Is Premarital Sex Wrong? | Sadhguru

Sadhguru answers a student’s question on premarital sex, and explores how sexuality was handled traditionally in Indian culture, while outlining how society today needs to approach it.
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[@harshitsaxena151]

I think Sadhguru meant that there is nothing right or wrong about it but one must take the decision consciously and not compulsively taking into account all the possible consequences.

[@Pranay_singh_]

Right

[@lindaherbert3942]

Yes, but I would be more happier if he was direct and plain in his answer, he was diplomatic!

[@Pranay_singh_]

@@lindaherbert3942 direct answer is kin of controversial

[@mkhatri007]

if you said this to sadhguru , he would come up again starting with ... " see....etc" never answering the question.

[@jantjarks7946]

He gave the answer in the first part and points to the issues of today's societies and that we have to address them. Not that difficult to understand.

[@anumita4470]

So diplomatic, he didn’t even deny nor he gave acceptance😊

[@aatishthakkar587]

Exactlyyyyyy

[@AnkitYadav-3Op]

It should be diplomatic. There is no exact answer to it. Don't seek salvation here, go find it within yourself.

[@elonmusk4603]

Legend answer

[@mehulparmar7652]

Didn't say it because answer is NO.

[@rahulmanki7]

It's non-duality... Study hermetic principles...

[@shivanimishra4380]

The one thing I liked is how sadhguru said there's no right and wrong about sexuality, it's about the perspective that leads to it and we should discuss how and not why

[@stanlyvarghese9048]

but he didn't answer the question. What he said we all know. What everyone wanted to know was his percepective. He escaped the difficult question answering with more questions.

[@therakeshkumarrathore]

Bhagwat Geeta laughing at the corner

[@yeahyeahyeahyeahwhatever]

One of the more important things Sadhguru said here is regarding how the initial euphoria of attraction always eventually comes back to normal and the goddess or god you thought the other person was, starts to appear as the faulty human we all are most of the time. the lover who appeared to you as perfect becomes less than perfect. It is then your love is tested and it is then you will see how much you were being brainwashed by your hormones and it is then you can decide if you want to love them by continuing to accept them for the person they can't help but be.

[@roaming_rooma]

Absolutely right

[@amarendraborah6941]

Perception varies from person to person ! Propriety demands that one shouldn't think someone's perception as everyone's perception ! The world is, infact, very beautiful to look at ! However, it's entirely dependent upon the viewer and one's perspective - as to how does one look at it ! Scruples, be it truth, honestly, morality, or integrity - for instance - among others - are absolute - and - certainly not relative - to suit a particular situation - at the given point in time - under the given circumstances - according to someone's convenience ! How right was the great Swami Vivekanandji in his assessment in saying - "A truth can be stated in thousand different ways ; yet each one can be true !"

[@willkittwk]

I've always thought of myself as a James Bond type when it comes to women.

[@gunjangunjanrajput]

Good explanation that you given, absolutely agree

[@shimmersimi]

​@@amarendraborah6941this is the most beautiful thing I've read. Also how well phrased

[@sdj9919]

People complaining why he didn't answer with a 'no' or a 'yes'. A Guru would never do this. He would guide u to decide what is best for you as in this world there is no absolute answer. All I understood from his answer was premarital sex isn't wrong if true emotions are involved and a sense of commitment is there. Don't go banging around just confusing attachments with love and then getting heart-broken.

[@robindroojha6833]

Brother game is simple . If you want to get laid with someone make sure he/she will marry you for ur life. Nd if you have even 1% of doubt then just don't go further as it will just create inner chaos, discomfort and disgrace for entire life.

[@therakeshkumarrathore]

Bhagwat Geeta laughing at the corner

[@gojiberry7201]

Great question! I am proud of this lady for talking openly about this

[@humanismyt]

There is nothing to be proud.

[@anujrulaniya9991]

This is a thing that society should discuss and teach

[@mkzai]

I personally will remain a virgin, likewise I expect that my future wife will be a virgin too. Women of purity are for men with purity and men of purity are for women of purity. Impure women and impure men are for each other.

[@classic595]

I hope you find what youre looking for

[@mkzai]

@@classic595 Thank you. I hope the Same for you

[@ilijabrasic4999]

agreed

[@user-yn9sr7iw6g]

In any relationship important to have love and respect…every thing will be alright if you have this in relationship

[@VEDANT._.KHANDELWAL]

Natural process is good, but people go beyond that then that is the limit. So just take time to find your true love why be so excited about attaining physical pleasure focus more on spirituality and good karma which give us more internal peace, STAY FOCUSED BE CALM AND HAVE A GOOD DAY. NAMASKARAM. (Sorry if u get hurted, I am smaller than your age (20) so forgive me).

[@divyakulkarni6760]

Well said.

[@PrathamC25]

Superb comment man !

[@HeavenlyDemonicPotato]

It depends how kind your professor is . Hits hard

[@jaishreekrishna5438]

Don't do these things before its not good everything has time just wait for it

[@Manya__90]

Sadhguru gives always a diplomatic answer

[@commerce_Engineofchange]

First time someone have explained such a sensitive topic so sensibly

[@nenadexe]

He didn't answer it. I don't know what you understood hahah

[@luciagdibibal7702]

If done with the heart it's right ❤️🙏

[@soumithshroff8543]

Sadhguru is the only human being who just tells you where you got that question from and answers your question with a question. No head and tail in his answers most of the times. He just knows to speak speak and speak and end it with a question. So many times I've watched his videos for an answer and there's nothing except time waste. A guru is a person who teaches whats right, not just debate or leave you with more questions. Such a talent he's got to fool people.

[@stanlyvarghese9048]

answering questions with questions and open ended history lessons are definition of head and tail in answers. You are so right. Using knowledge of ancient india and of the indian rituals he just impressed the crowd and everyone forgets what the original question was. He has an extreme talent of evasion.

[@adityathota5158]

You did not understand his answers obviously, you want someone to say what is right and what is wrong? That's not it. In saw this vedio when I was in my teens and I am seeing it again and now I understood the answer. Looks like you already have something in your mind and you are listening to his answers with respective to whats on your mind. Listen it with open mind . unbiased mind

[@stanlyvarghese9048]

@@adityathota5158 I am quite unbiased I believe. What he told we all know. What we wanna know is his opinion on the matter which he did not clearly say. It was open-ended. I would say he was smart to do that since it is difficult question for him regarding his popularity among the youth. The answer would upset some people. Mostly I like him.

[@Qidawithaq]

​@@stanlyvarghese9048 what he told we do not all know😅 Don't make assumptions. I didn't know I like that he doesn't answer the questions directly he shouldn't. He is not God he doesn't get to say what is wrong what is right

[@stanlyvarghese9048]

@@Qidawithaq But we all have opinions. He was asked his opinion and he evaded the question entirely with a story. All the story said was do it in moderation but didn't say where did sadhguru drew the line of moderation. I am not a hater but I didn't like how the audience was wooing and none of them actually caught on to it...

[@adiyogiISHA]

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[@annotatedmedicaltutorials858]

so basically he is saying there is nothing wrong if both of you agree

[@samirkhan-jz8ge]

He is saying do the work consciously and remember the consequences of that action lol

[@sugizheng5209]

This is the good point about Indian, spirituality, faith, and cultures are all harmoniously united and cope very well with modern eras, even with westernization

[@brijesh244]

Round and round but no answer

[@pavankumarsingh6533]

4:48 to 5:00

[@alze3359]

@@pavankumarsingh6533 no answer

[@elonmusk4603]

😅😅😂

[@jackhammer6882]

Exactly what I am thinking

[@anubhavjha854]

Round Round mat ghum victor...centre ki baat bhol

[@selinegeorge2494]

I agree with what sadguru said... I would say every individual should be fulfilled their fundamental needs...... This is normally adopted in all other continents except for a few Asian countries...

[@NolanGraysonNowl]

Premarital sex is wrong Best example from maharashtra- Karna

[@jer103]

One other view on this topic comes from the Chinese Zodiac. From the age 12 to 24 is the FIRE stage of life. Think of the element of fire. It is passion, anger, lust, and passion. This exactly describes the teenage years. I learned this from the book Chinese Astrology by Shelly Wu.

[@rajaverse]

I am 24 and still virgin does that mean from next year my feelings go down without experiencing it.

[@jer103]

​@@rajaverse No, you go onto the next cycle of your life, which is your Earth 12 years.

[@ShivamYadav-tm4wm]

Sadhguru explained why it happens but didn't gave the answer we needed. Whether it's right or wrong? one should hold themselves till they get married or not? He said human wants to reproduce body is made like that then why contraception exists? Even if reproduction is what body is made for then should we reproduce with any person we're in relation with without tying a knot of marriage? In my opinion it's better to stay a virgin until one gets married that's what i think.

[@ShivamYadav-tm4wm]

@jeffin that's what i said brother but no one wants to do yoga i don't know they just want to get laid.

[@redundant_raj]

Or you could use contraception since it exists?

[@darshanapanwar7]

He said one must be emotionally bound and at an early age around 25, if a person's emotional and physical need is fulfilled then he can attain higher dimensions by focusing on things needed to be done as a human race so clearly he meant it's not about pre or post it's about how well you can be with the person you love both emotionally and physically.

[@samo_ammo]

Being patient is the key. Why rush? I agree with you 💯 👍

[@jesusislord3321]

Yes!!!!! I am in total agreement with you. I hate it when people (spiritual leaders, regardless of what it is) finds it difficult to answer a simple "yes" or "no" question.

[@raymondtendau2749]

Body means different things to different people.For a child, the body and its functions are unfamiliar and new.A child is coming to terms with the body's basic functions and is learning how to maintain and preserve it.For the youth the body is a vehicle fuelled by hormones and all it takes to Hijack the attention of the youth is Handsome face or Svelt body.For someone in the middle age, the body begins to reveal it's true quality,transient and temporary. Limbs,organs and parts of the body one's unworthy of notice now begins to nag and demand consideration. For the Old, body means Pain and difficulty. -Sadhguru Mind is your business.

[@saniya8326]

What a comment 👌👏👏

[@lilithsrainb23lionsrloose19]

Guru uncle I have had the same partner since I came back from India and Thailand age 18 sir 37 now lol Never married sir have 3 kids , lost a baby And the rock bottom gave me enlightenment and a mirror Once I could see myself and my beauty no more garden eater , and the wheel did spin Now I'm just thankful for my blessings

[@manasavaranasifan]

Is she from pattaya?

[@lilithsrainb23lionsrloose19]

@@manasavaranasifan nah she don't titty twist or play ping pong hahahhaha

[@darshanrai6612]

It's a human need! Now I'll tell my father to look for a bride and we will do it in the traditional way.

[@Whisky88]

😂😂😂

[@craftymind2778]

All the best

[@kartikeyadubey1266]

I want to say that it is written in our oldest and greatest text Bhagvad Gita that any sex outside the marriage is considered illicit, not acceptable, it is a big sin. Marriage is a holy activity in one's life therefore only the sex between boy and girl, who are married to each other , is a good thing. Therefore we should control our senses till marriage and if one cannot do so then he/she should soon get married. Sense control can be achieved by spirituality , chanting god's name and meditation.

[@Honesty211]

100 % agreed

[@SHATRUJEET-sj7sx]

Yes

[@harshitasingh7268]

Didn't find that in bhagvat gita. Chapter and verse number please?

[@kartikeyadubey1266]

@@harshitasingh7268 Read the translations and purports of verse 4.26, 6.14 and 7.11 of BHAGVAD GITA.

[@baekhyun3001]

There is nothing like sin in Hinduism pls don't spread rubbish things.

[@siddharthlachhwani1]

Immense wisdom Guruji 🙏. Your logics organically induce rational thought process and push us to be a better intellect human. It just fill my heart with gratitude, many many thanks Sir 🙏🙏🙏

[@nikitayadav1958]

I felt that sadhguru never answers a question in an exact way..... because there's no single answer....he gives his opinion....and the rest depends on ur perspective....he doesn't give answer yet answers all the questions....and that's the beauty ❤️ If ur looking for the answers....no one will give it to u.... because it lies within.....maybe someone is required to show u the way to find it

[@boomshorts8331]

Because if he gives an exact answer he might get into trouble.

[@nikitayadav1958]

@@boomshorts8331 yeah because someone people find it correct and some not

[@movieflix5595]

True indeed. Everything has its own perspective. What is true for someone might not be true for everyone. We must give our second thought before going for "Absolutism" in anything. Loved it..."If ur looking for the answers....no one will give it to u.... because it lies within...."👍

[@satyanadar730]

If you want your future husband/wife to be untouched you should be untouched too..!

[@fleurdejasmin2550]

I think this video is perfect to combine with videos and shorts about love to deeply understand. Like the video : “ your confusion about love clarified “ of this channel.

[@alokpratapsingh5427]

No Seal No Deal Simple.

[@Vijayecolandscapers]

100 % true he's telling

[@anonymousstudent2006]

If done with heart, it's right!❤️😊

[@gayathriramme6756]

The answer is partial yes and partial no. Until both gets conflicts and hurt each other. If you really control your feeling from a person with whom we are getting intimated before marriage. If we are able to control why can't we control our body from intimation? Go ahead

[@Bhavin734]

Sadguru answered it very diplomatically which i didn't like it..!! I was expecting some eye opening advice for young generation who is wasting their energy and time at very young age in this kind of stuff and considering it cool..!! Nowadays before getting married, every couples are having a multiple sex partners, do we want such kind of society where sex is the only prime emotion and other things are irrelevant..!!

[@amanrajput8970]

Pranam Sadhguru ❤️🙏🏻

[@khushi-4900]

Simple logic Give that person your everything about whom you are sure you have real connection not like today meet and tomorrow do That's just an satisfaction of some minutes But their touch is something which your body remember for so many decades So if you care about your sexual life then follow if don't then go for hook-ups no one can do anything

[@devsolanki9160]

Shall i tell my parents *bahu mil gayi*

[@khushi-4900]

@@devsolanki9160 hehe for what reason 😂

[@devsolanki9160]

@@khushi-4900 it's just hard to find someone who has such perspective andd have Sanskrit verse in bio

[@khushi-4900]

@@devsolanki9160 oh thanks ❤️ Actually it is it's harsh reality But I won't follow the crowd 😌 I love reading and knowing about my scriptures my root my ancestors

[@devsolanki9160]

@@khushi-4900 same..

[@alkasoli4002]

Why can't they wait till marriage?? What is wrong in making marriage public? I am not fan of luxurious wedding.... Why can't they go for register marriage??

[@lakshyakumarjha7240]

Because marriage is not just about sexual intimacy

[@alkasoli4002]

@@lakshyakumarjha7240 that's true..

[@ayeshaclassesgk]

Sadguru ji▫️Thank u so much for uploading for us we love u keep it up♡ । The amount of effort you gives for this videos are insane we all love your vdos

[@mcmacshalfilya]

I say we can wait til marriage. But get married rather swiftly. As far as the love drifting or fading, I'm usually the opposite. It grows and strengthens continually. And EXPANDS💥💌💎

[@rohitajith2728]

Thanks for such great messages Sadhuru ji

[@rameshkarnik2502]

Sadguru is spot on!! When I was around 14-15 or so, there was a girl who was being talked of as my prospective wife, by elders on both sides, younger to me by about 3 years or so. We became friends, got emotionally attached, (as Sadguru says) and when we attained maturity, continued with our longing for each other. The rest of the story is different, I donot wish to state here, as it is not relevant. Now I am 76 and when I look back, it was a very thoughtful arrangement by elders in the society, at least they made a sincere efforts to settle this human issue. Another example; I was teaching in a B-School post retirement from IAF. One day I happened to come across a student of mine in a disturbed state of mind, who was otherwise very lively in the class. On probing, I found out that there was pressure from his parents that he gets married to a girl, known to and quite acceptable to him, as his grandma was on almost death bed and she wanted to see them married before her death. He was disturbed because, he was financially not independent, his friends made fun of him as he was only 21+ , studies would be disturbed and so on. Well, guess what, I succeeded in convincing him to agree and get married immediately. I assured him that it would help him study better than studying in his present state of mind. Everything ended happily. I am a very strong advocate of men and women getting married when the emotions & physical needs are at peak and with one adjustment regarding child birth. I t will do wonders to you my dear youngsters. It will also address many social ills haunting our present youngster. Good luck.

[@ittech1774]

There must be a particular class in every school on this topic 🌹🙏

[@andreww3621]

LOL, no. Then the topic gets littered with propaganda. Let families and friends discuss it. It should not be up to schools to teach morals.

[@jeeaspirant8562]

@@andreww3621 Common W andrew

[@WhiteMetal_]

For me It's a 'Absolute NO' If you're interested in all this then Don't expect a good spouse either You get what you deserve Hookups are temporary & Marriage is not. Do you think premarital s"x & hookups are not related to increasing divorce rate ?

[@lakshyakumarjha7240]

You simply mean that you would like to know virginity of your match before marrying... Tharak to pura bhara hoga par biwi ekdam virgin chahiye aah? "Good" hone se sexual relationships ka kya lena dena?

[@WhiteMetal_]

@@lakshyakumarjha7240 How would you know ki "Tharak pura bhara hua hai mujhme" Have I slept with ur S/ster ? Read my 4th line again

[@deeksha_pal]

@@lakshyakumarjha7240 accurate

[@manasavaranasifan]

@@lakshyakumarjha7240 Not all men are same. Only Playboys deserve broken seal maal. We want seal packed maal🙂

[@lakshyakumarjha7240]

@@manasavaranasifan Feel pity on your thoughts

[@KironKundu]

Sadhguru and his words❤️

[@sagarsc07]

conclusion: love is in air

[@gemechistekaye2268]

SADGURU is the best, anti-illiteracy!!!!!!!!.

[@user-lu2he8ev4h]

Yes this is the individual concent when both are the agree to do with the full consciousness and know the drawbacks 🙂

[@paritoshjha28]

These is re-upload, the complete video was a gem

[@baljeetkaur659]

In this video sadguru didn't deny the needs of the body but he also said that if somebody knows there true self he don't need this thing.what does it mean of true self? True self only means that you are nor this body and mind. And to know your true self you need to do meditation .After that there's no need of controlling your body and mind. It happened automatically.

[@gouravraghuwanshi]

Save Soil for ecological situations 🙏

[@magha786]

It's very obvious that positive will definitely attract negative but the thing is our mind should be capable enough to take right and mature decision patiently that whether I am really capable of that right now or it's just an excited state of my emotions which obviously is not at all STABLE .....

[@maxinepeel7057]

Societies that impose marriage to their children at such an early age have their ideas and reasons that are only for their own norms and values. Some European countries sexuality is a normal part of life - everyone can and will do it and some won't. In the Western World after the 70s the sexual revolution took place and most know how that went and how sexuality as been transformed has not always for the betterment of the individuals. It is meant to be a subjective area in a person's life - there shouldn't be any right or wrong. Moderation is key as in everything...Thanks.

[@rohitbhat326]

It's only wrong when one of the partner has saved himself or herself for marriage... -Akhand single sakht londa 🤪😎

[@utubefreak7167]

Saved or didn’t get a chance?

[@jigyasasvlogs2308]

The game of harmones is our hobbies now a days....... We are not doing anything but harmones making us to do that

[@ticklingtick9292]

People thinks he always gives a diplomatic answer but infact he gives the solution so that the question never arises.

[@madhumitha_Raja1234]

it's very bad to do sex with any person whom u like. It's the worst thing to say. as an elderly person he should say about Indian culture and the marriage system. If anyone participates in sex with a person and after that, he married another person. They will face several problems in their married life. I just can't understand how people make a such stupid decisions without thinking about the future and the consequences. Finally, if anyone goes into a relationship with others before marriage or the back side of their life partner they will face many issues. there are thousands of cases with family consultants and courts regarding this matter.

[@travellingyoginikas]

I am Indian but born and raised in the UK. However I did stay in India for 3 consecutive years. In my opinion Sadhguru speaks alot of sense in this video. For example, in a society where sex is a taboo subject...... Some people release their suppression in many ways. In very violent, unlawful and aggressive ways towards solo female travellers like myself. And those undesirable people get away with it as they pay off the police to cover up their crimes. I have seen this behaviour in big tourist resorts. However I have also seen a lot of behaviours of people in India who display emotional and sexual intelligence. And that's super as it shows that india is becoming forward thinking. From my point of view as a Solo female traveler it's important to stay in Indian villages and not conventional tourist resorts. Also I travelled on 40 hour train journeys across the country and met many amazing Indian people on the trains. Families who would share their food with me and keep me company. India is complex, but it is changing for the better. Especially for women. And I find that more and more people are now talking about sex which is of course a very Important thing to do in society. As that will reduce the negative behaviors which are brought on by suppression. I hear many people say they are proud to be an Indian and India is the best country in the world. In terms of it's cultural depth re the food, the Hinduism (bar the caste system) and the places of interest I would agree with that one. But only for those specific things. Thank you for reading

[@annora6882]

Caste system has nothing to do with indian culture. The british created the caste system in India

[@travellingyoginikas]

@@annora6882 the British did not create the caste system. It was already in India and created by Hinduism. Unfortunately the British did utilize the caste system though. But the British left many years ago and the caste system is still apparent in India. Unfortunately it is part of India. A part that is not great at all. But I guess it's about focussing on the good stuff in India. Re the culture In terms of it's food, landscapes, kind people etc

[@keerthinarsing]

@@travellingyoginikasCaste system was done created by Hinduism..Its created by British only

[@travellingyoginikas]

@@keerthinarsing it's not. You need to read around the subject of the caste system. It's a very old fashioned part of Hinduism. And the British exploited it. But India is independent now (and quite rightly so). And it's now the responsibility of India to abolish the caste system and focus on equality, provision of a minimum wage and no more exploitation.

[@utkarshsingh6823]

@@travellingyoginikas it's varna system divided by karma of individual not by birth u illiterate first read the scriptures

[@poojajaiswal6111]

Sadhguru and Devdutt should meet and discuss cultural and societal reformation by retaining Indian values.

[@IdiomsNTime]

i don't think he answered the question. I thing he just said you figure it out.... such wisdom !!!!!!!

[@IdiomsNTime]

@jeffin so why didnt he say what you said? It sounds like a bunch of bullshit with no moral compass

[@legal_solutions_india]

@jeffin who said there's nothing wrong in yoga. There is YAM NIYAM in yoga which says it is wrong.

[@sunmyko]

Great discussion! Looking fresh sir 💜💚💛

[@SANJAYGIRI-ir8uy]

Consciously not compulsively to prove your love.

[@yashicakoul2911]

Again, there is nothing right or wrong it’s the individual’s choice

[@sriniyc1970]

Its important that people who preach also practice the same. Iam hoping that all the wise words said are actually lived, else it becomes a mere rhetoric, parroting nice to know things which are unlikely to have a transformational impact on people. Hope all these words are backed up by utmost integrity , steadfast devotion to god and commitment to Dharma at all times. All due respects to Sadguru. I just wrote my thoughts and am not hinting at anything from sadhguru's life.

[@cratisaw8336]

Amazed to see this kind of banal topic in such a channel，in other words, I’m surprised that it can be a question that needs to be discussed in these comments rather than having been answered in everyone’s heart.

[@rajeevranjanverma8220]

Jai Hind 🇮🇳🚩

[@ahmedtijanitanko2534]

He left it as it is

[@jaxwhyland]

I beleive sex before marriage is immoral. Simply for the fact that if you cant keep it in your pants long enough to build a genuine and committed relationship with someone long enough to commit to a holy vow for life, theres nothing to say that the entire relationship isnt built on simple lust and desire. The reward for staying virtuous and pure until marriage is that youre relationship has a foundation of something real and unchanging. Sex at that point is the recognition that youve done the hard work to give you the best shot at fulfilling your vows "till death do we part"

[@YashMali747]

We want Sadhguru on Sandeep Maheshwari show 🔥🙏

[@smitasingh6773]

Please, dont ruin it

[@satyapriygaikwad]

Off course! It is wrong....

[@amarendraborah6941]

Perception varies from person to person ! Propriety demands that one shouldn't think someone's perception as everyone's perception ! The world is, infact, very beautiful to look at ! However, it's entirely dependent upon - the viewer and one's perspective - as to how does one look at it ! Scruples - be it truth, honestly, morality, or integrity - for instance - among others - are absolute - and - certainly not relative - to suit a particular situation - at the given point in time - under the given circumstances - according to someone's convenience ! How right was the great Swami Vivekanandji in his assessment in saying - "A truth can be said in thousand different ways ; yet each one can be true !"

[@dabunnyrabbit2620]

This is my hop, no it's not wrong, its very important, because if you are tied to someone (marriage) and you find out you don't work in bed, that is going to lead to problems and could ultimately lead to divorce. But you should never take it lightly and understand the bonds and emotional attachments it creates. Discuss it if you can, make sure you both are ready, and if it happens spontaneously discuss it after or you might not need to, it's up to you.

[@Djbigfella1]

So was that a yes, or a no?

[@rnt663]

I think I have seen this video 4 year ago. It's not new it is repeated. Ya I found it . It is a part of youth and truth at JNU

[@EnlightenedDeen235]

He indirectly said that he don't know the answer and to find the answer we should debate on this

[@surajsinghmapingart2351]

thanks guru ji for out negativity

[@ProGamer-od8tt]

Think about your parents if they have slept with someone else before there marriage would like to accept it?And like anything you have done first time in life it's get remembered for life time. At your old age what are your best memories ,the person before marriage or after marriage? If you really wanted to get intimate with the person better to tie a knot with them.(Person opinion)

[@AashishJhaMusic]

Exactly

[@ldgaming5191]

Who is sleeping with whom should never b the biggest concern and consent is much more important than tieing something

[@guppyd69]

Absolutely

[@Gsham007]

Not going into spiritual aspects but logical, that its not about right or wrong. Its about the compulsive nature which animals possess of doing things out of pleasure without thinking of the consequences and this makes us even more dizzy about life in the sense we will do other activities unconsciously and compulsively like addiction and such consequences have to be dealt with.

[@dineshgour5572]

Beautiful answer sadguru🙏

[@shashanksingh2972]

Premarital sex is a sin. Repent

[@makhdoommohammad8923]

I think sadguru is leaving this question to debate on how it must be done. However, he highlights sadhanas for youngsters so that they don't jeopardise their potential and future by getting distracted by their sex drive . He also stresses the fact that our harmones tend to hijack our intelligence quite often when we fall in love with some one and decide to start a relationship with them without getting a deeper measure of them

[@goldenstatekidd7995]

If done with the heart it is not immoral he explained it very well but you people want a yes or no so badly 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

[@SHATRUJEET-sj7sx]

No people like u want to make this confusion. This is wrong in every manner

[@Ggdivhjkjl]

As you said, throughout history young people frequently married thanks to the help of their loving parents arranging their marriages. It's a shame so many parents neglect their offspring these days by not arranging marriages for them early enough.

[@jeffn1384]

Loved it when the music stopped

[@thrinathamovva7429]

3:50 - 5:30 I keep coming back for this especially.

[@nerdbamarich2063]

Thank you so much for this

[@RestWithin]

Wisdom! The west has got it entirely wrong, in simpler times when we used to be peasants in Britain there was a certain degree of family guidance and matchmaking between the “houses”. Now we forfeit our children in the womb for women’s ambitions and careers and our nation is dying, it is not reproducing itself and children suffer from neglect because mothers are at work and return home exhausted or parents divorce, emotionally damaging the children who no longer feel secure. Adults have lost their sense of duty to the vulnerable and to each other. Listen to your guru, he’s right. With love from the UK. 🙏🏻

[@blanqui2040]

He's not saying anything of this sort, at all. I would love to see you living back in those "simpler times" lol. The reason why that changed is that it didn't work. Our society now doesn't work either, but these are not the only two possibilities for us as a species. And as an interesting fact: living in communities, rather than individual houses/families, has always been the natural way of human groups to organize, and the one that works best. Stop throwing your political thinking here, and saying sh*t about how bad is that women have paid jobs.

[@SirCasticTalk]

If you focus his answer most of the time he gives deplomatic answer 😂😂

[@anish7183]

As long as you're above the age of 20 (most psychologists say this is best age) and you use clean practices and protection then it is not wrong

[@Pranay_singh_]

Just dont change your partner

[@Pranay_singh_]

@@anish7183 I wish my patner to be loyal so same goes for me

[@davidlabarca]

Loyal to who? 🔥

[@benergy100k2]

*He's always said he, "can't give you every answer you need. You have to use your brains".*

[@reed574]

@@anish7183yeah that just leads to dissatisfaction and misery from not forming a real connection

[@girlfromurnightmare3996]

He kinda dodged the question??

[@Jack_Hanzo]

If you don't want marriage, nor children, you probably won't marry nor have children. It's the same with belief. If you don't want to, you probably won't. And you'll do whatever it takes to protect your 'beliefs'.

[@sagarsc07]

koi he yahaa joh mere sath emotions bond kare taki me better focus kr saku? 😥😥, anyone???

[@sojasanthoshhariom2240]

Good Question. It shall be discussed .

[@adityasinha6818]

I think India should reject this western culture and bring back what we lost. Especially the culture is really bad right now. People are emotionally damaged by the number of failures.

[@mkc0321]

to summarize, sex is natural urge which has nothing to do with marriage..address how you will deal with the natural urges

[@mikefa5891]

Sometimes Sadhguru is able to share some wisdom with his followers, and sometimes, as in this case, have absolutely no clue what he is talking about.

[@arjuna1756]

Fantastic knowledge

[@russianpowerZV]

Very important topic 👏 👌 👍 Although it's old

[@hlo.aryankashyap]

Tu kyu dekh rha hai bhai meme pops up

[@SatyaVakku-DivyaVani]

If he knows about it he will say it is right .or it is wrong ,but he don't say clearly it is right or wrong