“There is a lot of relationships we get into in life where we are not told how it is meant to work.” Very true
@SugarSnapDragon7 ай бұрын
Any of them?
@Widdekuu915 жыл бұрын
To be honest, it takes a special kind of awful to go to an event with James Acaster, in which he clearly states he's taking more breaks and practicing saying; 'No.' and then try and whine on about his podcast. James even bravely mentiones how the therapist he trusted, betrayed his trust, how can you ignore all of that and demand him to come over on your podcast? (Just incase James reads this, bytheway, therapists can (and should!) be nice and kind and understanding and not force you to reveal more than you want or go faster than your own pace. So if you ever feel like visiting (a good) one again, please do, they can help people a lot.) I'm just happy to see that, despite the fact it probably took a lot of energy and caused a lot of stress, James managed to stay polite and tell the guy off. He should do that more often. He's already spoiling everyone with so many video's and visits to shows. Good luck James, please keep standing up for yourself.
@cameronmckelvie815 жыл бұрын
Heartbreaking part of the book that is, felt like a proper betrayal
@sweetistweeter5 жыл бұрын
His response to the podcast guy was so professional, but not stiff at all. Just honest and kind, really. Why would you go on and ask someone like that if his agent has already politely declined??
@living4ward2it5 жыл бұрын
Yes, he was honest to the dude, that's generous so it doesn't even feel like rejection, it's a lovely answer and insight into James's personal journey, a gift.
@xXChipsAndGravyXx4 жыл бұрын
The guy did that to peer pressure james (someone who on the outside looks like he would be weak to that kind of thing) total dick head, i guess thats why
@hectormugwump55303 жыл бұрын
Podcast guy came across like a total narcissist. I was quite surprised when he didn't try to self-promote while he still had the mic.
@lindyl11055 жыл бұрын
Amazing to hear such authenticity and openness about real life mixed with just funny stuff. Thank you for taking the steps to care for yourself, James Acaster! Those of us who love your work are more than happy to wait a bit for more stuff if it means you’re happy and healthy! 🐇🥰🐇
@living4ward2it5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for saying this. Totally agree
@ditkind13404 жыл бұрын
Agree! 🙃
@NeverRubARhubarb5 жыл бұрын
Great that the festival organiser mispronounces James's last name. Classy.
@loveandsqualor60345 жыл бұрын
Oh shut up. Who cares?
@Widdekuu915 жыл бұрын
@@loveandsqualor6034 It's unprofessional, laf and skweelur.
@DontStealMyFish4 жыл бұрын
@@loveandsqualor6034 I care. And my opinion is worth more than yours.
@hellopeoplez86364 жыл бұрын
@@DontStealMyFish Why is your opinion worth more than there’s
@prunehead3 жыл бұрын
@@hellopeoplez8636 that's just life, mate.
@parkviewmo5 жыл бұрын
James Acaster is a very smart guy. I was glad to hear him talk seriously. Wish I had picked therapists more carefully. The last one was really bad for me. Great advice about time off, work ethic, and going to performances where you share things with others in the audience!
@UnfitToLive5 жыл бұрын
Hope you found a better therapist, mate. It's all about finding someone who clicks with you and you feel listens and understands what you say. Kinda obvious to say, perhaps, but I know how that feels.
@Stannyhand5 жыл бұрын
The guy getting shut down for the podcast invite. You love to see it
@AKorigami2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful mind has he! I discovered him from 8 out of ten and as a almost 75 year old Alaskan; I must say he is my own "masters voice...
@davidcj325 жыл бұрын
52:45 for the podcast question
@hellopeoplez86364 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Seen a lot of comments about it but couldn’t find it lol
@CharkieG5 жыл бұрын
I am so happy he put that guy in his place lol! Amazing! Loved this, wish there was a little more chemistry between James Acaster and Rob Auton though. James Acaster is such a classy guy!
@hopeselah4 жыл бұрын
acaster realizes how much time is put into making someone a playlist--
@chriskaprys4 жыл бұрын
Music mixes are my love language. Now I know why I love James so much.
@Rox23184 жыл бұрын
I genuinely adore this man ❤️ intelligent, hilarious and just a genuinely good soul. His smile is everything ❤️
@zeltzinrr16314 жыл бұрын
😍
@buggyboogle94 жыл бұрын
Truly lovely smile
@tonywords67134 жыл бұрын
dude has such a strange and marvelous mind
@ditkind13404 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@SugarSnapDragon7 ай бұрын
I have SO much envy for his MEMORY.
@monomakes5 жыл бұрын
To put him on the spot like that after James' agent had turned down the request was unnecessary and rude. If podcast fool was compelled to ask, at least wait until afterwards.
@spacemonkey48115 жыл бұрын
Was in front row, was a privilege.
@katy39015 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@SineN0mine32 жыл бұрын
At 40:55 which one are you?
@HZ-fg9sf4 жыл бұрын
Wished the mod was better 😕 To cut off James from finishing his story about his therapist was kind of rude imo. Wanted to know how his story ended...
@ditkind13404 жыл бұрын
Sorry, but what does “imo” mean?
@joedaley71514 жыл бұрын
@@ditkind1340 "In My Opinion"
@Telruin3 жыл бұрын
I think I have only seen James Acaster while "preforming", or... playing whatever character he is. Hearing him talking like a normal person is interesting. (In a good way)
@milkywaydonutszz2 жыл бұрын
it's so weird tho that even if i'm not part of the physical show, it feels like i'm part of the crowd listening to James. He does a good job with including and interacting with the audience
@EmmaRiddle5434 жыл бұрын
I love his jumper He always wears the best clothes 🥰😍
@johnvarley45614 жыл бұрын
He's always got great footwear on
@SumitAnand5 жыл бұрын
I was there, and asked the first question. Sorry about it though, in my defence, I was going through a confused out of depth phase. James probably understood
@tejasvsaxena39095 жыл бұрын
Yeah,James and me understood 😅
@pratiksadawana93345 жыл бұрын
You did confused the hell outta some people in the audience tho 😂
@Simon-ku7ky5 жыл бұрын
I thought it was a really good question mate. James didn't quite get to his answer in finding something deeper, which I would have like to hear about too. So I appreciate you asking it.
@living4ward2it5 жыл бұрын
Yeh James is all about keepin it real about how ya feel, a shining invitation to be yourself whatever it is
@Zilegil4 жыл бұрын
I’m sure he got what you were getting at man ^.^
@ThatCoalSoul3 жыл бұрын
Hundreds of years ago there was this very eccentric British Lord who had a zebra-pulled carriage and a pet bear and in - presumably a very prolonged moment of madness - he dug a series of tunnels under Birmingham (UK) ...all I'm saying is thank goodness James found music!
@rebeccahagin33135 жыл бұрын
James Acaster could make this chick into chicks turn! I'm a mixed tape chick and I know that exact look you get when you hand over those many hours of work getting that message in almost 80 minutes of music just right for the person. And I got frustrated when a particular friend of mine took my opus, complete with instructions to listen to it for the first time, lights out, with a beer, completely through from start to finish, and then just loaded it on his computer and played it randomly with all his other music. Message killed mate. I got more out of it than he did. Thank God I made a copy for me too. My most shared compilation: Songs for the frustrated: When you want to tell the world to just f**k off. I'm a mixed tape making addict. You know you are when you ignore band 'best ofs ' and make your own...
@etaylor80285 жыл бұрын
A mixed tape is like a fart - you think yours is alright, but everyone else thinks it stinks. To expect someone to sit through 80 minutes of someone else's music (in the dark with a beer) is asking way too much of them. I agree mixed tapes are cute but they should contain like 10 songs at most and shouldn't come with a set of instructions.
@Redhotnirvanalover5 жыл бұрын
James dropping Sikth at a pub in Kettering. The force is fucking strong with this one 💜
@JehanineMelmoth4 жыл бұрын
Ah, bless him. He’s a sweet boy.
@8belleangel84 жыл бұрын
I would love to hear the two tapes of lushness mixtapes!
@8belleangel84 жыл бұрын
EDIT: NEVERMIND.
@EmmaRiddle5434 жыл бұрын
I love it when people throw their hands around because they don’t care 🥰🥰🥰
@ThatCoalSoul3 жыл бұрын
Many talented comedians ...and Nish Kumar! Boy that's a burny zing there!!!!!!
@barbiincognito13 Жыл бұрын
Love James Acaster! He's incredibly funny
@melon53455 жыл бұрын
The interviewer is super awkward but it's quite endearing. I saw James earlier this year and I wish I'd bought his book now.
@harshitbhargava49305 жыл бұрын
I came to see this just for 37:00 The person who asked the question is great person.
@Prismaticist5 жыл бұрын
thank you for posting!
@Smason4325 жыл бұрын
Was in the back row. Wish I was a bit closer to front
@BaldMancTwat4 жыл бұрын
Was in my pants watching this at home. Wish I was in the same country at least.
@__-cd9ug3 жыл бұрын
was at home, got all of the Acaster with none of the wait/discomfort/financial expense - just great mate
@victoriafordaysthechannel68483 жыл бұрын
This interview pushed me to do stand-up
@chelseariffic7 ай бұрын
3 years later, how is that going?
@living4ward2it5 жыл бұрын
Hermione HAIR-ME-OWN haha
@aon100034 жыл бұрын
You read books in Scotland?
@EverythingsComingUpWillhouse3 жыл бұрын
James is definitely not someone I expected to know Sikth and I love him even more to find out he does
@DangerDickDavidson2 жыл бұрын
Literally blew my mind haha
@Schizopantheist8 ай бұрын
He is exactly the right age to know who they are and he was in a band, so, makes sense to me
@neilolly4 жыл бұрын
Best way to read a book , front to back
@theledge37483 жыл бұрын
The only time i ever DJ'd (playing stuff i liked not the crowd) and only song i rem playing was pussyfoot by Sikth. So funny to hear that.
@samroberts-lovell35125 жыл бұрын
The shoes
@playbydisk5 жыл бұрын
He's always got those Avengers trainers on. Every gig!
@dannyberentson45605 жыл бұрын
As a counter argument: The socks
@cheminem5 жыл бұрын
Theyre pretty cool i think
@ditkind13404 жыл бұрын
Loved the shoes! 😂
@ditkind13404 жыл бұрын
Danny Berentson hahaha
@dislecsyk9915 ай бұрын
I'm going to go out on a limb and assume that's the first time SikTh have been mentioned at any book festival.
@SugarSnapDragon7 ай бұрын
Deep frying my mix tapes! I would have died. I left a bunch from my best friend in the auditorium mezzanine in high school where I was hiding out by myself during a free period, but had taken a wander and didn't make it back to my stuff before I had to go to my next class. I didn't remember until the next day. Never saw them again. Gutted.
@jdedredhed5 жыл бұрын
💚 fried lushness
@joshuawilson85644 жыл бұрын
This year is gone to shit and james acaster is only thing that i go to to cope, lol
@Squaremuffin5 жыл бұрын
I can only imagine what Bland Street Boom would do to the men and women inside a pub in Kettering
@ohcrapitsmrG5 жыл бұрын
Does anyone know who the podcast guy is?
@odw_995 жыл бұрын
A prick is who he is
@Widdekuu915 жыл бұрын
It won't help harassing his podcast or channel, it'll only give him more views. But I understand the urge. :)
@louisrushton50254 жыл бұрын
i want to know which sikth track it was....
@reginaldcrapo1325 жыл бұрын
At 23:23 James mentions Okilly Dokilly and the album Howdilly Doodilly. This is a link to "White Wine Spritzer" by that band from that album (the opening of with which, this video closes). kzbin.info/www/bejne/aHOop5tsfbiEmZI
@cho78794 жыл бұрын
that therapist corned him and abused his personal trauma to manipulate him, I hope when his ready takes her to the law cause that woman should have her license revoked immediately.
@6ThumbsYT5 жыл бұрын
Did he just say James (ahh caster)?
@ditkind13404 жыл бұрын
Pilly 92 Yea I heard that too. Kind a dissapointing.
@kirstenpeterson24625 жыл бұрын
Anything Acaster gets a "like"
@UnfitToLive5 жыл бұрын
Yea, he is a brilliant guy and comedian! Unique.
@ditkind13404 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@ThatCoalSoul3 жыл бұрын
I think Gary Delaney is in the audience!
@jopar32925 жыл бұрын
I wasn't there. I feel ambivalent
@karendegenerous80442 жыл бұрын
Yeah just because somebody calls them self a therapist, doesn't mean to say that they are majorly qualified or suitable. It's best to look around and see to try to find out what the professional psychologist is all about, and work out if you can relate to each other, if you think the same - and if you like them and can maintain a good rapport, then they are perfect for you. Karen Evangelista doctor of Psychology.
@uyd4 жыл бұрын
Ketring sounds cool...I want to visit
@scottageindustries3 жыл бұрын
2020 So connected, So alone.
@Red-yc7vl4 жыл бұрын
“Listening to the bends over & over again” 👁👄👁
@kaivalyadivekar71215 жыл бұрын
Don't know what's up with the interviewer. Be prepared dude.
@camillajefferson3865 жыл бұрын
He's also a comedian and that's very much his style of delivery. It's a bit.
@cassandraalastair71795 жыл бұрын
GUAPO!!!!!
@bfudge79633 жыл бұрын
Love your shit. But I'm down with you James I've dj'd in bournemouth for year n half on vinyl and cd s it's all about what you like. Keep on your style. Eventually the flow follows. . BOSS
@priyax16085 жыл бұрын
Loving the shoes m8
@caitlin20195 жыл бұрын
is this video available anywhere to download in a podcast format?
@xnrivudxkskalflvk40755 жыл бұрын
caitlin2019 youtube to mp3
@ditkind13404 жыл бұрын
AweInSound 👍🏻
@okok722774 жыл бұрын
He just said he's not going on the podcast mate
@lisasimpson88954 жыл бұрын
geez the story about the therapist is *scary*. unethical is not even enough to describe that behavior.
@markpx5 жыл бұрын
I like the Frank Stella shirt.
@luketesoriero23384 жыл бұрын
Bro, i had a very similar experience....
@parwanahi.5 жыл бұрын
37:00
@Cheesegromit7863 жыл бұрын
I have never seen him dress like that
@paulthoresen82413 жыл бұрын
lmao Sikth is the randomest band he could have chosen for a DJ gig, why did he think that was a good idea
@emilylouise053 жыл бұрын
35:26
@turnipinindia5 жыл бұрын
Was in the middle row, was ok
@inflationtothemooon29995 жыл бұрын
Chant anand
@michellefahy11564 жыл бұрын
I don't think James is a redhead... pretty sure he's blonde.
@ThatCoalSoul3 жыл бұрын
Strawberry blonde!
@TheSNFB4 жыл бұрын
Thought many of the audience who asked questions sounded entitled and like pricks. Thought James put up with it pretty well
@4OrCE1on4 жыл бұрын
A book festival where the mc cannot even read the authors name
@xlinnaeus4 жыл бұрын
18:45 hahaha
@demonted725 жыл бұрын
Sixth 🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻😆
@anthonymcnamara40024 жыл бұрын
What a waste of a great opportunity. Rob Auton absolutely ruined this.