Jealousy in Polygyny

[@breejaymsu]

Co-wife Bond! I love this! You hit on something that consistently rings true: focus on YOU! I’ve found that when I truly see myself for all that I am through the Creator, I have no need to be jealous. I am able to celebrate myself and others, and leave it at that. I’ve found that a lot of the times, we can be jealous of someone else’s something, and they don’t even like it. What I continue to gather is that self development (including spirituality) seems to be the key to successfully handling triggers and uncomfortable places in relationships. When jealousies come up, it’s just a signal that there’s more work to do, and that’s ok!

[@Hayya45]

All roses may be roses, but each one has it's own unique scent, color, and shape. To compare it to another rose would be to rob it of its divinity. ❤️🌹

[@smartbeauty6973]

I love this quote.

[@violetanyc3007]

Beatiful

[@triciaparris5876]

Co-wife Bond You have no idea how helpful this has been to me! I have a whole new perspective on who I am as a co-wife

[@outstandingpersonalrelationshi]

That's so good to hear. Congrats and keep being proactive sis.

[@sherry3465]

I'm a follower but all I want to say is I love the orange you're wearing, the color is pretty on you....

[@nasirrahabduladdarr4650]

I would to have a relationship with my co but its not happening. I need to focus on myself more and not being left out jealous is horrible I hate it ua Allah please remove jealously and envy from me please Ameen

[@Hayya45]

Salaam thank you for the wonderful reminders!

[@rasheedah5080]

Really appreciate these sisters. May Allah bless them and their families. Allah made us all unique. Celebrate ourselves and appreciate Allah's Mercy upon us ❤❤❤

[@talibahbinta5666]

Beautiful!!!

[@muslimah993]

Ma Sha Allah sist, I love you all and thank you for the reminder, I just so this video, may Allah protect us from shaitan

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[@outstandingpersonalrelationshi]

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[@MaryamShamsWayMaryamShams]

Wa album wa Salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu, my dear sister, with all my heart, I know what you mean it doesn’t come through is bout having an incredible feeling of having a friend and gaining sister jealousy is a disease you are then that you guys are family 💖👑🥰💞🙌🏼

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#co-wife bond!!

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Co Wife Bond!! MarshaAllah!

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Co wife bond!

[@mukhlisahmutia6524]

Co wife bond. 🌹❤️ #Include me in your dua that my co wife accept me easily as the second wife of her husband our husband. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😔

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[@LoveLife11115]

I’m a Muslim. However, I disagree with Polygyny. I don’t understand why you would say “emotional intelligence.” This has nothing to do with a person intelligence emotionally. It would be like if a child called someone “momma” and a mom start to feel a certain way and say “I’m your momma, not that person.” My view to this, it seems like each religious book that was created seems to cater to the men more than it does the women. There seems to be no equality when it comes to a lot of these religious books. I personally believe the 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife tend to not experience jealously because she’s the 2, 3 or 4th wife. The first wife may feel uncomfortable especially if she is deeply in love and does not want to share her husband regardless of the religion. My view is the 1st wife does not have a jealous bone in her body when she does not want to be as intimate (sexual) with her husband. At the end of the day, although I’m a Muslim women there’s no way I’m willing to sign up for a multiple marriage- now, when I’m tired of sleeping with the hubby that’s when I’ll say “Please get a 2nd wife, because I’m tired!” By the way, I have a wonderful relationship with Allah and the creator totally understands.

[@outstandingpersonalrelationshi]

Consider studying and accepting Islam in totality. Allah is explicit about obedience, submission, and adherence to His laws above any of His creation's opinions or feelings, after all He is The Most Wise, the Legislator. That doesn't mean you have to practice polygyny or even like it, but it does mean that your iman may be in jeopardy by you choosing to think you know better than Allah... "It is not for a believing man or a believing woman, when Allah and His Messenger have decided a matter, that they should [thereafter] have any choice about their affair. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly strayed into clear error." 33:36 "It could be that you dislike something, when it is good for you; and it could be that you like something when it is bad for you. Allah knows, and you do not know." 2:216 Peace

[@cissejr7695]

Beautiful answer she is acting as if Allah allow something that is harmful. And that is very problematic. Check your biases, may Allah guides us all.

[@unknownukhti2418]

How can you disagree with what Allah has revealed? Disagreeing or seeing it as wrong nullifies ones Islam so be extremely careful with your words. Please learn about your Lord, he would never reveal something that is harmful to his creation. You haven’t understood your religion and your Lord If you see polygyny negatively. May Allah open your heart.

[@hanifahummzainab5092]

Subhanna Allah, so polygyny is only allowed for you in your marriage if you are tired of being intimate with your husband ! What a sad concept you have of what a marriage is , monogamous or polygamist . I’d also advice you to study your religion more . To make the statement that “ the creator (Allah) totally understands” .... where did you get that concept from ? Be very careful what you say about Allah azza wa jal for He knows and you do not . May you be increased in patience and Ilm Ameen !!!

[@hanifahummzainab5092]

Your statements also seems very “feminist” , as if Allah azza wa jal is unjust to his female creation. You say you are Muslim but you have said in a different comment that you have put down all your religious books and now you are “ spiritual” ..... very confusing . How does one who claims Islam , but doesn’t read Quran or follow the Sunnah . May Allah guide you Ameen .