Cuddlist Talks: What If You Develop Feelings for Your Cuddlist?

[@miketemple7]

You are so awesome and transparent and Awesome My Dear!!!! You provide a wonderful and valuable service!!!!

[@kidphillyorg]

First off, I never thought this was a profession until I heard about it a few days ago. Then I started watching videos. But then through watching your videos it actually caused for me to ask myself deeper questions then just the immediate instant gratification of physical touch. What turned on a light for me is when you say, "What is your intention?". That's a "why" do you desire this, question. Strong and extremely powerful. Then how open you are about uncomfortable topics, truly is awesome!!! The ability to put the uncomfortable on the table and address it head on is absolutely amazing! I'm at a place right now where I'm trying to unpack and understand my past which includes my military service. I thought maybe even going to a session would just help "fix" things. But great videos like this do so much more for me and help me further understand not only my intention but address feelings and emotions I haven't identified in myself. You have been such a huge blessing in such a short amount of time from states away. (I'm in Philadelphia PA). This video and others you've posted are helping me potentially communicate with my wife and others about the space I currently am in at the same time of respecting theirs. I am subscribing to this channel now and I hope to pass on this blessing to other people. I'm happy you have the courage to have and to share this very unique profession, especially on KZbin. I have a different perspective now. Thank you!!!

[@samtheinvincible]

Janet Trevino you rock! I am not a cuddler but you make me want to try it.

[@cuddlingcoachingwithkyle3673]

Janet you are so sweet!! I love these videos. So helpful, inspiring, and I love how you bring your heart and soul to them! :)

[@JanetTrevino]

Thank you!!

[@christopherbarber9351]

excellent video, overview of this topic

[@knots1975]

Thank you for the detailed information. Wonderful to know all this.. Pune, India

[@jakelerma7115]

You are a living Goddess/Angel 😍🌞 The soul behind those eyes is awake and compassionate..

[@JanetTrevino]

+Jake Lerma thank you for touching my heart w your words

[@andywest6250]

Thank you

[@TheShockwave44]

4:00 This is why I don't think this works, in the long run anyway. Denying your own emotions is counterproductive. Like you shouldn't feel bad after a cuddle session because you miss the person. This is the issue with paying for cuddles. Now if two people consented to cuddling with no money exchanged, they can cuddle for as long as they want and as many times as they want. For me, I'd need like 3 sessions a week that are between 4-8 hours but I also need to eat. The other thing is if you consent without money, then you know they genuinely want to be with you, which actually adds to the comfort of cuddling. I want to cuddle someone who wants to be there for me rather than because I paid them.

[@JanetTrevino]

That sounds like a relationship! I spent about that amount of time with my partners. They don’t pay me. But they give to me in other ways.

[@itzwanimereacts]

Ooh Imma HAVE to make an appointment, TX gang

[@lourdesramos9462]

Hello to you all, can you or any tell me if you have to have a license to b a cuddler

[@katfancey1113]

It's pretty obvious how this happens. Lonely guy hires a cuddler he finds very attractive. (Huge mistake!) Then, she happens to have a shining personality....Bam!

[@JanetTrevino]

Lol! It can be really easy.

[@tolerance2480]

I hug my pillow, and feel so beautiful! I feel like a little boy again, when I hug my pillow, thinking about kind women! But I still would like to cuddle with a person however! I'm 46 years old, and very ugly, mentally ill, disabled. I wish this kind lady would be my Mother! I admit, I have had sexual feelings in the past, but cuddling to me, is so innocent! I love this lady! I can't stop crying!

[@tolerance2480]

When I'm around beautiful, kind, gentle women, my voice becomes higher pitched, like a child's voice, or gay guy's voice, or woman's voice!

[@JanetTrevino]

Your comment ended up in spam. I’m happy I found it. I wish you were near by. I could hold you. Be your mommy. Love you.

[@humanitynow1565]

You are very beautiful , it's not weird that your clients fall in love

[@JanetTrevino]

that's sweet

[@rainbow20112011]

@@JanetTrevino Am I allowed to grab your nose during a cuddle?

[@DJcyberslash]

You know I was really considering cuddling professionals, but my main concern was how it would feel afterwards. Would it feel transactional? When I look at it with my human emotion I feel it would be disappointing to know the person doesn't feel anything for me. I'm big on me and my partners shared experience as I'm a very giving person. When I look at it from another side it's feels like pay beautiful women for cuddling? Not bad. So it's really conflicting to be honest. Sad society is lacking in basic touch access for so many. I just don't see how the people who truly truly need the service wouldn't at least develop some kind of feelings. Oh well. Please don't crucify me any of you pro cuddlers like the animals over on CC did for asking about this.

[@GarryBurgess]

I'm just going to make a point of saying to all the girls that I meet right off the bat to tell them, "hold me tight baby". It's convenient, I get the chemicals, and I'm good with lots of women having feelings for me and have all those great connections. I like the whole idea.

[@JanetTrevino]

asking can be the hardest part & you seem to have a way down. :D

[@m83kid]

How can I schedule an appointment?

[@JanetTrevino]

+Michael Latimore fill out a request here: janettrevino.com/request Or text me. Lol. Let’s talk! 210 901 9976

[@troyleos]

So beautiful

[@Rumpshaker92]

Hey again, Do you get charged for traveling

[@JanetTrevino]

Yes. And it all depends on how far from me & if I’m already traveling. ;)

[@JanetTrevino]

Where are you?

[@Rumpshaker92]

Hi @@JanetTrevino, I'm living in the state of virginia... How many hours is the drive from san antonio texas to ashland virginia

[@JanetTrevino]

I’ll be in DC next month. ;) And *maybe* again in april. In July I’ll be in West Virginia. And you could also organize w me your own trip w me. :)

[@Rumpshaker92]

@@JanetTrevino Hey, How about I wait til you get in, Then we can figure something out

[@michaelruggles7500]

What a beautiful woman.

[@JanetTrevino]

Thanks

[@rondavis9309]

IF A BLONDE AND A BRUNETTE JUMPED OFF A BUILDING AT THE EXACT SAME TIME WHICH ONE WOULD LAND FIRST? THE BRUNETTE.THE BLONDE WOULD HAVE TO STOP FOR DIRECTIONS.

[@JanetTrevino]

I’m not sure how that’s relevant. Asking for directions is a special skill these days.

[@jeremydavis3919]

Janet, Do you know sign language?

[@JanetTrevino]

I wish!! I’ve always wanted to learn.

[@jeremydavis3919]

@@JanetTrevino , I love to teach people how to sign 😄

[@jeremydavis3919]

@@JanetTrevino , I love to teach people how to sign 😄

[@jeremydavis3919]

Janet, I would like to come to San Antonio to meet you in person for cuddling sessions in April 😄

[@JanetTrevino]

Let’s!!

[@samuelyeti1818]

Hey i live in San Antonio 😊

[@JanetTrevino]

+Samuelyeti hey! I'm here!

[@zdravkomomci7570]

If he was attractive enough and rich you would say YES. I haven't met a woman who can say no to that

[@JanetTrevino]

Lol!!! My clients don’t truly know me nor me them

[@jay-aradjialam2231]

try a filipino cuddlers maam😊😊

[@JanetTrevino]

None in this area

[@madissiimkull]

it is sad that this service and cuddle dates are given necessary. I believe that cuddle courses for young couples are good idea that might save a lot of families

[@JanetTrevino]

People’s relationships with touch and each other changes over a course of a lifetime. Ideally all couples would see a third-party to support them in the changes of life.

[@SkinnyEMedia]

I would be nervous if I met a cuddler or massage therapist that looked like her. Her skin looks amazing and smooth, beautiful eyes and hair and I would accidentally find it sexy not therapeutic. Sorry! I've never met women on a romantic or spiritual level in ages.

[@JanetTrevino]

I’m not everyone’s cup of tea. Lol.