Is MONOGAMY Just a Fantasy in Modern Relationships? | Esther Perel

[@psi23k]

We have never been more free and we've never been more alone. That hits.

[@user-xs5dp4gw8e]

11:08 conflict is part of relationships. fighting for: care and closeness (do you have my back), respect and recognition (do you value me), power and control (who's priorities matter more).

[@billseward2274]

And as soon as conflict happens, someone bails. The partners are hurt and miserable. The family breaks up. Outcomes for children decline. I don’t think this “freedom” is a 100% good thing. It’s good that someone doesn’t have to be stuck in a bad relationship, but we need to learn that a conflict in relationship doesn’t automatically mean breakup.

[@natillefoxy9881]

And that's why I choose to have two men in my life. I also don't want to live with a man as it gives me the freedom to be my own person.

[@Strathom1]

Love Esther, she puts the relationship things in perspective and tells real stories, she has experienced in her job.❤

[@BorneoCicada]

I’ve been monogamous in my 3 relationships and in celibacy for 26 years out of the 35 I’ve been on Earth. The key is to have worked in desire, lust and ego in previous incarnations, folks. Meaning that if you start in this one, you won’t have to do it in your next ones. You’re welcome. Liberate yourselves 🙏

[@riccardoc1711]

We live and have lived many lifetimes but we are experiencing just this one. We had many love stories but we long only for this one. There is only this one moment, all the time, everywhere. There is only this one love all the time, everywhere. If you understand, you understand. If you dont, it doesn’t matter. There is nothing to understand here.

[@kuman9536]

Wow - so deep, insightful , life lesson.

[@GreatnessClips]

Thank you for tuning in! 🙂

[@kamilaledoux9849]

Soulmates have tight knots ❤ love is forever, if it’s love

[@Femme9Wisdom]

The realest thing I’ve heard in a while

[@camillegallagher7828]

Love her! And love the Litter Robot! Lol

[@ligiasommers]

Amazing!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💝

[@rachelross5829]

One person at a time😂

[@helenrussell1434]

So your saying it’s ok to have 2 lovers at the same time

[@Strathom1]

Yes, why not? May be not at the exact same time.😉🙋‍♂️

[@helenrussell1434]

@ We are all different, some of us are one person at a time and others can juggle two.

[@lak1294]

No, she said 1 partner at a time, but possibly more than 1 relationship over a lifetime. People live much longer than in the past. It's hard to keep a marriage going for 30 years or more.

[@joesoap8125]

That’s a reinterpretation that is good for you and possibly painful for the other. Do u expect them to stay?

[@Ribirs]

I agree we should have the thought „I am not special“ although, I do want to have a traditional marriage, and I do not want my partner sleeping around neither thinking that way about someone else. Because I wouldnt do that! We have free will, you can stop a thought. So its easy!

[@immers2410]

FAE, ie, no giving the other the benefit of the doubt

[@loo9407]

I keep trying to tell my wife 😂😂😂 jk

[@xvgxjimop1234]

another great video, if this makes you tick read 'Magnetic Aura' it will help you a lot

[@EdelweisSusie]

Her silly hairstyle has always bugged me: she has it long on one side (why??), then spends every interview pushing it back behind her ear!!! Very valuable information, though.

[@mirelabaron8865]

She want to seduce between the words, psihology

[@GGLGGL-cw8yj]

I find it sexy

[@SnapshotPT]

Esther is obviously lacking in knowledge when it comes to modern dating and the structure of a date. Perhaps 20/30 years ago what she says worked, but not today.