5 SIGNS He's Keeping You as an Option!🚩🤷‍♀️

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Derrick Jaxn

Derrick Jaxn

Күн бұрын

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@BrendaBaBoom
@BrendaBaBoom 7 ай бұрын
Your precious TIME is your greatest asset. Let nothing or nobody waste your time and energy. ⏰
@sonjacox4874
@sonjacox4874 8 ай бұрын
I have constantly been the option way too many times until i realized im better off alone.
@susanhampton9671
@susanhampton9671 8 ай бұрын
At least you figured it out and refuse to take crumbs.
@honeybrown3901
@honeybrown3901 8 ай бұрын
😢
@xoxobutterfly
@xoxobutterfly 7 ай бұрын
Same 😢
@SherriFlemming
@SherriFlemming 2 ай бұрын
Single equals peace, solitude, freedom and stability. It takes a strong independent person to remain single in a world that is accustomed to settling with just anyone just to say they have someone. Many people cannot be alone. Finding someone truly compatible is challenging. The older people become, the more stuck in their ways they are.😊 Remaining single is a choice that doesn't require an explanation to anyone.
@mistydawn5061
@mistydawn5061 Ай бұрын
True
@andreakeener6378
@andreakeener6378 6 ай бұрын
Labels gives it Identity Identity gives it Structure Structure gives it Security.
@TheAttractionTriggers
@TheAttractionTriggers 7 ай бұрын
*Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.*
@fly_girl
@fly_girl 7 ай бұрын
People can only do what you allow them to do!! I have TOO MUCH respect and love for myself to be an option. 👸🏽🐝
@PreciousMethodMan
@PreciousMethodMan 2 ай бұрын
True fact. FlY grl WomaN knw what u worthy SET BOUNDARIES
@jackuemcintyre8970
@jackuemcintyre8970 7 ай бұрын
Say that again it's better to be with a empty bed than having the wrong sprit in the same bed wow
@ashleyburris7417
@ashleyburris7417 5 ай бұрын
Exactly wasted time for the wrong one but the right journey
@marlenamcghee
@marlenamcghee 8 ай бұрын
I was dealing with my ex on and off for years wasted my time years I can not get back..
@StephanieThompson-hr6mv
@StephanieThompson-hr6mv 8 ай бұрын
Yesss I’ve wasted 20 plus years I can not get back 😢
@SophiaParker-mc3kg
@SophiaParker-mc3kg 6 ай бұрын
He is 41 and still has not put a ring on it! 23 years gone, I can not get back! 😢
@made432
@made432 6 ай бұрын
These men never grow up. Move on and put yourself first!
@lauraperkins6437
@lauraperkins6437 5 ай бұрын
Mine left me after celebrating our 23yr anniversary. The discard has been extremely painful. I understand the feeling. I pray for your healing.
@made432
@made432 5 ай бұрын
@@lauraperkins6437 I am sorry you went through that and I pray for you
@ebonylo.
@ebonylo. 2 ай бұрын
Wow
@latashahumphrey769
@latashahumphrey769 8 ай бұрын
I'm not anybody option there is something I want but I shouldn't have to ask all I'm saying if you don't want me let me go
@luna84_
@luna84_ 8 ай бұрын
Word, baby
@latashahumphrey769
@latashahumphrey769 8 ай бұрын
@@luna84_ cause either love me or leave me
@luna84_
@luna84_ 7 ай бұрын
@@latashahumphrey769 exactly
@gwendolynpatrick6539
@gwendolynpatrick6539 5 ай бұрын
You just go
@latashahumphrey769
@latashahumphrey769 5 ай бұрын
@@gwendolynpatrick6539 y don't go I been gone
@anndewar4400
@anndewar4400 7 ай бұрын
I wish I had a brother like you.
@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c
@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c 7 ай бұрын
I Dropped him and have PEACE 😊❤
@ChereseElaine_Officially
@ChereseElaine_Officially 7 ай бұрын
Right On Point..The gift of discernment is priceless.
@JaxnVideos
@JaxnVideos 7 ай бұрын
Hey @GracefullyDriven_Officially, I just wanted to commend you for sharing your story and being vulnerable. It takes a lot of strength to open up like that. Remember, healing is a journey, and it's okay to have ups and downs along the way. You're not alone in this. If you're looking for more guidance and support, I just released a new master class that addresses some of the topics you touched on. You can find the link in the description below. Keep pushing forward, you are stronger than you realize. Take care.
@ChereseElaine_Officially
@ChereseElaine_Officially 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for the words of encouragement. I’ve learned a lot from the men in my family by asking relationship questions at a very young age. I agree, experience is the best teacher. Will check out your masterclass. Take care 😊
@ZONDRAHARPER-i1q
@ZONDRAHARPER-i1q 4 ай бұрын
THANK YOU! OUR RELATIONSHIP JUST ENDED!
@sarrahfiler5993
@sarrahfiler5993 8 ай бұрын
Current situation!! And it sucks!! I am being ridiculous and not letting him go!!
@joanjohnson9821
@joanjohnson9821 8 ай бұрын
Please reevaluate this situation. I’ve been in the same boat for too long. It’s hard to brake free, but you really are strong enough.
@MG-gq2rs
@MG-gq2rs 8 ай бұрын
You can do it!!! Girl power 💪🏼
@moniamonia5396
@moniamonia5396 8 ай бұрын
He pushed me away but I still crawled back
@amykohn8405
@amykohn8405 7 ай бұрын
I'm right there with you
@BrendaBaBoom
@BrendaBaBoom 7 ай бұрын
@@moniamonia5396 Emotional thinking is a powerful drug! Work on your (E.I.) emotional intelligence and restore your personal power, energy and peace. Blessings 🌸
@heatherlynn3438
@heatherlynn3438 6 ай бұрын
I refuse to be part of the harem 🤢
@LamarVivian
@LamarVivian 7 ай бұрын
U. Have. Old. People in there 60s. Playing. Games. To
@Love2Love927
@Love2Love927 7 ай бұрын
😮
@elaineclark4653
@elaineclark4653 7 ай бұрын
Yes indeed
@Glow-q1k
@Glow-q1k 5 ай бұрын
👎Old SUCKERS ✅
@livinmylife5025
@livinmylife5025 4 ай бұрын
Yep just dumped mine.
@cc1k435
@cc1k435 2 ай бұрын
Those people have always done that and always will. 😮
@ValerieJames-yk6pr
@ValerieJames-yk6pr 6 ай бұрын
Thats very important to know if he's wanting to be on the same level as you being serious about where things are going or wants it he needs to know that security is Real yeap LABLES DOES MATTER GOT IT YES THEY DO MATTER!!
@sherithapatton321
@sherithapatton321 8 ай бұрын
No one has ever heard this information and I’m 60 yrs old in June I needed to listen to this really a lot of your talks has helped and I wish someone had told me this before I was 30 yrs old
@ronnietoni819
@ronnietoni819 5 ай бұрын
This one hit home, made me tear up 😢
@Anitajonse
@Anitajonse 7 ай бұрын
I came to know Christ in jail in 2013 by reading a book, "Overcoming spiritual blindness" by James P. Gills MD. The veil was taken off my eyes. Heaven came through for me in my finances too, getting $25,000 monthly. I can support God's work and give back to my community. God is absolutely more than enough!
@harlenajones5721
@harlenajones5721 7 ай бұрын
Same here, with my current portfolio made from my investments with my personal financial advisor I totally agree with you
@JacobMuhammad-fe6nq
@JacobMuhammad-fe6nq 7 ай бұрын
Elizabeth Ann has really set the standard for others to follow, we love her here in the UK as she has been really helpful and changed lots of life's
@andymclain2117
@andymclain2117 7 ай бұрын
I use to work 3 jobs, full time at Walmart, a server at night and Lyft on the weekend, untill Elizabeth Ann graney change my story.
@marthamalcom604
@marthamalcom604 7 ай бұрын
Such a genuine personality!!, Sincerely speaking. I will continue to trade and stick to Elizabeth Ann daily signals and guides as long as it works well for me.
@WillSmith-or6uy
@WillSmith-or6uy 7 ай бұрын
This sounds so good and I would like to be a party to this, is there any way I can speak with her?
@genetterichard9934
@genetterichard9934 7 ай бұрын
Yesssss😊 very true my brother,63 and loving it being single is beautiful. Yes you are making sense😊
@SmashMaster
@SmashMaster 7 ай бұрын
Truth hurts because I’ve wasted 20 years on players 😢
@maggiewanjiru2807
@maggiewanjiru2807 7 ай бұрын
I love listening to your amazing topics. However, relationships aren't for the faint. I think you only get stuck when you think somebody other than yourself can make you important to them. Thank you, Derrick.
@livia1174
@livia1174 5 ай бұрын
I gave my best! Lost everything... now i just want peace of mind!!!
@MG-gq2rs
@MG-gq2rs 8 ай бұрын
OMG!!! You just gave me so much clarity!!! Thank you!
@ninashirley432
@ninashirley432 6 ай бұрын
Thank you brother, I am so grateful to have found you to listen to. I was adopted by evil people. 😢
@PeggySueSmith-h9j
@PeggySueSmith-h9j 7 ай бұрын
I really have never had a good male role model who would have a girls back You are special to share this light for protection and peace I have been healing and trying to learn
@janicetorto887
@janicetorto887 4 ай бұрын
Right now, I thought I wasn't good enough, I am worth so much now,
@sheilamohammed8306
@sheilamohammed8306 7 ай бұрын
Say it! Nothing wrong with the Truth!
@SandraDepriest-q6t
@SandraDepriest-q6t 7 ай бұрын
Keep on preaching Big Bro because you are telling us what our intuition tells us, but somehow we just give these guys the benefit of the doubt!!!Now l have been given the tools to know how to still be loving, nurturing, understanding, while being awake to the games that might be played and how to navigate so that l know when to be on Super Protect Mode while still being kindred!
@b.tilson5198
@b.tilson5198 3 ай бұрын
Lord help me be strong and set my boundaries strong! Thank you for being a great brother and speaking the truth. I understand now. I just need to get it into my thick skull that there is no future with him.
@christinesimon7392
@christinesimon7392 2 ай бұрын
I'm understanding , you help me let go , I'm happy and feel like myself again❤
@SandraDepriest-q6t
@SandraDepriest-q6t 7 ай бұрын
Come on you are giving to us as REAL DEAL HOLYFIELD!!!
@ebonyhill8266
@ebonyhill8266 7 ай бұрын
I wish I had seen this 5 years ago! All facts!
@JaxnVideos
@JaxnVideos 7 ай бұрын
Dear @ebonyhill8266, I can sense that you're going through a tough time right now. It's important to remember that setbacks are a normal part of life and can actually lead to growth and self-discovery. Keep your head up and stay positive - you have the strength to overcome this! If you're looking for support and guidance during this challenging time, I would recommend checking out my new master class. You can find the link in the description below the video. Remember, you're not alone in this journey. Keep moving forward and never give up. You've got this!
@pamelabeaton6667
@pamelabeaton6667 7 ай бұрын
I'm tired of being a shack up honey as Dr Laura would say no more of that for me I'd rather be single
@carolynfields434
@carolynfields434 5 ай бұрын
I am 62 years old . And yes they are men out there use you and your an option.
@pt5594
@pt5594 6 ай бұрын
I protected toooo many men with my loyalty
@preciouscoleman7734
@preciouscoleman7734 2 ай бұрын
I'm with u on this
@sonjacox4874
@sonjacox4874 8 ай бұрын
So right on brother!!
@nadiaconseillant8616
@nadiaconseillant8616 7 ай бұрын
Thank God I am not dealing with anyone. Until I get what I want my set goal is my weight. And I am waiting as well
@jacquelineward7421
@jacquelineward7421 7 ай бұрын
You’re are making the whole world of sense to me.
@camillemcconnell8504
@camillemcconnell8504 5 ай бұрын
Yes!. thank you for the specific age time frames for a monogamous relationships, so that we protect ourselves fr the option category and helping us discern.
@kimaskew6904
@kimaskew6904 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for the clarity. Everyone needs to listen to this.
@jp-ov1sv
@jp-ov1sv 7 ай бұрын
You laid the law down! You should write a book!!
@danaford-soares2521
@danaford-soares2521 6 ай бұрын
This class is bomb loving your intensity
@jalisas.698
@jalisas.698 3 ай бұрын
I love this! Yes you make sense. Thank you for the honesty.
@yolandasession8158
@yolandasession8158 7 ай бұрын
Thank you❤ Iv wasted 8 years.. only for him not to marry after living together.. Made the decision not to continue living together unmarried.. .. slowly growing apart
@kerrimagor5634
@kerrimagor5634 Ай бұрын
OMG you are ace! I can’t get enough, everything you say is so true
@cynthiataylor5793
@cynthiataylor5793 7 ай бұрын
Your hitting the Nail on the head!
@azmaritafari
@azmaritafari 7 ай бұрын
You are definitely making sense to MI!!! Thank you!!!
@Saylerk9
@Saylerk9 8 ай бұрын
Honestly this is depressing to hear. Wth is wrong with men?! Just be honest. Chickens.
@maribethford7105
@maribethford7105 4 ай бұрын
Rats
@latashahumphrey769
@latashahumphrey769 8 ай бұрын
I have made it happen for years. I did it out of love
@amymitchell1054
@amymitchell1054 Ай бұрын
Omg I so needed to hear this! This message is 100% for me!🙌🙌
@michellewilson851
@michellewilson851 8 ай бұрын
Yes you're making perfect sense.
@lydiachavarria9596
@lydiachavarria9596 5 ай бұрын
You’re making sense. Thank you.
@ninashirley432
@ninashirley432 6 ай бұрын
Thank you brother, sometimes I enjoy listening to give me peace of mind. Amen
@araceliscollazo5067
@araceliscollazo5067 7 ай бұрын
God bless you Derrick! Thank you!
@JaxnVideos
@JaxnVideos 7 ай бұрын
Hey @araceliscollazo5067, I can sense the pain you're going through and I want you to know that you are not alone. Remember, it's okay to feel hurt and lost after a breakup, but it's also important to focus on your own healing and growth. Take this time to rediscover yourself, build your confidence, and prioritize self-care. If you're looking for guidance and support during this difficult time, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies to help you navigate through heartbreak and emerge stronger than ever. You deserve to be happy and loved, and I believe in your ability to create the life you truly desire. Stay strong and keep moving forward, you've got this. 💪🏼 (PS: You can find the link to the master class in the description below)
@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c
@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c 7 ай бұрын
OMG SO ON POINT ❤
@joannab1692
@joannab1692 Ай бұрын
One of your best videos big bro. Thanks. 🎉
@joanmu1053
@joanmu1053 2 ай бұрын
You are right in every way, everything you say resonates. Stick with me big bro ❤
@ValerieJames-yk6pr
@ValerieJames-yk6pr 6 ай бұрын
Woww I got that and you are speaking Truths DANGGG!!
@ranawinfield5110
@ranawinfield5110 3 ай бұрын
Thank you kind soul♥️🌹♥️👁️
@tiffanyjohnson4271
@tiffanyjohnson4271 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for the info Big Brother!
@JaxnVideos
@JaxnVideos 7 ай бұрын
Hey Tiffany, I hear you and I understand how tough it can be to navigate relationships. Remember, you are worthy of love and deserve to be with someone who appreciates and uplifts you. Keep your head up and trust that the right person will come along when the time is right. In the meantime, why not check out my new master class on relationships? You can watch it by clicking the link in the description below. Take care of yourself!
@JanetTuttle-cb3xx
@JanetTuttle-cb3xx 4 ай бұрын
God Bless you, you have made points no one has mentioned before, dating is a nightmare as their are so many dishonest men out there, I would rather be alone than wast my precious time at 67 yrs, too much time has already passed.❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊
@sherrymiguel7052
@sherrymiguel7052 7 ай бұрын
You are making perfect sense
@almaelyesthergarcia4060
@almaelyesthergarcia4060 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for keeping it real with me
@savannahkat-ls9zq
@savannahkat-ls9zq 7 ай бұрын
Your honesty is awesome
@mariaare9023
@mariaare9023 7 ай бұрын
Thank you !!! U are enlightening me!!!!😮
@DianeWilson-b5p
@DianeWilson-b5p 6 ай бұрын
Thats mean to do🙏men to whom ever it may concern 🙏
@JanetTuttle-cb3xx
@JanetTuttle-cb3xx 4 ай бұрын
Definitely makes sense about his self awareness.
@lindahamilton935
@lindahamilton935 6 ай бұрын
I promise you this, the few videos that I've recently watched, I swear you are describing me and how I've been treated and all I've been through with ALL MEN every Husband n boyfriend I've had. I'm literally going through it this exact moment
@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c
@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c 7 ай бұрын
ON Point Mr D IAM GOOD WORKING ON ME AND MY PEACE AND STAY CLOSE TO THE LORD ❤😊
@nedailic2139
@nedailic2139 5 ай бұрын
Damn youre so convincing D. I just left him for real 😅😅😅 Thank you ❤❤❤
@jp-ov1sv
@jp-ov1sv 7 ай бұрын
Thank you soooo much for you information. You have really made me look at my dating life differently.
@wenyaknowbetter
@wenyaknowbetter 8 ай бұрын
I hope you’re on the Hardly Initiated Podcast!!!! 🙏🏽
@ruthrnk3826
@ruthrnk3826 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for this recording. It's an eye opener.
@sybilamuta6417
@sybilamuta6417 3 ай бұрын
God bless you Derrick.
@MaDameBeloved
@MaDameBeloved 5 ай бұрын
Thank you this game my own father should have given me. You truly are my big brother in Christ! I appreciate all that you do🙏✅💯🌹❣️💋💓💕🥲Thank you Thank you so very much. God bless you!
@darlenecallins4513
@darlenecallins4513 4 ай бұрын
Yesss! Totally making sense! & thanks my big bro.😉
@UYLhealth
@UYLhealth 7 ай бұрын
So good thank you!!🙏🏻 labels absolutely matter! Is this bleach or lemonade?!
@Queen-sw8zp
@Queen-sw8zp 8 ай бұрын
Speak it my dear speak it.....⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🔥
@Cc-qv4dc
@Cc-qv4dc 2 ай бұрын
He hurt me and moved on with other women and he think that he have me as an option but the little he knows karma is a real bitch I’m hurting like hell but I will make it through this this too shall pass
@tabithakeener6673
@tabithakeener6673 Ай бұрын
Absolutely right ❤
@pk9096
@pk9096 8 ай бұрын
Im not anybodys option,that is bs i tell you..too good,responsible,wise,, hardworking,beautiful, and i decserve the best not second hand whatever that doesnt know ehether hes coming or going
@EC-yl7xk
@EC-yl7xk 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Derrick, where were you when I needed you years ago? I am new to your channel, glad I found you.
@crymymindcruz8704
@crymymindcruz8704 7 ай бұрын
Thank you brother 😊
@mattiegrant54
@mattiegrant54 8 ай бұрын
Been there did that yes that was me
@JeBaSIINGH23
@JeBaSIINGH23 8 ай бұрын
Me too
@Debbiekahler
@Debbiekahler 5 ай бұрын
You are absolutely right 💯
@Paulaemk4
@Paulaemk4 4 ай бұрын
I just went through this i honestly didnt think he was like that 2 years i gave him i did not know .
@Kellycampitelli
@Kellycampitelli 6 ай бұрын
Thank you. I hear you loud and clear
@carolynfields434
@carolynfields434 5 ай бұрын
Amen thank you
@KarenOverton-lw4if
@KarenOverton-lw4if 5 ай бұрын
Hey Brother everything you have said on this video, I been thru!
@maryjom7261
@maryjom7261 8 ай бұрын
Truth!!!
@a1goddesss
@a1goddesss 7 ай бұрын
Love your content ❤️ From Russia w Love
@AmieLewis-t5q
@AmieLewis-t5q 8 ай бұрын
You are so right
@figs0775
@figs0775 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video
@PrincessJOwens
@PrincessJOwens 6 ай бұрын
I now be concerned with me now.
@LorettaSchrader-f9q
@LorettaSchrader-f9q 5 ай бұрын
T H A N K Y O U !
@RenataRath1983
@RenataRath1983 5 ай бұрын
Thank you, that was very helpful!!!
@spankynbossycompton
@spankynbossycompton 2 ай бұрын
I gave my baby daddy 12years of myself n on the first time he chose to entertain another female he up n left me n everything I did didn't matter
@marcelinaun3304
@marcelinaun3304 8 ай бұрын
Ty big bro
@SicilianSunshine830
@SicilianSunshine830 5 ай бұрын
Fuck yes are smh God where have you been all our lives smh
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