Is Josh Seiter even TRANS? | Trans Woman REACTS

[@laurazepam8382]

He's pulling a Dylan Mulvaney. Look into his past. He tried everything to get famous on reality TV

[@sophiacalon3463]

Some people, truly, will do anything for fame.

[@Blom2021]

But it also feels like this is a mocking of Dylan

[@andreaelizabeth5494]

And he is not the first one to jump on the Mulvaney train.

[@iamerica7887]

At least Dylan made an effort to at least look like a woman. This clown doesn't even try 🤦‍♀😖 FAIL!!!

[@rebeccaspellmeyer5761]

He is pulling a Kyle/Larz.

[@debbie70089]

No bio women or true transwomen ever said... I like my facial hair. This is a transvestite man.

[@RommelAngus2]

Lol you mean gay

[@lornocford6482]

There are trans identifying men with beards.

[@RommelAngus2]

@@lornocford6482 lol 😰😰😰

[@natalscar]

This man is the reason authentic trans people are being ridiculed

[@blackharvest13]

From what I’ve seen most people understand this is a troll and not to be compared to actual trans people but actual trans people have already being getting ridiculed by the woke left…

[@somebodyiusedtoknow6567]

One of them .... there's too many doing this for their 15mins

[@Shy__wolf]

Smart people can tell authentic trans people from the attention seeking posers

[@JoshuaRosen-y1m]

And people wonder why I believe communities acknowledging who needs to be out of the community for promblemetic behavior to point where they are exiles and allowed to be bullied is necessary

[@ReginaTrans_]

what I learned is people can tell who is trans and who is not like intuitively, see how Alexis never has issues in the bathrooms,, I dont look like a woman and I still use mens bathrooms, they never have an issue and its women asking me to use theirs !!!!! the ones we see on media I think are not trans and people just can see that, I wish I could see myself in the eyes of others to see why they think im not pretending, cause I dont know what is it and I think its cute that they see im genuine even if I dont look 100% like a woman

[@marjutraks1038]

You talking about female spaces... It brought me to tears. I just felt how vulnerable we women are, and our daughters in those spaces. For men to use this for their own kick. So sad, frightening. Thank you for being you❤

[@Rebecca_Bailey]

Right? If I saw this Josh person in the women’s restroom I’d have lost my shit, especially because I’m with my daughter who is 3 and she would’ve asked me why there’s a man in there, no way am I having that

[@lornocford6482]

But you don't mind if the man is wearing a lot of make-up. It's still a man in a female only space totally disrespecting women and girls and putting them at risk.

[@threepurrs]

This guy is a phoney, simply looking for attention. He doesn’t fool anyone.

[@thelestrangelair]

And sadly he is allowed to. Stunning and brave.

[@moon83star30]

Probably gets off on dressing this way.

[@Jasminestealth1]

why does he have 100,000's of followers? because people like here keep talking about him! i had no clue who Dylan was till bud lite - or this person to Blair white - let weird people be weird

[@annebos4634]

And nobody, like NOBODY. AT. ALL. is attracted to this type of half-ass tr trenders.. (Except for some of his own kind, maybe. ) No wonder they become frustrated.

[@mrburgess1698]

He fools the extreme transphobes who see him as confirmation bias.

[@reneemichelle19]

“[Trans women] are guests in women’s spaces”…..this is the nicest, most respectful, well articulated way of phrasing this! You are such a gem and I love that you are so respectful and understanding to women’s feelings on this complex issue ❤

[@amaxolotl-l3s]

One of the things I have pointed out before, is that toilets only have one door for in and out leaving women incredibly vulnerable. This means women are easily trapped in a toilet. It happened to me (it was a man not a trans woman) in an empty women’s toilet once when he blocked my exit. I knew something bad was about to happen and there was nothing I could do. It was only through the intervention of my friend coming to find me that I escaped unharmed. I have seen many visibly transitioning trans women in the toilets. It doesn’t bother me at all. I always give them a smile. If someone came into the toilet visibly masculine, like this person, I would be immediately on guard.

[@doveymariedesigns8156]

@@amaxolotl-l3s 1000% this. I can not expand on what you said. This is exactly how I feel on the issue. Thank you for the way you stated it.

[@leeadamson5504]

​@amaxolotl-l3s That's what you get for allowing men to pretend to be woman by calling themselves trans....

[@autumnrosalie1167]

Turns out if you're a decent person people actually like and respect you. The only reason people are filled with hate is because it makes them think they're important enough for someone else to care about.

[@rebekahdavis5935]

@@amaxolotl-l3s Women shouldn't be expected to just psychically KNOW whether someone is safe or not. I know what people mean when they say that you intuitively know but this is not safe as a general rule and trans women need their own spaces and should ONLY be in women's spaces when personally invited by people who know and trust them and in a space where others are also comfortable. I love how accepting and loving women tend to naturally be but REALITY is a bitch and we really can't normalize bio men being in women's spaces as a general rule.

[@smudge82_]

You are the MOST LEVEL HEADED TRANS I have ever encountered. You are logical, objective, and you don’t act entitled. You are the only one who admits that you are a biological male who now you are trans woman and not the same as a biological woman. It take a lot of wisdom to think that way.

[@andreaelizabeth5494]

You should look up the Blair White project. You would adore her.

[@k_airo]

^ Marcus Dibbs and Sara Higdon too! I also used to watch Rose of Dawn a lot back when she made videos

[@neyuriiart]

Blaire White did it first, Sarah Higdon is amazing also and for trans men Buck Angel and Marcus Dibbs are all great.

[@cloudambient]

Blaire White, Marcus Dibbs, Sara Higdon, three other very level headed/normal trans people. KZbin needs more people like this. The trans community is widely misrepresented by crazy wackos.

[@JF-cd5hc]

Blair is fantastic. Big fan of her.

[@wadecrabtree8663]

Alexis, I love you. That man Josh is not trans. The facial hair, chest hair, and fake voice. He does not have dysphoria. He is mocking women - biological and trans! You are beautiful inside and out. I truly enjoy your posts.

[@mrmr4622]

This guy saying he couldnt use makeup as a man < Jeffree Star existing

[@laurazepam8382]

Men have been wearing makeup. Especially musicians. Men can wear makeup, women don't have to. Make-up doesn't equal gender/sex

[@DiZoSoMom]

And our fave fellas on Beautiful And Bothered!!

[@lecadrenoir]

Every goth guy raising hands

[@DiZoSoMom]

@@DeviMaidelights yessss!! I adore them both so much! They’re so fun and their banter and energy with each other is just so infectious! @beautifulandbothered should have Alexis on!! Omg that would be such a fun collab!!!

[@drawntowardmadness]

*Robert Welsh and Johnny Ross have entered the chat*

[@AB-pb9sz]

He’s a troll, wanting attention, “fame”, and money. It’s disgusting. You’re being too kind. LOL You’re wonderful Alexis, and absolutely beautiful inside and out!

[@matthewhauser4430]

maybe youre a troll and Jane is just a less attractive trans woman, dont hate on any trans person.

[@PiecesofmeArtistrySRBCreations]

Transitioning with some grace and class goes a very long way, and it appears that's exactly what you've done

[@audrawells1383]

Agreed! Alexis is the epitome of class!

[@ReginaTrans_]

right? everyone can sense when someone is genuine, like the first time I watched Alexis I said girl she's like me, same with other smaller transgender channels, somehow genuine trans channels dont get as much attention as not genuine channels, genuine bigger channels are Alexis Blake, Contrapoints, or Samantha Lux are other good examples, I can also tell when someone is not really trans, theres so many channels that are weird and Im like "let me guess, youre into women" and yes they are, even real trans channels like blaire white, I sense she's like a bi guy or something, something tells me blaire is not really trans idk

[@SILENTVIXXSIN]

Well said! That’s why it feels natural to use the word she when referring to Alexis 💕 I respect her views on matters such as this.

[@corissakramer6644]

Precisely! That's how I view it too. She has respect for others, especially women and that is both amazing and necessary. The selfish ones I don't believe are truly trans, the ones who don't think of others and expect everyone else to change to suit them I don't agree with because that's not respectful to women.

[@carsonjones6479]

She does seem very classy and respectful and sweet and she’s also humble she doesn’t act full of herself at all

[@TIVOSTUDIOS]

I used to chat with him everyday years ago , he jumped into every single trend u can possibly imagine, from Magic Mike when he was a stripper , then crying on camera, then advice for mental illness , then putting on weight on purpose for body positivity , then faking his own death, I blocked him , he is seriously disturbed but everything he does is always for attention trying to make money, he doesn’t talk like that , is kind of amazing how nowadays someone can be totally trolling and we still get in doubt because self identification turn transition into a circus , is really sad what he is doing , he went way further than Dylan , Dylan at least didn’t fake his personality, he always behaved like a camp gay man, but Josh is really pushing to see how far he can go doing zero effort , you need to be soulless and greedy for money in a level I just don’t get it , I wish he would go in one point and say : ah , I’m just here proving a point etc but he is not that smart , he just want to be rich and famous doesn’t matter the cost , I would feel for him because he is truly disturbed , but the amount of real trans people he is affecting with this , not to mention confusing even more teens to think they are trans when they are not , that is some evil shit right there

[@vamvam7690]

Exactly! Too many people don’t know his history but this guy has spent his entire adult life hopping from one trend and community to another, chasing fame and renoun and having very little success at it. This ‘trans’ move he’s making now is just another on the long list of attempts. The dude is gross

[@millenniafever]

No attempt to remove your beard… not trans. Period.

[@bobbiejojackson9448]

Every single legitimate Tx woman that I'm aware of has rather severe dysphoria, especially about facial and body hair. This guy even went so far as to fake his own 😵⚰ then tried to say all of his social media accounts were hacked, for attention. He's pulled more stunts than anyone I've ever seen. This is just the newest. There are videos online right now that totally dubunk him, using his own social media and interview posts, etc. You can't come away from them believing a word he says.

[@ReginaTrans_]

LMAO true , theres no way im leaving my house without shaving, I still dont have laser removal, and im like ZERO proud of my beard, I did look HOT as man with a beard, and I still have a little of that beard and all, I just dont let it grow that much!!!, and when I dont shave I just feel dirty and just lame, on the other hand I LOVE a filthy unshaved man with a 3 day beard on other men!!!, just not me like when I was 20, i wanted to be a man and I let my beard grow a few days, but if youre 30 something and still proud of your beard, honey youre proud of being a man, and thats fine, but thats not trans and thats confusing everyone, thats just allowing other straight men to become trans

[@southernsnowqueen5817]

That was what struck me as well. I would think that if a person has gender dysphoria they wouldn’t want to show any characteristics of the gender they didn’t feel aligned with. When I saw his video of a pool day and he had full on hairy stomach and chest I thought he was trolling. And there is a video where he is interviewed by another social media guy who has trolled to gain popularity and the guy called him out and he didn’t have much of a response. I think he saw how famous Dylan became and wanted some of the fame and imitated.

[@AvitaB]

yup any face hair is a man chest hair? meh also a man at least try to look lady like if you claim to be trans female. This is basically the same bs dylan mulvaney does pretending/acting.

[@ccgrey8731]

100 percent! No trans woman wants facial hair let alone chest hair.

[@hedgehogf98]

He gives me the same vibes as Dylan Mulvaney; he’s doing this for attention and monetary gain. These people really do a disservice to actual transgender people like you. You’re honestly a breath of fresh air, I value your perspective on these topics and love your channel! xx

[@tara_anil]

heyy. i dont think josh is trans. but dylan i wouldnt say that. i think dylan is a valid trans girl and i mean sure shes annoying but thats just what she is and actually does stuff that helps trans ppl but yea thats my opinion. have a great day!

[@hedgehogf98]

@@tara_anil I don’t quite see it that way but I respect your opinion! ^.^ Hope you have a good day too :)

[@keyboarddancers7751]

DM & JS have both made a fool out of all those who gave ANY sort of credence to the concept of a man 'becoming' a woman.

[@lindaberglund9253]

This is not just a mockery to all Trans women... This is generally an insult to all women!! Shame shame shame on you Josh!

[@BloodSweatandFears]

Exactly, this guy is making fun of all of us.

[@rebeccaspellmeyer5761]

TransgurlKyle is SO much worse.

[@leldesaulite-rozite]

Agreed for 💯

[@tosheatower]

The entire trans movement is a mockery of women. For a man to say they "feel" like a woman because they like pink, Barbie, make-up and dresses is, in and of itself, completely offensive to womanhood. As if that's all there is to being a woman - superficial attachments to gender stereotypes. I'm completely done with this topic. There is no such thing as trans, just men who can't step up to fulfill their role in society and therefore prefer to pretend to be women. Ridiculous.

[@galileodos4329]

Yeah, my take is that he is making a mockery of the trans-activists from tiktok, who are originally making a mockery of women first and foremost, and transwomen that just want to coexist in peace without changing the world for them. So he's mocking literally everyone, even men I'd say...

[@i_dot_n_hot7291]

Alexis, I love that top! Josh is a troll, Dylan Mulvaney 2.0. The clown makeup gets me too.

[@vamvam7690]

Josh literally looks like the stereotype of the _’conservative man pretending to be a trans woman for comedy’_ trope (like what JP Sears does) I can’t take him seriously with how he looks, acts and speaks 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@vamvam7690]

He literally looks like the stereotype of the _’conservative man pretending to be a trans woman for comedy’_ trope (like what JP Sears does) I can’t take him seriously with how he looks, acts or speaks 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@luisventura8592]

I'm gonna go ahead and call it like it is...HE IS A TROLL!!!!!!!!!! It's infurating

[@JadeEyes1]

Reminds me of the "trans" shop teacher with the MASSIVE fake breasts. 4chan revealed that he was never trans at all: he was actually a conservative straight guy, doing it to give trans people a bad name. (And people STILL mention it as an example of trans people being gross and weird.)

[@cartergomez5390]

Yeah 100%

[@andeyB14]

You are a racist discriminating!

[@mrburgess1698]

100% and I don’t believe the bathroom incident happened, he made it up to spark outage. His upset acting was so fake.

[@suesmith8326]

Alexis this is my first video of yours. I’m so glad you popped up. You are so respectful and intelligent.

[@JenniferMcMahonhawaii78]

Alexis, it’s like they're mocking trans individuals; it seems pretty blatant.

[@kevinr1282]

Or grifting Dylan Mulvaney, which is much needed.

[@mespb]

This person has a history of trying to get attention. They are continually trying to get attention and making the trans people look bad.

[@audrawells1383]

That's what Amala Ekpunobi says about him too. One theory is that he's doing it to make the trans community look bad. But I think one thing everyone on all sides can agree on is that he's not genuinely trans.

[@ReginaTrans_]

everytime I see a straight man becoming a trans athlete, or lactating, or having periods and all those things that real transgenders wont do, I feel like they transitioned to make us look bad , I genuinely think that

[@wendystroh7099]

They're mocking both trans women and women alike.

[@bobbicrum7500]

Alexis, you always handle yourself with such grace and class. I can't imagine what this journey has been like for you, but it is sad to see individuals like "J" make things harder for you and all the trans community.

[@TheArielski]

This is so outrageous that I wonder if he/she is pranking us. Unlike you, Alexis, a beautiful trans woman.

[@jollygirl94]

He is known to troll. He tried to flirt with Gypsy Rose to get his 15min of fame. He wants attention so much that he rides on the trends-gender train. But tbh, many trends-activists are like him, they don’t transition but they just want clout, fame and invade female’s space.

[@soltantio]

Also notice that Alexis does not look like a caricature of a woman. She does not present in an exaggerated way

[@trishbell4409]

I believe he's pranking...

[@lornocford6482]

​@@soltantiomaybe not to you, but most people can see he's a man acting what he thinks a woman is while having an entitled attitude that he can go into female only spaces, but another man can't. No men should be in female only spaces.

[@tracyrepman609]

I have been watching you videos for awhile and you are one of the few that let us women be women. I find you to be a shinning example of how this could be acceptable for all. You are smart and beautiful and from the bottom of my heart thank you. I gladly accept you for who you are and wish you nothing but happiness.

[@vithanatopraxie]

I feel sorry that these actions often cast a shadow on the real, respectful, and logical members of the trans community like yourself, Alexis. It must be incredibly frustrating to see such behaviors overshadow the true struggles and experiences of real trans people. It seems like their actions are more about seeking attention or creating chaos rather than genuinely being part of the trans experience.

[@jenniferplatts174]

Well said Alexis is pure class, and just so respectful. This Josh is cosplaying, trying to outdo Dylan M. Parodying trans for sure too. What an embarrassing man he is.

[@itsneverfull5377]

Alexis you speak so eloquently and are the voice of reason in these very confusing times. ❤

[@torij518]

Looking very glam, Alexis! I also don't believe for a second that Josh is transgender.

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you so much and it's defo an odd situation isn't it! x

[@torij518]

@@Alexis_blake00 Hi Alexis, hope you’re well! There’s a video about Josh on Brett Cooper’s YT channel. It’s absolutely unhinged!! Definitely worth a watch, because it talks about his previous behaviours, which include faking his own death, and inventing a fictional husband. It really puts his current behaviours into perspective. Certainly seems like he’s trolling the Trans community for attention, and it’s reprehensible.

[@sherryviolet5354]

He is not trans. He is a cross dresser. I adore you Alexis!

[@storybored73]

Yea this is a dude looking for attention because the reality show didn't get him there.

[@austingode]

Because he’s repulsive 🤮..

[@Maurie58]

Rejected (in a way) by women on a TV show and you now do THIS?! Not fooling anybody.

[@vamvam7690]

Exactly…the reality show and the other 1000 things he’s tried and failed at to get famous. Dudes a chump 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@BlueCollarRedneckLife]

He is the reason I had trust issues with Trans women and trans men. He just seems like he is trolling hard and it is not fair to trans women like you. And honestly Alexis, you helped me so much feel comfortable again with trans people and thank you for that ❤. I had a scary experience with a man who claimed to be trans and it broke all my trust until I came across a short of yours and started watching you. You are a wonderful and amazing person ❤❤

[@trinahughes1230]

I agree 100%, I'm calling bullshit on this guy what's his name Josh ? He's only doing this shit for attention, negative comments & views make a lot of money... sad truth...

[@user-cm5tv3qg8o]

Thank you Alexis for being a voice of reason and sanity for the trans community.

[@rwheels3]

That is not a trans woman, that is a man pure and simple. He is entitled to wear whatever clothing and makeup he likes, that’s fine and I support that. If I was around him I would even say “have fun,” it’s clothing and make up who cares. But, he likes having facial and body hair and admits he doesn’t have body dysphoria, then he is a man not a trans woman, and absolutely does not have the right to use women’s single sex spaces. This person definitely has some mental health stuff going on, but is not transgender. I hope he gets the help he needs. If that involves expressing himself with makeup and more “traditionally feminine” clothing, great, enjoy, but none of that makes him a trans woman. Alexis, I love you, your content, your personality, and that you try so hard to be fair and nice. Keep doing you 💚💙❤️

[@ertyuiiknbvcx]

Check your words, body dysphoria does not exist, and if it did exist it would have meant the pain of having body dysmorphia i think, in other words in this setting in a biological male a deep pain being incel while feeling they are Chad, or something similar, and probably never would have had makeup and female clothes because that would increase it.. I think you mean gender dysphoria, and that is the pain of having gender incongruence.

[@vamvam7690]

@@ertyuiiknbvcxto be fair, body dysmorphia and gender dysphoria can overlap. They are different things of course but they can overlap too

[@ertyuiiknbvcx]

@@vamvam7690 After further investigation body dysphoria does exist. Not the same as gender dysphoria

[@johnsartain4773]

You speak so much sense and this is so refreshing . X

[@08jerrilyn]

I love how down to earth you are! ❤❤❤❤

[@Bummerdrummer463]

Agree, Alexis has a great attitude

[@aznaturegirl]

Shes a class act ♡

[@brandiedevoe6464]

You are truly amazing with how you present your content, you are respectful, kind, and you have such a positive nature that makes people want to keep coming back for more.

[@That_dark_ranger]

Probably could be trans because that word means nothing anymore. But definitely not transsexual.

[@maryistulsafox]

👍🏻

[@Alexis_blake00]

Yes! 💖

[@G.D.G.]

True! So many men just decide one day they are a women. Its a parody for them.

[@sufferable]

I'm a straight woman and I've been a follower of yours for a while. I do admire the way you express yourself and respect women and their feelings. I agree with everything you say here. Disagreeing with someone who is (or says they are) transgender, doesn't make you transphobic. Because that's what you will get branded! I support you in your journey. Carry on speaking out.

[@MonicaSpauldingfreelance]

I get the trolling ick. I really feel this is a troll and mocking

[@jollygirl94]

He’s a troll, he’s not trans 😅 but essentially that’s what trends-gender are, they’re getting clout.

[@spacedimensia]

Genuinely love your opinions and your voice in this. A genuine person trying to share some common sense in these wild times. Thank you so much, I wish you had even half as many ears on you as people who are trying to aggravate and upset, rather than use grace and reason in the way you do to handle difficult topics like these. I often find that it only leads to people shutting down and being unaccepting, when you don't want to meet them halfway and open the dialogue. You do a wonderful job, ma'am, thank you so much.

[@einat1622]

Thank you (again). Your voice is so important.

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thanks for listening

[@janblackkat7607]

Love you Alexis!, the voice of reason in a crazy world. So glad you are here. I respect you a lot. You have put yourself out here and taken a lot of crap and still keep on moving forward! That can't always be easy. I appreciate your bravery and wish you many blessings on your journey!❤love from Vancouver Island BC Canada 🇨🇦

[@jakeeblades9423]

People are lovely towards you because of the laws of attraction. A lovely person can only attract loveliness and you are very lovely inside and out. Love your content.

[@Elstro1988]

Not relevant to the video content I know; but I was very fortunate to meet Alexis at pride recently and she was incredibly lovely and even more beautiful in person!

[@arkhamassassin13]

I just want to say thank you for all you do Alexis. I love your content because you aren't afraid to speak up for real trans women but more importantly you aren't afraid to speak up for us biological women as well. Everything you say lines up so well with my thoughts and gives me a sense of "is OK to think this way" instead of being made to feel guilty or transphobic for having those thoughts. I really appreciate you so much.

[@audrawells1383]

Everyone should watch what Amala Ekpunobi said about him on her channel. One possibility (among others) is that he is conservative, and he is only pretending to be trans in order to mock trans people, and to try to prove that being trans is ridiculous, manipulative, and wrong. Amala is a conservative youtuber, so some of her content is not very trans friendly, so just be aware of that if you do go to her channel, but she is incredibly intelligent, and I think she does a fantastic job of forming her own opinions based on facts, and not just repeating the ideas and opinions she's heard from other people.

[@leelaa219]

Agreed. Plus she's never disrespectful.

[@JadeEyes1]

Reminds me of the "trans" shop teacher with the MASSIVE fake breasts. 4chan revealed that he was never trans at all: he was actually a conservative straight guy, doing it to give trans people a bad name.

[@katherinemurphy2762]

I really don't think he's trolling to prove anything. I think he's honestly messed up in the head and dying for attention. When he said, "I like my body and facial hair," that said all I needed to hear. I am a straight woman who has empathy for those going through dysphoria, but I don't think someone who is truly dysphoric would ever utter those words.

[@zitawaterhouse6408]

I agree that she is very smart and intelligent and is very fact based, however, I do feel she doesn't point out enough people such as Alexis when describing a trans POV. She seems to only extract the negative people that do the trans community no favours. I love how you have wrote this and seem so respectful and unbiased and will defo be taking a look on her take of Seiter ❤

[@tara_anil]

@@leelaa219 actually i wouldnt say that bc amala is actually quite transphobic as a trans girl myself but thats how i feel have a great day

[@obsolete.melancholy]

I used to think I had gender dysphoria, but after enough self-reflection, I realized that it wasn't being female that I hated. What I resented were the things I felt incapable of doing because I was born a woman. I've come to accept my limitations and am grateful that I did not take any drastic actions during that period. While I can't fully understand the experiences of the trans community, I hope that those who feel 'confused' can find the clarity they are seeking

[@shatteredabby964]

Thank you Alexis for being so understanding and respectful of us. I can say that I have clocked more than one Trans woman in a public bathroom but you could tell they were mid transition and often nervous. No one there ever said anything mean to them. We treated them like we do each other. However, If I was in one and this one or another like that walked in I would tell them to leave immediately. This one isn't even really trying. And is insulting to both Trans women and women. Also I have a little facial hair and despise it. Every woman I know Trans or born shaves, lasers, bleaches, and plucks. None of Us like facial hair. And Chest hair. Oh hell no. It happens occasionally just one or two and every time the one who has it is so ashamed.

[@colleenbucholtz3310]

Thank you for your commentary. I had come across their videos and wanted to know what the community was thinking but couldn't ask. You are always so down to earth and professional about your experience. I am so happy for you and your journey.

[@Hooperjz78]

Woooow, first, your outfit/hair *gorgeous! ❤ Second, you are always so sweet and sensible. You said you got "heated" but any annoyance was warranted. If I walked into a bathroom/ toilet with my stepdaughter i wouldn't even bat an eye if you were passing through. If J did I would absolutely be alarmed. Big difference!

[@Alexis_blake00]

awww thank you so much

[@rebekahdavis5935]

This vid made me subscribe. THANK YOU so much for having class, integrity, honesty and in general for being SANE and considering bio women's safety as well in all this. It's getting rough out there for women...

[@carolsimpson623]

I am confused. First she says she has no body dysphoria and then later says she has anxiety about her body and voice. I don't get it.

[@RostriBeng]

Sorry, not a she. He's a cosplaying dude.

[@Emilyprowell]

I don’t like him and I don’t want to defend him that’s not what I’m doing but I don’t have body dysphoria but I can still feel anxiety about parts of my body, theres correlate and causation.

[@ChelleKT1]

Feeding into this madness by calling them she when clearly this man is creating a persona based on trend, it’s actually more harmful to true transgender individuals.

[@suesmall5595]

He's not transitioning..... he's cosplaying.

[@VaunShiz]

Fact

[@lornocford6482]

Humans can't change sex, so they're all cosplaying.

[@jessicamaier2023]

Please continue with a part 2. I actually got emotional when you were speaking about the restroom. The simple fact that you get it, you understand and you have always been the voice of reason just allows me to be more open and accepting of people who are different from myself. I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart. You bring light and love to the world and I thank God that your channel happened to come onto my feed. I don't think that was an accident.

[@lornocford6482]

It's because of trans identifying men like Alexis that other men can go into female only spaces. If any man is allowed in, all men are allowed in. If this Alexis actually cared about the feelings and safety of women and children they wouldn't go into female only spaces and they'd be speaking out against those who do.

[@kathyburville2170]

Thank you so much for this. This person (Jay) showed up on my feed today and I was so confused. I am so glad you discussed him. More Please. I just found your account yesterday and I love you, the way you explain things and help me to be respectful to the trans community. You are so lovely.

[@charlieconnolly3869]

I am a woman with big boobs, and I have been begging my doctor to get a breast reduction, but they have refused every single time, even though they weigh a tonne, my back is buggered and it causes me mental stress. The latest visit was me asking again, and being told no, again, to then being asked if I wanted to transition, from being my usual tomboy self, then they could get it done. I felt phyisically sick at the thought (my trans friends lost their crap when I told them) I am just me, a geeky heavy metal loving tomboy lesbian, I wear baggy clothes cause my chest makes me look big, but I am really not, so I just drown myself in baggy geeky tshirts and jeans, with a hoodie on, and the hood up 90% of the time, I was classed as woke till I asked one of my closest friends to please stop calling me a cis woman, and being called a terf for the request, I am all for people being whoever and whatever they want too be, but I already have enough labels as it is, without being slapped with something that I genuingly feel is an insult, I actually phoned a few of my trans friends (been there since before they transitioned even when their familes disowned them and the surgeries, caused a mini fight in the hospital ward when I said hey dude, I bought you some flowers, chocolates and a cute bear to cuddle while you sleep and heal up from your surgerys, some people said, you cant call a trans woman dude (I call like everyone dude or bawbag, depending how my adhd brain is feeling) my friend was like no no no, she calls everyone dude, she is like the only person that has stood by me during all this, our girliest girl in our friends group is even called dude, so chill out before she lays you all out in self defence, once everyone calmed down I apploigised to everyone for having my foot in my mouth, as I call everyone dude, I even call my neices lil dudes, cause I just got stuck calling everyone dude (90's kid), so being called a terf caused a part of me to go, hang on a minute, I thought we were the good guys, and vocal with how we feel and react to words, just because I dont like being called something, and ask nicely to not be called it, I am public enemy number 1, so I kind of get frustated with people doing crap like that and wanting us to just bend to their will, some of my friends went through years of therapy, before even being allowed to start hrts and get surgeries, to seeing trans women with beards and chest hair demanding everyone to let them come into the womens bathroom and, the trans friends I do have refused to leave their flats when they started transitioning, because they didnt want anyone to clock them as being trans, they are even scratching their heads and sighing in frustration at all this craziness, as they call it, they are constantly saying being trans isnt the next cool thing, its a real mental issue that causes us too litulery want to crawl out of our skin in to the actual sex we aligne with (the talks get heated if anyone mentioned Dylan or Jeffery, I have seen drinks thrown and friends fall out for ages because of those people) seeing these people pretty much taking the piss out of a real issue is down right disgusting for the people who have worked tirelessly to be the actual sex they aligne with. I refuse to even let J come up, because fists will proabaly go through doors and walls and drinks thrown and smashed. All I have to say to these people is please get some professional mental health help, and please stop making the real trans people look and sound crazy, I accept, respect and love everyone, but please stop calling me cis, I will call you whatever you want too be called, but please do not slap a term on me that I did not ask for, I dont care what country, religion, colour and height anyone is, if you ask me to call you by a pronoun or nickname, cool, no problem, but, please dont force labels on me, I did not want or ask for, I have and will respect you, so why cant you, respect me in return?

[@Hooperjz78]

@@charlieconnolly3869 yeah my husband calls pretty much everyone brother (not me obviously) but this caused a HUGE problem in NOLA two years ago. I'm still mad at myself. The person in question was bald with a Halloween costume dress on (it was Halloween) and melted down when my guy said jovially, of course brother! He ended up showing us his lipstick and his dress as "proof" poor hubs was just confused and also like yeah ok. No disrespect. I get mad at myself because yeah I'm bi (never felt accepted in the "community") but I ended up chastising him as we rushed out the shop. I've apologized but still feel badly that I didn't have his back at that moment :( *I also do not want to be referred to as cis.

[@LadyDiana1956]

Thank You for sharing your story. The world has gone crazy.

[@charlieconnolly3869]

@@Hooperjz78 my friends are like family too me, I have stopped then ending their lives and showed them, I will not let them walk this earth alone, I am all for letting people be who they want too be, but there are too many trans people that are not trans and actually need psychotherapy help, I dont want people ending their lives too soon because a mistake was made physically, that will cause problems physically, mentally, and emotionally in the future, being trans isnt a bad thing, but being pushed and told you are, when in actuality you are not, makes my friends worried, sad anx frustrated at the hoops they jumped through too be able to transition, but at the same time, they know why they had too and are actually thankful and greatful it wasnt easy for them, they know it takes time, amd they know it is a life long commitment of hrt and check ups and well as having to dialate for hours at a time (one of them had complications during surgery and she has to dialate every day for the rest of her life) it scares them how young they are able to access blockers and hrt, sure they wanted to transition fast, but they know why they could not, because mentally they themselves had to know and prepare for a life long battle with I hope no one notices I am trans (the arguments when they hear someone call themselves trans nonbinarys is insane!) Everyday our little friends group grows, and everyday we see nothing but hate from both sides, we see both sides slinging shit at the other and shouting, but the ones willing too listen are on neither side and are the minority, my friends are my family I have stopped them ending their lives and hurting themselves even more than they have already done, we all show love and support, too the others and we would all die for each other now, I see beyond skin, to the person and human, they are my beautiful family from another mother and mister too me, sure we argue and fall out sometimes (I have been sober for almost 12 years now) cleaned up blood and taken them in when they were kicked out of their real family (one or two of my friends were beaten and stabbed by blood relitives for coming out as trans) I heve shown them family is not always blood, and I am more than willing to be the big sister to everyone that needs it or wants it (serioualy I have soooo many extended neices and nephews on top of blood neices and nephews, that they all know I love them all equally and would gladly do time and die for each and everyone of them, sure we all look weird and our sense of humour is definately not pg, but too us we have perfect lives (there is no perfection without imperfection!)

[@marie-michelleanderson2851]

He IS NOT a trans woman!!!? He makes me so angry!

[@moosedawg71]

That's insane to me that you can't get a breast reduction because it's messing up your back, but yet they'll cut off little girls' breast at the drop of a hat!! I'm guessing you're not in the US. Though I don't know how it is now, but it used to be pretty easy to get breast reductions here when you were over a certain size and most definitely when it starts effecting your back. And then ask you if you're trans?! UGH! The sad thing is, if you said you were, they probably would've scheduled you asap. I hate what wokeness has done to our healthcare!

[@faithyg3]

So eloquently put. I could listen to you all day. Also, you are very beautiful. Welcome to the sisterhood 😊

[@ThinWhiteAxe]

Sassy Alexis is best Alexis 😂

[@MandyKat416]

You are absolutely lovely. Thank you for such a respectful, genuine analysis and commentary. I really appreciate your video.

[@aznaturegirl]

Alexis, you are soo classy, gentle and kind... Beautiful inside and out. ♡

[@333-u9o]

This Josh dude is just mocking women and trans women. Alexis - I think you're absolutely beautiful 💓 New subscriber here after watching you and Buck Angel 🙃 All my love and blessings from Germany.

[@laurap5445]

I couldn't agree with your point of view more Alexis ❤😊

[@singingscience]

Well, thank god for makeup andl clothes, ladies! However would we express ourselves without them?! 😂😂😂 Alexis, you're a gem. I hope you are truly as happy as you seem and that your journey continues beautifully! ❤

[@get2rog]

Thank you! I have been saying for several years now that transexuality is body dysmorphia. Most today are what some have labelled 'transtrenders'. Culturally popular at this time. Through wirking in clubs in the nineties, in particular a very famous club in Soho whish sadly is no longer, I have known many drag qwueens and trans people, two of which I am still good friends with. Both transitioned thirty odd years ago and have been living normal lives as successful women. They have no delusions of their biological makeup and as with most transexuals simply want to get on with their lives. I was talking with one of those friends a couple of months back and she was surprised when I told her before she fully transitioned I always felt she was constantly in distress. She couldn't bare to look at her genitals and always sat down to pee. Maybe a bit too much info but when I see some of these influence parading around sexualising everything and wantienly drawing attention to themselves it is the exact opposite of what I had seen and know. Maybe it's partly to do with times changing, social media etc, but surely the fundimental feeling of a truly trans person suffering from dysphoria, identity crisis etc, does the exact opposite. Wearing being trans as a badge of honour while victimising people and at the same time claiming to be the victim is anything but, a whole different thing, with some using it for 'predatory purposes', to get transfered to female prisons or to win medals. It only serves to harm the trans community just as 'queer'/gay activism is harming the gay community of which as a man who just happens to be gay I've noticed a subtle undercurrent of homophobia building. Something I haven't felt since growing up in the 70/80's. I wish I could some of the more outspoken individuals back in time gay and/or trans to experience what it was like growing up in the 70/80's. Incidentally to most my age using the word 'queer' is highly offensive and ironically taken over by a predominantly straight individuals who have hijacked the LGBT community and bastardised it. Went off on a bit of a rant there but it was good to get it off my chest. 🙃

[@jackiebond1146]

You are so down to earth and truthful. Love ya ❤

[@DiZoSoMom]

A few weeks ago I made the comment that people faking being trans or having various issues just for attention was a cancer on society as it does nothing but hurt people really struggling with those issues. A lady LOST HER MIND on me that no one would “fake being trans for attention” and that I was horribly rude. Ladies and gents, I give you exhibit A. My comment back was “I have a daughter with OCD, Tourette’s, and body dysmorphia. I have whitenesses people online and in person pretend to have all three for attention. People can be assholes under any umbrella”. It was somewhat satisfying as she had no comeback for that, but jeeez. It’s like it’s peoples first day on the internet lol

[@jono718]

That man is absolutely taking the P!$$. Love you though for considering both sides of that story. You however are totally working it, even if people do occasionally clock you, when something is right it's right. Someone somewhere should absolutely take you on as a trans spokesperson, just a down to earth, level headed, practical approach to the transition journey that just screams intelligence and experience. Keep it up Alexis, your audience adores you!

[@jenmurphy7777]

The dead name proves BS for me. He's asking people to be respectful and not call him by his dead name, but he won't even change it on his socials himself.

[@misstoasted2525]

I love to see your long form content,, so refreshing your respectful and logical that beyond appreciated 👏 I have a few trans friends who all feel the same way you do.

[@christineride1301]

I feel like he's trolling the fakers out there who pretend to be trans but never do anything to transition. If I see a trans woman walk into the restroom and I can see that the person is truly trying I have no issue but if Josh walked in looking exactly like a man in a dress then I would have an issue. Love Alexis

[@leannepryde8876]

Part 2 ❤ please... thank goodness. What you said makes complete sense, and I'm glad I'm not the only one thinking it.

[@teresachill]

I greatly appreciate your opinion content. Thank you.

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you so much

[@redb.5533]

You always slay with the outfits and accessories!! Sorry but the opening with the nails grabbed me, then notice the rings and everything! Super elegant

[@sara073e]

I came here from Buck Angels video 🩷 Love from Sweden.

[@saraha2009]

I will admit that I don't fully understand the ins and outs of being transgender but Alexis, in your respectful and kind way you have shown me your perspective and I appreciate that. You really are educating. I appreciate that you've never attacked me as a woman. People like Josh are making a mockery of who I and my daughter are. The video where he supposedly told a little boy at a park that someday he might grow up and be a woman made me sick. It's beyond inappropriate to have such conversations with a random child.

[@jhgpeng-26374]

It doesn’t feel like this person is genuine trans if they’re not suffering from the crippling dysphoria that comes with it. I’m with you in that if they passed better, there would be less upset, but as they don’t and appear as a very tall, well built man, I can understand why the woman with her daughter was upset, like you mentioned.

[@sarahdickinson7439]

I couldn't love you any more, Alexis! You are so down to earth, honest and straight talking. Keep being your refreshing self ♥️🥰😘

[@carsonjones6479]

The way he’s saying he looks better than 99% of the people is so narcissistic and just gross behavior

[@crazynanaailese]

I don't understand how these scammers think we can't see the difference. I'm always glad when you confirm my feelings. You are amazing. Thank you❤

[@DTidiman]

I’m with you. I think he is taking the piss x

[@annamossity8879]

If he can’t be bothered, “just didn’t want to go through all that”, with the make up, he is not at all committed. Needing to be-possibly. And the eyebrows, don’t get me started! Love you, Alexis! ❤

[@jojowynne233]

He’s disrespecting Trans women and women. How dare he do that to a woman with a child. He’s selfish. They were crocodile tears Alexis. He was so fake. Another fame hoar that will give the community a bad reputation. Luckily there are good role models like yourself. willing to speak the truth in a very polite and fair manner. You’re so sweet. ❤❤

[@SoyyodavidZzxy]

The umbrella term trans is so wide it is blocking the sun, not just the rain

[@crzydazie4292]

I am so glad I found your channel. Your intelligence, beauty and grace have helped me to understand the difference between trans women and whatever that is that you were discussing today. I don't personally know anyone who is trans and you have helped to educate me. I'm sorry that there is so much ridiculousness online that only serves to hurt the trans community in the long run. Keep up the good fight. P.S. Liam is wonderful as well. I would love to have you two as next door neighbors! You guys are a credit to the Pride community.

[@miniscenesgb]

Surely that's transvestite rather than transgender? Forgive my ignorance. And I agree, it's just a publicity stunt. Again I feel that people like that are such bad for the acceptance of the trans community :(

[@Vic82toire]

Alexis, you are so gracious and kind. What a breath of fresh air.

[@lisahesse6783]

There is another video out there by a GG she showed that he is totally fake. He is not trans. 😅

[@nancyvalentine5923]

I really appreciate that you make so much sense in a world when nothing does. I think if most trans people thought and acted like you 90% of the world would have no problem with trans

[@louleg23]

This must be so frustrating for you Alexis. Even IF their motives are genuine, this person's actions are still incredibly self-centred, with no care for any damage they do to the trans community. I think you hit the nail on the head, re the woman's reaction in the bathroom. If you can see someone's made the effort and are taking their transition *seriously* people are generally (I hope) going to be fine with it. But walking into a women's loos with so little effort / preparation - just chucking on a dress.... I'm sorry, my first instinct would be that it was either some sort of crass Stag Party prank - or worse, deliberately trolling. Re this person overall - all my instincts say they are taking the proverbial and stirring for attention.

[@jordanfromtheecity]

I appreciate the fact that you respect women's feelings as well as living how you want to live and not just being selfish like the trolls of the trans community. Not everyone is young and comfortable with the trans movement,some of us are old school and though we don't judge people on how they live their lives to suddenly have to share bathrooms,changing areas etc,with fully intact "trans women"is quite scary. I hope i worded that properly and didn't offend anyone If I did i apologise i meant no harm by that statement,it's just how a lot of people i know feel and myself. I do want to say though i think you are very beautiful and very intelligent. I am also from the UK

[@1800MDGAF]

He's trolling for sure coming after those who mock trans people as well as women.

[@hairul78]

Alexis, you really showed poise and grace despite being affected by the content your were discussing. To call that guy a trans woman is disrespectful towards trans women like yourself who are out here letting us know more about your journey, both the good and the bad. You are an authentic trans educator to many of us. Much respect to you.

[@sarahgamson8828]

Their videos give me such an uncomfortable feeling 😳

[@Alexis_blake00]

This is what Liam said when I showed him - we talk about it on the next podcast - stay tuned!

[@CaroMary07]

love your vids, in the nicest possible way, how you are handling things reminds me of my husbands PA in the 80's who transitioned in the late 70's. Jane was a great person and very much loved by my baby son .

[@wendyross7206]

He's obviously acting ...so badly might i add!

[@byanyothername-1]

Also sweetie, I just discovered your channel and I'm totally in love now with it and you!❤ You're beautiful and a great person,...... not to represent the trans community, not to represent whatever alphabet club is going on today, but to represent yourself and be a great role model for young trans girls out there! So proud of you!!😊

[@Alexis_blake00]

Awww thank you so much - welcome ❤️

[@JustASock-el6ct]

Love your content 😍🥰🥰

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thank you!!

[@amymjennings]

Dear Alexis Totally understand, and Im a 33 year old Trans woman and not so struggling artist, my circumstances are not dissimilar to yours, and I chose to have everything done and done right. Gosh almost ten years now since the surgery zero regrets being the fully whole t woman I am today thanks to 2 years of medical transition period in 2016 in Montreal, and now delight in getting the full support of my family and most of my old friends and a loving boyfriend ❤ So glad that legitimate Trans Women get what to do , but the ♂️ is flailing about trying to make it worse not better for us legit trans ♀️ ♂️ people.I see your famiy raised you proper, right proud of you girlfriend! You and your hunny have a lovely August! See ya later girl xoxo! Amy Jett Jennings PS Born in Manchester but raised in Canada and Amsterdam Netherlands, on vacation in America with my boyfriend from here,vits a big change from Europe but loads of fun.😊 🎉

[@GastlyusedHex]

oh...the opening of "some trans women have gender dysphoria and some don't" really just...boiled my blood. This is so disgusting towards actual trans women and what they go through.

[@JF-cd5hc]

It does more damage that that, to folks who have actual gender dysphoria.

[@themikaylashow1987]

When I came out, it was a choice between suicide or transitioning. I'm now 51 months on hormones, recently had breast augmentation and I've had my updated birth certificate delivered

[@karenmurray351]

My heart goes out to genuine trans people. These people are not worth the airtime with many just being attention seeking. Allegedly this is not the first direction he has taken for attention. You go girl #Alexis ❤

[@KitschKiss-pi8wp]

He just wants money. That is it. It doesn't matter how he gets it. He's coming over catty deliberately. That's the point. It attracts more followers and so more money

[@kathleenparker9297]

Makes me wonder what type of people would follow and cheer him on.😳😬🤔

[@Samantha-ur5ks]

Okay stop denying their identity it's silly wheather they're trans or not it sets a bad precedent please leave if your not gonna give someone atleast enough respect to call them pronouns they've said they don't like even if you think they're lying I'm not saying embrace them but it's just basic respect...

[@KitschKiss-pi8wp]

I'm staying here, I like Alexis. Pronouns belong to the speaker. I observe a man so I'm using he for this Josh bloke. I see Alexis and I see femininity. I feel comfortable as the speaker, so I am happy to say she for Alexis. There is no obligation for my speech to be coerced in a private or anonymous forum. Sadly our speech is coerced in public society

[@KitschKiss-pi8wp]

@kathleenparker9297 I'm just about to start my Doctorate in Counselling psychology and have become obsessed with the personality types drawn to mimicking the transsexual community (so those with actual gender dysphoria, like Alexis). Equally fascinated by the types of - mostly middle-aged women and vulnerable teens - who enable them.

[@kathleenparker9297]

@@KitschKiss-pi8wp have a great journey in your new endeavors.

[@chenaniahblue6964]

I know I've said this before on one (or more) of your other videos, but I love that you so fully differentiate between woman and trans woman. I understand some people not wanting to make their birth gender known in today's climate but if you're going to be a spokes person for these sorts of topics, there needs to be an understanding on all sides; there are things in being trans woman that I have never experienced and will never be able to fully understand. There are experiences in being a woman that a trans woman will never fully understand. That does not make either one of them less significant. It's just the way it is. I feel like this person "Jay" reminds me so much of one of my siblings who started wearing dresses and make up and instantly went to "I'm a woman now." Like not only is that disrespectful to me, as a cisgender woman who has has to deal with being a woman her whole life and very specific experiences in my young girlhood (that they witnessed as a male), but it also feels like a slap in the face to transgender men and women who have gone through some much time, and money, and pain, to transition so they feel right and good inside their bodies. Thank you for making these videos. They are so educating and helpful while still being respectful and vulnerable

[@timothycrespin6836]

He’s just doing it for likes and trying to be internet famous any way possible. He’s just a fake doing for likes. I’m sorry this guy is just so awful and a troll. He has no interest in trans and is a total hypocrite