ISFJ tier-ranking the 16 personalities

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I love ISFJ's constant reminder that she doesn't have to censure her opinions. I really need more unhinged ISFJ :)

[@WeeHoursReader]

No one has ever captured the ISFJ inner monologue so well 🤣 Thanks for making my day! -ISFJ

[@Kingpinatron]

My wife is an ESFJ and 100% planned our wedding. People still talk about it like it was the greatest wedding of all time.

[@cfrch4414]

I am not surprised, my esfj sister is the best at planning events and she is currently planning her wedding. Her infp futur husband has been given a single task and she half expect him to fail at it😂

[@iwa2028]

How lovely.. My ESFJ aunt probably plan her own wedding, assisting my another aunt's wedding, my cousin's wedding, always in charge at every family gathering.. They have such a good traditions taste and warm welcoming manner in planning any gathering occasion that hugs everyone's souls.. I love her, but as a blunt INTJ I might give her some near-heart-attack-triggering manner from time to time which I pretty much regretted even if she being really forgiving..

[@kevinlulu6683]

@@iwa2028 I'm an ESFJ and I would defintely not let anyone else plan my wedding if I ever reach this stage. I'd only collaborate with a ExTJ it they were my future spouse.

[@iwa2028]

@@kevinlulu6683 i know.. It's probably a good thing that my aunt is the only ESFJ we have lol So she can have her freedom to be in charge..

[@adinamyx8152]

I waited for this video. As an ISFJ I'd say its spot on but what your really nailed was the last part with "It doesn't matter because I'll do it all myself anyways". That sent chills up my spine.

[@HerKnightable]

(Entp) Wait, we DIDN'T make Deranged Danger with Fire AND an Ice Sculpture? Who else will seriously consider how much fun the idea will be when the ESTP proposes Ice Jousting over the Fire Pit?

[@CineShinya]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 We just can't help loving you guys, so you get a better rate. Blame the common ground we can get to thanks to our cognitive functions that we share,

[@micromyuze]

You guys are the first one I thought about, belonging in that tier. We can always rely on an ENTP to make a boring wedding more interesting.

[@coin3720]

Surely it'd be better to fire joust over the ice sculptures

[@person67797]

Honestly that sounds like a blast (pun intended) but I say when ice jousting we use a ruthenium jousting pole so we can add fire on top of it THEN THE STAKES ARE HIGHER and for the prizes; winner gets a sense of pride, loser dies (win-win if you ask me) but that's just an idea, thoughts?

[@aml7481]

My ENTP ex once set himself on fire as a teenager. An ENTP colleague would duct-tape two large boards and go floating down the rapids as a teenager. Another ENTP friend once had to outrun a bear. I'm also surprised ENTPs didn't make the Deranged Danger list. The only way I can remain calm when listening to ENTP stories is reminding myself that they're there to tell the tale. Then I remember how much they get away with socially. Le sigh. (INTJ)

[@umptischmutz]

ISTP seriously needs more love. Just because we're only social around people we trust does not mean we hate people. We just want to be appreciated for our technical skills.

[@DerMichael]

Aren't ISTPs the ones who consistently get placed in first or second rank in any tier list ever? :D I think they are similar to ENFJs in that everyone universally agrees that they are awesome in what they're doing even if you personally don't care about what they're doing.

[@umptischmutz]

@DerMichael Fair point. It just seems to me *N*J types get most of the limelight in these videos.

[@kellieeee]

I love ISTPs😍- isfj

[@aml7481]

I'm down with ISTPs as I grew up with them. I'm just lowkey scared of their inferior Fe. (INTJ)

[@redbitch3362]

​@@DerMichaelokay

[@emilywelsh5359]

I’m an ISFJ - I’ve been waiting for this one and it was perfect. 😂 The “wait, no one’s listening so I don’t have to be careful with words” is definitely a thing. Reliability is 100% what I look for in a good friend. Also my Mom’s an ISTJ so my future wedding will be fabulous. 😂🙌🏻

[@tywco]

INTP here. If somebody actually said all this to my face I would straight up hug them. You make me feel so seen, ISFJ (wipes imaginary tear).

[@dazzlebreak4458]

Planning a wedding would be my nightmare - INTP

[@SatipatthanaSakuraDragona]

Her line was so spot on. If I got married, I wasn't even going to plan my own. Get a friend to get one of those online certs to marry us, go out some place pretty in nature with our friends/family, then go to a park for a potluck reception. Everyone can bring a dish instead of a wedding gift. I'm sure the bridesmaid and best man can coordinate so that we don't end up with five casseroles but no plates and forks. And if we do, one of them can make a run to the store, it's really not that deep. Do that for me instead of buying some ugly bridemaid's dress you'll never be able to wear again. I just have never seen the point of wasting so much money and effort on a wedding.

[@kevinlulu6683]

@@SatipatthanaSakuraDragona Gosh I admire you guys INTP in your own ways. But for this specific reason, I hope to never marry you ~ESFJ.

[@nickmerchant4588]

So Kristin, we’re dying to know: what else did you find in safe 12?

[@dearkristin]

Let's find out. ISFJs who read this, what do you put in YOUR safe?

[@connaonna]

The chats with my best friend 😅@@dearkristin I am not exactly sure that I am an ISFJ (could be ISTJ) but there was a time I was worried that someone would leak our chat 😄

[@ponchoking55]

Remember that episode of House when it was revealed that Cameron apparently still had the frozen sperm of her late husband in her work locker? some doors should be left closed

[@viktoria29]

A locket that was my mother's when she was a child with my grandmother's picture in it. A tract that my papaw gave people who visited him when he was in the hospital. A note a dear friend wrote to me a few months before he died in an accident 32 years ago. And a few other things that I won't share publicly. -ISFJ

[@Adam131-]

@@dearkristin Embarassing memories

[@aldohydemusic]

Hardly surprising that the ISFJ would value all the high Si users (SJ types) way above the high Ni users (NJ types, who have Si in 7th or 8th slot). Though I am surprised she didn't put the ENTP in the same category as the ESTP... It was hilarious how she was so sure about where to put the ESTP :p

[@aml7481]

I was surprised she called ENTJs "unreliable". My experience with ENTJs is that they're highly reliable. They might, however, determine that another person's plan can't be done and not hesitate to tell them so.

[@tabby_cat]

@@aml7481 Depends on the ENTJ, some of them do have their 'head in the clouds' more than others...! ENTJs aren't always 100% ruthless efficiency, especially during their free time.

[@iwa2028]

@@tabby_cat fr I always scared of this stereotypical ENTJs that everyone picture in internet.. But when I met my first ENTJ friend, my thoughts are: "Well, I guess intuitive will be intuitive" 😂

[@trinaq]

It makes sense for ISFJ to rank the types based on competence, and to rank the judgers at the top, and perceivers near the bottom!

[@julianbailey2749]

ISTPs getting bumped up, not because we are reliable but because sometimes we are just the right tool for the job. Also despite the fact that we may not always like the effort it takes to help other people, we do enjoy proving that we are still the best at any logical/practical blend task.

[@marionverdone2671]

Hi, ENFP with ISTP boyfriend here. This explaines how my boyfriend can seem so lazy and reluctant somebody (sometimes it's me) but then super quick and efficient doing and so proud and happy he finally does because he is forced to (sometimes by me) or has a deadline. I could never understand because I'm the opposite: I'm always in, I enjoy doing a job but I'm slow and run out of energy very soon. And I hate being forced or anybody telling me when to do stuff or having a deadline. Now it makes sense, thank you so much.

[@entropy8634]

Aren’t you somewhat concerned that everyone views you as a “tool”, especially when it’s your closer friends/relations? -INTP

[@DoubleA73]

Did you just call me a tool

[@julianbailey2749]

@@entropy8634 to a high Se user calling a spade a spade is far more preferable than calling a spade a flat plane based digging implement. Both my parents and my in-laws are at an age were they need support from their extended families. The fact that I am usually tasked with helping out on DIY and technical issues is fine, I get to help the people that I love in areas were I can achieve good results. Just don't ask me to be at their beck and call every week.

[@julianbailey2749]

@@DoubleA73 Everybody is a tool to somebody for something. Understanding that is neither a bad thing nor marks any particular person out as special. This whole series of videos is about how one MB type views and uses others. And no, I do not see other people as tools to do my bidding, but knowing who to ask for help when needed without abusing that person or help is a life skill.

[@michajaneroy]

ISFJ (married 5.5 years) Dad- ISTJ: was in charge of executing my wedding plan via the binder from start to finish day of, 10/10 MOH- ESFJ: she was in charge of me. Running interpersonal interference, putting out fires I was too stressed to handle, liaising with food/photographers/staff, calming me down when I’m panicking. Also double checking dad. Above and beyond, 15/10 ENFP- brother/Officiant: unreliably couldn’t figure out what it took to become an official officiant, even when I sent him bullet point steps, did almost everything myself, including trying to take the course for him. I ended up getting legally married in a courthouse 6 months before the wedding. My brother got to play pretend day-of with the verbatim script I wrote for him at the big ceremony, (-2)/10 INTP- husband: He showered and arrived on time. Obviously, those were his only 2 jobs, 5/10

[@iwa2028]

Seeing this, I'll probably just avoid marrying high Si user.. I would just become a burden to the point that I get (-10)/10 rating 😂 But honestly, out of my pure curiosity, why'd u choose to marry your (obviously) intuitive INTP husband when we intuitives tends to fail those high Si user's working standard?

[@Hollyucinogen]

Here's a friendly protip for dealing with ENFPs, coming from an INTJ whose best friend and ex-boyfriends are both ENFPs: if you want them to show up at 3:00 PM, then tell them to show up at 1:00. They're always several hours late.

[@synbioshoshone745]

@@iwa2028 heya! ENFP dating an ISFJ here, theres more to relationships than just perceiving and judging, all it takes is some mutual compromise and respect on both sides B) Besides that, functions wise, INTPs are relatively similar to ISFJs, there’s definitely a lot for them to bond over besides reliability

[@iwa2028]

@@synbioshoshone745 I see.. Nice insight, thanks :) - loner INTJ (who's pretty much clueless about how relationship works 🗿)

[@dustycouch4526]

I'm an INFJ, and I completely agree with my type's ranking. I hope you don't feel too pressured to make your audience of INFJs happy.

[@uchihaitachi01117]

It's sad that she has to be so careful to not offend mistypes

[@modove2842]

​@@uchihaitachi01117 I'd like to pat myself on the back for not being an offended mistype but I just end up rambling in NiTi which, honestly? Might be worse for an ESFP

[@kyurei4478]

I don't think she does anymore. It's sad that mistypes gave her a bad impression cause I've never been offended by her skits whatsoever and I would never respond aggressively anyway. But I start being tired of the reccurent INFJ teasing in video ngl. It was funny at first but it really start looking like an actual grievance she feels the need to express now. And honestly I find it sad for those who have nothing to do with it like me. Especially because I'm pretty sure the actual INFJs have nothing to do with it but get a bad representation. Beside that I don't really agree with the placement and the justification. I think the type should go in really reliable instead.

[@Valdebot]

I’m an INFP and same lmfao. 😂

[@fairyfellermasterstroke]

​@@kyurei4478Technically you could put any type in any tier depending on where they are in life but then there'd be no fun video. Some of us just have to go in high risk hazard so that everything fits together at the end

[@ZECRA602]

The amount of self-loathing at the end was kinda relatable ngl

[@nuttypurrfessor]

As a fellow Feeler, I love how the ISFJ really takes into account whether or not a personality type would actually enjoy like or enjoy a certain level of responsibility when it comes to planning and execution of certain things such as wedding planning! As an INFP, I love that she was like, "I'm not even going to try I'm just not going to give them anything to do because I know they're going to hate it" cuz she's right about that 😂😂😂 All the INFP would want is to be invited to the wedding and given enough time to appreciate all of the beauty and effort that went into this wedding, which means she would be miserable if given any type of job to do whilst there 😂

[@sarahberkner]

A Thinker could do that as well, maybe because not enjoying something, and not being good at it and/or willing to do it, often overlap.

[@FruitsChinpoSamuraiG]

poor ISFJ, she has a whole year before the wedding to get disappointed with people she "trusted" lolol

[@kevinlulu6683]

Or, in a more constructive approach, she has a full year to change her mindset about how she should relate to ppl.

[@CineShinya]

This is like...10000% accurate. Especially the concept of reliability, is what we, ISFJs value the most along with loyalty. The part with medication and how traumatised she is from the process is too close to heart as well. Spot on. Good luck with the wedding planning

[@nerysghemor5781]

Maybe you can explain what was wrong with the INFP? Because I really DID have a sad face when I heard her say that. As long as the bride or groom aren't evil (very unlikely with an ISFJ), I would want to try and help.

[@entropy8634]

@@nerysghemor5781 your “help” just might not be up to their standards- INTP

[@CineShinya]

@@nerysghemor5781 Oh dear...I am probably the worst person right now to talk about anything concerning INFPs being heartbroken by 2 INFP besties and the latest one broke our friendship after 10 years because she prioritised her boyfriend and I pointed out I feel lonely and I have hard time with the change of our communication pace...resulting me ending up with 8 different pills per day and start therapy, as my depression went insane after he made her block me and literally message me to let it die in my birthday. So yea...not the best person to answer that... But if I can say something as objectively as I can, is that you guys have different priorities than us...more personal. Your Fi is dominant so you focus on what matters to you. If that's us, well, lucky us. INFPs can be very dedicated but lack of the grip some situations might need you to show. ISFJs are very very strict with organisation, so we work in different pace. Also, as sensors, we are more into acting on our ideas, something that intuitive types most of the time might hold back from doing...for their own reasons. We are more focused on practicality, efficiency and tangibility. Also something my personal experience with XNFPs (and Lord, I have so many in my life), taught me that they tend to be enthusiastic about something but dropout soon and try something else. They also go from clingy to ghosting very often (especially ENFPs), so this lack of stability in the relationship is difficult for us, Si dominants. Also, perceivers in general are more of the types that will improvise to what comes and they are more flexible with change, while we aren't comfortable with that really. This isn't necessarily bad. It's just different than how we work on things.

[@CineShinya]

@@entropy8634 Savage, yet fair.

[@nerysghemor5781]

@@entropy8634 The thing with having Te even in the inferior position is that once you get older, even as an INFP you can actually learn how to take feedback and it can really light a fire for wanting to do better. Some INFPs never learn this. But I was raised by wolves (Te-doms), so there was no choice in my house. 🤣

[@Pirogok01]

ISFJs are just a walking saints for me. You guys are amazing! One of the most kind, considerate people I ever met. Great video as always❤ -enfp

[@JadestonePony]

lol don't worry Ms. ISFJ! As an INFP, I'm not offended and totally expected to be down at the bottom somewhere! Event planning and managerial stuff is definitely not my forte! X'D

[@jvin27]

My bestie (INFP) was MOH at my wedding, love her to bits but she definitely needed help so I got my sister-in-law ( ESFJ) to help her out with bridal party duties 😅 Also, my mum (ISFP) stressed me out a lot with her time management on my wedding day so this video is so accurate 😮 - an ISFJ married to an ISTP ☺️

[@nicsza9010]

My mom is an ISFJ and planning both my sisters’ weddings (both Thinking types) these last 2 years really saw her level-up her strengths, but left her exhausted (which she won’t admit, of course!) As her ENFP daughter, my mission is to have as stress-free a wedding as possible. Max 30 people. Mama only needs to show up … Not sure if she feels relieved or offended 😅 Anyhoo, happy wedding planning, Kristin!

[@evarootbeer22]

Get her involved in something, as small as it can be, it will make her feel better HAHA

[@nicsza9010]

@@evarootbeer22 noted, will do 😅

[@iwa2028]

I have ENFP friend that have an XSFJ mom.. I could definitely picture her concern as much as yours in your comment.. 😅

[@tenebict]

excuse me - "SEVERAL HUNDRED PEOPLE"??? what the heck kind of wedding

[@jameswilkerson4412]

A Catholic one ?

[@aml7481]

ISFJs can't disinvite people, only add (to their great inner distress)

[@lesil1000]

My ISFJ friend invited her entire church to her wedding

[@chrisatonin]

South Asian weddings have AT LEAST several hundred people 😭

[@richardmartin7904]

INTJs are very reliable....but not for anything social related. So very spot on. Your comedy is getting way better over time. My daughter is ISFJ...I can't help but notice she stops requesting I help her with things over time...

[@Hollyucinogen]

Untrue. We're actually good at roasting the sh*t out of people on behalf of someone who's too nice to do it themselves. I have to tell people off on behalf of my ISFJ Dad all the time (he's genetically incapable of being rude or something). In return, he bakes me cookies, though, so we're basically just trading. 👍

[@richardmartin7904]

@@Hollyucinogen I think I am a quieter INTJ. Sure I could roast people but you have to piss me off in the extreme for that mode to get activated. I usually just sit and observe and be like this entire situation is fucked. Time to go back to my special interest.

[@Hollyucinogen]

@@richardmartin7904 Yeah, I agree. It takes a lot for INTJs to get to the point of being willing to go that hard on someone.

[@aml7481]

@@Hollyucinogen - One of my ISFJ colleagues once handed me the phone without a word because the person on the other line had a dumb request and she knew I had no issues telling them "No". I felt seen 😂

[@Hollyucinogen]

@@aml7481 Based 😂

[@WolfoxBR]

INTJ is accurate as always. Also, I can definitely relate to the "doing everything yourself because you can't trust other people to execute your plans properly" thing.

[@ponchoking55]

ISTJ tier-ranking the 16 personalities on usefulness in an Escape Room

[@cutepsycho1224]

Sounds great ❤

[@erinl422]

Ability to do their own taxes

[@aml7481]

ISTJs do escape rooms?

[@sarahberkner]

​@@aml7481 There have been sightings of ISTJs having fun, although it's mostly hearsay.

[@theorycow]

If you don't do an INFP tier list next I'm gonna tell my plants about it and maybe cry

[@iwa2028]

😂😂😂

[@edmis90]

Congratulations to ISTP and ESFP for being the only xxxP types to get into one of the 2 top tiers! _(Again for ISTP, they already were the only xxxP in the ESTJ tier list!)_

[@isabelleskiss]

As an ENFP "idea generation" and contributing "positive vibes" actually sounds like the job of my dreams!

[@kairostimeYT]

This is the second time a character, who ranks those with J high, ranked ISTP high too.

[@huntedsnark7507]

Make a detailed plan for the elopement, isfj. Hand make the apology cards and send them out before you leave. You'll feel much better.

[@EmmaB764]

Finally, we get to see what the ISFJ really thinks about all of us

[@sarahberkner]

Specifically who they would rely on to help plan a wedding, not in general.

[@ValtariBand]

Wow. Just wow. My ISFJ wife just giggled uncomfortably the whole time. Sooo accurate it’s scary. Kristen you are getting better every time!

[@rainbowratto1834]

As an ENFP I knew we'll be in the hazard territory as soon as I saw that tier being made 😂 I'm always super happy to help with things but sticking to plans and schedules or handling dishes without breaking at least one of them is not my forte :D

[@crayon8749]

"help" I just Oof Yet again, another masterpiece Can't wait for through the eyes of ESFP video next :) (I was gonna leave it there but my brain is screaming at me to say that there is no pressure)

[@jashepoon]

Some pressure 😈

[@joanaborrellsanchez9225]

As an INFP, I end up frustrated with ISFJs, because we're very similar yet different in terms of priorities and life goals. I admire them so much and for some time I like to be around them, but then I need distance. But I totally understand how beautiful and necessary they are for this world.

[@fredsas12]

As an INTJ, I can tell you that you are absolutely spot on for them. That was hilarious to listen to, especially you overthinking what the INTJ will be overthinking themselves. Oh and congratulations.

[@KulebyakMaster]

I am an INTJ, my mom is an ISFJ. We cried watching this, it's so relatable 😂

[@ryanquick1824]

as an INTJ here, i approve of your assessment of both our interest in said situation as well as what positive(s) we 'could' offer at such an event. - (again) INTJ

[@JohnLoKie]

Male ISFJ here. That Y part got me. It is still driving me crazy thinking about it. You can’t possibly tell me this doesn’t bother other people. Feels like I am out in public with just underwear on. Next time just abbreviate it with a period at the end Kristin. We’d all appreciate you more. Also if you want to be super amazing put an * at the bottom of the page for the people who somehow don’t understand what you are doing. Sounds good? Awesome! Welcome to my brain.

[@KahunaPuffin]

My ISFJ husband hasn't seen this video yet, but I can guarantee that'll be the first thing he notices. I (INTP) would probably have created a break on an earlier syllable so that the Y isn't lonely. 🤣

[@erinl422]

No I’m an istj and it’s bothering me too lol

[@JohnLoKie]

@@erinl422I think it is an Si thing in general

[@c_larsen]

My ISTP friend would be bothered by it, too.

[@sarahberkner]

I didn't know what you were talking about because I watched this on my phone and didn't actually read the tiers, but now I can't unsee it. Thanks a lot - ESTJ

[@KahunaPuffin]

INTP bride (me), ISFJ groom, 3 months to plan a Christmas weekend wedding reception. Could have been disastrous, but we had the secret weapon of being old friends from the same hometown, so our families joined forces and took over planning everything while we finished the semester out of state. We picked some colors and that was pretty much it until we rolled into town a week before the wedding. It turned out fantastic and nearly 18 years later we still can't think of anything we would have changed. 😁❤️ Had I been in charge of planning, we would probably have ended up with a Starship Enterprise cake and I'd have forgotten at least 3 crucial things. 🤣

[@jameswilkerson4412]

❤ for sci-fi love! -A probable INTP No thoughts of a Betazoid-style wedding ?

[@KahunaPuffin]

Never! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MarcusCaddock]

But rants about humanity are what make life more bearable through venting. How are they not enjoyable/cathartic? -INTJ

[@jameswilkerson4412]

❤ -just needs to be deserved, whether about vendors or in-laws

[@aml7481]

People seem to have a quota that depends on how much they rely on "positivity" to go through their day.

[@sarahberkner]

I find people who just complain about things instead of doing something about them or just being grateful for positive things annoying. If I complain about that it makes me sound like a hypocrite, but you did ask. It annoys me when people complain about humanity/society being stupid or whatever because they never mean themselves. They're geniuses and everyone else is stupid. Sure, whatever you say. - ESTJ

[@PriHL]

The "I'm gonna pretend I'm not a leader (but in the end all decisions are up to me)" part is so me :) I'm an INFJ though, so it might be an Fe-Ti thing. I also know an ISFJ who used to be very shy and had problems talking to people so avoided it. But you'd never think that now, they're amazing at meaningful, warm interactions. And they'd definitely not put me in the "common competence" category as I'm also very reliable, stick to deadlines and absolutely HATE people being late or not do things they said they'll do. For me it's also obvious that an ISFJ or an INFJ would put the ESTP in the "deranged danger" category. I laughed when I heard the category name first and I immediately knew who'd be put in it :)

[@Adam131-]

As an ISFJ, this sounded really true!! :D Although I am also keen to leave things to the last minute (especially if I really dont want to do it) and I am also bad at being punctual (like 5 minute lateness in nothing for me), but I still trust myself the best, because if I mess up, it will be just me to blame and not others. I also laughed on the 'dont want to talk to people' which is also true! Great video! (And the overthinking thing is also really really true)

[@ramennight]

Trick I've figured out for timeblind people, make their "deadline" a day or two earlier than the actual deadline.

[@iwa2028]

Nice, I'll try that

[@Yo-pz1em]

As an estj… I actually LOVE isfjs. I blindly trust them and feel the need to protect them. I dunno. They’re just very calm and very friendly and they get shit done. Esfj-I like them but not as much as isfj. Isfj never talks about irrelevant things. Esfj has a tendency to mother and talk about everyone and sometimes I just need to not be mothered nor do I care about what is going on in other people’s lives.

[@kellieeee]

I really don’t care about weddings nor would I like to plan one. I’m an ISFJ but I’m a huge procrastinator and pretty laid back? Idk 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@lunchcase]

ayyyyy the NTP-SFJ shared dead smile/laugh!

[@DarkBlazeLeggendaxu]

I'm an INTP and one of my best friends is probably an ISFJ (even though she thinks she's an INFJ). We worked on many Uni projects together and exchanged notes for different lessons, but she's got slightly better marks (like 28/30 compared to my 27/30). And yeah, she asked for (or better, "accepted") my notes to not make me feel bad, 'cause she made her own too. One could get annoyed or hurt over this, but I get it. Sometimes I'm like that as well. Nevertheless, I think I'm in her really reliable tier.

[@cutepsycho1224]

Aw, that‘s so cute ❤ and yeah, many isfjs are mistyped as infjs

[@jameswilkerson4412]

What area of study?

[@DarkBlazeLeggendaxu]

@@jameswilkerson4412 Psychology (3rd year), then criminological and forensic psychology for me and clinical psychology for her.

[@entropy8634]

If you’re both aware of “you’re only accepting my notes to not make you feel bad” social charade, wouldn’t it be better if you unburden both of you by acknowledging it? So instead of pretending to exchange notes, you can do more genuine work of adding/altering to her notes the information you think are important? -A fellow INTP

[@DarkBlazeLeggendaxu]

@@entropy8634 You're right. Plans were initially that I'd summarize books ('cause I work and can't follow all the lessons) in exchange for her notes of what the professors'd say on the same topics during lessons. She ended up summarizing most of the books too, because she wanted notes in line with her Ti/Si, which sometimes differs from mine. She did use my notes on some topics, and I very much understand her need to follow her own logic in studying. I'm like that too. So neither of us used the other's notes exactly as intended, but we both benefited from them. That exchange kind of ended now since we're in different groups now (students are divided in 3-4 big groups based on surname initials).

[@katestewart-taylor9736]

When I got married, I picked out my dress, my cake (chocolate pound cake covered in chocolate buttercream roses. This was in the 1980’d and considered quite radical) my invitations,and my bouquet. I left everything else to the church ladies. The results being I had an opera singer, a blue grass band, flowers from the church ladies gardens, a country ham, biscuits, assorted sides, sweet tea, water, coffee,lemonade, Mac and cheese, a green salad and a pastor wearing a purple shirt. I didn’t expect any of if was was quite happy to be entertained by the unexpected

[@dustycouch4526]

That little smile and thumbs up at the end was hilarious!

[@ella_dee04]

"no more freaking, they'll be no leaking" 😂😂

[@LunaticTactician]

INTP here going to be brutally honest with himself: - I struggle with most deadlines other than those at my English-teaching job. Heck, I even struggle with my own deadlines. I often lack sleep because of either gaming or stress caused by helping other people. - Because I'm a hopeless romantic, I actually enjoy the aesthetics of weddings. The physical appearance of the wedding has to match up with the overwhelming joy the couple is feeling. Whether or not I emotionally care about the wedding, however, depends on how much I care about the bride and groom, though. For example, I barely paid attention and stayed quiet when I was told by my mom to attend the wedding of a relative I didn't know at all. Good thing I wasn't actually told to do anything serious besides simply driving my mom to the venue. As for planning a wedding for myself, I'm fine with being budget-friendly since I value frugality. Consistency throughout the decades of marriage matters much more to me than a single short-lived festivity.

[@nabd341]

I haven’t yet watched the video, but I’m really excited too!!! I love this series so much!!!!!!!

[@weirdwolf5032]

Was just questioning as an ISTJ how I'm scary as a person... then I remembered that my colleague once said to me that after my manager hired me, he'd said to my colleague that if anything bad ever happened, I looked like I could "throw a good punch"

[@trixi1608]

ISTJs can be very direct and stern, so that might scare an ISFJ. It sometimes scares me too (INFP here). I find ESTJs even scarier though, as they come across as very authoritative and no-nonsense.

[@ellier2018]

I love her little strained thumbs up at the end 😂

[@olivierdyck9233]

As an ISTJ, it feels nice being at the top. Even tough it is a humorous video, our efforts are finally recognized. I am very interested in your content !

[@cutepsycho1224]

Isfj ❤ istj

[@sarahberkner]

My istj dad is really good at planning ahead and keeping track of all the details, whether it's planning family trips or finances.

[@rifter6176]

Those are fantastic. My office admin is ISFJ. She married her dream organization partner! an ISTJ 😊

[@rifter6176]

Unfortunately, I'm here boss.. an INTP. Hazard!

[@Spectacular-Spider-Dan]

Hey youtube commenters! I just wanted to mention again that Kristin has a patreon goal that when she hits 500 patrons she's going to make "16 Personalities In A Musical." Let's make that happen! Even if you can't afford the lowest patreon tier, I'm sure a custom pledge of any size would help her achieve her goal of becoming a full time content creator. Even a dollar would help! So, if her content entertains you, or enriches your life in some way, please consider donating! Disclaimer: Please donate responsibly. Don't give beyond your means.☺

[@reymond5447]

As an INFP, I can say it hurts 😢

[@apollontheintp3257]

But are you surprised? Our kind is not made for project plans.

[@HaHaHaLMFAOtv]

ENFJ, I'm ALMOST hurt that we didn't get the best position 🤣🤣🤣 but I get it tho, pretty spot on 👌

[@sarahberkner]

As an ESTJ event coordinator, I get why the ESFJ is"the event coordinator type". My ISTJ dad is great at planning ahead but doesn't like working with people that much, he was an engineer. ISFJs, I can't quite see them being the best person to plan an event, but anyone can if they have enough experience.

[@kairostimeYT]

That Ti-Ne dread at the end.

[@spacebar9733]

Congrats on your engagement !!!!!

[@MelodySmith07]

My dad is an ISFJ just right now my mom(ISFP) and my dad are having their dinner and I just asked my dad to rank us all for any responsibility that can help him to organize any party or ceremony . Guess what, he said he will asking for help from 1st my younger brother(ISTP) ,2nd Me(INTJ) and at last from my Mom(ISFP). Now they are teasing and bickering with each other than later on he will definetly need to butter up to my mom🤣🤣

[@abubakr8824]

I love the calm voice in this video

[@jameswilkerson4412]

Think it’s due to anti-anxiety drugs or a mods stabilizer ?

[@jimclayson]

INTP with an ISFJ mother... and while I love her dearly, yes, I've been on the receiving end of her secret and not-so-secret judgements for the last half-century. My ESFJ father and ESTJ sister BARELY qualify as dependable by her standards. Yes, 99% of her judgements of me are things I've earned, but still...

[@entropy8634]

I’m also INTP with ISFJ mother. When it comes to her judgement, I had the habit of dismissing it in favor of my own judgements based on logic alone. If it doesn’t make sense, it’s getting thrown out. But since she’s my mother and had the final authority, I was forced early on to adopt her standards and way of life. I’m now an adult, and sometimes thankful of the “common sense” she forced me to accept, like social skills, values of aesthetics, and self discipline. I do sometimes wonder if she’ll say “I told you so” in her head if I ever express this to her 😂

[@theofreeman4300]

I'm in the same boat, but I'm actually quite agreeable, so she lets me slide a lot. Also, she married to an INTP, so it's not like I'm surprising... Her "extra child" both is her personal encyclopedia, and an extra source of grey hairs! 😊

[@jimclayson]

@entropy8634 Absolutely. Growing up in an overwhelmingly SJ family made for some stressful years here and there, but I've learned that the SJ "tried and true" holds up to scrutiny far more often than not. In particular, my ESFJ father and I have come to respect each other's abilities and insights. We don't always agree, and even when we do, it's often a matter of following very different paths to come to the same conclusion, but we find we have far more common ground than not.

[@em.designs]

As an ISFJ, that last monologue bit at the end was PERFECT. That is literally my thought process doing any monumental task.

[@JollyJaro]

Your thespian capabilities are, as always, fantastic! ❤ Wonderful display of the ISFP opinions 👏

[@thanhheu4129]

As ISTJ, I laugh through out this video of depiction of a fellow Si dom ISFJ. They're similarly hilarious as hiding those 'shameful' objects at the beginning, I feel that 🤣 and thanks dear for trusting us on the 'top' tier 😂 Lovely video Kristin 😄

[@erinl422]

A lot of feelers don’t like how blunt thinkers can be

[@user-mh5be7rj5j]

As an INTP, I relate a lot to the INTP’s ranking in this video. I also relate to the INTJ at some points. Also, what website is this? I’d like to use it.

[@viktoria29]

I feel 100% called out. I would tell you about it but I don't like confrontations. I'll just lower you in my tier ranking and feel guilty about it for months (until the burning). -ISFJ

[@aaliyahkishore246]

As an INTJ, it's much more of a personal attack when an ISFJ has a bad opinion of you because they're so nice, rather than an ENTJ. Like you know that people can be extremely fake but it still stings a bit. I would love to be the person who deals with other people who make the wedding about themselves, because I know the ISFJ would rather die than tell people a harsh truth, and I don't like people who hurt them either. Good luck with the wedding planning, and as a musician, I know it's not my place, but PLEASE, do not pick Canon in D as your wedding song.

[@cluylala]

The Canon in D part 💀 But you're absolutely right.

[@jameswilkerson4412]

Which instrument do you play?

[@afrosamourai400]

Why not canon in D?

[@aaliyahkishore246]

@@jameswilkerson4412 oh I play piano

[@aaliyahkishore246]

@@afrosamourai400 because it's the most overplayed wedding piece EVER.

[@edwright4892]

Another absolutely hilarious addition to this stupendous series! 😂 As an INFP, was I a little sad about our ranking? Yes, but also mightily relieved, the pressure for elaborate wedding perfection, yikes! 😢

[@Hyorikatsu]

At weddings, I always get tasked with helping with decorations in some way. :) -INFP

[@iwa2028]

Yea, INFPs tends to secretly (or not so secret) have this artistic aesthetic soul

[@olioli-ut8xx]

I love these videos :))

[@intuitivegirl987]

haha, definitely those that have Ne in first or second place are high risk hazards in planning, we bad at it lol

[@liamodonovan6610]

Congratulations on you're engagement you are a beautiful catch love your videos

[@crumbsintopebbles]

I actually love ISFJs!

[@jackies1729]

OK.... soooooo, my only pet peeve with INFP depictions is when we are shown to cry all the time and to be morose a lot - i'm actually pretty cheerful and fun. :) that said, this nailed it!!! Ages ago, I was tasked with being a bridesmaid for a friend's wedding (oops, did I say tasked instead of asked? yeah, that's not a typo).... and i had no idea of the duties involved - so many! -INFP

[@user-yz4ke9hi9s]

ISFJ: “INTJ, can you take care of the table centerpieces for my wedding?” INTJ: “yup.” A few months later, ISFJ: “how is the centerpiece project going?” INTJ: “great.” ISFJ: “can you tell me more about what you’re planning? Did you stick to the wedding colors? Do you need to know my favorite flower?” Do you nee-“ INTJ: “nope. All taken care of.” On wedding day, centerpieces are perfect color, size, and flower type (and under the budget set).

[@iwa2028]

Spot on.. INTJ could just done everything perfectly if they intended to..

[@arbuz135]

nice thank you!

[@SKZ8]

I already knew where she was going to put me 😂 My mom "ISFJ" she usually doesn't ask me to do anything because she knows I won't get it done on time or I'll forget the whole thing 😚 ENFP

[@giuseppedambrosi8496]

This made me laugh the most of all this tier-ranking videos of yours 😂

[@metukunet]

How is the fact that the background of the tierlist is not the same white as the type cards not driving her crazy???? It's the only thing I could notice!

[@elenas9125]

I was looking forward to this video! Thank you! (Isfj, sadly not getting married)

[@heathertoomey7068]

6:12 As an ENFP, I LOVE this plan! 10:11 Wow

[@DarthTach]

Me on the INTP ranking: "High Risk?!?......okay, those are valid reasons, I'll allow it." My plan of if I ever get married: Elope

[@iwa2028]

So spot on.. My INTP friend would probably do the same.. 😂

[@alterjah2671]

So real, this scenario reminded me of my birthday party. It was fun but quite overwhelming with all the people I had to interact with to make sure everyone was okay.

[@Dragonking-vp4sx]

Manifestating the ESTP tier list 🙏🛐

[@tiffybl00bs99]

😂

[@trixi1608]

I envision something around sports or a road trip for the ESTP tier list..

[@uchihaitachi01117]

INFJs love your videos Kristin!!!💖👑 And lots of love to our dearest ISFJs, you deserve the best only :)

[@theofreeman4300]

I was going to be offended that I was put in the High-risk hazard with the rest of my INTP brothers and sisters, and then I reminded myself how much I behold with horror the impending shadows looming above every newlywed, the horrifying passion of the socially competent, and my own capricious care for my fellow human... Also, good lord that fake, paltry laugh is horrifying, Kristin...

[@DerMichael]

NPs, assemble! To not be part of that dreadful wedding planning!

[@entropy8634]

And I appreciate ISFJ for being that considerate 😂

[@MissEliseIsTired]

My sister's ISFJ friend actually just got married, and it was a nightmare. She let her family and more assy friends walk all over her so she didn't get anything she wanted, and my sister and I ended up planning, designing and decorating her wedding more then all her stupid family and friends that originally derailed everything. I don't even like her and I freaking designed her wedding and bridal shower invitations, and decorated the groom's cake for free. It was more to help my sister who got everything dumped on her when everyone flaked. FYI, I'm INTP and my sister is ESFP. Sorry for ranting, I'm still annoyed about it. This video was lovely and seemed accurate. I very much am not interested in helping plan weddings.

[@iwa2028]

Quite relatable.. As an INTJ I would very much annoyed as well.. lol

[@janelame8083]

The ending got pretty dark tho. As an INTJ, all I'm saying is - why get through all that trouble and stress at all? Come to the dark side, don't plan anything and just elope. And no wedding businesses will make profit off of you.

[@jameswilkerson4412]

As a (possible) INTJ, I went to a courthouse in the suit I’d had for years and my wife wore an off-the-shelf dress from a department store

[@iwa2028]

@@jameswilkerson4412 and your wife didn't complain at all? That's interesting.. What's your wife's type? No means to offend, just out of curiosity..

[@markaragnos2446]

Hey ISFJ, the video got leaked...

[@viktoria29]

Eeekkk!

[@joshualevan]

Spot on with the passive aggressiveness of the ISFJ

[@user-po4ow1hc2e]

As an ISFJ, the comment about having to listen to an INTJ’s pointless ramblings about humanity was brilliant! 😂😂 I definitely tend to gravitate more towards sensing types, though I do have a lot of intuitive types in my life right now so may just have to get used to a bit more pointless rambling about abstract concepts I have no idea of what they are on about. This was definitely one of the best depictions of an ISFJ, so thanks for posting 💛

[@iwa2028]

That's so sweet.. Thanks for trying to bear w our intuitive shenanigans.. 😂

[@saifiiui]

Isfj are flowers. If you squeeze them then still they'll give fragrance. They are so nice that their good intentions become overbearing from them but they can't stop giving warm support

[@unruly_ronin]

Lessgooo. Never been this early. W upload