It Gets Better : BD Wong

[@christo-chaney]

There aren't enough people like you B D Wong. Thank you for being the example I need to learn from!

[@AlexMFrankel]

Hello Bradley Wong - it’s been 43 years since we were in the same class at Giannini. Ninth grade, Mrs. Palmer’s social studies class...The bullying at that school was horrendous and there was no one to turn to for help. Memories one never forgets. Thank you for the video!

[@95water84]

Whoa, you were in the same class as B.D. Wong, cool

[@handlin7333]

How old are you and what was he like in school?

[@handlin7333]

@@95water84 Hello, nice profile picture.

[@twotrees517]

The world needs more BD Wong. I have a fever. And the only thing that can cure it is MORE BD WONG.

[@TheGazeLove]

I absolutely love and adore this man. I love his voice. I could listen to this forever. This moved me to tears because I can totally relate to how he felt. I don't like myself either, but somehow he makes a very convincing argument.

[@taylormann3751]

Who doesn’t love his voice?? I mean his voice is very soothing

[@AbsurdnMisherd]

B.D. you just made me cry. Thank you for an amazing video. You are beautiful.

[@pup4588]

I can't express enough in this little paragraph how much hope this has given me. How much joy. How much I have to look forward to now. Until now I had wondered about my sexuality and what it meant to ever be a parent. Your daughter is beautiful and so are you. Thank you for giving us strength and courage to be who we are. I love you so much!

[@aliciarebideaux343]

This really touched me. You are a gift BD Wong. I absolutely love your beautiful soul.

[@SirJerryPlease]

When you're on tv, you're an actor. When you're in your house on your webcam reminding people how much better life can and will be, you're a person. We remember that you're like us and that we can be just as wonderful and confident as you are. Thank you for everything :)

[@DeniseLaFranceCDNpainter]

Listen to this candid heart-to-heart talk by this genuinely beautiful, valuable & wise human being. He knows. If you give yourself the chance, Joy can & will be yours too. Seize that joyous existence. It belongs to you. You have the right to live a happy life. You are beautiful. Know it & Be it. Thank you B.D. Wong for your candor. Your beloved Son is beautiful & so are You.

[@ericteddycartman]

This video made me cry. I only wish I could have told someone how much I loved him 30 years ago...my life would have been so much happier. I could have had my moment in the forest feeling every day since, But that time has passed for me.

[@zakbrown1434]

Thank you so much, this is very encouraging.. One of the biggest hurts I ever felt is the moment when I really believed I could never get married or have a son. I felt like I died in that moment. That was the day I decided something needed to change, I needed to find help, and begin to love myself, I needed to love the person God created me to be.

[@london4120]

More people need to be full of love and joy. Three cheers to you, B.D.!!!

[@BowedOak1]

I am SO glad he is talking about the specifics like the doll playing etc. This makes it so much more real and I know there are kids who will relate.

[@ericteddycartman]

Even after watching this video for a third time, it still makes me cry towards the end. It really tugs at your heartstrings. You must be a very proud nurturing Father...brings a smile to my face...=]]] Good Night.

[@absbug]

Thank you for sharing your story and your beautiful sleeping child! Your pride in yourself flows through this video, and all your work. You are an inspiration!

[@blackxcherry22]

Wish you had more videos. You could talk about anything and I would listen. Your voice is just relaxing to me. I couldn't wait for your appearance when I watched SVU bc I loved hearing you speak. It's so calm, pleasant, and comforting. Please consider making more. =)

[@pj20081]

same

[@akadua1045]

+blackxcherry22 are u into ASMR? if not check it out.

[@blackxcherry22]

Aka Dua Actually this video caused me type in, "soft speaking for relaxation." and I've been an ASMR addict ever since. This man is the best without even trying though. lol

[@akadua1045]

blackxcherry22 lol wonderful. =) he should start making ASMR

[@taylormann3751]

I totally agree!! He does having a calming and soothing voice!!! He is my second favorite on SVU

[@panthercatmw]

You are awwwwwwsome BD Wong!

[@brentduanefoster]

You were always a favorite actor of mine. Now, I admire you even the more!!!

[@Virginiamarcelo]

He's so cute, such a warm person and wonderful actor. We love you here in Brazil!

[@333houseoflight]

I'm not gay but I can definitely relate to this. Most of us don't really accept ourselves. This moving towards the true self will be our generation's biggest progress

[@DebNKY]

I'm straight myself, but I've always been attracted to B.D. Wong. He's got an undeniable quality about him. His talent, his intelligence, his presence. He's got it all.

[@JeniLou77]

Ok. I'm about to cry. That was so beautiful!

[@michahalifax]

So much I would like to say but "Thank you" says it best from my special family to yours.

[@whynot0224]

Your video brought tears to my eyes. So heartfelt. Thank you.

[@SunayamaKitsune]

I wanted to say thank you for doing this, it had me crying but at the same time I was smiling. I found out the hard way that it can get better, but only if you fight for it yourself, and that can be so hard without anyone supporting you. I've been so close to giving up on life so many times, but somehow I made it through. I'm so glad you've found your piece of Heaven, I'm still looking but I know now never to give up.

[@ThePenguinbabe]

I LOVE his acting, love his character in L&O:SVU, love his voice, and I LOVE his message! But most of all, I love you, Wong! You truly are one of the most amazing actors the world has to offer! :)

[@drew2c659]

I adore him.

[@caciquepadilla]

lol i swear one of the kindest and sweetest men in the world.

[@EstelleduCiel]

This made me smile. A lot. And gave me hope.

[@julienicholson6086]

I adore this lovely man ❤️What a amazing actor and beautiful human being xxxx🙏

[@hulagurl93]

bd wong is awesome (love SVU!!) he is so sweet and overwhelmingly amazing.

[@mkl62]

10-24-2011. He's havin' fun at 51. Happy Birthday, B.D. You've come a long way since No Big Deal.

[@SeekerKC]

Wonderfully heartwarming, and pretty much perfect for what ails ya'; whatever it may be. And that smile! The entire video lifts my spirits!

[@loversarelunatics]

i really love this man. and i miss the little girl me who was so happy like the little boy him.

[@GjinG]

I wish you happiness forever so that your story and many other success stories can be passed on.... it gets better.

[@Antryg7]

Thanks BD. Great video. Appreciate your honesty and your passionate feeling here. Thank God some adult has the courage to call his younger self beautiful, and is willing to talk about all the work it took to get there.

[@Moonbutterfly7]

I love you BD, you are my favorite on SVU and you are an amazing actor.

[@MusclemechanicOrl]

Thank You for Speaking from the Heart... The Difference between Yours and the Others who recorded for this campaign is You Spoke from Experience, Peace and Love of Self... Others speak of what they think Others should do, You spoke of Your personal Experience and I Thank you for That... Many Blessings to you and your family.. With Much Admiration and Gratitude for Sharing Yourself.

[@hylerieshawntel]

Oh man. I loved this. It made me feel... Better. Like im not alone, like i dont have to hide. Like i can smile. This is awesome.

[@KatieDeShan]

BD Wong is one of the most gracious and talented people. I am so glad this was posted. It is so mesmerizing to see the world of the arts band together for such an important cause. You go BD!!!

[@popazz1]

A beautiful man with a beautiful soul! I kinda had a bit of a crush on him when I watched L&O:SUV.But having watched this,well,it's full on LOVE,lol.

[@suvariboy]

Thanks for sharing your story. If only everyone could be so honest and open, imagine how different the world would be.

[@UncleNathan]

You are a beautiful actor and an even more beautiful human being. Thank you for this wonderful video. There are many similarities between your life experience and my own in a previous generation. Let's hope that the current and future generations will be more and more understanding and accepting. Love you!

[@figocooldude]

Mr. Robot back story.

[@MirIsAwesome]

this is so precious i'm crying i love you

[@Rokim1020]

You are an inspiration and a model for the kind of person that deserves to be a parent, single/married, gay/straight, race/religion all irrelevant. Your son is a lucky, lucky boy in many ways. I plan on reading your book soon as I also had a child in the NICU, I believe about the same age as yours. Thumbs up for a simple yet heartfelt and important message. ~A Fan

[@belarm]

I'm actually at a loss for words. This is a terrific video. It, and you, are wonderfully inspirational. Thank you, good sir - you've bolstered my faith in Humanity. I'm very happy for you and your family.

[@tarzanmaiden]

I love you, B.D., and I'm so glad you're happy now, but I do so wish we didn't have to suffer so much first, and I know you suffered because the pain still comes through a bit. The struggle to be yourself and have other people let you be yourself is such a waste of energy and of life and some people never make it, which is the saddest thing of all. What a lovely message. Thank you. I hope more people hear it. :)

[@lani_definitely]

I'm crying bless your soul.

[@sharonfieldstone]

The end was so sweet. :')

[@vbnbr]

Simply amazing. Cheers from Brazil.

[@mdstudio]

Wow. Wonderful, talented actor. Beautiful man. Lucky kid!

[@epls0.0]

Really glad u could accomplish ur dream to become a parent. As a mom all I want is my kids to be happy just the way they are. I'm pretty sure ur parents are proud of u being able to live ur dream with ur family. Loved ur video, trully sincere!

[@handlin7333]

Hello 10 years into the future!

[@kiteflier98]

Thank you for sharing... I feel so honored to be able to see and hear these thoughts of yours. It gives me faith in humanity to know that there are such kind and compassionate people as yourself in this world. 💜

[@asian-fascination]

That was absolutely beautiful.

[@lucedelsole47]

Amazing! Loved the end - I teared up!

[@Thursdayization]

You are so wonderful for sharing this part of your life with us. I commend you for your honesty and courage. You have so much insight in your life more than I did. I also did played with dolls when I was young and I thought I was so wrong in doing so. At the time, I knew that there was something wrong with me. Now I knew that what was happening was an evolution to who I am today; and you are right, we need to embrace the beauty within us. Thank you for sharing that

[@LuxAeterna22878]

This is beautiful and sincere - what a wonderful way of describing what you went through! God bless you, sir.

[@film4lyfe92]

That was absolutely gorgeous.

[@allidock11]

This is incredibly touching. Thank you.

[@GayGuy812]

its the whispering....totes freaked me out. but i love him to bits.

[@kayleemallard3218]

gay guy I actually like the whispering! It’s peaceful to me!

[@rosienotrose]

Beautiful message.

[@freefree2222]

Thanks BD, it's a wonderful contribution!

[@melancholicview]

in my opinion this is the best "it gets better" video which i have seen so far. this was so uplifting and endearing and done so gracefully. thank you so much ! there is something which i need to tell my parents, which is not related to sexual identity, but still, something which is gonna change my life big times and I was not sure how to explain myself to my parents adequately. but your video definitely gave me some pointers on how to approach this - thank you so much !!!!

[@halhansen778]

Great video! I checked you out after your brilliant character in Mr Robot. Truly great - as all in the cast are... hats off to the writer creator and the whole team. I had the feeling you brought a bit of yourself to the character. I'm a straight NYC pro photographer... and your story is the story of so many around me in the creative fields. So glad you've embraced the real you... its the necessary step in the chase for the ever elusive happiness!

[@RavynSkye617]

Things needed to be a great man: Be as swift as the coursing river, with all the force of a great typhoon. With all the strength of a raging fire, mysterious as the dark side of the moon. Things not needed to be a great man: A sexual attraction to women. I

[@ctaylorgh91]

WHY AM I JUST NOW FINDING THIS?!

[@adrianoribeiro2062]

What a great speech and story, man. Lots of love from Brazil!

[@AlAySynDa4]

Thank you, for your honesty, and for being who you are. Thank you. And God bless you and yours.... Beautiful munchkin by the way.

[@Angie62096]

I love you wong!!! Your awsome! :3

[@BelindaMurrell]

BD, you are exceptional, but you know that. I love you.

[@alika415]

I love him so much❤️🙏🏽

[@jsapp7207]

Truly inspiring....thank you.

[@pup4588]

This is just beautiful! Thank you for the encouragement Mr. Wong!

[@pspauld]

Thanks so much for doing this, BD. I posted about this and the Courage Awards on my blog, Pam's House Blend.

[@Lostnotforgotten1]

I love it when gets pissed off. The old wives tale of the quiet ones to worry about is true, because most of the time he's quiet rather refined and then something pushes that button and he unhinges completely

[@jespeach]

BD: I just want to say thank you, so much, for putting this video up. As someone with a lot of people from all walks in my circle of family and friends, I am always gratified to find people such as yourself who can see all the things that happen in this world and maintain your positive outlook and love of life. Also, you are an amazing talent. I've been a fan since I first say you in "And The Band Played On"; what a heartbreaker.

[@Kanesill]

You're a beautiful person Mr. Wong. I'm glad you are who are you. (I love you on SVU!) :D

[@junehjisshiki9239]

(이어서) more. I won't give up to be happy only for the stupid reasons. I love this video... And I love Wong! I respect him so much and want to be like him.

[@DebNKY]

Hello, you darling young man. You stole my heart on SVU. I'm starting to understand it better now why I felt so easily attached to you. Thank you for being yourself.

[@XxPeruvianPrincessxX]

I love this!

[@kauaitoastie]

i wish i had a friend like him!

[@tohmford]

I know exactly what you're talking about. I'm from a small town and didn't hide who I was very well, which led to alot of bullying. That was decades ago, I'm shocked that this hasn't disappeared, that there's still the ignorance, hatred and fear in society.

[@sirald66]

I remember some 20 years ago, seeing BD in an eccentric movie where he played the maid. He was seen giggling and running naked around the grounds through the woods and he character looked both totally free and in bliss. It made me giggle that the character was so happy in their unbridled romp with the world.

[@tellmewhatsahappenin]

i loved you in pacific overtures and charlie brown- thank you for making this video!

[@reaceness]

Thanks for this Mr. Wong, I'm soo ofted saddened by the idea that I'll never be a father :(

[@TacoCat8891]

Shang, you're hot

[@kayleemallard3218]

MrCalifas88 haha Shang is hot!

[@hayleywilkinson9264]

GET BACK TO WORK

[@jeannenly9552]

you have sweet gentle soothing voice.... you must sing me the song of your people to sleep everynight

[@taylormann3751]

He does have a sweet gentle voice 🤤🤤

[@GreenRad2012]

Thank you! This is beauty-full.

[@MOKandRIFF]

i love you, BD.

[@cappas100]

This is a very powerful video and we need to share with as many young people as possible,, gays and non-gays.... It represents a powerful message and says much about our personal development in relation to the society. Thank you so MUCH for sharing such a personal experience, but universal, experience. God Bless you! Alberto O. Cappas, The Educational Pledge Partnership

[@mattfifer]

I like the surprise at the end! Thanks for this BD! :)

[@akg9991]

I love BD Wong.

[@5urg3x]

You're a kickass person and a kickass actor...Love SVU and really enjoyed your video.

[@blckshpcait]

I think this is one of the most captivating "itgetsbetter" videos I've seen, thank you for being you.

[@akadua1045]

i think this is beautiful and helpful, not just for lgbt kids but for anyone who feels misunderstood or unwelcome in the world. great job!

[@cimetiere]

You are a beautiful and amazing person.

[@juliamichas]

BD, before seeing this I loved you but.... it gets better!

[@Reece2therescue]

This is an amazing video right here. Everything you said is now locked in my heart. Very proud of you Father Mukada! :P

[@MAJICKJMARTINEZ]

VERY TOUCHING.. BD WONG is pretty much my Fave Character on SVU.. But then I Loved MULAN too haha But.. THIS Story from him PROVES No Matter WHO YOU ARE... YOUR PRAYERS DO GET ANSWERED.. He has a Beautiful Son

[@findingthatworld1]

i love you! big fan!!!