Is this true about why some “modest” women get “overlooked”? 👀

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@kekedouluvm3109 2 ай бұрын

Rejection is Protection these days

@Wubby805 2 ай бұрын

Well said.

@EarthAngel888-v5s 2 ай бұрын

True

@mssheena24 2 ай бұрын

Amen!! God is protecting you from those diseases, that heartbreak, that future dead beat daddy, etc. And if he ghosted you, trust it was a blessing in disguise! 🙌🏾

@CerebralSigma 2 ай бұрын

@@mssheena24 Amen. If only more women understood this.

@tinyking11 2 ай бұрын

FACTS❗️🔥🙌🏽

@MissCurlyMane 2 ай бұрын

“Be glad that the men who are overlooking you are overlooking you…” was a word 💯

@Kuttie03 2 ай бұрын

Amen!!

@cha9165 2 ай бұрын

Yes!!

@SnerMerNer 2 ай бұрын

I counted 12

@tiffanydrouin2622 2 ай бұрын

It's so true. As I've gotten older I've realized more and more what a blessing it was to be passed up. When the right one comes along he'll pursue you. So thankful for my husband! He's not perfect but he's right for me!

@bfyre1 Ай бұрын

True but how long will women keep getting overlooked?

@mca217 2 ай бұрын

I'm a modest man, and I've always desired a modest woman. I've never gravitated towards boisterous individuals. Ladies, please know that there are honorable gentlemen who desire modest, classy, honorable women.

@EarthAngel888-v5s 2 ай бұрын

Good to hear! 💕💯🌸✨️

@aquafina6544 2 ай бұрын

Good to know but, where are you all at? Please make a little noise so we know that you see us?

@gracefullyrachel6573 2 ай бұрын

That’s awesome! God bless

@trinity-hopetricia3241 2 ай бұрын

Preach and Facts 🏆🐐🎯🙏❤️

@tinyking11 2 ай бұрын

Great to hear. I’m modest as well and always have been. I stay to myself. 🔥❤️

@jp-nr8ys 2 ай бұрын

Single since 2019. No time for games and std's. Peace is so underrated

@trinity-hopetricia3241 2 ай бұрын

Preach and Facts 🏆🐐🎯🙏❤️

@earthzone85 2 ай бұрын

Yes take care of you! Keep being amazing ❤

@Discernmentlab 2 ай бұрын

Facts

@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade 2 ай бұрын

Single since January 2018 and now I’m starting to get too comfortable being single.. if one little thing seems “off” then I’m like NOPE, next…🤷🏽‍♀️😂 I have zero patience… most of the time, it stops at a phone conversation. Only 2 pass the test to have a first date since 2018😂

@Miracle748 2 ай бұрын

@@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMadeI’m here for it……single since January 2013……yes been on dates, thought some guys were worth a serious future with but once some of them told me I was an embarrassment to them in public, I’m not what they want or need in their life, or I’m not enough for them, I happily have been single and dating Jesus Christ and myself…..I am LOVING EVERY ounce/second/minute/hour/fiber of my being, being a single young lady in Christ. What God has for me is MOST DEF for me and God will bring forth the CORRECT young man in His perfect timing, not my timing…..if I make a move, I’ll mess up what God is trying to do for me so I will continue to wait…..and if it’s not God’s will, I’m cool with it, peace over trying to say I have somebody who doesn’t bring peace, genuine love, and unnecessary drama…..I’m over it! 💯🙏🏽❤️✌🏽

@shorthood359 2 ай бұрын

I'm a man and that being said, he could not have explained that any better then what he did. I lost a very good lady because of my game.

@paulgriffiths2095 2 ай бұрын

Empty barrels make the most noise. Noise is ahead in the game.

@danoncrawford1233 2 ай бұрын

Oh wow! That’s huge of you to admit that most men would never do that!

@EarthAngel888-v5s 2 ай бұрын

Have you done all your inner work since then? You weren't ready for her. She was placed into your life to teach you that you will continue to lose good women until you heal and love yourself.

@CerebralSigma 2 ай бұрын

@@EarthAngel888-v5sExactly. If he does the inner work, heals, God will bring another one into his life ("He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. ~ Proverbs 18:22). And he (from that experience) will be wise enough to know not to make the same mistake twice.

@tinyking11 2 ай бұрын

I’m glad you are being transparent, honest & showing accountability! 🙌🏽🔥 That’s rare.

@moee_thyself 2 ай бұрын

I’ve noticed, They come to modest women only after they’ve been ran through, have multiple baby mamas, less value, less stamina, jaded and financially screwed. But I’ve also noticed, respectable women only give a man a short period of time to make his commitment clear. Once she realises he prefers the game, she disappears. So it balances itself out. You get what you work for

@dredey1971 2 ай бұрын

You do get what you work for...if you work hard enough.

@rdkirk3834 2 ай бұрын

A man who is truly looking to "get out of the game" will _make_ his commitment in a short period of time. Men who are ready to marry will "lock it down" quickly when he finds a suitable woman. That's why many women say, erroneously, "When a man is ready to marry, he marries the woman right in front of him." That's not quite true. When a man is ready to marry, he usually doesn't need to look long and far because he'll have already put himself into the right spaces with suitable women. A woman who is ready for marriage should never waste more of her precious time on a man who won't commit to marriage within just a few months. If/when he is ready for marriage, he's going to look again at all his options, which might not include her because he had never seen her as marriage material before...she had been his "game" material.

@dredey1971 2 ай бұрын

@@rdkirk3834 Only thing i would add, marriage minded women should let the man know within a date or 2. Otherwise, she may be wasting her time with a guy that's still in the game. If he gets run off by you asking if he is looking for marriage. I do not care how many boxes he check, dont waste your time by letting him check your box. IJS

@CerebralSigma 2 ай бұрын

Jaded and bitter. And then expect the modest woman to be their healer, therapist, and rehabilitation center. I don’t think so. Stay wild and free ladies until the right one comes along.

@dredey1971 2 ай бұрын

@@CerebralSigma yall definitely wild. Do you think the men you refer to are "men". or you think all of us are like that? I'm being honest, us "men", really want the conversation to turn to real men. not the boys yall deal with and then hold your trauma for the rest of your lives. Ijs

@renaywaterman815 2 ай бұрын

That’s because modest women are protected by God. A man with the wrong intentions will most likely overlook a modest women if she seems like a hassle. A lot of men are looking for a woman that is easy that they don’t have to struggle to get what they want.

@aquafina6544 2 ай бұрын

@@renaywaterman815 you said it loud and clear.

@tinyking11 2 ай бұрын

Whew Gawd❗️😫💯🙌🏽

@CerebralSigma 2 ай бұрын

Thank you. The women with standards and boundaries is "too much work" for some of these men. Some men think that if you want respect and to be treated well is asking for too much. Smh.

@aprilcollins8552 2 ай бұрын

Bingo…all truth

@HoneyBee1980 2 ай бұрын

FACTS

@hannahwashere9399 2 ай бұрын

As a 30 year old single, white woman who's never had sex or even a date, I really needed to hear this.

@Tizzleee 2 ай бұрын

You are the light in this fallen world, I believe God has someone amazing in store for you 🥹🙏🏾

@hannahwashere9399 2 ай бұрын

@@Tizzleee thank you. That helps me feel some hope

@Tizzleee 2 ай бұрын

@@hannahwashere9399 you’re welcome love ❤️

@RepentAndBelieve1437 2 ай бұрын

Trust and believe you have been protected from trauma and broken heart! So many wasted years of foolishness taught me that! But GOD has had mercy on me. Have a family of my own now. You cling to the LORD, HE will take care of you.

@brendac.6567 2 ай бұрын

Same, but I am Hispanic glad to know there are more women taking care of themselves. Keep your head up, a great man will come your way! And my way. 😊

@Paris-8 2 ай бұрын

Wilder women even get married more then the modest ones. What do men really want? Well keep being modest is all I'll say cause there's peace in it.

@williegrant3054 2 ай бұрын

FACTS💯

@RisingKing1024 2 ай бұрын

"What do men really want?" Excellent question! The answer lies in one of the very reasons the world is the way it is: No one knows what they want or need, nor do they know how to get it. Men & Women are lost. Certain Men, just like Certain Women, are placed in boxes society slowly puts us in and many of us don't wake up until later. Correction.. many of us don't really grow up until later. To answer: Boys want everything. Men want what they need. The need? A modest woman. Words from a married man ✊🏾.

@jlsmith-hs8rf 2 ай бұрын

And the right man hasn't come along yet.

@shavontrahan998 2 ай бұрын

The answer literally lies in your post. They don't want PEACE! They want chaos and toxicity and drama, whether they're bringing it or she is. Either that OR they just want who they want (usually the "bad b" esthetic) but want her to be different once he gets with her. That's why many women complain about how a man meets her dressing provocatively and asks her to be his girl while she dresses this way, but once she's his, he wants her to dress different and act different. It doesn't work always, but it's the delusion everybody is kinda currently in. Kinda like the whole "I want a virgin but she gotta be a freak tho", like, those 2 things don't initially go together. 🤷🏾

@edwardsmall6013 2 ай бұрын

How about yall seek a man out that you want then talk about being overlooked

@TheBrethren4Christ 2 ай бұрын

Facts. At times you just have to let the trash take itself out. It is better to remain single than to be with the wrong person by comparison.

@trinity-hopetricia3241 2 ай бұрын

Preach and Facts 🏆🐐🎯🙏❤️

@bluestsea 2 ай бұрын

True

@soulsistah5738 2 ай бұрын

They play them modest women and say we gonna be old with cats. When those guys get old they try to marry us and want us all of a sudden , na stick with them.

@tawanabrown3650 2 ай бұрын

True! They really be the ones hitting the wall!

@anydae 2 ай бұрын

Sis they'll marry you when they are good and well tired too sigh 😢

@dredey1971 2 ай бұрын

Who hurt you?

@soulsistah5738 2 ай бұрын

@@anydae no thanks

@tinyking11 2 ай бұрын

💯❗️❗️ You ain’t lying. They play with modest womyn too.

@Raven.Tulips 2 ай бұрын

When she asked the question, I wasn’t expecting the direction he took. He wasn’t talking about modesty in the traditional sense but rather about someone being absorbed in their own world, not aware of or engaging with those around them. With that said, modesty in terms of biblical and traditional values holds dear to me. Modesty fosters respect not only for ourselves but for others as well. It embodies honor, refinement, and grace in how we dress and behave. When we are modest in our dress, speech, and actions, we focus on honoring God rather than seeking approval from others. Modesty is a heart posture. 🌷 Women who exemplify modesty are not interested in men who play games. They can see through those men and prefer to avoid them because they understand that such men are driven by lust and superficial desires. It’s a good thing not to be pursued by such men, as they are not suitable for a modest and respectable lady.

@moee_thyself 2 ай бұрын

💯💯 A woman is a wife before she’s married, so we can definitely spot when a man isn’t a husband

@trinity-hopetricia3241 2 ай бұрын

Preach and Facts 🏆🐐🎯🙏❤️

@cymonejackson2419 2 ай бұрын

@raven.tulips all that you said, resonates with me wholeheartedly.

@Hosanna87 2 ай бұрын

Amen 🙌🏾

@Raven.Tulips 2 ай бұрын

@@cymonejackson2419 Oh! I’m glad that it did for you! 🤍

@movingmountainministries 2 ай бұрын

The devil will used being overlooked and confuse it with a Spirit of rejection. So some of us women will walk around thinking that a man doesn't want us when it actually is not even that at all

@NinaWilliams3345 2 ай бұрын

💯

@robinmahan101 2 ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯

@tynishaward8042 2 ай бұрын

Amen I receive this thank you so much Glory be to God

@EarthAngel888-v5s 2 ай бұрын

Very true! As a calm, loving, down to earth, Spiritual, healed self aware & self actualized woman, men will tell me they've never met a woman like me and not sure how to handle it. They say crazy drama women are exciting. I'm sure they are to the unhealed man. That crazy drama is just another unhealed woman. No thanks..Until you have learned your lessons, you will keep getting those lessons in different chaotic humans in different chaotic relationships.

@ShiningBright777 2 ай бұрын

Beloved, stay away from spiritual. It only leads to false deities who are deceiving and evil.

@shirin8609 2 ай бұрын

@ShiningBright777 You tried. I respect that. As someone who was once in the New Age to an extent, the original comment reeked of the arrogance I commonly witnessed in it. It was a good approach and I'm sure many will hear it.

@inglewoodjet52 2 ай бұрын

Imagine being a little of both...that REALLY confuses men! Lol I'm always prejudged before I even open my mouth! I'm curvy but a little nerdy....I just pray that God sends the man who wants to read the book instead of just looking at the cover. 🙏🏾

@J972M 2 ай бұрын

First of all, that was poetic af 🔥 are you a writer (no pun intended lol)? Secondly, be mindful that, regardless of the genre there are really only two things that draw people to most books: The cover or word of mouth. Do choose your form of advertisement wisely, wouldn't want to attract the wrong customers. God bless you, I wish you well 🙏🏾❤

@inglewoodjet52 2 ай бұрын

@@J972M Wowww... you picked up on my analogy... my God given assignment is a writer. I'm currently struggling with finishing my first book. I've been on a spiritual journey since COVID and working on myself. Lets just say God made me this curvy different black woman exactly for my book to be written and my assignment. I understand now but I had to endure the stigma... no one else can write this book but me.

@cjohnson_ 2 ай бұрын

Lmaoooooo Chile y'all say anything. Most ppl are multi faceted so being both isn't a rarity.

@inglewoodjet52 2 ай бұрын

@@cjohnson_ No one else in the comments said what I said. I'm talking about myself. The woman who asked the question didn't mention it nor did Tripp. You have no idea about what I'm speaking on.... chile.... people just want attention. You got some now, hope I made your day. 🙏🏾😘

@amack9303 2 ай бұрын

Thinking the same thing. Whether mentioned or not, quiet curvy, modest curvy is plentiful.... @cjohnson_

@DevotionforNatasha 2 ай бұрын

You’d rather have respect then attention. He was right at the end be grateful that’s God is making sure the reckless ones don’t see you. Also attract don’t chase.

@maryp3212 2 ай бұрын

A modest woman is confident that the right man will see her for who she is and doesn’t want the men who fail to see her. I have been dressing modestly since I was allowed to pick my own clothes as a child. My high school friends were on the forefront of feminism and mini skirts. My husband said when he saw me for the first time in the crowded school lunch room, he knew I was to be his wife. He said that all the short skirts and tight bell bottoms were easy and flashy but he knew I was waiting for a man, not a boy. He did everything to show me he was husband material. 53 yrs later, he still is my man.

@HandofHolmes 2 ай бұрын

Ya’ll as a hot girl, you want to be rejected by these losers. Protect your pH and your sanity at all costs. They like it when you give them attitude and make it hard for them. They play games.

@cha9165 2 ай бұрын

I like your thinking

@ameliadeshane9192 2 ай бұрын

Following for more words of wisdom. 😂

@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade 2 ай бұрын

I started a modesty journey back in late 2020. Best decision ever! I don’t feel “lusted” after anymore. Men And even women treat you with more respect and genuinely when you’re modest. It’s not for everyone but I love it over here🥰

@latisewilson4561 2 ай бұрын

Totally agree... definitely treated with more respect

@Raven.Tulips 2 ай бұрын

This is absolutely true regarding how others treat you. As a modest woman myself, I receive genuine and utmost respect. Even when someone uses inappropriate language in my presence, they sincerely apologize, not out of obligation but because they genuinely want to show respect towards me. I never request or expect anyone to change their behavior or offer apologies; they do so of their own free will and sincerely desire to be honorable 🕊️. Also, when I receive compliments, they are always sweet and kind, from both men and women. Modesty is a reflection of one's heart, and others can see and truly appreciate that. 🤍

@shirin8609 2 ай бұрын

I disagree. It _is_ for everyone. Sexual modesty is so important-- important to deny the spirits of lust. We're just not all there yet, but it is _for_ everyone (ideally).

@HalfSweetness 2 ай бұрын

If you didn't say a mouthful of "truth" right there.. 😯👏🏼👏🏼💯

@rigolettohooper7319 2 ай бұрын

We live in a world where the majority of the population. Are damaged spiritually, emotionally and mentally from unresolved trauma. Not to mention being manipulated by false teachings since birth. If someone don’t know who they truly are. Then they won’t know what they truly want. Most people look for someone they can trauma bond with.

@chantelrobinson8281 2 ай бұрын

You said a word!

@drinabooboo 2 ай бұрын

Hosea 4:6 My people perish for lack of knowledge

@luckycharm152 2 ай бұрын

Wow..if that wasn't the truth explained in such simple form..

@claregabriel1112 2 ай бұрын

Especially in some demographics…… I wouldn’t take their advice even if it was the last piece of advice left….

@ROCHELLE703 2 ай бұрын

He is always on point!!!

@williegrant3054 2 ай бұрын

ALWAYS 🎉

@tashamack8701 2 ай бұрын

Yes sis he always is

@kathylopez1336 2 ай бұрын

Young man you speak so much truth & wisdom Very knowledgeable ❤

@arozzay99 2 ай бұрын

Silence him! Even though I didn't necessarily like the exposure, he still told the truth. People need to stop lying about wanting to be settled and stop attempting to settle people that don't want to be settled.

@s.rogers5773 2 ай бұрын

Modest…Boisterous…there’s no right or wrong way to be. Some people have big personalities and big presences naturally…and that’s okay. Some people are more reserved naturally…that’s okay too. Be whatever flows naturally and attract someone who loves you being your most authentic self.

@Leaningintotheunknown 2 ай бұрын

I love being overlooked. It brings so much peace. It also allows for the only serious men to approach you which then creates a happy and healthy dating life.

@amaragrace94 2 ай бұрын

Amen to that

@christamoore7461 2 ай бұрын

Bars 🙌🏾. Be glad the men overlooking you are overlooking you. They bout' them games 💎

@ka9202 2 ай бұрын

Tripp always hits the nail right on the head. He don't miss.

@tashamack8701 2 ай бұрын

No he doesn't

@R.Yvette.X. 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for making it make sense, Tripp. It's better to age out of the system than to try one and they scar you for life.

@belindanaarlamlejohnson4250 2 ай бұрын

Why I’m I having tears in my eyes right now … I think what he said made sense.. 👏🏾 i don’t take rejection personally.. and I think lots of people do, and it’s so sad.. “keep doing you, and be happy that they wrong people aren’t noticing you, because they might waste your time and break some stuff in the way”

@Illtechnica 2 ай бұрын

I'm reading the 1957 book 📖 "Black Bourgeoisie" and it explains a LOT as to why a significant measure of our "culture" is the way it is. Why so many wantonly chase after "noise." Because it was that way back in the 1950s, 40s, 30s, 20s, etc.

@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade 2 ай бұрын

I love sociology and knowing why people (in specific people who look like me) do what they do so I’m definitely going to check that book out. Tfs!

@drinabooboo 2 ай бұрын

But we can see a clear difference in the level of wickedness today. It trumps all those other eras because we are living in thr last days.

@01MJ10 Ай бұрын

The realest & so simply broken down and spoken❗️🙌🏾💗🙏🏾💜

@apsalmlikegrace 2 ай бұрын

If you look at the personalities of a lot of these men who pursue the “boisterous” type, you wouldn’t want to be married to them anyway; them overlooking you is a blessing. The Bible says that in heaven, no one will be married as it is. When I think about this, and I realize that only God can truly love me the way that I want to be loved I don’t worry about making men look at me. Marriage is supposed to be a ministry here on earth, where two people come together to glorify God better, and then it is a blessing. I’ve known so much peace in being single, and I’ve been able to do more things for God by being single than if I had to look after a husband.

@black_nerdy 2 ай бұрын

Finally someone who starts talking actually sense. No red pill nonsense blaming one gender for all the worlds problem.

@kissie5421 2 ай бұрын

❤Good word food for thought. I needed to hear that from an intelligent man! That was in point.

@H-youtube7 2 ай бұрын

Comes to a point where there's nothing more attractive than a calm man. No more drama, no more games.

@williegrant3054 2 ай бұрын

REAL TALK Tripp 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

@payne1118ish 2 ай бұрын

This is such a respectful and gentle answer. Greatly appreciated.

@YoungTruthful18 2 ай бұрын

I was gon say, it’s not the modest woman’s problem. It’s the men who ain’t ready. They are protecting you. They don’t want to break your heart.

@EmeraldLuvsYouALL 2 ай бұрын

Well a woman can't pretend to be something she's not anyway so there's your answer. If a Man likes it that's fine and if he doesn't that's fine too because it's you. People will only be happy and content being exactly who they are.

@dredey1971 2 ай бұрын

Women cant pretend? Even your delusions have delusions. Knock it off.

@ivannastorms-thompson3538 2 ай бұрын

His last sentence was a bar and a life lesson so many needed to hear

@carlyhouston3827 2 ай бұрын

It's hard being a modest woman today because it feels like I'm constantly being rejected; it makes you feel like there's something wrong with you, and nobody would ever like you.

@2020sweelew 2 ай бұрын

I LUV HIM♥️♥️♥️♥️WELL SAID AND THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH! Steve Harvey said UNTIL A MAN KNOWS WHO IS AND WHERE HE IS GOING…. WOMEN ARE JUST PLAY TOYS! … 👌🏽

@RM-eg1ed 2 ай бұрын

00:37 THIIIIIISSSSSSSSSS!!! Ladies you need to understand this one statement.

@bbeautiful6390 2 ай бұрын

Modest doesn't brag or stunt. Humble 😔🤷🏽‍♂️

@jun1448 2 ай бұрын

When you are a proverbs 31 woman the Lord will give you an Ephesian 5 man in his perfect time because he is the perfect match maker

@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade 2 ай бұрын

And let the church say AMEN!!🥰

@diamondsandpearls4534 2 ай бұрын

It seems nowadays a lot of men want the baddie, she must be willing to go 50/50 and have traditional values🥴

@Mystika777 2 ай бұрын

Even if they found her they’d still have a rotation to cheat with… most men are just not worth it in a relationship sense. I respect them as members of society and that’s as far as it goes.

@sarauniyaGH 2 ай бұрын

The spirit of confusion and chaos is very strong with them 😂

@cha9165 2 ай бұрын

Exactly 😂😂😂. They are so confused I just laugh at them.

@afrofaeries 2 ай бұрын

@@sarauniyaGHAnd Godly modest women know that God isn’t the author of confusion! 😂❤

@matthewnegre8736 2 ай бұрын

This sounds like "Why don't nice guys get the girl?" but for women lol

@KRW3321 2 ай бұрын

What I was thinking. I don’t think modesty is the problem.

@matthewnegre8736 2 ай бұрын

@@KRW3321 well yeah and its a matter of outlook. Yeah they might get the guy but what kind of guy? And for how long? And for what reason, what is he looking for? Yknow?

@AngellBrown-t9p 2 ай бұрын

That part! I'm happy, and my life is peaceful, dawhling! Being at peace is my greatest strength! 🙏🏾🌈💜🦋

@RosieRochelle 2 ай бұрын

Yesssssss Tripp!!!! This man never miss ❤❤❤❤

@aquafina6544 2 ай бұрын

Amen Trip... waste time and crush hearts and dreams is all they do!

@AprilAmbiWhite 2 ай бұрын

He's so well-spoken. Very well-said.

@Sheisneika0976 2 ай бұрын

I’m modest but loud when I need to be…. 😂😂😂

@-LadyFawn- 2 ай бұрын

Men shouldn’t have to put themselves through “the game” phase… I’ve never understood why so many waste time not looking for “the one”.

@8_six7_five3_09 2 ай бұрын

So needed to hear that right now. Sometimes, it's so frustrating and defeating hearing that men want traditional, modest ladies, but then they approach you like they're looking for a booty call.

@touchpoint4christministries444 2 ай бұрын

A lot of games been playing!! Real speaking I’ll continue to do what I do !

@warrenpaul5995 2 ай бұрын

I think it’s the lack of understating when to play both traits in whatever scenario, situation, setting you’re in. 1 person can be both and balance thethe click on click off method to these traits.

@aquariuscox3682 2 ай бұрын

I disagree. Either you are modest or you're are not. There is no in between. Modesty often comes through being taught or spiritual growth.

@trinity-hopetricia3241 2 ай бұрын

Preach and Facts Tripp Preach and Facts 🏆🐐🎯🙏❤️

@ReinventingEnergyAndLove 2 ай бұрын

This brother words are continuously, Reinventing Energy And Love ❤️ ✊🏿👊🏿

@greatthrowbackmusic8633 2 ай бұрын

Can this young man get his own show? He never seems to miss.

@CalvinCarter1989 2 ай бұрын

People also seem to forget that there is a grey area to the wild vs modest woman.

@Alexandrite7 2 ай бұрын

So true! I'm that grey area.

@shirin8609 2 ай бұрын

@Alexandrite7 titties out only on a Thursday 😂

@veelee0505 2 ай бұрын

That’s so true and when the right one will come he will and he will want that modest woman for who she is .

@aquafina6544 2 ай бұрын

@@veelee0505 most times he never comes and if he does it's to late he's washed up and we don't want used up goods.

@PerTheSpirit 2 ай бұрын

A woman can be modest (in dress or energy) & still accentuate her frequency w/ statement pieces. I had to learn how to adorn my clothing and my body language to speak for me; even when shy or uncomfortable in spaces. That’s how sensuality is developed and that allure doesn’t always have to attract sexual nature. But, intelligence, as well. 😉 Straight and to-the-point. 💯 This brother really is wisdom on demand.

@joanjancaronankuta5135 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this reminder, self-worth awareness is key in this generation 🤝

@deborahbrown8570 2 ай бұрын

Words of encouragement.

@ladyassassin1082 2 ай бұрын

I don't necessarily think it has something to do with the Generations because if that's how you going to act you're going to behave this way no matter how old you are it really comes to this a lady has no business competing with a city girl no shade any City girls however you can't compete against a woman that's willing to give up something you're not that's really what it comes down to

@GabbyTeAma 2 ай бұрын

As a modest woman, I have been in rooms where I stood out more than the loud women bc modesty is so rare. Every man won’t be flocking to you but, don’t be discouraged. The one that sees you is going to SEE you. Going on two years married now! 💍❤

@nawshintabassumnabila4646 2 ай бұрын

Absolutely Loved every line you spoke at the end, Allahumma Barik.

@j.conley237 2 ай бұрын

Take notes from the wild ones Take notes from the modest ones they both have their pros, cons and deep results Make up your own formula and sense of style, confidence, pose, and personality and vibe. It will be not only become your persona/aura but your trusted yet moral radar to detect BS vs Realness. The right ones will feel your vibe, the false ones would not want to interrupt your vibe. 🙏🏾👑

@dearabbiexo463 2 ай бұрын

I love him ! His advice and commentaries are always so insightful ❤

@elliotselmon7581 2 ай бұрын

C'MON TRIPP!! Well said

@venitayoung9152 2 ай бұрын

He speaking such amazing words.

@darlenemissdivahudson3681 2 ай бұрын

that ending comment is 🔥🔥🔥

@saucecastillo460 2 ай бұрын

If she means modest in appearance, I think that men & women have very different definitions of modesty. From what I see of her physical appearance, it wouldn't be hard to imagine that men might pass her, to approach women who project a different type of femininity, while still being modest. I know women who definitely have physical beauty, and they don't go out of their way to highlight it, which is fine. But a lot of times, women like that slip into an aesthetic that is plain, basic, unflattering, and even butch, which men don't usually gravitate to. You don't have to wear revealing clothes, slather on a ton of makeup or anything like that, but if she's talking about appearance, there's nothing wrong with doing things that take you out of the land of plain, while maintaining modesty

@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade 2 ай бұрын

Agreed! She’s a beautiful sister in spirit, seems very kind and humnle BUT I agree about your assessment. Personally, I use to be the woman with long bundles, perfect makeup, fake nails, the highest heels possible, etc BUT now my entire aesthetic has changed to modest. However like you said, I made a point to still look feminine. I wear soft feminine fabrics (silk, satin, lace), pretty colors, regular heels (2.5 - 3 inches), natural color nails or french manicure, soft makeup that looks natural, and my real hair in a blowout (always making sure that it looks soft and touchable) I’m a Christian but actually took inspiration from how modern Muslim women dress. Covered up but still feminine and beautiful

@saucecastillo460 2 ай бұрын

@@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade and maybe she wasn't talking about herself, but if she was, I think things would change for her, if she made some small changes

@shirin8609 2 ай бұрын

Let's be real, homegirl could lose a bunch of weight. Her specific style matters little. Guys will overlook even a sloppy aesthetic if they're physically attracted

@saucecastillo460 2 ай бұрын

@@shirin8609 she could stand to lose a few lbs, but what you're saying isn't all the way accurate. I'll go for a cute fat girl with a lil style, over a homely/frumpy skinny one, ALL DAY & twice on tues

@amaragrace94 2 ай бұрын

As a modest woman, whether rooted in Christian values or otherwise, why do you care or want attention from men that prefer non-modest women? Focus on who is for you. Same thing with practicing abstinence. Stand firm in your values, proud and unashamed, especially if you identify as a daughter of the most high! If you want to adjust something, I will say to consider slight modifications to your appearance. Modest does not mean not stylish. Wear clothes that fit your body type. It means covering up certain body parts that everyone doesn't need to see, as well as not being too flashy with certain types of makeup and jewelry. Also hairstyle! That has the power to take your look to the next level. So invest the time in your NATURAL hair. Get you a signature scent as a perfume or body oil. I switch between vanilla and citrus.

@elainagodbody1128 2 ай бұрын

I appreciate this response

@AliciaA2456 2 ай бұрын

Thank you, thank you 🙏🏾 facts 💯

@cassidydonshae398 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for not picking me 😊

@courtneysmith3497 2 ай бұрын

Thank you Tripp!!

@ericajones4625 2 ай бұрын

Yessssss!!💯🙏🏽💪🏽💯 Thank you for sharing 🥰

@whyyousucha904 2 ай бұрын

He explained that perfectly. Cause it's pleof modest women who are gorgeous. But dudes looking for wild and not modest. So its def a good thing they're overlooking her.

@teresabrown174 2 ай бұрын

WELL SAID!!🙏🏾

@Teresita-T1o Ай бұрын

And that is that 🎯

@YouKnowMeDuh 2 ай бұрын

Very true. Nail on the head. Glad he said it. You arent doing anything wrong ladies, you're simply under a form of natural protection from men who aren't looking for the peace, stability, commitment, and so many other things you have to offer. Do not seek to attract those that arent worth attracting! Be at peace with what you have, even if it is in singleness. There are so many things you don't want to go through if you forget that!

@FaithAndPromises7192 2 ай бұрын

Honesty right there! Rejection is God's protections sisters

@myunicornatemypizza7352 2 ай бұрын

Some players will intentionally marry a modest woman because he knows she is less likely to cheat or attract the attention of other men, but turn around and cheat on that modest woman with several non-modest women. As in the case of a narcissistic man, he wants his main supply to be modest, and he wants to have as many other supplies as possible. Be careful ladies. And be careful as well men because there are a lot of narcissistic women that do the same thing. Always remember that the other supplies are disposable to them, but they hold on for dear life to the main supply because that's the one generally that will cook for them, clean for them, take care of their children, and mother them as well as give them as much sex as they want when their other supplies aren't around.

@UrbanSipfly 2 ай бұрын

Why are modern-day dating relationships reduced to game show entertainment? 🤔

@lilylife4426 2 ай бұрын

The right men notice modest women. I met my fiancé wearing jeans and a sweater, sitting quietly away from everyone. There were women in tight dresses and cleavages looking at him and he decided to talk to me instead.