Jarvis Johnson Plays Dhar Mann Bingo 5

[@soraluver21]

as someone who’s had a stalker, NEVER TRUST THEM ALONE WITH YOU! these controlling situations make things very unsafe very quickly. I know Dhar Mann never takes these issues seriously, but this one really got to me

[@garbagesalt]

that's exactly what i was thinking watching this stream live, a lot of people in chat were saying the same thing. dhar mann is so irresponsible with the topics covered in these videos.

[@Annie_Annie__]

Seriously. This was not handled with the seriousness or gravity it deserves. Manipulative stalkers like this are *terrifying*. And there’s definitely times when you don’t realize you’re being manipulated in the moment, but even in that moment what you don’t realize is that you’re in danger. And this could have been handled at least partially with the gravity it needed. Mike could have called out Andy on his toxic behavior, told Sofia what Andy’s doing and helped her protect herself against him. He could have helped Andy get therapy. Then it would be a lesson for kids (mostly boys, but not solely) to call out this dangerous, toxic behavior and to protect the victim. They could have even had an expert say “Mike, I’m so glad you got Andy some help and helped Sofia too. Did you know that…” then the stats of just how damn dangerous it is for women/victims and how much they need real help in these situations. But no, instead we get this discount Disney Channel bull that makes it look like having a stalker is annoying, but not much more.

[@zorro......]

honestly i feel like hes too divorced from real world experiences. it's no wonder he can't identify that the way the girl reacts in the situation is incredibly dangerous. hes so out of touch and the fact that he can market it as changing lives is ridiculous...

[@Knoebhady]

Thank you! I had a student practically stalk me from class to class during high school and he made me think he was a great guy but he was manipulative and trying to make me feel bad for him and date him. He said he could "fix my sexuality" when I told him I was a lebian and he made me really uncomfortable

[@zaynab-to-a]

@@zorro...... technically, ending a life is still changing it...

[@n03111]

We're not just telling stories, we're ruining lives.

[@thiccboi8963]

We’re not just telling stories, we’re changing lives, for the worse!

[@ollkorrect1]

We’re not just telling stories, we’re taking lives

[@jungtothehuimang]

We're not just telling stories, we are teaching very dangerous lessons to children

[@firstaidowl]

And remember, when you share this video, you're ruining lives too!

[@Tw0Dots]

We’re not just changing stories, we’re telling lies

[@milessolomon4864]

Me: Alright, Dhar, when does he regret it? Me, later, panicking: DHAR, WHEN DOES HE REGRET IT?

[@garbagesalt]

he regrets not closing his computer and that's about it

[@lissbelfort7728]

the title doesn't even say he'll regret it 😭😭 mr mann really didn't want the stalker to learn a lesson

[@echo_felix331]

@@lissbelfort7728 normally they regret it though so when does that HAPPEN

[@Kairinokage]

@@lissbelfort7728 but the stalker got nothing. For anything we know, he could just go back to stalking her

[@lissbelfort7728]

@@Kairinokage that's my point lol the story didn't even make him acknowledge or regret or anything, there was no lesson, nothing

[@sighcantthinkofaname]

Man that lesson really glossed over how bad his actions were huh? He stalks her, lies about her boyfriend hitting him, has pictures of her around his room, and the justice is he doesn't get to date her? Yikes

[@zorro......]

people who are simply rude/entitled get more comeuppance in dhar manns videos than the literal emotionally abusive and manipulative stalker...

[@bananabrain2996]

And it didn't even resolve it, an abusive stalker clearly doesn't take no for an answer anyway, just being like "no for real this time, we're not dating!!" Isn't going to make him go away lol

[@datrtzhush3734]

@@bananabrain2996 exactly,dhar man videos aren't fit to deal with this very real issue

[@Kylopod]

Also, he's such a dumbass in covering his tracks that I could see some viewers drawing the lesson from it not that stalking is bad, but doing it in such a way that you'll easily be caught is. I'll give it this: at least they didn't try to give him a redemption arc, like many DM videos do. This fellow is so far gone, that would have just seemed tasteless.

[@jungtothehuimang]

Dhar Mann directly states these videos are for kids and younger audiences, but then teaches young women and girls to confront their abusive, manipulative, gaslighting ex themself. His videos are extremely dangerous, I'm sorry but this is not it.

[@elena_eleen]

THIS, honestly

[@stop--]

I swear, Dhar Mann almost seems like he *wants* to help abusive people out.

[@jungtothehuimang]

@@stop-- whether he realizes it or not he really is doing that, if someone tried this in reality there is a good chance they'd end up in a dangerous situation. It's so reckless to portray this as the right thing to do.

[@KVoinre]

similar topic but his racist videos really piss me off. I've been racially bullied by varying degrees my whole life and in his videos it almost seems like a joke? or a side plot in some? he never conveys the subtleties of racism that hurt so much more than being so blatant and on the nose

[@jungtothehuimang]

@@KVoinre I don't think he knows what subtly is he just wants to make a quick buck regardless of if the message he's spreading is legitimately helpful or not. His rhetoric is dangerous and annoying and unhelpful.

[@tsurifisher]

The way Sofia jumped when Andy grabbed at her necklace felt too real, like she actually wasn't expecting it

[@boomerangswingsbothways]

Yeah, I felt really uncomfortable. It just looked so real. The way she flinched away. I wonder why they broke up :((

[@JinStreams]

Based on behind the scenes allegations, she probably was legit scared

[@MTRAWKS]

@@JinStreamsoh??

[@JinStreams]

@MTRAWKS yeah, in his vid talking about the actors going on strike, Jarvis shared a story about an actress who was filming a tiktok vid where she was supposed to be chased with a prop knife by Dhar, except they used a real knife, presumably to save money, and it traumatized her, and he never actually apologized himself

[@-psilo-9071]

genuinely great acting from everyone especially how they all stare at him in disbelief but that's what makes so fucking creepy like thats too scary for a dahrman video

[@loggingfire1]

Mike can't leave because Andy is just gonna stalk him untill they're friends again.

[@simpeh3044]

Very underrated comment 😭

[@realdya.p7467]

Oh my... That's plausible

[@Decentname01]

I know this is an old comment, but honestly you’re right about it. I had a similar experience and scarily enough the stalker dude was also named Andy….but basically he started to stalk my friend who was cutting off ties with him while helping me get away from him too. He kept following my friend just so they can stay friends and still have a way to see me but thankfully it’s all over. These kinds of things are scary and I pray it doesn’t happen again or to anyone else

[@tryyoncemore383]

"friends"

[@quest900]

If his stories KZbin channel hadn't taken off, Dhar Mann would 100% be doing right-wing grift or alpha content.

[@AlbinoTuxedo]

I could easily see him making that same videos he does now, but instead of "motivational" stuff, it would all be "SJW TRIES TO COMPLAIN ABOUT CAPITALISM -INSTANTLY REGRETS IT"

[@ollkorrect1]

@@AlbinoTuxedo SJWs GENDER-SWAP a fictional character - INSTANTLY REGRET IT

[@mcscoops]

Bro why can I imagine hearing his voice in one of those "alpha male" videos

[@universal_stupidity]

@@AlbinoTuxedo Or literally just "Motivational" alpha male content

[@vlo4829]

You say that like his KZbin channel isn't already a grift. If anything, he's a bit of a left-wing grifter. He hasn't made a video where someone just says "capitalism" as if it's a meaningful rebuttal, but he does like to take left-wing keywords and social issues and sprinkle his "Dhar Mann morality" on top of them.

[@yam2283]

i love dhar mann bingo sm it is literally my favorite thing to put on in the background

[@aimemaggie]

Same! While I’m cooking

[@rileyjohnson1999]

Same I’ve been playing skyward sword to it

[@idiotleg9595]

i listen to it while drawing!

[@liddybiddy1440]

While I’m getting ready this is my favorite content to have on.

[@weedlechu]

Exactly! I watch it while playing genshin or drawing

[@spacedustic]

1. The ADHD tangent was one of the best parts about this vid 2. Sophia, WHY did you confront him? This is definitely a "run while he is still in the bathroom" or "make up an excuse and leave" moment. Mr. Mann (or his writers, I'm not sure) really dropped the ball with that conclusion. Did they think it's anticlimactic not to give the girl a "ha, gotcha!" moment?

[@SuzER08]

That video was like a horror movie, and dangerously bad "advice", irl if she let him into her apartment alone, went over to his apartment alone, and especially if she confronted him, he would have likely assaulted her

[@LadyAndromeda1234]

chat: cartoon supervillian????? villian perhaps, but not cartoon by any means- terrifying dudes like andy exist everywhere

[@stickinug]

My thoughts exactly... this is an exact replica of real life

[@vlo4829]

He was a surprisingly good villain. Too good. That ending was not at all a believable way for such a meticulous villain to get exposed...

[@VasundharaKanjilalROCKS]

Exactly. Its not cartoonish at all.

[@TheMarastari]

So true. This one scared the hell outta me.

[@kaemincha]

dont know if you watch Alizee, but it reminds me of one of the guys she mentions in her recent AITA reddit video. he kept trying to meet up with her, but her dad and brother wouldnt allow him to see her alone (and bless them for that tbh)

[@caidalee1994]

Confronting an ex that’s been actively gaslighting you and antagonizing your new relationship with no one around? You can tell Sophia was written by a man who doesn’t understand 🙃 Also, I thought it was gonna be Mike who texted Sophia about what Andy was doing, or Andy would’ve left his phone and Mike would’ve texted him. Way less of a coincidence than suddenly getting cold and asking for a hoodie.

[@kai_maceration]

Yeah I hate how the friend of the toxic person in these videos never seems to take any sort of action in these situations, but often is still presented as virtuous for doing nothing... I think it's because people in Dhar Mann videos are only ever good or bad, they aren't just *human*

[@vlo4829]

I said in another comment: This villain was wasted. He was made to be too careful and forward-thinking in his plans for him to be believably exposed in this manner. It was such a copout. Her visit that night should have been a victory for him except maybe something SMALL (related to the make-up bruise perhaps) that lingered in her mind and then going further into her devolving relationship with her boyfriend, things kind of making sense but not adding up completely, some comfort but growing distrust in her ex, and yeah... At some point Mike becoming so disturbed by perhaps a "final plan" to get rid of the boyfriend or something could have led him to talk to her OR at some point she could have met him when he was with Mike, noticed Mike was acting uncomfortable and confronting Mike privately herself out of desperation to get her own head straight as her relationships are all in flux and she doesn't know if she can trust either her boyfriend or her ex... But no, we get the "slipped on a banana peel" (or more accurately the "Sriracha squirts") ending...

[@kaemincha]

literally that route is the Bad End route 💀 dont trust em, my dudes

[@siukong]

​@@vlo4829 I know right. So many other videos have the montage/time skip to underscore the lesson but in this case when it would have actually served the story well (showing a relationship devolving due to the manipulation/gaslighting of an ex who was secretly a stalker, with subtle clues that all wasn't right), they didn't use one. Strange.

[@moosedraw3731]

I mean she did already call dale, so he was on the way. But yea you’re right, it’s incredibly unsafe to depict, especially to the young and impressionable audience that dhar Mann aims his videos at, that antagonising and confronting an emotional abuser with no one else around isn’t going to make things worse… it’s straight up danger…..

[@Nexius_]

dhar mann being fined less than he took is an infinite money glitch

[@lindensalter6713]

That’s usually how these things go unfortunately

[@JinStreams]

Yeah, crimes committed by rich people are rarely enforced in a meaningful way. Like, a fine that you can afford is just a fee.

[@Emma-zc5jm]

Dhar Mann really said the lesson is "Stalking won't work because you won't actually date her" instead of the more appropriate and accurate *"Stalking is illegal and wrong and bad and you will go to jail if you do it. Don't try it, freak."* Edit: also with the end scene, most women would have fucking gotten out of that house before he left the bathroom

[@placeholderdoe]

Most people would

[@darkarcades]

I've been watching a lot of these over the last few weeks. The one thing that annoys me almost every episode is how annoying the chat is. I love how much Jarvis tries to be accommodating, but they demand so much from him. Even the innocuous things like whether the NYT website has a dark mode. He doesn't control that site. The light mode bothered me too, but I simply turned my screen brightness down a little for that part. It wasn't that hard. It's not fair to expect a creator to accommodate everyone. I think some people need to relax and take some responsibility with their own viewing experience.

[@kennycompton6275]

THIS!!

[@liriohardy7240]

i agree!! Jarvis really is trying his best, i wish people would chill out and be more polite!

[@dannyhotemo]

THANK YOU!!! Life can't just bend to your will all the time like stuff is going to uncomfortable sometimes so maybe just....deal with it???? like damn

[@rachiboo14]

Jarvis is too nice honestly

[@rileyywhited]

Exactly!!! Also I don’t see the problem with light mode. I prefer it to dark mode by far.

[@clegs8356]

bingo-wise, i feel like maybe it's just a subset of 'sexism', but maybe there's an argument for 'female character has zero agency' ?? that feels like a common trope and this fits the bill 100%

[@lindensalter6713]

Sexism usually doesn’t cover things like that from what I’ve seen but instead for overt 1950s style sexism. Honestly we need a space for more sexism bias in the scripts bc I’m starting to notice that pattern

[@lukeoaks]

I’m confused on what the sexism would be in the situation. Is it the fact that he is still chasing her even after she dumped her and won’t leave her alone? If so I feel like that’s more towards the rape/stalking side than sexism. (Sorry if this game off as offensive I’m just confused)

[@clegs8356]

@@lukeoaks yeah pretty much! also the script writing having things just happen TO her constantly without her input, the main dude literally describes her as "just confused" as if she can't make her own choices or doesn't know her own feelings, etc... the entire plot is just her existing while men do messy shit around her that no one asked for lol. i'd argue that rape culture and sexism, while not the same thing (and not at all ignoring male sexual assault, etc!), are definitely very intertwined. i think a lot of the power dynamics involved are inherently sexist/misogynistic. does that make sense?

[@clegs8356]

@@lindensalter6713 yeah exactlyyy. there's for sure a distinction between the "girls cant like CARS !1!!!", "umm, leave this job to the MEN, sweetie ;))", cartoonish-sexism-as-a-plot-point kind, versus the incidental sexism woven into storylines that never actually gets addressed within the content.

[@corinaferrara1164]

“I’m not your butterfly. I’m dale’s.”

[@alexmaxwell4210]

Dhar mann commits fraud, LIVES TO REGRET IT

[@emilys.7627]

dude😂😂

[@fortysevensfortysevens1744]

what happens in the dark always [EXPUNGED]

[@commandercorl1544]

Dhar Mann becomes a DRUG LORD by selling materials for WEED, INSTANTLY REGRETS IT

[@placeholderdoe]

Streamer exposes dhar mann for financial fraud, WHAT HAPPENS NEXT IS SHOCKING

[@gaygengar]

i'm going to personally fight the Twitch chat jfc. they literally complain about everything. it feels like Jarvis is constantly having to walk on eggshells. he can't do or say anything without people making him feel bad about it, and it's always over the stupidest things. like how tf are they gonna whine that he had light mode on for like 2 minutes??? and argue with him over every single decision that he makes about the bingo?like come on. i get that Jarvis wants to provide a safe/comfortable environment for the people watching his stream, but chat is taking advantage of that kindness and demanding a completely unreasonable level of accommodation. he shouldn't have to bend over backwards to avoid what are, at worst, mild inconveniences/annoyances to his chat. it isn't fair or realistic. not to mention the ableism from people complaining about his ADHD. and yes, it IS ableism to complain about someone with ADHD "getting off track" or "getting distracted" when their behaviour doesn't even negatively affect you. it's HIS STREAM. he's allowed to get off track if he wants to. is it seriously that big of a deal? idk man, i just feel bad for Jarvis honestly. it must be exhausting to have to constantly justify yourself to your own audience and jump through hoops to meet their expectations. sorry about that rant lol. loved the video despite the chat being babies about everything ❤️

[@dannyhotemo]

dude seriously it pisses me off so bad. I love watching his stream but the chat is honestly ridiculous and makes me angry every time i get on there. like I'm sorry but the world can't always just bend to your will??? ffs I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels this way

[@rachiboo14]

I know I want to join his twitch just to give out to those people

[@mikastella]

This is why I don't read stream chats. They're usually bad

[@kaemincha]

welcome to twitch chat, it is usually awful even for the best of creators

[@datrtzhush3734]

Chat has beta energy ngl But seriously it's so stupid,i watch live streams where the streamer gets off track and enjoy it,if i dont care about the offtrack stuff i'll just watch the video,not that hard not to mention i get off track irl a lot too so i very much understand

[@hirondelle398]

It would've been better if Mike (Andy's friend) went to snitch on him, it would show that you shouldn't protect and support creepy people just because they are your friends... (like in Hollywood or everywhere!) Just a thought :)

[@caidalee1994]

There’s the lesson they forgot

[@Taolexa]

Right on sister 😉

[@hirondelle398]

@@Taolexa Hahahha Cuuute 🥰

[@alithegrape1696]

It wouldn't be a Dhar Mann video without a problematic lesson 😫💀💀

[@MooCow765]

Or if mike went and got dale and told dale about Andy’s friend, or anything to make him not complicit

[@moosedraw3731]

We’re not just telling stories, we’re bringing up trauma in people’s lives.

[@moosedraw3731]

Yo the comments on the original video are truly terrifying…. Like… YIKES.

[@acornwinter]

@@moosedraw3731 oh dear. what are they like?

[@DragonWolf11]

Dude, I am LUCKY that I haven't experienced something like this yet. It's a terrifying thing to happen to someone and I just want to point out all of the ways Dhar Mann could have done this sketch better (like giving the girl ways to ACTUALLY defend herself and her boyfriend not give away where she is) and I'm only 10 minutes in. This is already mind-boggling to me and I feel uncomfortable for the girl. I know Dhar Mann's videos are low effort but he could have AT LEAST put a trigger warning in the beginning of the video. Sorry for all of the capital letters, I just feel really strongly about stuff like this.

[@imknifeman]

I feel so bad when Jarvis makes sarcastic comments about the future youtube comments because I know people seem to want to tear him apart for every little thing in these videos. I hope jarvis knows he doesnt need to change anything. Hes doing his job and hes having fun, let him live

[@allisonavery7273]

Bump

[@goblindeeznuts]

Yeah

[@Kyran1996]

Gotta love Jarvis having to explain the difference between a coincidence and something that happens by design in every game of Dhar Mann Bingo.

[@padawanguy360]

dhar mann videos are what would happen if you took a tumblr fake story, replaced any fandom with dhar mann, and acted it out

[@yabadabadeenation]

Literally ☠️☠️

[@FrancesBaconandEggs]

OMFGGG

[@7PMNewz]

The Down with Dhar bus

[@swordswaltzing]

homestuck cop but it’s a new dhar mann video

[@snailmeatt]

Y/n Instantly regretted their decision…

[@AliciaMajo]

As someone who has had a stalker for 7 years, this video made me so uncomfortable and kinda scared. It is so freaking nightmarish and sometimes I still feel like he'll find a way, any way, to find me.

[@jasminelondon690]

Im so sorry that happened to you and I hope you're safe now 💗

[@AliciaMajo]

@@jasminelondon690 I have a good support group, and the last time he looked for was over year ago probably, so don't worry about me. Thank you for being so sweet, it really does mean a lot to me. I hope you're happy

[@ruthiewitter569]

I hope you stay safe for the rest of your days, friend. I’m so sorry. That’s terrifying, I’m glad you made it through

[@AliciaMajo]

@@ruthiewitter569 Thank you so much, I'm doing everything to stay safe, and I know I have people to protect me. I love your name btw. ♡

[@ruthiewitter569]

@@AliciaMajo I'm so glad you have people in your life who can be there for you ^-^ you are a very special kind of strong to keep on. Thank you so much! That's really sweet :o I think your name is lovely, too, it looks so elegant and it sounds like regal :D

[@codynardone8772]

This video was seriously the worst, "I'm not your butterfly anymore... I'm Dale's" at the end made me sick

[@annamelvina216]

Agh! Like even if she wasn't dating anyone, that doesn't mean she'd ever got back to Andy. It's so bad. 🤢

[@howdypardner6278]

she's not allowed to have any agency as a character and it's infuriating

[@fortysevensfortysevens1744]

@@howdypardner6278 counterpoint: she is a woman and this is a dhar mann video

[@ninar9664]

@@fortysevensfortysevens1744it’s giving r/men writing women

[@LunaHarp91]

Jarvis: We'll get back to the video in a second. Three min later Jarvis: Just a good old fashioned ADHD tangent. This is adorable. Never change.

[@HobieInTheBox]

What a mood tho lmao

[@thebrutusmars]

“Three” lmao it was nearly 10 (Not complaining, though)

[@lindensalter6713]

@Kay E it is if you have adhd and that affected you to go onto a different topic and start ranting

[@Drowningindisappointment]

It's adorable until it's 4am and you're watching Dhar Man Bingo instead of finishing your thesis that was due yesterday

[@garbagesalt]

on stream he has an emote that says "ADHD gang" and it's so good, i feel like the majority of jarvis's audience also has ADHD lol

[@mazeltovcocktail2.0]

Dude this is such a dangerous thing to be teaching people. I'm saying that as someone who left an abusive situation, that could have turned out the worst way and I HATE THAT ENDING. Like you're not *anyone's* butterfly you're your own person girl stop it!

[@ruthiewitter569]

Amen to that

[@anxiousabsol]

Bruh stalking is uncomfortably normalized in media... my *online* ex gf used to stalk my socials and text my friends and new bf threatening shit. It's disgusting

[@botanicalitus4194]

Yeah, esp online stalking. Its portrayed as no big deal and relatable.

[@ClowncoreisCool]

^^^ One of my many problems with Miraculous Ladybug, they made the protagonist a cyber stalker who tries to sabotage every girl who even talks to her love interest. Also she has magical powers, which she used to break into his house/evade his privacy like twice now, that I can recall. This behavior gets normalized because she never faces any consequences or even a "hey stop, that's weird" from anybody around her, they just goad her on and cheer when she successfully stalks him. Miraculous Ladybug is a kid's show btw.

[@ClowncoreisCool]

@@rowanquynn9964 Of course you didn't consider that, the writers don't want you to, that's why they portray her as "cute and relatable" when in reality she's just as bad as Chloe and Lila. :/

[@queeenie]

@@ClowncoreisCool she is *way* worse than either of them 😭 I never liked her character bc she’s so obsessed with Adrien that it influences everything she does. She’s so two-faced and too immature to be a hero tbh. She acts like a cute and awkward girl whenever it comes to Adrien/in front of him but treats others selfishly and whenever someone else has a crush on him she’s like a total yandere 😭

[@ClowncoreisCool]

@@queeenie ^^^THIS.

[@diduforgeturyellowbird]

she takin that chump to the big HIPHOPCONCERT

[@boomerangswingsbothways]

*gasp* Not the big HIPHOPCONCERT !!!

[@strawberryjam6235]

Who's performing at the HIPHOPCONCERT

[@diduforgeturyellowbird]

@@strawberryjam6235 ps5

[@childeofepickness]

@@diduforgeturyellowbirdI thought it was xbox

[@caIyps0]

i love that this is still a joke😭🙌

[@kinnoyu8448]

I know this guy is a creep and that's difficult to handle with emotionally, but this is the kinda guy to _really_ go off the rails if he has no one to try and ground him. Mike is doing a very difficult, but very necessary and heroic job

[@LacroixboiMarx]

That’s what I was thinking. Like, imagine if Mike wasn’t around. Andy’s an Eliot Rodger waiting to happen.

[@ollkorrect1]

@@LacroixboiMarx who’s Eliot Roger

[@lindensalter6713]

@@ollkorrect1 he was one of those guys that call themselves incels. He killed a bunch of people at and near a school campus to get “revenge” for them not seeing him as the amazing euroasian man he was (said in his manifesto pretty much). What he needed was some serious mental help but never got any.

[@kinnoyu8448]

@@LacroixboiMarx I don't think he'd go on a shooting spree. I feel like the most extreme thing he'd do is kill her them himself. That's how a lot of those kinda things go with ex boyfriend stalkers who take it too far.

[@stacyh7528]

@Kay E do you not think that crazy ex’s kill? Because that’s not even the tiniest bit true.

[@cb034]

Like, the *least* Dharr Man couldve done is put abuse help center phone numbers at the end of the video or said "This sort of behavior is never okay" in his voice over. Theres no real resolution, no consequences. This was super bad

[@cb034]

Not to mention the whole "I'm Dale's" at the end. Just ugh. The whol issue was that the ex was super controlling and possessive, at the end the girl established new ownership of her essentially.( Not me doing a feminist diatribe in the comments🤣 i need to go to bed)

[@anactualprayingmantis5054]

My best friend's ex was like this. Man literally hid in the bushes outside her job, crying. It took a really long time until he left her alone

[@siouiouioui]

jesus that is terrifying

[@TheMarastari]

So scary! Hope she is free of him now.

[@botanicalitus4194]

Thats awful. I hope shes ok

[@z0e898]

"The truth always comes out until it is expunged from your record" -Dhar Mann

[@surfsupshinji-kun]

One of the most annyoing things about this bingo is chat trying to get him to call out ANYTHING! And he sits there trying to explain to chat why they're wrong or having to re-explain the rules for each bingo spot cause people can't chill. It's just really frustrating to have to sit through these videos when like half of the video is chat being annoying

[@katiescanlan2496]

Why did this not end with her getting a restraining order against him?!

[@aayuktaraut8424]

RIGHT??? I WAS VIOLENTLY UNCOMF FOR THE WHOLE VIDEO

[@nbhd_deadpoet]

the amount of times Jarvis had to say "this isn't wrong person with an attitude" to chat is honestly just sad

[@lemqnshark]

she's confronting him in his own house and no one even knows she's there, GIRL RUN

[@marilynn4000]

And Remember guys, we’re not just telling stories we’re committing fraud

[@alliswonderlain2595]

Excusing the fact that no one should ever try to confront someone that unhinged in their own home, within grabbing distance no less, I think she felt comfortable doing it knowing that Dale was already en route. Still a terrible idea, I mean, that looks like an apartment and there was no guarantee he would be able to get into the building before something regrettable happened; I get it from a story telling perspective. Mansplain, manipulate, malewife

[@allisonavery7273]

Malewife?

[@ClowncoreisCool]

@@allisonavery7273 A malewife is just a submissive man, the term was created to be the opposite of a girl boss which is a dominant woman, both girlboss and malewife are joke terms now.

[@caidalee1994]

I mean, it would take two seconds for him to go grab a knife or something. It doesn’t really matter if Dale was in route, because Sophia didn’t even tell Andy, so it wouldn’t have been a deterrent for him to do something awful, and Dale would’ve been too late by the time he got there.

[@AndromedaD]

Every real person and character I've met/seen named Andy since choosing that name for myself has been a creep. I think the best option now to simply go by no name at all.

[@astridcreemers5132]

Just go with Andromeda 😂 pretty rad name

[@steppin-razor]

Plenty of other names in the sea.

[@vacuumsdotgov]

theres a bunch of great andys!! like andy from toy story… other andys…

[@arieslofi]

andy from child's play!

[@Rad-Dude63andathird]

@@arieslofi Arguably the coolest Andy in fiction.

[@ppas789]

Calling Dhar Mann a philosopher is like calling Hitler a Chef / cook

[@sanrusdyne73]

These kind of Nazi jokes, the ones that shoe a clear understanding of the holocaust, mock Hitler in some way, and over all pushing the limit while still not going to far and just being an offensive joke. This is like a genuinely hilarious joke

[@whyccan9063]

This girl is unreasonably calm and forgiving to accept the weirdo invitation for his place in such a delicate moment of which he is the pivot of (even if she didn't knew his plans at that specific point).

[@vlo4829]

I don't think so. From her perspective, her ex was being kind while her boyfriend was lashing out at her. In most Dhar Mann videos, everything is usually so obvious, a character like her would just look like an idiot, but in this one, I think they did a surprisingly good job at making the villain's success believable.

[@VasundharaKanjilalROCKS]

Right? She even touched her hands on his chest. Its sexism and misleading. This is dangerous.

[@whyccan9063]

@@vlo4829 Maybe accepting to listen to him and having his support is believable for me. Accepting him on her place is already pushing the line of believable. Accepting to go to a overnight on his place is straight up a leap on the uncanny. All things in that video lead us to believe that she and Dale *just* broke up, like, hours ago (considering the ex "red eye"), it's very strange to see her so open to anything with him at that point.

[@vlo4829]

@@whyccan9063 Okay, yeah, I guess I see that.

[@pheebz510]

Also funny this person owes the city of Oakland money for defrauding them on his weed company and now he’s supposed to teach kids about right and wrong? And the city of Oakland has like no money anyway. Shady af

[@AlbinoTuxedo]

Mr. Man really does exude that "I make charitable donations to make people forget about all that fraud i do" energy, but instead of charity work it's making weird inspo videos

[@lnk2158]

@@AlbinoTuxedo Because he's a grifter through and through

[@ScarceCastle2]

I didn't realize how much I'd resonate with Jarvis's frustrated reaction to that NYT article. 😅

[@pajama-sam]

It feels like every five minutes Jarvis says something like "[x thing] is so weird!" and chat gangs up to be like "What are you talking about?? That's super normal" and it absolutely IS NOT a normal thing 😭 stop gaslighting him!!

[@Bubaiel]

@Kay E I think they're joking about the gaslighting this considering the topic of this video

[@arieslofi]

bro his chat is so fucking weird 😭 they've minimalized his adhd, put him on blast about his bullying, make him feel bad for no reason whatsoever, it's insane

[@astrxlcat]

Twitch chat in general is rarely a fun place to be in my experience. I normally hid the chat when I was watching Twitch a lot - made for a better viewing experience.

[@siouiouioui]

@@arieslofi is this a common theme w twitch chats or is it bc jarvis is so sweet and accommodating? like he wants everyone to be comfortable but people keep pushing it to the extreme and taking advantage of that?

[@astrxlcat]

@@siouiouioui I realize I’m not the person you’re responding to, but unfortunately it is just a common theme with Twitch chats. Obviously people aren’t great on the internet normally thanks to anonymity, but live content is especially tough I’ve found. There are a lot of reasons for it - reactionary responses that people send quickly without thought, people intentionally saying something inflammatory to gain attention because a creator is more likely to respond in a live format, a collection of at least a few hundred people with differing opinions who think they are the one in the right, etc.

[@JinStreams]

This guy flew past cartoon supervillain into genuinely terrifying and accurate depiction. The raw footage could easily be turned into a hainting thriller.

[@JinStreams]

I'm genuinely not sure if Dhar sees just how bad this dude is and the lack of any real comeuppance is super telling about himself and how he views these kinds of crimes.

[@JinStreams]

The ending is the kind of scenario that leads to a murder or sexual assault, genuinely horrifying

[@DistressedDamsel79]

The amount of terror I felt when she was watching the video. The usual trope in thriller movies is the perpetrator would have walked in on her while it was playing and finally attack her. Then she didn’t leave the apartment and the fear only increased. Please if someone is doing something shady like this, you don’t know how unhinged they can be. Don’t worry about feeling rude, they do not deserve the curtesy of formalities at this point. Protecting your life comes first in this moment. Stay safe out there ❤️

[@jessikajohnson4906]

Oop did not think I was gonna get triggered watching this but yikes, they did not need to make Andy that manipulative or gaslighty to get their point across. Love your videos Jarvis!

[@Poedoco]

@Kay E tf?

[@garbagesalt]

right especially when the moral of the story didn't even end up being "don't manipulate/gaslight/abuse people," it ended up being "don't lie cause you'll get caught"

[@undead_steph3726]

@@garbagesalt or, “just don’t get caught”

[@childeofepickness]

@@undead_steph3726don’t forget “don’t stalk your ex because then you won’t be able to date them”

[@meinenklinke]

I’ve been dating my boyfriend six months and if I had framed photos of us around my house I would feel like a psychopath.

[@PinnePon]

Yeah like i would never feel comfortable with more than one photo of them

[@tylerwhite1322]

I had to scroll too far to see this. It’s wild that the chat told Jarvis is completely normal to have SO many framed photos of them as a couple

[@madieg]

the chat can really ruin such a fun stream idea but i still watch these because jarvis is one of my comfort youtubers / streamers

[@e.d.t.]

Dhar Mann probably hasn't changed. He just found a better hustle.

[@annabelleking2141]

This is basically Dhar watching “You” and going, oh yeah, Netflix has got something here.

[@kaelowrey6841]

Stalkers and chronic harassers are so scary. Thanks for speaking out against them

[@sirfurbingtonthe23rd4]

As someone who uses Discord Light Mode, Jarvis is the hero that I need.

[@ReeseHolmes]

Jarvis is the physical embodiment of life hacks.

[@garbagesalt]

the funniest thing (imo) about jarvis being referred to as the life hacks guy is that he's never actually made a life hack, just tried life hacks other "people" made, "people" in quotes because they're made by corporations not individuals lol

[@ReeseHolmes]

@@garbagesalt yeah

[@humanstew6144]

When he says "he's detectiving" is so funny, it took me a while to realize that is not a real word either but sleuthing is the right word lmao

[@Darksk1ngothgf]

*literally anything* chat: BAD PROP BAD PROP

[@Ladybug.2727]

I WISH my old stalker was that direct. He would just send me texts saying shit like, "did you enjoy the mall today?" after I came home from shopping. 😮‍💨🔪

[@Alina-fo9kr]

I’m so sorry you had to go through that - I hope you’re fine now ❤️

[@Ladybug.2727]

@@Alina-fo9kr Awe, you're so sweet. Thanks hun.❤ I'm fine now, this was a very long time ago and he actually went to jail.

[@P4rz1va1]

The lesson being "I don't belong to you, I belong to him" was certainly problematic. She should have said said something like "I'm not your butterfly, I don't belong to anyone"

[@super1234431]

They could of easily turned this into a better lesson with a better ending the whole thing makes me so mad 😮‍💨 I seriously love these bingos though! Very entertaining keep it up ❤️

[@KraggFair]

*could have

[@KraggFair]

@@dhksgfiejr2059 you're thinking of "could've," which is a contraction of "could have"

[@Viscidsquare040]

@@KraggFair ok ygs100 fan

[@AAAAAA-613]

I love how Twitch chat always jumps to call things immediately. There's a woman? Sexism. Music is playing? Inappropriate music. Something happens? Extreme coincidence. Somebody says something? Bad ADR. Someone is the bad guy? Cartoon supervillain and also clearly in the wrong person has an attitude. Lol

[@phoenixc8328]

to be fair stalking your ex girlfriend and acting like you need to own and protect her is very real sexism

[@AAAAAA-613]

@@phoenixc8328 Yeah, but chat still loves to stretch to try to get as many things as possible lol

[@katelynsmith61]

I literally said “what is that stance?” a second before Jarvis did.

[@butoutofcontext]

Being there live was a different experience than just watching the vod. Had so much fun ❤️

[@rockgurl10142]

There comes a point where you gotta call out your friend for being a psycho

[@emilysmith5130]

i’m not over my ex at all but u’d never catch me trying to stalk her in any way. hell i do my best to ignore her existence in any way. stalking like this takes way more energy and i’d imagine it’s a lot worse on urself emotionally and mentally. not to mention it makes u a disgusting and scary person.

[@juliamdp]

I love when Jarvis is forming an opinion and he gets into this train of billions thoughts in which every time he thinks something more or contradicts previous thoughts he just grunts in confusion and just by those random moans I can basically tell his mind is going exactly where mine is as well

[@strangerofthe2067]

OVERSTEPPING BOUNDARIES That’s one you should add, where the ex grabbed the girl’s necklace. Definitely seen the overstepping in these videos before.

[@aballerg6378]

every word the stalker guy says is like a move on the chess board

[@Sempiternus444]

A charge being expunged doesn't really mean much other than he was a good boy in court

[@blueberryimpala]

I would love these videos if not for the people in chat arguing every little thing and being constantly dumb as hell lmao. I don't know how Jarvis isn't constantly calling them all jackasses, I could never be a streamer.

[@garbagesalt]

most of chat is fine when you're there live, there's so many people and it goes so fast that you can't expect jarvis to see and call out every individual person

[@fortysevensfortysevens1744]

chat is honestly making these videos a lot worse since jarvis is too nice to not explain himself every time and it really eats into the video

[@WickedKatze]

the most realistic thing about this video is that the weird stalker guy's apartment has zero fucking furniture 😆

[@JinStreams]

Man sold all his possessions to hide in her walls

[@ByzantineDarkwraith]

can’t express how disappointed I am at Jarvis for using curse words

[@peterevans6480]

ur joking right im slow

[@emilys.7627]

agreed. not very family friendly :(

[@lykeprice9239]

Exactly!!!!! I watch these videos with my cats and their poor little ears melt at the obscenities!! 😭😭 I wish that he would stop embracing his satanic side and wash his mouth out with soap!! ☹️🧼

[@garbagesalt]

@@peterevans6480 i assume they're joking about the intro to the video :-)

[@kaemincha]

not on my Christian Minecraft server

[@KISSDUNGEON]

I feel like “unreasonably dismissive” would be a good one

[@CompanionCorbs]

Legit had an awful day. Some lighthearted fun is what I needed. Thank you.

[@shiannafoxx]

Ah yes. Gaslighting, manipulation, and abuse are *so fun*

[@eroticmanhole]

@@shiannafoxx nothing like some manipulate mansplain bingo to start out the day

[@habebamahmoud8451]

Wow low key feeling proud that a fellow Arab won this game of bingo. Nice going Majda👏🏽👏🏽

[@rosiejl2798]

Yeah never confront a abuser especially when alone with them in a apartment. If this was a real situation there would be a high likelyhood of him turning violent towards her. The time immediatly after leaving a abusive relationship is the most dangerous time for a abuser esclating their behaviour to violence and even murder. Thankfully there are organisations that will help you leave and stay safe and national helplines can be found if you google your country and domestic violence helpline.

[@Liex59]

6:50 I kinda resent this idea cuz I still have a necklace my first girlfriend got me, just cuz it's my favorite character from my favorite game series. I have no romantic interest in her just cuz she got me a cool necklace I still wear lol

[@SM-yz4hi]

fr i’m not throwing out a cool piece of jewelry just because i threw out the person who gave it to me lol

[@3000spiders]

It's extremely refreshing to see new actors in dhar mann videos after seeing the same asian nice guy/evil blonde women/brunette car girl in so many of these videos

[@emperorblackman5710]

Dale's nametag at the end straight up says "Dan" and it's hilarious.

[@mamiroxxx_17]

SOMEBODY IN CHAT SAID “dhar mann commits fraud, instantly regrets it.”

[@StormyTalks]

55:14 Yes, this! This man is clearly not a safe person to be around. The confrontation should NOT have happened here at this house. She has no idea what he could do to her while she's trapped here with him.

[@Evanz111]

I wish I could call him a cartoon supervillain for the stalking and facing assault by her boyfriend, but I’ve legit known /more than one/ person who has done that to other people I know. This world is horrible when it comes to ‘love’ and what people do in pursuit of it.

[@ruthiewitter569]

42:30 Jarvis: “those blinds aren’t supposed to be like that, right? Or am I just wrong?” Me: “only a psychopath would leave their blinds like that on the regular.” Also me, remembering what I’m watching. “Oh. Yeah no that totally checks out”

[@nosondaitchman9073]

We're not just watching Dhar Mann videos, we're playing bingo.

[@reusingthecels]

i seriously love when jarvis goes on those side tangents, because im the same way and i know if i streamed id do the same thing lol its so entertaining

[@Mouse_Lyne]

Watching Jarvis get so invested in and frustrated with the stalker story had me ROLLING

[@tsundor1]

can we talk about how the actors in this one are actually quite convincing? i felt like the girl had the right mannerisms and the stalker ex felt legitimately scary at times, which is a testament to doing his role well

[@PanthORandPonAY]

Dear Jarvis, This has nothing to do with the video (even though I love it...duh), but I just wanted you to know that I think you are a beautiful person inside and out. Like many other people in the world, I was quarantined for Christmas. My roommate came up positive on X-Mas Eve. This was the first Christmas I ever missed in my whole life with my family. To be completely transparent, I slipped into a very deep and very fucked up depression. I stumbled upon your channel awhile ago, but binge watching your Moment of Truth vids AND that super awful Black & White set of reaction videos were so comforting during this horrible mental health debacle. They were comforting because your sense of humor makes me cry laughing!!! Your energy is so warm and your heart shines. 😊💗 Thank you for being you. I know I can't be the only one super lifted up by your content and you as a human! Much love, well wishes, and happy Wednesday!

[@Arualiaa]

The part where she decides to stay and confront her stalker ALONE IN HIS PLACE where no one can hear her scream just… man, I wasn’t expecting to be triggered by one of these silly videos, but here we go. To be alone with your stalker who is getting increasingly physical, know that he went to great lengths to get you alone, and not feel the visceral, primal fear that you’re going to leave that house in the trunk of his car, it’s just… it’s just such a female character written by a man thing to do.

[@honestlythough7250]

I feel like this is the best dhar mann video bc i know 100% that there are people that act like this but paradoxically bc its realistic, I also hate it the most. Makes me kinda ill ngl. The most unrealistic thing i think is that she stayed for the “gotcha” moment instead of immediately running when she saw his fucking shrine. But yeah the lesson here is that this behavior is predatory, terrifying, and probably illegal. This guy irl could absolutely resort to violence. This is not “normal” jealous behavior. The lesson is A. Don’t do it. B. Don’t enable or dismiss it and C. Call the cops

[@kittyrosefaerie7464]

Yeah my own father is similar to this. Worse actually:/. These people are for sure out there..

[@siukong]

Yeah people were calling him a cartoon villain but the thing about those is that they're so ludicrously over-the-top that they're unrealistic. Sadly with this character his stalker behaviour is all too common in the real world.

[@TonyAurum]

Unless I'm mistaken, I'm pretty sure that you can use movies as tax write offs, so it's a possibility that given Mr. Mann's history, that this is why he got into the KZbin game and why they're treated like actual productions.

[@garbagesalt]

yeah in another stream jarvis and chat made some jokes about dhar mann using the car videos as tax write offs for his expensive cars, hence the dhar cars being in so many videos lol

[@TonyAurum]

@@garbagesalt that makes so much sense lol and the same could be said about the various apple products. They could all be wrote off as business expenses lol

[@BooklikesBFDI]

2:22 the friend looks so flabbergasted😭😭

[@charlesalexander560]

Jarvis:"liv glam??....lie-ve glam?..." My brain:"liveglam, laughglam, loveglam??"

[@andrewhaley4996]

The thing is, the guy never had anything bad happen to him😂

[@garbagesalt]

literally the only consequence he faced was he didn't "get the girl"

[@tenpintsofsundrop]

"we used to sit at this table, too" - it's the only table

[@bee4852]

Jarvis twitch viewers will call the PowerBall when they were "really close"

[@melsfiredrill]

The start: "we are doing dharman bingo" 12:59 to 24:08 : "DHARMAN IS A CRIMINAL!?"

[@lousin6082]

Jarvis should definitely add something like repeated house/set, because that same house at 31:20 has been in every bingo stream that I have watched on yt

[@notdestini]

This is so sad, Andy is so hung up on his ex he doesn't even notice that his friend is in love with him 😔

[@Sitcomabed]

I WAS LITERALLY JUST REWATCHING THE SERIES AGAIN LETS GOO

[@aven7580]

BRO SAME

[@froggy5748]

great minds think alike

[@shinyintp2064]

Hahaha,High five to everyone who's doing the same!🖐🏼

[@garbagesalt]

when this stream started i was watching a previous bingo stream so that was really fun