You're so on point. "If someone isn't contributing to you financially or in a positive way, you have no right to complain or criticize. DISMISS!"
@issyo9575 жыл бұрын
ChocoCookies word
@toscadonna8 жыл бұрын
This is so spot on. My ex husband used to tell me how selfish I was and that everything had to be my way, but it was really him who was selfish. I did everything for him! I was like his slave, and I could never do anything good enough for him. I'm so glad I left. Nice girls do finish last. Never again will I be in that type of situation.
@kellyzach87897 жыл бұрын
tosca donna Good for you!!
@acieluz67274 жыл бұрын
Kelly Zach qa
@taniahollingsworth24828 жыл бұрын
Girl I'm 41 yrs old and am just realising worth after all these yrs..coming from childhood..its sad..but the beginning is the aknowledgement of it..I've been watching your videos all day..Thanks Much
@kmydesire126 жыл бұрын
Tania Hollingsworth me too. I'm 39. I was on point during my high school yrs up until I had kids at 28. I lost my way in my thirties. I get it now
@msjhelema21696 жыл бұрын
Yes don't feel bad I'm and I am learning, so much!!
@SkyandQuill6 жыл бұрын
Tania Hollingsworth wow
@DeliciaTrini5 жыл бұрын
I was your age when I just starting getting it myself. Don't feel bad. Just think, if you continue on this path, a year from now 6 months to a year from now, you'll be excelling! You'll have more to offer yourself, your children and your husband. Some people go their whole life into their 80's and 90's not knowing this, and not growing Spiritually, THAT's sad!
@traceylennon12045 жыл бұрын
I was late 30's girl I feel you!! @Tania Hollingsworth
@Astrologcomedy6 жыл бұрын
Lol that jewelry scenario happened to me, but I said “That necklace you bought me made my neck break out, I’m allergic to fake jewelry” He got pissed and left me. I was like good riddance!
@CherrellMishelle5 жыл бұрын
Zodiac Wars 😂😂😂
@haitiangal13615 жыл бұрын
LMAOOOOOOOOO I need to be this blunt when I comes to wack ish
@ashaasaju41724 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@siesies0003 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@SheRaSeven19 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I cannot reply to some people because of google restrictions or you are not in my circle or added.. But thank you all for watching!
@IndigoWisdom17 жыл бұрын
SheRaSeven1 Thank you!!! Do you have a website?
@allsmiles32819 жыл бұрын
yup! say NO to pseudo-relationships. and congratulate yourself when you reach a milestone, esp. when you do things that reflect your growing love for yourself! no matter how big or small it is.
@traceylennon12045 жыл бұрын
I like that!! @All Smiles
@LetThereBeLight11118 жыл бұрын
I just started watching your videos and I absolutely love your personality, I appreciate your advice so much. Low self confidence has been my biggest struggle. I'm just tired of being a doormat and a wallflower who gets no respect from anyone. You are teaching me so much thank you
@kcnnanna8 жыл бұрын
Yes to checkin people ASAP and to constant self improvement. Loved this video.
@alynsak9 жыл бұрын
Excellent points. I'm writing these down so that I can read them every day and expand on them.
@CANWETALKPLZZ5 жыл бұрын
I'm writing it also for myself and so I can teach my lil nieces since my mom granny and aunt didn't
@prv31158 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what women need to hear. I'm so glad I'm actually already doing many of the things you talk about to invest in myself and improve to fit the life I want/deserve.
@Spiritualchick829 жыл бұрын
You are truly living up to your full potential as a GODDESS. Thank you for sharing your knowledge on these various topics. They are like nuggets of gold.
@donnapoolejackofalltrades78275 жыл бұрын
Family can be good at that . I was told growing to not say nothing to them . The family was allowed to hurt my feeling , and I was not to say nothing to them .
@KristaaRae4 жыл бұрын
Yes my mother would never allow me to respond to people who insult me even in a polite way. She allows people to talk down to her and handle her all kinds of ways and all she does is laugh it off. She’s so desperate for friends and approval that she doesn’t even realize what’s she’s doing. I’m determined to be better than her.
@arivera2687 жыл бұрын
You need to write New York Times best selling book! Beautiful, smart woman. When do you do readings. I live in Houston. Thanks for all knowledge you share
@nodistractions55483 жыл бұрын
I love coming back to watch your older videos 😊🙌🤍
@siesies0003 жыл бұрын
Same
@oia58822 жыл бұрын
One of the greatest thinkers of all time. I’d love to know your reading list. I feel your wisdom comes from not just experiences and observation.
@JoslynClayton4 жыл бұрын
Back to the basics💓💋💓💋 im back to remind myself 😊😊😊
@peacenlove4 жыл бұрын
me too❤
@siesies0003 жыл бұрын
It's always good to come back here
@viviennecoley88256 жыл бұрын
Yes having your own life and not openly available....priceless
@andreansuapim91555 жыл бұрын
Thank you my sister you're amazing you help me so much I'm gonna teach other people what i learn from you to help them
@himanisharma53362 жыл бұрын
This is what we indian women need to learn...we have been oppressed for so long and always have been treated as slaves not talking about whole india ,cities that are metropolitan are coming out of this and seeing woman more than that but city where I live in I have been taught you are safe if you follow male lead otherwise youa re just a rebel who doesnot give a fuck,careless kinda person 🥲my mother divorced my father but she coukdnot continue her life as we were moved with our father may be that was best for us but she fell into depression after that and today also she can't let go the fact that her life is ruined because of my father .major issue was she was not financially stable ..and here I am also struggling with my medical degree my peers have passed and I am still trying
@candice4466 жыл бұрын
I wish I was taught this way earlier.
@angelofthemosthigh72924 жыл бұрын
Right, check ppl who offend you immediately I had a person tell me what man is gonna take me with 4 kids, if I run my husband away...because I reacted to stress he started I felt so damn low as if I was below everyone on earth even though I know that's not true and dont worry about stuff like that
@Ms.Magic948 жыл бұрын
Your helping me so much in my life. ✨💖 Thank you.
@shantie666 жыл бұрын
I wanna get my nose did but everybody ridiculing me not to and it's something ive been insecure about it but im young and I think it will benefit me raise up my confidence. I have consultation tomorrow; wish me luck!
@LADYOFLUV5 жыл бұрын
Do it u will be so happy
@ldbass628 жыл бұрын
Great video! You look amazing in this video!
@tamde6968 жыл бұрын
Thank you for keeping it real
@violinFantasy7 ай бұрын
I want more videos like this!!! ❤ i find short videos like this more practical 😊
@goddesswildredspeaksTruth2 жыл бұрын
LOVE LOVE LOVE
@zoicaparaschivescu10056 жыл бұрын
Oooo,nice hair! Allways good advices.
@marilyndejesus49715 жыл бұрын
Building up good self steem
@toviaclayton6 жыл бұрын
I learning how to love yourself!
@foziakhan48707 жыл бұрын
I luv u sheera wish I had u as my big sister
@MarquiseWilliАй бұрын
I strongly agree ❤ Thank you Shera✨
@angelabrown70967 жыл бұрын
I always watch you😄 you are so amazing.
@christinajones26395 жыл бұрын
Im all in girl. Its time for change😁 .i just added eyeliner and met young. Guy at gasstation inviting me to the movies😁😁😁dusty lol
@norlavine7 жыл бұрын
December 2017 and you are still the best!!! From Sydney, Australia...x
@IndigoWisdom17 жыл бұрын
Needed this this morning. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
@wdtc079 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! You give great advice.
@Amalthea16 Жыл бұрын
Smartest woman on youtube
@browndiamond20616 жыл бұрын
You always look amazing...lady!
@mslauren61678 жыл бұрын
love this channel!!
@JoslynClayton4 жыл бұрын
7:40 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 freaking love you 💎💎💎💎
@therenaissance7249 жыл бұрын
Thank you! You are so inspiring and wise!
@DWilson70707 жыл бұрын
You are the Bom!!....Queen Sis
@sandraboseindiagestao6 жыл бұрын
This is your best video!!!
@IamKarryanne8 жыл бұрын
The Vortex..i was reading that book
@user-rb4gq2rx8n4 жыл бұрын
Love this Shera ❤️
@ChristCHOSENrubyrising64445 жыл бұрын
Okuuuuuuuuuur😍🤷♀️💋👑
@shawteeslim9 жыл бұрын
"Check Yourself to Glo Up"
@lalopez73946 жыл бұрын
Luv ya great video, i needed it
@RescueAlwaysOfficial6 ай бұрын
"Ever since that day he went to Jared"! 😭
@tequilabumbum43732 ай бұрын
Chris Jenner 😂 you are hilarious
@nehashahi76343 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@NinaBlow6 жыл бұрын
l love this i hope u revisit this soon! This really helps me right now
@Love_Lacie Жыл бұрын
Great video!
@AishaPalmer_5 жыл бұрын
Love your sis already
@Maimmarei3 жыл бұрын
Strong women ..
@xxmegababygirlxx3 жыл бұрын
The box looks better than the gift 😭
@himanisharma53362 жыл бұрын
This is amazing
@liviagreck18943 жыл бұрын
We LOVE U SHEERA ♥️
@charnellc66665 жыл бұрын
SheRaSeven1 keep me in your thoughts. I am learning. I suffer from high self esteem.
@Lalaayda36911 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@irisblanco58847 жыл бұрын
You're so silly. I love you.
@100sunlover9 жыл бұрын
Chris Jenner...lol.....I sooo agree with you....But I have a question ...I am a African American Woman,,,,and I look like a Black woman,,,,,so today a black man walked up to me during my lunch break,,,and asked me: " Are you black"?..........okay currently in L.A it's 90 degrees,,,and I was irritated by the heat, plus the stupid question this stranger asked me,,,,,,I let him know that it was too hot (for foolish questions)...How do you think I should have handled it???????
@AdoraBangles6 жыл бұрын
Shoulda said "Are you dumb"
@QueenJuliana894 жыл бұрын
Too hot for foolish questions 😂
@lintlicker96449 жыл бұрын
😍😍😍
@vitagalaxia8 жыл бұрын
where did you get your mug? love it!
@SheRaSeven18 жыл бұрын
ROSS
@nadeenmelton4 ай бұрын
❤
@liorasitelman18564 жыл бұрын
#HighStandards!
@siesies0003 жыл бұрын
Cute!!!
@bevfromnc66076 жыл бұрын
You look beautiful with short hair, wig or not.
@Chifunilo_ Жыл бұрын
finally got out and I cannot believe that I am free at last.
@danusdragonfly66409 жыл бұрын
Good video! :)
@sabounji6 жыл бұрын
Without "ownership" of a healthy level of self-esteem, we can not give it to others who are in need of it. If the person does not have it; how he or she can give that "THING" back to another ???. Not speaking on the human being package " in and out" and the social perception. But also the overall envirement in which that "creature" grew up in tell alot on what to expect back. And this can be anything including "PEACE". This is why many countries are very carefull on whom to welcome vs whose not. This is the type of issues are flaring up within the "socialization" world. And, it could be anything. The person should work on his or her weaknesse not for others but rather for him or her ownself as an "ownership". It is because usually the person knows exactly "his or her weaknesse" without the need of others identifying it. U see.
@saracobain49027 жыл бұрын
Hi sheera, what if the ppl are contributing in someway, do i say smt to them and ruin the friendship, or do i act smart untill i get what i want and then leave, because in my situation if I talk im the one who will be fired and receive consequences
@ebonimurphy70376 жыл бұрын
I adore you lol
@hikayatbanat45103 жыл бұрын
I love you shera
@travelfoodielove5 жыл бұрын
God I love u
@Tyrone0058 жыл бұрын
can u do a video on self love spells
@mysmirandam.66185 жыл бұрын
Trek yourself before you reck yo self Check yo self before you wriggety wreck yore self...i love the way she is speaking affectionately towards her sister. Cute wig gir they are too hot for me to wear. :(
@Annamelese6 жыл бұрын
LOL! make up from dollar store!!!
@baerares27433 жыл бұрын
12:31 😭😭😭
@RONNIELA4006 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 so silly
@rasoolzakee30827 жыл бұрын
Being selfish is not self-love only caring about yourself but expecting somebody to care for you is not the way to go selfish people don't take care of the kids or the responsibility it's always me me me me
@chilloften7 жыл бұрын
Rasool Zakee Go be selfish and learn about punctuation. Come back when you are able to express your needs concisely and can feel the self love.
@rasoolzakee30827 жыл бұрын
chilloften being selfish and self-love is two different things selfish means you only care about yourself loving yourself means you respect yourself as well as others that matter to you and your life like your family your children and your husband
@larad1002 жыл бұрын
Yea just ignore them
@mangotv69024 жыл бұрын
Love the moon face
@chicnistaonline22708 жыл бұрын
Hello.what is your email?
@baerares27433 жыл бұрын
That is not a nice gift okay, I wouldn’t even buy it for myself the reason it’s still in that box is because it’s cheap and I don’t want people laughing at me for wearing that crap!
@sabounji6 жыл бұрын
The concept of "dress to impress" is failing. This is why the chaos is happening. Dressing is all forms: education, fashion, etc etc......to create a "BRAND NAME" for quote and quote Marketing within A MARKET. We never lived in branding because we are meant to live by "holliness" where we do not sell nor buy neither emotions, physics etc etc...except exchanging. It is because that is what they have been programmed into, and they are waking up.
@adriantomole10195 жыл бұрын
What you are describing is narcissism. Not self esteem.
@Darkempress454 жыл бұрын
Adrian Tomole bye dusty 😙
@adriantomole10194 жыл бұрын
@Talia Moreau You can be strong and not a narcissist. A low self esteem person with a narcissistic attitude is still a low self esteem person on the inside.
@adriantomole10194 жыл бұрын
@Talia Moreau No, it's not. Because you do not give yourself the opportunity to grow as a person and you continue to maintain your insecurities. Instead, you continue to live as a child in fantasy and weakness.
@adriantomole10194 жыл бұрын
@Talia Moreau I didn't say that you should let others take advantage of you. Having standards doesn't mean anything. It's like saying that I demand a higher price, than it's worth it, for a product. It doesn't mean that you are going to get paid that price. The idea that your the female beauty has a monetary value that you can demand it's just stupid. Yes, some men will pay more to get laid but this isn't the basis of a healthy long term relationship. That's the basis of prostitution.
@adriantomole10194 жыл бұрын
@Talia Moreau I didn't say that you should let others take advantage of you. Having standards doesn't mean anything. It's like saying that I demand a higher price, than it's worth it, for a product. It doesn't mean that you are going to get paid that price. The idea that your the female beauty has a monetary value that you can demand it's just stupid. Yes, some men will pay more to get laid but this isn't the basis of a healthy long term relationship. That's the basis of prostitution.