, at least we’re walking on the right one.Let people be happy and marry the person they choose . We only live this life once. FFS

[@blticketsbus4816]

Soooo cute interview... 😘🥰😍 thxkkk u 💖

[@chocowings6177]

omg this warms and breaks my heart at the same time .- but either way, im soooo happy with this kind of content!💜💜

[@chuyu22]

i love watching these videos. seeing them so in love and so happy with one another 🥺 but it breaks my heart knowing they can’t be as open as they should be just because it’s “taboo.” i wish all the best to the lgbtq+ couples living in places that are still close-minded. here’s to hoping korea progresses in changing their views, or they find a home that they can live their lives peacefully.

[@AmalaFrequents]

I really hope that one day every country can have families that just depend on love to be recognised. A society is stronger if people can be happy and supported. Love and respect is the most important.

[@emilyvbr1878]

Very interesting video. I enjoyed hearing from these couples

[@Stalkerfan1000]

You know, I want to have a Korean girlfriend, fiancée, and wife, but, sadly, I can't marry her in her country. So she has to move with me to another country to be legally recognized and for the safety our future children. But well, her happiness and our built family will be my priority so wherever she feels safe and happy I'll be there with her.

[@cloudzharmony2457]

Always love content like this

[@sweetchocolatesecret]

Yoooo no matter what Korean couples are so fashionable. I absolutely love it❤️

[@tracyhedges3142]

Wonderful to see the gay couple and a happy married lesbian couple in South Korea you all are welcome to the UK

[@Yuri-tq4oc]

They are so cute I love their relationships

[@Hell.0itsMe]

That “that’s our goal” part broke me

[@murisanfamily]

I enjoyed this video it was very informational its sad as well all three couples are so sweet wishing them to have all the happiness in the world.

[@biaswreckage]

the way I live in the US and can relate to Carrisa's family situation... I hope I can be as loyal to my true self in the future and be happy too. everyone deserves love and I hope all countries can agree on taht someday

[@ineedachachabeat1886]

Ayyyyyy Florida represent!! I think Tampa would be a great place because it is very accepting

[@sonamdreemaa6533]

I'm subscribing you for these sweet people😍

[@Aizetsv]

Early!!!! ❤

[@Mayur-P720]

All of them are really cute 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@Thbbt]

I wish you all luck in your relationships and happiness

[@natashamajumder2568]

Me being a lesbian and seeing this as a indian really breaks my heart 🙂

[@_Yagyaseni]

All three couples are adorable … I also want to get married life is too much single 😅

[@viviannatawny5822]

Come to Canada. Very welcoming for LGBTQ couples and children. I wish though that it could be that way in Korea...hopefully one day very soon

[@reesemalo]

St. Petersburg is one of the most LGBT-friendly cities in Florida-- I hope you can all visit someday :)

[@nerdthatknits]

My sister and her wife got married in September. She was adopted from China but, grew up in the States. My hubby is from Korea, he was also adopted. We live in Washington State, the Western side of the State is very open and accepting. More so that Florida, the don't say gay law is horrible but, to each their own. To any gay couples in Korean please reach out to your community and find your people. I hope for change.

[@keepingupwithnikki]

The way Carissa looks at her wife....🥲🥲🥲🥲😫😫😫😫

[@phanswatch]

Great episode

[@sope13613]

Am so happy to see this ...

[@cr899]

Great content !

[@kopecll3]

the three couples are so cute 🥺🥰🥰

[@Hell.0itsMe]

This one is going to make me cry

[@anadd6195]

Aww this was so sweet. Well, you guys can come and get married here in Europe too. Who knows, maybe (correct me if I'm wrong) in Thailand, New Zeeland, Australia, you can do so too? Getting married and building a family in one of those countries? If so, it's closer to home right? I hope you can make it. Indeed, if Korea is still not okay with single mom's it will take long until it's okay with us 🏳️‍🌈 as people, couples or families. My country was in that spot decades ago and nowadays it's so different, way more welcoming and we have the same rights as everyone else, regardless of more conservative views from some people. You can also raise the children for a few years abroad and then return. They will learn a language and a different way of living and then they can return to Korea and enjoy their time in both places. :) (Portugal, EU)

[@itsthesherthing]

Ohhh I love this video. I hope to meet some foreign lgbt couples in the future ❤🥰

[@sabrinanite]

would love to be on a show like this

[@nora4852]

cuando vi que las chicas se emocionaron cuando les dijeron que estaban casadas supe que este video me iba a hacer llorar…..tenía razón

[@katefromhungary7178]

Doha’s diary channel 😮❤

[@lovelymill]

loved it

[@rutujabidwe2028]

Idk why but i feel jenually soo happy whenever i see a gay couples or leasbin couples.. they only made me belive that true love still exists.. although my besties are leasbins and are in a very cute and beautiful couple... I ever sow.. idk how relationships works.. cuse i was never been an any relationship and still im not... I honestly never meet anyone who honest with me .. specially boys .. sorry but it's just my personal experience..

[@arwenschild6406]

This was such a wholesome video. I really wish all the best for these couples and hope that marrying same-sex partners will soon be legal in South Korea!

[@Hyeminracle]

I hope they’ll be able to marry someday

[@kateXifengTang]

Wishing that all their wishes will come true one day in the same way they want it to be. And the way of love in their eyes when they look at each other shows that love is always love. It's sad that a lot of people can't open up their feelings the way they want. But trust me , world is changing and the perspective is changing. Let's hope atleast our near future generations to be open minded and have the tendency of acceptance. And I wish them all goodness and happiness of the world

[@dianereneeyovel5685]

Go to California! Much more accepting than Florida!

[@Hellokitty_391]

I guess a lot of Korean same-sex couples really want to go to US for legalize their marriage and it really shows.... Hope they'll do someday.

[@voyance4elle]

That's beautiful.

[@keilabarboza7512]

Son una pareja hermosa ❤

[@lukvanleeuwen7603]

한국 사람들은 자주 외국=미국이라고 생각하는 느낌이 들어요. 다른 데도 많은데... 게이면 특히 여기 네덜란드, 아님 스칸디나비아쪽을 알아보세요.

[@noeliavetach43]

I wish the best for all the couples... I hope Korea will accept you one day

[@nizanare2188]

they got married at the Philippines😲 btw, i'm from PH🇵🇭💙

[@isanubistchubirubis]

I couldn't pay attention because I was watching Carissa looking at her wife I LOVE THEM!!!

[@maryalthene]

wow i was surprised when she said in the Philippines coz i know it's not yet legal here although we have gay ceremonies. maybe they had ceremony here then made it legal abroad

[@kaedeharakazuha1081]

It's my first time seeing a Korean Lesbian.

[@QQ-gq3cj]

More content like this ❤

[@johnreton696]

I admire the gay couple being out and proud in korea its really hard to be gay there I heard many sad stories how the society treats them badly and like they don't exist.

[@pablomoldeslopez8412]

Spain is also an option and you get the good weather. I am gay myself and I am currently engaged. We will be gettimg married soon.

[@user-ht7xo5ep9p]

I feel sooooo jealous.....

[@Bersyukurlah897]

Love is love

[@mobinakhosravi-jf3om]

Omg i wish i live in koreaaa

[@dragonboy718]

my fiancee and i have been together 25 years this year and we are getting married next week!

[@Lonnloven]

Congratulations!!!

[@saintjohnny2028]

GLOBALEARTH FTW!!!!!! What an amazing channel to shine a POSITIVE light on LGBT issues lately. Beautiful work. Beautiful show. Simply beautiful.

[@mousykatka]

soo beautiful, and we need more beautiful examples like those 2 ladies, so countries would open up and legalize same sex marriage

[@-.-green_tea.lipton-.-]

it is so painful to watch such videos being a lesbian in Russia, where just a few days ago they banned LGBTQ and imposed huge fines for any "propaganda" of LGBTQ. I just want to love freely

[@blticketsbus4816]

Heart warming 😘🥰😍 of LGBT

[@fatamy8597]

bro all i am asking for is to find someone to look at me the way carissa looks at eugene 😢

[@Lackiiiiii]

I remember I hear a lot “being gay is an American thing” yeah that’s why your turkish husband has gay voice