Is My INNER WORK Working?

[@gurudra]

Inner work can only begin when you understand that nothing outside can give you contentment🙏

[@simonissac8978]

instablaster...

[@lucindasamira8351]

You know you’re a regular of someone’s channel when you dance on their intro song ✨😁

[@dianelamorticella6053]

Yessss!!! Woot woot!

[@humayramohua]

Thank you for the valuable insight..take love..❤️

[@LisaSmith-yb2uz]

I agree 🙏❤️

[@niccolefontenot2665]

Thanks lovely! Been doing lots of self love and care! Sending love and light!

[@MuseSunflower]

Thank you for this confirmation. I was feeling hard on myself worrying if I was doing the right thing with my healing. You are so true that the fear and reactions may not go away right away but the real healing is within your behavior and whether you behave the same way that you did before or if you start choosing more conscious elevated choices.

[@ishtaneel8305]

My my! Ty & my Gurudev for sending this video to me at this time. I felt d trigger yest. When I feel abandonment, I people please & lv self respect. This time I did d counter intuitive thing & canceled meeting a bully friend. Just sd busy with work. I stopped self criticism, I even thought, I've done inner work & if I still feel this much fear its not my fault. Universe may b faulty not me. I supported self. I'm ready to b alone but won't let anyone trigger me. My peace is most imp than comp. I let go pathological loneliness pain for d 1st time. Chose me. This video & circumstances r forming supportively now. Thx a lot

[@dannyduncan4322]

Is it bad that I am starting to realize that my parents are narcissistic and emotionally unavailable at an early age? Thank you for these videos i just came upon your channel and i love it your very sweet and beautiful please keep pushing out the content! Its scary to trust anybody when i cant trust my own parents

[@TheWallaceReboot]

Thank you! I have been wondering this. I thought I could move back in with abusive family because I've done so much work...nope! Not a good plan. I was losing myself even though I set healthy boundaries. I was getting scared I hadn't grown, but I can see it.

[@spiritualanarchy]

Couldn’t have came at a more perfect time. Wow, thank you!

[@lilima996]

The timing of this video is incredibly divine!!!

[@notavailable708]

Starts at 2:00

[@rebeccaa5555]

Exactly what i needed to hear for where I'm at. Thank you for helping me REALEYES what ive been doing for the last 40 years!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

[@winniewinkles]

You’re so smart Candace

[@GygyMy]

Thank you Candace. You put words on what I was beginning to acknowledge! You just presented and gave the pieces of the puzzle, while explaining and showing the full target/result image I was looking for to give meaning to what I am living.... Beautiful! Thank you very very very much.

[@robinmassengale1039]

Thank you for your insight, it has confirmed for me what I've just realised. We need inner child work, to clear the physical response to our emotional body. We are still that ignored kid that abandoned kid and its the child within that fears and we respond. Thank you again.

[@jasonleeauthor2036]

Bang on. Period. Excellent and so well said. Love this video and so profound. Out the shame! Thank u!

[@tripandnature9496]

Yes, exactly. I felt the same way, but I talked myself out of ego based mindset. I asked myself "What are your truth purposes?

[@elaineeselun1405]

This video is seriously gold!!! Every word. Thank you Candace :)

[@bluecereal4223]

This is exactly what I needed to hear rn omg

[@meghnakhetrapal7204]

This is exactly what I needed. You goddess! Saving this video!

[@cookwithnikki2511]

This video literally I need....I was wondering why im nervous all the tym even after doing lots of inner work

[@LaLeoRonroneo]

Wow! I have been doing inner work for years, couples counseling too and you said so much that resonated with me but no one ever talks about. After three of your videos I have been having all these moments of clarity. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

[@STAYHYPE]

I am so happy I found you. Wow. I’m in the trenches with finally realizing all my self sabotaging in relationships is from a deep rooted abandonment wound that I have buried for 34 years. I’m in the first happy and loving relationship ever and I can’t be happy and it was literally driving me insane. Let the healing begin ❤️ thank you for the comforting videos

[@CrissySims]

Damn I needed this today💓💫

[@MrMadstafford]

Wow, the part about entering relationships that mirror your relationship with your inner child. Wow. I just gained so much strength ftom this. Thank you so much🙏

[@JahinIinI]

Make sure the person you out yourself to is not a narcissist

[@juliascorey999]

Thankyou again❤️🙏😇

[@mikejarrells431]

Thanks! Good job! Have you read about attachment theory (anxious, avoidant & secure)? Keep the vids coming! 😉

[@ecedorsay]

This is so spot on, right on time !! I really would like to do sessions with you dear Candace.😍😍🎉🎉

[@thewishingpooltarot5425]

Powerful powerful stuff, thank you xx

[@nayimarie]

this was SO GOOD!!! just what I needed right now this means my inner work is so working and I don't have to worry bout it not working really. Thanks so amazing, feeling proud :)))

[@hood7empress114]

8:48 REALLY HIT 🏠 FOR ME I can see myself play-out the pattern of leaving quick from a relationship NOW I KNOW WHERE TO REDIRECT MY FOCUS TO THANK YOU🔍🔎🧠💡

[@samantha6302]

Amazing, helped me a lot. loved it.

[@Citizen_Cozy]

Needed this ❤

[@mbalimabaso9485]

Wow I like your explanations ❤

[@notavailable708]

6:40 but what if we do not have anyone who'll understand what you said? Who should I say it to? They'll think I'm crazy 😂😂😂😌

[@yarivdavidkohaly4998]

Thankyou Candace. 😊🙏🏻Please keep the vids coming. Much appreciation from Israel.

[@debbieangermuller8835]

This one definitely stuck! Thank you!

[@ashleighallison785]

candace!!! ahh i watch all your videos and its like your talking directly to me. i connect so deeply with what you talk about its crazy!!! thank you so much for the wisdom you shower us with

[@awakeningwithkerry5725]

You’re Crushing it, C! From my heart to all of yours 🙏

[@laylamay1298]

This is exactly what's going with me right now, thank you so much for making this video. So reassuring!

[@dalegetsfit5246]

Great work!!

[@jasminochka7106]

Thanks for the video. Can you maybe do a video about water? Most people know that we should drink 0.03 l per kilogram of body mass. But not all water is equal, because of the PH-value and ORP-value. Breast milk and good spring water have a negative ORP value and that means they are loaded with energy, but the water from the supermarket has a positive ORP-value which is not very good :/ Could you do a video about that? Would be super interesting and surely help many people. I recently switched from "normal" water to a water filtered by stone corals (cause corals change the PH-value and ORP-value of water), and I'm already noticing a big difference when it comes to energy, mood, concentration and sleep. Which kind of water we give to our body does really have a big impact on our health and inner peace.. :)

[@tinarichards4188]

Where do you buy the water?

[@SuperWoody33]

Your explanations are so beautiful thankQ so much for being you and helping me 😘x

[@freekff6274]

Wow thanks Candace, this is for me, i've pushed all love away, and I am 45 now.. had chances enough, but I froze when someone really liked me. I wanted to be honoust to her about this, was too ashamed.. What is the best thing to do, or wich video should I watch extra?

[@IAmErikaBlaze]

Thank you

[@thecreativemastermin]

Actual video starts at 1:40

[@Alex_Manifestation111]

What an amazing informative video 📼 👌🏿 you’re sooo attractive to look at

[@wesleylewis1847]

😍😍

[@gillianarkle1001]

Hi i think your amazing, how do i get the 12 week plan you talked about in the video xx

[@CandacevanDell]

The link is in the description of the video. emotionalrehab.candacevandell.com

[@themacocko6311]

We shoot, I guess I'm in the wrong "Tribe".

[@momione11]

🙂♥️

[@hermesnoelthefourthway]

We are comprised of four separate parts. An emotional part. An intellectual part. A sexual part. And a physical part. They are all out of synch with one another. And not fully developed. Each steals energy from other parts. True healing is the complete integration of all four centres. The harmonising of them. Above the mental and emotional centre there is higher emotional and higher intellectual. This is often refered to as the divine, the supernatural. On top of this we are operative in something called "personality", which is not us. But something that is etched onto us via upbringing and society. We become something WE ARE NOT. Buried beneath the "Personality" is something known as "essence". This is who we really are. Not in imagination, but in fact. If any form of teaching attempting to heal is not penetrating to the essence it will not work long term. Possibly temporarily. But not long term. As it's falling on personality which, as I say, is not us. In fact, it's something that is petrified and dead. Become who you are. A highly recommended book..... The Reality of being by Jeanne de salzmann. Who was the leading pupil of George Gurdjieff. Also In search of the miraculous by P. D. Ouspensky. Best wishes, y'all. And greetings from London. Noel

[@jreperscrepers9825]

Hello, I feel devastated inside.i think I should write to you about my feelings.i don't have anyone whom I can tell my feelings. The problem is my parents.they are toxic as hell.they are selfish as hell.since I was a kid,I understand that,they are gonna make my life hell.i mean I can't say how they treat me, it's like I have no feeling,I'm their remote control thing.they are super conservative,negetive.i'm 23 and I realized I gained nothing in life because of them.their behavior is like shit.and I know they are gonna make rest of my life as hell .I can't explain I how feel inside.i can't help myself.the only thing I can do is crying.i feel like I'm mentally sick.i stop myself argue with them with everything,they don't understand me,they always care about what other people say,what relatives say,they continuesly make me sad.they always say that I'm ridiculous.they don't let me do anything.they are irresponsible that no one could found someone like them,the way they torture mentally is such a work of applause 👏.they never care about,what they understand about "responsibility"is always stop me from going outside of the house.now they want me to get married even though I clearly say that I will not do until I don't settle with my job or until I don't want myself .they forcing me since I was 18.i used so many tricks that the boy rejected me every time. What should I do? I don't know what should I do.if I escape from they will find me then I have fear in my mind that if my parents got bullied by my toxic relatives, society?if that happened then my parents could be sick badly. I don't want them sick. But what I understand is I love them 20% and hate them 80%... If I stay with them then I can't found any happiness in life,I can't taste what is called freedom I really need myself. I really need guidance.

[@surakshaguragain5538]

Are you from middle east? Its hard to say and you don't want to hear this but you are an adult now. You don't exist by their virtue. Find a job, a simple one as a teaching job, save money and get the hell out of there. Your future self will thank you. And don't forget to forgive them. The amount of resentment you carry against them is going to work as poison if you don't try to forgive. Just remember, they might not have seen a better way of living. My family puts pressure on me as well and I m just 22. It is their fault but not really, they haven't seen better than it. They are only humans everyone is trying their best it is your time to try your best