Some men though deliberately make you jealous even if u were not a jealous person to begin with. Especially men with control issues. But when they do that I do the same and it becomes a power struggle ...
@sbrooks9046 жыл бұрын
Stargazer Lily you sound immature
@lilbabytears5 жыл бұрын
This. Exactly this.
@mysmirandam.66185 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly
@z.poindexter79214 жыл бұрын
Va M Definitely 💯%%!!!!! NARCISSIST those sick f****!!!!
@brelove22372 жыл бұрын
I needed this tonight, all your videos make me so wise. I appreciate your advice Shera!
@jessicacorrea72214 жыл бұрын
I have been married for 11 years. I learned in life that jealousy is the root of all evil, and most toxic habits one can practice. First of all I learned from my ex he screwed me over like no one has he had his side chick prego! while I was pregnant, he left me and my son, my son was only a few days when abandoned us. And I grew wiser ya it sucks right! But I did not carry this over to my husband he is a brand new beginning to me. You cant generalize others by your past. And if someone is trying to make you jealous on purpose they dont love you they're wicked there are dudes like that, or little girls like that, that will play games on you like that. If that is the case leave them a healthy relationship should not be on hurting your partner, and if you're a jealous person its time to start reevaluating yourself, it's time to grow up become wise, and work on yourself before entering any kind of relationship, because chances are you will end up hurt by yourself as well. Dont expect happiness from others start by loving yourself,being God fearing, and not seeing life as a insecuirty, you will be a happy person if you practice loving yourself, and knowing your worth. What people dont realize is God is the key to a healthy life amen.
@arisa3734 жыл бұрын
There is something about seeing many little souls finding their way out of this dark world, wisen up and flourish makes me happy! Such a beautiful thing to witness how God works!
@ringoisacandyapple Жыл бұрын
Thisssss dude! I’m so used to operating from a place of fear that I get lost in it
@melanin1234510 жыл бұрын
You are such a blessing!
@NK-dp4km6 жыл бұрын
I really feel the need to comment on your video as I am benefiting a lot from them. Well at the beginning I didn't really like your videos as I was in a completely different state of mind and was struggling badly emotionally. Slowly slowly your videos helped me understand men and women and how the relationship should be between them. I absolutely love you and your videos now and I want to tell you thaaaaaaaank you.......very very very big thaaaaank you for making these videos anf helping me and many many other humans. It's such a blessing and great work. You are empowering women and raising their standards.
@ginaurrely54076 жыл бұрын
Great advice darling. Love the way you explain the fear factor. Thanks
@theconcealedmistress6 жыл бұрын
So wise, real talk. Thank you.
@AtruGoldenGoddess9 жыл бұрын
Girl yes. I truly love they way you broke it down.
@pamelacontreras638710 жыл бұрын
Wooow!!!! Thank you thank you thank you sooo much. This is by far, theee best advice I could have possibly gotten thank you :-) . I really liked the quoted poem from MJ.. It's so true. I hadn't really realized the more I gave it thought... The more power I gave to my jealousy. I appreciate you having done a great video for me. Big thumbs up. Definitely looking forward to more of your great videos .
@SheRaSeven110 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I appreciate it and thank you for the topic idea! We are all just evolving into better versions of ourselves so be patient and keep improving and learning!
@bgirl14786 жыл бұрын
SheRa you are a super Wise women you are a real blessing to me I truly appreciate you're videos please keep up the good work and never let hater's get you down.
@sabounji8 жыл бұрын
There is no need of jeaulousy, just live the presence if it is fine and cool then live by it. There is no need of fear of losing, in similar manner as the people lose, they regain it with strength back whether it is feeling or things or whatever.
@AmaLoveGoddessTV11 ай бұрын
I left a guy who used to throw women who he slept with in my face. It was new relationship and he was trying to get at me and set the tone… he blew me up once I left.
@vturner Жыл бұрын
8 yrs later & still the same Shera 🌹
@Purelight___18 ай бұрын
Insane
@ALEK33925 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! I watch your videos till this day and even though this is an older one, it came on my feed and I NEEDED to hear this.
@xmelissaxx Жыл бұрын
You're such a gift 😭💖
@susannarnesen9507 жыл бұрын
Great video! Please make a video about the difference between being jalous and being territorial. Also how to deal with a jalous man/ where to draw the line.
@Babyashlyy7 ай бұрын
Hey shera I think you should do a new video like this it would help a lot of women once they get the bag.
@sabounji6 жыл бұрын
You know jeaulousy has two forms. One is protective and another is harmfull. The protective ones is healthy in the essence it pin point to us what is our negative/weakness aspect. This is why the best is to not controll because once the person let him/her to do whatever they want. They do not feel they are important or lack attention; he/she begins to feel lonely and act in a way to gain attention. Maybe, if someone does not like to be controlled; maybe others will feel good when we give them/him/her attention. But, when they yell, turn off the phone and do not want to hear any form of guidance. Then, let them experience the misery
@melawieeinapfel8594 Жыл бұрын
I wonder what Shera would say in 2023. I have read somewhere, that actually, the chance that a man is cheating with the co-worker he gets well along with are quite high..
@lifewithlia7778 жыл бұрын
I know this video is older, can you please make a video on how to deal with a jealous spouse.
@sabounji6 жыл бұрын
Also, there are plenty of alternatives now adays. The options are open especially for the limitless. Also never give too much and give it all. Some are learning the cheap and conservative methods. Being too generous is not good.
@infj1 Жыл бұрын
This is an amazing video, thank you.
@SunnnySkies6 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽💕💕
@iaelborntosing97568 жыл бұрын
I love your channel 💙
@lilianann36077 жыл бұрын
Hi SheRa, I really enjoy your video and thanks for sharing all the knowledge. In this video, your were saying you dont get yourself attach to anything. Do you have any video on this topic, how not to get attach to anything? Women are emotional being, and we always get our-self attach to whatever we come across. Thanks.
@sabounji6 жыл бұрын
Some like commitments others like to be as "game player".
@pamelacontreras638710 жыл бұрын
Also if you need future video ideas. A great one would be on how we can control our subconscious and also on best ways to meditate for higher vibrations to come forward. :-)
@SheRaSeven110 жыл бұрын
will do! :) thanks for the ideas! I love receiving them! lol
@femininebritaneyburnett89043 жыл бұрын
Thanks very much ☺️😊
@Lovejoyful6066 жыл бұрын
Good advice!
@tianaw1nxm8 жыл бұрын
You are right but if u really love someone u will have some jealous because it's kinda of like protecting your relationship and it's not always about insurity but that u want to be the only one also some give reason for women not to trust so it all depends on the individual your with
@divad63639 жыл бұрын
Another great video as always 😘😁
@cocomocha5 жыл бұрын
I encouraged him to go screw the pick me chick so he can lose interest 😂sad thing is I really don’t care
@lavendertea4625 Жыл бұрын
I miss this era, you told how it is but still were so much kinder and softer and wise, now you became more mean and cold, really playing on your narcissistic persona but I guess you know your audience
@HonestTimes4 жыл бұрын
Ure a blessing! 💕
@CS-pl1re2 жыл бұрын
How do you deal with jelouse co workers who trying to make you the badguy?
@naturallyNOLA10 жыл бұрын
Great video.
@auroraeredia99173 ай бұрын
Goddess Ashera
@MO-qg2gi5 жыл бұрын
what if he is sitting with his guy friends and some girl he knows without me?(i know her too)shes not good looking but im scared they gonna become close
@MO-qg2gi5 жыл бұрын
Hes friends say i dont need to worry about her because she is funny and they laugh at her
@sabounji6 жыл бұрын
If the person does not care about the other person overall well being then why only one side should be concerned about. No one should lose his/her health just for the sake of ANOTHER. If he/she does not listen or adher; then let the ones who teache him/her how to be and live with them.
@Laura-xc9gr5 жыл бұрын
THANK. YOU.
@sabounji6 жыл бұрын
Also, some are not into alll this mental/psychological issues created from an "exterior social virus spread".