If anyone tells you to leave their sibling, it’s really saying a lot
@emilycheek3077Ай бұрын
realzing how toxic a sibling is one of the hardest things ive ever had to do
@closeup7371Ай бұрын
Girls never listen to sisters! No matter how much we beg them!
@snk3017Ай бұрын
@@emilycheek3077 i can relate 😢
@sarvolkskaya21 күн бұрын
I tried to leave my abusive ex four times and went back each time. Trying to fix it, fix us, work it out etc. It was not until his own mother sat me down and told me i needed to leave him for my own safety did I officially never go back. Her eldest son. His twin brother had also encouraged me but he was closer with his brother so he wasn’t as blatant, but his mom (who he was close to as well) was very clear. She helped me get out, get a restraining order against HER baby and backed me up in court because she knew I had no family or support other than his family due to how isolated I’d become. He took it out on her and she never wavered because her husband had done the same thing. She saw that in him and I can honestly say if it hadn’t been for her, I don’t think i would have had the strength to leave
@alisiddiqui926921 күн бұрын
@@sarvolkskayavery sorry you had to deal with all that
@lztz-d9f11 күн бұрын
This is, hand down, the best acted and scene of the entire movie. This is what true friendship and unwavering support should look like.
@freshprince374Ай бұрын
I like this scene. She’s a true friend to Lily.
@zoolander1230Ай бұрын
Sadly, this isn't how these conversations go in real life. Majority of the time people stand up for the abuser and get very defensive. They are in a state of denial for a while unless they've seen it. Even still they deny due to the shame or the love bombing they experience. Look at narcissistic abuse the family and friends sometimes never see it because they outwardly seem lovely. It's only when they are alone with you their demeanour changes.
@vee421Ай бұрын
We all need a friend like her in our life
@nopeenahh10 күн бұрын
She did so good with this role
@1ejenzАй бұрын
Jenny slate...she's also a comedian!
@Conniejohnson-g1q4 күн бұрын
this was such a good movie, I loved Atlas, and I love how she stopped the cycle with her daughter
@choosethewright7652Ай бұрын
Mona Lisa: I never thought he was capable of this... Jean-Ralphio: yeeaah...it turns out he's THE WOOOORRRST!!!!🤪🤪🤪
@Lora-lora-bo-boraАй бұрын
🤣
@Yulinika23 күн бұрын
Incredible acting!
@yaimygonzalez413925 күн бұрын
The best scene of the movie
@Mari-go1csАй бұрын
Wait, she didn’t know what happened to the brother until after they were married?
@yevgeniyaleshchenko849Ай бұрын
Yeah, weird. Red flag...
@marysullivan5509Ай бұрын
No she didn't know her brother was an abuser until after they were married. She always knew what happened to the little brother
@forallthestupidshit3550Ай бұрын
@@marysullivan5509pretty sure she's saying the wife didn't know the husband killed hisnown brother until after the wedding. Nit his iwn sister not knowing her own brother killed their brother. The fact that you purposely read that incorrectly says more about your ability to connect and communicate.
@RhianaMorris-tk3sxАй бұрын
@@marysullivan5509she meant if the girl didn't know what happened to the friend's brother before they were married
@irenemaldonado112820 күн бұрын
She never knew until after they got married lily always kept it a secret
@HazyCatalyst624 күн бұрын
BUT HER HAIR LOOKS GOOD THO, RIGHT?
@kittymauiАй бұрын
Ryle could've shot the brother - not by accident - like no one was prob around to know ! that would borderline psychosis, which has happened in real life scenario. Did the book indicate or insinuate anything i wonder? if he was innocent as a child, it must be a very difficult load to carry for the rest of his life. Will need hypnotherapy!
@rogueryder3285Ай бұрын
Nuh uh
@missycitty9478Ай бұрын
Oh stop.
@JustCallmeMJ13 күн бұрын
I haven’t read the book and I don’t make plans on reading the book because of how it almost seems to approve of the relationship vile and Lily have and how so many people supported Ryle and thought Lily should forgive him when he was a red flag from the very start But what I did hear was that it was even more traumatizing for Ryle in the book because he tried to “fix him. “ as in he tried to put the stuff back in Emerson‘s head. Yes, it obviously had to have been very traumatizing for him, but no matter what happened or what Lily did or didn’t do. Nothing gave him the right to hit her in any circumstance, no justification or excuses. and Ryle claims that he’s been in therapy since then, but therapy doesn’t work for everyone. I’m not victim blaming Lily as well because when you’re in that situation, you obviously may not know whatever to do and it can be scary, especially the kind of person you’re with. But what I will say is we have to see the red flags, the bad tempers, mean comments, and all the rest, we have to see the signs for what they are and read between the lines. You always have the option to leave. Never let your abuser think that you are alone or that you have no one or nowhere to go.
@cristopherperalta6 күн бұрын
I'm afraid the friend stole the whole acting and this scene proves it.
@mimi42428Ай бұрын
This is so romanticised and so far from the truth it's sickening. In the real world, the family of the abuser enables and even encourages the abuser in their abusive behaviours and they all bully and continue to abuse the victim. This scene makes me want to 🤮🤢 because this is far from how it plays out in real life. Please please if you are being abused, the last people you want to trust is the family of your abuser. They will always defend and stick up for their abusive family member
@patriciorodriguez1020Ай бұрын
Don’t tell people what to do… every case is individual
@ghsguardkittyАй бұрын
I told my brother's girlfriend to run. Get away and stay away. She didn't listen but eventually got out on her own.
@shelbyharderanderson4578Ай бұрын
I would agree that this is not the statistical norm. But I wouldn't say it never happens. I was in a toxic and abusive relationship as a teen and his brother told me to leave after seeing him mistreat me. It depends on the individual situation. Not all families of abusers are the same.
@danydazed4314Ай бұрын
No, we won’t. I had this conversation with my brothers ex partner.
@wanderingsoul6088Ай бұрын
If my brother abuses his girl, I will tell her to run. I'm sorry your experience was not the same but trust me there are people who will never support abusers even if they are family.
@HazyCatalyst624 күн бұрын
AS A SISTER?! TO FORGIVE BEATING HER?! BUT AS A BEST FRIEND, SHE WONT SPEAKE TO HER AGAIN?! what did her "brother" do to her?
@emmavink23 күн бұрын
Forgiving isn't forgetting. You can forgive a person without forgiving what they did to you. Forgiveness is part of the victim's healing process for themselves. You don't do it for the abuser. You do it for yourself.
@isaiah759020 күн бұрын
@@emmavink true true
@cyythekid68014 күн бұрын
Her brother was abusing her and it makes sense why she said what she said. While yes we would love for our family to do better and for people to forgive them we also have to realize that isn't the case all the time and it's not possible all the time. But she's saying forget that he's her brother she's her best friend and if she takes him back she won't speak to her anymore and it's understandable
@AllisonLinner3 күн бұрын
@@emmavink You are absolutely right, thanks for your comment. It reminds me of one of my favorite quotes: "Hate is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die"
@jamescannon79352 ай бұрын
Im the one that will say the girl with the green dress looks like puppet Helen hunt from team American.
@emilycheek3077Ай бұрын
wheres jon ralphio
@harrisonhanson2998Ай бұрын
Hey! It’s Talie Shifrin!
@VxlAndF3thАй бұрын
Why does the girl in green looks so familiar where is she from
@DominiqueGetsАй бұрын
Alvin and the chipmunks (shipwreck)
@gracee_leeАй бұрын
shes that teacher from the gifted movie
@VxlAndF3thАй бұрын
@@gracee_lee omg yeah, that’s why
@kylasworldview1Ай бұрын
She is Blake Lively. Married to Ryan Reynolds. Was in The Age of Adeline, as well as The Green Lantern, etc.
@Tiff92_Ай бұрын
Saturday Night Live
@angelique25m11Ай бұрын
The only realistic scene in the movie.
@LariB1216 күн бұрын
Not at all...
@NightLight999998 күн бұрын
This isn't realistic because why would you're wife not know about what happened to Emerson? They brought the situation up long ago when they were out together but they still never talked about it lol. Super unrealistic that she never once asked him exactly how his brother died
@christina6787 күн бұрын
@@NightLight99999you’d be surprised what people don’t ask before they’re married. Lilly comes from an abusive home life, she was constantly apologizing and walking on eggshells, she didn’t want to make him angry. Just the mention of his brother caused him visible turmoil, she wasn’t going to chance it by asking more questions.
@i8as2 ай бұрын
All the single ladies All the single ladies
@annishka515Ай бұрын
How about all the married ladies who know how to pick quality men. Like me. They are out there
@amberschairer661422 күн бұрын
@@annishka515- You may have been wise, but you were also lucky, thus far. I am married, been married for 18 years, but it hasn’t been easy. Some good men come back from war with PTSD, sometimes bipolar or other form of mental illness pops up later in life. Sometimes pain changes people. It isn’t just about being raised right or choosing right. People CAN change, and unfortunately it is not always for the better. Having a happy marriage is just another kind of “privilege” and it is very easy to assume that we earned all our privileges, through always making the right choices. We assume we are healthy because we eat right and exercise, unaware that we are only one accident or mysterious illness away from being permanently disabled. We choose a “good neighborhood” to live, unaware that a single recession could change everything. We pick a kind spouse who loves us only to have life twist warp and break them into someone we don’t recognize. I am glad you have a “good” husband, and no doubt a lot of that is your “good” instincts, and more than that, hard work on both of your parts. Just be careful of looking down your nose at others, and deciding they are wholly responsible because they made “bad” choices. There is no rule book. Be careful because when life gets hard as it eventually does for everyone that same feeling of pride you have can turn against you, make you feel wholly responsible for whatever crisis you are in. We always have some responsibility, but we have to be aware that sometimes life changes things in ways you cannot predict or prepare for. All that said I am happy you have been so fortunate, that you have been wise, and I hope that none of the terrible things others have gone through ever happens to you. I hope your life remains forever crisis free, or at least crisis easily weathered. And I hope you can be supportive instead of judgemental when life doesn’t work as planned for others around you.
@AllisonLinner3 күн бұрын
@@annishka515 ?
@annishka5153 күн бұрын
@@AllisonLinner I was responding to someone else. Women are in relationships they chose to be in.
@ryanjohnson374911 күн бұрын
PUT HER IN JAIL
@Righleycoffel14 сағат бұрын
Why?
@HazyCatalyst624 күн бұрын
BUT Blake Lively's hair LOOKS GOOD, you guys
@houstonvlogger_03517 күн бұрын
Ryle was supposed to be Lily’s future but turns out it was all a trap
@alyshabrewer9760Ай бұрын
Blake Lively just ruins this movie for me ,I hate everything about her
@emmavink23 күн бұрын
Get over yourself. Grow the fk up. You don't like her? Don't watch it. No one needs your mean-spiritedness.
@NightLight999998 күн бұрын
She produced it
@wildoceanappaloosawomangay2535Ай бұрын
Fake
@Cat2227510 күн бұрын
Ugh, what a waste of time. This movie sucked so much!