You are ENOUGH all on your own

[@gavinr5576]

I've let go of my need for external authority and validation over the last year, it has transformed my life. I'm still yet to make a connection with a potential partner, but I now know that I will not again fall into the co-dependent patterns of the past and I'm also not in a desperate hurry like so many people seem to think I should be. When the right person shows up I will know it and until then I shall continue improving myself, because I enjoy it.

[@karengallagher3608]

It’s so refreshing to hear others are going through the same things and emotions as me. I have known no one who is going through the same as me. I hope it was okay to reply with this in your comment. Thank you for sharing

[@gavinr5576]

@@karengallagher3608 Of course it's ok Karen! 😊 Finding people experiencing the same/similar things to me is what keeps bringing me back to this channel. Enjoy the new year! ❤

[@karengallagher3608]

@@gavinr5576 I am new to this channel and am glad I found it! Thank you 😊 Happy New Year to you!

[@carolinebrenning178]

@Gavin R that's so great that you were able to let go of those things and live a more positive life. I hope that someday I can do the same. I still have A LOT OF work to do! @Karen Gallagher I can relate to both of you. I agree, it feels so refreshing knowing you're not alone. I know very few people who can relate. And those few people seem to have it together a lot better than me. So I often feel like I have no one to talk to about this sort of hurt.

[@elliottjosiah5598]

i know im asking randomly but does someone know of a method to get back into an instagram account? I was stupid lost the password. I would appreciate any assistance you can offer me

[@stoogey1]

I AM ENOUGH!!! I'm starting a channel for something that hits me hard in the heart: suicide As a survivor of attempting suicide I've learned a lot about me. A thought that gives me chills is if you watch this video to the end, about 16 people commited suicide while you watched it. 1 person every 40 seconds. 16 people who thought that the only way out was to kill themselves. 16 people who'll never be able to show the world the gifts God or the universe gave them. 16 people who didn't remove the pain, they just passed their pain onto their family and friends. Thats 16 to many. REMEMBER THIS: You've had things in your life that was horrible beyond imagination, but you survived. That tells me 4 things about you, even if we never met. 1. You're a FIGHTER 2. You're STRONG 3. You're AWESOME 4. You're ENOUGH Because your here, right now.

[@naypalmneo2824]

Can't wait to watch your content. With love, A fellow suicide survivor 💚

[@johnbehneman1546]

I AM ENOUGH ON MY OWN!!!! I HAVE SOME WORK TO DO !!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

[@Angell_Lee]

You are and always have been

[@ida1462]

8:34 ❤ "Anytime you are dependent upon something outside of you, it's ALWAYS just a projection of your OWN POWER that you are afraid to own." ❤ AMAZING. 🙏🤗😘💕

[@jamaica2010ism]

Powerful!!!

[@momione11]

Thank you. Made a big change in my life. Looking forward to discovering life with myself. Always cared more about others. So the first time I put myself in the center.

[@maythemysticmuse4071]

Yess we are whole, it is about reclaiming our power and remembering we are love. But a true union can help complete our life. And also a spiritual partnership can help those with a joint mission.

[@Mansions.]

Candace has helped me so much. Very thankful for her work and videos. She gets it. 💯 %

[@innervision97]

I recently left an abusive relationship and in this short time away I’ve made so much progress in so many areas in my life. It almost makes me feel like I chose that relationship because I wasn’t ready to truly experience my true worth as a person. I’m so ready and focused on my work now.

[@AmitRoy-mx2vu]

Life is so much easier when you are whole and complete. I am an engineer and only a few years ago I would consider all of this talk as just weird verbage but now I know better and life is just so stupid easy that I wake up with giant smile (it's been a year since I was fully realized)

[@urfas.1225]

I'm going to depend on myself. ❤️

[@Angell_Lee]

Candace, I have a feeling a big blessing is coming in your life. Keep reaching for your biggest dream, they come true. Thank you for your video as always xo

[@GuitarAtWork]

Excellent. TY Candace

[@ananya1114]

im going through a tough phase but your videos really help me heal. there is an ache in my heart and im struggling with major relationship wounds.

[@heatherbianco7588]

I loved the art on your table.. I said I love that art . I would love that in my house. The very next day . I bought the same art it's on my table right now.

[@CandacevanDell]

Haha awwww I Love that!!’ Twins

[@rick3747]

Yes, you are! Be well.

[@basicbase749]

I can’t thank you enough Candace, you’re talking all the real things. I have so much understanding after listening to you. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.🌻

[@aya123444]

Had to leave a dependent situation and addiction yesterday. I want to actually do the work. I'm ready

[@CrissySims]

Beautifully said Candace thank you so much for your work🎉💖

[@amytan2019]

7:07 that cleared a BIG block in me!!!! Whoooh!!! Thanks a lot,best gift on the first day of 2021!!!

[@jerrycapps7509]

To you who see this realize you are GOD I am you and you are me and I am you you are timeless awareness that chose to enter into a cosmic war to change things of course resistance was to be expected

[@indianaholley8673]

Cannot wait to do your Shadow work course 💫♥️

[@madonnahooper4872]

Love this. It's incredible how much societal pressure there is to be in a relationship...soooooo much! As a single person I just laugh when people think there's something "wrong" with me or feel sorry for me. I'm also amazed how people do not think very deeply about what really makes them happy or what being themselves really means. They just assume a relationship is "the answer" to happiness. Peace and deep joy to you in 2021 Candace. Love your work as always.

[@yarivdavidkohaly4998]

Thankyou Candace you funny, beautiful person. Sending you much love ❤️ And appreciation. God bless

[@chantelle_demars]

Thank you so much 🙏😇🥰 I just found your channel today & am extremely grateful for your content 😘 I am enough on my own ⚡️I am fearlessly rising into my own power 🦋🌟✨

[@connieace16]

Thank you for this, exactly on the right moment. 🙏

[@jfit6018]

Great message. I will sit still, experience and reflect on my own fears, anxieties and feelings. I will grow and I will be happy!

[@afirmacjeznat]

This is so good. I love your videos, you’ve got a beautiful energy that resonates with me and I love the way you explain things.

[@shraddhav3872]

Beautiful❤🤗

[@bohemianslouch3749]

I was hesitant to watch this video because I’m in a relationship, but I am SO glad I listened to the whole thing because it was so helpful. I think often in relationships we discount or minimize our power in order to be relationship-minded, I know I have. But I see now that we don’t have to do that! We can be truly powerful and be in relationships. Thank you 🤍

[@alexanderx3554]

9:00 - 9:27 absolute gem for the new year. Thank you. I listen repeatedly to that and wrote it down.

[@lautjenz1103]

Dudette, I like your videos, helping me a lot. Take care, eat sister. I get trouble trying to eat being the sensitive person I am, cuz of the emotions. I get too skinny. Hope you look after your body too amongst the work you do

[@carolinebrenning178]

I always love listening to your videos. Thank you for helping so many people. You always say a lot of things I need to hear, and I feel like it's the same for many others. I seriously wish that I knew you personally, and people like you. If I could be around people like you on a daily basis, I think it could make a big difference in my life and the way I feel. Thank you for doing what you do.💕

[@Maask1000]

The best video to watch starting the first day of the new yr off. ❤️ Candance 🙏

[@jaysmithcool]

Love your channel, Candace. I too am a HSP and so much of what you talk about I strongly relate to.

[@okay7325]

Always good to hear from you Candace, and I agree and when you’re dealing with those things there definitely is some reality issues When you’re dealing with the pack mentality

[@keithmccaslyn2527]

This Presentation is soooo damn good and soooo on time! its 1:01 in the am and I Need to rest but will finish up the last 1.4th of this Vid, tomorrow afternoon. Candace is sooo ON target and so real,feel,heal on time with stuff,its amazing. right down to earth and beyound,as the saying goes "we are all ordinary and extraordinary all at the same time!! who woulda thunk? Ha!! Blessings in the new year Ms.Van Dell,you;re outta site!!

[@janelflanary1133]

So sad right now. Love Candace. Love your work. But really disappointed to find out that I can't afford the Emotional Rehab or shadow work courses. Way too expensive. What?

[@CandacevanDell]

They are both life changing 12 week courses that students can do 100 times if they want to. It is a forever course. Money is an issue for many these days but it is worth it especially with the payment options. Also i show up live every week for the entire year. Big hug

[@aprilsealy357]

It's scary to think "can I prove them wrong" and then I think "wait why do I want to prove them wrong? If they think negative of me oh well"

[@MiaStayingCreative]

I love you so much!!! Thanks for empowering women like me... you’re the best!

[@silentgrove7670]

Happy New Year Candace

[@KiTrina66]

I am enough on my own

[@jamestrouten3423]

Yes that is right

[@shanesimpson403]

Fabulous as always Candace. Big thank you and Happy New Year! Shane

[@CandacevanDell]

Happy New Year Shane!!

[@dripxaldasujs9033]

I appreciate your videos 💜💜💜

[@lucindasamira8351]

What a beautiful and valuable video! Thank you Candice 🙏🏻🌸

[@lucindasamira8351]

Listened to it while eating dinner. Actually gonna listen to it for a second time while doing the dishes. Really gonna let it sink in!

[@winniewinkles]

You’re so clever Candace, I love it

[@zozosworld222]

right on time, I love your energy so much, thank you. I am an empath (trying to retire) and I often struggle to feel seen without a partner

[@nolanotten6934]

I definitely needed to hear this thank you for the wonderful message!

[@camarorules1]

They all DID go away

[@laylamay1298]

I needed this reminder, thank you 🙏

[@aNnAkt1qw]

Love your work ❤️ thank you .

[@yarivdavidkohaly4998]

I loved this vid ❤️

[@oliviatabor7939]

Thank😢 you

[@camillesofina3461]

I just love you Candace

[@danaesancho2592]

How do you do it girl? ALWAYS know what to say and when... thank you!

[@tomrosenberg3591]

Thank you so much. ❤️

[@LisaSmith-yb2uz]

❤️🙏☺️Happy 2021 to you, Candace! ❣️

[@brendaleevillarreal9851]

heart this video thank you

[@annatippett1759]

I love your videos help me so much , relate to them , gives me confidence fo listen to myself xx

[@shaikhasameerah5749]

I agree that being on your own is enough because once you embrace that confidence.. There will come uncertainty its scary.. What should I do after? I Let go of control and let things flow.. So being confident and staying in the present 😁

[@luciagcastillo]

Gracias 💖

[@bonniedunbar6717]

I am totally independent and live alone. I know it's wrong but I feel when I have someone in my life I think I own them and they are like a possession that shouldn't be stollen away till I'm ready to let them go. So I have a childish fit when I feel threatened and don't know why because I am not afraid but a bit scared of losing them in case they are the one . I am a mess but want that person to stay because he wants to and not by forced guilt. I seem to be going through something.

[@surakshaguragain5538]

Perfect timing for me❤

[@darinattard]

Yep 👍 though I would have a coffee with you. Im an empath just like you xx

[@pauldncn1]

Thank you 🙏

[@SingingAppu]

I love you ❤️

[@mrsslamenjamen]

THANKYOU SOO MUCH FOR THIS!!!! 343 47 I AM ENOUGH 💘💘💘💘💘💘

[@fabianbier5795]

I think of getting this soul rehab membership but i am in the same situation cause my parents fucked my complete childhood from my 9th to my 20st year of living and all this emotions are buried so deep inside my head I'm not sure if this can be fixed again. And as a secondajor problem I am addicted to Heroin (I don't consume iv and not everyday but 1 to 3 days per week. I will be 23 years old in the next February and the only relationship I have or ever had we're my several addictions I started with alcohol at 15 and I was binge drinking which could have killed me at least 2 dozen of times til I was 20 so I was drinking on a regular schedule (2-5 days per week and at least once a week so much I blacked out) and since 2.5 years I am addicted to Heroin sometimes more sometimes less but I am still at least 6 days a week high on whatever I can get I tried probably more than 10 dozens of different drugs in the last 5 years... But a rehab at an hospital is not possible because I work 40+4 hours a week I only have Saturdays where I usually don't need to work. But to come to an end do you think I can test this soul rehab even if I'm not 100% sober but working on it because I don't believe I will get the help that I need any time soon could possibly be one or two years 🙈and I already was in 13 different therapies and not a single one helped until I got to use Heroin as antidepressant which let me loose 50kg of overweight and it killed my depression/emptyness or what we can kall this and I would tryout everything I can do to get back to a normal life because I need to hide my addiction from almost everybody... Thx in advance for reading and/or answering

[@paulmiller6647]

Amen

[@notavailable708]

Can you do any free consultation for your subscribers who cannot afford this? Pleaseeeee thank you What's your take on soul retrieval and shamanic healing?

[@brady3xox]

As humans, we are designed to love and and have meaningful relationships. Relationships are everything. I believe this is why I have such a strong desire to be in a romantic relationship, have a best girlfriend, etc.

[@camarorules1]

So my whole family is not right for me? Yes, it's been rough but here I

[@coreyreed606]

Word! Wealth, wisdom, and success aren't measured by $$ in universal terms. Gluttony, greed, power, envy, sloth, pride, wrath are the measurements of success used by man in this backwardized society. I pray for the shift 🌟💫🌟 I enjoy being enough on my own, and even take myself on dates. My friends laugh😂. Plus, I have plenty of love to share for those who need it most, since it's not being succubused by materialistic vampires😁 Cheers Candace!

[@val8232]

wow 👏🏻👏🏻💖

[@lenawall363]

Thank you i needed to hear that to day 1/1 2021.

[@camarorules1]

I am

[@LDelight77]

hi there! I signed up for the waitlist for Emotional Rehab weeks ago + am now getting emails to sign up. But the link only takes me to a page that asks me to join the waitlist again. So it's taking me in circles basically. Is it just full? It's confusing! thanks and happy new year

[@CandacevanDell]

Oh goodness! We haven’t opened it yet! The waitlist is still available. We will be sure to send you the link as soon as we open for enrollment! Stay tuned and I can’t wait to see you in class!

[@LDelight77]

@@CandacevanDell oh got it thanks :-)

[@KittenKingdom5]

10:01 what would happen if I think positively and the worse happens?

[@OmeHoney]

🙏🏽❤

[@MrAnders66]

Have u Cried Honey....?💖

[@minanihad9872]

Please make your course more affordable, I'm student and I can't afford your courses

[@momione11]

♥️

[@kaloskwwcc]

🙏

[@camarorules1]

Have you ever been alone a significant amount of time??

[@shonpaulperryii9635]

This chick hot

[@fabianbier5795]

I think of getting this soul rehab membership but i am in the same situation cause my parents fucked my complete childhood from my 9th to my 20st year of living and all this emotions are buried so deep inside my head I'm not sure if this can be fixed again. And as a second major problem I am addicted to Hero (I don't consume iv and not everyday but 1 to 3 days per week. I will be 23 years old in the next February and the only relationship I have or ever had we're my several addictions I started with alcohol at 15 and I was binge drinking which could have killed me at least 2 dozen of times til I was 20 so I was drinking on a regular schedule (2-5 days per week and at least once a week so much I blacked out) and since 2.5 years I am addicted to H sometimes more sometimes less but I am still at least 6 days a week high on whatever I can get I tried probably more than 10 dozens of different drugs in the last 5 years... But a rehab at an hospital is not possible because I work 40+4 hours a week I only have Saturdays where I usually don't need to work. But to come to an end do you think I can test this soul rehab even if I'm not 100% sober but working on it because I don't believe I will get the help that I need any time soon could possibly be one or two years 🙈and I already was in 13 different therapies and not a single one helped until I got to use H as antidepressant which let me loose 50kg of overweight and it killed my depression/emptyness or what we can call this and I would tryout everything I can do to get back to a normal life because I need to hide my addiction from almost everybody and I would kinda like thinking of going out with my "normal" friends last time was at least 4 years ago ... Thx in advance for reading and/or answering

[@goyaveful]

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