Is This Sabotaging Your Sex Life (It Was For Me)

[@matthiasscheffler548]

Powerful This is going to be day 1 of me changing Thanks

[@hannesbruwer5160]

I really enjoy this channel. I find your discussions insightful. When you point out things that prevent me from having successful relationships and also admit that you wrestle with similar issues, I feel quite normal. Thank you.

[@JayGoods]

Exactly how I’m feeling. I’ve been working on this. Thanks for your guidance.

[@MK-zb5nm]

Excellent video. Thank you. 🙏

[@rennyschweiger]

Hmmm. I’m gonna have to digest this. Much food for thought.

[@thunderandrain09]

I can’t believe I didn’t know this and I’m 61

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

Good video

[@andrewmason8691]

Another great video. Question…when your wife wants you to open about your feelings, is this a problem, especially if it leads to opening up to insecurities to your wife? Will this opening up of feelings make you more or less attractive to your wife?

[@Bob3783hf]

Don't. It won't help. You need to be the leader and solve problems. It's like opening up to a child - it'll only make them more insecure. And a wife wants to look up to her man as a leader. Crying in front of her, spilling your guts to her will make her lose any remaining attraction if there's any left. Take your feelings to other men.

[@kennethabbott3856]

​@Bob3783hf , i don't usually like to agree with people who promote "old fashioned" ideologies, but you've hit the nail on the head. No woman, regardless of how many times she asks you to open up and share with her, wants to hear her man whine about how insecure he feels. Women don't want soft men, period. If you have insecurities, find a therapist because men don't like hear about them either.

[@aristotlekumpis7095]

Just started watching your videos. Good stuff. I need help. I've been dating this amazing girl for about a year now. I'm a romantic and she loves that. Intimacy was decent when we met. But then in the last few months, it disappeared. I have a high libido and she has a very low one. After getting rejected many times, I had a conversation with her about it. We've had several conversations about it as of today. But it doesn't seem to help. She really loves me. And we still have lots of touching and kissing. But just no bedroom intimacy. I don't want to walk away, but really want her to realize what she is doing or not doing.

[@meb280]

This is not a promising situation at all. You’ve had the conversation and it doesn’t help. She’s not going to be the intimate person you want.

[@Bob3783hf]

A woman's primary role in a man's life is to provide sex and possibly children. If she's not interested outside of a medical condition, she's done. She's not attracted to you and you're better off moving on as hard as that may be.