It's time to step into your villain era.

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@bettina5755 4 ай бұрын

She’s turning the emotion of being mad around, and uses it to teach us to cut bullshit. I love you girl YOU WON

@Zezovtgurl 4 ай бұрын

"You are forgetting people who don't even asked for forgiveness"

@xxoceansea 3 ай бұрын

today our teacher picked the seats who we had to sit with and I went out i and a boy who when he found out said he didn't want to sit with " one of the worst " so I got up and defended myself everyone laughed at me and I know that if I had kept quiet none of my " friends " would have done it. probably now everyone thinks I am crazy but I am proud of me and I don't care

@user-yh6lg8cs1q 3 ай бұрын

I’m happy that you stood up for yourself!

@judaline 3 ай бұрын

what did the teacher say?

@Justasurvivor170 2 ай бұрын

queeeeen 🥰🥰🥰

@xxoceansea Ай бұрын

@@judalinethe teacher didn't do anything she kept saying I had to stay calm when everyone kept teasing me and making jokes about me I went to the principal and guess what? she didn't do anything

@kozynslo 26 күн бұрын

@@xxoceansea omg these teachers are only so pathetic sometimes, why do they love bullies/rude kids so much, no matter how bad their actions get the teachers [wether they admit it or not] do like them more than the quite reserved ones.

@mar-gc2yl 4 ай бұрын

- stop letting people get away with doing things to you. - you have a right to defend yourself - you deserve empathy too, you can still be a nice person and still not let things get to you, it's just respecting yourself - not everyone deserves your unconditional empathy - stop making excuses for them, "they went through a traumatic childhood" or "they have a inner child", so? so do you but you don't use your trauma to hurt others do you? - as a Muslim care about what others feel but do not let them take advantage of you. be kind but wise. - you can't be the good guy for everyone, stop people pleasing. - you can forgive. but don't let things and ppl get to you - never share your traumatic experiences with anyone that you shouldnt trust - never let anyone gaslight you - leave at the first red flag, don't want for the explosion. - some people will want to keep you quiet bc of how powerful u are - become your authentic self and stop fearing judgement of people who are full of fear themselves - defending yourself will protect you from people wanting to control you in order to make themselves feel stronger

@AlexisBelon 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for listing it out this way. I needed to see it! Btw idk if you’re into nyc vlogs but if so, you might like mine! I’d be sooo grateful if you swung by and took a peek. 🙏 Stick around if you like

@suus8918 4 ай бұрын

tysm

@smw9319 4 ай бұрын

Ok but everyone’s temperament is different.

@Happy34761 4 ай бұрын

Perfect timing Alessia, thank you❤❤❤

@Persephonesmind 4 ай бұрын

♥️♥️♥️

@Shiaa.24 4 ай бұрын

Such perfect divine timing Today I felt I was too nice to my "friend" who was making "jokes" abt me I didn't let him do it, and he said "why are u overreacting" I said " I'm not you are disrespecting me so I told you that's not okay" I love you Alessia❤ Thank you so much for posting this, I really needed it!

@kashishkher7982 4 ай бұрын

Damn ! So proud of you 👏

@Persephonesmind 4 ай бұрын

I‘m proud of you for setting boundaries, you did the right thing. A lot of people conceal disrespect with „jokes“. I love you too ♥️

@minaviveni 4 ай бұрын

LOVE THISS!

@Factsbypluto 4 ай бұрын

I always thought that you'd be that intellectual, smart, powerful and destroying through your stare villain.

@serraispretty 4 ай бұрын

this came in the right time because a boy of my school disrespected me and when i defended myself everyone judged me for speaking up for myself . because i got the principal involved . but i realized that im not cheap to let that slide . thank you ❤

@soukabangtan3545 4 ай бұрын

It's crazy how she can get prettier and prettier everytime she posts a new youtube video ❤ (Perfect timing btw)

@Persephonesmind 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🤍🥹

@carmensvault 4 ай бұрын

you're so right about everyone having a free will because people who go through a lot do have a choice, and they choose to victimize themselves. they can go around & create more misery for others or OR they could speak up and help others.

@Irynnartss 4 ай бұрын

omg yes u’re sooo right

@SaranyaKuls 4 ай бұрын

Oh , holy spirit, after watching this video I got the courage to defend myself and that person like seriously stoped bulling me they literally said me sorry even for a mistake they did accidentally... Thank you your words like "they don't even ask for your mercy " hit me hard ... Thankyou so much godesses thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏

@saarraaa4 4 ай бұрын

as a therapist friend i needed this

@V.i.j.i 4 ай бұрын

Mother is villaining 😂❤

@noemipedraza533 4 ай бұрын

Considering how things are going right now, this video really helped me realize it’s okay to be hated.

@2higheye 4 ай бұрын

Your words have the highest frequency, I love you and your channel ❤️‍🩹

@Dysdlshad2023 4 ай бұрын

Ready for my bid sisters advise

@arfaasif1842 4 ай бұрын

As a former people pleaser, Alessia this is the video I needed this year !!! THANK YOU 😭💕

@sakshisakshi6503 4 ай бұрын

This is exactly what I was going through where a part of me just wanted to be empathetic towards other people..but I realized that people around you (who don't have best intentions) will keep hurting u if u dont punch them back hard in their face...Thank you so much for this Alessia❤

@darijamilanovic4407 4 ай бұрын

wake up babe mother dropped a new lesson🥰

@Persephonesmind 4 ай бұрын

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

@OMGkawaiiAngel_x 4 ай бұрын

This video came at such a right timing. I recently have cut ties with someone because of her abusive behavior. Multiple people were quick to be understanding to her and overstep, telling me what I and another friend should have done despite not knowing anything about the situation. I personally have gone to a point in my life that I will no longer be polite to people that aren't considerate of me, I am going to put people in their places very quickly upon finding out what happened. I am done being a people pleaser, people can feel hurt if they messed up, I don't want to stay silent about how I feel and what I've been through, even if my friend wants to hide, I will not hide away and also stand up for them just as much. I will show my anger, I will show everything I feel. I'm not forgiving to anyone that has enabled her, their only chance is to apologize after overstepping. This video was healing to watch. Thank you.

@liz_004 4 ай бұрын

Girl I'm ready.

@hafsasalman2489 4 ай бұрын

sometimes as a people pleaser, you need validation to know if you've been treated shitty enough to enter your villain arc. When it's important to stand up for yourself no matter what and cut bs.

@asmaakhaled3901 4 ай бұрын

The queen have blessed us 😌💗 Never opened a video faster

@Persephonesmind 4 ай бұрын

🥹🥹🥹♥️

@Principessafelu 4 ай бұрын

my dumbass was waiting for the OBVIOUSLY SILENCED RAT DEFENDER PARTTTTTTTTTT

@ipinkblinks 4 ай бұрын

I wanted this FOR REAL TODAY!!

@tasneemahmed2524 4 ай бұрын

You once mentioned in your video that you wanted to transform your pain into light. I would say, you're doing an incredible job at that❤️

@Pixie.777 4 ай бұрын

"you want to start a fight? I will bring you a war" "...And if they do, it wasn't hard enough " YOU GOT THE DEVIL, IN YOUR EYES 💅⭐💌🧿🧚🏻‍♀️😈

@fo0dbang 4 ай бұрын

Mother is mothering and teaching us valuable lessons

@Jnoisme 4 ай бұрын

MOTHER I NEEDED THIS SO MUCH. I'm still the therapist friend and actually i have a friend who only talks w me about her issues and no matter how many times i give good advices she never listens and just go "you don't understand, it's really really hard for me & yk.." and thats where i realized that she never tries to change or fix her issues, she just needs a shoulder to cry on.

@jupitermars- 4 ай бұрын

Mother is mothering again 😊 ❤

@sanchi7410 4 ай бұрын

I resonated so fucking much with that therapist friend i am so grateful to myself that I don't entertain any bullshit no more

@Marian97 4 ай бұрын

I realized the importance of boundaries and not being too forgiving bc people use you and take you for granted. This is much needed insight, thank you so much ❤

@Ameliax0 4 ай бұрын

Needed to hear that queen 👑 thank you🤍

@simplygalaxy9463 4 ай бұрын

Please do more videos like this I love you and your videos so much you’re so intelligent and wise and always give helpful advice ❤❤

@dianastalkshow Күн бұрын

girl I’m in a similar situation that u described in the beginning- tysm for speaking on this and being so brave. thank u thank u. I feel so understood and empowered after watching this.

@b1bl10ph1l3 4 ай бұрын

Alessia is the dream mother, sister, bestfriend, girl, leader, etc. Literally an angel godsent to guide us all. She deserves the world💗

@hero._.01285 24 күн бұрын

The outro- 😭👌 Thank you for this video 🥺🙏❤️ forever grateful for your videos ❤❤

@millenehadassa8171 3 ай бұрын

I Needed to hear that. The true is the people don't deserve our empathy and compassion, or even our Kindness, because they will treat you the worse way Withtout mercy, more you are kind they will make you a fool. So become the villain too, they will to respect you and think better about before talking to you

@moondog230 4 ай бұрын

i really needed to learn how to set boundaries with toxic people i have to see everday but this helped alot tysm

@tokyodiva 4 ай бұрын

Yeah but then I try to assert my boundaries they act like they don’t know what I’m talking about and I’m “problematic”

@venuseditz8929 4 ай бұрын

Alessia, thank you so much,i literally have no words how much of an angel and a nice person you are that these words are such a big understatement

@YslIady 4 ай бұрын

“You’re not responsible for healing everyone in your life” i almost cried hearing this, I’ve always been this person, trying to make everyone feel good when they never cared enough to ask me how I am doing, sometimes even joke around saying that I don’t have emotions. Thank you alessia🤍

@Persephonesmind 4 ай бұрын

„Always the protector, never the protected one.“ I feel that. It’s time to fill your own cup, first. 🤍

@enhaa0920 4 ай бұрын

omg, I am stepping into my dark feminine era and this video aligns w that thank you so much alessia for this video, iloveyou🥺♥

@f.fhr0 4 ай бұрын

Your the sweetest AND YOUR ROOM IS THE CUTEST 😭❤️

@Growingandglowing08 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for reminding my worth ❤️🌟 love you!

@Kirayo212 4 ай бұрын

You’re so mesmerising ✨

@siren__seren 4 ай бұрын

I KNEW IT, IT IS TIME ‼️TYSM MOTHER

@vanessaprincesssa 4 ай бұрын

Words of wisdom as always by Alessia about the healthy Ego and Shadow self protecting you from enemies and people with bad intentions. Thank you always! ❤

@carmencatalina9086 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video. Definitely putting me first over everyone and love and accept and take people who they are and not what I think. ❤

@israayahia6636 4 ай бұрын

Girl 😔💖ur channel is such a relief I hope god give u all the luck and strength u need

@bustways4618 3 ай бұрын

You make me feel better with the fact that I don't have to possess this extremely guilty to just defend myself or just live my life like the way I want her to be. Thank you. ♥️

@nuria4363 27 күн бұрын

❤❤❤thank yu for your energy and your words❤❤❤

@rottensalad23 3 ай бұрын

THANK YOU SO MUCH GIRLIE.. IVE BEEN THROUGH LOTS FROM MY PAST TOXIC RELATIONSHIP.

@_jilly_maus_ 4 ай бұрын

Dankeschön Alessia ❤

@jades_97 4 ай бұрын

As always you provide the best advice at the best time and we're all grateful for it

@Jessica-kn5re 4 ай бұрын

Alessia,I'm in tears. Even I didn't know how much I needed this. Thankyou so much. I love you.🫂🫀

@venicebitch1431 4 ай бұрын

as always publishing a new masterpiece with the most perfect timing, thank you Alessia💘💘💘

@yeki. 4 ай бұрын

Alessia, i feel like i have overdone my villain era. now i feel mean, and a lot of people call me mean. how do i defend and put myself first without being mean?

@novinyousef1653 4 ай бұрын

and what if a pick me girl doesn't bully me but calls me names like "hi pick me" and i'm not really a pick me i don't even talk to boys or tryna be cute...and i have no friends bc my friends are backstabber and believes a jealous girl's lies because that girl made bad rumors about me..i'm always alone and i get emotional, physical and mental abuse..and still i'm quiet..

@sejal02 4 ай бұрын

Man years I felt tht I know my besty for about 9 years and she chose her bf over me 💀 I brought gifts last year for her birthday on 2nd December been telling her to pick her gifts up she kept inventing excuses and they were expensive 😞 only on her vacation abroad she would sent me pics and then whenever she need me I was supporting her but whenever I would tell her something she would act as if she read only my last message or did not see the messages like before she used to have time for .. I told her she does not spent much time with me and only her bf she was like “ OFC THTS MY BF, you need to understand” 😭 so I guess people can change after years of gaining your trust too 😖

@_gift_editz 3 ай бұрын

It time to step up and stop letting people get away with hurting you Thanks alessia this was really helpful I needed it at this point of my life

@user-ub4yo8xm9g 4 ай бұрын

This came in the right time I am in this phase and this video is just a sign , I Don't know what to say but thnkx

@charlie_0757 4 ай бұрын

Uff it’s always at the right timings!!!! Love youuu❤

@hellohawra 2 ай бұрын

I ended a connection today that would see me as a therapist and trashcan for their problems. Don’t be afraid to disappoint others to value yourself they won’t meet your standards then they’ll leave

@raufff141 4 ай бұрын

Bro I needed this .

@its_your_denny78 3 ай бұрын

One word : I love her 💗💗

@PersianCat_Mimi 4 ай бұрын

You are a real advisor and a real person who shares wisdom from what they have been through 😊❤ and every word you say reminds me of a situation that I’ve been though and next time I will take an action

@Persephonesmind 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much ♥️

@TosyaChan 4 ай бұрын

You have a very pleasant singing voice, sounds like a lullaby

@nzbtvska 4 ай бұрын

I didn’t know you have a borderline personality disorder. Thank you for sharing it, now I know that despite what people say about it, I can become someone who is not a monster too! Thank you so much ❤️

@Persephonesmind 4 ай бұрын

Of course my dear. You write your story, no one else. 🤍

@John56163 4 ай бұрын

@@nzbtvska I must be engaging with youngers for a mature comment to not be understood and I don’t mind blocking because I don’t intend to watch her posts again over what happened to a Good friend. As such I’m not bothered of yours or further comments also, because all followers make up a followING. And discard is not of value to loyal followers anyway. Wish all a beautiful day✨.

@manelbouaziz2478 4 ай бұрын

Hello, 12 days after, you literally changed my life, i listened to this video 3 times

@Faded_Red_Lotus 4 ай бұрын

Watching this at midnight to absorb every single drop of it 🧡

@PaolaRodriguez-sd3gx 4 ай бұрын

I needed, thank you, love u 💕

@laibamujahidkhan2768 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for this video ❤You have no idea how much I need this at this time✨

@isthiseijie 4 ай бұрын

LYSM GURL UR TIMING IS CRAZY!!!

@JujuKaboom 4 ай бұрын

GIRLLL! YOU NAILED IT!!!🥰🥰

@LovelyRainforestJungle-pc2bs Ай бұрын

Sending Light from a Light Worker to a Light Worker ✨

@nishat_zaman Ай бұрын

Some new guy my workplace spoke to me in a disrespectful way in front of these 2 other guys and I stood up for myself. Because I know my value as a woman & I don't deserve to be spoken to like that. As a person who has been disrespected by people in the past, and just kept silent I felt so proud of myself 💖💖💖💖

@Factsbypluto 4 ай бұрын

I was having a feeling that you're up to something today and here you are!

@FajarQaiser-xs5ho 25 күн бұрын

Tysmmmm you're more a mother ❤❤

@Hadjer1916 4 ай бұрын

You're great 💗 thank youyyy 💕

@persephrotisv.2655 4 ай бұрын

Wow, so disgusting of those “friends” to use borderline or mental illness as gaslighting! Sorry you went through that and hope they’re outta your life now. Thank you for sharing Alessia 💖

@kenza9040 4 ай бұрын

😂😂I love how each time your father's sentences are on point ❤❤ I love your content and the quality of it ❤️ I wish you all good

@alejandroramos4363 4 ай бұрын

i was thinking all about this the whole week and then you suddenly post a video about it. wow!

@NostalgiaStarfish 4 ай бұрын

Let’s go queen. Keep posting you’re my saviour.

@wtf.ilayda 4 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤

@lavexcoms 3 ай бұрын

I really find your channel helpful. Now I am really thinking that like "Why should I care about what people think about me? They are clearly using their prescipus energy to say something to me, if they didn't care, they wouldn't even make an effort to say something about me."

@the1nonlyIvo 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for the adivce it gave me the confidence to stand up for myself

@missgaming4723 4 ай бұрын

Heyyy! Tysm!!! I needed this video!! Thank you so much sweetheart!! ❤❤

@user-boss1589 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Allesia ❤❤ you helped me so much to changed for better and start actully speaking up for myslef❤

@helomari518 4 ай бұрын

You are my biggest inspiration, alessia ♡

@r4i_19 4 ай бұрын

thank youu, i needed that

@ThuyTrang-hv8jl 4 ай бұрын

I'm so in love and grateful for the content you are making. And I keep watching all your old videos. Looking toward for more sharing from you. Wish luck for you, sister.