How neurotic is my wife???

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[@the_bandcamp_one]

this quiz just feels like every chronic illness and neurodivergence screening question was put into one quiz

[@Alalea17]

And also Shows that people were öike: yeah, you are UGLY for being mentally ill!

[@rodentary]

I thought the same thing. I was like wait……..

[@jimthechaosbunny]

It really, really does! To Jessica: I thought I was already subscribed to be honest, but as the subscribe button was right there, I guess not. Hope it makes your covid go away!

[@chloeincontext8944]

Agree. I was yes to about 80%. But then again…I AM neurotic. I’m assuming this thick ass book has some solutions?

[@cosmicalchemist8219]

It makes sense because chronically ill people were considered neurotic & most were not taken seriously.

[@ericafox5098]

Jessica: I have covid Also Jessica: [still well-dressed with pearls on]

[@HelennaRose]

Hypnagogic jerks are when the brain goes from light sleep to deep sleep too fast and our body jerks awake. It’s normal. ❤

[@CorinnePritchard]

Around 70% of people get them, so the 30% that don't do tend to get confused and think it's weird. But really, they're weird. Not that weird means anything at all!

[@MirA12334]

​@@CorinnePritchardyeah they are weird. Idk if I have them. Maybe? I wouldn't know because either I'm used to it or I just don't have it. But what i wanted to say they might be weird but as soon as a majority of people have something it is counted as the norm😅

[@CorinnePritchard]

I'd say you would know if you have them. You're basically just lying there, slowly getting more and more sleepy, and then BOOM you get this feeling of falling and your leg just jerks of its own accord. Then you go back to getting sleepy again. They'd be scary if you didn't know they were normal!@@MirA12334

[@sleepsno1fan593]

Its also a symptom of anxiety. If you experience it frequently

[@AndersWatches]

I hate them, glad it happens less often for me now than when I was a kid 😅

[@JustSaralius]

I'm worried about Claudia's fainting. That's literally how my partner's cousin died! He hit his head when he fell. Please Claud, consult a doctor.

[@Dunybrook]

That is terrifying but many times when you go to a doctor with a symptom like that they have no idea what is happening either.

[@logo9470]

My husband broke his neck when he passed out and fell about 12 inches into a doorknob. Please be careful Claudia.

[@Rotten_Ralph]

My neurologist was very upset about my not going to accident and emergency when I told him that I occasionally pass out.

[@Sophie_Cleverly]

I've fainted quite a lot of times, even in the hospital, and no one was bothered 🤔 I think it's low blood pressure mainly. My problem is that I have so many symptoms from having chronic illnesses that ought to warrant a doctor visit but in reality I find they can't/won't do anything about it unless it becomes life threatening, and even then I sometimes still got told I was overreacting 🙈

[@CorinnePritchard]

if the bathroom is the main scene for these fainting spells, there's probably no underlying cause other than changes in blood pressure from doing bathroom-related things. It's apparently more common when you've just woken up as well. Maybe turn the bathroom into a soft play room?! I cracked my head on the sink a fair few times because of period pain fainting. Ouch.

[@danicafaerie]

you two have such beautiful chemistry ♡ it’s always a joy to see you two laughing and smiling together 🥹

[@jennifers5560]

The 8:46 mark was so cute when they touched their noses and foreheads together!

[@sallyjordan4869]

You poor lambs! My wife and I both had Covid for the first time recently, and it was wretched. I hope you both feel better soon and don’t have any long-term complications. This was a delightful video, although that quiz seems to assume that any physical symptom comes from a mental problem, which is, of course, absurd. Can’t wait for you to get to a million subscribers! 🎀💖🎀

[@jennifers5560]

Hope you all are feeling better. ❤ I can relate to the problem of drinking excessively in your 20’s. When my friends and I reminisce, we always end up talking about how lucky we were that nothing permanently bad happened to us because of our horrendous drinking choices. And we all thought it was totally normal what we were doing. (My liver hurts just thinking about it and that was way back in the 90’s!)

[@gracelarmee]

Hey Claudia! I too fainted when I had covid but if you're fainting when you're not sick I'd suggest getting it checked out. Maybe you have low iron or something and could fix your fainting by simply having iron supplements!

[@emporium03]

Hope you guys feel better soon! I started having POTS episodes in November and your videos mean so much to me. Literally everything I'd planned has to change now but seeing you makes me believe I can be disabled and happy.

[@losronjos]

Hoping you'll feel better soon and are aware of the fact that one can reduce one's risk for Long Covid and postinfectious ME etc. in general by resting and avoiding exertion during and about 6 weeks after infection - until one's resting heart rate is back to normal to be specific (Prof. Putrino & Dr. Joffe)

[@gothboithick]

i didn't know that, thank you for posting this :o

[@flo9]

6 weeks after what? Already have ME, would rather avoid Long Covid on top of it lol

[@losronjos]

​@@flo9 oh sorry, I should probably rephrase that. It's usually recommended to rest during infection and 6 weeks after I'm not sure whether this advice holds true for other types of LC than the ME subtype, though. Since you've already got that, it would probably be worth to watch your heart rate and try to minimize deterioration...?

[@losronjos]

@@gothboithick thanks for the feedback. Spread the word - meticulous relaxing it is!😄

[@rachelcookie321]

Does your heart rate change when you have covid? What if I don’t know my resting heart rate? How would I know if it’s gone back to normal?

[@freakishuproar1168]

My favourite part of the Global Learning Conference was that bit when Jessica was like "IT'S ADVOCATING TIME" as she advocated all over everything. I'm sorry to hear you bumped into Covid again though. It's still a little bit scary to me working in retail, despite being vaccinated and already having had it back in 2020 (luckily with thankfully mild symptoms) and hearing on the news yesterday that a new strain was being tracked. Please say safe and sane Jessica and family! :D

[@defence9440]

I have "Women's own book of the house" from 1931 and some of the advice there is unhinged 😆 don't forget those are books wrote just after the "roaring 20'" 🤭 my personal favourite is when in my book they call your usual menstrual period "the attack" and suggest as treatment for painful periods "1/2 grain of opium tablet 4 times a day and 1 grain of camphor four times a day" 🥴

[@_andrewvia]

Love your smiling faces. Thanks for smiling for us, through the covid mush and fog. It's a great effort, and I acknowledge that.

[@Anna81Louise]

I laughed so loud when Claudia walked across the screen, trying to swing her legs from the hips 😂

[@gigidodson]

Ive had covid 3 times in 3 years. It sucks. Truly. Get. Well. Soon. ❤

[@andromeda8rose]

Were you vaccinated? I'm so sorry, that is awful!

[@gigidodson]

@@andromeda8rose I'm triple vaxxed.

[@evelynkrull5268]

Oof I've had it 3 times in the last year. Im vaxxed but my disability makes it easy to get sick. You'd think I would have had one cold or flu this year, but no. All covid

[@andromeda8rose]

@@evelynkrull5268 I'm so sorry, that is awful!

[@andromeda8rose]

@@gigidodson Geez, that is terrible that you still got it so many times. I'm sorry to hear that. Hope you're all healed up now

[@DanielWright-np3fq]

You two are an amazing comedic duo. Also, you have found one of my favorite things: old books and articles of etiquette and behavior. I adore these kinds of things as a peek into how they lived (or tried to live) in the past. Edited to add: Oh! About "Deportment"; I remember a quote, "Sit in every chair as a Queen (or King) on a throne,"

[@cherylcarlson3315]

Ugh, the covid is going up in US as well so trying to do all the stuff ahead so when get sick AGAIN am not feeling the increased burden of not being able to do stuff as house /yard turns into complete disaster area. So pacing, planning, worrying... I am neurotic

[@JuMixBoox]

Was that quiz connected to the appearance of beauty part? Because if so, wow. "Have you ever paralysed something or been deaf or blind? Sounds unattractive." I'm glad to be living today.

[@Tadfafty]

Something like that sounds unrealistic to me, my guess is, it is something that was in these books but that nobody in the real world believed.

[@Nyli.]

I was there for 10k and it's amazing to see you at 5k away from 1M

[@michellemachesney1487]

i love group videos like this i always love to hear about whatever claudia is currently interested in! i love hearing her stories! i love u both very much & wishing u to get well soon❤

[@jessicaoutofthecloset]

Thank you so much! 🥰

[@AndersWatches]

Sickness burping sucks, especially with anxiety about vomiting 😩 get well soon both ❤️

[@PhoebeFayRuthLouise]

I always love to see the two of you laughing together! You are delightful! Couple goals! And you are only 7,000 from a million subscribers now!

[@KarolYuuki]

I used to have the same fainting episodes as Claudia when I was younger and had very low blood pressure.

[@Genni4862]

Oh god, the days of drinking at frat parties, pukng, and rallying to continue drinking.. Im so glad to be a decade removed from that lmao

[@lauravanimpe3173]

Wishing you all a speedy and full recovery ❤

[@venessalizabeth]

Rather off topic but-I LOVE Claudia’s jacket, she looks fabulous!

[@barbieguevara1483]

I am in love of Claudia's shirt, ¿Am i the only one? ❤ That sensation of falling is the brain telling the body not to die, just sleep.

[@NieceyWeesey]

Claudia have you checked your blood pressure recently?

[@elspethfougere9683]

Ooh 👏👏 will you do some more vintage stuff with us Jessica? This was so fun 🎉

[@marieryan2541]

Hi Jessica and Claudia. It was fun to answer all those questions today. I am afraid I am like you Jessica I would answer yes to most of them to. Get well soon the pair of you . COVID is not nice at all. Both me and my sister had it last year unlike her I had a chest infection when I got COVID the two together not good. My breathing still not right.

[@DestructionGlitter]

I got Covid last summer after being vaccinated 4 times (fully vaccinated plus two boosters) and it took me OUT. I was incapacitated for about 10 days and respiratory symptoms lasted until I got it again this May 🤣 I'm so glad I was vaccinated. I don't know what would have happened if I wasn't. Imagine after 4 shots I was basically floating in and out of consciousness for days, unable to breathe properly, eat, or sleep. Genuinely thought I was going to d!e. If I hadn't gotten the vaccine, I probably would have. I do have chronic asthma and a bunch of other chronic conditions, so that makes sense I guess. Please take care of yourselves. Rest as much as you can. Don't ignore new symptoms when they occur. And feel better soon! I also put a curse on whoever gave you Covid! 🧙🥷

[@jennifers5560]

❤ I do think the vaccines help. I’ve kept up with the vaccinations and I’ve had it twice. The first time, I had no symptoms and the second time, just a bit tired and fever for 2 days. Luckily no cough or breathing issues. But I will say after that second time, I did feel more tired them I normally do for a few months. But not enough to be worried about it.

[@aylaerdmann]

Really digging Claudia’s jacket

[@Reed5016]

I really like it as well.

[@judebrown4103]

Well that was quite wacky...I actually wonder if either of you will remember doing this one, you seem so poorly!😅 Bless you both I hope you recover well, soon and fully.🙏🤗 Gosh, I almost forgot: Claud, see a doctor about that fainting, seriously, just get your heart checked, it could be something very serious but eminently treatable. Those episodes sound like a warning to me, please do it love🙏

[@shayna5587]

The fainting episode after going to the bathroom was quite possibly caused by a vasovagal response.

[@lorrainethomas241]

Sending you healing vibes (and a million subscrbers.)

[@DebbieOldSchool-1442]

You two are a hoot!!! So much fun!!!😅❤

[@victoriagreenhalf2816]

Hey Claudia 😊 it would be great if you guys could use your platform to share a little bit of the difficulties you faced when you were working as an NHS dentist? Or general NHS dentistry. Btw love your videos

[@pmbluemoon]

I hope you both feel better soon! This was an interesting quiz from back then, would you consider doing more of them for fun?

[@abilevitt3334]

Love your outfit here, Jessica! Love you two together! Take it easy for a while ❤️

[@andrewtorrens7790]

The sensation of falling as you're going to sleep is called a "hypnic jerk". Last time I i looked into it nobody knew what caused it or what could be done about it. So for now, it's just a thing. Freaked my wife out the first time it happened when we were sleeping together...

[@rebeccagadea978]

i wish you all the best in the world love you guys, sending you a big hug

[@rachelcookie321]

One time I stood up too fast getting out of bed and fainted and hit my head on the exercise bike. Sounds like Claudia might of fainted from standing up too fast since it happened when she stood up.

[@KBaby6730]

Feel better soon ❤

[@isobelb]

Even the nineteen thirties understood that Claudia is perfect.

[@jennifers5560]

Great comment!

[@cateyrose977]

im in sixth form right now and i feel like the drinking thing is still very true - some of my friends will organise things that are no alcohol but a lot people want to drink ALL the time

[@cateyrose977]

i find it quite sad really. we're all either under 18 or only just 18 so thats quite young for drinking culture to have such a hold on us (smoking too)

[@konfettibaby9676]

Such cute video with you two 😊 Lots of love to everyone!❤

[@scilines]

Those questions were so funny 😆 But I do think maybe Claudia should get the fainting thing medically checked out ❤

[@Dunybrook]

Possibly but it also sounds like it could have just been due to standing up too fast which can happen to anyone and is not something that is happening often.

[@scilines]

@@Dunybrook They said it’s happened before, the fainting. 😌

[@lilli3593]

Would you consider doing a review on the new Barbie movie? i really enjoyed it but i’ve heard some people criticize it for not being “feminist enough” i’m curious what your thoughts are!

[@insulaarachnid]

This was fun, love odd historical advice.

[@ngtskynebula]

You two are lovely, absolutely lovely. I hope I get to experience something like this one day 🥺💘

[@dovestone_]

I nearly passed out when I had covid, can be brought on by getting dehydrated more easily / I just faint more easily when ill

[@paigepinkerton6109]

That feeling, when you are falling, is your body making sure you are still alive

[@connie6545]

I just love your channel! 😊

[@evelynkrull5268]

Im currently battling covid for the third time in the last year. This time is the absolute worst. Last times it hit hard and then left quickly (like 5 days) now im 5 days in and its going back and forth between okay and pretty bad.

[@RollingOnFire]

I want this book! I love old books like this!!!

[@mojito248]

oh no not covid!! hope you both get better soon

[@rachaeltrujillo9960]

Was the fainting because of Covid? Made me very lightheaded Make sure to hydrate and eat well feel better ladies!

[@LilyJaneH]

I cannot recall ever having had a falling sensation before falling asleep. Granted, I generally need medication to fall asleep due to insomnia, and my memory from beforehand usually takes effort. I’ve just realized hood little o talk with anyone about the actual process of falling asleep, including the doctors who told me that I have sleep disorders!

[@TheNathanChronicles]

Feeling like you're falling right before you fall asleep is a sign of sleep deprivation. It's your body unable to enter R.E.M. sleep.

[@dorotadeli3181]

Have you recorded your trip to Ireland? :)

[@BijouxBianco]

Claudia, it's likely that your vagus nerve was stimulated by needing to use the bathroom, causing you to faint. It is not too uncommon.

[@katwitanruna]

Feel better soonest!

[@aresvepe]

I’d be so keen to hear your thoughts on the barbie movies when you’ve watched them

[@annikaw3506]

I was crying laughing! Y'all are hilarious. 🤣

[@jenniferdirocco3862]

Id love to hear more about Claudia's interpretations on energy healing and her recent experience!

[@LillaJag]

Fun fact, knock on wood but I have never had covid. And I live in Sweden that stayed open during the pandemic,,

[@rachelcookie321]

I got covid twice and I live in New Zealand, first time was over my birthday in 2021 and second time was in 2022. It sucked having to isolate on my birthday even though all the restrictions had already ended so it was already running rampant. And my birthday was like the last day of my isolation. The first time I just had a sore throat, the second time I just had a runny nose. I’ve had colds that were way worse. Usually with those symptoms I would still be going to school and stuff because I can just ignore it but covid was worse for other people and I didn’t want to spread it.

[@lauravanimpe3173]

@@rachelcookie321Thank you so much for not spreading it!

[@nielsleenknegt5839]

on that moon thing. The moon can move the sea up and down... So im pretty sure it could affect the human body in some way

[@Ishanaroya]

Get well soon!

[@wonderingwhys]

I also have the sensation of falling before going to sleep. I feel a sort of shock, and it's always right before I'm drifting off so it wakes me back up. Does anyone know what this is exactly?

[@Danycrumble]

I have the same! No idea where it comes from.

[@carolbuzelim]

I never drink either but im crazy so i hang out ok with ppl but i undestand that everything is around drinking

[@logo9470]

Oh no what is happening?. My bff just this minute told me she has Covid too 😱 As Yogi Berra said “it’s de ja vu all over again”Hope you both feel better very soon, and that Rupert is ok. Sending ❤ from NY

[@gothboithick]

well, they traveled and saw a bunch of people, without N95s on... thats what happened

[@kitssewingkit]

covid literally never went away, it has consistently been worse than 2020 for quite a while now. people just do not care. its very frustrating and isolating.

[@sallyjordan4869]

We’re just pretending it’s gone, at least in the US.

[@kitssewingkit]

@@sallyjordan4869 people with any sense of self preservation or empathy aren't!

[@Catlily5]

​@@kitssewingkitIt is not worse than 2020 for the death toll.

[@nwgreen7833]

Micturition syncope is what appears you experienced. A vaso-vagal reflex causing sudden drop in blood pressure. Not an uncommon phenomenon, uncommon to recur in same individual. Generally with no long term neurological implications. However, terrible injuries from an unconscious fall can happen with an episode.

[@sierrarobinson4447]

Please consider masking in public again, even when you are over COVID. Really disappointed that the EDS event wasn't having people mask.

[@that.neurodivergent]

Seems we’ve REALLY forgotten about it this summer :/ even in my city, which is super liberal and was masked all of last summer when everyone else was abandoning the practice… I see maybe one or two masks out and about nowadays

[@Alleycat417]

Agreed. Masking is extremely still important 😷

[@lauravanimpe3173]

Its so infuriating that even medical conventions are without Covid precautions these days. Everyone should avoid Covid, but especially people with a chronic ilness, because it is almost guaranteed to get worse for a while.

[@thevintagepastry]

Masking in England hasn't been mandated for over 2 years now and basically everyone stopped wearing them as soon as the government stopped making us wear them. Very few people wear them now and even my gp and my specialist's office (for an autoimmune condition) doesn't require them. It's very difficult for chronically ill people

[@thefoggysystem]

Exactly!! I am basically disappointed but not surprised. I cannot believe people thought this is fine, in a literal conference of disabled people. It's sad.

[@emmaeriksson7155]

Sounded more like questions neurodivergent asks on a first date

[@grantrule6593]

Get Well Quick

[@julia2jules]

I was on 21 no… …will I ever know what this means? Love reading these old books

[@julieb8730]

I hope you both get better soon!

[@catbeara]

Ooh, you were in Ireland? I'm Irish, living in Dublin atm. 😊

[@emmaeriksson7155]

Could you please write these questions down or photograph them so we can test ourselves pretto pleeaaaaase!!!

[@blendacamargo220]

We love the 💖 Spiritual Claudia 💖

[@awanfarrell2880]

Keep up the good work ❤❤❤❤

[@geenskeen]

I'm pretty sure that it's still a thing that you're "not cool" if you don't drink. It's hard to make friends in your early 20s if you don't drink ime

[@aliflanagan7669]

Yeah I think it's a real early 20s thing. As I've got older alcohol is deffo still around but no one blinks an eye if you're not drinking.

[@cynhanrahan4012]

These are some truly strange questions. The deeper Jessica goes asking, the more painful they become. But still, I score low neurotic. I'll be sure to pass this on to my mental health care professionals. I expect some raised eyebrows. While I do believe my self actualization affirmations can help with self esteem, I think this test is remarkably dated and contributing to the harm us non normies feel.

[@amanekabbaj]

You are hilarious.

[@jennifers5560]

Aren’t they? 😊

[@im19ice3]

how the fuck was that book targeting jessica so hardcore xD

[@Reallythough]

What is the title of the book again?

[@jennifers5560]

'The Modern Woman: Beauty, Physical Culture, Hygiene' book by Lillian Bradstock

[@alias_peanut]

Multiple notes in Google app ecosystem.

[@babyshiori]

absolutely love you two❤

[@Benny-Worm9082]

Great vid ♥

[@rachelcookie321]

People have a sensation of falling as they fall asleep? I’ve never had that. I’ve also never dreamt about falling despite my fear of heights.

[@Catlily5]

Me neither. Though I didn't have a fear of heights until I was in my thirties.

[@denverrandy7143]

From what ive been told, the falling feeling when we are falling asleep is our ancestors would sleep in trees for protection from large predators. It was some historian on t.v i believe.

[@alisonbarker3862]

Amazing that you both made a video whilst being ill. Now rest? With a toddler?!

[@TransGuyShane]

Pretty sure if I was carrying a head my personality would stand out aswell haha 😂

[@HOHNancy]

Feel better soon! ❤️

[@emmashannon5191]

I have covid too 😢

[@jennifers5560]

Hope you feel better soon. ❤

[@emmashannon5191]

@@jennifers5560 thank you! ❤️

[@felixblair4060]

Was the fainting a post-micturition syncope? It’s a thing^tm

[@marljusweety]

If that "test" determines if you are neurotic, I have misunderstood what neurotic means. 😅

[@RJ_Ehlert]

Nice video.

[@elistas4608]

''were you considered a bad girl?'' idk mate, i was pretty bad at being a girl imo -every transmasc out there

[@Authentistic-ism]

I'm conscious for my sleep onset phase too, the hypnagogic phase is when you percieve the falling sensation!

[@Catlily5]

So that is why it is called "falling" asleep!