Jacob Aliet on the Challenges of being a step father - The Wicked bytes

Author Jacob Aliet delves into the murky waters of co parenting and the dangers of raising children in mixed parenting.
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[@teejayangel6638]

No Migwi that's not what Jacob said. I like Jacob's points, he should start a project of educating men. He's straight to the point and hits the nail on the head.

[@VictorrThinker]

Thank you Jacob for being STOIC!! That lady is too EMOTIONAL!

[@majixwahenga9874]

That woman is not just ugly from outside....she has a black heart

[@nevilledwayne]

U saw it? She doesn't let Dr Finnish his explanations, yet she calls herself a cslr

[@adnamg11]

Kingoris guest said "keep off your partners phone..." tell that to the man who went through his wifes phone and saw she was planning to kill him. Checking your partners phone tells alot abt where their thoughts are. I had this girl, she had 7 guys all across nrb, i sadly came to realize after nimepata STD ndo nkacheck phone only to see 7 guys. Long story short, check their phones

[@thetoksicbattleground_seiga]

"Men should be given children to raise and not go and burden those children on another woman to raise...they should raise their own children, si ni mtoto wako? Raise!" But when men have an issue with single mothers...the sheer irony

[@voskilltheentertainer2564]

😅😅 njeri is emotionally arguing..jacob explains his points very well

[@jokazi2672]

KINGORI alipatana na huyu mmama wapi? just asking because she is too emotional and personal

[@benedictmwangi-]

This guy is cool. King'ori handled this well. The woman is too emotional for any argument.

[@fredondima8170]

emotions za ibilisi😶‍🌫️👹

[@shemnyambega1898]

You meet when each has meno 32 nothing should you worry but remember to find a wife you find a good thing kwa hivyo kumanisha mwana muke ni kitu mzuri

[@luci8821]

The last thing women should do is take advice from this woman

[@nevilledwayne]

I like the way Dr kingori is a WARRIOR rep. You stuck to the point in your question,she was diverting it, I also saw it. Women need to stop calling themselves single mothers while the kids have fathers,unless they died. Marrying a woman with kids is never ambetter option unless she is a widow or she leaves her kid with the grandmother when the man says he only need her and not the kid .(Incase she goes back to her man ,she leaves your kid with you,she goes and take her neglected kid from grandy and join her neglected ex..

[@nevilledwayne]

@Chukey my dear it's the reality even in animal kingdom they don't take another male's kid kindly.. it's not a matter of being nice to please the mother then one day the husband become disappointed..it's better that way.. the kid may come but never getting attached to the step dad,let her tell the kid this ain't your dad and expect nothing from him and the man also be told the same that this ain't your kid so don't get attached,just help where needed ..attachment is what Dr says brings ownership and the time the mother detach the kid from the step dad that's where the man dies of frustrations.. am sorry for your step dad but you have no right to be angry at him,u shld be angry at your mom and real dad (Incase he is alive) the new dad ain't your dad..what if your mom takes you to him then they break up some years later,and she gets married again to another person,will you be happy to move from your step dad to another step dad..I guess no.. so now u saw reason why

[@ichooseviolence2532]

@Chukey single mothers should just be alone and they should stop looking for us men

[@ichooseviolence2532]

@Chukey haha, you are just trying to twist the narrative. Men don't go looking for single moms that's why we say game haiwezi anza 1-0. Just because you have had a rough path doesn't make you more desirable as a woman (if you have this mentality, pole😅😅). It's the single mothers who makes themselves veeery available in the dating market as they are looking for a father figure for their children (you can't deny this statement 'looking for a father figure' coz it's you women who use it alot😂). If you see a man following a single mom it's because anapewa mautamu, pesa or he's a single dad too looking to settle. Men avoid single moms because they feel they don't have 100% ownership to the woman and child.

[@ichooseviolence2532]

@Chukey haha, you are talking about the guy who made a TikTok video😂😂??? You mean you are that gullible enough to believe such🤣🤣🤣... Kwanza a person who was just doing a TikTok video to get likes, followers and comments😂😂. Wueehh, kwani ladies bado hamjui we can easily capitalize on your greed and gullibility because we already know on topics we can touch about women and you'll make us famous in an instant 🤣🤣

[@phonefulani7858]

Please shut up kama hujui what you're talking about.

[@senseitionalentertainment9476]

Don't and I will repeat don't mess with a single woman who got a kid/kids they get in love for help and you will always be breaking your heart to mend a heart that you never broke and still she will never give you the love she got for the kids dad's no matter what happened between them you will be third it's always gonna be the kid the baby daddy then you stay up kings talking from experience

[@kimkeymoney478]

You dont even come third...after their mother the dad her siblings and then you

[@Solve4_x]

Courts have assumed that kids should remain with the mother but we recently saw two kids who refused to go with the mother after the court granted her custody of the kids. Such things need to change.

[@sir-me1716]

Nobody should own anyone. Dowry should also be abolished, it gives men ownership over women. Be open minded that whatever has a beginning has an end. Love & relationships can end & that should not be your end.

[@nevilledwayne]

Thank you sir, nobody should own anyone.. dowry part is done to own kids in my culture,in an event of death of any of the parent.

[@uhururawlings3670]

Why do we always make everything about women, i mean everyone is at their back supporting them, dont you think that the reason for failure for projects like the affirmative action because men are trying to level up.

[@mutukuboniface3463]

An appendage of masculinity Saturday 😀😀

[@jakabuda]

Selective listening 💔

[@Leela_L]

One thing i learnt is people's are marrying their toxicity and narcissistic traumas. People are dating based on what they lacked growing up based on their upbringing, their mothers or fathers. Thats why i always tell people to go for couples therapy the minute you start dating as a couple. And women need to start having children in marriages, men are having it easy these days because they know women are giving up their wombs and bodies for anyone who'll tell them "i love you and have kids for me". And its time these men should be made single fathers. If he doesnt want to pay child support, let him take his kids

[@footballantic2207]

Do men still pay dowry for women with children

[@emmanuelmaina6209]

This is a very good question 🙂

[@strongmummy580]

What was dowry for?? I hop children are blessings to both , it's was not a God's plan to hv children be4 marriage, but this chance of get another man with kids, as man you hv to think abt it and ask God for granted a bunch of grace, it's not easy to anyone, but this is like a favor to a lady from God, so such mens they deserves respect,

[@Budgetgadgets2]

@@strongmummy580 😂😂😂😂 you've mentioned GOd like 6 times in a comment about single mothers. The same "God" who hates fornication and adultery ama mwingine?

[@linah0259]

@@maxwellolande9243 men should also be responsible there's no way a woman got herself pregnant

[@janaleokesho8374]

It depends on how you define dowry.mostly dowry was to bring two families together and know one another as they become in-laws and mostly it's men and his kinsmen who go to wife parents and thy can't go empty handed.African mostly people kept livestock and that what was just needed

[@senseitionalentertainment9476]

Lol that woman is bitter for the truth stay up kings,😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nevilledwayne]

Seems she is a neglected single mother,

[@Fred-yf8fq]

bana...can't imagine how her man lives with her if she even has one😅

[@nevilledwayne]

@@Fred-yf8fq she can't have any man.. she can't..ama wewe unaona she can.. her last men in her life are her father ,brothers which I doubt don't like her,and maybe maaaaybe her son.. roho chafu sana😂

[@Budgetgadgets2]

Men, how many times will you be told this? AVOID SINGLE MOTHERS! Why complicate your life when there are millions of women without children?

[@shawn-the-first.1643]

ROAD TO 400K

[@jaymoo9942]

I bet this woman is single ,, she's very bitter with men,,no man can stay with such a kind of woman

[@hayzofficial7229]

Me 2

[@bellaolum9768]

Maybe she was in an abusive marriage

[@Kevin_acee]

​@@bellaolum9768 she must be the one who was abusive

[@mutukuboniface3463]

As for me iam irked to see GENDER SUPREMACY BATTLES escalate. Love still exists There are both crappy men and women. Ni vile ya poor parenting

[@bellaolum9768]

I agree

[@mohammedseka2883]

In marriage don be stupidly in love n leave your brains out..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣..

[@mutukuboniface3463]

Huyu mama anakodoa macho aki😀😀

[@Angel-xe1xg]

Someone was triggered by this conversation.

[@gerishomwafula5899]

Hiyo nywele kubwa kwa kicwa hakina akili.Bure sana

[@sammy_dreala4538]

Good converstion from thee cool guy ,alot is true from what he says but I definetely not agree from the lady's point of view ,from her waste of space

[@Izzoh22]

This woman is emotionally triggered

[@afrikanwanderer5200]

This woman should be concerned on her surging weight instead of spewing nonsense.

[@lexusnambasita3086]

😂😂😂😂weee 🙌🙌🙌unamumaliza😂

[@hayzofficial7229]

That woman saying rubbish. Doesn't even understand the guys point.

[@fredondima8170]

Njeri is a perfect example of masculine n emotional women who can't be,,

[@princemuli592]

Never bring the type of this woman again.. She is bitter and unreasonable