Jennifer Nettles - Unlove You (Official Video)

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Music video by Jennifer Nettles performing Unlove You. (C) 2016 Big Machine Label Group, LLC
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[@walterholt2609]

I can relate; The year 1971, I was 22 a wild child building a business and sowing my oats. She was a 17 year old school girl from a small town in the Appalachians, tall , blond hair, blue eyed and from the minute she walked through the door I was in love. We spent many a day together over the next year as I would drive miles from anywhere I was to see and be with her. She was the first woman/girl I respected enough to not consummate our love out of wedlock. The caveat was she was engaged to the towns rich kid that treated her like a possession he could show off and she really didn't love him. Time went on and I pressed her to call it off with him. One night as we were sitting on her parents porch he showed up and a confrontation ensued. He left and I gave her an ultimatum to make a decision then either he or I and if she couldn't I was leaving not to return. She was upset, crying and couldn't so like a hot head young fool I left driving out of those mountains never to return. A bit of time went buy I found consolation in another I married on the rebound for a brief period of time, thoughts always drifting of her, comparing other women to her. A few years went on and she found me at a place I was working, she married him because she heard I had married. She wanted to see me so I sent her a plane ticket, the day arrived and I went to the airport to pick her up but she didn't arrive, heartbroken I went home and moved on with my life. Years go by I met another, we decide to marry. I come home from work one day and my soon to be bride hands me a bouquet of flowers telling me a lady had dropped these off for me. Looking at the hand writing and special spelling of the name I knew who it was. The next day at work I get a call from her once again at work. She is in a few towns over on a business trip and wants to get together. Pride once again hinders my decision making and I tell her I am getting married an that after she didn't show with the pain I went through that I didn't want to see her. All the while my emotions screaming at me to drop what I am doing and run to her, which I should have done because my marriage to the other was doomed from that point. Many many years go by and thoughts always drift back of her. Over the time relationships come and go thoughts always drifting to her and the comparison keep me from commitment. My 50's come along she on the East Coast, me on the West, happenstance puts us in contact with each other. We write, We talk on the phone, she's unhappily married with a child, I single, she has a business meeting she has to come out for and we decide to meet. I fly to where she is, from the time I walk through the airport gate and see her the love we felt for each other was like it always had been. We spent the next week laughing, loving, making love as though we were never apart. Time came to leave, I wanted her to leave him and come be with me but her being the person she is she couldn't break up the marriage for the sake of her child. Time went on and the separation took it's toll till the decision was made that we had to let it go for our own well being and so physically it ended but I always in my heart even at 73 years old I carry the love of that one special person I had in my life for a brief while....So yes I can relate.....Sorry for this being so long winded but I'm happy to tell my story and this song brings fond memories.

[@cynthia8703]

That was beautiful Walter.

[@bethchalender3987]

Thank you so much for sharing. I learned a lot from your heart here. I appreciate your candor!

[@theresalevesque7087]

I too have one of these lost loves out there. We know we are each others soul mates but we belong to someone else now. We made a pact many years ago that if we ever single at the same time we will be together again. Not sure if it will ever happen but I think about it often. No one knows what the future holds. Live it one day at a time.

[@patriciahorton630]

So sweet and bitter sweet too. Thank you for sharing your story, it touched my heart.

[@valentinevocals]

Oh my... Your Truth made me Cry... I can feel that even though you lived your life for the most part separately the time that you did spend together loving so deeply was greater than ten lifetimes could hold! May you be blessed with the most beautiful memories of that glorious love you were given to share.... Always!

[@pattibuchhalter6671]

Even as a WIDOW at 73 yrs old, this plays to my heart every second of every day because of the love I have for someone now in my life. Loving someone you can't have HURTS LIKE HELL

[@shessosweet13]

Oof…say that again Sis🫶🏻

[@tinagibbons9142]

71 here and it's the same for me

[@karlashillingburg3098]

The pain it gives you knowing you can't have that married man you love so much...

[@kolbymiller9977]

It KILLS ME how absolutely underrated this woman is. That’s not to say she hasn’t accomplished so many amazing things in her career, because she has, and she has made herself a household name especially with Sugarland. But she should be country musics biggest star. She is absolutely incredible. This song and her voice is incapsulating. Nobody does it like J Nett.

[@greeneyelove2003]

Agreed! I commented on another post that for me, she ranks up there with Faith and Carrie and Reba. Her voice is just amazing and the emotion that she puts into every word is haunting.

[@shessosweet13]

she’s a notch above- Thank God for badass country women❤

[@priscillae93]

Agreed, I don't get it! She's amazing!!! Nobody can forget that voice and tone.

[@juanC012]

We all have that one we can’t UNLOVE

[@christycrook2893]

we all have that one person in our lives that we can't unlove.

[@angelrocamontes283]

Christy Crook mine was the beautiful girl in class that was quiet and kind but let society control her and make her choose the guy who was shit instead of the person she wanted to be with. she would rather be seen as straight to our classmates then follow her heart. safe to say i got the short end of the stick.

[@rachelbologna2012]

Christy Crook can you do me a favor and subscribe to my channel and support my music

[@NegleLir]

So true!!!

[@1besieged]

My mom, my dad, my kids and God and my horses, and pets..

[@efrenhernandez2134]

I can’t unlove myself :)

[@amieabdella2740]

"they call it fire, but it feels just like drowning" felt that in my soul. This whole song is hitting me.

[@mickaelalynngregorypipes]

Me too

[@vitobenedetto6564]

This voice , this woman , her beauty . They all just get better with time , nobody can do it like her......... Beautiful just beautiful.

[@Bullett13]

Keep going

[@liesannetieck4802]

I could break down and cry Laugh it off and deny Draw lines in the sand And count on both hands All the reasons why This just won't work It'll be nothing but hurt I can swear that I don't And maybe one day I won't But for how hard I've tried I can't unlove you My heart can't unbreak I can't unfeel how it felt But feel so much myself My whole body ached And I can't unknow this Lord, I wish I knew how But I can't unlove you So come love me for now If I were twenty-five I know just what I'd do I would have already kissed Till I was drunk on your lips A thousand times too few But we have other lives And we know it ain't right This is going nowhere If I'm with you I don't care Take me nowhere tonight They call it fire But it feels just like drowning Well, the weight of my burning desire Closing in all around me I wasn't lost until you found me And I can't unlove you My heart can't unbreak I can't unfeel how it felt But feel so much myself My whole body ached And I can't unknow this Lord, I wish I knew how But I can't unlove you So come love me for now I can't unlove you So come love me for now

[@jaybama72]

Liesanne Tieck It’s amazing that someone can write something as beautiful as this!

[@JennP.Can6316]

Thanks for the lyrics. 👏👏👏👏🤝

[@Angandjenschannel]

@@jaybama72 and that's the reason it's a shame that Brandy Clark doesn't get much radio play.

[@jaybama72]

Angela Widener Wow, I just listened to a couple of her songs and I’m hooked!

[@marthacross4826]

Thank you for the lyrics!

[@daemonskycloak6818]

I don't know if anyone else can relate but when I fall in love I don't stop loving them ever but it transforms into a different kind of love. The kind of love that heals your heart. I don't think anyone has ever truly loved me in a romantic sense but for me love is my strength. It's something I will always carry with me from every person I have ever loved. Someday I hope I find someone who can love me back the way I have learned to love because it's so beautiful and I just want to share this feeling with someone who can understand.

[@heathernichole3900]

👐 AMEN!! ♡

[@heathernichole3900]

👐 AMEN!! ♡

[@staceball4167]

And you will

[@Josh-nr6pl]

My brother you will. I went through 14 relationships before I found that special someone. you are the pure embodiment of love and life. Never let that light fade, stay lit, trust me. You ever find yourself needing a helping hand give me a shout and I'll be there.

[@thomasrenwart]

You will. Love always finds a way home.

[@thekaitlynn9]

"I wasn't lost until you found me." -- What a powerful lyric. Absolutely love this song!

[@royalalexander6424]

It is indeed. ❤

[@kolbymiller9977]

One of the greatest voices of all time. I said it. Jennifer Nettles is absolutely incredible. This song is incapsulating.

[@karencheatwood5235]

Well said

[@halobenefitgroup]

You cannot fake this emotion or use these lyrics if you haven't personally experienced this kind of connection. This is a story straight from her heart. Thanks for sharing!

[@whorsesblongnpasturz7677]

Oh so true

[@halobenefitgroup]

@Jennifer Nettles ♪ Wait what? This is the real Jennifer Nettles? All I can say is WOW! As an avid music lover, I felt this song from the first chord. The real emotion, the words, your voice...amazing. "I wasn't lost till you found me" is lyrical genius and I don't think everyone can relate. Beautiful song...Beautiful woman 🥲😊💛

[@halobenefitgroup]

@Jennifer Nettles ♪ I'm a recent fan to be honest. Since the moment I heard this song. Would love to know the story behind it. Im about 30 minutes south of Chicago...

[@lifeloverlorijean]

So true!

[@CJ-nc2vy]

I love how she pours her self in to every song !!

[@laurieburdett1496]

when you love someone you know you shouldn't. Damn, that's been a theme of my life. I suspect it is for a lot of people.

[@kimwise2102]

Me to girl... I lost the love of my life and 40 years later and it is still killing me! 😭

[@jenniferthomason1070]

I'm in love with someone I can't have and this song resonates through my soul.....

[@annsumrall2593]

Beautiful true song and heart never unloves true live

[@annsumrall2593]

I could listen to this song all day and it speaks mountains of feelings and desire

[@barbarahill5722]

This I Know!

[@yvonnebryan6310]

Makes me miss my Veteran husband in Heaven.I can't unlove him because I love him so much.I refuse to move on as he was a wonderful husband to me.They say time heals all wounds no time isn't healing mine.I miss his voice,his touch,everything about my sweet loving Carey.It hurts we were married 17 years he served honorably for over 21 years and passed to service connected illnesses. :(

[@waltermurphy6771]

Hi Yvonne hope you’re okay?

[@seattlepainter]

You will be reunited with your beloved husband again someday when you leave this world. Love is stronger than death!

[@npkrn6764]

❤🙏

[@kimberlyhighley611]

How many can truly relate this to their have you ever loved so hard you're whole body aches I can,💔💔💔💔

[@tonyward8752]

Me

[@williemaeoglesby5211]

Yes, feeling it NOW!

[@mickaelalynngregorypipes]

Feelin it I have too , Like,right now

[@loriparris8128]

Yeah still hurts

[@mariac2472]

Yes, I can for sure.

[@luvmypup93]

I love how raw she sounds, its portrays how it really feels when you love someone like that. Someone whos toxic, who continually hurts you but you just cant stop, its like your chest is cut wide open for them to take and take. A slow deep ache. And all you want is to just let them go, you pray and beg god but it just doesnt stop, you just cant stop.

[@shannalee7728]

Yes. ^ So true.

[@Chicagonative3609]

My heart broke as I read your comment, Desiree. It's how I feel all the time too. One day we shall find the man of our dreams, one who would never do such horrid things to us. We will find it Desiree, one day real soon. Hugs!! :)

[@sarahjane81881]

I'm in this very same situation right now.....madly in love with someone who's very toxic. He's an addict of all sort...lies, cheats and manipulates. But I can't leave. I'd almost be willing to stay and accept it because I love him so much. I've prayed a lot too. I just can't pull my heart away. It's by far the most confusing situation I've ever been in....

[@aprilpettit3806]

amen!!!

[@thegreendawn]

so true

[@DJ-sc8rc]

"I wasn't lost until you found me .."

[@1mansopinion966]

Jennifer has that voice. She pulls you into the song. She allows you to feel the joy and the pain. Just amazing.

[@tj105]

My song to my husband Colby, who walked out of my life 9 months ago, after 16 years together. I will love you until my very last breath!!! A love like we had doesn't just go away. I can't just "UNLOVE YOU".....it's not that simple.

[@miaozuna]

Absolutely love this woman & her beautiful voice when she sings she puts everything in her music

[@rosiehazelwanter6379]

Wynonna Judd singing I want to know what love is

[@cheekybrown2010]

"I wasn't lost until you found me...."

[@6kellyark6]

Best line.

[@JustRightPinedo]

Yeah. Same...

[@girlinthesouth850]

Love that line

[@Don-tg3jg]

That is the line my love told me

[@courtneymoore8212]

My fav part of the song.. so true

[@tanikamerrett9630]

This song....every word is how I felt once. Brings tears to remember. She is amazing at putting real emotion in her music.

[@seattlepainter]

Jennifer is such an amazing singer! She has a God-given gift and more people should hear her sing.

[@AshliCierra]

this song brings tears to my eyes every time. after being in a 7 year abusive relationship and being in a new loving normal relationship for a year and a half, I use to think I'd always love him no matter what, then I met my fiance...thank God for answering prayers. I use to feel this way about my ex, I don't ever give him a second thought now!

[@chrissy2755]

I needed to see this. I’m up struggling over my abusive ex of 9 years that ghosted me. Feels like I’ll never stop loving him. This gives me hope

[@user-xs4wp3kr7d]

Had me in tears! Thanks for touching the spot that so many seem to be scared to!

[@crystalkeilman5098]

me too.

[@jamiemayo6839]

I would give anything if my ex-wife loved me. Even if it’s for one day, so I can feel what it feels like for her to really love me and I would never want that day to end. If you’re married be the man that makes your wife fall in love with you over and over everyday and make her feel like no other woman will ever compare to her, because when she’s gone, she’s gone. I wouldn’t wish on nobody else what it feels like to lose someone you love more than anything.

[@nicholesidla6233]

The worst feeling in the world is to feel this song 100%

[@katip.mccormick4088]

Maybe not the worst. But definitely one of the worst. It sucks horribly.

[@jenniferwilson8815]

100% AGREE

[@nicholesidla6233]

@@jenniferwilson8815 im sorry for whatever you're going through to feel the same way. Best of luck to you.

[@VACajun1967]

A broken heart heals but then you discover you still love the Man U though you were over him !!

[@doreensmith6793]

Oh my gosh, yes. Love like that

[@brandipals]

Went to a Sugarland concert a few years ago and she sounds exactly the same live. She's so good she doesn't need auto tune.

[@j.g.7951]

yes!!

[@marieliming9227]

Yes! My best friend took me to see her when she came to a casino near me. Small venue GREAT show! Her voice is so beautiful. recorded or live!

[@nealbfinn]

Great singers never do.

[@michaelhinchey]

Most singers in this genre don't use auto tune. They save that for talentless singers I'm the r& b and rap genre. :P

[@essences7]

lol wow well said

[@morgancox92]

Jennifer Nettles has always found a way to my heart.

[@bekasmith3120]

I met him my senior year of high school…I just came out of a bad relationship and he completely swept me off my feet. Though we met through social media, that first FaceTime call I knew. My heart felt like it was glowing and I just couldn’t get enough of him from the beginning. We fell in love so quickly, but we were long distance which sucked. After 4 months he moved to my state and we were inseparable. Let me tell you…you always hear the stories of love at first sight or how falling for that person just happened all at once. That’s how it was with him, it came as second nature. He was my other half…due to family issues and things out of our control we had to end it after a year and a half. My heart felt like it exploded, I never imagined having to say goodbye to the person I loved the most. It’s been 6 months and he’s trying to move on and so am I, but there is still something making me hold on. I hear his name in conversations, I notice when somebody has the same birthday as him, I see his truck everywhere and he doesn’t even live in this state anymore. I can’t get him out of my head. I’ve prayed and tried fo get him out of my head but he’s always there. I wish I could unlove him if he’s not going to make his way back into my life at some point. I miss my best Friend.

[@andycross8385]

Lost love is same as grief of someone close to us that has died , even more so in ways because we know he/she is still here and sometimes we meet them .

[@kimberlyhighley611]

It's very hard to unlove someone 💔💔I have loved and lost

[@shannonbucek1384]

Only one true love I’ve had and I’ve lost him 3 times now over the course of 33 years….the time was never right but it doesn’t change the way I feel about him till this day

[@mariemarquez6686]

I fucking cry every time I listen to this. I always think about my ex that I was with for 3 years and how I'm still very much in love but the feelings aren't mutual. "I wasn't lost until you found me." 💔

[@BrianDyannMusic]

This song is almost as power as her own song "Stay" when she was in Sugarland

[@erainafarmer3547]

I think he did not ''stay'' and I can see heartbreak in her since that song.

[@dr1204]

Jen never makes a bad song!

[@roseannakissee6643]

I wish I was in my 20s again and knew what I do now because I definitely would have done things differently especially the guys I chose to love!

[@markanderson0022]

Hello RoseAnna how are you doing 👋👋👋👋👋

[@sugarlandfan1448]

Amazing. Beautiful. Stunning. Words that describe this video and the wonderful woman that is Jennifer Nettles.

[@aaronwolf4073]

Such a powerful song when you're with someone, but love another...

[@heatherlyn1144]

I honestly cannot believe she doesn't have over 1 million subscribers! Blows my mind how many people do not see real talent!! Jennifer deserves every award available for women in my opinion and a Oscar for her performance in Coat of many colors! She was brilliant at acting and her voice gives me chills!! She deserves more recognition in my opinion!

[@kolbymiller9977]

Heather Lyn She's half the grammy-award winning duo Sugarland, along with Kristian Bush. But yes, she deserves as many views as all these pop/rap stars. People just don't see real talent anymore, its quite sad.

[@almohvn33]

Powerful... A bit of love and.. a bit of addiction, which is so hard to break, til the person heals. And.. one cannot heal in a relationship like this.. The ying the yang, the pain, the hurt, the touch, the fire, the pain... keep going.

[@jthoward1430]

This song is amazing, i couldnt imagine even trying to unlove the woman i think of when i hear this song Angie means the world to me she got me over my drug addiction my love for her was stronger than any drug i could possibly do

[@melissapaul2074]

I wish I knew how... I can't unlove you; so come love me for now. ... I love this song

[@christinasilva3799]

Mmaann! This song hits me in my heart right now! I'm in love with someone that is taken. We haven't crossed boundaries. Oh god please help me not love this man!!

[@markanderson0022]

Hello Christina how are you doing nice comment 👋👋👋

[@Insightdisorder]

Busted???

[@talbech]

I just recently found Jennifer and have been listening to Sugarland and her solo songs for the past week. What a performer, what a voice, what a smile. I'm in love.

[@mortarmagician871]

You have picked well my friend, she is drop dead gorgeous with that smile as you say, but more importantly her voice is fantastic seen her live 2 times in London and believe me when I say she is the best vocally out there. 👍

[@stupiid13]

I can feel this song deep in my bones.

[@karimbrightman]

One of the most beautiful voice in the World !!! She's so Classy like Celine Dion and Powerful like Faith Hill.. and so mainstream like Dolly Parton

[@kennthharrop6287]

Is anyone with me in June 2019? I’m still listening!

[@LEAFYANKEE65]

Just watched a CMT Crossroads show with Jennifer Nettles and Cheap Trick, and she did this song as a duet with Robin Zander, and it was pure magic !Robin Zander is one of the great underrated vocalists of rock and roll, and he can sing with the best of them, even at the age of 68 yrs. !!!

[@TK-ul7mr]

Hell yeh. I’m still watching and listening to THE most amazing voice in music, not just country, in any kind of music. Might sound weird, but I’d love to hear sing with Tom Jones. Another absolutely amazing voice.

[@dianamarierick865]

October '19

[@jenniferleblanc-reda8923]

November 2019!! Inspirational!!

[@bonniearmstrong3915]

2020 and still listening!!head phones on AnD all!!!!♡most beautiful voice in the world

[@heatherpatterson9246]

I just can’t let go…Even though I know I need to, I keep holding on to the thought of what we could be or what we are in those good moments. I told you I was leaving you tonight and you’re sleeping just fine in our bed right now while I sit outside and cry. How? How can someone you love break down to you so bad and you just give them nothing in return? Nothing. I definitely do feel like I’m drowning. How do I let go when I love you so damn much. Why are you like this? Why won’t you fight for us? I’ve loved you so damn much from the moment my lips touched yours. Lord please help me let go.

[@davidholton9667]

Hello So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song.

[@garrettcollier7236]

I haven't heard Jennifer Nettles' songs in A LONG time...This song is so heartfelt, sad & awesome.

[@luisvalenzuela8192]

Goosebump worthy. Story of my life. It's so hard to unlove to unbreak. It's as if I am scared to settle or constantly searching for something more. The high! That feeling of butterflies in your stomach when that special person walks in the room and your whole body aches. Love is beautiful. Love is love is love.

[@sharonmoshwayne]

I know what you mean ey

[@christinahamrick1627]

beautiful

[@tammydd1964]

+Christina Hamrick absolutely

[@kellywhitaker89]

Yes

[@Carolyn197010]

true

[@sorger03]

I have not been able to stop crying since hearing it cause I am definitely with the wrong man...this song just made me see it a few years sadly to late...to the right man if u see this u know it's only n ever been u

[@waltermurphy6771]

Hi Stephanie hope you’re okay?

[@donnamariesowell592]

She's one of my favorite singers. I LOVE this song.

[@abilane15]

Every time I listen to this song it breaks my heart all over again. "I was't lost until you found me" gets me every damn time

[@toddr9657]

That is a very powerful line in this song!!

[@DaughterOfTheOnlyKing]

Sure does!

[@tracyq.keever6459]

Same ... and SO True!!

[@raynbelkiss]

That's the ultimate line right there not just what she says, but how she says it with such vulnerability it begs the heart to feel with such surrender that it leaves you completely breathless.

[@Darlenevirgo]

That line does it to me too. Ugh.. such a powerful line

[@el_love1248]

every single person has lived this long...very powerful.

[@bsociety4647]

Yep. Where you feel like you should end it, but you can't because no matter what pain they've caused you, you think of the good times that made you fall in love with him & you just wait & pray the he would do whatever it took to be the Prince Charming you fell for, ya know?

[@user-ql5oj3jn7y]

Well its about being with someone who is with someone else so I disagree lol not everyone has done that.

[@theopiner402]

No, not quite.

[@HK-qj4im]

I hear what you are saying. But I dont think EVERYONE has. I was 50 years old before I did. I guess we can say we hope everyone discovers the power of True Love. Our world is to crazy right now. Pray for Love.

[@katie198511]

The first love is always the the worst. The one who isn’t good for you but you will always love forever

[@earnieb5318]

This woman has a very rare gift....her voice is sooo real and raw....just listening is like WATCHING a live performance.....and to watch her perform!!!! Each and every time she's on stage it's ALWAYS ALL-OUT and dead on with the subject matter of the lyrics.....I'd never turn down the opportunity to be in the audience....she crushes me.

[@douglasvilledarling2935]

I'm not really a Jennifer Nettles fan, but she may have won me over with this song. It is my favorite song at the moment.

[@issaissa8993]

I could usually care less for pretty much all of her songs but this one really gets me and I love it.

[@trishhorvath5709]

Go, listen to her Memorial Day Concert 2014, "Celebrate Me Home" & "Hello" love her vocals here

[@DeSledge]

Listen to Sugarland's "Fall Into Me" it only has 100,000+ views and her voice is perfect & powerful, the lyrics give me chill bumps, then the end of the song is an awesome guitar solo! My new fav song!

[@javasoccernut]

this is much like "Stay". give it a listen if you've not.

[@19murphy9696]

I agree with you. This is the first song she has done that I really do like. Plus she doesn't "yell" in this song!

[@jameswalker4322]

"I wasn't lost until you found me." Very powerful, beautifully written lyrics.

[@perksbautista]

"They call it fire, but it feels just like drowing."

[@jameshorn7830]

When Jennifer sings, she doesn't just tug at your heart strings... she rips them right out and hands them to you...

[@shirleykennedy3753]

This just blows me away. Totally love her voice.

[@nelsonanthony9228]

Hello Shirley how are you doing today

[@cgembee1066]

If you don't feel her soul when she sings this...then ..... It fills my eyes with tears and it is very relatable. Who has not experienced love lost or a broken heart? I surely have and it is true....you can't UNLOVE someone.

[@jenniwilliams3295]

The queen of emotion. Jennifer Nettles is one of few singers that can break you in 2 lines. I think Stay is probably one of the most iconic female country songs.

[@magnusbicke4629]

Wow, your comments is very interesting to view, hope you're good?

[@jenniwilliams3295]

I've been listening to a song on a loop the past few days the line that kills me and reminds me of what I went through so much is I wasn't lost until you found me.

[@yvettesamuel165]

It is alright for People to stay it is better to to Love and lose, than never to Love at all!, but to deal with the Hurt and loss takes your breathe away. Jennifer Nettles just shows us how. Great singer, great lyrics, great performer!!

[@cherylmatthews9144]

OMG Walter! I feel like you wasted your whole life waiting on this woman. This breaks my heart.

[@kimwise2102]

This song touches my heart so much.To be in love and make a mistake and the love of your life and soulmate I losted . After 40 years my heart still hurts for you. If we had been a little older maybe that would've made the difference but who knows. I will Always Love you and NEVER BE ABLE TO UNLOVE YOU David!

[@heydismontero2754]

no matter what I do , our love was so deep I will never forget him. no matter what happens I will always think of him. it's been 2 yrs now and I still think of him everyday. this song just makes me cry bc love is truly supposed to hurt.

[@donnywilcox4247]

wasnt lost untill you found me what a great lyric...simple yet so powerful.....talent this lady has it

[@donaldholderdoc2910]

Still one of the most heart wrenching songs I've ever heard. I absolutely love Jennifer Nettles voice and emotions she puts into one. Kudos to Brandy Clark as co-writer.

[@tjbelcher3144]

I've been fighting for 2 years to stop loving her!! It's just not possible after everything she gave me!!!

[@dodireardon6434]

This girl has it all...Class, talent, beauty and brains. A true inspiration. Love her so much.

[@lizrobles3446]

yes!

[@user-eo6yj7xh6c]

Fly over states for the win, however she has a lot of makeup, so beauty? With makeup sure, but without?

[@melwil724]

+Marvin Me in the video for "Stay" she's wearing barely any makeup if any. And she still looks beautiful

[@myhuynh2907]

A meaningful and sorrowful song, yet you just sullied it with your comment. Congratulations.

[@dirtintodust]

No, I was correcting the OP's claim that she "has it all". I think Jennifer is great. Sorry for the hurt feelz.

[@slswain_01]

😭😭its crazy how much this song speaks how i feel

[@marylong628]

me too

[@tinwerkthree7747]

me three😂

[@anthonyboatright6715]

very accurate here too...

[@danielhuber4818]

Shelby Swain ú

[@RedNeckRick1]

Is this what an Angel sounds like???

[@jennifervicecullars7805]

I can't unlove you. Lord I wish I knew how. I truly do.

[@nelsonanthony9228]

Hello Jennifer how are you doing today

[@carylmorgan7638]

miss Jennifer Nettles, you are an amazing, dynamic singer. love ALL of your music. Seen you in concert on more than one occasion

[@waltermurphy6771]

Hi Caryl hope you’re okay?

[@urangelita]

this song totally reminds me of the one that got away!!! things always happen for a reason! 14 yrs after we walked away from each other he walked back into my world and now calls me WIFE!!!

[@traceyonions3820]

wow amazing

[@ALambertRealtor]

You my dear got your happy ending. I only pray that one day I'll have mine.

[@urangelita]

It took 13+ yrs but I got it :) just keep the faith...

[@sandydove7014]

that is sooo sweeeet...ur one of the lucky ones...Ive got the best husband in the world....but....... : (

[@asmile4don]

Nia Garcia same here 20 years ago we had feelings for each other......... neither one of us told each about how we felt then 5 years ago we found each other again and we got married on his birthday August 2nd of this year :)

[@dorisnight3395]

I'm free. I finally found the courage....thank you for inspiring me. I'm glad that part of my life is over. It was stagnate. Now it's flowing with life again. I didn't know my own strength. I thank God. And,I thank Him for you too. Your life inspired mine.

[@veritasaequitas4704]

Free

[@janetsutton2841]

This is the kind of love I wish everyone could feel in their life time. I was married to a man that his touch would send chills through me, just watching him in whatever he did I would ache for him just to touch me. I had that gorgeous man for 21 years. God needed him home and he left so unexpectedly . I would die to have him back to touch me. There will never be a man that could make my body cry and hurt for them. I am so thankful I had the opportunity to feel that kind of love espically with him. It's been 28 months since he went to heaven to this day when I see hours pictures I get that ache that hurt like it was a minutes ago. My angel forever

[@SonyaRichardson-rv6uc]

know this feeling your whole body aches

[@johnrodrigues3210]

I've been listening to this song and Cam's Burning House on repeat for months. Can't get over the fact that my wife of 10 years left me..."I can't know this, Lord I wish I knew how"

[@strulson1]

You are so right wow so right

[@allieamacker9078]

love it

[@yahainHotPink]

John Rodrigues So sorry!

[@maryreese1310]

John Rodrigues I know my Husband of 16 years and partner for 26

[@JelynneM]

Sorry John :( hang in there

[@aprilleerose]

I adore this woman, she had a real, classic, and absolutely beautiful voice.

[@paintedhighway]

*has :-)

[@aprilleerose]

Has lol

[@rhinoglitter5997]

AprilRose

[@marirys35ify]

AprilRose

[@tiffanicampbell2372]

AprilRose

[@Tom-pn5sk]

This song just breaks my heart

[@kristinauballe9551]

Mine to

[@ConfusedChocolateStrawbe-vj2qf]

Jennifer nettles is the bomb 💣 in every direction possible without any questions asked and her husband is totally amazing with that guitar 🎸 strings and just plain facts 💯💪🔥

[@michelekhan8636]

This song is pure honesty 🌙💫❤️

[@jessicawwesavani]

This song makes me cry so much.... It's so painful. I will always love my ex from 4 years ago. Til the day I die...

[@lw8443]

Same here. Been almost 6 years. Still think about him almost every day. No one will ever compare...

[@tinwerkthree7747]

Well that would be the sweet pain you would carry on Into your Tomb for some boys are drug if you take them you will never be healed. In your case if you don't wash your mind, you will never love again believe me. It is a pain. Maybe sweet, maybe bitter or bittersweet. Take car

[@karyngilbert112]

It's been 3 years. Pain will always be there. There'll never be another.

[@tammydd1964]

true true true

[@illusionsfan1]

8yrs for me..... and this one pretty much summed up my thoughts exactly. I am still friends with him although we kind hit an awkward moment where he sort of backed away due to not wanting to give me false hope etc but the reality is I know all this and I don't actually expect that to change (hope one day MAYBE sure - I mean you're not exactly gonna just be like lock it in a box and throw the box into the ocean especially when you know that box ain't gonna sink no matter what you try to make it do so - its fighting a losing battle) but when I try to sort of go I get where you are and I can't change that and all that the reality is I'm always gonna care and love you on a scale that nobody - not even myself - can explain.... this song basically EXPLAINS just that (that you can't explain it)... you can't unlove them no matter what you do and you kind of accept that but also need them to understand that that is just how it is. It's not their fault really and it's not even yours it's something that just seems to have wedged itself in the one part of your soul that you simply can't shut off. The only real solution of course is if they totally and completely did you wrong like an ultimate betrayal of sorts... and then maybe you could toss them out of your life/heart/mind/soul but that's not what anyone wants from someone they love THIS deeply. (I imagine that would actually completely break a person).

[@45square]

First time I heard this song I felt like the wind had been knocked out me when she sang this part. They call it fire But it feels just like drowning Well, the weight of my burning desire Closing in all around me I wasn't lost until you found me

[@capearlb4wellnswinesecreat823]

I cant unlove you ... or move on . You should have left me never knowing ... let me love forever - You made me leave .REALITY YOU LEFT ME BEHIND . Still yet i want to believe you really loved me smh. SWEET DREAMS MY LOVE , for me theres only nightmares and ppl playing twisted games .no trust, no man can get through scars of my heart

[@karikareh6018]

hmm... my God! 💔 "... to feel so much myself my whole body ached. and i can't Unknow this..."

[@DogDaysKennel]

So what do you mean? You cheated?

[@karikareh6018]

+DogDaysKennel whatever do you mean?

[@kitten_purrrs73]

💗Hugs

[@apryllthompson9599]

Bruno mars

[@yvonnebunch8800]

Yvonne Njuguna

[@sherylkelly8524]

This song can bring so many interpretations for so many of us who have hurt from love. Jennifer knows what words to sing to help us get through tough times. I have loved her music from the start and happy she is out doing her own thing just goes and shows everyone to never give up on ur dreams they will come true if u try hard enough.

[@waltermurphy6771]

Hi Sheryl hope you’re okay?

[@donmaciver1420]

If any artist can move me through their voice, their song, it is Jennifer Nettles; such a gorgeous tone and range to her amazing voice.

[@frankdodson3534]

Jennifer she is so beautiful as so many comments I have read.

[@taraniedergall8077]

I have always liked Jennifer Nettles. then i heard this song, i fell 100% in LOVE with her. This song is perfect.

[@tkm1980ful]

Love this song..so much meaning i can't unlove you

[@19murphy9696]

The video is perfect. That look they gave each other at :53 to :58 takes your breath away! I guess I am a romantic at heart. I wasn't lost until you found me. Great song. Love the lyrics.

[@jennkosiek744]

I wasn't lost until I found you..... I can't unknow this, Lord I wish I knew how

[@markanderson0022]

Hello jenn how are you 👋👋👋

[@always_cornelia]

My heart can't unbreak...lord I wish I knew how

[@loramarvin3375]

Me to ??????

[@auroratrent9938]

my heart broke when I first heard this song.. it's beautiful and sad.

[@angiemarie4748]

I love her voice. This song is perfectly my situation. I would not want you to destroy your marriage for me. I would never want you too. I know you don't love me. I want you to be happy and know your happy is without me in your life. It just hurts and I have to deal with it my own way.

[@davidholton9667]

Hello So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song.

[@katie198511]

She’s so beautiful. Beauty means nothing. You could be the most beautiful person in the world. But doesn’t mean someone is going to love you like this.

[@davidholton9667]

Hello So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song.

[@2011xee]

She is simply an amazing artist. One of the few true artists still out there able to articulate the incredible human experience - good, bad or ugly.

[@manuce84]

I love this song since the first time I hear it......... and Jennifer you are so beautiful..

[@chuckp5995]

i had one love in my life and shes gone.....id give anything to have that time back

[@NoName-vj5rs]

I listen to this song and wonder if she ever will forgive me for what I put her through. I never meant to hurt her,that was the last thing I never wanted to do,I so miss my only friend and soulmate,always will live with regret and die alone now I know this to be true.