Japan: Difficulties For Foreign Women

[@BigSisterNeko]

These comments are wild. I am a 5 foot eight black woman with plenty of curves, big boobs and a big butt. I respect the country, especially when I’m down in Tokyo or Shibuya to the best of my abilities. Blame it on my Western mentality, but I never really tripped too much over what anybody really thought of me. I’ve always gotten along with both the men and women. I get my fair share of stares, as well as people wanting to talk to me and get to know about me. I was never offended by it. I’ve always found it odd that western women want east Asian women to change their ways. Honestly, if that’s the type of change they want it, they will get it themselves. They don’t need outsiders help. But everybody’s experiences are different just like not all Japanese men desire the traditional Japanese woman traits. Your confidence and how you carry yourself speaks volumes in the long run. Even if it doesn’t agree with whatever societal norm of the culture that you’re currently embracing.

[@lodibujado6742]

I like big butts and I cannot lie

[@unijaggerflax2975]

These comments are wild IS CRAZY 😂😂😂

[@boomguitarjared]

@@BigSisterNeko I really appreciate your perspective here. I haven't been to Japan yet, but am expecting to go this next year. While I am expecting to get some stares or some people not wanting anything to do with me, that's something I'm totally ok with, as I'm aware I won't fit in with their societal norms as a 6'3 kinda wonky guy. As long as anyone is respectful ahnd kind to others in how the general culture functions, little deviances from cultural norms are usually accepted I believe.

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

Great comment 🔥🔥🔥

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

@@boomguitarjaredit’s not true that people don’t want to have anything to do with you. They’re all welcoming but they expect you to respect them which is something obvious. Don’t feel scared, I got stares too but I was staring at them too so we’re even 😂 the states are just normal, take it as something funny

[@JP-ve7or]

These comments are completely out of proportion to anything these women said in the video. Then again, it might be bold of me to assume anyone actually watched it first.

[@0shawhat]

Video: *Foreign and local women just sharing their experiences and thoughts on Japanese culture* Comments: "how DARE these western women force Japanese people to conform to THEIR western values" Like what? Some people in the comments need to rewatch again in 0.25x speed 😭

[@yumibelle_j]

One Japanese celebrity who never conformed to the stereotypical Japanese woman is singer Matsuda Seiko. She doesn't cover her mouth when she laughs, and she's remained a steadfast performer despite the ups and downs in her life.

[@ThatLeadZebra]

I found the comments from some of the women in this video against the Japanese woman kind of judgemental and gross. I went to Japan and I'm a bit larger and I was worried I'd be judged as I heard that curves are not appreciated but while people are definitely thinner, there are certainly many body types just like here, and many different clothing even if the clothing is modest. You don't have to wear wild clothes or revealing tops to be 'unique', your personality and self are more important. If people judged me then they kept it to themselves which is how it should be. The girl saying there is something wrong and they all look the same, I felt very angry at her comments, just judgemental and tearing people she does not understand down.

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

People are criticizing simply because they don’t hear the cliché thing “you’re beautiful as you are” so they try to make others change to conform to them. I don’t listen to these extremely sensitive people anymore

[@SieMiezekatze]

They are talking about their experience and you are making it about yourself, you are the weird

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

@@SieMiezekatze said the one who felt the need to say something to pretend to be above everything and everyone, get down your white horse. I replied to that girl cause I agree with her, and you decided to be the internet hero today and write something without understanding the context. You should check your ego bae, I didn’t make anything about me. Maybe you’re projecting? 🤔

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

@@SieMiezekatzewhy the hell did KZbin delete my message Girl, what i wrote is not even offensive. You have too much ego, you’re projecting. I simply agreed with this girl without talking about myself. Who do you think you are? You came here and pretended to be the internet hero of the day, we ting something out of context, you even liked your own comment… 🤦🏼‍♀️ lower your ego

[@研治石橋]

When foreign women criticise Japanese women, it often comes from a place of jealousy, I noticed. 'Crabs in a bucket' mentality. They know that Japanese women are popular not only with Japanese men but also with foreign men (and that makes them mad) because Japanese women are cute and feminine. On the other hand, many Western women these days look down on femininity, thinking that women should be 'strong' or whatever. It makes them mad to see that the 'femininity' that they look down on is actually something that is very attractive to men.

[@sushicat8043]

while i did adjust my style a bit more when i lived in japan, it didnt hold me back from wearing tank tops from time to time. let's face it - as a foreigner, you'll still be stared at, doesn't matter how long you live there. so wear whatever makes you comfortable!

[@MimisRoom333]

I just moved to Japan and I’m half Japanese and Caucasian. As a woman I’ve felt such a difference from living in America. I’ve always been into fashion and makeup but in Japan I feel like no matter where I go everyone is flawlessly beautiful even in 90 degrees. It doesn’t help that I’m 5”10 and don’t fit into most of the clothes here.

[@realglutenfree]

I think diet plays a huge role in that. If you eat very healthy, your skin and hair naturally looks good. That might be the reason

[@thelastdefenderofcamelot5623]

You might notice that Japan is like a hundred years ago where people walked around in suits and wore elegant clothing. Even the poor looked decent during the Great Depression.

[@NullVoid-rm7jm]

Because Japan is objectively superior to the rest of the world. The west stopped caring about themselves and we let ourselves go. America and Canada are full of slobs

[@neetuh4850]

So what would you say about italy?

[@thelastdefenderofcamelot5623]

@@neetuh4850 I assume it's like South Korea, where the culture and fashion is catered towards younger generations. I haven't paid attention to Italian fashion so I have no say to it. To the Japanese I still dress like a 20 year old when I should dress something more appropriate for my age.

[@billbillson3129]

Great video as always! Thank you for making and sharing with us!!

[@SK-gm9uc]

Even Japanese think there are a lot that has to change in Japan. What's wrong is wrong no matter the country. It's not ok to be so self conscious to fit in a standard just because it's always been like that. Not everything is about western/colonizer mentality. The Japanese that go abroad and experience the freedom of doing whatever they want know this and would love to do the same in Japan. -I'm Japanese and have lived abroad

[@jOeLwAlBy]

Nope I'm foreign from the UK and I live in Japan long term. I think the rest of the world needs to take the lead from Japan on this. A lot of countries could do with losing a lot of weight everyone in many western countries is unhealthily fat it's disgusting. More than 50% are damaging their health by being overweight in the UK and definitely the US. Western countries need more social pressure on things like that.

[@realglutenfree]

​@@jOeLwAlBy People in western countries are not just fat because of a lack of societal pressure but because of how their every day life looks compared to the Japanese every day life. In Japan, people still have a diet with mostly healthy food because it's easily accessible. In the US you have big companies competing with how much sugar and fat they can put into their products. "Just don't buy these products then" you might say, but that's not that easy when almost all products are spiked and the good ones are so expensive that poor people often can't afford them. Then we have transportation. In Japan people mostly take public transportation, something that overall barely exists in the US. So everyone drives with their cars, which means less walking around, less exercise. Countries like my own are trying to fight the fatness epidemic by banning foods that are too high in sugar and forcing companies to create better products. Also, public transportation like I said, is a huge factor too. Can kids drive with their bikes to school on roads that are not too dangerous or would they have to drive on a street with 6 lanes and fast driving cars? I can drive a bike to my work place, something that is almost unheard of in the US. It takes a decent government which invests into their society to keep people from getting fat and if your country doesn't have that then good night. Shaming people into dieting to stay thin works for a short time but is no long time solution and especially not for a whole society.

[@Milkocheerio]

​@@jOeLwAlByBritish hating freedom in a nutshell😂😂

[@msptv6247]

As a Filipina woman, I DID dress modestly when I studied in Japan... like don't show too much skin or prepare to attract unwanted attention, or worse, creepy dudes...

[@aubreymorgan9763]

"They don't have personality and they all look the same, they look so alike" you mean a country known for strict social rules of conformity...conform?!

[@ChimpoLust]

you never see cleavage in Tokyo, unless it's an occasional tourist, and most definately no sighting of side-boob.

[@ACloudWithoutAir]

unless if you go down in the slutstreet

[@rmalmeida1976]

Imagine going to any foreign country and expecting THEM to conform to YOU.

[@TonySharkks]

I was going to make a similar comment! The foreign women sound like cultural imperialists wanting to change Japan to fit THEIR values

[@ACloudWithoutAir]

So America.... constantly. Every day. Every single place. There's a difference between cultural appreciation and straight up being ignorant. I think there is a huge Japanese bias in the media. You have to think Japan's culture is superior or doesn't do anything wrong. There's a lot of things that Japan needs to change. A lot. As does Every culture. It's less about conforming to me, and more about conforming to the right ethical standard.

[@GarbagePlateROC]

Westerner mentality

[@TonySharkks]

@@ACloudWithoutAir What would the poor, "ignorant" Japanese people do without enlightened mind dictators like you to instruct them on how to live? Colonizer mentality 🤪

[@TeddyB3ARGaming]

Colonizer mentality really I don’t get it either

[@sugarzblossom8168]

A lot of these women are just saying their experience and are also allowed not to like things which they cannot control allowed or not. People in this comment section are making a big deal about nothing. I wonder if it is because this video is anout Japan and people go crazy and defensive over the country or because of...other reasons.

[@Exjapter]

Tons of projection going on here for sure.

[@NeostormXLMAX]

lmao you amerimutts are literally the most defensive ever, constantly complaining about immigrants and refugees etc, constantly telling people to go back to their country etc, then trying to push your stupid values on to everyone while calling on everyone else to do so in your country kek. why do you troglodytes not speak japanese in japan for example? yet expect everyone to speak shitty english in burgerstan?

[@ste23456]

Yeah this comment section is full of incels 😂

[@m.c.lizard9838]

I was thinking the same thing I’m like why did y’all decide to watch a whole vid of people talking about their sometimes negative experiences to just go to the comments and tell them to go back to where they came from😂

[@chancevang978]

Good Vid can you plz do Men next

[@MrWescottX]

Indeed

[@sboinkthelegday3892]

8:10 I guess Japanese men don't get told "i'm not really into your type" from women as the casual conversation starter. If it actually surprises a woman to EVER hear that. Because that's so normal for western men, it wouldn't even OCCUR to criticize being forcibly put on the spot.

[@NJDJ1986]

yeah same!

[@NullVoid-rm7jm]

It'd be the same video. It'd be a video of a bunch of foreign men complaining that Japan won't change and conform to them

[@sleeper9638]

Men don't have a problem fitting into other cultures as most men are treated pretty much the same by every culture and as a result, they do not expect the world to revolve around them

[@schleichimlebenschleichimb6718]

this comment section is so wrong

[@CptEddyPrice]

The last lady is smart. Men and women are different. We should be equal in some ways like law system, pay etc. but also embrace the differences... that's how you complete each other.

[@mariihbobba1978]

As a woman, I agree with her

[@kylekylelam3870]

Complete each other, not compete with each other.

[@schleichimlebenschleichimb6718]

i agree with that. i think we should all have the option to be different, but still embrace feminitity and masculinity

[@neetuh4850]

Agree.

[@bebebaba3442]

Exactly

[@FlatBread-q8p]

People in this comment section forgetting that Japan has the second highest suicide rate next to korea…

[@lilychouchouz]

…these rates are related to psychological issues and harassment due to high expectations and no clear directions both spiritually and emotionally. Dont minimize the issue like that…

[@FlatBread-q8p]

@@lilychouchouz these “issues” you’ve mentioned are exactly what I am referring to, and stem from a society which is revealed in many ways, one of them being this video. Don’t minimise serious truths like this.

[@lilychouchouz]

@@FlatBread-q8p i took ur first comment as siding with foreigners imposing their views on other cultures (which happens a lot to middle eastern, southeast asian, african, and east asian societies specifically) and was kinda slow realizing what u trult meant since my first language isnt english so sorry have a nice day😁

[@Ve994]

did u actually check cause last time i looked japan isnt even top 20 in the world. Even US is ranked higher in suicide then Japan

[@Mwoods2272]

The US has a higher rate than Japan. Japan is ranked at 49th and the US is ranked at 31 by the WHO.

[@focotaku]

This was very interesting 👍 A small correction: I just want to note that the health insurance does cover therapy. And you can even get sick leave for mental issues. If you are in Japan & you are feeling depressed please try to speak to a doctor, because you may be able to get help. Apparently not many people know this, so please share around.

[@focotaku]

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[@wadewilson5712]

Another good and informative video thank you sir

[@noahhyslop4835]

You can't take beauty or health advice from an American 90% of us are exclusively sick and ugly. We have a 50% obesity rate I think we have somewhere around 30% child obesity.

[@MrWescottX]

Yup

[@frillylily8005]

Actually For 2015, the percentage of persons who had excellent or very good health was 66.1% It should be more then this though I also believe 40% of the US is obese wich is not good but not 50 yet. Things have to change if they don’t kore an more people are going to become very unhealthy.

[@noahhyslop4835]

@@frillylily8005 sorry what's good health? 66% of adult in America are on prescription drugs of some kind? So idk if I can count that as "good health".

[@JackLuong]

america is the only place on earth where eating junkfood full of chemicals is normalized and watching what you eat is considered "eating disorder"

[@unknown6390]

​@@JackLuongWoah. How nuanced 😂

[@AngelaSmith_1970]

6:28 that’s how I was raised, to help people in my community if they need it, I’m not pushy about it, I just make sure they know they can call on me in their times of need and I’ll help as much as possible, I couldn’t just ignore someone who needs help 😢🥰🙏🏽

[@squallrulz20]

Its not like the West doesn't have gender issues, they are just a different kind of gender issue. I also have a problem with the statement of 'over 50% of part time workers are female'. There is 2 options, male and female, if its 51-49? they both suffered fairly equally, this makes the statement potentially very misleading and tries to paint a human issue as a female issue which expands derision. Maybe it is because she is half American and that is just how they talk in general?

[@pheunithpsychic-watertype9881]

It's not in general. It's a vocal minority that

[@KhrisAsaurus]

At least Japan has healthy foods compared to The US ! 😃

[@shotgunwound]

More so moderation

[@drunkenpumpkins7401]

Not really. Lots of fried stuff and lots of stuff with a lot of carbohydrates. Lots of Omega 3 tough. The secret is that people in Japan walk a lot and only eat to 80% full. Americans like to stuff their stomach until they are at like 110% full and take the car for everything.

[@KhrisAsaurus]

@@drunkenpumpkins7401 Walking helps, but food is very important. Most of the foods here have chemicals and preservatives. I know Japan has these also but not to the extent The US does. Obesity is also rampant here so if someone wants to tell people they are chubby, I think that's better than that person dying from obesity/heart disease 😆

[@ACloudWithoutAir]

​@drunkenpumpkins7401 this ^^^ tho most Americans can't help it on the driving part.

[@drunkenpumpkins7401]

@@KhrisAsaurus Japanse food is full of preservatives to the point it is not even funny anymore. I think it is as equally bad if not worse than the USA. It is really all down to portion sizes. When I studied in Japan for a year and got used to the small portions I never got fat again when I returned, and yes I still crave cheetos from time to time, I just can't eat to much of it anymore. Combine that with my new obsession with walking wherever I want and you get me never becoming fat whatever I eat.

[@PixelaGames2000]

I tend to dress more comfortably and casually, but I don’t really dress revealing. Sure, I might wear shorts in the summer, but those shorts go right above my knee. So, I’m modest in the way I dress, but I also dress more casually and comfortably. I don’t wear skirts, i just wear pants and shorts. I wear T-shirts and hoodies, i don’t really dress formally, unless I’m going to church.

[@itrashcant7947]

This comment section is a train wreck 😭😭 so many sexists and weebs.

[@richardsamueljordan1569]

@@itrashcant7947 it's bizarre how men are now sexist because they like women to be feminine, attractive, friendly and approachable.

[@thomas5585]

None of the women in this video will have sex with you

[@LucarioNinja92]

Great video Nobita! As always, love seeing the different perspectives from people. Hope to see part 2!

[@GameFuMaster]

2:15 strong and independent woman not liking other women not living up to her expectations lol

[@highbrand]

She seemed very judgemental

[@sugarzblossom8168]

You talking about the women with short white hair or the one with brown hair? Either way ot seems you are making something out of nothing. Also where did you get that she is strong and independent?

[@1RyoKami]

She just have personality and her own opinion. It seems she values honne rather than tatemae and fitting in. I think she is correct, and it is nothing wrong with seeing world like she does

[@plasticflower]

@@sugarzblossom8168 We cannot be sure in the end, but it seems to confirm a certain stereotype. When everyone says "It is what it is", she says it's wrong...

[@sugarzblossom8168]

@@plasticflower and weak, dependant can't think something is wrong?

[@bernardquasaar1254]

A lot of men historically went to Japan and were given a heroes welcome by Japanese people. Japanese hospitality is world famous. If you're clueless, its a wonderful place to be (for men.) If you're aware that people are being polite and complimentary because thats the polite thing to do then you realize you're not so special. When I was in Japan it was a different experience for my co-fororeigners who were women. The experience is totally different for them and unless you're a beauty contest winner its very marginalizing for women and isolating there. All the men wont pay attention to you (if that's what you want) and you wont get the heroes welcome that men seemmed to have gotten. I felt bad for some of my female coworkers who took this very personally. Often friendships ended with the sour dismissal of: You probably are just here to sleep with as many Japanese women as possible. Its bad. Same thing happens in other countries where you have a monoculture and visitors living and working there. The other thing is men are subjected to body discussions too. Daily. I lost tons of weight in Japan becuase of poverty (at the start ) but when I returned people pointed out that I was fat or fatter than before. Hard not to take that personally but different cultures have different values. It's not the responsibility of other countries to know you r personal values just because you're visiting them and teaching english for a year or so

[@turpasauna]

Finnish women have had issues with the unequal treatment of women vs men. Also the fact that women are expected to be a certain type, like acting very feminine and putting on lots of make-up. Oh! And Finnish families always split housework and childcare, but it's seen as strange in Japan (even when both parents work).

[@chillingcapybara8528]

Interesting to see the difference in people's face when u tell them u are from the US/Europe vs anyother country. I noticed that when I lie that I am from the US people are more friendly towards me, which is fucked up imho

[@TehAwesomer]

Your content is so interesting, man. Thank you.

[@ChristopherAvila-x6k]

Nobita for President !!

[@richardsamueljordan1569]

Why are there so many people that seem to love Japan then move there without really knowing the culture than think that culture needs to cater to you?

[@sleeper9638]

They're women, they think every country person they ever encounter should cater to their own personal issues

[@neetuh4850]

For me, i actually don't think anything special about how japanese people dress. I didn't think people dressed nicer than normal. I mean, i also lived in italy for 8 years and to me its normal to dress normally, but i live in Canada now and many people aren't dressed well here, mostly men though. So my standard for normal is northern Italian or more what you find in Ginza. In japan you can find many styles and fashion is very trendy in my opinion. I don't agree that everyone dresses the same. I did feel so much pressure to be thin in Japan and i was always on a diet in japan where i lived for 6 years. I feel this pressure everywhere, but more in japan. I often didn't eat. I didn't want to look different from everyone else. My self esteem was low and i was very shy and i wanted to fit in and look like the locals so i had to be super thin, but that's just how i felt, i put a lot of pressure on myself. So this was a me problem, not so much a Japan problem. Italy actually is one of the countries that are top rated for eating disorders, if not number 1. I'm not sure what Western means because every country is different. Italy is very different from germany and england for example. I think japan is an easy place to live for most northern italian women. I can't speak for every italian. Even in a country, everyone is different. I am like an old Japanese woman, i actually have an old Japanese woman inside me. I made friends with obasans in japan, we could understand each other, we had many things in common, and they were very kind.

[@qbmac2306]

8:43 "When Japanese women start a family..." hahaha good one

[@michaeltrinh4394]

Die NTR enjoyer!

[@boomguitarjared]

I really appreciated you ending the video with that ending comment, that in the end Men and Women are different and perfect 'gender equality' is impossible, because men and women are different and want different things. That doesn't invalidate all these issues that have been raised in this video, as they should definitely be considered and taken seriously. It should just be noted that there are no %100 solutions to things, that there are only trade-offs as we look for better alternatives to our problems in our various societies.

[@noahhyslop4835]

Foreigners complain about standards of Japan because they simply can't live up to standards these days.

[@MrWescottX]

Indeed

[@shotgunwound]

That they have little to no standards to begin with.

[@malkontentniepoprawny6885]

I think that if our grandmothers from their youth were sent to modern Japan, they wouldn'tt have such problems.

[@dennisduncan7561]

I think some folks here are just projecting because they can't stand thier favorite island getting the tiniest bit of push back. Grow a thicker skin.

[@dennisduncan7561]

​@@malkontentniepoprawny6885You presume too much

[@JosueC730]

The last words are ultimately correct. The only equality that is possible is equality with the law, justice should be the same for everyone. Besides of that, nothing much.

[@akina1053]

7:00 "Japanese men only marry Japanese women because it's practical." Agree? Disagree?

[@murimurimrui]

With how awful western women are, ya.

[@hastamanana8696]

70% of international marriages in Japan are between Japanese men and foreign women. For some reason, Westerners cannot face this fact.

[@larsgoldgrebe1271]

Another very good video and Miss Eri's last sentence summed it up well in my opinion. Women and men are different. It goes without saying that women should have the same rights as men. But to equate everything is very questionable (and wrong in my opinion). Look at the women's boxing matches at the Olympic Games. Or some parliaments. In Germany, a man who supposedly feels like a woman sits in the government and is thus taking away a (real) woman's opportunity to be involved in politics herself. And there was also an interview with a Japanese woman on another KZbin channel (NihonGo) and this woman said that many women are not interested in changing anything. Their topics are childish for western women, like an upcoming visit to Disneyland or which boy bands are better. But these are the things that Japanese women are interested in (certainly not all of them). And she also said that she doesn't think it's very good that western women want to force their views on Japanese women. They then said, "Sure, not everything is great in Japan, but things aren't any better in other countries either."

[@goldendressgirl2008]

これはインセルの汚水溜めです 😂😂😂😂

[@DesolateSpace594]

Very nice topic

[@-Kenji]

Some of the people here want Japan to work around their values, while not willing to accept Japan's.

[@malkontentniepoprawny6885]

They should leave Japan.

[@mrguiltyfool]

That's most migrants in Canada too.

[@dennisduncan7561]

Who said that?

[@pheunithpsychic-watertype9881]

​@@mrguiltyfoolyet they say let them all in.

[@user-c3jdf9lylzse]

@@mrguiltyfool meanwhile white people retiring to southeast asia belike "i d0nT sp3aK tHe lanGUage" after living there for 10 years

[@alexishi2000]

Great interview!!!!!

[@ICEAiseliasGamingChannel]

I wanted large chest because its looks feminime it looks pretty, Ive been bullied because i have flat chested even its joke way i feel kinda uncomfortable too to have flat

[@ArchiesDoujinshi-qv9uu]

Interesting. I think Japan is something to get used to and I'm amazed at the arrogance of expecting Japanese culture to change and fit what are little more than tourist expectations. If more respect were offered I bet it would be well received. The only thing I find unnerving is when voice actresses suddenly do that high pitched anime voice. That really weirds me out!! But then again I'm a Westerner 🙂 I went to Japan over New Year 2024.

[@tatsumasa6332]

This also relates to masking. Not because of the covid but simply trend of.

[@NullVoid-rm7jm]

1:00 "American woman SHOCKED to discover that people in Japan are expected to take care of themselves" 😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱

[@theboredprogrammer1114]

I have a hormonal imbalance in my ovaries which put me in some medication to regulate my hormones but the side effect is some weight gain. I'm just 68kg for a 5'3" woman in her 30s and I felt like a whale during my last visit in Japan. I have some friends there and sometimes they asked me what happened to me and when I mentioned I got sick or something, the conversation goes awkwardly quiet followed by their apologies. I honestly feel so stressed about my looks in Japan vs in my home country. I'm down a few kgs now since I got my hormones almost regulated; partially thanks to Ozempic which I got prescription to. I still try to dress in a similar Japanese fashion every single time I go there especially I blend seamlessly there as an Asian woman.

[@jOeLwAlBy]

Just stop eating so much and making excuses. I'm 70 something kilos and around 177cm. I'm not american so I can give you some real not fake please spend money and make me rich magic ozempic pill weight loss advice. It's such a minor effect any metabolism factor. Weight is literally calories in - calories out that's it. If I stop you eating so many calories you will lose your fat even if I feed you pure fat but only a few calories it's simple as mate.

[@jOeLwAlBy]

Forgot to add my weight is increasing and I can see it in the mirror so I'm making active steps to intake less calories and it works everytime my weight starts to rise up.

[@stevebojo4378]

It bothers me that all the "foreign" women are way to ethnocentric and can't just accept Japans culture as it is. It seems like they feel they need to change it or "rescue" Japanese women.

[@steemlenn8797]

Yes. It's like those traditional feet bindings on Chinese women. They make cute feet and obedient women. The women may not be able to ever walk properly and it hurts the whole life, but we just need to accept it, don't try to "rescue" them and not be so ethnocentric, right?

[@NeostormXLMAX]

@@steemlenn8797 lmao what a retarded example, thats like me bringing up your people scalping native americans and shit kek

[@victortesla4198]

@@steemlenn8797 weak strawman

[@steemlenn8797]

@@victortesla4198 No, a comparison. To make you ask the question: When is it ethnocentric and when is it not? And if it is ethnocentric, does that automatically mean it is wrong? And is it still ethnocentric when you are saying something that the people inside the country also see as a problem?

[@mrguiltyfool]

More like they can't compete with Japanese women so they are trying to make Japanese women more like them so they have a chance

[@marcelgomes1574]

For the majority of the video, I found the topics very complex to be able to have an opinion. The part where it says that the Japanese don't want help, that is not natural, even animals ask for help.An example was when a dove came to my backyard and asked for food for my dog and she was helped.In addition to the fact that we only evolve as a society because we help each other, we cannot do everything alone. No man is an island.

[@bmona7550]

To be fair most of the mentality in not only found in Japan but in other Asian countries as well. Remarks like weight, and salary is just to be expected and not necessarily meant to be as something bad. Kind of like one of the expected topics for a small talk especially when you reunite with an old acquaintance. Women being more put together in public is also common in some countries in Europe. Many western countries tend to be more sensitive is what I notice but it wasn’t always like that, we just became too comfortable and casual as a society. Also Japanese women preferring slender/thin bodies makes sense considering most Asians women tend to be shorter and if they do get any bigger it’s far more unhealthy at a faster rate compared to a taller person gaining some weight if you look into the BMI scale. It’s not necessarily a good or bad thing all I’m saying is that this mentality is not unique to Japan.

[@neetuh4850]

Nor is it only in Asia.

[@vinipcplayer]

last woman is wise

[@Raijin9278]

Yeah...Too bad if you dont fit the gender roles though

[@malkontentniepoprawny6885]

@@Raijin9278 That's life, I don't fit on the basketball team, I'm too short. I don't want to be rude, but you should write "fit" not "fir", fir is a tree.

[@EnderTea_]

​@@malkontentniepoprawny6885 Not being able to play a sport professionally does not affect your entire life like your gender does in current society.

[@malkontentniepoprawny6885]

@@EnderTea_ That's not the point, the point is that physical or intelligence differences are beyond our control and determine our lives in one way or another, we have no influence on them and anyone who tries to do so by force is doomed to failure.

[@Raijin9278]

@@malkontentniepoprawny6885 Its a typo. I am glad you were able to infer the word I was using!

[@ExxtraSpicyBoi]

I don't think this is a bad thing imo, it make Japan Astoundingly unique becoming the 2nd wealthiest democracy in the world with unpronounced cleanliness including rich pop/Historical culture while maintaining traditional values. The Japanese worked hard to create and keep this balanced harmony this is something to treasure not for other/foreigner to decide but the japenses ppl ...

[@kcjfilms2946]

Now its 4th wealthiest

[@funniest_shit_ever]

you guys arent making any kids, gee I wonder why! (did you watch the video perhaps? or is the wealth not on education system?)

[@bebebaba3442]

@@kcjfilms2946 still one of the best

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

Japanese women aren’t “very very thin” I am thin People there are either like me or they weight more None of them is “very very thin”, I would say they’re normal and not overweight

[@jOeLwAlBy]

What's your BMI is it sub 18?

[@GameFuMaster]

9:16 "over 50%" like what? 51%? 50.1%? woman most affected moment again.

[@acmelbourne]

If they don't like it why don't they leave

[@mysteryguitarhaziq]

Ok they leave but go where? Theres no country that is perfect

[@acmelbourne]

@@mysteryguitarhaziq Go back to the country they came from.

[@sugarzblossom8168]

Unless people commit su* cide over everything then that logic doesn't work because there would be nowhere for most people to go where they like everything

[@sugarzblossom8168]

@@acmelbourne This logic only works if you want people to commit ☠️ or build their own society. Become there will probably be no country that you think is perfect. Unless you somehow seem to think that not liking some things is such a horrible thing and means you hate a country.

[@lucerodj11]

​@@mysteryguitarhaziqHe was referring to finding a better country than Japan, which is nonexistent. Maybe in some parts of Europe there is. like, maybe Iceland? Switzerland? .. I like colder places, though. 😅 I think Japan for me is the best place in Asia right now.. If you compare all Asian countries in the world.. But that is just my opinion tho.. everyone has their own preferences

[@ReyhanehinJapan]

My youtube recommendation when I am planning to study in Japan... 😨

[@tteo_bokki]

People here dress modest, respect it! When I went to Tokyo I had no problem changing the way I dressed to fit social standards!

[@Laura-qo2zc]

@@tteo_bokki you should respect everyone

[@tteo_bokki]

@@Laura-qo2zc I won’t respect people that dress indecent. So no thanks.

[@Laura-qo2zc]

@@tteo_bokki lol. Sick and dumb

[@deanchur]

@@Laura-qo2zc Respect should be earnt; anything that's obtained easily has little value.

[@mikau3256]

I would like to see Pt.2

[@HavokBringerof]

The woman at 10:20 is so based for what she said. While it's understandable that having access to mental health care would be a positive change, I think this gal hits the nail on the head. Men and Women are different, and having separate roles is okay. Living in a world where destroying femininity is the new feminine is disturbing. Japan and other countries do not need to conform to the West's idea of 'modern life'.

[@andreas25693]

why do you mean separate roles? Can't men take care of children while women works? Gender roles are the product of society where we live in. It can be changed. Women usually weaker than men because women have less muscles, it's a biological fact. Women can't be career oriented while having children is false statement because it's not related to biology but to society.

[@andreas25693]

everything changes. There will be a time when saudi arabian women will have same rights to men. You can't stop progress

[@muienpantaipr6929]

​@@andreas25693 💀💀💀

[@sugarzblossom8168]

I roll my eyes when people think feminity is somehow disappearing because women want ( to do ) certain things

[@emytzu]

@@andreas25693 When the oil runs out i guess.

[@davidarreola3860]

Yotsuba😍

[@malkontentniepoprawny6885]

I don't understand this Russian girl (8.59) when it comes to gender roles, in Russia it is the same as in Japan.

[@seiwarriors]

Not exactly when it comes to working as these days the youngesters are both working full time or at least try to bring it most of it.

[@MsAccidentallyhere]

Absolutely not. Women are not treated as voiceless decorations, you can have a career, you have access to childcare, and most importantly families need two good incomes to survive. Japan's ideal is a one-income family.

[@malkontentniepoprawny6885]

@@MsAccidentallyhere You obviously haven't been in Russia and don't know the expectations of women there.

[@MsAccidentallyhere]

@@malkontentniepoprawny6885 that's a hilarious assumption my dear и что же делает тебя экспертом?

[@malkontentniepoprawny6885]

@@MsAccidentallyhere Личный опыт и беседы с русскими.Русские во многом являются стадным обществом, как и азиаты.В отличие от японцев, они не излечились от империализма, сидят в дерьме и говорят, что оно не воняет, и гордятся тем, что другие их боятся, по крайней мере, они так думают; большинство русских женщин хотят традиционных отношений, цветов, подарков, мужчина все платит, мужчина содержит семью, она лежит и пахнет, а если ей приходится работать, то ее деньги принадлежат только ей, деньги мужа тоже принадлежат ей. , как в Японии.

[@krimson_95]

That was interesting. Looking forward to the next part👍

[@street1111]

Hope the typhoon didn't give y'all any trouble

[@isaza5716]

The last few seconds!!! I see it with my own eyes, whole equality is NOT possible. I had a similiar disscusion with my husband yesterday. So, i think the solution are just comprimises and a equal (!) partnership and not equal roles.

[@LucMarcelle]

Learn the difference between equity and equality. What people should be striving for is equity, as equality is a false equivalence that keeps a lot of people, not just women, into a shitty box they don't deserve to be in.

[@isaza5716]

@@LucMarcelle I think I dont say something different. So, yes you are right.

[@deanchur]

@@LucMarcelle Equity is a heinous concept in practice; it's been tried in the past (see: Communism) and has failed every time. It's a form of bigotry against people more capable and harder working than you. If you don't like it then lift your game, be happy with what you've got or go somewhere else instead of trying to drag people down to your level.

[@虎瀬野]

it s easier to find a girl with strong traditional east values in japan compared anywhere else in asia i think..i like girls with long skirt...elegant..

[@NullVoid-rm7jm]

It's incredible how foreigners move to another country and then expect that country to change and conform to them. Just fascinating

[@虎瀬野]

dont know...no problem about style here..and standard, still can keep up with the people..but in korea it spikes a lot.. i feel like the lamest of all there....

[@varieedeventualii]

I'm 40, when i used to live in Japan, all the foreigners I'd meet would almost never complain about Japanese social norms. These kids nowadays go there and complain non stop. Poor Japan, I hope they won't cave in...

[@dennisduncan7561]

Who's complaining?

[@blackbelt2000]

@@dennisduncan7561 ummm everyone in this video. did you not watch it?

[@neetuh4850]

Same! I'm 44. There is a lack of manners and mindfulness, and gratefulness. Also self respect. I can't believe how some people dress.

[@thewepajnc]

Nobita why do always bring kaho on? I'm sure she's not the only "big breast" girl in Japan.

[@Andrew-gn9qp]

Japan got it right, never compromise on your culture for foreigners. The West should be taking notes.

[@珠莉の日々]

Please learn about Japanese history and Meiji era. I agree that Japan shouldn’t change its ways to please western culture, but what you’re saying is plain wrong. Japan has many time compromised to please western country, the US particularly.

[@Neonlight.]

@@珠莉の日々 Almost all the times it happened they were threatened in military and economic ways

[@珠莉の日々]

@@Neonlight. I mean they are still economically struggling and declining right now

[@bebebaba3442]

⁠@@珠莉の日々Japan had made changes but kept core values

[@bebebaba3442]

@@珠莉の日々just like everyone else

[@Mobik_]

Why does 1:50 sounds jealous?! LMAO

[@DrMeikoHayakawa]

Japanese beauty standards and the "femininity", and gender roles as such has a lot to do with Buddhist ideologies that are inherently sexist being from South Asia. Shinto ideologies barely have any rules as the Buddhism. Japan became patriarchal starting from Asuka period. If Japan is. 20 years behind in gender equality, South Asian countries must be 50 years behind.

[@Player-re9mo]

Japan needs western gender equality where women act manly and later cry because they can't find husband

[@malkontentniepoprawny6885]

I do not agree that Japan is 20 years behind anything, it is simply different, a different view is not a sign of backwardness, the ideas of equality as currently understood in the West are nothing more than Marxist ideology from the beginning of the 20th century, implemented in the initial period of Soviet Union existence.

[@ともこともこ-k3r]

Asuka period AD592-710. in AD607.Suiko sent a letter to the Sui Dynasty in China: ``From the Emperor of the Land of the Rising Sun to the Emperor of the Land of the Sunset,'' but she was a woman. It was Emperor Jito who established the name of the country as Japan in the Taiho Code in AD701, but she was a woman. The Emperor was the highest Shinto priest, but Buddhism was also under the control of the Imperial Court. Nara period AD710-794 AD766. Emperor Shotoku appointed Dokyo as Pope, the highest-ranking monk in Buddhism. AD769. An incident occurred in which the Buddhist monk Dokyo attempted to usurp the position of emperor from Emperor Shotoku. Emperor Shotoku was a woman. After this incident, no woman became emperor until the 16th century. Patriarchy began in the Kamakura period (AD 1185-1333) with the succession of samurai family heads. It was then strengthened by Confucianism during the Edo period (1603-1868). It's not Buddhism.

[@Gelato41_]

words that can only come from a gaijin

[@bebebaba3442]

“Inherently sеxist” Ah yes, that tоlеrant westerner moment.

[@ドリフト180X]

Moves to a foreign country with a different culture, then complains that it’s foreign and different? LMAO! No society doesn’t need to change to your different standards, you either could assimilate or move elsewhere more in line with your standards.

[@kabu991]

The end was logical

[@Momo-qo7is]

1) You need to have the right body size (not larger than Japanese M/ UK8/ USA6) with the proper skin colour (based on Japanese standard). 2) You need to dress up well and care very much about the appearance. 3) You need to behave yourself with polite manner with appropriate language. 4) You must not stand out from the crowd. 5) You must not show your real feelings. 6) You need to let men be ahead of you. You need to accept gender inequality, including lower incomes and career opportunities. 7) You need to speak both Japanese and American English well enough in addition to your own language and others that you are proficient in (The Japanese society does not care other major languages that you know). 8) Your work performances need to be better than Japanese men but you can remain humble. 9) You need to be very patient and mentally strong to survive being bullied and to thrive in your own way with self-respect. Basically you need to be proud of your own identity no matter what the society values. ******If you don’t want to face all of this criteria, find a Japanese man to get married with and let him be your shelter in this society while remaining an outcast!

[@zfranke3dome]

You don't need to do any of these. You can choose to be a outcast lol.

[@andreas25693]

6 is bullshit

[@Momo-qo7is]

@@andreas25693 6 is the common issue in the Japanese society and working environments. Japanese women all accept that in silence.

[@Momo-qo7is]

@@zfranke3dome yes from 1-8. However, you need 9 to be able to survive being the outcast without being lost and depressed like other returnees or mixed people).

[@andreas25693]

@@Momo-qo7is I saw many japanese women who act differently. Stop spreading your conservative and sexist bullshit.

[@Sil7M]

but it's not about equality, but equity... respecting the strengths and weaknesses of both genders and realizing that both partake in all the roles, all various societies struggle to find a balance that works for them.

[@drunkenpumpkins7401]

Why should people be ''locked'' in certain roles?

[@zfranke3dome]

@@drunkenpumpkins7401 Nobody is forcing you to be "locked" in to certain roles. Its give and take. You need to give up something in order to receive.

[@azure4100]

People should be locked to certain roles. That's how job gets done. You don't apply as a janitor but act like the CEO. Who the hell you think you are?

[@azure4100]

Funny how delusional people have "expectations" of how other people should behave but when others have "expectations" on you, it's suddenly tyranny and evil.

[@Sil7M]

@@azure4100 who is acting like a CEO? the best person would be the janitor who is learning from the floor go up... but business roles aside...any level you at , if you don't have respect and recognize their values at all levels, the productivity, morale and turnover of your company employees will speak on your behalf...

[@Laura-qo2zc]

So many incels here. Omg

[@goldendressgirl2008]

Fr bro. 😂

[@研治石橋]

- Japanese women, eww, they're all the same, something's wrong with them🤦‍♀ - Actually, as a guy I like Japanese women, and I find them cute and feminine, so maybe get off your high horse and stop trying to change Japan with your Western values?? 🤷🏻‍♂ - Omg you're such an inkel 😡 Wtf? Psychological projection, maybe? I've noticed over the years that this term has been used that it's often unattractive women who call men "incels" after losing arguments. Not being into obnoxious and/or fat ladies does not make any man an incel. The fact that obnoxious, fat ladies can only attract low quality men though, that's a given.

[@problemperson4221]

for real, i dont think they realise the stress of having to conform in japanese society as a woman. if you dont conform, you are quite literally shunned. thats why so many subcultures like gyaru was essentially made to go against the "perfect innocent japanese woman" mold, and weirdos somehow made it about "foreigners dont understand the beauty of japanese culture!!1!1!!1" when its actively harming japanese women???? like there was literally one woman who got snide comments because of the size of her chest (deviating from the more modest chests of the average japanese woman)

[@AKRex]

Finding it hilarious how all those foreign women, who are used to either having double standards or none at all and always had their narcissistic egos catered to back home are suddenly finding it difficult to be in a society that actually has standards.

[@malkontentniepoprawny6885]

I also see it as chauvinism, a belief in the superiority of one's culture and a hidden desire to impose it on others.

[@NeostormXLMAX]

@@malkontentniepoprawny6885 majority of westerners are like this, japan and south korea are about to find out the hard way, what they are really like lmao

[@duncanluciak5516]

Incel

[@michaelgerard2]

It sounds like a bunch of jealous lonely cat ladies.

[@andreas25693]

This comment section sounds like a bunch of slobs with beer belly who like to visit Thailand and Philippines

[@fidybeanbird]

And for some reason only white (pink) women 🙄

[@sugarzblossom8168]

Typical. It is always due to jealousy unless it is positive and because you disagree they must be lonely

[@nicholasperez4102]

lol yes, my thoughts exactly

[@DoumanAsh]

It was the most funniest to see how people outside of japan view normal lady like women as something abnormal

[@dennisduncan7561]

No one accused the women there of being abnormal.

[@bebebaba3442]

Exactly

[@smilingdog2219]

Sounds to me like Japan needs to grow up in the world. Maybe stop using their iPhone cameras up skirts on public transit to the point where the country's made all cameras with loud shutter noises?

[@neetuh4850]

What's wrong with being feminine? We should be ourselves and I'm a feminine woman. Shout out to all the girly girls out there!

[@mr.dynamite2924]

Japan love it or leave it. 😂😂😂😂

[@YahawahshiIsTrueGOD]

Shalawam Everyone. I Give All Praises Admirations And Worships To Our Only 1 Master Superior Presider Provider Protector And True GOD YAHAWAH And His Son HA MASHYACH YAHAWAHSHI 👑 And His Holy Spirit THE RAKAKADASH Only I Pray To The True GOD. Ahman

[@Lucasmagalhaes-vg5ox]

I love the last girl... we are not equal... fighting for 100% equality is delusional... instead of it, we might fight for justice

[@kylekylelam3870]

Men and women are equal if they just do fathers' and mothers' role, just not identical.

[@UnbeltedSundew]

One of the great tragedies of the west is loss of all dressing standards.

[@duncanluciak5516]

Why don't you roll out "Boys used to call their fathers 'sir'"? Terrible take.

[@muajin]

Many foreign women that first move there, do the kawaii style (Cathy cat for example) I guess this is a way that foreign women try to fit in there.

[@richardsamueljordan1569]

Japanese women > Western women

[@tangsoykow6649]

If west society think sloppy/messy look on the name of natural beauty is important value that everyone need to pursue, then i Don't think this kind of freedom is the value i dreamt of 😅

[@おす-qz7kp]

The italian one is the best non japanese in the video in terms of personality

[@malkontentniepoprawny6885]

I think that Japanese women are much more feminine than European ones, my eyesight is good and sometimes I have problems distinguishing whether I see a woman or a man, comes dressed strangely and moves like John Wayne in old movies.

[@yomamashouse8508]

So basically another case study as to why western women are so unappealing nowadays.

[@Myriel67]

Says who??? They are far more beautiful than any Asian will ever be!!!

[@duncanluciak5516]

Found the incel

[@Humble_Opinion]

@@Myriel67 "...and if you look to your right dear travelers, you will see a picture perfect example of a hurt ego." Jokes aside, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And in case of feminine appeal it is the men who are the beholders and statistics paint a clear picture - Asian women especially Japanese are highest rated in terms of both visual, physical appeal as well as prospective partners. Says who? Says the studies based on the hard data on that topic from actual research.

[@nicholasperez4102]

@@Myriel67 SIMP!!! SIMP ALERT!

[@neetuh4850]

You mean American? What is Western? Have you been to italy?

[@bruhinthewild]

It's simple, if you don't want to conform, don't go to another foreign country where you don't like their customs.

[@armastus1474]

When I go to places in Asia with such shallow standards, I always intentionally go outside looking terrible and walk with my head held high and go into nice places, just to show it don’t matter!

[@simonnaylor7983]

It's again this fallacy of an argument. Oh, it's because of the Patriarchy. Blah blah blah... in Japan, women still expect men to work whilst they stop working and look after the kids. On top of that, women get full control of the finances and give the man who works 'pocket money'. It is hardly a patriarchal system that sometimes benefits men as these women are saying.

[@duncanluciak5516]

You're all for the cheating and misogyny too?

[@briancrosby152]

Yuka ( With me Japan) one of nobita's friends I moderate for once had elderly couple want to photograph her stomach. Apparently they never saw a fit girl before? Also The fact Japan idolizes America etc. But won't allow women to dress in whatever way is strange. Like show leg but no cleavage.

[@-Kenji]

No one stops Japanese women from dressing how they want.

[@NeostormXLMAX]

japan hates america lmao, did you not see the reactions on 2ch or 5ch and on twitter on that us ambassador on nagasaki? the only reason why japan tolerates america is because 1# they fear china, and 2# their government is corrupt and essentially is a 80 year long one party state that wants to further neoliberalism, and thus follows reaganomics still in 2024 etc. and thus does the inflation thing. which is why they focus on the wrong things and ask the usa to defend them, no national or state run military or corporations etc, like china, yugoslavia, spain under franco, vietnam, or even the south koreans, which actually adopted soviet style 5 year plans etc.

[@yo2trader539]

Japan doesn't idolize anybody.

[@notalpharius2562]

Italian girl intensifies !

[@neetuh4850]

We have an easy time in japan. We also take care of ouselves and how we dress more than people in other countries. Presentation is important in italy. Being feminine is ok, not something to be ashamed of.