Is (unprocessed) grief blocking your fertility?

[@FertilityHomeopath]

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[@mindybanda301]

Thank you for this video. I've been dealing with grief from my pregnancy loss for over a year and I recently was considering seeing a counselor to continue to help move through it. We are still trying to conceive and I didn't realize how much of an impact my grief could have on being able to conceive. I belong to support groups online, but now I'm even more convinced that I need to go to a professional.

[@lilywasserman1852]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I also went through it and while grieving I was trying so hard and nothing. So I decided to stop and just grieve my baby loss...I still cry but not as bad so now we decided to resume TTC and focus on getting pregnant again. It's hard loosing a baby. So painful but I'm working on looking forward. Thank you for sharing your story. Many baby dust your way! Xoxo❤

[@mirandadurham5378]

I think this video is for me. I have been TTC for more about 2 years. When I first started I got pregnant first try but ended up having a miscarriage at the same time my grandmother suddenly got sick and passed away. I was literally actively miscarrying while at her bedside when she was dying. It is been hard both losing my grandmother and baby and also now my body seems to not want to get pregnant. It has been making it more and more difficult the longer it takes. Not to mention my sister had just had her son when I miscarried and now she just had twin girls. It makes me feel so bad that I’m the same time period my sister has had 3 babies and I have none. Plus I just got a job working at a baby food company administration office and there are literally baby pictures EVERYWHERE!!

[@helenharrykit]

Oh Miranda, what a terrible time that must have been. I lost my grandmother 6 weeks ago and it's such a big loss isn't it? You might find this blog helpful helensoutar.com/3-types-of-grief/. Wishing you the very best on your fertility journey

[@lizziemae5750]

This hit home. I've been suffering from grief for 5.5 years (having to do with my husbands refusal of promised vas.reversal after marriage) and have been ttc for a full year now that my husband finally had vasectomy reversal a year ago. With no luck, we are having to seek help and have a consultation in 2 weeks(non homeopath). I now feel I need to heal grief before going through all the expensive fertility treatments ahead of us. I've been wanting help for so long. 😥. There are no known fertility issues with myself and have regular cycles and stated charting. My hubs reversal was considered successful. Thank you for the video ingefleur 💕.

[@helenharrykit]

Hi Lizzie, I'm so sorry to read about your situation - 5.5 years is a very long time to be feeling this way. Healing your grief would certainly be a positive step - you might also benefit from some forgiveness work around the situation with your husband. Have you heard of Ho'oponopono? I like this explanation of it: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qX7deKmFq6-ajbM Wishing you the very best with your ttc journey

[@lajoy1584]

This video speaks to me...I lost my pregnancy at 22 weeks in 2017. I unexpectedly lost my father August 2018. This year my moms health has been declining. I haven’t been able to get pregnant in all this time. Everything I do or see constantly reminds me of the guilt, sadness or sense of failure I have. My doctor believes I am suffering depression and it is causing me to feel physical pain. I have put ttc on hold and trying to focus on myself. Ignatia amara has helped with my anxiety but I still need help. Thank you for your videos and actually acknowledging grief and how it can really affect us. God bless.

[@FertilityHomeopath]

Wow Laura, that is quite something, much grief going on for you for sure. Good for you for recognizing what is going on. Ignatia is definitely a great remedy for you but I can see how you could use some more help. There are lots of practitioner only potencies and remedies that would likely be important for you. Glad you've felt acknowledged with this video!

[@helenharrykit]

Oh Laura, what a difficult time you've had. I'm so sorry to hear about your baby and your parents. Grief is such a hard emotion to process, it's gets so entangled with the stories we write (note: not facts!) about how we behaved badly or failed. These stories are rarely helpful because we are usually our own harshest critics. You might find it helpful to look at the situations that trigger guilt or a sense of failure and rewrite the stories as though they related to your very best friend - often we find guilt or failure in ourselves where in another we would see trying their best, doing what they could based on what they knew at the time, making the best of a terrible situation and so on. Wishing you the very best, H

[@lajoy1584]

Fertility Homeopath thank you so much for your continued love and support! These videos help me so much!

[@lajoy1584]

Helen Soutar thank you, I usually try to ignore pain or grief and bury it but I really like the idea of writing my story. Thank you so much for your support and advice!

[@helenharrykit]

@@lajoy1584 you're very welcome :-)

[@pattygiron-jones6930]

thank you for this, glad I watched

[@eleniampatzidou3113]

Th is video is so helpful, so thank you again. Helen seems to really know what she's talking about. I would love to enroll to her sessions but unfortunately, her plans are way too expensive for me.

[@helenharrykit]

Hi Eleni, sorry to hear that. Raise Your Resilience is a free programme and includes quite a lot about emotions including grief - you can sign up here if you haven't already: helensoutar.com/ryr

[@blossomwithbecky4258]

Thank you for another fab video. You keep us going with your upbeat videos each week 🙏 and those of us taking a while, especially with conditions like endometriosis, pcos etc all need to look into the emotional side too, so I'm pleased you're getting us to address it. This must be one of your last videos before maternity leave (exciting!). When you start doing videos again, these are a few I would be interested in you doing a video on, and I wonder if anyone else might be interested too? ⭐ If we should be taking a Pre natal/folate? After a year of trying, I've stopped as supplements were getting expensive, but is it essential? ⭐Homeopathic remedy for tww stress/anxiety (I couldn't sleep this month in 2ww because I thought I was pregnant and became obsessive about waking up to chart etc, I wasnt pregnant and got emotional when I realised I wasnt), so remedies for times like this would be fab. ⭐Homeopathic remedies/supplements for male fertility ⭐Thoughts on Shatavari and maca ⭐Apart from an implantation dip, examples of positive Bbt chart's and how to analyse our charts ⭐Homeopathic remedies you're going to use for your labour/birth and recovery. Just a few suggestions I'd be interested in seeing 😊💖 if this Is your last video, good luck with the birth 🤱 x

[@JBNCATS]

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[@yogamossmissboe9878]

I am dealing with grief from my father passing, and wrong chioices in life. I am struggeling with infertility...

[@animaluniverse2530]

Hopefully, if I'm pregnant now, my grief for my lost 6 babies won't affect it. 🙏

[@animaluniverse2530]

@@leyvamichelle thank u😘, but where can I find agbara herbal? I'm not familiar with that, I'm from the Philippines

[@animaluniverse2530]

@@leyvamichelle thank u😘, but where can I find agbara herbal? I'm not familiar with that, I'm from the Philippines

[@preciousbee]

I lost my sweet baby at 9 weeks spontaneously. I saw a heartbeat at 6 weeks & it was so strong- I don’t understand. I’m healthy, I don’t know why it happened so I’ve been taking it HARD. Still hurts so bad- I feel like I’ve been robbed. Thank you for this video. It helps.

[@Zhayl04]

We are on the same page. I feel you. Hugs 😘

[@preciousbee]

Zhayl04 😘😘 hugs and love to you!

[@Ayesha-kw7ed]

Hi. Thanks for all your videos. They are teaching me alot about myself.. i am trying to concieve bt I ovulate around day18. Can u plz throw more light on late ovulation? Is it something not allowing me to get pregnant.. thanks & love from India

[@FertilityHomeopath]

I'll do this week's video on it for you :)

[@vickylovenation]

hello doctor I want your advice please i was diagnosed with diabetes and I have had 3 miscarriages because of this i because upset and always angry so what should I do to come out of it please

[@ToniOne03]

Hello! Ive been on a break for a bit to focus on my physical and mental health. I don’t have grief but I do have unprocessed trauma from childhood that I’m working thru. I’m guessing it works the same way.

[@FertilityHomeopath]

Absolutely, this can have such a big impact on our emotional and physical health and therefore also our fertility. So sorry to read about your trauma, fantastic that you are working on it

[@ToniOne03]

Fertility Homeopath thank you! I just found out this morning that I’m pregnant 🙏🏾

[@FertilityHomeopath]

@@ToniOne03 ooooh!!!! Wonderful!!

[@helenharrykit]

Wow! Huge congratulations on your pregnancy, what wonderful news! Childhood trauma can definitely have a big impact - keep an eye out for the last video in this series on fear and read The Continuum Concept by Jean Liedloff if any of the trauma was based around attachment (or lack of) and belonging. Wishing you a very happy pregnancy

[@ToniOne03]

Fertility Homeopath thank you!! You taught me so much. I’ll always be grateful. 💕

[@florentinacampbell8455]

I've been trying for over a year and half naturally. I've seen 2 fertility doctors and they arent helpful. 1st dr prescribed letrozle for 10months without cycle monitoring on me. My husband has low sperm count but he said dont worry your young. So I'm getting no answers. I've done a test and my uterus is fine. I've been so stressed because all I want and think about is being a mom

[@MrMr-zc3ep]

I am suffering with pcos and no egg in both ovary Plz guide me what to do Should I send you my reports

[@NoOne-sp1hy]

I can not have babies. U videos were a parr of that journey that is ended now. I think you can help me in suffering with a smile. Kindly if you can just upload one video for me. I like you

[@munarachid8019]

Hello, Thanks for all your videos and I have a question for you please, Premature ovarian failure /pof / unbalance glucose, No menstrual cycle. I .I also have a very healthy, organic diet and have seen Different kind off Naturopathic, Homeopathic But nothing is help. do you have any experience with this issue and Do you think any hope please help.

[@rainbowbaby196]

Love all your videos. Do you believe taking progesterone helps infertility and possibly getting pregnant? And if so, what sort tablets or creams?

[@FertilityHomeopath]

Thanks Rainbow Baby for watching! No I don't believe it does. It may help with the symptom of low progesterone and help you stay pregnant, but it does not address the underlying problem of the progesterone lack or hormone imbalance. Watch out for my upcoming video on low progesterone :)

[@rainbowbaby196]

Fertility Homeopath thank you so much for your reply. I have pcos & a blocker tube. I’m struggling with secondary infertility and it’s really frustrating. I’ll be looking out for your upcoming video on progesterone. Thank you for all the information you provide 🙌🏻

[@meghangossett3091]

I wish you would consider the grief associated with abortion and adoption (losing a child to it) and how that impacts future ones

[@FertilityHomeopath]

These are absolutely major griefs in a fertility journey, so sorry to read you've had these experiences my lovely.

[@mrs.228]

I’m angry at hubs today bc I finally got a consistent bbt bc he wouldn’t turn on AC and I had to glisten some 😓 & lay next to him and not let him touch me cause he was sweaty also 😓and last night, all night & this morning the ac was blasting and I had socks, blanket w/sheet, and bbt lower🤬 My chart looks like I have thyroid problems bc every 3 days I have an upward pattern then a dramatic dip

[@pansylou7553]

Why is your husband controlling the ac so much? That isn't really good for your ac system and also miserable for everyone else? Maybe SHARE rights for that.

[@msaz3027]

Could a childhood trauma be a block too?

[@FertilityHomeopath]

Yes, for sure, that can play a role.

[@helenharrykit]

Yes, very much so. Childhood trauma often triggers a range of different emotions and behaviours. We cover some of this in Raise Your Resilience (Day 3 - old scripts). Also worth seeking out professional support if possible

[@lilsara005]

I've watched all of your videos. I'm a big fan. I was determined to subscribe to your course, until I saw the price... unfortunately I cannot afford it. Also, with an AMH of 0,13 due to a surgical intervention (endometriosis), I doubt any herbs or homeopathic treatment would work with me. Even IVF has been a disappointment up until now... Now I should stop watching videos on how to get pregnant, but rather start looking for videos on how to get over not getting pregnant. Thank you though for your amazing work. I'm sure you will help tons of other women fulfil their dream

[@FertilityHomeopath]

Hey Lilsara, Helen also has the free Resilience challenge as I mentioned, so I highly recommend to check that out! As far as homeopathy you can absolutely get improvement in a case like yours, since I am not taking on any patients at the moment, I recommend that you find a qualified homeopathic practitioner to address the drug layer of IVF (yes that needs removal), addressing of the physical and emotional trauma of the surgery and restore hormone imbalance. So don't give up!

[@lilsara005]

@@FertilityHomeopath thank you for your reply :) If you know any good practitioners in Belgium, I'd love to hear it. Groetjes uit Vlaanderen :)