under a microsc-opp | Spill More Girls Podcast - Episode 4

[@jodeemackenzie]

Honestly last weeks “listen and don’t judge” episode was one of my favorite videos I’ve ever watched on KZbin ever!

[@baileydickens4921]

I think we only see how mature and grown up that Annica is so when some of us listened to the “we listen and we don’t judge” we were a little blindsided. I absolutely LOVE you girls and I almost commented last week to say it didn’t show her in the best light… but then I put on my 30 year old hat and reminded myself she is EIGHTEEN!!! Lord have mercy if I had a podcast at that age. Keep on trucking Annica! If you have reached these heights of character at that age, I cannot wait to see the woman you become!!!

[@hannahrosexox]

This!

[@craftycastalia]

I really appreciate you guys giving some context to last weeks' comments but also standing your ground on keeping a positive atmosphere around your content. I would never want y'all to be anything other than authentic and that means sometimes not coming across in the best light, but that's real life... we all have those moments and those parts of our personalities! It's tough to be so young and have your life under a microscope with social media, but we know AJ's heart and know she's doing her best ❤️ If there's someone out there who hasn't had a harmlessly questionable moment in life, please step forward bc they'd be the first 😂

[@echo6789]

AJ really is so well spoken and intelligent, it definitely shows how well you raised her 🩷

[@olivias2813]

Love how AJ approached that conversation and how jennicas mama bear came out ❤️❤️❤️

[@nathalieriding7032]

I also actually loved last week's episode getting to see a more relaxed freely talking Annica, she sounded so much more like the TEENAGER she is and I thought she was hilarious.

[@audrey228]

As a fellow teenage girl, who is very much like annica and just trying to figure out life i find it appalling that people in the comments ate being rude to her. I see through it and Annica is an amazing young woman, everyone has bad days and sometimes things can come across not as intended!! People are grasping at air to upset you and cause issues. You did nothing wrong and i LOVED that episode. don’t let them affect you girl. be yourself because that’s the absolute best you can do. I see you and hear you

[@Rowan9132]

I have been loving this podcast. Ive been watching yall since Annica was 14. Y'all mother and daughter bring joy. I never had a close relationship with my mom. But it healing to see there are good ones out there.

[@lindahagan8568]

I’m loving every giggle, Annica and Jennica!! I love you.❤ Gran

[@gabriellejjj]

It was so nice to see that side of you girlies last week. It is realistic and applicable to most mother-daughter relationships (there’s a 40 year age gap between my mom and I, but I definitely relate). Loving the podcast, you’re doing amazing!!

[@Bellbingbong2000]

I think the conversation about Annica was interesting and constructive for both the viewers and you guys! I think two things can be true at once: Annica can have come across as slightly disrespectful and rude whilst she was having a bad day, and we can recognise that she's at her most comfortable around you so is certainly less guarded with how she talks. It's important to be open with each other because, in reality, as a podcast audience, if we find listening to the way someone talks to be jarring or not the best experience, then it's important to share that with the creators! Of course, we don't know Annica the way you do, and she is 18 but these kinds of conversations can be important for growth on all sides in helping to understand how you perceive people/how you are coming across. Separately, I think the crux of the issue also revolves around how you discuss money and spending. Whilst Annica works hard and works full time, there could be some more sensitivity around spending as she is young, and it came across as flippant/bragging. Again, I understand she works hard and now can spend like she couldn't before, but when it comes to money, there is a certain tone that can come across as wrong. I think when it comes to disposable income for things such as coffee, nails, and buying things for yourself on a whim, it helps to be realistic that that is a privilege and to many those are special treats rather than something to laugh about. Love you both, and glad that this conversation has happened!

[@Caley3]

This is so well said!

[@itsteagstho4928]

Loved this weeks and last weeks epi. ❤

[@Danielle-h6n]

I’m here for the spill more girls! The story of you walking up to the football player you had a fling with is DEFINITELY something Lorelai would do lol

[@cori24]

I found last weeks episode hilarious. Now, I’ll be honest lol. Some of the convo was triggering but insofar as like me remembering being 18 and just knowing I could not be that open with my mom at that time. I was watching and was laughing but also sometimes went oh no no but mostly cause I kept picturing how my mom would react when I was that age. I couldn’t really joke around, I honestly sometimes couldn’t be honest! I much prefer my relationship with my mom rn as a 30 yr old. So yeah, I was like oh yes I am reminded that Annica is a kid (legal adult yes) and she feels comfortable to be herself around her mom. The good, the tired, the sassy lol. And that’s a beautiful thing!

[@Michelle_143.]

I lost my mom when I was 12. Seeing yalls relationship brings me so much comfort and joy ❤

[@jasmine__1111]

stopppp that was so funny last pod, the no tea no shade. That was so real as a mom, I enjoyed it !

[@whitneydunlap1345]

Not me googling 2016 Titans players 👀🤣

[@JennicaandAnnica]

😂😂😂

[@jennbrown8]

Ahhh I did the same! 😂

[@madisonabbe5985]

Same 🤣

[@jessicamassey7301]

ANNICA JANE!! You are absolutely beautiful, intelligent, mature, well-spoken and such a sweet person. My daughter and I watch you guys together not only because we both relate to y’all’s relationship but also because you’re such a good influence on her. You too literally feel like family ❤

[@KG-gn4lp]

Ive been a silent watcher since lockdown and i don’t usually comment but i just wanted to share some encouragement to both of you but especially Annica! I loved last week episodes and I think the banter in your relationship is funny and realistic to a lot of mother and daughter relationships

[@sophiaguerra246]

so sad there are negative comments i LOVE AJ because of how responsible compassionate hardworking and humble she is. I also work full time at 19 and im in school and thats why i love her she’s such an awesome and mature girl but also navigating life! That’s why i love her!!

[@kyleighvandyne2218]

Your mother daughter relationship reminds me so much of me and my mom. I love watching you guys because I can relate so much and it makes my heart so happy to see your growth. Thank you for providing a positive space for all of us!! I literally love you guys so much!!!

[@katemiroface]

Sending love, you guys are doing a great job with the podcast/content creation... Last week's episode was fantastic, honest and so so so relatable, just like this week's :)

[@CourtneyAlma]

AJ is absolutely adorable!! You both literally have the sweetest souls!! ❤ 💖

[@crystalheck4077]

Seriously got to the end when you were talking about your relationship 😭😭😭 I legit bawled. You two are my inspiration of how I want my daughters and I and even my sons relationship to be ❤jennica you are a month older than me and I look up to you soooo much

[@aylibuchanan]

Oh yalll are feeeedinggg us with all this content 💕💕💕

[@kellymccue604]

Omg LOVEEEE the Spencer from iCarly shoutout. Jerry & Spencer are the best❤

[@sarahh9135]

“I’ve never seen The Notebook… or Bambi.” That was so funny for no reason 😂

[@JennicaandAnnica]

HAHAHHA

[@IvyVanPoppelen]

When I was 8 years old I would watch Matilda and I would pause the movie before the cake scene.. go make a box chocolate cake put chocolate frosting on it.. and then come back and watch the rest of the movie eating chocolate cake. Idk what that says about me but that happened multiple times 🤣 Love you guys and love Spill More Girls 🩷✨ Keep it up!

[@kirstylight1739]

I’m late 30s from the UK and only watched Gilmore girls after watching your channel after your first viral video! And I agree about the unspeakable.

[@curt3633]

Not Jennica crying over Matilda and Miss Honey while wearing a red bow in her hair 😭😭

[@carladeupree284]

I love y’all’s podcast !

[@laurynpawl6839]

I love watching you two each week. It's been fun to get to know you both better. Podcasting suites you both.

[@susanjordan2797]

Jenica , Anica, please don’t let any negative comments concern you!! You are two wonderful young ladies! You live beautiful productive lives, a great mother and a wonderful daughter, there Is nothing negative or concerning about either of you, yes every one of us are human just like the person with the negative comments the difference is you handle it with grace! You ladies bring lots of joy to this world!! Thank you!! God bless!!

[@laurenssss]

Unfortunately some adults who were not allowed by their parents to fully be themselves WILL be triggered when they see Jennica accepting Annica fully for the WHOLE adult person that she is. Some of us that might be, ahem, further along on our journey of healing and maturity see that nothing but parenting goals. 👏 Also, gen z really has the thickest skin when it comes to hate comments, I'm amazed at their tenacity as a generation.

[@iShotTheSheriff1313]

Not sure if this has been pointed out, but you guys talking about Brave and the mother daughter relationship and trust very much reminded me of Annicas school situation. You are mom and want the best, but she knew what she wanted and really pushed for it! That comparison was sooo spot on for me! Long time viewer and I’m loving the podcast

[@HeatherOwens-u2o]

I honestly love how yall communicate with each other. I’ve watched yall from the beginning and honestly love how Annica has truly flourished into a down to earth woman who knows her worth yall keep up the amazing work ❤❤❤

[@littlerose1122]

The fox and the hound trauma is real, also the one where the mouse gets separated from his parents and oliver & company lol

[@kelseyburns222]

I literally just clicked on gossip girl to start watching it right now.!!!

[@Jevy1367]

I think last week podcast was very funny, open and honest. I think there is a difference between being nasty and direct in what someone says. My brother is the same way as annica that when she speaks she's very direct and upfront and to the point. Doesn't mean they're being rude, its just the way they express themselves. Annica, you're a very smart and beautiful young lady and jennica you have done an amazing job with her. Keep doing your thang ladies.

[@michelleacker2118]

Matilda is my FAVORITE And I am now a teacher and I really thing subconsciously that movie made me choose this career! Everyone needs a Miss Honey!! ALSO JELLY ROLL?! I love him I went to his concert in Orlando in September! He just toured with my QUEEN MY IDOL Alexandra Kay ❤❤ Love the podcast keep them coming!!! I just came to Nashville in June for my 30th for the first time and loveee it. Jelly roll just opened a bar there! Much love to you two ❤

[@littlerose1122]

Annicas outfit is soo cute here!! Loving vlogmas and the podcast so far

[@kelseyburns222]

I’m only 10 minutes into this, but I just wanted to say I love y’all so much. U2 have become so important to me as strange as that sounds even though we’ve never met. Watching your videos each week and now getting blessed with a podcast every week has been so great. You two are so funny and relatable and I’m so glad I came across your page. Love y’all so much. Sending love from New York.❤

[@alexakeeler1399]

I normally don’t comment on things but my mom and I have a very similar relationship that you and AJ have and it really makes me feel so at home when I watch y’all. I don’t get to see her very often due to working and getting ready to apply to medical school but watching this makes me feel like I’m listening to me and my mom talk and it’s really comforting. So thank you for being my comfort KZbinrs!! Much love🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@smsmc85]

What people need to understand is that y’all are real people living real lives. For those of us who can relate (my girls are 18 & 20, I’m 39), this podcast is so refreshing and funny. For those who can’t relate, let this content be a source of entertainment. If Jennica & Annica are unbothered but you, the viewer, is triggered, maybe you’re in the wrong place consuming the wrong content and you should move on?

[@jasmine__1111]

I love that “ moms are just girls at the end of the day”

[@kjaj9166]

I have to say my Husband knows y’all’s name because everytime I tell him about my favorite KZbinrs I tell him how yall are exactly like the Gilmore girls and I’ll explain to him how and why. So he’s apart of the Jennica and Annica train too😂🫶🥹

[@graces3780]

omg both of you look absolutely stunning I love your outfits 💕💕

[@ryanneliza]

Bambi and Fox and the Hound have NO business being that traumatic omg I can never watch those again lol ❤😂

[@beingme84]

In my opinion, y'all shouldn't have to explain y'all selves. Y'all are incredible people. Everyone parents differently and I'm pretty sure Jennica will tell Annica like it is if need be. Annica is a respectful mature young adult. Good job, Mama Jennica. I absolutely love y'all relationship. ❤

[@ShelbyLWeseli]

Keep the episodes coming! I love this!!!

[@loveleneee]

Love annicas attitude towards the hate comments. Instead of being negative , they should appreciate the safe that was created for both of you guys to share and be vulnerable/Genuine. Also random. Have you guys watched one tree hill ?

[@kirastenehjem1558]

I didn’t understand until I became a mother to a precious babygirl! OH yeah “we ride at dawn,” if anyone comes near our babies :)

[@laura7063]

I’m 8 mins in and just have to say I went to see Jelly in September and had meet & greet passes with Bunnie and her crew, she is the most amazing human being you could ever imagine & I LOVE Jelly’s music more than I can put into words- his show is not even a concert it’s an entire experience and it was a beautiful experience! I’m so envious you girls got to meet or be in Jelly’s presence- he’s such an upstanding human being! I love you guys and am loving the pod! ❤

[@Recessivegenes]

I definitely was admittedly triggered by the Abraham Lincoln comment then the food waste comment. Because my grandmother lived with the last enslaved member of my family and because I was heavily food insecure when I was younger. But I didn’t name call, which is probably why my comment was left up. Also, “not my daughter, you bitch” is a b s o l u t e l y an iconic line that has always stuck with me! I always wish u had a mom like Molly

[@whitneylee5993]

Yay happy Spillmore Thursdays!!!!!!!

[@this_mom_thing]

Here’s some other Mother/Daughter Duo ideas for y’all to watch together… Mrs. Flax (Cher) and Charlotte (Winona Ryder) from Mermaids (1990 movie) - my personal FAVE - all four mother/daughter relationships in Joy Luck Club (1993 movie), M’lynn (Sally Field) and Shelby (Julia Roberts) in Steel Magnolias (1989 movie). Hope you get a chance to enjoy these movies together soon!!

[@itsmeg_ok]

I have that sibling instinct, it’s on site right then and there

[@annieb819]

Have any of you ever met an 18 year old??? Of course they’re gonna go spend their disposable income!!! They’re 18!!! And y’all work hard for every penny, anyone who says you were rude or bragging is reaaaaching 😂

[@natashagilbert2875]

Love youir podcast Jennica and Annica

[@wellhowthehellareya]

i just wanted to say in regards to the “we listen and we don’t judge” video and comment that i made myself. it was out of concern for AJ as a viewer who does not know full context or her as a day to day human being and one who has experience in mental healthcare. little bits i’ve caught of her “imperfect moments” are concerning because ocd habits or tendencies can become a very debilitating disorder if left unaddressed. No judgement here, only concerned big sister vibes lol i’ve watched yah’lls youtube channel for years and absolutely love watching you both grow as mother and daughter. love yah’ll. ❤

[@beccaloeza]

Could you guys talk about how you do your slick backs, maybe in a vlog? They look sooo good

[@tamirescouto4357]

Loving all the content lately ❤

[@AliviaCox-lk3ek]

I have been loving the podcast and get so excited when you post new ones! Love yall ❤😊

[@madisonallen9400]

Sarah Dessen is another author you would like Annica. She writes 17/18/19 year olds but not as heavy or adult as Colleen Hoover

[@holli8493]

I need the link to jennica sweater!! It is so cute!

[@Destydoncie]

Loveeee that sweater Jennica

[@KearaGraves]

cuties!!! miss you both!!🤗❤

[@DaysofDennis142]

Yall have been so comforting to listen to while working in my pottery studio 🥰 my daughter is 13 & yalls relationship now gets me excited & reassures me we will make it thru these teenage years 😅

[@felicityjatnieks431]

Jennica!! That sweater is the cutest

[@alishamcguire1038]

Your podcast REALLY get me through some shifts at work!! I work front desk at a hotel and folding laundry i get to listen while i fold and makes my shift do much better. ❤️❤️

[@Emma_JGB_]

Love your videos, so excited about the podcast. The way I could not even think of what Annica could have said to spark rude comments 😆 you are both amazing and I can’t imagine how annoying and hurtful it can be to get rude comments about things that are personal that you’ve chosen to be open about. Thank you for sharing your life with us ❤

[@shaylabarnes1902]

Some of those movies definitely play a part in our mental stability LOL

[@MarleyPruitt-d4k]

No no no it’s the way you started talking about taking eyes out and you said you’d start giggling. So real honestly. I’d think “wow I’m actually doing this now”

[@bbghoul_x]

Aww I love Matilda too! I watched it a hundred times. Lol. And children's cartoons were messed up! Simbas dad dying had me crying so hard at 5 years old. Lol

[@redcedarandpetrichor]

Not me crying when Jennica’s talking about Mrs. Weasley’s line…currently 35 weeks pregnant with bb girl- might have something to do with it.

[@NatalieLusch]

Hey Annica, here’s some Wicked sources! There’s a book that is the source text for the musical. Obviously, the Wizard of Oz is also considered source material, where that ties into Wicked is at the very end of the musical. Also, not to promote bootlegs of broadway, but there are thousands of good ones to watch. If you don’t want to read the books, the Wicked website had tons if background info too!💚💖

[@rachaelmccally3782]

So small and unnecessary but in the first outro you said “compliment some TODAY, and we’ll spill more next thursday” instead of just saying “compliment someone” in the last few eps and I miss that rhyming pls bring it back🤣 love yall !!

[@MB-jn1sx]

hey i love you guys!! ❤❤❤

[@Megan.Leigh.V]

Gah, the way this instantly became my FAVORITE podcast…🥳😍 😂 Jennica, you said idk what they were testing with us millennials-for real!! Still to this day I will NOT watch the Fox and the Hound or Bambi ever again!!! 🥺😭

[@jerricagoodwin6034]

I’m so sad that people were coming at Annica after the last episode. I jokingly said y’all needed boxing gloves for that episode but that’s mom and daughters. I’m 35 and I always give my momma a run for her money. I won’t blast her age on the internet and I’ve been giving her a run for her money since I was small. That’s what moms are for. My mom provides a safe space for me and you do the same for Annica.

[@skylarbean7305]

I love yall, and love this episode so much. But how in the world was Momma Kelly and Samantha Jo not a honorable mention. (I know it was mostly movies and tv shows) But you two, and Sam and her mom have filled my heart with the REAL mother and daughter connections out there. Yall have gotten me through some of the hardest times of my life ❤️

[@ggrullon87]

the original Charlie Chocolate factory movie is top tier and the original one will forever be my favorite

[@SabrinaPardoe]

Not me also just finishing a book and crying in the car just because yall were tearing up 😅😂

[@katieellen1401]

1) I am SAT for this nfl man tea 2) last ep had me giggling - ppl got to understand you’re real life ppl not some perfect characters

[@madisonallen9400]

i thought the last episode was really funny! i thought annica was being a extra sassy but why would she not be after being sick/working black friday/etc etc. i didn't think she was mean or disrespectful at all! it was great! i'm loving the podcast!

[@laurenssss]

Jennica, miss honey has been present in sooo many of my emdr therepy sessions, she's THAT influential in my childhood 😂😂 Childhood hero and role model to the max. I also feel like i needed a miss honey and now I've gotten to become a miss honey 🍯🥹

[@ANM5437]

You guys are just the best ❤❤❤ 36 yo mom of 3 from WA state here ♥️♥️♥️

[@MalloryMagruder]

I’m almost finished with the last season of gilmore girls for the first time bc of yall! 🫶🏻 a gilmore girls recap episode with your favorite characters, scenes and such would be so cool!

[@karinasalinas5796]

First of all, Rory did too many things I don’t want to talk about 😂😂 and Loreai too !

[@KatyGrace3]

I’m so lost on the lore between jennica & jelly roll omg?! 😭

[@jena7617]

This is just one person’s opinion but: don’t change anything about yourselves! Although I’m sure you know that ♥️ I’m 26, I don’t have kids, but Annica seems like the most normal healthy 18 year old and Jennica you seem like the most normal 32 year old! We all have our trauma’s, and it’s unfortunate that yall have to deal with people online criticizing you.. if you ask me, that’s just people projecting their own insecurities! Mama you did SO good and AJ you’re cool af! Don’t change anything about yourselves and keep standing up for yourself!!!

[@kerryntyler-yk5hj]

I genuinely don't think people were trying to be negative or nasty when they pointed things out about Annica. Most viewers actually enjoy the content, so it's a little disappointing to see Annica's lack of accountability. Unfortunately, it's impossible to have a productive conversation with someone who consistently makes excuses for their actions. But, we can always learn and grow.

[@madisonallen9400]

Some of the comments were really really mean and nasty, I think those are the ones they're addressing. They've all been deleted now thankfully.

[@kerryntyler-yk5hj]

@@madisonallen9400I read the now-deleted comments, and none of them seemed overly harsh - I've seen worse on other creators' posts. Honestly, I think people were genuinely upset by Annica's treatment of Jennica and some of her comments, which didn't go over well. I believe the criticism was constructive, not meant to be nasty.

[@eg23810]

I ended up turning this one off, just wasn’t feeling the vibes during that part.

[@aly6596]

This. J&A is one of my favorite channels, but listening to anyone, whether they are 5, 12, or 18 years old, speak that way to their parent just isn’t enjoyable. The comments I saw were mostly reactions from people who were genuinely caught off guard by the things Annica said confidently without any sense of remorse. But I also understand this is just a podcast that I can easily skip out on if it isn’t what I want to listen to. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@eg23810]

@@aly6596 right! I was caught off guard by that (I didn’t comment) and again by today’s response. My teenage niece listens because I recommended but I have removed it from her playlist and social media, not the example I want for her… She’s not too much younger than Annica. No hate, We do love J&A, I watch every vlog, but she is young & impressionable.

[@siljehelsengreen2462]

I really don’t understand what it is they’re talking about when they say Annica said something last episode. I didn’t notice anything crazy, so what was it?

[@cori24]

Just to comment on Gilmore girls for a sec lol. I won’t spoil the plot point, but I remember seeing or reading an interview with the creator of the show and why she had Rory do what she did. And she simply said something to the effect of like up to that point Rory had been perfect in a lot of ways and she wanted to show that even someone like Rory is infallible. And like, more power to her but that could’ve been shown in a different way! 😂

[@sydneysharp9686]

Annica, where is your green cardigan from??

[@kendrashae3614]

I didn’t even give the video a second thought?? I think of aj as such a strong independent person and she shows how great of a job that you’re doing as a mother. If people think of you two as other than hardworking boss ass bitches who are authentically figuring out life idk who they’re watching ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[@crystalheck4077]

I dont like the johnny depp one i only honestly like the original 😆 matilda and the parent trap and my girl are my fav chilhood films but two of my other fav tv moms are Reba and Karen from one tree hill ❤

[@loriv828]

Colleen Hoover- best author!!

[@cassidywilliams9142]

There is a book for wicked!!

[@cassidywilliams9142]

Wicked by gregory maguire I think

[@kattiderouchie4988]

❤❤❤