Why Japanese Girls Swindle You

[@Player-re9mo]

Personally, I am worried this will become a worldwide issue. In the past, hikikomori and low sex rate were considered Japanese problems, but are now happening in many other developed countries. There have always been people willing to manipulate others through affection and love. But now they have a platform to manipulate way more people than they previously could. It's a shame.

[@Labyrinth6000]

Get ready for it to be even worse as time goes on. People are finally realizing that they don’t need to reproduce to be happy.

[@rontype1554]

@@Labyrinth6000 That is part of _the plan_ though.

[@AndrewTheMandrew531]

@@Labyrinth6000I don’t see people happy. Rather, people are more depressed than ever before.

[@tommyh4116]

@@Labyrinth6000 We are becoming more hedonistic. This make people happy but only in the short term while they are young. However with no children or family, they will feel worthless later in life as they have no responsibilities or anything to nurture.

[@GameZone-ko4zz]

There is so much industrial development happening around the world, all in the pursuit of a comfortable and happy life. However, it's puzzling why people are not helping each other, why there seems to be a lack of faith, why youngsters are becoming ungrateful, why prostitution exists, and why so many people are frustrated. It's also disheartening to see that ordinary people aren't taking action and always relying on the government. Many issues need to be addressed, and while it's easy to complain, it's much harder to get on the ground and fix them.

[@rontype1554]

As AI is predicted to destroy dating scene even worse, AI can also destroy Host/Hostess industry. At least IRL ones. As unethical as AI is, I don't see why IRL Host/Hostesses is better than AI ones if all they do is give praises, let customer be themselves, etc.

[@mahakhatib27]

This is a very difficult problem. It's like onlyfans, but in this case its affecting girls more than I would have thought. Girls tend to like guys who are f boys or bad boys, while the nice guy is left in the dust. I believe the solution is to go back to valuing a traditional way of life, man is the leader of the house and works while women stay home and supports her man. When society tries to do something different from this, it benefits the minority of people while the majority suffers. These are just my thoughts, and I am open to hearing more solutions.

[@dangerzzzone2925]

That has only been select for the wealthy. Woman of the working class which is the vast majority of the population have always worked. People romanticize something that never was for a good majority and in practice felt like a cage to many. We need to improve not regres.

[@huwhitecavebeast1972]

There is that, but also many men have lost the warrior ethos. They are overly sensitive man-babies. That's why they are more with bad boys. Girls don't want to be abused, but they do want to have rough sex and guys pull their hair and whatnot. The bad boy provides that. Women are wired to be attracted to aggression. Also women like to do things simply because they are naughty. I can't stand the feminized men. Traditional values for men means learning violence, and courage to act in the face of dangerous things. If you can be the violent savage when appropriate, and kind and caring when appropriate, that is what women want. If you have a small penis, you better be exceptionally good looking or exceptionally wealthy. If you are ugly you better have a big dick or lots of money.

[@simovihinen875]

"Girls tend to like guys who are f boys or bad boys" - Did you watch the video? Are you here just to push your narrow-mindedness?

[@mahakhatib27]

@@dangerzzzone2925 So then what is your solution. If more women go to college and work, then the cost of living would have to increase with two incomes in the house. In the video, the women waste their money on host clubs and are swindled out of their money, so perhaps being a girl boss is not the solution. Also, women don't want to work all their life. I would know, I am a woman myself who works and I am not married. Many women feel how I feel, and I am certainly not the minority.

[@thathandsomedevil0828]

Women like men whom are FACIALLY GOOD LOOKING. the sooner you understand this the better. Every F boy is FACIALLY GOOD LOOKING this is why they can get away with literal murder and the rest of us average guys get nothing but being ghosted.

[@Cristuuu]

meanwhile we foreigners would love date a japanese girl

[@mikaelb.]

Sorry to break it to you, but those women would most likely rather avoid dating any foreigners. They, for the most part, have no interest in them.

[@ResZCreator]

@@mikaelb. As people from southeast asia epsecially Indonesia i disagree. Because many youngmen here get married with japanese girl, Come to japan as worker at first. that's include philipphines and malaysia. You can see there are so many kids in japanese, many of them come from this married. Around 10k married till today, dont ever get enought from internet bruh. Just see by yourself for the reality

[@thathandsomedevil0828]

Good luck with that plan. I am finding myself being put off Japanese women with every video about the country I watch. They are mid women at best but they are demanding a high premium instead. Makes no sense, wake up and smell the coffee, they are certainly not worth the hype.

[@Cristuuu]

@@thathandsomedevil0828 depends on your taste, I dated a japanese before, she was a bit crazy, but I'm used to those type of girls, the type that lie a lot and make cuts on legs and arms. I took really good care of her knowing the type of girl she was and she even stopped lying and we are friends to this day, she is so fun and made great improvements, stopped doing drugs, etc, we even do sexual things once in a while. she's the cheater type, sometimes she gets a boyfriend and cheats and a lot on him and tell me, so I wont date her seriously, but she's young now, maybe one day I'll marry her

[@Cristuuu]

@@mikaelb. it depends a lot, if you're beatiful many will be interested, they wont be serious tho. but they will be serious if you make her fall in love, so it's just about being beatiful and make her fall in love

[@wannabe41]

This is very disheartening. But it’s nothing new. Exploiting the weaknesses and insecurities of vulnerable people. The dark side of mankind that exists in all cultures. I hope the people trying to help these young women get more support from the government.

[@Braxtonkai]

and in all likelihood it was government policy that cause the loneliness that drives these people to these places. Legislation will only kick the can down the road, or create other issues. Address the root cause

[@Nanohamage]

@@Braxtonkai what government policy caused loneliness? it's rly just social media

[@Braxtonkai]

@@Nanohamage the same ones that make it harder to build families and have children.

[@MiguelDLewis]

These young ladies need Jesus. I remember when I lived in Japan, I would go on dates and some of the women were so dishonest and superficial. They judge men by their looks or their money and not by their holiness. That's why they're so easily targeted. It's as if the only good women in Japan are in the church. "A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the lord." - Ecclesiasticus 26:23 ✝

[@Nanohamage]

@@MiguelDLewis giving away women based on your moral achievements is kinda sus. That aside women all around world are pretty much similar and rarely will you find somebody pick their partner based on faith so it's not unique to japan or even women, also japanese aren't even christians to begin with idk why you would promote jesus as solution

[@lchn12345678]

this host/hostess issue is just a symptom of the disease, and there are multiple layers to this disease.

[@cxireen2193]

Men.

[@bruninhamrso]

No. The issue is tatemae vs honne. Until people get to REALLY be seen, heard, understood, accepted by who they really are, this emotional starvation will never end, regardless of sex. And the fake nice and avoidance of conflict (resistance to the truth) is what brought Japan to what it is now.

[@aFinalNote]

The mental gymnastics they do to justify their swindling is impressive. Such a refreshing line in a world of liars

[@otose4206]

I read this comment with Johnny Silverhand's voice in my head.

[@pahakuutti]

Sure, but it's the same for men pretending the women are the victims, even when they are clearly the abusers and perps. No drug dealer would get away with this excuse of him using drugs too, to avoid prison or accountability. Yet it's used in this vide when it comes to women.

[@spaceowl5957]

If the genders were reversed then the customers would be seen as the immoral exploiters, and the sex workers would be seen as the poor victims we need to protect.

[@zerosam5541]

@@spaceowl5957 those men would be clowned for spending money on a women that is on a club

[@juhadexcelsior]

@@zerosam5541 it already happens with onlyfans lol

[@cosmic_order]

The things loneliness can do to the soul

[@MiguelDLewis]

Not loneliness, lust.

[@cosmic_order]

@@MiguelDLewis Both

[@MiguelDLewis]

@@cosmic_order Not even both. It's just lust. If loneliness played any part, they would volunteer or do some other type of social work to connect with others.

[@cosmic_order]

@@MiguelDLewis I'm not Japanese, but from what I have seen and heard, it doesn't seem like connecting with others is an easy, quick or simple thing there. I live in an american city and even here many people have difficulty cultivating deep and stable friendships once they are adults. They also seem more interested in romance and marriage than just sex. Sex is a part of the picture but not the whole picture.

[@Adonna2424]

You have no idea, especially for disabled and immune compromised, because we are still under the threat of COVID. I've lost everything: job, friends, can't go anywhere, can barely access my healthcare without risks of infection. There's now no hope of dating, social events, etc. It's so incredibly lonely.

[@armorbearer9702]

Interesting, it appears the hosts target girls from the country(3:50) and runaways(7:19). The common factor is that both groups are isolated from their family. If possible, rural parents should try to visit their daughters in the city as often as they can.

[@awesome9650]

Unless they straight up start living with them its not really gonna help. Its pretty easy to hide stuff from your parents if they're only visiting for the weekend or something.

[@Neonlight.]

Lonely girls in general are the most vulnerable, rural girls moving to the city alone are just likely to feel lonely at some point even because they need to build friendships from scratch

[@casualweekday-ytshadowbang2469]

I feel for the parents who spend their savings of a lifetime for the daughters’ college education, send them to the big city; whereas the latter only learn how to become girls of the streets.

[@4zir856]

my counterargument is that if you become isolated enough, you become more vigilante for such things, even paranoid about intentions. I never take any positive from strangers as facevalue.

[@bruninhamrso]

​@@4zir856 but these people are emotionally starved. We know in western countries the men who are alone are taken advantage of because they too are emotional starved.

[@naranja1972]

"the host is the first to ever treat me as a woman" lol it's so funny because the only reason they treat you nice is bc you are giving them money. it's crazy they would go on the scam innocent men then same way the hosts are scamming them. they know they are scamming their victims yet fail to realize the hosts are scamming them.

[@yenmeng]

Vile people fr

[@GTRNights]

Dude it's all hypocrisy all the way around. These girls just want a really hot guy and willing to do anything to get them, and they don't care what stands in their way. If their morals are so low that they are willing to sell their own bodies and scam other men out of money for this... they are not victims. They are victimizers and enablers. They carry every bit as much blame. They know what they're doing. They didn't just accidentally fall down on the bed and open their legs.

[@martindang7333]

They’re not stupid, they know that they’re being scammed. It’s just that the emotional need is too strong.

[@tontj]

The situation in Japan actually happened in both side. The women being tricked by host club, meanwhile the men is tricked with kabakura, girls bar, maid cafe, etc. They took the weakness in people's emotion and exploit them to the fullest.

[@MiguelDLewis]

This is what happens when you have capitalism but no Christianity to balance it out.

[@Mk-qb2ny]

@@MiguelDLewis It's not "capitalism". What are you yapping about. Swindling happens in every culture and economic system.

[@Abdure]

⁠@@MiguelDLewis? Bro is jumping hoops and not seeing the holes in his statement. Japan isn’t a religious country, aka not lots of churches but lots of temples. They don’t have lots of exposure to different religions in their day to day life, so what would a religion do if you don’t have a community to support each other. 2. The church is seen as cults in Japan, cult leaders like the unification church and others took advantage of Christianity to scam other people out of their money, and since the 1995 sarin attack most Japanese people are sceptical of religion in of itself. So most of the are atheists. So your No Christianity to balance it out is basically a stupid assertion from a person who thinks the whole world is similar to his mindset, narrow.

[@XhoowieX]

​@@MiguelDLewisChristianity? What does that do to help? The most powerful organisation and individuals involved in Christianity are notorious for enabling and covering up mass numbers of sexual offences against children.

[@AnthonySmith-x5z]

@@XhoowieXwhen you do statistics you find out islam and hebrews molwst more people per priest. But that is never talked about

[@okamichamploo]

I wonder if the lack of more natural "出会い" or encounters where you can meet and flirt with regular people might be part of the issue. In Japan people generally keep to themselves and so unlike foreign countries where people often flirt and meet people in cafes or parks, etc. In Japan it's really hard to meet anyone new outside of your established social circles and once you are out of school and have a daily job that circle becomes rather small.

[@plasticflower]

Isn't that the same problem in every country? How is it easier to meet people in countries other than Japan?

[@jts1702a]

Some Nordic countries, or North American suburbs are suffering from this same issue on a massive scale. If we don't do something to change the nature of our social fabric, our societies will be next.

[@adambane1719]

@@plasticflower Because here in Japan the daily work schedule is from 07:30am - 10pm and includes weekends

[@plasticflower]

@@adambane1719 If you work at a black company, yes.

[@casualweekday-ytshadowbang2469]

Instead of spending so much money in Kabukichô, they could practice sports, join some hobby group, take some cooking lessons etc. for way less money. They could also make friend through volunteer activities, which is/was quite popular in Japan.

[@rydzr3746]

I am very glad you called this out as it is. I would rather be cast out than emotionally manipulate people

[@flakcannon722]

Japanese woman have been doing the same thing to men since the host/hostess concept came to be. How it it only a problem when it happens to women?

[@howdoilogin]

Because Japanese people eat tofu which is made of soy. Hence the extinction-level birth rate.

[@lastninjaitachi]

Agreed its like only fans in the west. Its out of control. Women now have accounts that are just bots pretending to flirt with men spending thousands. Why is that not addressed

[@natsukimomoi334]

How are they victim, they chosed to go to those club...Nobody forced them to do so.

[@vorynrosethorn903]

Consent morality at it's finest.

[@multicolores1]

I think people who goes there are a victim of the system that allows host clubs can exists. It Is legal SCAM.And scam is criminal. Just because it's legal ( host club and another kind of this business) doesn't mean it's not criminal. First of all we must understand that people who works there are all people with very very poor human values.

[@multicolores1]

They are a victim of the system that allows host clubs can exists. Is legal SCAM.And scam is a criminal. Just because it's legal ( host club and another kind of this business) doesn't mean it's not criminal. First of all all we must understand thah people who works there are all people with very very poor human values.

[@seloschki663]

What about people who join cults for example? First a victim of loneliness, boredom or lack of confidence. And then a victim because the hosts know what to say or what to do for you to come again.

[@plasticflower]

It's partly the idol industry that enables this sort of host business. Like he said in the video, the hosts are "coded" to look like typical Johnny's or BTS boy groups young girls idolize. A visual shorthand, so to speak. They get a feeling of being with a celebrety, especially with their faces plastered onto signs outside the building, and the luxurious surroundings. Of course, it's all rooted in upbringing, but the most neglected girls are also the most prone to get heavy into idol culture. The two-factor authentication for becoming a victim of host clubs.

[@Bristecom]

I wonder though... if these girls would just "settle" for a normal guy, they wouldn't have any of these problems. But it seems most of them choose to do this because they just want the feeling of being with a celebrity.

[@smigi3300]

I think trying to solve the host problem in Japan itself is like trying to cure a symptom of a disease rather than the disease itself. It doesn't really matter how effective the measures against it are, as the market will either adapt to the new rules and change the approach, or a new scam will develop. If you want to solve the problem you have to zoom out the picture and ask yourself, "Why is this a problem in the first place? What are these woman lacking that gets them susceptible to such scams in the first place? ". Then either try to solve that problem, or zoom out further until you find a root problem, which upon solving it will solve most problems below. But knowing Japan and it's problems, everything is a interconnected like a messy spider web, making solving any problem a much bigger challenge.

[@alfredopuente9147]

How are you going to change the entire Japanese culture? The main issue comes from Shintoism - Buddhism that teaches not to intervene and the idea of gaman. That is the recipe to begin a society where feelings are repressed through tatemae... Then we jump to mental problems, loneliness, etc... Then we jump to alcoholism and this hosto/hostess sh...

[@piotrmalewski8178]

Just like a single faulty cog can break an otherwise good complicated machine, sometimes a complicated problem can have simple reason. The reason for lonelines in most people is poor social skills and lack emotional awareness, and to develop those one should have a lot contact with other people since early age. And this seems to be the problem that destroys Japanese society; since early age they have so much mork and social interactions get formalised so early, they just don't have time or breathing space to practice their social skills and emotional awaraness. It gets even worse when they grow up and have to go to work; they have to commute to work, then spend 12-16 hours at work, then go back and don't even have enough time to sleep. This much work and that little time to rest and have own time, could break an otherwise healthy person and then they don't have time or skill for any social interactions. They are bound to be lonely and both mentally and insitutionally unable to escape their loneliness, so they have to resort things like maid cafes and host clubs to get any illusion of companionship. Not like the same problem doesn't occur elswhere. '8-8-8' has long since been an obsolete solution since people don't live just by their workplaces like they used to in XIXth century, but Japan with culture of working over 12 hours a day just puts their people at even worse situation socially.

[@palody_en-ja]

All they need is tougher regulation. It's ridiculous that host/hostess clubs, soap lands, and pachinko parlors are still in the grey zone of legality here.

[@Aerroon]

@@palody_en-ja But that kind of industry exists in other parts of the world without this kind of a problem. Prostitution is legal in a lot of European countries for example. Not just an offshoot like soap land, just straight up. Also illegality of it, in Europe at least, didn't actually get rid of it either.

[@Confederate115]

Is it confined to just "hosts"? In the west this behavior is just "women" in general. The whole world is getting swallowed up in materialism, loneliness and greed. Most of it caused by lies we watch online. That one girl being manipulated by marriage promises was kind of heartbreaking. Kind of.

[@mikesyria1787]

From the country where porn stars are idols

[@DashedSimpusMaximus]

Imagine sending your daughters to Tokyo or another big city and thinking they'll be educated to become engineers or something, but become prostitutes instead.. Damn that's salt in the wound. And all those destroyed lives and wasted money, all those wasted future's that could've been.. Will they be disowned if the family discovers this fact?

[@acmelbourne]

A percentage of J families ditch their daughter after finding out.

[@stam_ehad]

Being lonely is hard, too bad they found their relief in hosts instead of giving a chance to a normal guy I believe they would've been more happy

[@devilslayer3548]

Being lonely is not hard

[@kiszkjmt8564]

dating a fking loser would make them happy 😂😂😂

[@marcgabrielfider]

You're right being lonely is not that hard but it also kills you slowly. ​@@devilslayer3548

[@moastray5093]

they are not poor victims, they scam other people by will... why they arent in jail?, if they where man they would been imprision... the host are gonna be imprisioned and the girls who as well scam others arent gonna suffer any punishment because they where "victims"

[@LipraAiX]

This issue can't be stopped and has already evolved in a digital manner. An example is vtuber, where they're basically doing the same as the girl in the video. Making sob stories or doing girlfriend/boyfriend experiences.

[@Braxtonkai]

eh, sorry. They weren't forced to visit host clubs and certainly weren't forced to give money. This will result in legislation that just hurts adjacent industries. Address the problem that causes people to go to these places.

[@thathandsomedevil0828]

You mean female attraction to men with good looking faces? How on earth do you address that?

[@Braxtonkai]

C'mon try harder than that. You can do it

[@thathandsomedevil0828]

@@Braxtonkai dude I wish it was the case, I suppose you will have to be ok with the fact that the woman can cheat on you and quite possibly regularly if she finds someone more attractive than you. Japanese women in particular have no qualms cheating on their partners. That or she might just stop being intimate with you claiming that it is too much of a hassle..

[@SugarFang]

I first heard about this in the manga "Tomorrow, I'll Be Someone's Girlfriend", where one of the girl's starts sex work to support a host and it was so sad to read. I wasn't sure how often it happens in real life though.

[@acmelbourne]

Similar, 1/ The girl starts going to host bar needs more money to keep going, gets job as hooker 2/ Girl bumps into old school friend, who mentions she earns $900 a day working the trade so girl gets job in night trade 3/ Girl likes high end designer goods so she gets job in trade to buy them. Literally all these girls don't tell parents, BF or husband nor their normal employer

[@jctai100]

This is like meta-pimp level game. Butters take note.

[@FromDkWithLove]

Nothing meta about it.

[@spaceowl5957]

But the men are the prostitutes, how can this be turned around so people say it’s still the women getting “pumped out” when they are actually the customers and the males are prostituting themselves?

[@7RicolmE7]

@@FromDkWithLove Most Effective Tactic Available (M.E.T.A. aka META)

[@andrewpowell1734]

Wow! This is one of the most honest channels on KZbin.

[@ilcilc2910]

Agreed but even the owner of this channel has caved to the "mob" due to very zealous opposition. It's rare but it has happened. Yuta (I think that's his name.) is human after all and the "clapback", right or wrong was always extremely intense.

[@shirolee]

Holy sht. That is some horrible stuff and makes me sick to my stomach. I had assumed that host clubs had been in decline for years now and that these things weren't happening anymore, but the fact it still is around and is possibly even worse is worrying.

[@kingmaafa120]

What’s not being discussed is a lrg pct of women & girls who go into the adult industry AV to pay off their debts … some even get coerced into anyway..

[@blessparco]

I think these women should learn the art of emotional detachment and knowing their worth as well as self love. I think they should also realize that men should value them back too. They'll also have a much easier time moving on if they become a victim of this if they start having these traits.

[@thathandsomedevil0828]

They should but when they see that handsome good looking host, their brains shut down and go gaga. Happens to women every where, they see a good looking man and absolutely everything else goes out the window.

[@blessparco]

@@thathandsomedevil0828 they should also realize that looks aren't everything. It's going to be very difficult for them to detach indeed, most especially if they don't have a strong personality.

[@zerosam5541]

​@@blessparco looks is everything and they struggle to settle down or lower their standards it's why male host get so much money because good looking men are rare

[@blessparco]

@@zerosam5541 for those who's just after the looks and not the attitude yes. Good thing, I'm not after the looks at all because what's the point of a man being handsome if he's very hard to deal with. If that's the case for me, then I'll auto detach LOL.

[@Momo-qo7is]

Thank you so much Nobita San to be the reporter of Japan to the world 🎉… Once people outside Japan see that this trend is successful in Japan, they can probably copy the same approach to their countries. Many women have hidden trauma so they need attention from men (although attention can be bought by money). Basically this business earns a lot of money from their traumatic experiences…

[@organicage38]

this is why the world is going AI and Robots

[@MrWescottX]

Ikr.

[@devlinthornicroft9975]

Every time I go to Japan with my Japanese wife I’m left speechless by how many of these host bars there are. It’s a world which as an outsider is oddly fascinating and impenetrable. I’m not saying it’s good or I want to experience it, rather it’s just so different to things here in the UK.

[@cheeeeezewizzz]

I knew an American who used to work in one. some hire foreigners if they speak Japanese very well.

[@chahinebourenane6291]

Thanks for the vide Nobita-san! I was so hapoy to receive a sueprise notification from you!

[@ralphsunico116]

If the hosts helped Japanese men talk to Japanese women, instead of swindling and exploiting Japanese women, they could save Japan.

[@armorbearer9702]

Oh, like that movie with Will Smith, _Hitch_

[@Nanohamage]

you mean holding courses like red pill coaches?

[@boomguitarjared]

They could even make a service out of it and make money, whilst saving their country!

[@dhekkafox]

@@Nanohamage not like them .. because they make women want to become lesbians at each word they say

[@chithiennguyen1371]

You can say the same about Hostress. It not gonna happen, they don't get paid as much.

[@vktravellog1242]

This happens in a lot of countries. Japan has changed a lot over the decades and as morale values go out the window so does the country

[@ResZCreator]

yeah, just elder people in japan get the firm for being polite and high morale

[@MiguelDLewis]

@@ResZCreator Nah elders in Japan are pretty undesirable to put it mildly. I was driving in Nagoya one time and an old Japanese guy pretended that I hit him. The police just laughed at him and apologized on his behalf.

[@plasticflower]

@@MiguelDLewis haha, fun story! Please share more.

[@MiguelDLewis]

@@plasticflower Yeah but don't get me wrong, it's not all the elders. There was a nice old lady next door where I lived who would give me sweet potatoes. Her husband was a doctor but he passed while doing aid work in Africa so she was all alone. Japanese elders are either absolute saints or scoundrels, there's seemingly no in between.

[@plasticflower]

@@MiguelDLewis I'm tempted to agree

[@bored8321]

Seeing what's going on in Japan are just signs to come for the rest of us. Granted the culture is heavily conformist and with ties to neo-confuscius values of hierarchal structures - however the issues present such as the one being showcase by Nobita, can easily translate itself globally.

[@ChimpoLust]

It's a fascinating food-chain modern Tokyo has created for itself (and probably all the other big Japan cities). Lonely, emotionally starved women go to Host Clubs, get in debt and are forced to go into romance-scamming or prostitution to make money. Lonely, emotionally and sex starved men go to these women as clients. Losers who wish they could get the women that these hosts get - they now can actually get (for a price). That money they pay the girl for sex service goes back to the Host , the apex predator. What does the Host do with all that money? Do they have to share it with a Boss? Do they have significant others (real ones, not fake ones).

[@michaelj6392]

I remember reading an article by a western guy that got a job as a host in Japan probably like 15 years ago. He said it was hard because he basically had to drink heavily with the guests all night every night to make money so it really took a toll on his health.

[@plasticflower]

You bet it does. Can you imagine what most guys in this video will look like in their 40s or 50s? Especially that one with the spider web tatoo on his neck LOL They're probably too stupid to leave enough money in the bank, so when their looks fade they can't be hosts anymore, but also can't do any other decent work because of their "history"... I guess they'll be the ones who line up in front of pachinko hall shutters in the morning, waiting for the place to open.

[@lacucaracha111111]

Jeez weaponized, monetized social lonelyness abuse .-.

[@MiguelDLewis]

Not loneliness; lust.

[@EXO-Z]

Thats pretty messed up,ngl

[@ductritran8637]

Only in japan you have this kind of male host bars / clubs for girls who seeking comfort because of loneliness . So many lonely peoples both old and young even teenagers , the society need to change from work and life to get its balance . Lots of depression peoples because of the unbalanced life made them self isolation some even suicide to escape . Sad to see Japan society heading this way .

[@MiguelDLewis]

This is actually good. It'll encourage people to repent of their sins and come to Christ. Once all the glamour and beauty and illusions of this fallen world fade, you can finally see clearly and pursue what's really important: holiness.✝

[@Eladnih]

ZERO sympathy for me for "victims" of host. Dating dozens of men to steal their money to give to host... HELLO? Dozens of men right there that wanted her, but she wants handsome sociopaths. Your fault.

[@geebee8989]

Exactly! Tired of this cuddling of women who are making terrible decisions.

[@cxireen2193]

You do realize most of those "men who wanted her" were only after her hole right?

[@michaelquinones-lx6ks]

My Japanese illusions have been totally destroyed.

[@MiguelDLewis]

Join the club kid.

[@MiguelDLewis]

The things of this world will always disappoint you. Follow Jesus instead.✝

[@michaelquinones-lx6ks]

@@MiguelDLewis You got that right! This world stinks, And, Thank you for responding to my comments.

[@Ceasarsalate]

I just don’t understand? Don’t these women have any brothers, fathers or some uncles?

[@ipostlamememesallthetime953]

Oh, hey! One of my favorite mangas kinda covers this topic it's called _"Shinjuku Swan"_ (Recommeded for Adult audience. It has some nudity scenes here and there) It deals with clubs scouting for women to swindle men into racking up high tabs, women who work as prostitutes to pay off debts, rival gangs competing for dominance, drugs, fist fights, etc

[@vaderyoda9321]

Another great informative video Nobita. Halfway through, the subtitles become blury.

[@stunseed8385]

ngl, some of those host guys aren't even people to write home about in terms of look? What is this desperation?

[@moastray5093]

the men in the daiting apps are victims too, why they arent mentioned?

[@Justjeroam]

Falling for the illusion of someone liking you speaks a-lot about the individual, l would rather be in the company of complete strangers than pay someone to pretend to be a friend for even be interested in me for one hour. 🙇🏽‍♂️🙏🏽

[@havefuntazarasu5367]

Japanese government: since we cant make the greater asia happen, we decided to erase all our culture, honor, traditions, ans people, and trade those with money

[@snurf7593]

emotional immaturity of sheltered people often results in such bad choices unfortunately, God bless them.

[@MiguelDLewis]

This is lust, not just emotional immaturity.

[@calypsohandjack9278]

Autism is one hell of a drug.

[@calypsohandjack9278]

@@MiguelDLewisit is lust, and westernization, which is a cancer to Japan.

[@MonkeysInMyHouse]

Best journalist in japan

[@adridesu1]

It's actually so fascinating and mind blowing how in Japan not only do women prey on men, financially, like in every country, but also men prey on women, which is pretty much only a Japan thing as far as I know.

[@juhadexcelsior]

uh...onlyfans? twitch? vtube?

[@adridesu1]

@@juhadexcelsior If a man uses those to make money, he uses those to make money mostly from other men, not women.

[@decwow]

I mean.... women have been doing this in the same type of clubs for many, many, many years. It's a problem worthy of government action only once men start doing it? This response is going to be noticed by every guy out there that's already wary of trusting a woman long enough to get into a relationship... but hey... nothing will help get your people out of the demographic collapse pit quite like digging even deeper. These problems are crazy, but I can't help but notice from past trends how these reactions cause further problems because they're never applied equally.

[@Evaevagelina]

It's not like it's the women's fault, they're just working. These men are lonely and end up clinging to something that is not real. They need psychological help.

[@Quasiguambo]

As a western man... I feel like this situation we are looking at in Japan is crazy and backwards, and with the other side of the coin - men being the victim of this kind of thing... I think it makes all the evolutionary sense, well.. not quite how things are today, that is clearly to blame on capitalism gone crazy, and the s*x market being so... standardised, and easily enterable... But do you know what I mean? Male libido and how it's easier for attractive women to either go do s*x work, or find a partner they want, no? Like, I do think when I was younger I could have done s*x work if I wanted, but I doubt my clientele options would be as vast as an attractive woman (y'know old women would be the majority of my clientele lol). But... I don't think things will ever go back to how they were before. And it isn't INSANELY bad.. there are still very attractive women doing normal jobs being normal. But it does blow my mind that women in Japan are so desperate that they are falling into traps like this. With male examples in the west... I mean I don't know anyone who took anything any further than paying a cam girl. And I do know some pretty sad dudes lol. But to have sad, lonely dudes makes sense to me. And women can be that way of course. But is dating really not an option for so many women in Japan? We're supposed to bread winners... supposed to be in a good head space. These requirements are getting harder and harder. And I feel like Japan is even traditional when it comes to gender requirements, surely no women should feel pressured into s*x work at the behest of some guy? Do the Japanese just not have the notion that if a guy seems like he's shaking you down for money... just go elsewhere? How are these women so broken. Crazy. It's crazy to me.

[@wingedhussar1453]

How dare men use the system like women do lol😊

[@Quasiguambo]

@@wingedhussar1453 I think the idea is that nobody should others in such a way.

[@wingedhussar1453]

@@Quasiguambo tell tht to us women

[@charmiedavis3350]

long time lurker first time poster. thank you for this informative video

[@BTjs321456]

I just saw a foreigner youtuber who shared how she decided to make a documentary discussing the "disturbing" phenomenon of both high success rates & multiple number of daily suicides in Japan where people suiciding by throwing themselves onto the tracks of trains arriving at platforms because she recently traveled to Japan & encountered a delay to her train trip which led her to her discovery. She even found previous clips of high school girls recording & sharing live videos on train platform bidding farewell before disappearing as a train arrived. I like many Japanese things, but as I seek to understand Japan more & see more of these soft-white underbelly society issues being discussed, it is beginning to become more apparent to me that the Japanese having high-consideration for others, which made many Japanese super-polite(a good thing), & the strive for excellence & perfection which makes Japanese products reputable for their premium quality, the Japanese culture which helps propelled Japan to its success today, yet at the same time, those cultural characteristics of Japanese society, might also be what is creating such a highly strung & stressful society which makes the Japanese people especially amongst the youths & younger ladies, who are at the age when many of them with lower-self-esteem, would make them inevitably seek words of praise, approval & recognition which they do not easily receive in their normal day-to-day life?

[@kingmaafa120]

Yup

[@HYDRAdude]

In America we have the same thing except it's done online on places like Twitch.

[@YoutubeNo-ng4so]

And it's been normalized lol

[@mikloridden8276]

@@KZbinNo-ng4so Instagram is infamous for that, I wonder what it will take to bring them all down

[@juhadexcelsior]

onlyfans, and even more normalized than host clubs.

[@dannylo5875]

I see drinking becoming worse because of stagnation wages and low priced Jobs. As well as economic pain where you are not making anything. Like the problem with people scamming is that it's not a new problem...its not old. Just difficult to address because its assumed you need a ton of resources to prosecute.

[@richardsamueljordan1569]

To pretend to be the in love with someone just for money is actually just evil.

[@RacerX888]

This may be a radical solution, but how about banning these types of clubs? Is it because they are so popular with men (female hostess clubs) and they don't want to lose their fun?

[@ResZCreator]

You don't know how the people work nowadays, said it you ban the club, of course they will make another one with different way

[@tontj]

They will just make a different club or make it go underground.

[@BrittonHenry]

Nobita my heart goes out to this beautiful young Japanese woman who are going through a lot i want to be the one to help out as much as I can and japanese men in general that's my opinion

[@trollingisasport]

Why are you whispering? Did your neighbors get mad at you?

[@Hachi-Roku86268]

İnsanların çöpe atıcak ne kadar çok parası var.

[@Christian988.]

Well that was a depressing video.

[@TalesOfGothic]

I always love your constant upload of interesting videos about Japanese society.

[@MrWescottX]

Indeed. For their country

[@deemon710]

Isn't this the same case for men in Japan? Why make a deal out of it for women?

[@mztokyo7630]

Japan should not have lowered the age of adulthood from 20 to 18. Now inexperienced JP youth can legally borrow money and sign contracts. And it is rather sexist to only protect women. Are women special and unable to protect themselves from predatory men? But men are not special and offer no protection from predatory women? A very complicated problem with complicated solutions. Japan's education system should focus on teaching students actual working skills rather than focus on 2,000 years of history.

[@LemifromJapan]

Thank you for interviewing me again,Nobita kun! I actually wasn't aware of this issue,but it's a very big issue to be solved. 🙏 Thank you for your bringing this up.

[@Ceasarsalate]

I thought he’d notice me if I gave him more money?! Gurl what??!??!!!

[@oceanocean9234]

I consider these hosts “Low level guys “ & the girls who like them live in the fantasy world

[@librarycard3748]

It's an infatuation with the pretty boy Chad. Some women who are lonely are willing to do anything to have his attention. Kinda like lonely men who are willing to pay for female attention through prostitution. Same shit, only difference here is that women are looked at as the victim whereas men, the perpetrator...like always.

[@joecool2759]

Matthew 11:28-30 CSB [28] "Come to me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. [29] Take up my yoke and learn from me, because I am lowly and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. [30] For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."

[@neoncorolla6917]

Don't feel sorry for these women. What the hosts do to them, they are doing to their customers. Scammers getting scammed.

[@Jonastice]

Hosts are very dangerous

[@truth6242]

So their parents do not teach them how to be street smart and not fall for the bullshit out here in the world??

[@staceyk.210]

Bottom Line Is This!! Theirs nothing people wouldn't do for Money 💰!! And at the end of the day being poor or lonely or just plain desperate can create a Scenario that's Dangerous Painful and Heartbreaking!! Case Closed 😮😮

[@Hana90s]

So true! The need for these young people to feel validated and recognized is the main reason why these scams work. On the other hand, if money can buy happiness, even if only momentarily, all be it! What is "true love" in this day and age, anyways? I have friends who go out with men just for their money. I have heard men who brags about constantly changing girlfriends because he has money to do so. It's all a barter system now. Sad but true.

[@yasaiasazuke]

芸者屋のお酒も高いです。たぶんホストは古い風習の新しい形です。芸者にたくさんのお金を費やすことも悪いですか。

[@thathandsomedevil0828]

Of course! It's a waste of money that could be spent on one's self and family to build for the future.

[@Iskelderon]

2:37 She defrauded someone to the tune of over 25,000 dollars and got to walk free... 5:30 Once it was done to her in return she claims to suddenly feel remorse? 🤣🤣🤣

[@oceanpeng2406]

How ironic. Saying both sides are victims to the host clubs, why don't they go out there and start looking for normal partners instead? And putting some investment in them, they might turn into decent potential partners.

[@multicolores1]

I think hostess club must disappear. It is a kind of legal scam. And many kind of this business.

[@KengKoyArt]

It used to be that older women and gay people who cant be gay irl use host clubs.

[@IOADESTOYER]

I wonder what would have happened if men and women married earlier before going after lonely careers or becoming 304s. Zero sympathy to those women who are addicted to hosts and zero sympathy to men who give random online women money for no reason.

[@銅鑼衛門学生一人旅]

Even though the number of single people is increasing, both men and women are hungry for love. The girls are loved by the hosts, and the unpopular men are loved by them. As long as there is money.

[@ssl-xh7te]

They are called "Loverboys". In the West this is a big issue to😢. It al comes down to one thing to solve this problem. All people need to have jobs and enough money to eat and live. If this does not get any better then people will find other means to make money and they will not always do this in a good way. People are more dangerous then we think if the need for survival become a daily struggle. If life was organised differently then people would not have to find other means to make money. And then there is another thing. Not all people are qulified to be educated. Soms are not that smart enough and can become dangerous in this need for survival. Now with all what is happening in the world, it will become worse. And we are looking at it but we are not doing anything about it😢

[@jsoe81657]

This is a big issue. There are cases where some have gone to these host clubs and gone into loads of debt where they have a hard time paying back.

[@Labyrinth6000]

That’s their own fault for their stupidity. Tell them that, they NEED to lose all the face they have to realize their mistakes.

[@thathandsomedevil0828]

I thought Japanese women were high iq....

[@jsoe81657]

​@Labyrinth6000 would you say that to the guys too or are you just basing it on females?

[@realdomdom]

All these measures are ultimately futile, because they don't recognize the true cause in this causal cascade.

[@michaelquinones-lx6ks]

The Chinese and the Japanese are masterful 'Window Dressers' which means things aren't what they seem.

[@MrWescottX]

I see Chinese n Japanese

[@mathieul4303]

Onlyfans in another shade

[@acmelbourne]

Japan has a version of OF called FC2, the numbers of J girls doing video work to get extra cash has exploded in the last few years.

[@schrodingerscat3912]

the government needs to replace all hosts with Big Ed and Google Translate. Problem solved

[@lastninjaitachi]

Maybe this is why the birth rate is so low because people wont find real partners

[@josephpage6828]

I'd like to help.

[@Wol333]

The Gov. over there should do more to help young men find and talk to women. If they had healthy relationships, they could be living much better lives.

[@thathandsomedevil0828]

But are the women willing to talk to these men also? Nevermind even listen to them?

[@TrytheGreenOne]

Let's teach Japanese men how to flirt

[@Jack-xc2ys]

This story is playing out over the eons.

[@j-555]

Having access to so much information online, it becomes almost impossible for one to decide which issue to focus on. When I come across something like this, I almost feel guilty clicking away because I haven't done anything to help. Of course, it doesn't concern me -- as with most people -- which is why it is so hard for anyone to care, not only about this, but anything. Unfortunately, the only solution for any problem is each group to look out for their own. In this case -- the Japanese. Solutions are more meaningful when they come from within. However I do feel terrible for any victims of exploitation... You can fix it Japan -- let's go ! Thanks for spreading awareness, Nobita !

[@Abdure]

They also target certain age groups 18-25 easier target to scam.

[@MelissaJoans]

I heard about the Sugar Baby Riri case from Japanalysis, as well as host life from interviews that focus on the hosts, but I never knew that the host debt issue was really bad amongst young women…

[@kenpachi1114]

Great reporting Nobita!