Jennifer Nettles - Unlove You (Official Video)

[@tracirogers9719]

Soul ties. . . You have to break soul ties to be free

[@Hanaemori]

I wasn't lost until you found me...❤️❤️❤️

[@walterholt2609]

I can relate; The year 1971, I was 22 a wild child building a business and sowing my oats. She was a 17 year old school girl from a small town in the Appalachians, tall , blond hair, blue eyed and from the minute she walked through the door I was in love. We spent many a day together over the next year as I would drive miles from anywhere I was to see and be with her. She was the first woman/girl I respected enough to not consummate our love out of wedlock. The caveat was she was engaged to the towns rich kid that treated her like a possession he could show off and she really didn't love him. Time went on and I pressed her to call it off with him. One night as we were sitting on her parents porch he showed up and a confrontation ensued. He left and I gave her an ultimatum to make a decision then either he or I and if she couldn't I was leaving not to return. She was upset, crying and couldn't so like a hot head young fool I left driving out of those mountains never to return. A bit of time went buy I found consolation in another I married on the rebound for a brief period of time, thoughts always drifting of her, comparing other women to her. A few years went on and she found me at a place I was working, she married him because she heard I had married. She wanted to see me so I sent her a plane ticket, the day arrived and I went to the airport to pick her up but she didn't arrive, heartbroken I went home and moved on with my life. Years go by I met another, we decide to marry. I come home from work one day and my soon to be bride hands me a bouquet of flowers telling me a lady had dropped these off for me. Looking at the hand writing and special spelling of the name I knew who it was. The next day at work I get a call from her once again at work. She is in a few towns over on a business trip and wants to get together. Pride once again hinders my decision making and I tell her I am getting married an that after she didn't show with the pain I went through that I didn't want to see her. All the while my emotions screaming at me to drop what I am doing and run to her, which I should have done because my marriage to the other was doomed from that point. Many many years go by and thoughts always drift back of her. Over the time relationships come and go thoughts always drifting to her and the comparison keep me from commitment. My 50's come along she on the East Coast, me on the West, happenstance puts us in contact with each other. We write, We talk on the phone, she's unhappily married with a child, I single, she has a business meeting she has to come out for and we decide to meet. I fly to where she is, from the time I walk through the airport gate and see her the love we felt for each other was like it always had been. We spent the next week laughing, loving, making love as though we were never apart. Time came to leave, I wanted her to leave him and come be with me but her being the person she is she couldn't break up the marriage for the sake of her child. Time went on and the separation took it's toll till the decision was made that we had to let it go for our own well being and so physically it ended but I always in my heart even at 73 years old I carry the love of that one special person I had in my life for a brief while....So yes I can relate.....Sorry for this being so long winded but I'm happy to tell my story and this song brings fond memories.

[@cynthia8703]

That was beautiful Walter.

[@bethchalender3987]

Thank you so much for sharing. I learned a lot from your heart here. I appreciate your candor!

[@theresalevesque7087]

I too have one of these lost loves out there. We know we are each others soul mates but we belong to someone else now. We made a pact many years ago that if we ever single at the same time we will be together again. Not sure if it will ever happen but I think about it often. No one knows what the future holds. Live it one day at a time.

[@patriciahorton630]

So sweet and bitter sweet too. Thank you for sharing your story, it touched my heart.

[@valentinevocals]

Oh my... Your Truth made me Cry... I can feel that even though you lived your life for the most part separately the time that you did spend together loving so deeply was greater than ten lifetimes could hold! May you be blessed with the most beautiful memories of that glorious love you were given to share.... Always!

[@pamelataylor9478]

I know the feeling so well. My very first love is always been in my heart. After all this years have past and the love I have for him is still so strong. I see him on Facebook and all those Those memories all come back as soon as I see him. I just let it go I can’t Unlove him I will never and love him maybe that’s why my two marriages didn’t work he’s just so beautiful and such a good man and I still cannot unless him

[@waltermurphy6771]

Hi Pamela hope you’re okay?

[@pattibuchhalter6671]

Even as a WIDOW at 73 yrs old, this plays to my heart every second of every day because of the love I have for someone now in my life. Loving someone you can't have HURTS LIKE HELL

[@shessosweet13]

Oof…say that again Sis🫶🏻

[@tinagibbons9142]

71 here and it's the same for me

[@karlashillingburg3098]

The pain it gives you knowing you can't have that married man you love so much...

[@michellemarburger364]

Unrequited love sucks ass I'm sorry

[@cliffdr.detroitlynch3903]

In 2019 i reconnected with the love of my life, she was married, i had no choice but to walk away, ive loved her for over 43 years. I could never unlove her,.

[@luvmypup93]

I love how raw she sounds, its portrays how it really feels when you love someone like that. Someone whos toxic, who continually hurts you but you just cant stop, its like your chest is cut wide open for them to take and take. A slow deep ache. And all you want is to just let them go, you pray and beg god but it just doesnt stop, you just cant stop.

[@shannalee7728]

Yes. ^ So true.

[@Chicagonative3609]

My heart broke as I read your comment, Desiree. It's how I feel all the time too. One day we shall find the man of our dreams, one who would never do such horrid things to us. We will find it Desiree, one day real soon. Hugs!! :)

[@sarahjane81881]

I'm in this very same situation right now.....madly in love with someone who's very toxic. He's an addict of all sort...lies, cheats and manipulates. But I can't leave. I'd almost be willing to stay and accept it because I love him so much. I've prayed a lot too. I just can't pull my heart away. It's by far the most confusing situation I've ever been in....

[@aprilpettit3806]

amen!!!

[@thegreendawn]

so true

[@katie198511]

The first love is always the the worst. The one who isn’t good for you but you will always love forever

[@yvonnebryan6310]

Makes me miss my Veteran husband in Heaven.I can't unlove him because I love him so much.I refuse to move on as he was a wonderful husband to me.They say time heals all wounds no time isn't healing mine.I miss his voice,his touch,everything about my sweet loving Carey.It hurts we were married 17 years he served honorably for over 21 years and passed to service connected illnesses. :(

[@waltermurphy6771]

Hi Yvonne hope you’re okay?

[@seattlepainter]

You will be reunited with your beloved husband again someday when you leave this world. Love is stronger than death!

[@npkrn6764]

❤🙏

[@daemonskycloak6818]

I don't know if anyone else can relate but when I fall in love I don't stop loving them ever but it transforms into a different kind of love. The kind of love that heals your heart. I don't think anyone has ever truly loved me in a romantic sense but for me love is my strength. It's something I will always carry with me from every person I have ever loved. Someday I hope I find someone who can love me back the way I have learned to love because it's so beautiful and I just want to share this feeling with someone who can understand.

[@heathernichole3900]

👐 AMEN!! ♡

[@heathernichole3900]

👐 AMEN!! ♡

[@staceball4167]

And you will

[@Josh-nr6pl]

My brother you will. I went through 14 relationships before I found that special someone. you are the pure embodiment of love and life. Never let that light fade, stay lit, trust me. You ever find yourself needing a helping hand give me a shout and I'll be there.

[@thomasrenwart]

You will. Love always finds a way home.

[@kolbymiller9977]

It KILLS ME how absolutely underrated this woman is. That’s not to say she hasn’t accomplished so many amazing things in her career, because she has, and she has made herself a household name especially with Sugarland. But she should be country musics biggest star. She is absolutely incredible. This song and her voice is incapsulating. Nobody does it like J Nett.

[@greeneyelove2003]

Agreed! I commented on another post that for me, she ranks up there with Faith and Carrie and Reba. Her voice is just amazing and the emotion that she puts into every word is haunting.

[@shessosweet13]

she’s a notch above- Thank God for badass country women❤

[@priscillae93]

Agreed, I don't get it! She's amazing!!! Nobody can forget that voice and tone.

[@luisvalenzuela8192]

Goosebump worthy. Story of my life. It's so hard to unlove to unbreak. It's as if I am scared to settle or constantly searching for something more. The high! That feeling of butterflies in your stomach when that special person walks in the room and your whole body aches. Love is beautiful. Love is love is love.

[@sharonmoshwayne]

I know what you mean ey

[@christinahamrick1627]

beautiful

[@tammydd1964]

+Christina Hamrick absolutely

[@kellywhitaker89]

Yes

[@Carolyn197010]

true

[@halobenefitgroup]

You cannot fake this emotion or use these lyrics if you haven't personally experienced this kind of connection. This is a story straight from her heart. Thanks for sharing!

[@whorsesblongnpasturz7677]

Oh so true

[@halobenefitgroup]

@Jennifer Nettles ♪ Wait what? This is the real Jennifer Nettles? All I can say is WOW! As an avid music lover, I felt this song from the first chord. The real emotion, the words, your voice...amazing. "I wasn't lost till you found me" is lyrical genius and I don't think everyone can relate. Beautiful song...Beautiful woman 🥲😊💛

[@halobenefitgroup]

@Jennifer Nettles ♪ I'm a recent fan to be honest. Since the moment I heard this song. Would love to know the story behind it. Im about 30 minutes south of Chicago...

[@lifeloverlorijean]

So true!

[@tj105]

My song to my husband Colby, who walked out of my life 9 months ago, after 16 years together. I will love you until my very last breath!!! A love like we had doesn't just go away. I can't just "UNLOVE YOU".....it's not that simple.

[@michellemcnutt9348]

I pray for u honey and your pain

[@michellemcnutt9348]

I know that pain

[@thekaitlynn9]

"I wasn't lost until you found me." -- What a powerful lyric. Absolutely love this song!

[@royalalexander6424]

It is indeed. ❤

[@liesannetieck4802]

I could break down and cry Laugh it off and deny Draw lines in the sand And count on both hands All the reasons why This just won't work It'll be nothing but hurt I can swear that I don't And maybe one day I won't But for how hard I've tried I can't unlove you My heart can't unbreak I can't unfeel how it felt But feel so much myself My whole body ached And I can't unknow this Lord, I wish I knew how But I can't unlove you So come love me for now If I were twenty-five I know just what I'd do I would have already kissed Till I was drunk on your lips A thousand times too few But we have other lives And we know it ain't right This is going nowhere If I'm with you I don't care Take me nowhere tonight They call it fire But it feels just like drowning Well, the weight of my burning desire Closing in all around me I wasn't lost until you found me And I can't unlove you My heart can't unbreak I can't unfeel how it felt But feel so much myself My whole body ached And I can't unknow this Lord, I wish I knew how But I can't unlove you So come love me for now I can't unlove you So come love me for now

[@jaybama72]

Liesanne Tieck It’s amazing that someone can write something as beautiful as this!

[@JennP.Can6316]

Thanks for the lyrics. 👏👏👏👏🤝

[@Angandjenschannel]

@@jaybama72 and that's the reason it's a shame that Brandy Clark doesn't get much radio play.

[@jaybama72]

Angela Widener Wow, I just listened to a couple of her songs and I’m hooked!

[@marthacross4826]

Thank you for the lyrics!

[@kolbymiller9977]

One of the greatest voices of all time. I said it. Jennifer Nettles is absolutely incredible. This song is incapsulating.

[@karencheatwood5235]

Well said

[@brandipals]

Went to a Sugarland concert a few years ago and she sounds exactly the same live. She's so good she doesn't need auto tune.

[@j.g.7951]

yes!!

[@marieliming9227]

Yes! My best friend took me to see her when she came to a casino near me. Small venue GREAT show! Her voice is so beautiful. recorded or live!

[@nealbfinn]

Great singers never do.

[@michaelhinchey]

Most singers in this genre don't use auto tune. They save that for talentless singers I'm the r& b and rap genre. :P

[@essences7]

lol wow well said

[@Amievandy712]

"they call it fire, but it feels just like drowning" felt that in my soul. This whole song is hitting me.

[@mickaelalynngregorypipes]

Me too

[@kimberlyhighley611]

How many can truly relate this to their have you ever loved so hard you're whole body aches I can,💔💔💔💔

[@tonyward8752]

Me

[@williemaeoglesby5211]

Yes, feeling it NOW!

[@mickaelalynngregorypipes]

Feelin it I have too , Like,right now

[@loriparris8128]

Yeah still hurts

[@mariac2472]

Yes, I can for sure.

[@christycrook2893]

we all have that one person in our lives that we can't unlove.

[@angelrocamontes283]

Christy Crook mine was the beautiful girl in class that was quiet and kind but let society control her and make her choose the guy who was shit instead of the person she wanted to be with. she would rather be seen as straight to our classmates then follow her heart. safe to say i got the short end of the stick.

[@rachelbologna2012]

Christy Crook can you do me a favor and subscribe to my channel and support my music

[@NegleLir]

So true!!!

[@1besieged]

My mom, my dad, my kids and God and my horses, and pets..

[@efrenhernandez2134]

I can’t unlove myself :)

[@abilane15]

Every time I listen to this song it breaks my heart all over again. "I was't lost until you found me" gets me every damn time

[@toddr9657]

That is a very powerful line in this song!!

[@DaughterOfTheOnlyKing]

Sure does!

[@tracyq.keever6459]

Same ... and SO True!!

[@raynbelkiss]

That's the ultimate line right there not just what she says, but how she says it with such vulnerability it begs the heart to feel with such surrender that it leaves you completely breathless.

[@Darlenevirgo]

That line does it to me too. Ugh.. such a powerful line

[@capearlb4wellnswinesecreat823]

I cant unlove you ... or move on . You should have left me never knowing ... let me love forever - You made me leave .REALITY YOU LEFT ME BEHIND . Still yet i want to believe you really loved me smh. SWEET DREAMS MY LOVE , for me theres only nightmares and ppl playing twisted games .no trust, no man can get through scars of my heart

[@bekasmith3120]

I met him my senior year of high school…I just came out of a bad relationship and he completely swept me off my feet. Though we met through social media, that first FaceTime call I knew. My heart felt like it was glowing and I just couldn’t get enough of him from the beginning. We fell in love so quickly, but we were long distance which sucked. After 4 months he moved to my state and we were inseparable. Let me tell you…you always hear the stories of love at first sight or how falling for that person just happened all at once. That’s how it was with him, it came as second nature. He was my other half…due to family issues and things out of our control we had to end it after a year and a half. My heart felt like it exploded, I never imagined having to say goodbye to the person I loved the most. It’s been 6 months and he’s trying to move on and so am I, but there is still something making me hold on. I hear his name in conversations, I notice when somebody has the same birthday as him, I see his truck everywhere and he doesn’t even live in this state anymore. I can’t get him out of my head. I’ve prayed and tried fo get him out of my head but he’s always there. I wish I could unlove him if he’s not going to make his way back into my life at some point. I miss my best Friend.

[@andycross8385]

Lost love is same as grief of someone close to us that has died , even more so in ways because we know he/she is still here and sometimes we meet them .

[@douglasvilledarling2935]

I'm not really a Jennifer Nettles fan, but she may have won me over with this song. It is my favorite song at the moment.

[@issaissa8993]

I could usually care less for pretty much all of her songs but this one really gets me and I love it.

[@trishhorvath5709]

Go, listen to her Memorial Day Concert 2014, "Celebrate Me Home" & "Hello" love her vocals here

[@DeSledge]

Listen to Sugarland's "Fall Into Me" it only has 100,000+ views and her voice is perfect & powerful, the lyrics give me chill bumps, then the end of the song is an awesome guitar solo! My new fav song!

[@javasoccernut]

this is much like "Stay". give it a listen if you've not.

[@19murphy9696]

I agree with you. This is the first song she has done that I really do like. Plus she doesn't "yell" in this song!

[@heatherpatterson9246]

I just can’t let go…Even though I know I need to, I keep holding on to the thought of what we could be or what we are in those good moments. I told you I was leaving you tonight and you’re sleeping just fine in our bed right now while I sit outside and cry. How? How can someone you love break down to you so bad and you just give them nothing in return? Nothing. I definitely do feel like I’m drowning. How do I let go when I love you so damn much. Why are you like this? Why won’t you fight for us? I’ve loved you so damn much from the moment my lips touched yours. Lord please help me let go.

[@davidholton9667]

Hello So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song.

[@AshliCierra]

this song brings tears to my eyes every time. after being in a 7 year abusive relationship and being in a new loving normal relationship for a year and a half, I use to think I'd always love him no matter what, then I met my fiance...thank God for answering prayers. I use to feel this way about my ex, I don't ever give him a second thought now!

[@chrissy2755]

I needed to see this. I’m up struggling over my abusive ex of 9 years that ghosted me. Feels like I’ll never stop loving him. This gives me hope

[@johnrodrigues3210]

I've been listening to this song and Cam's Burning House on repeat for months. Can't get over the fact that my wife of 10 years left me..."I can't know this, Lord I wish I knew how"

[@strulson1]

You are so right wow so right

[@allieamacker9078]

love it

[@yahainHotPink]

John Rodrigues So sorry!

[@maryreese1310]

John Rodrigues I know my Husband of 16 years and partner for 26

[@JelynneM]

Sorry John :( hang in there

[@juanC012]

We all have that one we can’t UNLOVE

[@scottshamblin88Keyz]

The hurt from that true love lasts a lifetime. I got lucky, she came back to me 27 years later and realized she was in love with me. 💔🌹

[@scottshamblin88Keyz]

We got married.

[@1mansopinion966]

Jennifer has that voice. She pulls you into the song. She allows you to feel the joy and the pain. Just amazing.

[@heatherlyn1144]

I honestly cannot believe she doesn't have over 1 million subscribers! Blows my mind how many people do not see real talent!! Jennifer deserves every award available for women in my opinion and a Oscar for her performance in Coat of many colors! She was brilliant at acting and her voice gives me chills!! She deserves more recognition in my opinion!

[@kolbymiller9977]

Heather Lyn She's half the grammy-award winning duo Sugarland, along with Kristian Bush. But yes, she deserves as many views as all these pop/rap stars. People just don't see real talent anymore, its quite sad.

[@CJ-nc2vy]

I love how she pours her self in to every song !!

[@talbech]

I just recently found Jennifer and have been listening to Sugarland and her solo songs for the past week. What a performer, what a voice, what a smile. I'm in love.

[@mortarmagician871]

You have picked well my friend, she is drop dead gorgeous with that smile as you say, but more importantly her voice is fantastic seen her live 2 times in London and believe me when I say she is the best vocally out there. 👍

[@candicewilson6252]

I shouldn't keep listening to this song but I can't stop. I fell head over heels, madly in love with a man I had no business getting involved with. I knew it could never work from the beginning but I just couldn't walk away and in the end my whole world came crashing down around me and it completely shattered me. And even knowing how bad the heartbreak was I honestly don't know if I wouldn't do the same thing again because I've never loved that deeply before or since. I'll always wonder what if.

[@mariemarquez6686]

I fucking cry every time I listen to this. I always think about my ex that I was with for 3 years and how I'm still very much in love but the feelings aren't mutual. "I wasn't lost until you found me." 💔

[@christinasilva3799]

Mmaann! This song hits me in my heart right now! I'm in love with someone that is taken. We haven't crossed boundaries. Oh god please help me not love this man!!

[@markanderson0022]

Hello Christina how are you doing nice comment 👋👋👋

[@Insightdisorder]

Busted???

[@Amber-q6x]

For me, the story is the husband's betrayal and her not being able to not love and want him anymore. It's hard to stop loving someone. As a matter of fact, you don't. How hard it is to walk away and forget no matter how toxic but knowing it's the best thing.

[@janetsutton2841]

This is the kind of love I wish everyone could feel in their life time. I was married to a man that his touch would send chills through me, just watching him in whatever he did I would ache for him just to touch me. I had that gorgeous man for 21 years. God needed him home and he left so unexpectedly . I would die to have him back to touch me. There will never be a man that could make my body cry and hurt for them. I am so thankful I had the opportunity to feel that kind of love espically with him. It's been 28 months since he went to heaven to this day when I see hours pictures I get that ache that hurt like it was a minutes ago. My angel forever

[@SonyaRichardson-rv6uc]

know this feeling your whole body aches

[@user-xs4wp3kr7d]

Had me in tears! Thanks for touching the spot that so many seem to be scared to!

[@crystalkeilman5098]

me too.

[@bcharmer4262]

36 years ago and I still live with the knowledge that you never forget you just learn to live with the regret.

[@BeBe-vk7nx]

the best thing I ever did was staying in my marriage because I wouldn't have the beautiful family is have now. God knows what he is doing.

[@jenniferlefevre1971]

And who cares what he's doing. You've got this Momma

[@almohvn33]

Powerful... A bit of love and.. a bit of addiction, which is so hard to break, til the person heals. And.. one cannot heal in a relationship like this.. The ying the yang, the pain, the hurt, the touch, the fire, the pain... keep going.

[@dorisnight3395]

I'm free. I finally found the courage....thank you for inspiring me. I'm glad that part of my life is over. It was stagnate. Now it's flowing with life again. I didn't know my own strength. I thank God. And,I thank Him for you too. Your life inspired mine.

[@veritasaequitas4704]

Free

[@laurieburdett1496]

when you love someone you know you shouldn't. Damn, that's been a theme of my life. I suspect it is for a lot of people.

[@kimwise2102]

Me to girl... I lost the love of my life and 40 years later and it is still killing me! 😭

[@jenniferthomason1070]

I'm in love with someone I can't have and this song resonates through my soul.....

[@annsumrall2593]

Beautiful true song and heart never unloves true live

[@annsumrall2593]

I could listen to this song all day and it speaks mountains of feelings and desire

[@barbarahill5722]

This I Know!

[@nicholesidla6233]

The worst feeling in the world is to feel this song 100%

[@katip.mccormick4088]

Maybe not the worst. But definitely one of the worst. It sucks horribly.

[@jenniferwilson8815]

100% AGREE

[@nicholesidla6233]

@@jenniferwilson8815 im sorry for whatever you're going through to feel the same way. Best of luck to you.

[@VACajun1967]

A broken heart heals but then you discover you still love the Man U though you were over him !!

[@doreensmith6793]

Oh my gosh, yes. Love like that

[@seattlepainter]

Jennifer is such an amazing singer! She has a God-given gift and more people should hear her sing.

[@miaozuna]

Absolutely love this woman & her beautiful voice when she sings she puts everything in her music

[@rosiehazelwanter6379]

Wynonna Judd singing I want to know what love is

[@jessicawilliams1070]

I've often wondered how you can love someone who's hurt you the most. My daughter's dad left when our youngest was diagnosed with brain cancer at 5. I've stayed single and have just focused on raising my girls. I spent 20 years of my life loving someone who I want to hate, but cannot explain it. My daughter's 3 years in remission now and my oldest has left for college. Maybe one day I'll allow myself to experience love again, for now I'm a mom of 2 amazing girls who I love more then life itself.

[@rojamillerover]

He didnt deserve your heart,you will love someone soon

[@45square]

First time I heard this song I felt like the wind had been knocked out me when she sang this part. They call it fire But it feels just like drowning Well, the weight of my burning desire Closing in all around me I wasn't lost until you found me

[@jthoward1430]

This song is amazing, i couldnt imagine even trying to unlove the woman i think of when i hear this song Angie means the world to me she got me over my drug addiction my love for her was stronger than any drug i could possibly do

[@carylmorgan7638]

miss Jennifer Nettles, you are an amazing, dynamic singer. love ALL of your music. Seen you in concert on more than one occasion

[@waltermurphy6771]

Hi Caryl hope you’re okay?

[@earnieb5318]

This woman has a very rare gift....her voice is sooo real and raw....just listening is like WATCHING a live performance.....and to watch her perform!!!! Each and every time she's on stage it's ALWAYS ALL-OUT and dead on with the subject matter of the lyrics.....I'd never turn down the opportunity to be in the audience....she crushes me.

[@kristiebivens5744]

"I wasn't lost until you found me. And now I can't unlove you" will be my next tattoo i get. This song speaks to me on so many levels, that I'm now changed.

[@cgembee1066]

If you don't feel her soul when she sings this...then ..... It fills my eyes with tears and it is very relatable. Who has not experienced love lost or a broken heart? I surely have and it is true....you can't UNLOVE someone.

[@sabrinadawn4112]

"They call it fire, but it feels just like drowning..." That is what affairs do with a lifetime of regret. You'll never be able to "unknow" it.

[@jameswalker4322]

"I wasn't lost until you found me." Very powerful, beautifully written lyrics.

[@karimbrightman]

One of the most beautiful voice in the World !!! She's so Classy like Celine Dion and Powerful like Faith Hill.. and so mainstream like Dolly Parton

[@micheleduda6663]

I know how you truly feel because I am feeling like we have that in common 💕

[@sherylkelly8524]

This song can bring so many interpretations for so many of us who have hurt from love. Jennifer knows what words to sing to help us get through tough times. I have loved her music from the start and happy she is out doing her own thing just goes and shows everyone to never give up on ur dreams they will come true if u try hard enough.

[@waltermurphy6771]

Hi Sheryl hope you’re okay?

[@sugarlandfan1448]

Amazing. Beautiful. Stunning. Words that describe this video and the wonderful woman that is Jennifer Nettles.

[@angiemarie4748]

I love her voice. This song is perfectly my situation. I would not want you to destroy your marriage for me. I would never want you too. I know you don't love me. I want you to be happy and know your happy is without me in your life. It just hurts and I have to deal with it my own way.

[@davidholton9667]

Hello So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song.

[@jessicawwesavani]

This song makes me cry so much.... It's so painful. I will always love my ex from 4 years ago. Til the day I die...

[@lw8443]

Same here. Been almost 6 years. Still think about him almost every day. No one will ever compare...

[@tinwerkthree7747]

Well that would be the sweet pain you would carry on Into your Tomb for some boys are drug if you take them you will never be healed. In your case if you don't wash your mind, you will never love again believe me. It is a pain. Maybe sweet, maybe bitter or bittersweet. Take car

[@karyngilbert112]

It's been 3 years. Pain will always be there. There'll never be another.

[@tammydd1964]

true true true

[@illusionsfan1]

8yrs for me..... and this one pretty much summed up my thoughts exactly. I am still friends with him although we kind hit an awkward moment where he sort of backed away due to not wanting to give me false hope etc but the reality is I know all this and I don't actually expect that to change (hope one day MAYBE sure - I mean you're not exactly gonna just be like lock it in a box and throw the box into the ocean especially when you know that box ain't gonna sink no matter what you try to make it do so - its fighting a losing battle) but when I try to sort of go I get where you are and I can't change that and all that the reality is I'm always gonna care and love you on a scale that nobody - not even myself - can explain.... this song basically EXPLAINS just that (that you can't explain it)... you can't unlove them no matter what you do and you kind of accept that but also need them to understand that that is just how it is. It's not their fault really and it's not even yours it's something that just seems to have wedged itself in the one part of your soul that you simply can't shut off. The only real solution of course is if they totally and completely did you wrong like an ultimate betrayal of sorts... and then maybe you could toss them out of your life/heart/mind/soul but that's not what anyone wants from someone they love THIS deeply. (I imagine that would actually completely break a person).

[@donnywilcox4247]

wasnt lost untill you found me what a great lyric...simple yet so powerful.....talent this lady has it

[@jennkosiek744]

I wasn't lost until I found you..... I can't unknow this, Lord I wish I knew how

[@markanderson0022]

Hello jenn how are you 👋👋👋

[@caseyyellow1545]

I couldn't have found this song at a more perfect time, falling in love and falling apart and then finally able to walk away. My interpretation anyway, I'll never stop loving you, I'll never stop thinking about you and I hope one day our stars will align and I'll be in your arms. Until then, I can't do it to myself.

[@jenniferlefevre1971]

Hugs

[@heydismontero2754]

no matter what I do , our love was so deep I will never forget him. no matter what happens I will always think of him. it's been 2 yrs now and I still think of him everyday. this song just makes me cry bc love is truly supposed to hurt.

[@kimwise2102]

This song touches my heart so much.To be in love and make a mistake and the love of your life and soulmate I losted . After 40 years my heart still hurts for you. If we had been a little older maybe that would've made the difference but who knows. I will Always Love you and NEVER BE ABLE TO UNLOVE YOU David!

[@cyndilukens4666]

Just love Jennifer Nettles, the most under rated singer out there. Saw her in concert, if you have a chance go see her,,,,she won't have shoes on

[@waltermurphy6771]

Hi Cyndi hope you’re okay?

[@morgancox92]

Jennifer Nettles has always found a way to my heart.

[@NoName-vj5rs]

I listen to this song and wonder if she ever will forgive me for what I put her through. I never meant to hurt her,that was the last thing I never wanted to do,I so miss my only friend and soulmate,always will live with regret and die alone now I know this to be true.

[@jules9373]

Ohhhh Jennifer- you've done it again. What a gift to be able to put raw emotion into words for the rest of us speechless fools. ❤

[@jules9373]

"I wasn't lost until you found me"

[@dcisbest220]

did she write it?

[@roseannakissee6643]

I wish I was in my 20s again and knew what I do now because I definitely would have done things differently especially the guys I chose to love!

[@markanderson0022]

Hello RoseAnna how are you doing 👋👋👋👋👋

[@michellemcnutt9348]

Same

[@davidsites8574]

oct 2020 still listing ...still can feel the passion of the words to this song.. thank you Jennifer...i really don't know i you wrote this song ...but couldn't have gotten anyone else to sing it ..you amaze me..i'm 73 yrs yesterday...an i knqw if i was 25 i'd know what to do...

[@roxanneweaver4697]

This means so much to me. So here it goes I feel this way and I can do because I can't unlove this man no matter how hard I've tried. I wasn't lost until he found me.

[@waltermurphy6771]

Hi Roxanne hope you’re okay?

[@jenniwilliams3295]

The queen of emotion. Jennifer Nettles is one of few singers that can break you in 2 lines. I think Stay is probably one of the most iconic female country songs.

[@magnusbicke4629]

Wow, your comments is very interesting to view, hope you're good?

[@jenniwilliams3295]

I've been listening to a song on a loop the past few days the line that kills me and reminds me of what I went through so much is I wasn't lost until you found me.

[@yvettesamuel165]

It is alright for People to stay it is better to to Love and lose, than never to Love at all!, but to deal with the Hurt and loss takes your breathe away. Jennifer Nettles just shows us how. Great singer, great lyrics, great performer!!

[@cherylmatthews9144]

OMG Walter! I feel like you wasted your whole life waiting on this woman. This breaks my heart.

[@donaldholderdoc2910]

Still one of the most heart wrenching songs I've ever heard. I absolutely love Jennifer Nettles voice and emotions she puts into one. Kudos to Brandy Clark as co-writer.

[@el_love1248]

every single person has lived this long...very powerful.

[@bsociety4647]

Yep. Where you feel like you should end it, but you can't because no matter what pain they've caused you, you think of the good times that made you fall in love with him & you just wait & pray the he would do whatever it took to be the Prince Charming you fell for, ya know?

[@user-ql5oj3jn7y]

Well its about being with someone who is with someone else so I disagree lol not everyone has done that.

[@theopiner402]

No, not quite.

[@HK-qj4im]

I hear what you are saying. But I dont think EVERYONE has. I was 50 years old before I did. I guess we can say we hope everyone discovers the power of True Love. Our world is to crazy right now. Pray for Love.

[@mistyklenoski6279]

I can't unfeel how it felt to feel so much myself my whole body aches.... and I can't unknow, Lord I wish I knew how... I can't unlove you... so come love me for now...

[@19murphy9696]

The video is perfect. That look they gave each other at :53 to :58 takes your breath away! I guess I am a romantic at heart. I wasn't lost until you found me. Great song. Love the lyrics.

[@jameshorn7830]

When Jennifer sings, she doesn't just tug at your heart strings... she rips them right out and hands them to you...

[@tanikamerrett9630]

This song....every word is how I felt once. Brings tears to remember. She is amazing at putting real emotion in her music.

[@Erinswain6]

Not being able to unlove someone can be a beautiful thing. I’ve been in this situation and it’s bad but my love for him i would never take back.

[@2011xee]

She is simply an amazing artist. One of the few true artists still out there able to articulate the incredible human experience - good, bad or ugly.

[@gmanandhislady]

Her songs get to me every single time. She's an incredible songwriter and singer! I do miss Sugarland, but I love her solo songs too!

[@xbrandi12345x]

Didn't know who you were until The Righteous Gemstones but you have one of the most amazing voices I have ever heard!!

[@waltermurphy6771]

Hi Brandi hope you’re okay?

[@taraniedergall8077]

I have always liked Jennifer Nettles. then i heard this song, i fell 100% in LOVE with her. This song is perfect.

[@donmaciver1420]

If any artist can move me through their voice, their song, it is Jennifer Nettles; such a gorgeous tone and range to her amazing voice.

[@billcook7911]

Wow - this happened to me. A love that shouldn't have been, but couldn't be denied. Long lost, but still strong in my mind and heart. Wonder where she is now?

[@crystalwilliams6695]

wow this song pretty much sums up my life. Unhappy marriage and a man that I'm in love with that won my heart. I have tried to feel that way for my husband the way I do about him but it's just not there anymore there's too much water under the bridge.

[@nelsonanthony9228]

Hello Crystal how are you doing today

[@crystalwilliams6695]

@@nelsonanthony9228 doing great

[@nelsonanthony9228]

@@crystalwilliams6695 Nice meeting you

[@aymansteelers3473]

This kind of voice is very rare to find these days. Thank you Jennifer for delivering this wonderful song to us.

[@Sand-sq9lv]

Here is True Pure Talent at its finest 1:07 ❤🎉😢😮

[@jessscuderi4454]

Incredible. She is amazing and just keeps getting better in my opinion. She Is writing better, she is singing better then ever, she looks better then ever. I can't get enough of her. Love this

[@JessicaSouza-hb6iu]

omg the feeling and hurt in her voice and knowing what that feels like. The reason I can't be around you because two people would end up hurt and it is not worth revisiting old feelings 😭I can't unlove you so come love me for now

[@stevekulbacki5238]

One of the best voices the planet has heard. What could happen if she got with a good songwriter? Heard this song on the radio today and knew that voice is unmistakable.

[@annamorse9316]

I can relate to this song, I had someone in my life at one point but just couldn't make it work no matter how hard and how much I loved him, even after 7 months and a break up after him, I cant stop thinking about him and unable to unlove him. But I know in my heart it would never be.

[@sashagemme]

I can totally relate to this!

[@waltermurphy6771]

Hi Anna hope you’re okay?

[@UCqkdtMiE5ZquD_lF9prae4Q]

Lyrics: I could break down and cry Laugh it off and deny Draw lines in the sand And count on both hands All the reasons why This just won't work It'll be nothing but hurt I can swear that I don't And maybe one day I won't But for how hard I've tried I can't unlove you My heart can't unbreak I can't unfeel how it felt But feel so much myself My whole body ached And I can't unknow this Lord, I wish I knew how But I can't unlove you So come love me for now If I were twenty-five I know just what I'd do I would have already kissed Till I was drunk on your lips A thousand times too few But we have other lives And we know it ain't right This is going nowhere If I'm with you I don't care Take me nowhere tonight They call it fire But it feels just like drowning Well, the weight of my burning desire Closing in all around me I wasn't lost until you found me And I can't unlove you My heart can't unbreak I can't unfeel how it felt But feel so much myself My whole body ached And I can't unknow this Lord, I wish I knew how But I can't unlove you So come love me for now I can't unlove you So come love me for now

[@dugy40]

I still love a woman, she left 3 years ago. she robbed me blind but i still love her, i miss her so much. I love you Leslie Seward

[@teribyrd8825]

I feel this song deep in my heart. I still have love for an ex husband. We divorced for two years, and then he had a massive heart attack and passed away. I loved him even when we divorced, and I will always love him. I'm not sure that any man would ever take his place.

[@karikareh6018]

hmm... my God! 💔 "... to feel so much myself my whole body ached. and i can't Unknow this..."

[@DogDaysKennel]

So what do you mean? You cheated?

[@karikareh6018]

+DogDaysKennel whatever do you mean?

[@kitten_purrrs73]

💗Hugs

[@apryllthompson9599]

Bruno mars

[@yvonnebunch8800]

Yvonne Njuguna