IS MY HAIR WAVY? \ how to reduce frizz, define waves and start your wavy hair journey

Hey guys, in todays video I'm going to giving a bunch of tips on how to know if you have wavy hair, how to nurse your waves back to health, how to reduce frizz, how to get defined waves, my best tips on how to start your journey and my best product recommendations that will give dramatic results and are beginner friendly!
its a packed video full of great info! I hope it helps you guys on your journey to discovering if your hair is wavy or learning how to manage your wavy hair better (:
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[@kyeoptawerk93ah]

Just so everyone knows, hair does change with age! When i was little, i had pin straight hair but now i have some waviness in here

[@lunariyoo_n]

Same! When I was little, my hair is so straight but when I entered high school, it started to become frizzy and poofy with some waves in there

[@anotheralyssa5723]

from the wise words of calum t. hood, "pUbERtY"

[@faycoleman9023]

Same, I had curly hair as a baby then it lost alot of curl definition and was barley wavy then it started getting curly again when I started puberty.

[@SarahVanDenHaute]

@@lunariyoo_n same, and now idk what to dooo and it looks so bad on me bcs I’m half asian and it doesn’t blend with my other features! Like I know I’m mixed with white (my family had curly redhead hair) but still it’s sooo annoying!

[@Mel-qr5ob]

when I was little I had straight white-blonde hair and now I've got brown wavy/curly hair

[@RachelMaryB]

For years, I never knew what “kind” of hair I had, but your channel literally changed my life. I found out that my hair is wavy and not just poofy and frizzy with a slight wave. Also, getting a layered haircut after your video about the “triangle” hair changed. the. game. I feel so much more happy and confident with my hair and my appearance, so seriously thank you so much.

[@melindab]

Oh my gosh that’s so awesome!! I’m so glad my videos helped you!🥺 you’re welcome!!🤍🤍

[@jennyrose9454]

Girl yes. I knew my hair was wavy but thpught it was ugly didnt know proper methods products and hair cuts to make my hair pretty defined waves. I want my teens and 20s back lol

[@leah-ig7lu]

1. stop heat styling 2. dont bleach 3. watch wavy hair channels 4. get a good styler & protein product 5. balance protein and moisture 6. try gels, creams, different drying ways. :)

[@anao9765]

Not heat styling is soo hard 😢😢 my hair looks like shit if I don’t

[@jflo2012]

I wish I’d had this information when I started my wavy journey. As you mentioned, techniques used by curly girls don’t always work for us wavies. Excellent video. Thank you.

[@melindab]

J Flo yay! Glad it helped. Thanks for watching!☺️

[@alexasunshine83]

Ah your videos on wavy hair have HELPED ME SO MUCH! Literally, at 26 years old, I realized I have wavy hair 🥴🤦🏼‍♀️ just passed my 30 days of no heat and no brushing and I’m just mind blown with how wavy my hair actually is

[@melindab]

Alexa Sunshine83 Awh yay!! That’s so awesome!🥰🥰

[@luckyDancer100]

I have yet to master not brushing my hair lmao. How do you not look messy in the morning? My hair is wild!

[@sophiacorrell4848]

i’m literally a senior in college, why am I just now finding out about protein for my hair?! thank you for spreading your knowledge :,)

[@melindab]

Sophia Correll hey no worries! We’re all learning I didn’t know until a few years ago either!😜

[@aliciaaltom6652]

Try being in your 30s 😅😭

[@Fernanda2205]

My hair frustrates me so much! If I scrunch it it dries straight but if I try to dry it straight it dries wavy! And it's not even a good wavy omg 😔

[@melindab]

Fernanda I would try different styling products 🤍 you may just have a slight beach wave is super cute!! Just experiment with different things 🤍

[@Fernanda2205]

@@melindab thank you a lot!

[@truthinlovemama]

My daughter has curly hair, and when I began looking into caring for her hair, I realized my hair is wavy. It’s never been stick straight, frizzes easily, and lends itself to that “triangle” shape you’ve talked about before. Especially if I try to blow it out, it gets huge, dry, and frizzy instead of sleek and voluminous. Since watching your videos, I’ve used my daughter’s curl defining cream, scrunching, T-shirt plop, and this week flax gel I made. I think my waves are 2A/2B. I think my next steps are protein (!!!) and a good haircut. Thanks for making these videos. I’m excited to be starting on this journey! I never liked heat styling, but the scrunching is easy for me. I can’t wait for my hair to not look “blah” anymore! Thank you!

[@melindab]

Truth in Love Mama Awh yay!!!! That’s so awesome! You’re so welcome! Thanks for watching 🥰

[@SadieRayy88]

I have 2c/3a hair, and the crazy thing is when I was a baby and growing up I have stick straight hair! Then about 5 years ago I fell asleep with the towel on my head and my hair dried wavy/curly. I started the CGM and my hair got a little more curly. My hair started to get frizzy and “bad” when I was in middle school and it was probably wavy/curly back then, and I just never knew it!

[@kimberlyjensen6913]

This could have been my own post haha. Same same same!

[@melindab]

Hey guys! What has helped you the most to enhance your waves? I’d love to know bc everyone’s hair is so different 🤗🤍

[@sabrinachal6654]

I use the Cantu curl activator (week 3 of my hair journey) and it really surprised me the first time I used it! I was very straight haired until pregnancy - suddenly I was 2b/2c curls!

[@luciapelayo7986]

Ploping always works for me and apearently my hair loves flaxseed gel for styling

[@candicehenry6421]

I have to defuse my hair! Otherwise it’s very heavy so the curls fall out

[@simplyashley9893]

I love your videos :)

[@MizzSpunkySARAH1]

I have 2a 2b hair type and I love using AG hair care Re:Coil to activate my hair's natural wave!

[@r.e.holding]

My hair was actually straight up until I was in my 20s (even as a toddler)- I’m the only one in my family with wavy/curly hair. I think it’s hormones

[@claudiamcbride5460]

Same! (Minus the family part - my mom has VERY curly hair) Mine randomly started showing a little bit of wave when I was about 18 and that was with not taking the best care of it. I wouldn’t be surprised at all if it’s hormones.

[@r.e.holding]

@@claudiamcbride5460 I always thought it was weird because I learned that curly is a dominant trait, so to be the only one is not normal- in assuming, but I think it is hormones! 😄

[@kristenwilliams7995]

Hormones really play a part. One of my cosmetology instructors was telling me about how her hair went from straight to curly when she was pregnant, and then her hair got even more curly with her second pregnancy.

[@Star-dj1kw]

That Woman to Woman spray is THE BOMB 💣 so light, smells nice, sprays in a fine mist…. LOVE IT!!

[@ksoeffi3]

Using a gel and diffusing gives me the best definition

[@becurious17]

Same! 🙌 My hair looks like poo every single time I attempt to air dry 😑

[@sirenelectric143]

Recently I’ve heard a lot of negative things surrounding DevaCurl...a lot of ppl have made videos talking about how it damaged their hair or even made it fall out. Just pls careful ladies, keep those beautiful locks as healthy as possible :) Also what helps me with limp and really stretched out waves is Clarifying my hair and then using a hair mask on it (since you strip it clean). The buildup from the products we use tend to weight it down and hard to help form a shape. My waves never look as defined or cute as after I clarify it. I use the suave clarifying shampoo, it’s really inexpensive and the bottle lasts a long time since you are only using it like once every 2 weeks

[@lucretiaberke5247]

The part about keratin vs. Moisture was so incredibly helpful! I've been struggling with frizz.. but after watching your video, I found a keratin oil in my bathroom and it was like magic!!!

[@atlantis315]

I have fine hair, it doesn't hold any heat styling, waves are flat in minutes after styling, I always blow dried with a round brush, but it was frizzy anyways, and I always ended up with a bun, i did not like to straighten it because I have very fine hair and it looked flat, and it demaged so easily... Then I saw couple of videos on CGM, realized then when I got caught in a rain my hair used to dry in waves... Now I tried some products, curl activating cream, gel and a right conditioner, that doesn't weigh my hair down, and I have a respectable 2b/2c waves, I love them, waiting for my bangs to grow out and trying some layers to encourage my top to curl more... Thank for your advice, you're fun to watch

[@kathiesoriano6876]

For the past couple years I’ve been watching curly hair videos and wondering why my wavy hair wasn’t getting it’s full potential! I just stumbled across your channel yesterday and I have the same wave pattern as you! I finally found the perfect channel for my hair lol

[@itzbreanna1153]

My hair has been straight all my life up until 3 years ago when I hit puberty and I’ve just been straightening and brushing out my hair

[@kristenwilliams7995]

I just wanted to take a second to thank you for your videos. I have never really thought my hair could be wavy/curly, just thought it was frizzy, lol. I've always put my hair in a towel to dry a bit straight out of the shower, brushed my hair when applying my leave-in products and then blow dry my hair. But, after being recommended one of your videos earlier this week I decided to try some of your techniques when I washed my hair last night. I don't have "curly" products, but I applied my leave-in conditioner and some of my son's hair gel to my wet hair & scrunched, then let it dry on it's own (took forever, lol, overnight and then some). But I am shocked at how wavy/curly my hair got and best of all I actually notice less frizz! I'm definitely trying out some of your product recommendations & going to continue trying out this method. Thank you so much!

[@melindab]

Aw yay! You’re so welcome!🖤

[@becurious17]

Just a word to say that some hair is protein sensitive!! If you find that every time you use protein rich products that they are making your hair feel and look worse, coarse, brittle, dry, etc please stop using them! You can really damage your hair if you keep pumping protein into protein sensitive hair. I'm not an expert, but there are many educational videos you can find on the topic. Just wanted to add that note. Melinda is right that having protein in your routine is great for MOST people. Just be aware! 💜 Also, I second her recommendation for the kinky curly knot today. It gives amazing definition to my waves and it is one of the only products I've used that lets me detangle with ease!

[@melindab]

Tiffany L yes!! Thank you for mentioning that! I totally forgot to include it in my video🤍 the knot today is fabulous!!!

[@becurious17]

@@melindab 🤗💖

[@Terry-hw1ws]

I always thought I had dry hair. Just today I noticed that my hair is quite interesting haha. It always has one little wave at the ends, but sometimes there’s too waves in my hair. This has actually made my day better, because I’ve always wanted wavy hair and now I could maybe even make my hair wavier. EDIT:not dry I meant straight

[@bigwhit16]

seriously the only wavy hair video that convinced me to buy the products😭😭

[@giovannakrp]

I ruined my curl pattern bc I straightened it too much, then I cut my hair short bc it was rlly damaged and now my curls look weird bc my hair is so short😫😫

[@lulu3623]

When I was a child, I had the straightest hair, but when I was 12 my hair started to get a lot of frizzy and I started to use chemicals to straighten back again, wich caused a lot of damage, I stop that the last year and started to love my wavy hair

[@teryncallahan1278]

I am so glad I have found your channel. I never knew I had wavy hair, but its actually pretty wavy!! Thank you!!

[@nataliecantieri8617]

Hey I know this video is about hair, but your makeup looks so so pretty! I’m scared of color but think it looks good whenever people do it!

[@melindab]

Natalie cantieri Awh thank you!🥰🥰

[@rachelireland8904]

My biggest problem is frizz and the longer my hair gets the more my wave falls out which is sad. I've tried so many products and techniques and nothing has helped. I then also have a problem between my scalp and my hair. My scalp is extremely sensitive so I have to be careful what goes on my hair and my shampoos etc.

[@redheadchick1585]

Love the hair color and eye makeup.

[@luckyDancer100]

My mom has a definite wave pattern, but her hair is soo fine. She doesn’t even use conditioner in the shower, and her hair is always soft. It brushes out straight. My dad has very course, wavy hair. It’s possibly even curly, but he’s always cut it too short to tell. So the hybrid is my thick, wavy hair that literally changes texture depending on the weather/products I use.

[@XaliroseX]

I'm so glad you made this my hair has always been pin straight and I didn't realize after an extremely stressful event your hair can change texture now I don't know what to do with it

[@vivianajuarez6683]

I went bald so I can’t do the strand test 😭 but I’m definitely gonna try out these products!! When I had my long hair it was wavy/ curlier at the ends

[@vichuhhh]

I had ringlet curly hair as a kid! Rn I have long heavy hair... Some parts of my hair will keep a wave and some will frizz :/ thank you for the tips!

[@MaryKay1994]

Ok might be a double post but I need some advice, I have amazing curls on the lower half of my hair but as you go up to the outer layer and on top they get looser to non existence how can I fix this

[@Jess-ot4eo]

Same here! The bottom of my hair has very defined curls while the top is pin straight 😫 if you find any advice let a girl know!

[@clairetorres4226]

Same problem here! I found out that I had wavy hair about a year ago, and I’ve been working on making it healthier since then. I’ve always had ringlets around my neck and ears, while the top layer is always kinda straight. At this point, I think the top layer is just naturally straighter, but I’ve been working on ways to even it out. The first thing I found was that my application technique was wrong. If you’re just scrunching in your stylers, maybe try using the “praying hands” or “raking” method to make sure you’re really getting the product all throughout both sides of the hair. Once I started doing this, my top layer started meshing more w the bottom layer. The second thing I do is that, when taking a shower, I really try my best NOT to break the clumps of hair that form when it’s wet. So I’ll intentionally split it into only like 6 chunks of hair, scrunch, apply product, etc. and then put it in a towel or plop. This way, the straighter pieces are more likely to dry with the wavy/curly pieces and adopt a similar curl pattern with the help of the styler. Hope this helps!

[@MaryKay1994]

@@clairetorres4226 THanks will try I get the slight wave while it is wet but it goes straighter and straighter throughout the day

[@frickfrack7075]

Top layers get more damage, either by the sun, being pulled up, sleeping, etc. It could also be dry from what I said above. One more thing that can help, is washing your hair the opposite way. So if you lean back and let the water hit the top of your head first, then try turning around flipping your head over, and letting the water hit the back of your head first! Oh! And I almost forgot! When you wash your hair, make sure you're holding the lengths, if you can at all points of the wash. Any time you're running water through your hair, make sure you're holding the ends as to not let them be stretched out. If all else fails, the top may need a different treatment than the bottom. So you may need protein on top, moisture on the bottom, or vice versa!

[@jesssharples9047]

omg same here, the under layer of my hair is quite wavy and the top layer is always so straight and flat no matter what i do! I'm so glad other people experience this as i couldn't find ANY advice online about it 😖

[@itsmahree]

my hair is like a mix of 2a to 3b and some even straight.. crazy and its dependent on the temperature or where im at.. when its humid it can be too flat and stick together, in windy summer days it can be poofy, then soft, smooth and in between flat and poofy when its cold or when im in an airconditioned room lol.. i found it hard to manage that i used to have it straightened always, but then recently i am embracing my natural hair and found that a shag hairstyle works for me..

[@tomishabee7971]

Can I just say, your hair is awesome, and thank you so much for making these videos.

[@melindab]

Tomisha'Bee ash thank you so much! That’s so sweet!🖤

[@kier3576]

Where were you able to find that Woman to Woman gorgeous collection leave in conditioner? I can’t seem to find it on amazing 😭

[@ceillekarts7185]

Thank you! Your videos are super helpful! You were the first wavy-hair youtuber I found amidst all the curly girls 😂♥️ the strand test was super helpful! I’ve been trying to find out if I need more moisture or protein and that’s the easiest answer I’ve gotten (ironically I need more moisture lol)

[@melindab]

Oh wow! That’s awesome I’m glad it helped!☺️

[@careyawalker]

I think u are the cutest hair channel ever! And, we have exactly the same hair texture, etc so I LOVE ur content. Thank u, and congrats! 👏👏👏👏

[@melindab]

Aw thank you!🖤🖤

[@safzal60]

Hi girl! I am working on creating a tool to allow women to scrunch their hair with less effort. I have a few questions to guide the development of the product 1. I was wondering what your big pain points are when it comes to scrunching hair? 2. On average, how long do you scrunch your hair? 3. Why do you scrunch your hair - how does it benefit your hair? 4. What would you expect from a hair scrunch tool (besides the basic functionality)? You can speak to design, functions, ergonomics etc. Would love to hear everyones feedback!

[@JulieN-en9ur]

I’m learning so much from just this video, thank you!

[@milliegoodwin9540]

That's actually really helpful, my hair stretches a tiny bit and then just snaps

[@user-pw3lz2uc4v]

Omg, where have you been all this time!! 😭 I’ve struggled my whole life with trying to revive my ‘curls’ and wondering what I was doing wrong. It turns out it’s just really wavy! You have the exact same hair type I have, I’ve never seen someone with it like I have it, until I found you! My hair was down to my waist but was so damaged so I had to chop it. Now we wait for the growth, and I already cut down on the heat. First thing I have to do is fix that triangle cut (I cut my hair myself) oops 😳 sorry brad, and thank you Melinda! 😂❤️

[@melindab]

D lol I’m so glad I could help!! I totally know what that feels like to feel confused about what to do with your hair!🖤🖤

[@sabrinachal6654]

I've watched quite a few of your videos now and I loooooove your hair colours and how you style it 😍 xx

[@melindab]

Thank you so much!!🤍

[@mstrinaluna4225]

Hey! Your videos have been a big help to me. I have two questions: 1. Do you think a clear hair gloss/glaze (direct deposit, no added developer) would help de-frizz and smooth waves, or weigh them down? 2. Could you talk about products that almost worked for you and why they didn't? Maybe if we have just slightly different hair they can help us? 💛

[@janiehall2029]

It would help with frizz but the gloss will have silicone in it

[@Tinx92]

My hair has always been kinda wavy when wet then drys kinda frizzy straight. My dad had ringlets curls when it was long and my mum has pin straight fine hair. Mine is fine but quite dense. I think I have wavy hair. When I straighten it which isn't often it never stays straight for long.

[@illyarnajones540]

I don’t understand my hair. One day it’s straight with flicks at the end and other days it’s really wavy but it’s not consistent. I’ve stopped bleaching my hair and straightening it but nothing working

[@sunshinecommentswoop4902]

I loved the advice and your makeup :') 💗✨✨

[@alexalea7512]

Hello, I’m having trouble trying to find my hair type. I know I have some curl in there somewhere cause when I air dry my hair, I get really tight curls and the nape of my neck but then get really big curls only on my bangs.. I’m just really confused

[@melissachristner2976]

Thank you so much for this vid! I relate so much to your hair type and I am going to buy those products. Thank you so much!

[@melindab]

You’re welcome!🥰🥰

[@User78129]

So I have 2a hair on top and 2c underneath - anybody else have that hair type and figured out a way to manage it/get a more cohesive look throughout?

[@annaburns5382]

Brad Mondo, a stylist and blogger, says that only 1% of the population has stick straight hair. He said everyone else has at least a little wave.

[@melindab]

Anna Burns oh wow!! I wish I heard that before so I could include it in my video! Thanks for sharing that I live brad mondo🖤

[@sydneyhyattt]

Actually, the products you use should be for the type of texture you have whether it’s fine or course. Heavier products work better for course hair and vice versa.

[@melindab]

That’s Definitely true for some people’s hair! Thanks for pointing that out!🖤

[@idccrispy]

My hair drys very poofy, when it's wet it's comp wavy, but when it starts drying, it gets straight and Puffy. Pls help😔

[@Lunacyfringe01]

Oh my gosh, you are flipping gorgeous!!!

[@hebbbby]

Soooo happy to find you ❤

[@RoryLovesCookies]

Woman to woman leave in conditioner says it's no longer available and the link you've given us no longer works.. any other recommendations?

[@anatrsunova2888]

I'm curious, what do you think about the denman brush on wavy hair?

[@user-tz5lb1ox9z]

You are such a cutie and these videos are SO helpful to me as a 26 y/o white woman who has ALWAYS thought I just had straight, frizzy hair. However, thanks to COVID, I gave myself quarantine curtain bangs and noticed that they started to curl then I thought to myself "holy shit maybe I have wavy hair!" 😂😂😂

[@hannamarie1157]

honestly the same for me. i always literally every single day straightened my hair before school from about 6th grade to my junior year. then i started dying it constantly. most recently bleached the absolute faaaccc out of it and it is basically ruined. my dads hair is curly ringlets and my moms is very thick and very wavy. im trying to do everything i can to fix the past 7ish years of heat damage and get my texture back but at this point its so damaged idk if ill be able to without cutting it off.

[@bonami.]

I am SHOCKED! I had exteremely curly hair when I was a baby!

[@amritkalsi8077]

my hair was in a single braid all the time when i was younger, so it always had a wave. when i went into year 6 (11 years old) and started doing my hair myself i started putting it in ponytails it was just straight and frizzy im 15 now and now it dries really frizzy with little bits of wavy bits and curly bits. i have always been confused of my hair, my sister has really curly hair and my mums is curly too mine just looks like a lion

[@817chaparra]

🤗🙏🏽Could you do another video where you show how u use those 3 items or when you have a beginner collection of small amounts of curly hair products? Or how to plop to get better results for long hair, I've noticed how when my hair is wet its curly but when it dries the curls don't last unless I have a clip or something in my hair keeping it in place to hold the curls then it's dried in place bcuz the LONGER MY HAIR IS the MORE STRETCHED OUT my CURLS ARE bcux my hair is heavy and weighs my curls, but when I cut my hair short I DO NOTHING DIFFERENTLY with products and my curls are SUPER CURLY almost large coil ringlets.

[@melindab]

I will definitely do show a wash day with just those products bc that’s actually all I’m currently using right now anyways ☺️ so don’t feel like you need a huge collection of things. The basics works wonders when they’re good products!🤍 go check out my “how I got my curls back” video too. That’s a super simple and cheap routine☺️ I don’t plop spring I can’t show that but Taylor Laois does! Maybe try her channel☺️

[@817chaparra]

@@melindab thank you so much, I enjoy your videos and will definitely be waiting for your upload notification 😄

[@koalacharlotte]

This is such an informative video! I’ve been using the Catwalk Curls Amplifier since you mentioned it in a video and works really great the day I put it in, but once I sleep on it, it makes my hair feel greasy and weighed down. Does anyone have any tips for this?

[@BriannaBobadilla]

Dude my hair changed. When I was younger I had extremely straight hair. 0 wave. But now I’m a senior in high school and this past year my hair has gotten weird. I have a few curls here and there and my entire hair has a curl pattern. I know it’s wavy but I got no idea how to take care of it so it’s frizzy. Ik it’s due to genetics cuz the same thing happened to my mom but she has less curl than me. Plus my grandma had curly hair her whole life

[@AC-by4nf]

I literally just posted a pic of my hair asking if it’s curly or actually wavy!

[@lilydunning7550]

I've always had wavy hair and two years ago my mom had found out she had curly hair but she had always brushed it out when it was dry so she had "waves" as she thought but it was curly my hair is wavy but I recently cut half my hair off to try to restart the growth process and idk what products to use (yes I know this video shows what to do but I need products that are cheap my dad will NOT buy me any products and my mom has no home so she can't spend money I have very little money myself I need cheap products that work)

[@kimberann5982]

My hair curls a little bit in the back under all my hair but i try to do the curly girl method and it just comes out frizzy

[@TheHeroSaver]

My biggest issue is since I have 2a hair I can get overloaded with product and I have areas alot less wavy than others so I get frustrated and end up brushing it out with a bristle brush :/

[@kelseyb94]

Love your videos!! And really want your giveaway products!! Watch Umbrella Academy!! Sooo good!!

[@Silfver241]

i love your videos and i was really looking forward to getting the products, but so far i havent found a single place that i can order kinky curly or woman to woman products from (i live in sweden). Dont know if you will see this comment, but do you have any other brands that you want to recommend to someone that is just starting out?

[@nnacroon7356]

I need to just admit to myself I have dead straight hair... But I'm going to keep trying 😅💕

[@feliciak.3139]

Hey, how do I figure out if a product has protein? My hair is super frizzy so I'm wondering how to fix it 🤔 thanks for the video!

[@MizzSpunkySARAH1]

Hii! Manes by Mel has a video about protein in hair products. Most products with protein will have keratin, soy protein, or wheat protein on the label.

[@melindab]

Yess I agree with Sarah I’d definitely watch another youtubers videos on ingredients bc I’m not the best at that to be honest!🤍🤍

[@feliciak.3139]

Thank you both!

[@imaniundifined]

When I was little I had 2C/3A curls. I am 21 now and my curls started to be waves. Now I thinkt it is 2A/2B. I really dont know what happened and want my curls back :(.

[@becurious17]

Changing hormones can affect curl pattern. A lot of women experience a change in hair texture/curl pattern after they go through puberty. I'm not sure if this is what happened to you, but just letting you know it is a possibility.

[@PanickedPluto]

Is your hair longer now? You probably have longer and heavier hair and that weight pulls the curls down and makes them appear less curly. If you put layers in it or thin it out or go shorter I bet the curls will pop up a little more since some weight has been lifted.

[@sanaowen486]

can you do a video on how you sleep with your hair please

[@rosilynn]

my hair dries 2a when i dont do anything to it (after bleaching it several times and using box dye on it) but when i scrunch it after the shower with frizz control product, it dries 2b

[@rosilynn]

when i was a baby i had super tight little curls though!!

[@MementoMadi]

Any tips on how to sleep on hair? My hair is still very particular and can fall out of its wave easily. My hair is in a long shag kind of cut so I can’t just plop it up.

[@MsValerie6]

Its normal for wavy hair to straight the day after. I put in a looose bun with a scrunchie and in a pillow silk case

[@lupitabugarin2795]

I use hair oil (ogx coconut or argan ) and it really helps with my frizz and the HUGE amount of (unwanted) volume. It’s kind of like it “weighs “ down my hair but in a good way and my waves stand out better. I could be doing a bad thing by using hair oil like that?

[@melindab]

Lupita Bugarin if you like the way it looks and feels then you should be fine as long as it’s not making your hair feel brittle or anything but if it’s creating the look you want then go for it!☺️

[@star5740]

Where can I find the protein product the link isn’t working

[@JM-vr1br]

When I was about 12, my hair started being squiggly, (that’s the best word to describe it for me.😂) I thought it was just because it was damaged, but than I cut all the damaged parts off and it was still squiggly. Plus, my hair is MAD frizzy and my moms hair is naturally super curly. (She didn’t realize it was because she damaged it so much.😂) The problem for me is that my hair gets oily super easily, so I can’t use heavy products or even too much of a lightweight product because than its greasy and flat. It’s SUPER irritating and takes so much effort to look ok.😂

[@annjay2581]

When I was a toddler my brother and I both had straight platinum blonde hair, his hair is still like this, but mine is dark brown and wavy 😭

[@janiehall2029]

Kinky curling custard works for me.

[@LexaJ828]

It’s interesting what you said about protein enhancing curls because I started eating a lot more protein lately and my hair is growing in wavy 🤔🤔 it’s been stick straight my whole life!

[@evelienpopelier4458]

Thanks for this video! 🙌🏻 just found out I have naturally 2b waves, but unlike most other people: I do not want them tighter, I actually would like a looser wave and am not looking for ‘getting to type 3 curls!’ like most people on the curly girl method are. Only problem is that the waves are a bit stringy and frizzy and I would like to smooth them without getting more curly. Do you have any tips maybe for my specific situation? 💗 (don’t get me wrong, I LOVE curly hair, but I prefer loose waves on myself)

[@jessiedas3263]

i have curly hair and i want to go wavey, any tips?

[@ameliakoscik7420]

The thing is my hair is wavy but only a tiny bit and if I brush it out it just acts like pin straight hair sooooo my question is do I still call this 2a hair?

[@melindab]

amelia koscik yep! I’d say any wave at all is in the 2’s! But everyone has different opinions and there’s no strict amount of wave or curl you have to have to fit into a category it’s all relative. I’d definitely try some styling products though and try to enhance your wave bc it could become more wavy the more you work with it!

[@candicehenry6421]

Can you list the products please?? Thank you!!

[@melindab]

Candice Henry yes!🤍

[@melindab]

Done!🤍

[@candicehenry6421]

Thank you so much!!! 🙏🏼

[@10199730]

Me with type 1 hair that can't hold a curl to save its life: maybe I secretly have wavy hair?

[@alexrose20]

I want to find products for my wavy hair but my scalp is so damaged from dandruff so i gotta work that out somehow 😭

[@cate3048]

try an apple cider vinegar rinse on your scalp!! look into it about the ratios and how often to do it!

[@dancingscorpio681]

well.... yep my hair is wavy... that explains the frizz since puberty :')

[@aliceromano1028]

My hair is wavy and on the second day I use your leave in conditioner but it still is frizzy and not super define curls, have any tips? Also the end of my curls it ends straight any other tips? ❤️❤️❤️

[@aliceromano1028]

The leave in is the women to women, should I try kinky curly not today instead for day 2?

[@melindab]

is it defined and less frizzy on the first day too or only after you refresh it on day 2??

[@aliceromano1028]

Yes on the first day it’s defined and usually not frizzy and on the second day not so much 😬

[@melindab]

Alice Romano when my hair is frizzy after I refresh it normally means I need to add more water while I’m refreshing and a little more of my styling product!🖤 I have a video on my refresh routine too if that will help at all!

[@aliceromano1028]

Okay thank you so much!❤️

[@yanna666]

anoyne has alternative for the Woman to woman leave in? link doesnt work and i cant find it anywhere else

[@melindab]

Yanna i would try the Redken extreme shampoo or conditioner. It has protein too and helped me a ton with enhancing my s curls! I used that instead of the woman to woman conditioner and it worked just as well AND gave me lasting results☺️

[@yanna666]

@@melindab thank you so much for your answer. Your hair is goals as I also have bleached and split dyed my hair pink and purple. I am so ready to get on this wavy hair journey.

[@melindab]

Yanna oh yeah I’d definitely get that redkin line then! It helped my hair so much! Go to my video about my wavy hair routine for famed hair! You should also get the leave in by redkin and once you use that system for a bit it’ll bring out your curls and then you can switch to a more moisturizing line! Like the ultra soft by redken! I’m obsessed with their stuff 😜 is saved my hair! you’re welcome! 🖤🖤

[@yanna666]

@@melindab thank you so so much. I will definitely do all of that :)

[@nataliax8819]

Both my parents have curly hair but I have straight hair lol

[@anotheralyssa5723]

5:40 wait, we're supposed to use styling product,,,,,,,,,,,,

[@faithlilis]

Why u remind me of a pink hair Ariel the mermaid 😊🤷‍♀️

[@bloohatesyou420]

Now to find vegan/cruelty free versions of all that😭

[@bloohatesyou420]

For anyone wondering, ive already bought pureology products & the 21 benefits spray is by far amazing if your hair is super porest.

[@melindab]

bb blootokes yessss!

[@leander8840]

Giovanni products are great and work for wavy hair very well Kinki curly is so good and also cf and many if not all are vegan and black owned Shea moisture is cf but mostly not vegan Ecoslay is cf and mostly vegan (I think?) its also black owned and naturally sourced Hask is cf and has some nice vegan options (not all tho so make sure u check!)

[@leander8840]

oh and in general be careful with protein-treatments and such as they often have silk or collagen! Olaplex 3 is vegan!

[@mkazanir]

damn if your hair is wavy it's wavy just that simple

[@jjbowman4653]

*You probably don’t dry straight and have kinky curly hair* Cries in confusion *fourteen years of lies* seriously I never knew and then I hit college and my mum was like *by the way???*