Is She Bored During Sex? (5 Things She Wants in Bed) | Sex and Relationship Coach | Caitlin V

No woman will ever tell you that you're boring her in bed. So, how do you know if she's actually enjoying herself or not? In this video, I'm going to show you the THREE major signs she's bored during sex, and five ways to spice things up in the bedroom so you can reignite your passion, provide more orgasms and pleasure, and ultimately, enjoy sex more often.💋SHE COMES TOO: LEGENDARY LOVER COURSE: BE THE BEST SHE WILL EVER HAVE💋
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00:00 Start
01:28 How can you tell if she's bored in the bedroom?
03:24 The tools you need to make sure she is never bored AGAIN
06:29 5 things she wishes you did in bed..
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[@CaitlinV]

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[@roberttootle5506]

It’s not always on the guy she has too be open to change! I feel it’s 50/50

[@valerylionel]

You should do a he's bored. I've had experience with woman who are not as sexually adventurous or high sex drive as me and I eventually get bored

[@krishnendhuchakra6358]

you are right ! 😎

[@WhenAphroditeSpeaks]

It definitely goes both ways! Yup!

[@wsmaga]

She wouldn’t be able to do that. She’s not a man, she can only speak on a women’s side of things, and you already see how she thinks.

[@tiezine9583]

Guess a male needs to do that. Since they aren't supposed to speak or do anything but work, survive, pro create and die though... not likely.

[@theguyfromwalgreens]

I know one of the best moments came when I just lightly latched on to her while on the phone with her family. I’d still love to know what her grandmother thought as she lost all concentration of what the topic was & then the “I gotta go” when she stopped on the phone. She usually always has the “I love you.” to a giggle “Uh…I gotta go.” I was thinking JACKPOT!! One of the best moments.

[@davidshillito]

Wut?

[@Stixenterprise]

Caitlin, creativity and communication works both ways dear. Having said this, my ladies enjoy being blinded, soft caresses, and enjoy some levels of BDSM to get their minds going crazy!

[@richardpauly1635]

Yes both should be satisfied not just one partner.

[@davidwayne5951]

Him:..."Let me know what pleases you..." Her:..."If I have to tell you then I'm not interested."

[@stuartsmith1139]

Me"then you aren't worth my time"

[@djackman9746]

Classic

[@mateocarlos2674]

I'm so glad I know what the hell I'm doing.

[@LuchadorMasque]

@@mateocarlos2674 you know the whole people with money don't talk about it thing?

[@tonykruz7620]

They Think we have a glass ball

[@michaelmaultsby895]

The first season of “24” was awesome! Every other season was too similar to the first.

[@Bob-yl9pm]

Caitlin V? Yes! Sweet heart! Deal with the criticism along with your loving fans! It's all part of our amazing humanity!

[@SimonAmazingClarke]

Love your video's. I've been following your channel for a couple of years. But, here is a question. If she is bored in the bedroom, isn't it also up to her to do the spicing? I've just ordered a silk blindfold.

[@davidswanson6219]

great video Caitlin 👍 hope you have a great week

[@thealphasalpha]

Probably one of the best videos of yours I've watched, Caitlin!! 👌🏾👌🏾 also, blindfolds will be the next tool I use!! 😈🧣

[@absb.5978]

I can definitely recommend the blindfold. For both of you actually. And some cuffs. Cuffs are always good 😊

[@joshuayow4653]

I've never had a "she's bored" problem but I've definitely had a " I'm bored of f@cking a sack of potatoes" problem. Most chicks expect men to do everything in my experience.

[@witch_hour7042]

Why do you think that is....???

[@joshuayow4653]

@@witch_hour7042 stupid question. But thanks for playing.

[@wsmaga]

You are 100% correct.

[@bravojohnson5050]

Amen

[@TheGreyguse]

I love your videos! I watch them on my smoke break at work!

[@absb.5978]

That beard is majestic af. Just had to put it out there 😅

[@TheGreyguse]

@@absb.5978 why thank you

[@WhenAphroditeSpeaks]

I know! She is super entertaining!

[@SpotterSky]

Love this video! Caitlin I enjoy your seriousness and humor at the same time. Your advice is a great inspire and valuable to me as a man!

[@lwscorpians]

I love this woman

[@traditionaltools5080]

The truth is women get bored fast. That's no surprise. On the flip side, just because men get off doesn't mean it was good. Which means men have to constantly try harder. While women just have to show up. What women has ever gone to those lengths for a man?

[@absb.5978]

I think the takeaway from this video is that when a woman is bored in bed, there's usually a reason. And if you as a man want the sex between you two improve, there's a few simple things you could do to help things along. Nobody said good sex is a man's sole responsibility. But y'all certainly have a role to play 😅 I am a woman and I make sure that my sex game is on point. I work on my skills (almost summer, so bring on the popsicles! 😈), I do research because I want to be able to understand my partner and his body. And whenever I have sex, I make sure both me and my partner have a blast. I am proud to see how I can affect my partner and to witness him enjoying himself. There are plenty of women who do the same. The thing is, that type of woman usually doesn't go for a starfish or one trick pony 😑 We expect the same from our partners. You really don't have to be a sex god, but actually making an effort goes a long way. Honestly, a tidy room and nice atmosphere are things that you would probably do for yourself anyway. I do ask that my partner shows me the same consideration that I show him. I don't really think that's unreasonable 😉

[@kbanghart]

My wife asked me once if I would like to have an open relationship :)

[@Atem_S.]

All of them and more!

[@rianjones6142]

It's almost always a million things men has to do to keep woman interested and happy, and not board, in order to perhaps get a bit of time and reaction from them. I'm done...

[@ChadChamberlainOperatio2088]

i couldn't agree more... it almost seems as though the woman has absolutely no responsibility during, before and after sex. for example, if she's bored during sex, why can't she just say something? Why can't the women on occasion offer or even dare i say lead in changing things up... sex is a 2 way street... but this doesn't make it seem like it is...

[@azambinomar7398]

@@ChadChamberlainOperatio2088 relationship itself is a two way street but nowadays all i see “man do this man do that” we have problems in our life too people don’t always have the energy to deal with woman’s boredom all the time Shits fucked up man

[@Bob-yl9pm]

Caitlin V, Thank goodness you haven't been banned/disenfranchise by KZbin! You are marvelous, beautiful, and a breath of fresh air to us beta males! (like me ;) ) who BTW, actually rule the Roost! (actually, our wives do)

[@dennisbednarz8196]

Why is it put all on the guys? It takes two! Where is her part in it?

[@mateocarlos2674]

The fact that you asked the question shows me that you don't get it. Let's put it like this: Being a good lover as a man requires 1) Be with a girl that excites you and you want to get to know her. 2) get to know her non-sexually, allow trust to establish. 3) when the time is right, be a man. 4) Because you did the first two steps, if you have some experience, you will know how to touch her buttons and you will enjoy it too! Her part is she gave you a chance. If you know what you're doing, you rarely fumble the ball.

[@dennisbednarz8196]

I’ve been married for 32 years and have 4 children and 8 grandchildren. It still takes two. If the women just lays there like a wore out dishrag that’s no fun for a guy.

[@WhenAphroditeSpeaks]

I just talked a friend of mine and he has been married to his wife for over 20 years now. He said: "Our sex is wild and hotter than ever!" I asked him what's their secret. The answer was they keep it tight. When they spend time apart from each other, they don't engage in pornography, don't cheat, don't flirt with others. They bring it all back home hungry for more...

[@gnutzz22]

I now remember I used to do this . I can’t remember why it stopped . Trying these first chance I get

[@Bob-yl9pm]

Caitlin V, You are a freedom fighter against mindless sexual repression! Thank You! You know when you are over the target, when you encounter flak, Have you noticed? Those "Hollier's than thou" are the WORST hypocrites!" and the worst exploiters of human innocence and happiness! YES! WE PROTECT THE YOUNG AND INOCENT! by being humbly honest with ourselves, and just, and fair But maybe us old folk's need something better than bingo and crossword puzzles? THE INTERNET! Halleluiah!

[@slaveskater]

Thank you

[@azthundercloud]

When i was in the phillippines we had a shop chief let it slip that the girl he was with reached over and started peeling fruit. The whole shop lost it. Never laughed so hard.

[@funnythings5454]

I love your spagetti sleeves. Plz tell me where to get one

[@oceanhedonist265]

What about if she's boring and he's bored. What then? 🤔

[@chrisanziano1781]

Exactly.

[@walktheworld]

Paul Simon has some advice for that situation. Look up "50 Ways to Leave your Lover".

[@WhenAphroditeSpeaks]

Time to hire a sex coach!

[@oceanhedonist265]

@@WhenAphroditeSpeaks Have at it! 🤠

[@theme6590]

Then move on, or stick around happy to just sleep next to your friend! There are lovers, there are friends, there are people that can be both, and then there are people you're incompatible with! You choose...Its not rocket science🙄

[@aaroncoffman7267]

Caitlin help!!! Could you do a pregnancy video? My wife and I have a fairly healthy sex life but we’re at the stage where it’s getting a little difficult. Specifically, I’m not as able to be as ‘physical’ with her during because I’m worried about making her uncomfortable. And also I think it’s getting harder for her to relax and enjoy as well. Any tips you can share?

[@bill4632]

Shower sex helped when my wife was pregnant. She loved it

[@tonykruz7620]

Men need the exactly the same thing,,, men get bored when having a unapreciate women, and many other etcssss..

[@KZAG95]

I need more toys,, but I hate that males feel like they are being replaced in a sense. Like no no I just need more areas covered mate.

[@Prairielander]

Toys. Covered. Buys 50,000 orbeez.

[@hungatoyideemmanuel2379]

You can add me..I've got many areas to cover for you 😉

[@christophera.thomas1562]

How do I get access to she comes too

[@bin4ry_d3struct0r]

What was the 3rd sign?

[@Krystallynn-rc2mp]

5 love them

[@ASAM97.1]

Anw what if I am the one who's bored?😓 and she's a little bit too inactive?

[@matojo3280]

That's orange looks good on you

[@scottneal2738]

Need more on how to change her from just enjoying it laying there to jumping and do what she did before to make it not so boring on my end. She's not into doing anything anymore

[@saranicole893]

She knows what she’s talking about. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Smart guys will listen and take notes.

[@semiauto123456789]

Who doesn't get bored if it's the same thing every single time??? I know I do! I need more then the same thing every time.

[@youraccount7003]

Without a doubt, the biggest problem for women of my generation is that they were brainwashed as children to believe that sex was dirty, sinful and bad. In order for them to fully engage and let go with wild abandon, the things you discuss here are sadly pretty much essential. You have to either change the way she thinks or stop her thinking about it. Women with this old mentality fear giving up control of their bodies and find it difficult to open up to new sexual experiences. Even though sometimes their bodies may be screaming for sex inside, she may choose sexual frustration over appearing sexually promiscuous. Check out what female hysteria was about and how doctors cured afflicted women. They invented the vibrator to help them relive women.

[@Leggir]

Blindfold, but seriously thinking about your course. 🤔

[@jeremesmith9266]

and what if the man is bored? Sex is a 2way street ladies. It’s not always about you and your ego.

[@lauraarmes7665]

Both parties need to put effort in for sure but that's not the title of the video.

[@absb.5978]

This is why people should have actual conversations with their sex partners. That way when someone gets bored, a solution gets discussed 😉

[@SandTguy]

@@lauraarmes7665 It does no have to have a thing to do with the video title. Women are all for themselves they could give to shits. If us guys are haveing any funny at all. Women its not all bout You its a two way street and the sooner You get and understand that. The sooner the better.

[@lauraarmes7665]

Someone's sensitive. 🤣

[@highermind4151]

Yep,make em work

[@marcremi3907]

Caitlin, I looks like you skinned and are wearing one of the Martians from Sesame Street.....YEPYEPYEPYEPYEP!

[@lauraarmes7665]

Best video you've ever done! Wish the guy i saw during the pandemic had watched this. Lol.

[@MASON091]

I’m watching it!! 😁

[@richardpauly1635]

Your stunning I would not be bored with you communication is the best to enjoy each other

[@lauraarmes7665]

@@richardpauly1635 thank you! And communication is key, absolutley.

[@antoinelyons5323]

He must didn’t listen to you

[@lyntonhunter2879]

What happened to a lot of us we fail to communicate 😊😊😊😊 she won't say and I never asked and the other way around we need to ask him/her and tell this is not a one man/woman show it is said team work makes the dream work but I say make the dream flows

[@MrJuanJito]

This is all good information, but not a reality for a couple that work all day. This could work for people that hace a lot of time.

[@mikemurphy7092]

So true 100%real talk caitlyn V

[@coastalgrasslander4511]

you say the lack of novelty claim is back up by science. i'd like to see the citations to non survey studies. i'm skeptical because in observing several partners in the flesh, i've noticed that their masturbation practice is invariably predictable, in terms of friction to particular spots. something else is going on, and it's not in the physical act, which really doesn't vary in it's effort to orgasm.

[@lwscorpians]

Starcade

[@brumashousley9344]

Only boring people get bored, I was taught this when I was 5, speaks volumes about people's mindsets these days?

[@danielg3727]

All I can think of now is Cheetos because of your sweater. 😋

[@bryannelson-airtimegrafix6954]

What if the man is bored??

[@Mercy1-]

Lmao Yeaaaa now I know what Dominance mean

[@theitchuk]

When she started asking for help with the crossword clues, I suspected she might be secretly bored.

[@WhenAphroditeSpeaks]

Cute.

[@caseygregor]

We're usually pretty good. But we have plenty of novelty. And just isn't enough a lot of times. This doesn't take into account life stress, kids, etc. And like many comments here, it seems like the men need to do all the work. Well some times that gets to be absolutely exhausting when she doesn't put in the effort.

[@vinceready7022]

I love you

[@mikem6176]

Sexless marriages are not solely caused by her boredom. There’s a host of reasons why a couple’s sex life can go off the rails, boredom possibly being among them, but to assert categorically that it’s because she’s over his feeble capabilities is simply victim blaming.

[@DeathsOrigin]

The frigid depths of Hel

[@davidshillito]

Content starts at 06:30

[@richardjessiejohnson9108]

Lol “ I could be watching Bridgestone rn.”

[@docalan2732]

Caitlin, I have enjoyed listening to many of your videos; however, I have come to the conclusion that your target audience is a younger crowd who are still in the neophyte stage of sexual exploration. I mention this because there is no discussion about what changes in our sexual partnerships as we age. I get that you are establishing yourself at the moment (quite successfully I might add), but the day WILL come when you too become a member of the "invisible class" of older people and I get no hint of recommendations for this group, nor suggestions for other websites that may be better suited for this demographic, such as married couples with kids, those who have been together for a long time and the like. Please understand that I'm not trying to dis you, I'm just asking to perhaps expand your focus. If this is not your thing, I get it and thanks anyway for the ideas I have been able to pull from your discussions! 🤔

[@renesho507]

Thanks for giving a shout out to us non-binary and trans folks we are here for advice too! Thanks

[@donb7113]

My mom told me that once when my parents were young, they were having sex when she saw an animal in the wallpaper print on the ceiling, like seeing things in clouds. My dad just huffed and quit. Yes my mom and I could talk about nearly anything.

[@Eerik2]

Didn't watch it yet.... but maybe she can do something about it? If she bored.

[@lookscankill1822]

Im board of her

[@varunsharma7321]

1st view

[@igotmadthumbs8058]

I dislike how your reasons is always me sometimes it can be her to

[@ihategooglealot3741]

More moaning is easy ;-) Just don't help unload the dishwasher :-) Far more factors than boredom affect a woman's willingness, post natal depression for example, personal conflict. The tips though - all good - - preparation - teasing - ravishing (yes, there's a huge high for both sides of the slash in d/s (with informed consent) - kinkiness (the number of times I've found a guilty looking partner looking though the toy bag...) - and toys - so much fun. Getting her to prepare can help too - the act of preparing the scene is part of foreplay. If she likes toys have her get them ready, discuss which to use by messages before you meet up...

[@freakinrican3]

I just have to ask, are you wearing Spaghetti?

[@vinceready7022]

You are so sw

[@Bluecollarjoe6B9]

We need to speed up the production of sexbots

[@bluesharp08]

Caitlin, you have some great information that are helpful in keeping interest and variety in a relationship. However, after watching several of you vid clips, it's become clear that you are stuck in the Feminist mind set. If the woman in a monogamous relationship becomes bored and removes herself sexually in the relationship, it's the man's fault because he is responsible in keeping her intertained enough so she doesn't get bored. The man goes to work and invests a lot of time and emotional capital to maintain the financial well being of the family and has to insure she is entertained 24 / 7 or shell cut you out and probably cheat on you. Which according to you is also the man's fault. Maybe she just got tired ot the same man and wanted variety in her sexual fantasy and found others to entertain her. However, the man is still responsible to take care of her while others are enteraining her not the man she's supposedly attached to. God forbid that you're married because then she'll take at least half of everything the man owns and divorce him and destroy his life emotionally and financially while she moves on to her next conquest. There's that Feminist hipocracy at work. You're obviously an intelligent woman, follow the logical outcome of doing whatever makes you happy to the end and see who has been devestated because of their selfishness.

[@eduardonieto2355]

Baby you are the best I love it 💋🌹❤🌹🇺🇸.

[@majo2626]

well shit, i wish i discovered this video 3 months ago, before we got divorced...

[@Bob-yl9pm]

Caitlin? If Less is More, then shouldn't More also be less, too? Gosh! I mean? if we're getting into these fundamentals of thermodynamic Cosmology? Maybe more woman need to study astronomy before sex! (LOL, I love you Caitlin, Forgive me)

[@bobbarnes3287]

My wife used to initiate sex. Now she uses her own body language, to let me know she wants to have some fun. Some of them are real subtle and I miss them. Other times she goes to bed early and lays on top of the blankets. Is there a way to get her to get after me once in awhile. Guidance please.

[@alexlackner1945]

I disliked small feathery touches simply because it doesn't do much for me except tickling and as a physiotherapist soft techniques also never appealed to me. Genitals are a different story of course.

[@christopherczapor2767]

It's official Catlin, I have a mad crush on you. Haha... Just wanted to tell you... Love your videos!!!

[@TheRexTera]

This is why I prefer to take her from behind. I don't have to look at her bored and disappointed expression 🤪

[@absb.5978]

Not gonna lie, this made me laugh louder than I anticipated 😂 Also, from that position it's pretty easy to go from boredom to yassss 😉

[@WhenAphroditeSpeaks]

So bad...

[@spedmonie416]

She’s bored probably because she’s not doing any of the work so let her do it then you can complain too

[@caminola417]

She just doesn’t like sex. Likes the same way every time. That’s boring.

[@KrishnaSingh-rg4qk]

👍👍😜

[@caminola417]

She’s not interested in novelty or trying new things

[@jeffryglenn7024]

Orgasm happens in the brain. Imagination plus trust: always works, always easier said than done. Cause it takes two... err... sometimes three... but I digress.

[@koltonjones866]

I'd guess he gets bored and disinterested more often. He does most the work and it never feels different

[@evad7933]

Ya know when yer woman is bored when she goes for the shopping list as yer boning her from behind.

[@curt02762a]

Needing novelty and variety is why women cheat........

[@seckoya]

🤔

[@chrisanziano1781]

Is there a video called “when he is bored during sex”??????

[@dennisbednarz8196]

Doesn’t a women have ideas or is she just lacking imagination?

[@chilean12]

Who cares if she’s bored dump her and get a new one nothings better than a new😺

[@RectifyTheParadigm]

You look like you are wearing spaghetti

[@user-wv7ps8dz5y]

It's all about the woman. Forget the guy

[@acerhillfarm4245]

Bottom line….burden of performance lays on a man’s shoulders. Once you top trying men, she’s gonna venture off the farm or grow very cold.

[@justinwallace451]

Men are so simply and women are rubix cubes

[@byroncharles]

This is why people cheat? How to keep watching the same show for 30yrs?

[@darylrout]

You always talk about her what about him maybe he is bored

[@gavinclaassen6440]

Sounds like time to move on with someone else . Whatever "new techniques" you can conjure up will be short lived by her before she "gets bored" . Move on fellas .

[@kristopherstewart4890]

This video could be replaced with a how to communicate with your partner about what you want video. Or..back to it's the man's responsibility to figure it out. A relationship can't survive poor communication.

[@darrenfernando3519]

Sex isn’t boring if you’re doing it properly. “The goal of boring is to enlarge an existing hole.”