Here’s the trick Jay. You think this is a video about how lucky you are to have Jess as a friend. But what it really shows is that you are just as awesome a friend to her! To dedicate this video, to express your sincere feelings, and to devote your creative energy in this way speaks so highly of both of you. Congratulations to both of you!
@agyos8 ай бұрын
So very true!
@glennmartin3468 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday Jess🎉
@ecaldwell98 ай бұрын
No, it shows that he likes her.
@robinolson88368 ай бұрын
“No matter who you are, she’s going to see the best in you.” Wow! What a gift and how fortunate you are. Thanks for sharing your gratitude for your dear friend with us!
@SonnyGreenwichJr8 ай бұрын
You're a good man, Jay Swanson. What a tremendous tribute, Jess is equally lucky to count you as a friend. 🔥🧨💪🏽🤠👍🏽🧨🔥
@MartyMart1348 ай бұрын
Truth was, I was missing Paris, Coop, and missing watching you drink coffee in rainy, grey outside coffee bars. I hate beaches, and beach holidays, I'm out of my comfort, but man, I loved this episode , a classic Jay talk . Great video work too.
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
Thank you 🥂
@ARM3178 ай бұрын
I think you've given her an amazing present with these thoughts. You're very lucky to have friends like this.
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
I am!
@flatironnewyork8 ай бұрын
This video is such a beautiful ode to your friendship and a priceless birthday gift. She seems an amazing person - Happy Birthday, Jess!
@MissusRobinson8 ай бұрын
Subscribed to your channel a few weeks ago. So glad I found it. Jay Swanson! You manage to brilliantly expose the ups and downs of life that rest deep in our hearts. Beautiful tribute and reminder about true and loving friendship. Happy Birthday Jess.
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
Glad you found me too!
@KarinLynnBates8 ай бұрын
This is so sweet and so kind. I’m so glad you have a friend like Jess and that Jess has a friend like you! 🙂🥰
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
We're a lucky bunch!
@RedHeadAgent8 ай бұрын
Such a kind tribute to your friend. She's lucky to have you. And you are so lucky to have Jess as your friend. Happy Birthday, Jess! Thanks for loving Jay as you do.
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
She's amazing 🥂
@nancyt6598 ай бұрын
Unconditional love is such a gift and so rare! When someone gives you this there is no accepting anything less.
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
I'm so grateful
@LisaQuan8 ай бұрын
What a lovely video about friendship and Jess. She's been a light in the videos she's popped up in. We all should be so lucky as to have someone like that in our lives. HBD Jess!
@shinyshinythings8 ай бұрын
Pretty incredible that you took the occasion of your friend Jess inviting you to Thailand for her birthday to dedicate an entire video to celebrating her, not just for having a birthday but for being a great friend. Thank you for sharing that with us! Happy birthday Jess!
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
My absolute pleasure 🥂
@Chrisb8s8 ай бұрын
I have a friend like that. And she’s a bit of a mentor. I am glad my wife accepts that I have some great female friends. People like Jess remind us on how to be ourselves. Most of us talk about ourselves. I am sure Jess always remembers you. Really. You.
@andyshacks78128 ай бұрын
Awh that was absolutely lovely. You brought a tear to my eye Jess has always come across as a great person in your videos and it was so touching to hear how much she means to you and mean to each other. That’s a lovely tribute Jay!
@HippocraticHustle7 ай бұрын
This was the sweetest video. Happy birthday Jess!
@JaySwanson7 ай бұрын
She's the best
@yaowsers778 ай бұрын
that was a great video and jess is also lucky to have a friend who sees her virtues and appreciates them without taking advantage of that great heart.
@danielledavies29968 ай бұрын
Loved this, friends are so important. Happy bday Jess!
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🥂🥂
@1pashar8 ай бұрын
Quality acknowledges and attracts quality. Here’s to two quality individuals. Cheer to Jess and you!
@anastasiafua8 ай бұрын
Ahhh I just teared up!!! At the end!!!!
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🙏
@halie9388 ай бұрын
Having wonderful friends is a game changer. So great that you and Jess found each other !
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@dkii218 ай бұрын
What a touching, heart-felt tribute to a truly good friend. Happy Birthday, Jess!
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🥂
@gordrandall93448 ай бұрын
Jay, I've been an admirer for awhile, and I can't tell you how many of your videos from the various eras of your vlogging career I've appreciated (you have more eras than TSwift if we're being honest, vlog-a-day, 20-in-20 x2, Paris in my Pocket, etc). As a fellow native of the Pacific Northwest (Vancouver, not Eastern Washington) I feel a natural connection to you, but more than that I appreciate your raw openness. As everyone does, you have faults, but you are as authentic as it gets. I can't think of a better way to compliment you. Your recent video about your relationship with Jess is a wonderful case in point. It's a genuine appreciation of a person who makes your life better. It's independent of gender, sexuality, social mobility and any other pretense. It's as pure as it gets, and I was so struck by it. In this modern world, that kind of pure connection is a massive breath of fresh air. While I don't know either you or Jess, I feel for you and root for you because of your willingness to bare your soul and let us see who you are. I will be subscribing to your Patreon, but I wanted to let you know that the appreciation runs deeper than a few bucks. Keep doing your thing, and never let outside influences make you doubt what you want to do. Cheers to you, Jess, your dad, Coop, Puxan, Lindsay and everyone else you've let us glimpse in your little universe.
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🥰 Thank you, this is such a kind comment. Here's to many more eras to come 🥂
@victoriakonjian53018 ай бұрын
This was such a sweet vlog! jay ur a great friend ! You’re lucky to have her but she’s also very lucky to have you. Hope you’re enjoying your time in Thailand.❤
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
It's been amazing
@JeffJensen558 ай бұрын
Imagine what a beautiful world it would be with more people like Jess and Jay. I know they’re out there, just wish they were more visible and looked up to with the admiration we see for other, what I consider, far less desirable people! That was a very moving, and heartfelt tribute to a true friend. ❤❤
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🥂🥂
@PokhrajRoy.8 ай бұрын
Not the writing in a journal about what someone means to you. BRB crying 😭
@FRanceSource8 ай бұрын
Crying too. We really love Jess. Shes a peach! And a very Happy Birthday to her.
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🥂🥂
@rob78198 ай бұрын
Great video and well done for addressing the Jess comments on here.Its great you have so many female friends.Im sure you will get the partner you deserve.Good man
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🥰
@carolyngregerruthardt38536 ай бұрын
I love your videos! How lucky you are to have such a special person in your life.
@JaySwanson6 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@rhuxley51308 ай бұрын
That's true. A destination birthday with 15 people, does indicate a high level of coolness 🤷🏻♂️
@agyos8 ай бұрын
Beautiful, sincere, and honest. I could feel the real emotion and identify it as a Truth to believe in. The beauty that Jess brings to you, and to so many of her friends…says a lot about her own inner beauty, and just as much about the inner beauty of those who, she herself, holds dear. What a Blessing to be with those that bring resonance to the best that is within. This must be one of the greatest Gifts in Life. May we all be as worthy and as fortunate, to mirror this Gift to one another, and to ALL who seek it. This world is a better place because of it. Thank you for sharing this Light.
@agyos8 ай бұрын
Once again, Jess…Happy, happy birthday! …and, I feel sure that AII your birthdays will be just as wonderfully happy, for I’ve no doubt that there are seeds of happiness within you that will always bear fruit. ❤
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🥂🥂
@Bluesbabesrv8 ай бұрын
🎉 Happy Birthday Jess! 🥂 I never understood why some people think you can only have friends of the same sex. My best friend was someone I met when I was 4 years old, he and my brother were in kindergarten together. Our friendship grew over the next 40 years until he passed away. Never limit your friends to one group, they are all special.
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
We're fortunate to find them when we do 🥂
@MrQMF8 ай бұрын
I am so happy you are enjoying Thailand. The destination has less to do with having a good time than the people you experience it with. Friends like Jess always make the good times better and the better times epic. She is like having filtered coffee in Thailand.
@agyos8 ай бұрын
Perfectly said!
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
Filtered coffee in Thailand - quote of the day ☕☕
@anastasiafua8 ай бұрын
Jess: you are a legend. She’s a bestie for life Jay! Sounds like an incredible human being. (And she’s Aussie! Aussie Aussie Aussie oi oi oi!) 🎉
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
😆
@amyspeers80128 ай бұрын
What a lovely friend. I have tried to be like Jess, knowing the good people in my life and being aware of their needs. It has been interesting as I’ve been in cancer treatment and I simply cannot do the things I used to do. It has made me aware of who my true friends are and who was around for what they can get. We will toast her birthday and your friendship tonight with our homemade pizza and local red wine. ❤️🍷🍕
@RonFennakadas7 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday 🎉
@JaySwanson7 ай бұрын
🍻🍻
@neilporven38308 ай бұрын
My wife and I are always saying that’s a good fit for Jay, then we see another of his friends and then oh no that one is a good fit for Jay. At the end we’re glad you have many friends and that the romantic friend is somewhere out there for you dude!
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
Thanks! I'm not worried about it anymore 🥰
@longhaulcaptain94748 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday Jess!!!! From a Francophile in San Francisco.
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🥂🥂
@ecaldwell98 ай бұрын
How sweet! He made this whole Hallmark Valentine to this lady. I hope she’s getting the core of his message.
@b1promotions8 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday Jess!
@pathie8 ай бұрын
stoppppp this is so precious
@denabruni90868 ай бұрын
What a beautiful video and tribute to a wonderful woman ❤
@KibbitUpIt8 ай бұрын
Wishing Jess a nice birthday and many more years of your friendship!
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🥂🥂
@stephenward78568 ай бұрын
Another great video. I love how open you are.
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
Thank you 🤗
@jojo_inthemitten368 ай бұрын
What a lovely video. Happy Birthday to your Jess❣️
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🥂🎉🎁
@elyseb6748 ай бұрын
Quinoa is pronounced "Keen-wah"😊 Happy birthday Jess! Life begins at 40, hope you'll love this decade!!!❤
@michaelhoilman68978 ай бұрын
Right in the feels.
@etiennebognar3908 ай бұрын
Beautiful video Jay, I usually never write comments, but this time I just had to
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@selinawilsonart8 ай бұрын
Ok, this one got me 😢❤
@ylwlab458 ай бұрын
Bro, tell us you're in love with this girl without telling us you're in love with her.
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
Bro
@katsybo8 ай бұрын
She’s not a girl. She’s a woman.🥰🥰🥰
@thedavidguy018 ай бұрын
A very touching video.
@DavidS51188 ай бұрын
Everyone needs a "jess" is their life.
@JaySwanson7 ай бұрын
truly!
@lorenzocardoza16658 ай бұрын
You love to see it!
@PokhrajRoy.8 ай бұрын
I don’t ship people unless I see a possible future. Jay has enough on his plate (and in his washing machine) with Cooper.
@jillstravels8 ай бұрын
Dangit Jay, you done went ahead and made me shed a tear with that last part.😛 Good people attract good people. Hope you are having a blast in Thailand and I am sure Cooper is missing you like crazy.
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🥂🙏
@MarS-fb8tn8 ай бұрын
I liked Jess when I saw her in your vedios. You're both awesome
@domsalexa8 ай бұрын
❤
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🥂
@danyelmoulden38038 ай бұрын
I think I know the "said" Scottish bar in Paris.... That's the neighborhood I usually stay in 😊😊. My husband likes to go there or Brewdog for a beer. And yes. Jess seems like a lovely person and friend.❤❤
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🍻🍻
@PokhrajRoy.8 ай бұрын
The slurping was seamless hahaha
@RH18128 ай бұрын
I was waiting for a Jess to exit stage right 😄
@mand19608 ай бұрын
Good friends are the absolute best. I have a friend who is a male version of Jess and is such an important part of my life and me in his
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
Happy for the friends we have 🙏
@jenfnp8 ай бұрын
Beautiful ode to Jess.
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@MicahMann8 ай бұрын
Hugs.
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
🤗🤗
@carolbrenner31218 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@mlomarechal68778 ай бұрын
J'ai beaucoup aimé cette vidéo car elle est pleine de couleurs vives et chaleureuses ; mais aussi parce que vous nous parlez d'une belle amitié qui repose sur la confiance, l'attachement et l'authenticité avec votre amie Jess. J'en suis tout émue. 🥲 Bel anniversaire à votre amie.
@patbarr42028 ай бұрын
On devrait tous avoir une amie comme ton amie - Jess !
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
C'est vrai
@charlesbresnahan12508 ай бұрын
J wheel paris
@ADAtrips8 ай бұрын
When I met my wife Cheryl, she was a blind date. I took her out again. She turned into a friend. A few weeks I received a phone call from a girl I had been madly interested in. She wanted me to meet at the airport. (I had moved). It was then I decided Cheryl was the only one. 🤔. I skipped the airport, A year later. Cheryl and I became more than friends. 😂🌴🌴Aloha
@deborahl78758 ай бұрын
You know....the people who meet the highest bar are few and far between. The question is, are you doing what it takes to be worthy of that quality of person? I've met so many people who have standards that, in all honesty, that cannot expect of a partner with what they themselves have to give. I have a friend who wants a perfect partner...and they themselves are far from perfect. The question for you is...are you willing to risk infinite solitude for an ideal of perfection in a partner you are unlikely to achieve?
@JaySwanson8 ай бұрын
Perhaps the question is whether you would live an all around better life if you believed higher for yourself? Developing my sense of self worth has been one of the most rewarding challenges I've embarked upon. If you don't hold high standards for yourself, no one else will, and you'll be surprised how generously those standards can be met. Wishing the highest and best for you 🥂
@crownwizard8 ай бұрын
Watch? ⌚️
@crownwizard8 ай бұрын
You are smitten…a word not used often enough. Jess and Jay sitting in a tree..