It's Time to Have "The Talk"

[@doingmybest222]

I'm dating someone in a wheelchair right now. And when I wind up telling others that they scratch their head like "how does that work??" But it's probably the most intimate relationship I've Ever had with Anyone and works out perfectly fine. You guys rock stay strong, keep inspiring and educating! 🙏💖

[@zakeebanks9757]

I think it’s an extremely rude question.......I’m sorry you have to endure that form of questions.

[@AshleyMadisonsRight]

How did you guys meet? Was your gf instantly attracted to you? Did she think you were handsome but the sexual attraction grow over time? How long did you guys wait to say you like each other to holding hands to kissing and etc.? Are you guys in a committed relationship? Do you have insecurities that she will leave you for an able bodied person? Are you the first person she ever dated that uses a wheelchair for mobility? Is she the first girl you dated since using a wheelchair? When did you guys meet each other's parents? Where was the first date? Do a story time line.... Edit: I don't wanna hear about your sex life. The relationship part would be a good story.

[@tobflipped]

lmao,,,,,yeah, what Camillia said! I think she has the questions covered? Good Job!

[@MrDeleon9999]

Great video.... Any way you can help others is a awesome!!

[@machinegunkyle948]

Have y’all ever used the intimate Ryder? My wife and I haven’t tried it yet. She just gets on top forwards and reverse. I’m a t5 paraplegic for 19 years.

[@paullaw6988]

Hi Ryder Crosby, how are you doing my friend? Ryder Crosby are you dating Carly in a wheelchair right now? But it’s a probably the most intimate relationship you’ve ever had with anyone and works out pretty fine. You guys rock stay strong, keep inspiring and educating. Best friend, from, PaulLaw.

[@actionmann2236]

I would make business cards with the web address for the video, for when people ask me about that kind of stuff lol

[@itsabondslife6724]

Does she always have to be on top?

[@esptm]

great idea - you're a beautiful couple. keep it PG but would be good to see how you act it out, I mean physically how it works: Carly on top? just a thought!

[@carlycahoon602]

Freelance MTL we will be happy to talk about everything, but there will be no acting out of our sex life.

[@reemclaughlin4260]

You two are adorable together. I'm going to be blunt since I'm old. I know that you can because I have 2 medical degrees, but what I want to know us if it's 'as enjoyable as it was before'. I really hope that's not offensive. It's not meant to be. My ex husband who's terminally ill is my patient. I'm his live in caretaker for the last decade, and he's lived in a powder chair for 10 years, but he cannot have intimacy. I'm happy for you two! 👍🏼💜✌🏻

[@loric4937]

No question just wanted to say you guys are a cute couple

[@JackFelixnAtlas]

A friend of mine is paralysed from the waste down but he's still able to get an erection and orgasm. I dunno how that's possible for him because he's in a wheelchair and his legs legit dont move however the docs did say there is a posibility for him to walk again so his chances are at 50/50. Yet he's still able to work his man bits. So my question is are you still able to at least feel any type of feeling when your having intercourse with your partner. Also really love your channel keep up the great content.

[@ShadeMiller]

if it's not 100% paralyzed and has some feeling then yeah it's possible

[@PrincessPinqi]

Have you ever heard of devotees/devoteeism and if so, what do you think about it? If you have or even have any experience with devotees, I hope not only with the “bad apples”. Also, are you able to get an erection by yourself or do you need any “utensils” for it to happen? What is the most common position you guys use? How did her friends and family react when she told them her boyfriend uses a wheelchair? How did you guys meet? How long have you been together?

[@artwatch-y9j]

You are a great couple

[@WhozOnfirst]

There’s another vlogger named Paralyzed Living who also severed his spinal cord (I think he said T-1) who did a video about trying to conceive a child with his wife. He said that he could not feel or get an erection or ejaculate. He said that paraplegics also suffer from low sperm count. He said he tried viagra, vibrators even electro shock (which seems barbaric) without much success or without getting autonomic dysreflexia. If you were to have children would you be facing these same challenges? Do you have the same issues? And do you know why a man’s sperm count drops when he become paralyzed? I have a friend who is a T-4 complete paraplegic (no movement or feeling from nipples down) and he has 2 kids (post injury), but find it too personal to ask why he’s able to conceive while others cannot. Thanks for educating us on issues too embarrassing to ask.

[@wheelz23]

ive been a t5 complete injury since i was 18 almost 22 yrs ago. Ive talked with Brian over the past couple yrs before from that other channel. Alot of it has to do with sperm motility etc. We're expecting a child this upcoming spring as well. It is possible after sci to concieve. IVF also makes it possible when there is real low sperm count, motility etc to help make it possible when someone cant naturally make it happen.

[@SuperLolitaxoxo]

Where are the answers to this questions?

[@wheelchairryder7278]

Agirl Fromchile coming soon.

[@paullaw6988]

@@wheelchairryder7278 Hi, how are you? Hope you get better. Lovely to go out on a date with the beautiful woman. Best wishes, from, Paul Law.

[@paullaw6988]

@@wheelchairryder7278 Hi Ryder Crosby, where are the answers to this questions? Kind regards, from, PaulLaw.

[@larryknickerbocker3282]

my nephew is paraplegic . he cannot get an erection . so please do not mislead or generalize .

[@wheelchairryder7278]

I always try to do my best not to make it seem generalized. Everything I do is based on my own experiences. I wish nothing but the best for your nephew!

[@warchil]

Do you need to use chemical stimulation? Viagra and the like