Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck headed for divorce: TMZ Investigates

[@TheNarcissistHunter]

....It's called NARCISSISM....they move on quickly, never satisfiied....

[@Adam-tu3iv]

Says the narcissistic hunter - takes one to know one.

[@venuswarrior8456]

​@@Adam-tu3iv You said it correctly.

[@venuswarrior8456]

Who knows it better than one itself

[@bruh_hahaha]

ensnaring someone into the ultimate emotion trap (marriage) is ego jet fuel for a narcissist. JLo will marry again, and very soon.

[@indriadrayton1132]

It's interesting that it is JLo's fault.

[@GhostFan4Life]

I saw it coming since day one.

[@taniafleming4859]

No man could ever please this woman.

[@myyoutubechannel2503]

Her longest relationship was with that very young backup dancer . 🍆

[@carmelitasobrepena5171]

And vice versa

[@jflor7]

🤣🤣

[@victor0039]

You literally just read my mind

[@johnoliverio8729]

When you have everything, love can be hard to find

[@katjaxxx7353]

Yes. The documentary gave away that he has checked out 💔💔💔💔

[@elaineTracy-i6l]

S|igns???? of divorce??? Yes, Ben will not touch JLO. that means it is all over and even the chemistry and sexual desire for her. Done.

[@Mamabear-u2k]

They look like it's unbearable to be next to each other. Is it possible that having so much money can drive you mad? Sometimes love and marriage isn't for you. She can't accept her destiny, that's why she controls the narrative so strongly. Girl just be thankful for what God has given you. Can't have it all!

[@marilynh.]

"Jennifer just loves the ideal of getting married." Mark Anthony - After Jlo and Ben announcement of marriage 2022.

[@angelapeoples6623]

It is very disgusting to pick a part a couple while they struggle in their marriage. To make a news special and blame a woman for being a love addict? WTF. JLO married Marc Anthony in 2004 and they divorced in 2014 because she could no longer take him cheating in their marriage. She was with Alex Rodriguez for 5 years until he cheated on her as well. Yes she married Ben but he is her husband now . Why are we blaming JLO for these men cheating on her ? Should she have forgave them for cheating on her and stayed? What message is this sending other women? Hey stay with a man that abuses and cheats on you better to do that than be called a love addict. This is all kinds of wrong and the fact men are critizing a womans personal life is really disgusting

[@ourblissfulhaven]

Exactly!!!!!!

[@mar9888z]

BACK TO THE STREETS

[@JojoBean-zo7nx]

Oh ANGELA lol, Jlo cheated on her 2nd husband cris with Ben and got with Marc while he was with Dayanara Torres which almost made Dayanara commit suicide...Jlo is getting her KARMA

[@wingstofly1664]

Finally someone is on the right page ❤ love how you put it out there ..

[@conishkee]

I get where you're coming from, and you're entitled to your feelings, but Jennifer and Ben has been hot news for quite some time now, and social media is where we get our info; that’s what they’re all about, that’s what they do, people love it, and it’s certainly the arena to express one’s feelings, good, bad or indifferent, but within reason. However, Jennifer especially, has made every tabloid, social media and the public all over the world, in general, privy to what's going on with their relationship via her videos upon videos. If she were so concerned about being left alone so people would not gossip about her, she should have kept their private business to herself and not aired her dirty laundry for all to see & hear. Some of the stories we've heard could not be made up by the tabloids. (Ben, on the other hand, prefers his life simple and private.) But you should know how she is - she LIVES for the attention and being in the spotlight! With all the cheating that's transpired, it made me wonder WHY they cheated on Jennifer to begin with; I mean, she is, after all, the infamous Jennifer Lopez (aka “Jlo”) who's very glamorous, sexy, rich and talented, but with all that going on for herself, what part did she play that would cause any man romantically involved with her to cheat? Somewhere in there she HAD to have caused the few that cheated on her to seek something more than what he was getting at home with her elsewhere. (Women do it all the time too!) Think about it. As we all know, she's had a LOT of men in her life, and they can't ALL be wrong for their crumbled relationship with Jennifer. Due to legal issues, however, they’ve kept quiet about it, but I can imagine if one were able to write a tell-all book (her first husband, Ojani, tried, but it was quashed by the court), honey, it would not only be a best seller, but I’d be first in line to buy it! (And BTW, you left Casper out ‘cause he cheated on her too!) From my own observations in what I’ve heard/read, Jennifer comes across as someone who wants to be a mother to her man, not the title of girlfriend or wife, and someone who always wants to wear the pants! Heck, if I were a man, Angela, I wouldn’t want a controlling woman with so many dog-gone rules she expected me to follow and telling me what to do 24/7; that would get on my nerves, and I’d be on the look-out to cheat too or leave altogether. Nah, for a woman like that, I can go home to mother!

[@susanjoseph8453]

People do not jump too fast in Ben and Lopez business,because things can change.

[@Forthis123]

I wish them all peace as they go through this difficult time as children are involved!

[@terrigcook3639]

I don’t think signs were missed

[@Bambina-y7q]

Jlo needs to learn to be by her self and be a mother.

[@ClownBlood-pt4sg]

Nope. That's not how she remains relevant. The secret to her success is her looks and ever evolving love life. There will more divorces in her future.

[@elaineTracy-i6l]

They have not slept together or alone so no one can say they had sex since he left the house. Always a witness or third party so she cannot say they had sex since he left the matrimonial home. The days without sex need to be legally counted as "marriage breakdown".

[@jennifervarela2423]

The lady at the end her emphasis at the end lmaoo had me

[@sketyobrian6847]

TMZ should investigate her connection to P. Daddy and human traffic

[@CS-yz2qk]

I hope Ben is stocked up on his his liquor.

[@MsBBBBBB]

Jlo trying to save her marriage but Ben is clearly done. The last straw is when she shared those private love letters.

[@andreaballesteros8823]

Which letter?

[@MsBBBBBB]

@@andreaballesteros8823 Ben gave her a book, inside are all his love letters to her through the years. He wrote those love letters while he was with his ex wife. It was his gift to Jlo when they started dating again but she showed it to her friends. Its on her documentary, you can actually find the video here in YT.

[@sanjaa.2396]

She shared it only with her songwriters and producer like 3,4 people, not more. I feel so bad for my girl JLo, why she had to go back to that man?! He made that documentary and she gave him complete freedom and he showed her in such a bad light, where all those stereotypes about her were shown. Documentary was his idea and he even produced it with his new company Artist equity. I know for a fact that she is not rude because I know personally people who organised her concert in my country. She was very lovely, her team asked only for water and she did interviews that she didn’t even needed to do, they were never planned. No prepared questions or anything forbidden to ask. It is just unbelievable how she is portrayed in US and people around the world love her.

[@MsBBBBBB]

@@sanjaa.2396 You should not feel bad for her. Shes going to jump in another relationship right away after this. Shes already looking for the next man shes going to date and marry.

[@sanjaa.2396]

@@MsBBBBBB So what? She wouldn’t do anything illegal! All those who equally jump from relationship to relationship in their own lives are judging her, it would be actually the best thing to do this time because that man is evil. First time he thought he has destroyed her but she actually turned out well and so much healthier and richer than him.

[@JulietSpoto-pn2lx]

It's like a spell!

[@bruh_hahaha]

Run Ben! RUUNNNNNNN!!!!

[@rockwellshiao2651]

it is only a rumor Ben has moved out, I have yet to see concrete evidence of it. If he has, it would be interesting to see how long before they officially file for divorce.

[@suzanne9622]

It's not the first time two stars (with crazy working schedules where they don't see each other a lot) are having marriage problems. Ben being an addict is hard on both Jen Garner and Jlo. Jen told him to keep working on his marriage and having gone this far into it , I think that is sound advice. Whether or not it is possible to do remains to be seen. I truly wish them both the best.

[@pammy35]

What’s down time??

[@carmelitasobrepena5171]

Ben and JG get back together rather than fooling your fans. JG maybe a nice sweet mother but there's something she does hyper active in the guise of co parenting so she continues baby sitting Ben? Her words is in contrast with her actions. Unashamed and disrepectful to his fiance JM making him furiously troubled. JG's actions define her. So disgusting. Just thinking... a devoted fan.

[@dianesaienni5466]

I can't believe Ben stayed after and during her vanity promo love story. the scenes in this go to show how out of touch this woman is. gotta love she shows her employees Ben's poems and letters without his permission! I really felt for him when he was in the truck with camera equipment and she says something like I'm bored. Ben run fast.

[@kimbradley9595]

NOT A SURPRISE

[@Orangecat693]

Update: I called Hulu and a very nice rep from India, assisted me with pulling the documentary up❤

[@Lipstick81]

Trouble in paradise . It was a nightmare from the get go . She’s been massively exposed for the fraud she is . Simple

[@2cents577]

She’ll be latched on to some other dude in a week or two….. can you blame her? She hates being alone with herself.

[@jasy2489]

At this point J Lo needs to be banned from marrying again for the sake of her kids

[@reynaestrella3918]

Ben dumped her 20 years ago 3 days before the wadding ,and he did it now again ,jlo has not dignity

[@jasy2489]

It could be she dumped him too

[@lela888]

Ir was mutual the first time. Not sure about this 2nd time.

[@nellymappin3815]

People need to divorce from Jennifer. That woman is exhausting to watch! Boycott Jennifer!

[@frenchygirl27]

JLO is infatuated with the idea of love, but she doesn't want to put in the hard work into having a HEALTHY and LASTING relationship.

[@Orangecat693]

When does this come on Hulu? Would not come up for me on Hulu...frustrated

[@SURFERGRL72RAKM]

The documentary is on Netflix only.

[@Orangecat693]

@@SURFERGRL72RAKM I watched it on Hulu

[@girlsrule722]

Prayers for Ben and Jen...

[@veronicabarajas1712]

No dejesss a ese hombre por Dios ese hombre te miraba con un amor ❤

[@milktart4591]

To me was the disrespect she shown Jenifer Gardener. All the post about " true love " and then making a documentary calling it " the Greatest love story" revealed Ben's letters , made it sound he never loved Gardener. She disrespected his kids , the mother of his children and made a fool of herself. I knew then ... The gloves is coming off.

[@BrookeWaters-xu3ko]

Maybe Jennifer Lopez should hook up with trouble maker P DIDDY again 😅

[@theonly1258]

She seems to love the attention and Ben not so much……

[@BrookeWaters-xu3ko]

Leave Ben alone😢

[@sparkymydog1]

They were meant for each other!

[@bootsiekeegan4401]

Definition of insanity doing the same thing again expecting different results why Ben married lopez? Temporary insanity

[@JacquelineTurnage-vq3rr]

I had a feeling didn't was coming back on JLo

[@andiebrit65]

This is no surprise at all. I absolutely knew it - he always looks whipped and miserable.

[@rubyballesteros44]

I hope its never too late for Jlo. Ben looks peaceful and happier with Jg. It looks like a deep connection and meaningful one with JG. I hope Ben is worth the hassle for the two ladies Looks like JG has sacrificed a lot for Ben for the sake of the kids.

[@JojoBean-zo7nx]

Jlo is what happens to women who don't get therapy early in life...they will end up alone in their late years...she spent all her time jumping from man to man and never stopped to heal herself

[@2blessedcorsi191]

I think They will be ok. She has to stop trying to be in the spotlight so much and he will come around.

[@veronicapadilla3291]

Divorce Ben! He isnt worth it! He is a baby that can't figure out his problems without his Mama Jennifer Garner!

[@julieannesimms981]

Shouldn,t haven,t happened in the first place complete madness😮😮😮

[@CatRobbins747]

It didn’t work for them more than 20 years ago why do you think it will work now?? Im sorry star relationships are all money and shine and her relationships never last she need to stop forcing them and wait for it girl it don’t hurt to be alone you need to fix you first!!

[@teresaferrer4748]

I'm not worried about Ben,his good traits,he is kind,he loves privacy. He's talented in many ways. As far as Jlow,she has to be mortified ,oh No not again. She's addicted to fame,She's a mean human. He has better chances at recovery than her.

[@emperatriz1787]

She can’t keep any men by her side.. very sad for the kids to grew up in unstable family.

[@operationpaperclip3952]

It's NOT they AREN'T compatible...It's THAT She is a BALL-BUSTER. She's always gotta PUBLICLY prove to the world She's INDEPENDENTLY Wealthy --So She DOESN'T "Need A Man" - She REBUKES Him PUBLICLY. - Sometimes She treats Him like He's a PEASANT or STAFF - And She Ball Busts Staff like They are PEASANTS. It's Bad Optics, to be Associated with Her, AMOUROUSLY, because It's like saying, that sort of behavior is CONDONED, BY Affleck. Her FILMS sealed the FATE of the DIRECTION of the MARRIAGE.

[@JulietSpoto-pn2lx]

It's not about her beauty!

[@CatherineMcCauley-s2l]

Gosh what a shock, said no one ever.....Ben will head back to his booze, JLo will head back to her next relationship. She clearly can't be alone. What a laugh out loud joke. Here's a thought, why don't you spend some time with your kids.

[@dhappy1234]

Ben has addition Iusses its not funny!!!!!! You people go so low !!!!! Dam

[@terrigcook3639]

Media is so much of the problem

[@dleon1000]

Its called being delusional

[@susanjoseph8453]

Do not write that Jennifer Lopez must give it up because Elizabeth Taylor marry so many times. Did anyone criticize her?

[@carlasmith3459]

Its called limerence . Addicted to limerence

[@amaliaforu]

The missed warning sign huh Ben affleck is no good !!!Ben has been more with Jen garner than Jlo ..and Jen garner never has intentions on being with Miller.Shes been completely in between Jlo and Ben marriage but Ben couldn’t care less because he was never really invested in Jlo..so Jlo should kick mr affleck to the curb Ana consider him the mistake he was in her life then and now !!!!

[@loriyoung7692]

Jlo and Ben low..so sad that he always looks like a beat puppy geez

[@user-mc5pl8js9h]

I'm expecting Jlo to release a break up movie now

[@WatReallyGuud]

🙄🙄🙄

[@michellereyes1161]

😢😢😢😢😢

[@venuswarrior8456]

That lawyer from TMZ needs a life. He's so boring and corny already..retire dude

[@Lovejoy1173]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@mar9888z]

Back to the streets

[@sylviemailloux5969]

I saw it coming for a long time 👍👍👍

[@Brendan-sv5dq]

Who cares??

[@jjhbjhbhjgjhgfjhghjg]

🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱

[@evelynemoise7543]

TMZ sucks they just making views money for myself I believe Jlo loves Ben so much Ben may be a Casanova he loves the street he should not leave their house until figure out something with his wife he caused the media bulling JLO.

[@IsabelAymee]

Creepe news

[@americangirl4410]

This female anchor is terrible…

[@graciakabakji8060]

Ben don’t want lopez she should show self respect she is low dignity she is chasing Violet Affleck thinking Maybe she can change her dad opinion about divorce he insist she should understand & leave it never worked between them in tbe past now the same experience was repeated

[@sherylbender9049]

JLO CONTROL AND ATTENTION. better Ben divorce JLO.