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@marvinjamila47684 жыл бұрын
@@JD-kp6pt your right
@platinumact48214 жыл бұрын
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@elisamondragon28494 жыл бұрын
More of half of the video wasn't about the tittle 😡
@MischievousMischief4 жыл бұрын
You should ask the same questions in countryside towns.
@mikeserrano7344 жыл бұрын
🤔
@हानासुगिसाकी4 жыл бұрын
It wouldn't be so much of a problem if the work culture in Japan wasn't so demanding and people had time to go out and socialise with people outside of their office mates.
@juliafelice24074 жыл бұрын
It is also because women are pursuing careers rather than just taking care of the family. They are prioritizing their education and future jobs, just like in America, which is also experiencing low birth rates. Not quite as drastic compared to Japan, however.
@dogie10704 жыл бұрын
Married to their job
@mhdfrb99714 жыл бұрын
Stfu
@juliafelice24074 жыл бұрын
@ADHITYA CHANDRA P. - Yes, I said ALSO. I brought up my point because men used to have to work for women. But now women are gaining more financial independence.
@1211jinx4 жыл бұрын
Pancake Circus sort of.I remember that one Japanese dude saying that his girlfriend is his job 😁
@n.s.33104 жыл бұрын
Women have to be really strong to be married: imagine, she wakes up, cooks breakfast for the whole family, dress kids, drives them to school, works full day, after work in the evening she runs home to cook for husband and kids again, clean the house, help husband to reduce stress, help kids with home work at school etc. At holidays cleaning, cooking etc continues. And on top of that she is expected to stay beautiful, young, cheerful and fresh even after her body gave birth multiple times. I don't even talk about the fact that we women also want to meet friends and have a hobby.
@8thousevirgin4 жыл бұрын
That's why I'm unmarried. Gotta enjoy life and hobbies. 😊
@ebi54264 жыл бұрын
And Period 1 time per month... :/
@Dregomz024 жыл бұрын
modern females doesn't know how to cook and don't want to have children
@cinnamon90324 жыл бұрын
If you get married, that doesn't mean that your role as a woman is to do all of that. Marriage is a simbiosis, therefore both sides have to help each other out to coexist. I always hated the idea that because we're women, we're expected to act or behave in a certain way..
@n.s.33104 жыл бұрын
@@cinnamon9032 yes, of course idealistically all people would be happy to have a balanced respectful marriage life where you help each other. However according to my personal observation (at least in my region) it usually turns the way I described above. Among my friends and people I know. It's not easy for women to be a mother of family + as you get old there is an worry your husband can search for fresher girls. Like in business - you put so much work into marriage each day with high risks everything turning into void in the future. So being strong is required.
@loulou36764 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for the guy in the red sweater. He seems really uncomfortable and sad. I'm kinda rooting for him to get married somehow.
@goldgaming58664 жыл бұрын
thats normal. japanese are not used to being in front of a camera.
@NoGyiEa4 жыл бұрын
I think marriage has nothing to do with his attitude. He is probably just shy because there is a camera in front of him, he is being interviewed, and he does not feel confident about his appearance / clothes at the moment.
@-jiyuujin-4 жыл бұрын
I'm rooting for him to be happy, whether it's through marriager or not :)
@yukiefromoz25734 жыл бұрын
He seems like an introvert/hikikomori... I say good on him for doing the interview, probably wasn't an easy thing for him :)
@ahsvdhsbssz42074 жыл бұрын
@@yukiefromoz2573 If he were a hikikomori he wouldn't be in the street being interviewed
@Savannah-4 жыл бұрын
I feel like part of the problem too is that most Japanese men used to desire a wife who would stay at home while they worked and handle the housework and childcare. But now as it's basically impossible to support a family on one income and women are entering the workforce a lot of Japanese men want a wife eith a career. But what didn't change is that they still expect the wife to handle the childcare and the housework. It's ridiculous and not reasonable to expect of someone and it makes it hard for them to find a partner because no woman wants to have to do the supporting the family financially AND the domestic work.
@z_z79764 жыл бұрын
Well said. My husband and I both live in the USA and we both work and share our household duties. Even with us splitting everything evenly, it's still hard.
@exstalle27364 жыл бұрын
Honestly taking care of kids is harder work than going to ur job. Like kids drain ur energy within 30 minutes imagine staying every single hour and day with them
@KM-gp2yz4 жыл бұрын
They have to because Japanese men have to work 15 hours a day. Their work culture is toxic.
@Mas08084 жыл бұрын
You've nailed it
@rockstar-kp2jy4 жыл бұрын
In Japan that's not the case
@yukiefromoz25734 жыл бұрын
I think the guy in the red hoodie is an introvert/hikikomori going by his body language... couldn't have been easy for him to accept an interview so more power to him!
@kolomi9094 жыл бұрын
Yukie From Oz or psychopath
@starsatnightsparkle13184 жыл бұрын
Agreed, good for him👍
@Mwoods22724 жыл бұрын
He didn't have to do it, he could have kept walking.
@ns6454 жыл бұрын
I thought so too! Big hikikomori vibes.
@Unknownplsyer4 жыл бұрын
Introvert yes but hikikomori maybe not. He seems too calm to be a hikikomori, don't get me wrong but most of them are pretty awkward and may seem really anxious. But maybe he was a hikikomori before?
@MaxDCapo4 жыл бұрын
4:00 “But I’m sure there are girls who like men with dark personalities.” Amazing save Alicia. Amazing save...😂
@abadstoryends4 жыл бұрын
yeah what a weirdo
@roxylipz26724 жыл бұрын
HeR
@Dregomz024 жыл бұрын
they love dark triad personality in men but only with a men who are tall and handsome
@indiechic83854 жыл бұрын
I think he's attractive though, and he's brave. I like him
@loulou36764 жыл бұрын
A lot of these guys seem so worn down by life and sad. Actually, any person can get married as long as they are realistic about their standards. eg If you are a fat guy, you shouldn't turn down a girl just for being fat.
@ETsEmOrlando4 жыл бұрын
The guy said he couldn’t imagine living 60 years with a person that can’t cook. Why don’t he learns himself? Lol
@Rem694u24 жыл бұрын
Yeah, imagine living that long and not knowing how to feed yourself. lol
@Snowfirez4 жыл бұрын
He can cook for himself, it's his requirement for his future wife that she can cook too like him
@fifi73674 жыл бұрын
@@Snowfirez based on what he said only it's like him saying he want to be served for like 60 years. If someone doesn't have wish to be dependent on someone else they won't say those kind of thing. If he can cook and want his wife to be able to cook too, he'll help her not just wanting her to be good at it.
@tomilolaoolabi79654 жыл бұрын
Abii ooo Help me ask him dat nugget
@jetlag48144 жыл бұрын
Seriously learning how to properly feed yourself is the most important step of being self-sustained.
@silver_shadow54854 жыл бұрын
"Because I want to do whatever I want, too. And I would respect her desicion." It would be great, if more people thought like that.
@punkrockmetalqueen924 жыл бұрын
That's like my ideal partner 😻 only ever had one partner where we could both do whatever the hell we wanted
@seonghwaflex35174 жыл бұрын
It's so right, I wish could meet someone who respect each other private and decisions.
@kenjohnson12604 жыл бұрын
@Pluralizes Everythings yes these guys don't know what hostess bar is and are okay with cheating on their husbands
@ayushmeena7803 жыл бұрын
tbh I don't want to marry a prostitute
@cappuccinopapi30383 жыл бұрын
You just want to cheat on your partner
@You-dm2eh4 жыл бұрын
Personally I feel like life is less about leaving a legacy and more about enjoying your time while you’re alive.
@Vinnafetish4 жыл бұрын
You can actually do both.
@D0x1511af4 жыл бұрын
thanks to modern *hedonism and nihilism* plague from the west... degeneracy on it's finest
@fedyx15444 жыл бұрын
@@D0x1511af ok doomer
@烏梨師斂4 жыл бұрын
@@D0x1511af Does life have meaning though
@D0x1511af4 жыл бұрын
@@fedyx1544 okey...pathetic soyboy..and I ain't boomer... my generation is the most shiitest generation alive ... lack self esteem,moral compass,retard youth plague everywhere,triggered over fact,claiming there's 1 billion gender and it's fact there's 2 gender *male or female* ,feminism ruined average women life, fear mongering by the elite,lack of critical thinking and skepticism
@thereisa4 жыл бұрын
When a hear a guy say that they want a pretty housewife, I usually look at them and think, "yes but does a pretty housewife want someone like you?" - I think society looks at women like they are something you can buy on amazon, like a one-way purchase.. The only thing that matters is the thing that they want, but in reality, if you want someone like (this), then you yourself must be a type of person that that woman would want. It is very vulnerable to become a housewife. You allow yourself to become completely financially dependent on another person and that is scary in a modern world. It takes so much trust to do that. I know plenty of women who would happily become house-wives WITH THE RIGHT MAN. But until he is trustworthy, honorable, and worth the risk, most women will rather be independent. Building a family is an equal partnership, no matter which way you cut it.
@thereisa4 жыл бұрын
@@vissern21 "do you also ask the women if the guy really WANTS/NEEDS them also?" - Yes, absolutely. I'm sorry to hear that you think women look at men this way. Perhaps you ought to change the quality of women you associate yourself with. There are horrible women, as there are horrible men.
@thereisa4 жыл бұрын
@@overlord606 I never left the kitchen... All of the food and wine is there. Honestly, it's the best room in the house.
@StudioArtFX4 жыл бұрын
@@thereisa 😂 🤣😂 🤣
@overlord6064 жыл бұрын
Theresa Kim Glad you take it as a joke it was to be.
@sleepyearth4 жыл бұрын
@@vissern21 Sure it goes both ways.
@makianasilva4 жыл бұрын
The boy who said he wouldn't get married because he has a dark personality - felt that in another level - but he's wrong. Hope he finds someone.
@Sachianna-pm1df4 жыл бұрын
Mariana Silva I feel a shojo manga coming on
@Sevren_4 жыл бұрын
Mariana Silva I think he was joking
@mike-04514 жыл бұрын
You’re right. He won’t get married because he’s short and ugly.
@kenjohnson12604 жыл бұрын
@@mike-0451 maybe that's why he's depressed
@kj65973 жыл бұрын
@@mike-0451 ouch dude
@facu_k9614 жыл бұрын
Why would young people in Japan (tokyo in particular) have kids? It's already crazy expensive to support yourself financially, imagine adding a kid on top of that
@s.a.85484 жыл бұрын
@paisleyyama Men are needed much less than women when it comes to reproduction
@valeriya18484 жыл бұрын
I'm not in Tokyo, not even in Japan (I wish I were), but that's exactly my thought
@goldgaming58664 жыл бұрын
@paisleyyama these liberals spout nonsense.
@krollpeter4 жыл бұрын
That is also true in Singapore. But "they" will tell you money is not the factor. Yea, it is not the cash. It is other things. If you have 3 kids a car is simply better, despite perfect public transport. If you want to go on holiday pay 3 times. Clothes, going out to eat, the size of the house . . . everything gets expensive. Normal earners would think twice.
@disinfect7774 жыл бұрын
@paisleyyama Taxes going up does not mean less money to marry and have children if that money is spent on childcare. Gotta use that brain of yours before speaking.
@imanij28484 жыл бұрын
Dude at the end said it perfectly. You can’t expect women to go back to work and have more kids if there are no nursery schools available. That would literally help majority of the problem. Double income for the families and more teaching jobs created.
@ovo-ovo4 жыл бұрын
I'd rather have a cat because I am nowhere near mentally and financially capable of bringing a child into a world. It's better that way.
@enryuu134 жыл бұрын
Same reason as me except, dogs are better ya know being man's best friend and all
@lordeddardstark44714 жыл бұрын
As a man from the country side who holds tradition to highest I'm against you but as a realist and not being one bit ignorant I Support you. Sad but true quote right there
@selenec.25744 жыл бұрын
Same here. I can't imagine how difficult having a child and being responsible for them until they got ready to be independent. I'm not even talking about the long term goals (like education), I'm talking about the daily stuff like household chores and taking care of the child. It's the responsibility I can't handle right now and the next few years.
@fenrirab6204 жыл бұрын
I want a child of my own but it requires having a wife/girlfriend.
@valeriya18484 жыл бұрын
True. Can't imagine it either. Life is short, and there are too many other things to take care of.
@jushin36354 жыл бұрын
My husband and I are not quite “traditional” marriage. We married when we were 24ish. I was a 新入社員 and he was a student. We were not financially stable at the time we got married. We had no savings. I was the only one supporting both of us financially (even till this day). Early on in the marriage we would be living literally paycheck to paycheck. 6 years later we are still happily married. We have the same vision. We love each other’s company more and more as day goes by. There is no perfect time to start a family. Waiting for financial stability? Your wealth can be taken away with one bad choice or just even from bad luck. If you are with the right person, all those things do not matter. There is no one shape and form of marriage. Each and every one is different. Don’t compare with others. Don’t let the society determine your happiness and timing.
@mujezaa2044 жыл бұрын
I think the same, especially about the "right person".
@fgfgfgfgf29194 жыл бұрын
where are you from ?
@isabellacalistacross3 жыл бұрын
Indeed. Don't let the society determine your happiness. The same with some people who find themselves happier being independent and live the life fullest only for themselves.
@ihmsfm10403 жыл бұрын
@@isabellacalistacross I agree. There are already so many people in the world. Raising happy and well adjusted kids is more important than just indiscriminately giving birth. And for that happy, secure and well adjusted parental figure is necessary.
@freerights66953 жыл бұрын
it's not about society, it's about the child. If you can't provide for the child, don't have one. And providing for a child requires financial stability
@wolbi014 жыл бұрын
Hopefully we can get a female perspective on this topic too
@doggolovescheese13104 жыл бұрын
There is, she mentions the video in the beginning.
@wolbi014 жыл бұрын
U. Wahya-Gihli I am aware of that, I was asking for a follow up. Hopefully you realise that the video is published on July 2016 so opinions then may differ to today.
@suqmaddiqq4 жыл бұрын
@@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw We're in 2020 though, plus a different immediate perspective would be very complimentary.
@wind75194 жыл бұрын
It's less common to get the male perspective on this topic, so it's refreshing to see this video. This channel has so many more female perspectives than male ones.
@raventv98264 жыл бұрын
That Japanese man yuta / nobita from Japan both have these
@amber2294 жыл бұрын
In my opinion I think it's so weird how people in general believe that a good wife must be able to cook well I mean if you want good food just do it yourself for me personally that would'nt be the first thing I would look for in a spouse there are other qualities that are way more important, everyone should learn how to cook despite gender but idk just my opinion.
@rabab4734 жыл бұрын
Ambar C. I agree. It’s such a sexist mindset, too. Cooking for an entire family is hard, especially when women are now expected to have jobs, too. It’s sad how many women are expected to work “double shifts” and be tired and unhappy because of it
@Leventhan14 жыл бұрын
It's because in Japan some women expect to be able to quit their jobs and be full-time housewives. In which case, cooking becomes one of her primary responsibilities as a family member.
@lndcruz7214 жыл бұрын
Exactly! the moment he said that I thought, well why dont you just learn to cook good food??? what do You have to offer for a wife like you want if you expect her to do all the cleaning?
@lalluqa60364 жыл бұрын
Dude, people in general don't believe that when they get married: she asked a kiddo of 25 who has no intention to marry, start such a life, get a wife, never asked himself anything about marriage or a woman, and who's gonna marry after 35 if he is an average japanese man 😂😂😂.... You ask wrong questions to wrong people, what do you expect? :) They tell you something classical that comes first in mind.
@烏梨師斂4 жыл бұрын
In Asia we have gender roles. It's hard to cook and clean the house if you come back from work at 10pm. That's why women go shopping for wood and clean the house while the man is out doing work
@ennn95434 жыл бұрын
The guy that said his wife must have a beautiful face. I think he’s never considered that people change with age. The girl can change with age, after giving birth, etc. Not to mention all sickness hurdles couples have to go through together like food poisoning when you have to support your vomiting partner, flu, when you have to see your partner with dirty hair and with a runny nose. They all want a marriage without any challenges. It’s not possible in real world
@general_alexus25334 жыл бұрын
Beauty is also a marker for good genes. Some female birds will not mate if the symetry of the male feathers is off my a tiny margin. As you(/biology demads you to) want kids, you (unconsiously) wanting good genes for them is totaly natrual. We just dont call it good genetic material but beauty.
@sleepyearth4 жыл бұрын
@@general_alexus2533 So.... You are saying women must look for handsome men too right? But you people will scream at women who literally do the same as you for being vain for choosing only guys who are pretty and handsome. Why the double standard?
@general_alexus25334 жыл бұрын
@@sleepyearth I first had to laugh at your "So you are saying", sry Kathy Newmann came to mind. To answer your question: Well I dont care for other peoples double standart, I would say the argument goes for Female Woman as well, if you can go for the handsome guys as well.
@CCMan344 жыл бұрын
En Nn Attraction. Realistically how’s he gonna even meet the person if he’s not attracted to them. Before you go off just think please.
@ennn95434 жыл бұрын
Noah Hevey through conversation? Having fun together? Mutual interests? Similar life values? Starting as friends? As coworkers? You want me to continue?
@alwaysoctober39434 жыл бұрын
The more i pay attention to the world the less i want to bring a child into it. The planet it literally being suffocated, war, increasing cost of living, increasing poverty.... like why would i want my children to suffer so slowly? No wonder depression, anxiety, and general nihilism is increasing
@palakbhatt36584 жыл бұрын
I get that one
@valeriya18484 жыл бұрын
Not talking about suffering that a kid can bring. Kids are not just joy, but a huge investment of time, money and energy...on top of it all you have to raise a child properly...and those who don't feel any attachment to it neither mentally nor financially should not even bother
@Rem694u24 жыл бұрын
Agreed 100%. Less humans is a good thing. I will not add to the suffering of the planet and others just to satisfy my own desires. I already do that enough myself just living in such a society.
@alwaysoctober39434 жыл бұрын
@James yes! I do! Wonderful deduction. But where I live does not have anything to do with the fact that there is war, there is poverty, there is climate change, and people cannot afford to raise kids. Even in first world countries.
@alwaysoctober39434 жыл бұрын
@@valeriya1848 this is true too. I personally would like to have kids, but wont. And I have a friend who is a mom that if she could travel back in time, she wouldn't be one. Even though she loves her kid, she wishes she wasn't a mom
@ricezzz26654 жыл бұрын
The guy in the red hoodie trying to answer over some kid yelling next to him is so ironic lmao
@mewan53604 жыл бұрын
As an Indian, it's almost impossible for me to imagine a declining birth rate xD
@mewan53604 жыл бұрын
@@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw I can imagine it being a serious problem in Japan, what if there are not enough people to sustain the elderly population? As the population continues to age, more and more will retire and more and more will die, if not enough babies are being born to replace them, then the country just collapses on itself.
@supernova79664 жыл бұрын
Birth rate is declining rapidly in South India.
@alievegracebernido37214 жыл бұрын
@@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw when talking about Japan and birthrates, it really equates to their economy. They don't really allow work force from other countries (but these days, it became quite acceptable). Taking into consideration how massive their economy is vs the man power, it is XXX. Who will work as nurses, doctors, lawyers, factory workers if this will continue.
@manoranjitha29694 жыл бұрын
@@supernova7966 on what basis You're saying it? Any citation?
@Tiffany-ov2jf4 жыл бұрын
@@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw shrinking population is a bad thing, actually, it depends on the economy likewise a declining birth rate would be beneficial for countries like India but it'd be a diff case for Japan
@pragueexpat51064 жыл бұрын
"I have a dark personality" would've been my answer too
@erenmademewritethis98334 жыл бұрын
Was surprised there wasn't an anime flash back scene as soon as he said it lol
@redukos4 жыл бұрын
"This world is no world for a child.." Geralt of Rivia
@winkblue68514 жыл бұрын
@I Am you. he can say that because he was once a child
@fidybeanbird4 жыл бұрын
@I Am you. He didn't ask for it, blame the parents.
@peterkim47454 жыл бұрын
hmm... interesting!
@fidybeanbird4 жыл бұрын
@I Am you. I think you don't understand the whole meaning of the quote. I would link it to antinatalism.
@fidybeanbird4 жыл бұрын
@I Am you. I agree with the fact that we-humans are also animals living with our animalistic instincts. However, our brain is more developed and it gives us choices in some social or biological situations. I think people who don't want to procreate has very weak animalistic instincts about this process or because of some traumas in their personal life they just cannot do it due to psychological or physical issues. Another reason can be a completely different lifestyle than majority want to have and I think it's completely normal, especially if you're not a religious person. I just want people to choose a lifestyle that can make them content with their life. Good luck to us on our life path :)
@kinkaixo43004 жыл бұрын
„I have a dark personality“ sounded a lot like he‘s a murderer or smth 😂😂😂
@zeenu7864 жыл бұрын
😁😂😂he is soo cute
@Haru_Light4 жыл бұрын
Why would they want kids when the cost of living for themselves is crazy? Add a kid and many people wouldn't be able to survive or live happily.
@batgirlp55614 жыл бұрын
And these days in the US parents are supporting their "kids" into their 30s.
@valeriya18484 жыл бұрын
And in some countries it is even higher than in Japan. US and Australia for example
@goldgaming58664 жыл бұрын
@@valeriya1848 japan is more expensive than the usa and australia lmao.
@valeriya18484 жыл бұрын
@@goldgaming5866 Why? Comparing to America food and rent is definitely cheaper even in Tokyo lol In other prefectures especially. Transportation is cheaper because u don't need to care about a car, car insurance, and all that.
@raikiriramen62574 жыл бұрын
Well that is why they are depressed
@lollollollol19974 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this type of video, about addressing social problems and asking random people on the street. When I'm in Japan, many of my friends don't want to talk about these topics, because it's "too serious" and "too depressing", so they rather want to talk about "funny" and "carefree" things. So it's really interesting to hear these people's voices. Good work!
@xyanide19864 жыл бұрын
As an unmarried guy that probably wasted too much time online, I noticed factors that play into this over the years. Firstly there's on-demand internet interactions taking away from IRL interactions. Even romantically you can build something up without ever meeting the person. You can have fun chatting to your friends across the globe, so you aren't forced to mingle locally anymore. Secondly there's on-demand entertainment everywhere you look, for any tastes possible that can distract you and give an escape from your worries. Thirdly there's so much individuality and diversity of interests and opinion that it slowly becomes difficult to find a match to your own ideas and interests. It all boils down to prioritizing/managing the time you can spend on this earth as a resource.
@abhishek82434 жыл бұрын
Come to India , most of the people who got married recently or about to get married will say " i got married due to parental pressure" People here ask your score when you are studying , campus placements if you are in final year of post graduation and about your marriage when you just started career. That's really inspiring when they said "i felt i am financially good to take care of a family , so decided to get married"
@dekalios45884 жыл бұрын
I would cut ties with my family if they dont let me live the way I want to
@abhishek82434 жыл бұрын
@@DramaTV2613 I just started my career 6 months ago after MBA and my parents started talking about marriage. Am in different city and it's really helpful as you don't have to listen to your parents talking about marriage everyday. Fulfilling middle-class self's dreams is priority above anything and a promotion and salary hike is necessary before going to next step.
@manoranjitha29694 жыл бұрын
Yeah I don't understand the Indian parents obsession with getting their kids married! 🙄 I'm turning 25 this year and I hope they would stop pestering me all the time.
@bokuwatoki59834 жыл бұрын
"Because I'm not attractive." Don't say that about yourself please!
@enryuu134 жыл бұрын
Just find a ugly girl, easy. Unless you're rich then Victoria secret like beauties will be all over you
@Dregomz024 жыл бұрын
he is right he is ugly and short which means he will be virgin till death
@stephanietang49244 жыл бұрын
Ok, to all you people saying he’s ugly; it may be a joke to you or something that you can just throw around but it’s not. No one is “ugly,” they are considered “unattractive” from CERTAIN perspectives and different point of views. Please don’t degrade and devalue people who are taking time out of their day to share their rightful opinions. Think twice before you say this to someone. Yes, it is Japanese culture to say this out of humility but when others agree spitefully or express their views rudely, it becomes an issue. How would you feel being judged so harshly solely on your physical appearance when all you wanted to do was follow through an interview? He doesn’t have to try to appeal to you and each and every person watching this. He’s his own person. And no, if I will not chill.
@moongoat66994 жыл бұрын
Japanese men are so hot though.
@命筋肉4 жыл бұрын
It's a Japanese culture to say something like that when interviewd.
@platy95864 жыл бұрын
Men: I want a woman who (lists ten skills she must be perfect at on top of being pretty 24/7) Men: (can't even brush hair in the morning let alone his teeth) I hope men like this continue single. Their wives would suffer if they ended up with people like this.
@aminbinsalim19954 жыл бұрын
İ think the way you puted your sarcasm could fall under strawmanning or unrepresentative sample, the reason is (most) men certainly have standarts that are somewhat reasonable but they're not as you make it appear or there are really people as you alluded to but without taking into account whether they are the majority or not... And i'm sure you would agree that any woman who sets standarts as idealistic and naive as what you showed should be blamed as much as you blame the man in question
@sweetyjones17564 жыл бұрын
I laughed so much after reading your comment lol... you are very right ;)
@arvinsim4 жыл бұрын
It's true that some men have unrealistic expectations. But due to social media, some women have developed narcissistic tendencies and have also developed unrealistic expectations. Let's not make having unrealistic expectations a gendered thing. Anyone can have them.
@Foxxnioxx4 жыл бұрын
Okay feminist
@sweetyjones17564 жыл бұрын
@@Foxxnioxx Nothing to do with feminism - it's just basic hygiene and looking after your appearance lol.
@TheRealGuywithoutaMustache4 жыл бұрын
3:15 Weird, this is how I talk to people too. Must be a lack of confidence issue or something.
@sirluke74 жыл бұрын
That's fixable.
@anubistj89954 жыл бұрын
I think he is lack of confidence because this topic is a trauma to him.
@valeriya18484 жыл бұрын
He seems to be smart and down to earth :)
@yukiefromoz25734 жыл бұрын
Introvert/hikikomori
@agme80454 жыл бұрын
Wtf i thought every developed country had public free schools lol
@GomezBro4 жыл бұрын
Nothing in Japan is Free....
@saratrejo66584 жыл бұрын
In Japan and Korea high school is not compulsory and therefore not free. Just recently Korean government is giving subsidies to lower income families who want to send their kids to high school. I'm not sure if there's something similar in Japan.
@Jen-zk9se4 жыл бұрын
Sara Trejo - Wow. Thanks for the info 💛
@s.a.85484 жыл бұрын
How backwards does a country need to be not to give their children, the next generation, free basic education when they can afford it??
@agme80454 жыл бұрын
S. Ali THIS!
@PakistaniPepper4 жыл бұрын
Kudos to Alicia for being awesome and helping people talk about a very difficult subject without getting uncomfortable.
@brokenchopstickz4 жыл бұрын
Financial issue is a factor in this globalised equation. Many people feel that, even with full-time work, they simply don't have the income necessary to live the lives they want. Even when it comes to just the basic essentials. The prices for daily goods have increased considerably since the 80's above and beyond what can be accounted for by inflation giving the dollar much less buying power. Bottom line, this indicate that, while the average person is still making the same amount of money when accounting for inflation, prices for many of the daily necessities have gone up considerably, which means that each dollar earned does, in fact, buy less than it did 30 years ago.
@valeriya18484 жыл бұрын
Yes, it's the global issue :/
@MrAbeAllen4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. I feel like all of us need better skill at the finances side of life. Like get a degree that pays well and take the job in a place where your income exceeds cost of living. And live beneath your means. It is seductive to spend money once you get some, but somehow a large part of the young population is not getting ahead moneywise. To me that’s a really big issue. FWIW. I have student loans still at 45. I’ve given up on the standard path and have given up socially, so I can focus on my own struggling business.
@bbbb10234 жыл бұрын
I think the problem is Japanese people think of marriage as financially supporting someone. Marriage is about two people loving each other and doing life together, not just about money.....
@jnft79674 жыл бұрын
10 years from now I only see myself in a condo with my cat And don't have any interest to get married
@Marklee-lx7cd4 жыл бұрын
@James men do the same and are praised for it?its a matter of choice how a person wants to live their life .
@markhenley30974 жыл бұрын
Problem is when you're 40 years old you'll be a depressed or crazy cat woman.
@onemillionpercent4 жыл бұрын
@@markhenley3097 not always true hehe. there's a cat woman stereotype but more and more, i see happy older single people. my cousin is one of them :) she has her parents, her family, her work, her hobbies, and her religion. not much to complain about. one could have everything btw, and still be depressed. one could be married and be depressed. one could have kids and be depressed. i've been mildly depressed for a while, i dont think marriage and/or kids is a "cure" but rather more burden when depressed people just want to slip under the bed covers and disappear for a while. just my perspective
@irawilliams3434 жыл бұрын
For starters, Japanese men should treat women as equals and end the misogyny reeking in their society. And they should also stop being afraid by women who are stronger and more successful than they are. There's no such thing as the perfect marriage partner but there is the right person. Marriage will always have it's ups and downs but who says it's easy when nothing in this world is easy. Japanese people need to balance work and personal life. End the workaholic routine as well.
@KM-gp2yz4 жыл бұрын
Shut up. Misogyny is not the cause here. Look at India or any other country that has a high birthrate.
@irawilliams3434 жыл бұрын
@@KM-gp2yz misogyny is part of it but mostly it's because of the workaholic culture. Then again, sometimes I think this is Japan's karma for everything they did in WWI and WWII.
@xiagm-kemasmfadlic1503 жыл бұрын
What the hell? Japanese woman and man behave normal here... Do you live in japan?
@mizchief73054 жыл бұрын
Japanese: we focus more on the future and life after retirement Philippines: the more the merrier
@mishka79194 жыл бұрын
iTs mOrE fUn iN tHe pHiLipPiNeS
@dapurmamagangpanda62354 жыл бұрын
3:31 my ideal man. His woman is so lucky to have him
@nuggetsss25263 жыл бұрын
He is so kind and sweet right
@xxnike0629xx4 жыл бұрын
Given the economy and the fact that there's so many things to do to keep someone entertained and preoccupied (not just Japan but in general), it's no surprise that people are not getting married let alone having kids. People are struggling to find a job/career as it is. So when people feel like they're somewhat financially stable, I presume many don't want to risk their job/career by getting into a relation. To those that consider a relation, I think that they would feel they'd not be able to spend enough time with the family to make it a fulfilling relation. Also the 'old world' social norms of a male working and a female staying home and taking care of the kids and home is not something that works anymore. Again, this isn't just Japan, it's pretty much everywhere. In many couples, both work full time so the amount of time they spend is limited to after work (dinner, in the bedroom) and in the morning as they're leaving home to go to work for the day. Then on the weekends, many couples are too tired or too busy catching up with things they could not do during the work week. Some people work 7 days a week. So really this is a problem stemming from multiple issues. - financial burden/concern - time - career/occupation focus Governments in general need to do things to make it less stressful for people in general. Most of us working class work more these days than previous generations while getting less pay. This is all while the cost of living keeps going up. Job security is not as guaranteed as before. People are going to colleges & graduate schools and many are coming out with massive debt and not able to get a job. After some time of not getting a job, people will get discouraged, depressed, etc all while still being in debt. Heck, many hourly paying jobs don't even hire as easily. To those that get those jobs, many will not give much money let alone hours during the week. So if you consider all of the things I mentioned here, it's no wonder marriage and kids is not something that many people consider a priority these days. Unless governments and big corporations do something about it, things will keep getting worse. How is it for these big companies to keep making their millions & billions in profits each year while not proportionately giving better pay & benefits to its employees? How is it okay for people to be working more than 40 hours a week? People that work like 50+ hours a week barely have any time to do anything. So to wonder why people are not getting married, dating, or having kids is just silly. Marriage & kids is a big financial responsibility. If a country wants to see a population increase they're going to have to make changes that helps people be more financially less burdened, have more free time, etc. A government needs to use tax dollars that benefits its citizens. I mean that's what tax dollars are supposed to be used for, right? But think about what percentage of tax dollars are going where. Think about how much money corrupt politicians are taking and giving excuses as to why such an excessive amount is spent on certain things when clearly the people need to be paid better, need facilities that promote population grown, and need to be more financially stable so they feel less concerned with spending money. People need to be spending money to encourage economic growth.
@chroniclesofpickles4 жыл бұрын
To the guy who said he prefers a woman who cooks for him - you can develop cooking skill on your own if you really enjoy eating good food. You don’t need to depend on a woman to eat good food!
@rsuriyop4 жыл бұрын
It is not wrong to live as a single person with no children for your entire life. How about you ask the exact opposite question next time: "Why did you decide to get married and have children?"
@raventv98264 жыл бұрын
You're not technically wrong but the retirement pension payment plan is basically a generational contract. So if you don't have children you should contribute something otherwise it's going to be hard for our generation and the following one to put up the money for the baby boomers pension payments.
@ran4ran1724 жыл бұрын
Reporter: I'm sure there are girls who like guys with dark personalities Haruno Sakura: Yes. I'm one of them
@onemillionpercent4 жыл бұрын
yep!!! haha
@xiaojianer3 жыл бұрын
Sasuke-kun...
@Nao86584 жыл бұрын
A women version of this video would be really interesting!
@hman99814 жыл бұрын
I think they made one already (a little while ago)
@choco_mint3763 жыл бұрын
8:57 I really respect his decession.... specially this line, "because I want to do whatever I want, so I would respect her decession "....✨
@aznswiedie4 жыл бұрын
Alicia! i'm happy to see her on Asian Boss!!
@yoon95214 жыл бұрын
For me, I think there are several reasons, one of them is that our generation is becoming more responsible in life. We don't want to raise our children in poverty because of our selfishness when we ourselves can't make ends meet yet and we don't want to marry just anyone that might cause our children to grow up in broken home. I've noticed that people my age 20-30s are afraid of commitment, we're judged for everything we do and did that it's hard to open up our heart to potential partner, thus we end up being just friend (or maybe fwb for some people). In Japan and many countries, common law marriage is getting more popular these days, couple can stay together with their chosen partner but since there's no attachment they can also breakup when problem arises, they won't be labelled as divorcee.Additionally, we're raise to become someone who only mind our own business or that we shouldn't meddle in other people's problems, that way we became indifferent people and that's not how marriage and parenting works.
@jake9854 Жыл бұрын
but r u japanese?
@yoon9521 Жыл бұрын
@@jake9854 not really, ¼ ig? Also my Japanese coworkers are like that, some only got married to climb the company's ladder
@devanshuverma48344 жыл бұрын
Meanwhile i am feeling Bad about my Country India which is number one in Having kids and Unemployment...
@ashleyrc93654 жыл бұрын
grey momo i think it’s because in asian countries parents typically want boys over girls so they keep on having kids until they get a boy
@freakingcool19924 жыл бұрын
@@ashleyrc9365 yes I agree they do in that way....
@aggusai57994 жыл бұрын
@grey momo well people are obsessed with boy child. But now birthrate have declined very much. But some state like UP and Bihar where education is still a problem have higher birth rate.
@rkfavourites94894 жыл бұрын
Traditional Japanese men most likely prefer a wife who works, does all the household chores and look after the kids.
@NoGyiEa4 жыл бұрын
This is what every man on the planet wants. You probably don't want this at the beginning of the relationship, but after a while, you will have a problem with it during the relationship (that's why there are a lot of divorces). Gender roles are more confusing than ever.
@stillfangirlingtoday14684 жыл бұрын
That is expected all around the world. Pretty much the reason that when I reach my stability (government worker), I plan to have children (it's one of my dreams to be a mother) and that is it, getting married is a plus if I'm lucky enough to find a reasonable man, otherwise no way I will have all this trouble and still be a maid to some man who probably treated his dear mother the same way. Bleh.
@rkfavourites94894 жыл бұрын
Precisely why any intelligent woman wants to avoid marriage, unless she is madly (i.e. blindly) in love.
@theforgot3n14 жыл бұрын
@@stillfangirlingtoday1468 I hope you're aware of the litany of statistics on the deleterious effects of an absent father in the family. If you give up on finding the perfect guy, and you're afraid of ending up with an abusive guy, then you can at least settle for a doormat, someone who you can control. And even if that ends up being someone abusive, then divorce. There's barely any stigma to it. Just don't bring kids into the world disadvantaged from the get-go. They deserve better.
@Lexigrl074 жыл бұрын
Vad M. You’re a salty boi, blaming women for all the problems. Shame on you
@taurian983934 жыл бұрын
Reporter : what is your ideal marriage partner ? Japanese man : Miku Hologram
@Snowlily014 жыл бұрын
asian boss has rly stepped up their game, theres a significant diff between AB and other reporting channels
@geraldine24584 жыл бұрын
I was just looking at the host for the whole video
@astrostar494 жыл бұрын
Great video. Thanks for continuing to provide insightful content. Also, nice to see Alicia hosting a video for once. She did a great job.
@DrAdnan4 жыл бұрын
Even Japanese marriage culture or relationship perspectives are unique
@wy93174 жыл бұрын
Nope weeb its the same in all developed Asian societies
@Hipe21244 жыл бұрын
Weeb
@Fiezta4 жыл бұрын
The thing is that the fee for having a regular-normal life is already high... yeah getting married would help to cover those costs, but then having a baby would be even more expensive. As far as I know recently Japan gives money to the couple to cover the costs of the first 6 months after the baby was born or something like that. That probably would help them, but at the end of the day you would need a very good and stable job if you want to raise that child. So a lot of young japanese people think "Why would I want to spend so much money now if it barely covers my needs?"
@aleanapineda8824 жыл бұрын
*“What’s preventing young people from getting married?”* we just vibing
@viewfromheavenn4 жыл бұрын
LOL
@DNYL_4 жыл бұрын
6:57 I like this dude. He views marriage as something to stick to for all your life, and seems like looking for an out before making a commitment is not on his mind at all.
@Mimeh534 жыл бұрын
That guy at 11:49 has the most realistic view of all. It is probably just as expensive to have children in Japan as it is anywhere else. In this day and age I don't think that it's fair to expect men to carry 100% of the financial burden of providing for a family. But from what I have noticed, Japan as a culture does not make it easy for women to work and have children at the same time. Women do 100% of the cooking? 100% of the housework? 100% of the childcare? From a woman's perspective, I can understand why Japanese women are choosing to not have children. And to be fair, I can see why Japanese men don't want that much of a burden on their shoulders. And someone needs to tell that guy at 3:55 who thinks he is unattractive that he is wrong!
@Ichigo29ify4 жыл бұрын
honestly that glasses guy was real woke, when he said there should be more nurseries, it has a lot to do w women being expected to do 100% child care when they want/need to work
@rabab4734 жыл бұрын
Miriam Caro yeah, and I think it should go both ways. If a woman is now expected to work to contribute to the family, men must also take care of the house and kids to contribute too
@Mimeh534 жыл бұрын
Rabab A That is exactly what I mean! 🙂
@Mimeh534 жыл бұрын
María Amuyu De Las Mercedes He was right.
@Mimeh534 жыл бұрын
paisleyyama I understand that very well. There is absolutely nothing wrong with the traditional family set-up as long as the couple can afford it. But as @aMr. Doggo suggested, the tax rates in Japan make it very difficult to continue with the old-fashioned, traditional way of life. It is not only that way in Japan but in most first-world countries which used to have 4+ children per household and now only have 2. So something has to change or the decline in the birth rate will continue to deplete the population. No population, no Japan. And that would be very sad.
@Aja-Christian4 жыл бұрын
Although I get that a country with an aging population and a low birth rate can be extremely detrimental. . .at the same time it's kind of refreshing in a way to see that the younger Japanese population aren't forcing themselves into marriage and parenthood just because it's the socially acceptable thing to do. Japanese society (from personal observation) seems like it puts a lot of emphasis on "saving face" and doing what's expected of you, even if the individual feels differently. So much pressure is put on them as far as school and work, pleasing their bosses, their parents, keep up with their colleagues, etc, I kind of like the fact that more of them are saying "We'd rather do what brings us personal fulfillment, even if it goes against the norm." But at the same time. . .for Japanese cities where people are literally living on top of each other, it seems their men and women don't know how or when to interact with each other(?)
@Karina_Engr4 жыл бұрын
2:37 guy. You’re awesome!
@catmenot71434 жыл бұрын
This was super interesting, thanks Asian Boss!
@GGNista4 жыл бұрын
Is really hard to raise a child. I totally agree with who doesn't want a kid.
@auga38964 жыл бұрын
That's an excuse. People who think so, actually escaping from a responsibility.
@morynlallana16124 жыл бұрын
i don't want to get married and don't want to have my own child too, it's my opinion and other people think i'm weird lol. i experienced babysitting my 3 niece and 1 nephew at the age of 13 and i know how hard it is
@zerozero76594 жыл бұрын
But I think raising children is review happy.
@sooshibun4 жыл бұрын
True, plus there are lots of shitty parents out there, not everyone has to have children.
@moongoat66994 жыл бұрын
AUG A3 Especially the ones that want pets instead, it’s the same thing lol, you’re still going to spend money on food, veterinarians, etc.
@conchitallacer127929 күн бұрын
Watching the interview made me realized that the invisible demands like child care, running a household, children’s welfares on schools and outside schools are quite heavy to the wives especially, not to mention their roles to contribute to the financial needs of the family though not mention is felt by women population. People are bound to break with too much pressures. Some one mentioned mental heath is one of the concerns why they choose to live and grow old alone. There is happiness and joy in married life and having family. sometimes we do encounter humps along the way, it is still a workable relationship. My married life for 28 years before my husband passed away was far from perfect but we lived a full life ( experienced happy, fun, sad, and had overcome all kinds of challenges, sweet and joyful memories overrule at the end). The relationship need to have two people committed to ride through life together with the strong conviction to make a better person of ourselves for the sake of the other partner. The children will absorb whatever they see in us, their parents. If we show the children a united front and a commitment to make our kids happy, for them to have a secure feeling that we will be for them no matter what we face everyday, the days ahead become easier. Not every success in life is about material gain. At the end of the day, the sight of smile in your family’s faces matters most. It is priceless. I hope someone pick up something on what I am sharing here.
@dimatadore4 жыл бұрын
From my woman’s perspective it’s because men seem to increasingly become more unreliable and don’t even want kids until they’re 40, let alone be married, plus they get to walk away from anything whenever they feel like it. Women don’t want kids without being married because no woman wants to be a single mom. so we’re just being extra careful before bringing a baby into an uncertain world. Women are intuitive, and if we have the feeling we can’t support a child we will not have one.
@sooshibun4 жыл бұрын
True.
@kageyamareijikun4 жыл бұрын
The Matadore no woman wants to be a single mum? Then why are there like tons more single mums than single dads? Women can also walk away anytime they feel like it while divorcing the man and taking half his assets. Men being unreliable? Ok, when was the last time any woman was reliable? Especially Asian females who earn less than half of Western women.
@sobeman7194 жыл бұрын
The reporter Alicia is SOO BEAUTIFUL. goodness!
@crispassos97344 жыл бұрын
Affording to a house and children necessities is a challenge nowadays.
@jerimow84004 жыл бұрын
LOVE THIS CHANNEL! Sending respect from central Florida.
@roxyeegii15464 жыл бұрын
Where’s Hiroko? That’s what I thought 💭
@mahaloaloha68194 жыл бұрын
It is huge social problem both in Korean and Japan today. Both countries tend to go through all these social phenomena.
@winkblue68514 жыл бұрын
Aw poor red jacket dude 😭 "because I'm not attractive" bruh
@starsatnightsparkle13184 жыл бұрын
He is normal looking, all sorts of different people get married.
@erenmademewritethis98334 жыл бұрын
He reminds me of myself , I kinda have his face , I too have a dark personality and though people always say I'm handsome I'm always like yeah ok sure buddy
@patriciaannealcantara57724 жыл бұрын
I think based on what they've just said, it's not really easy to get married because of many factors and as an adult, you don't have enough time to meet others except for your everyday co-workers. That's why when I'll start working, I would try to do my things at my own pace. I also think that one of the factors of the declining are most people are pressured to be more rich and successful as early as possible so people don't have time to think about others and continue dedicating their life in their work.
@batgirlp55614 жыл бұрын
There must be some undisclosed element to these night hostess bar jobs...
@yukiefromoz25734 жыл бұрын
Well some of them do sleep with their customers out of work hours...
@krissydiggs4 жыл бұрын
Batgirl P I mean the potential to hook up with a client is always there because they clients will always want to do so. That’s the long game. Asian Boss has some good videos about host clubs you should definitely check out if you get the chance. Interested chit.
@user-jg3yx8yu4l4 жыл бұрын
remember it’s considered socially acceptable for a married man to go to a hostess bar
@Therealtazangel4 жыл бұрын
@@user-jg3yx8yu4l um they dont see that as cheating?😳
@user-jg3yx8yu4l4 жыл бұрын
XI XI No, they don’t. That’s already been shown on the other Asian Boss episodes. Many clients of hostesses are married men.
@mintylime89554 жыл бұрын
I think it will be best for the future students because they don't have to fight for one place in jobs or in other fields to get sucess. Like 5million wants to be doctor but seats are present only for 10000 students.
@UnQuacker4 жыл бұрын
With aging population Japan's working class will decline each year, as old people generally handle hard-working Japanese life style worse meaning that economics will decline as well. Not to mention that those old people are to be cared by somebody (nurses)
@sumeersamarat7063 жыл бұрын
Most dimmest logic ever seen
@saltanatnazarova32424 жыл бұрын
Why nobody mentioned this handsome reserved young man in a white sweater and coat? He is soo attractive
@pomelo92624 жыл бұрын
3:00 or 3:52?
@saltanatnazarova32424 жыл бұрын
@@pomelo9262 3.00😍
@ayushraj3713 жыл бұрын
1:33 I kind of agree with this statement as a 17 year teenager myself.
@Rinabhl4 жыл бұрын
No one is going to talk about how amazing that interviewer was ? 👏🏻
@tempyst4094 жыл бұрын
Granted I'm not Japanese. I'm a woman from the U.S. But since childhood, I always knew I didn't want kids. & when I was 14, I learned that my chances of conceiving were less than stellar. For me, was fine because I didn't want kids. & at 34, 35 in September. That view hasn't changed. Instead of seeing people like me as immature & not thinking of others & only ourself. Think of us as adults, making a sound decision. Not wanting to bring a life into the world because society says that's how it should be. Because there are plenty of orphanages in this world that are overwhelmed & can telll you. Having kids just because you can, isn't sunshine & rainbows. People like me aren't the problem. The rush to procreate because we can & society demands it to be an "adult" is the issue. Progress from a broken mindset is delayed failure
@themodernviriato93834 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video about a similar topic, but in China. This generation has around 45 million more men than women, that means that a lot of people will never marry. Adding to that, a lot of women have incredible unrealistic expectations about men. Like height, houses, multiple cars, expecting them to pay for the wedding, etc. This would be very interesting. I know a few friends who are very depressed.
@themodernviriato93834 жыл бұрын
Also, this was a great video. Good job Asian Boss 👌
@GameFuMaster4 жыл бұрын
@@cin9842 One child policy system.
@GameFuMaster4 жыл бұрын
Many men are now looking abroad for wives. But yeah, unless men are willing to share wives, there's not going to be enough pairing up. Women in China focus on careers and then become leftover women.
@Marklee-lx7cd4 жыл бұрын
Yeah like men don't have incredibly high expectations from women?This video is a prime example .Also there are left over women in China who these men refuse to date because of their own high expectations .
@themodernviriato93834 жыл бұрын
@@Marklee-lx7cd Its true. It goes both ways. But I believe that in terms of dating, men have it worst in China.
@lonamisa8343 жыл бұрын
That guy at 5:00 he seems really very enjoyable type of person who lives each and every moment of his life happily with his partner...
@Atchikaru4 жыл бұрын
Stop bullying people who want things. If a guy wants a girl who can cook, then he wants a girl who can cook. The reality is, most of us want certain things from our partners, we might end up falling in love with completely different people, but we still have ideals. There is nothing bad about that. For example, I love cooking and I want a guy who wants someone who can cook, bc I can lmao. so just stop acting like there's something bad about having a certain ideal body type or ideal qualities in mind when thinking of your future husband/wife
@xiagm-kemasmfadlic1503 жыл бұрын
True... That man criteria for woman just cooking... And people mad to him lol
@CaptTambo4 жыл бұрын
I don't think the interviewer would have a problem getting married. She's gorgeous, outgoing, and has a career.
@diditataful4 жыл бұрын
Indonesia hereee... where people after 25 and haven't get married will be asked by their surrounding "when will you get married? When will you get married?" After married they will ask you "when wil you have kids?" After you have kid they will ask you "when will you have 2nd, 3rd, 4th child?" And so on 😂😂😂. So many couples here sometimes get married just because they want to change their status in society 😄😄😄
@shahminalim54344 жыл бұрын
Agreed....In India also....If someone got married then after 1 year they will start asking :are you having baby are you pregnant or when will you have baby...Same thing happens here 😄😄
@RuRaynor4 жыл бұрын
For the past year I have been living in Japan. I met a guy I really liked and we were having a good time together, but he was so busy all the time. His work hours were 7am-7pm Monday to Saturday. We separated because I wanted to get married and he didn't think it was fair to me to work those hours and have a wife as he'd never see me. It was really upsetting.
@KM-gp2yz4 жыл бұрын
Yes, this is the main problem but nobody ever brings this up. Japanese work culture means there is no time to find a mate or have a love life.
@tmck41384 жыл бұрын
*reads title* Long answer: this video Short answer: not me
@rvalperez4 жыл бұрын
Praise to the interviewer. Really nice catch when the interviewees turn down themselves.
@fifi73674 жыл бұрын
The funny part is women is not natural born domestic worker. There's a lot of women that's just bad at it. Like me. Stigma of women is naturally caring and can take care of the household well is partly wrong. And it also applies to men. So actually hoping too much for your future partner to be what you want is one of the reason relationship is not working.
@StudioArtFX4 жыл бұрын
That whole concept came out of the industrial revolution. It was made up. It's what society needed at that time. That age is over.
@ameastrid77212 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to come live either in japan or korea , but now I’m frightened, sure my country isn’t modern and all but i feel like no one struggles like japanese people are rn , after all in my country you can still have 5 children in a small household and live with a salary of 150€ here (it’s a common phenomenon tho)
@hopelesshaddy33324 жыл бұрын
I don't think this is just a problem is Japan. I noticed allot of people from our generation not really liking the idea of having kids
@sakura20044 жыл бұрын
I liked how the work culture wasn't really mentioned too much. if you have everyone working so much then when the heck are they going to have time to start a relationship much less start a family.
@tatsumasa63324 жыл бұрын
We just need i-phones and seven elevens to have a life.
@1211jinx4 жыл бұрын
tatsu masa Lawson and Don quijote too 😁
@palakbhatt36584 жыл бұрын
Lol that's True though 😂😂
@kageyamareijikun4 жыл бұрын
tatsu masa dont forget Family Mart!
@tatsumasa63324 жыл бұрын
@@kageyamareijikun No, we don't want to use that kind of language like; "Family".
@kageyamareijikun4 жыл бұрын
tatsu masa ファミマートthen..hehe
@zumi_complex53764 жыл бұрын
Im Japanese 19 years old. I would like to marry someone who have own personality and of course want children . And I just want to say one thing “marriage partner is not your robot”.
@sunshine-hs3yq2 жыл бұрын
Hello 🥰
@xeno37554 жыл бұрын
Wow I'm early for once ! I love these videos and the Japanese guys are so cute😭😭😭😭
@chaskanawi43094 жыл бұрын
I feel so informed I'm happy thank you 😊
@sud89813 жыл бұрын
I'm tired of hearing Japanese guys say ' I want a girl who cooks good food.'
@stepfiel.p.26313 жыл бұрын
It's just preference. I would also prefer a partner who cooks since I'm not fond of it.
@sumeersamarat7063 жыл бұрын
Preference triggers women😂 You also want Higher paying husband suddenly Equality starting hurting you
@sud89813 жыл бұрын
@@sumeersamarat706 Stop making generalizations! Idiot. That's what's this video about. To not generalize that all women must know how to cook good food. Btw, why are you assuming on my behalf?
@khaitran433 жыл бұрын
@@sumeersamarat706 yes, it’s disgusting, lots of nonsense gaslight & personal attacks in the comment all because of the cooking demands😂
@datle28634 жыл бұрын
The world is already overpopulated. If I would raise a child, I would definitely adopt one. I think adopting will reduce the stress on the resources, less stress on society generally, less suffering in the society. That only happens when I am financially stable.
@danica63664 жыл бұрын
You'd think that asian parents like mine, having known how demanding work life can be when you get older, would let up on their children and let them have fun and explore new things and have relationships while they're still young instead of occupying every second of of their youth with studying for exams with no space for any form of "distraction".
@onemillionpercent4 жыл бұрын
trueeee but i cant tell them this. im just tired but let's keep it pushin
@Abshire-jj9fk3 жыл бұрын
2:49 *Icon right here*
@hafida91364 жыл бұрын
I came too early, no good comments :(
@xeno37554 жыл бұрын
Awww who is the person in ur profile pic he so cuuuteee😭 Edit: O wait nvm I looked closer and it's a TXT member and I'm sorry if this is wrong but I can't tell them apart easily because it is hard for me and takes me 2-10 days to tell people from groups apart but is that Beomgyu?
@folddealfeal27404 жыл бұрын
then make one :)
@mhdfrb99714 жыл бұрын
Army sucks
@hafida91364 жыл бұрын
@@mhdfrb9971 that isn't bts on my profile pic but okay