Its Not That I Don't Care, I’ve Just Had Enough

[@InfiniteGoddess971]

Acceptance. It is what it is. We learn. We heal. We are all ok. Thank u for being raw n honest.

[@KhadrianYT]

yes for sure !

[@MrField2005]

That’s called guarding your heart man, you don’t need to smile, just forgive by faith and stay meek and gentle, you don’t need to feel it, you can still hate the person, but forgive by faith and pray for them and something magical happens to your heart.

[@IamRealZote]

It's not about being the good guy. It's about being the guy you want to be. If they try to break you but you stand strong, that's where you shine and where you set yourself apart from the rest. It's the only way to go because it's the only way you will be good enough for whoever will appear in your life that has the same values as you. Love yourself brother, Never let them change you!

[@KhadrianYT]

Thank you man !

[@chilpeeps]

That's really stupid I used be like that and suffer then I changed and now I accept people for what they are .

[@rubyruby7573]

​@@chilpeeps Yeah But They Didn't Accept You For Who You Were And Now Your Just Putting On Airs Because Sadly You Will Always Be Who You Are All The "boundaries" In The World Can't Mask Who You Are Inside It'll Show And When It Does You Will Be Alone Because People Are Who They Are People Can't Change Even If They Want To That's Why Israel Feels Compelled To Erase Palestinians Because Palestinians Will Always Be Palestinians No Matter Where They Are Living That's Why Even Though I Was Born American I Was Socialized Palestinian Because That's Who I Identify With And That Says A LOT About Who I Am Inside Just Because I Wear American Skin Doesn't Make Me American

[@howtohuman99]

Quote from a friend of mine: "Just because I'm not your friend anymore, doesn't mean you're my enemy. I still want you to eat, just not at my table." It profoundly changed the way I view rejecting people, or getting rejected myself.

[@Jeeanettees]

Love how this video showed up literally right after I cut someone out of my life. Like you, I had enough, tired of being the good guy... I do believe it is for the better though. We are just making room for our people to come in. Good things are on their way 💫 God bless you

[@rubyruby7573]

"your people" Are Being Deported By Trump So Get Used To Being Alone Because In These United States "community" Is Taboo

[@AdeelKhan-uu2pv]

Amen❤

[@ScheenNierSteen]

Straight up. I aint gonna be mad anymore at anyone for trying to get under my skin, I wont change for anyones inauthenticity. Protect your heart

[@chronicmids6642]

Really felt this, bro. It's so hard because you really still care about them but we all heard the saying "if you love them, let them go."

[@KhadrianYT]

REAL !

[@shelciabrito]

I feel the exact same way and it’s crazy that this video showed up on my homepage when I’ve been struggling to put this feeling into words. Some past experiences force you to build these walls to protect yourself and, while they have helped me not get hurt during toxic situations, I feel like they have also been holding me back from experiencing real, authentic emotions/feelings and trusting people. You start expecting nothing from them and eventually you become numb to unexpected situations and emotions, maybe because you kinda “saw that coming” or it’s just how it is. In the long run this defense mechanism is harming us, even if we don't realize it

[@cutredd5701]

i feel you bro, but i must say the type of people who hurt you are wrong. But everyone isn't like that and you should keep your heart open to other people who will love and respect you. get the space you need from people and then get back into it. but be very selective of who you give that love too. AND BE VOCAL about your trust. Vocally express to people that you build relationships with in the very beginning. and anyone that really cares about you won't cross those boundaries. that is what has helped me alot in my friendships and intimate relationships.

[@KhadrianYT]

Thanks my friend !

[@FART-REPELLENT]

@@KhadrianYTI am a 50 year old man. I was born into some very bad circumstances including a disability, even though I can just about walk, but there are other aspects of my disability that have adversely affected my mental development as well as prospects as an adult; plus I am not good-looking, I don’t have sex-appeal, I’m not charming either, and I’m only 5’3” tall, these traits make me below average; it is only as a result of being undesirable that I have learned the true nature of people; if I was quite desirable I would have been oblivious and ignorant of the shallow nature of people. I ceased being a sociable and a people person at age 33. My advice would be that one should make their favourite creative hobbies their Number 1 love in life, if you don’t have a creative hobby that you’re passionate about then look up online for something that might interest you, invest in your favourite creative hobby above relationships, human relationships should be secondary in terms of importance, in fact relegated to position number 3 in terms of importance, and that includes sexual relationships. I would advise men to avoid forming normal sexual relationships, instead when you get the itch, just hire a prostitute; this way you will avoid all the crap that comes with having a girlfriend or a wife, plus you get to hold on to your freedom which is priceless.

[@natividadramirez4696]

💯I’m never dealing with people with 0 emotional intelligence I hate that they think they can have double standard 🤦‍♀️

[@ironbarbz]

One of the first times in my life I’ve truly experienced these feelings that you’ve mentioned. My breakup with my ex and some stupid decisions afterwards still affect my day to day life and it hurts so much seeing my former friends that hate me now and who I found out never liked me in the first place. I’ve been trying so hard to meet new people but I feel broken and can’t seem to talk to anyone new. I feel like my batteries have been drained and I’m just floating now

[@KhadrianYT]

just take your time and heal

[@DivergentWhiz]

Hit the nail on the head for my situation. It's so crazy when you've known someone for so long but they can break your heart in 1 text. Keep your head up high my brotha and take care of your mental first better days will come 🙏🏿

[@KhadrianYT]

🙏🏾

[@Theodoredarling]

It happened to me enough to the point where I can only trust my closest family and a couple friends. Learning to live with yourself is powerful

[@Godspit6066]

Same here,I cut everybody out to keep to myself, but what I don't understand is why the more u keep to urself the more ppl seek u out ?the more u wanna be left alone, the more they don't wanna leave u alone.

[@rubyruby7573]

That's Because We Were Born Into This Thing Called "society" That Picks And Chooses Who Will Be A Part of It And Whenever Anyone Tries To Bring Up The Discussion About Those Who Are Not A Part of Society You Yourself Get Shut Out of Society There Has Never Been Anything Inclusive About You Americans You Are All Responsible For The Collapse of This Once Great Republic Because You Refuse To Take The Initiative And Do The Right Thing By Actually Giving The Lonely A Platform No This Is Only The Beginning of How Neighbors Start Killing Each Other Trump Can't Make America Great Again Because It's Gone Too Far Every Attempt To Rebuild This Nation Will Only Infringe On The Rights of Anyone Whose Lost Everything A House Divided Against Itself Can Never Stand And That's What America Has Become

[@shinchanpanhalkar9805]

the word called adaptability of a person with respect to different situations but at the end don`t forget your unique personality if you don`t know it then you know what to do keep it up brother

[@KhadrianYT]

yes this is real right here !

[@craigmerkey8518]

🔥 Being around people primarily family with low self awareness is exhausting!

[@unkn0wn_n0rah]

That’s crazy cus that’s literally how I feel about what’s happened with me. I’m coming to realize in order to move on it’s best to love em and let them go. If they decide they believe my words over someone who doesn’t even really know me anymore. That’s on their conscious and not my own. They have to deal with that with the lord. Just as Jesus said in John 15:18 “ if the world hates you, know the world hated me first” and I live by that now.

[@carolynklenk8467]

Sweetie just move forward in Gods light!! You certainly have a great understanding of life!! Stay positive and stay focused on your goals!! ❤ Sending blessings!! Mamma Carolyn

[@FART-REPELLENT]

If you were more intelligent than a fart you would know that when someone shares their problems with you, responding with advice about God is the least helpful, as it is not practical advice. I have been in existence for 50 years, so far I haven’t even met one intelligent Christian or Moslim.

[@instrrxx]

Earned a sub bruv. I've been feeling exactly like this for a while now and it helps to see someone talk about it.

[@yiin4]

I’m in the current state of mind.. It comes to the point where you’re numb and just say fuck it.

[@kerrylynnparsons7879]

For sure!!! Healthier relationships in my life moving forward!!! 🥰🎶❤️❤️❤️🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦

[@KhadrianYT]

yes !

[@teenageangst666]

Most common answers: - Find God - Talk to a girl - Go to therapy Yeah boss. Its not gonna work.

[@Dennis_SpeakOnIt]

Bruh, the EXACT same place I’m at. I mean I don’t want to be like this but it’s a cycle I’m tired of. So I truly understand you.

[@artisticenigma6960]

Bro I been feeling like this for awhile. My same exact sentiments on friendships and relationships

[@finnishamerican]

man ive been there before i believe in you, keep persevering, people can be awful but they can be so beautiful and i hope one day the people around you can be as beautiful of a person as you are

[@KhadrianYT]

thanks i appreciate that 🖤

[@kerrylynnparsons7879]

You are right!!! ❤

[@AljermainePowell-vh6cm]

I can tell you probably got betrayed by someone you loved, what I’ll say from this bro never allow yourself to get attached to anyone, nothing last forever. If you have god first and make him your first love it’s hard to get hurt by people because you’ve grown a healthier understanding of just understanding people and life in general

[@heliosthefirst1397]

Real! It's painful mehn we can really on rely on God to ne perfect ❤

[@CT-0392]

this hitting in particular considering me and a group of friends have had to cut someone off who wasn't who they said they were and was reprehensible. it's hard to care about someone who's betrayed the trust of so many people, for me personally it's just not gonna happen man. but I needed to hear this, keep it up

[@ArieDragomir]

Thank you so much for sharing these things with everyone it's very brave of you and its nice to hear someone who feels the same way

[@margaretjohnson6259]

you can give a person a second chance, but never a third one.

[@jeremytreadway7552]

I know exactly how you feel brother 100%

[@LilSleepAllDay]

I agree I cant do it anymore either

[@KhadrianYT]

don’t give up

[@LilSleepAllDay]

@@KhadrianYT i love you brothee

[@danielle5684]

I sincerely hope Christ is your anchor because i have been through the sameee thing & still & He revealed why ❤ now my eyes are razor focused on his will for my life. I pray you find that peace because it’ll set you free fr 😊

[@thegospelchannel1018]

While I don’t agree with putting oneself first, I definitely agree that we shouldn’t predominantly focus more on the opinions of others. This was a well thought out post, and I appreciate your honesty!

[@Gem.In.IProductions]

I'm appreciative that you were open and expressive about your feelings, especially since so many of us men withhold our feelings to uphold the facade of manliness and toughness. Vulnerability is sometimes only perceived as something negative, but there is true strength in vulnerability if it is applied in a healthy manner. I felt strength, and also loneliness, in your words. Accept and Acknowledge what is without allowing yourself to become numb to the world, for you are the world you experience. Much love and peace 🙏🏽✊🏽🌈

[@thedelicatehand]

This is what I've been trying to say this whole time but no one listens thank you for this vid

[@caramiajen8]

Nothing has disappointed me as much in life as my own expectations of other people ..

[@ShawnMaroney-l2x]

I know the feeling and it hurts cause all you want is love it's the hard reality of being a man or good guy

[@PLUTOWRLDZ]

This is where I’m going through right now I feel like it’s getting worse because I haven’t had any good days lately everyday it seems like something is happening and it’s becoming very overwhelming for me to the point I don’t really wanna talk sometimes I just wanna stay quiet I just want to be left alone for an minute at least

[@Bug_107]

i just found your vid i have been going through a tough time with my girl breaking up with me I actually relate to your video. keep it up man you'll blow up soon

[@RealwithGod510]

U got this brother!

[@BrianWright-u7i]

Always put God first brother, not yourself. He cares for you more than you care for yourself🙏🏾❤️

[@mannatshyam3847]

❤ you don't need anyone to be happy.

[@cinnabun715]

Wow you came up in my feed today after I just told a friend - I’m not mad, I’m just done ✅

[@swaggcat]

I'm so sorry dear

[@Jeffthekillerawsomef]

I hope your doing well Adrian 🙏😊

[@AljermainePowell-vh6cm]

And put all that love and focus back into yourself bro pure all that love into yourself you’ll eventually attract the ones that’s meant for you it’s inevitable

[@wellbodisalone]

We all heal and learn.

[@gameknight_789]

thank u man.

[@PoweredbyOg]

It'd nice seeing alot of us Young guys creating channels to talk about our Experiences with God,am kick starting mine January 2025....Its a journey we all have to embrace.

[@sahailmohebi1467]

word bro.

[@reloss]

God bless you man, ik its hard but its all His plan. Just have faith and turn to Christ

[@JoshuaJohnson-gv3ck]

People may let you down, but...forgiveness is key, and we’re here for you, and God is there for you too

[@Everyone_is_enough]

I promise you, don't develope trust issues, they ruined my life and you won't notice until it's too late, there are ways to deal with what your going through but just don't get any trust issues dude, PLEASE.

[@Luke6verse44]

Other than saying we have to find likened people, we also have to realize that they are human too. Its good to vent, but they got to see that this is what they really do to people bro.

[@EricS-l3e]

🙏

[@justinjones5616]

This video hit me too hard...

[@kingprimewizzy]

same here.

[@Orangino4u]

I do wish you a lovely Christmas time.

[@KhadrianYT]

you also!

[@Stoicambition1]

Facts bro facts

[@gela7440]

I fw this video heavy, it’s not that I don’t care about you it’s just that I love myself too much to let this continue

[@Dmatt727]

🔥🔥🔥

[@khauhelomathetsa4419]

this is so real bro

[@TheMonstration]

lovely

[@perfectstar-mb]

I love making videos, but the constant pressure to keep up with trends and algorithms is really stressful. It’s hard to stay authentic!

[@KhadrianYT]

yes, just keep it up !

[@ShowTime_Star]

What’s the song you used?

[@KhadrianYT]

it’s a instrumental to a song i made

[@ShowTime_Star]

@@KhadrianYT it’s fire you should post it frl I would use it in a video I make

[@KhadrianYT]

@@ShowTime_Star bet

[@lawtonsfinest8622]

Being a good guy means not only to others but 2 urself also, it goes both ways. U can't be a good guy to others without being urself. It's ethier fuck everybody or fuck urself. Being nice don't mean u a bitch it just mean u not mean, angry, spiteful, unfaithful, hateful, covet as a person. Being nice iz one side to u but it doesn't define u as a person. But u also have that dog ñ u to fuck everybody off. I've gotten used 2 being fuck over in life so much so that I didn't know who meant good & who meant harm so my phobia was somebody being nice 2 me cause I was taken advantage of in everyway cause of that. So literally ran away from folks cause I didn't wanted to be taken advantage of 😢. That exposure 2 that was one of the reasons why inversely ruined the chance friendships. I'm still finding today people had love 4 me but I was trapped in the matrix & the sunken place 😔😮‍💨😌. So I didn't want to be fucked with or get fucked. I believed everybody was out 2 get me. I was lonely until last year. It ramshackled my system. I just had 2 share that with u 💯

[@KhadrianYT]

I’m glad you shared !

[@kuromi5134]

please i beg u to make more videos like this

[@KhadrianYT]

i make these type of vids on my second channel @khadrianbts

[@jaylinjenkinsyt]

MY BOY !

[@KhadrianYT]

Yoo bro 🖤 you a real inspiration man

[@shaboom442]

im done caring im done acting tough so much stuff happen in my life it just killed me i don't feel much of anything no more but anger and sadness and nobody care either my own family talk to me like they don't know it makes me mad, then i can't trust my mom or dad with anything no more because they're the reason I'm like this, i don't got friends I'm in a new school i don't know nobody can't show or express my feelings then my mom talking to me like she been going through so much but i been throwing this since i 6 or 7 it might not but they killed me i can't even be a kid no more. I'm in the streets like one of these members. I have bad grades, and then the only thing that's been my therapy is football, and the season is almost over. I don't know if I can take it anymore.

[@KhadrianYT]

thanks for sharing keep your head up, life is going to bring those obstacles to only mold you. Try and find God and he will guide you through the tuff times, God got me out of a lot of things i thought i couldn’t handle.

[@JoshuaJohnson-gv3ck]

You ok?

[@slushe909]

Real

[@juviachu5725]

i broke my ex trust and i didn’t mean to do it, and i want him back but im not sure if he wants me back in his life. I do like him even now it’s been a month and he is like you in a way. i’m sure that he’s tired of getting hurt and i hurt him in a way i didn’t mean to. but i do want him back and i apologize constantly.

[@katecunningham3081]

Be you.itscgiidcto put yourself first it's good to put all you've got first sometimes it's good to be selfish it's called stating alive . If they don't like it let them go. Trust is built up and demolished like a wrecking ball and you can't like you say expect it to be the same. Stay you boundaries be the good guy and break away it's called asserting boundaries and it's called self care and if they dont like it tough be more viking and grrrr. Keep on going. Keep doing what your doing. Create boundaries because you care about you and your life. Stay you. Well done.

[@KhadrianYT]

thank you.

[@robinpoot3312]

Fr

[@mandalovescatspandas1781]

I hope youre doing much better now and holding your peace :) Jesus loved us first and God gave us over to Jesus. Hold onto that and what Christ did for us during your best times and worst moments 😊🙏💕

[@lynnr5301]

💖

[@Pattyboi4]

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