You'll push her away if you try too hard. Do this instead

[@JessicaOS]

Sign up for a private consultation here: www.patreon.com/jessicaos

[@abiolaoluwatosin6172]

This channel helped me from a being a lonely single man to happy married man.

[@Real_fact010]

Abiola my guy 😂❤

[@georgehudson4961]

Date women who have genuine burning desire towards you. Date the woman who loves you and not the woman you love. A man should always chase his purpose. Let her chase you instead.

[@mike-we8pb]

Exactly.

[@kenindula7319]

Best comment out of them all

[@Bawkr]

The woman who loved me abused me. The woman I love hasn't abused me yet, but she might we'll see.

[@dannylegendinusa]

@@Bawkr😂😂

[@Bawkr]

I made the woman who I love fall for me. But now I have anxiety or whatever with my heart getting kind of worried. Can't sleep since I left. I keep thinking about how awesome the date was and I want to think about it but at the same time maybe I need a break I got to get some sleep or I could croak. Yesterday was actually the best day of my life now that I think of it.

[@nanapoku5259]

Fellas, hit the gym, eat right, read, listen to growth related podcast, hang out with buddies etc.

[@IlCanaleDegliEroi]

Exactly what I'm doing in my life right now. And all of a sudden I'm starting to realize the girl I've been chasing (after she broke up with me) it's not so special as I thought just a couple of months ago

[@nanapoku5259]

@IlCanaleDegliEroi Way to go bro! FOCUS matter!

[@letnothingslide1969]

Amen 🙏🏿

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*When genuine confidence replaces desperation, it not only makes interactions more enjoyable but also encourages her to invest emotionally without feeling overwhelmed.*

[@trillmix0652]

"Hey. Is everything okay between us? Are we still on for Friday?" Don't do this fellas.

[@leoupdate8150]

I learnt the hard way

[@AfrikaVibes]

You are the best gift to all male people. Appreciated a lot

[@vasuchauhan7669]

"Jessica, I just wanted to take a moment to appreciate the simplicity and authenticity of your work. While a lot of other videos focus on psychological manipulation, buzzwords, and techniques that honestly feel draining, your approach feels refreshing and real. Your advice is grounded in genuine care and emotional connection, which resonates so much more. It’s not about tricks or games-it’s about being thoughtful and authentic, and that makes all the difference. Thank you for helping people focus on what really matters."

[@ParthaBarman-n7x]

this video literally came in the perfect moment in my life, love you

[@innond9640]

JC you're so sweet with words, thanks for healing me faster

[@mnickiel09]

_FELLAS,CHASE EXCELLENCE.. REMEMBER SHE'S NOT YOURS IT'S JUST YOUR TURN SO REGARDLESS ON HOW MUCH INTERESTED YOU KEEP HER IF SHE'S FOR THE STREETS, THERE'S NONE YOU CAN DO ABOUT THAT_ 😂😂

[@Unknownangelf]

😂😂

[@KYENKWATV]

I really needed this. Thanks Jessy for the insight ❤

[@sallahudinmehuddin8046]

This channel makes me emotional in a good way. I almost get tears and I'm a 40 year old man.

[@OGTrollTroll8]

I appreciate you putting time stamps. I dont regret subbing to you. Greetings from the South Pacific Islands.

[@chiweyufortune]

Damn, you just saved me from making this mistake, I was planning on going all in with this girl this week,🤝thanks

[@iamg2s]

@@chiweyufortune Did you later get the girl

[@Its_superdave09]

"Don't feel the silence... Let your action speak" Apt! 💯 God bless you Jess Thanks for this piece

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

This channel has helped my life in many ways God bless you immensely Jessica🎉

[@brianbrino4310]

Thank you so much Jessica for your always exciting videos always showing us better ways and behaviors to improve our relationships and elevate our expectations when applying your knowledge! Thank you sooo much! Love and light to you always!❤❤

[@ZahirSohil-mm4pp]

its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life and it's not new age bs

[@hoimotor1624]

Thank you Jes ❤

[@justinstocks9641]

Thanks Jessica, I love how your videos and information is delivered, great cadence and example of scenarios. ❤

[@JessicaOS]

Thanks so much!

[@Oshiko_Sam]

This definitely works! No more doubts 😁

[@Hoppahoppa1]

I can do it tomorrow attitude, that is good, I think. In the end, I owe her nothing in the end, and she owes me nothing. In the end, everyone hates a needy person in their live.

[@fonyuymichaelwolani3505]

The skull in the background reinforces the message. 😂😂

[@hayyarbrough]

Thank you 😊

[@davidcarby8283]

While I love listening and watching your videos and the truth is your advice are realistic. Not in all cases and all women they can be applied

[@rahabmugambi7697]

❤ thumbs up.much love Jessica.great information

[@snowdaniels]

Love your content from Zambia ❤

[@shoryuken3305]

I just want to say thank you, the timing on these videos is amazing its exactly what I needed to hear today thank you coach!

[@J87513]

Great video! I find that I have this problem. One thing that really helped was to put my girlfriend (of a few months so far) text messages on silent so I don’t get so anxious and feel the need to immediately reply.

[@issadiawara38]

Jessica was here I haven’t heard this since high school days when it was the trend when we used to leave our signatures everywhere 🤣🤣🤣

[@agbeyeoluwaseun9675]

@@issadiawara38 you heard wrong It’s Jessica OS here

[@samueloriokot9849]

I'm loving every series mum J. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@OurovenaAdjankara]

Hey Jessica your are to much 😂😂😂thanks and gracias all for you 🙏

[@kedarsingh3378]

You are right. I love you too ❤

[@zamushodge4590]

I facing them circumstances but I swear nothing in that form can move me I am confident it will work out for me how I plan it

[@Baylorbetterthanbrown]

Always be confident to let a lady go real quick because to me all it is is b*******if you're showing her you're interested in her and she asked this way let her go real quick and fast

[@ShubHam-tp1mo]

Your advice really helped me a lot.

[@leosdeals5462]

❤ Wow Jessica, Thank You. You Described Me Perfectly. And gave me a ton of knowledge at the same time. God Bless

[@orshimatar4707]

Thank you for this invaluable piece

[@carllucas1072]

Live Coach ❤loving it thank you sharing

[@dynamic9016]

Respect Sister...

[@LukeShowBizTv]

👍👍💯Thanks Jess

[@aino837]

Wao , u are the best ever

[@nana1official]

Jessy ain't never got it wrong ❤

[@scottkennedy6007]

You're excellent with how you come across.

[@SolomonAkwandoh]

Good good 👍

[@Safo-h4v]

Exactly 😎

[@DeborahEyiah]

Amazing Jessica is thanks

[@abdulaiali8956]

Thanks

[@CorddonteWelco]

Advice is fire ..but I'm tired of having to chase women like we're fucking middle school kids. I'm chasing my growth and healing

[@rev_noble30k]

what at all does women want..eei.Jessica you're the best❤❤❤

[@Crusader_44]

For a large portion of my life I was the guy that always had multiple girls and never TRULY loved a woman. Sure I said it but I wasn’t really in love and while I never hurt anyone inside I didn’t feel right it felt wrong. To your point women begged for my attention and was never had the problem of keeping attention. I’ve done a lot of self development and grew a conscious and started to act like a true man of character. I go to the gym, visit my family, go to church, have a great career, friends, volunteer and always am working on myself. I am monogamous respectful and truly love. Now all the sudden I have had this issue. My question is when did treating someone normal become unattractive? I know all about attachment styles and love languages and am never clingy because it’s unattractive. While everything you say is 100% accurate why must I play mind games? It’s like we are normalizing girls not showing up and making excuses for them. I know you might say it’s not manipulation it’s giving her what she wants but i disagree. We make relationships harder than they have to be. If you show love and effort and communicate healthy boundaries you become unattractive. So I am now faced with the dilemma do I stand on what I believe and feels right or do I cave and play the game? It’s infuriating tbh because I have had dating coaches, relationship coaches, life coaches and sex coaches because I want to be better. I’m in great shape and good looking but I have to play mind games. Btw I love your content and like and subscribe and thank you for what you do

[@josephkampelya6068]

True!

[@Luigi-xg7hx]

But I saw in other video from a dating guy that if you walk away or hold back, she it could be backfire because she might starts thinking "He´s not interested"

[@bike_life_damani]

I was holding back not getting attached too quick but still available to her n it got me a girlfriend.... But we broke up couple months ago

[@LeKNG]

Me: *Decided not to text first* Her:*Reached out a week later* It hurt, but hey, it was a good thing for me

[@matjazb.157]

Deal only with those who show interest in you. All the rest is just playing games which bring suffering.

[@echo-hive25]

Thanks Jessica

[@Capo_Cagna2024]

@@echo-hive25 wait

[@miltonmawewe5248]

Madam Jess Hi🤚,, Thanks for the Wonderful Content, Your ever Classy smart ideas,, Whoooop 💋💋 💙💙✅

[@B_stayacting]

Exactly 😆 I’m over doing my job hanging out with my bros and now I’m trying to see her now she’s unavailable

[@EliasOpiyo-s5t]

@@B_stayacting 😂Funny

[@DonKheru]

Excellent video 🔥 🔥

[@daniellillis3333]

my mom has been trying to guide me with my relationship right now she thinks i should take a few days off from talking with her... xDi just don't want to hurt her and i feel if i did i would be hurting her i've been watching alot of ur videos recently and someone else's alot that u have talked about i think im haveing trouble with and i can agree with what u have said on a personal note : )

[@ernestjohnson1275]

You know what your talking about. When I don't reach out to a woman for awhile, she would text me out of the blue and want to hang out

[@Ericgodisgood]

She wanted to be friends my ex I ask tell me why u want to be friends then she said why do u think negative all the time if no body didn’t no u this would pushed them away then ghosted me

[@asdfxcvbn746]

ignore that bih.

[@emmanuelben1393]

Thank you for this advice , these are the things I need to do now, because I am losing her gradually, but how do I give her space when we live together?

[@ericgibbs6348]

It seems like dating is just a game smh

[@godfreyduffus6567]

If she has some other guy in her life she may not think about you and may not reach to you ? also pending on the individual mindset

[@nelsongoncalves5379]

Very important comment ✍️✌️

[@lalalalalalallalallal]

Please make a video when you’re already in a new relationship and how to keep her engaged and make her fall in love Thank you

[@andrewnauth101]

Does this applies to older women as well?????

[@Stayedreal]

How can I apply this to my teenage life

[@maungedzorasevhendele]

Too much of everything has got a negative impact .... . true Jessy ..🙌🏾 much love .

[@johnjennings9693]

Im still studying the manual,

[@kazeemadedokun3484]

Just be a 'Alpha bad boy' with a lot going on in his life and women will never want to lose you. That's how I roll

[@samueletuk1940]

Does this got anything to do with a husband and wife. This is for those still dating.

[@wealthfit001]

I like watching your videos

[@Godsbusinessonearth]

She also has a cough she listens to and that is all games

[@folaishmail269]

Ok Jess.I love the facts in the video but the context and moments to apply the points is the factor here.Lets say you met this girl and you exchanged numbers ,went on the first date which went well(let's assume) is this the moment you suggest we apply this tips?

[@garybowes3081]

I noticed that. A woman also is attracted to a man who is a bit mysterious as well and figuring out what he thinks about her.

[@mhlambisomasoka6953]

Ohhh I just found out that a girlfriend I was with have been dating a guy in my STR I leave in

[@LyJinSheng]

At first I thought that I won’t be attractive to the girl I like because I texted her very little and short but in a kind of teasing way and try not to make it boring and when she eventually become my girlfriend she said the number reason she loved about me is because I wasn’t the guy who text or talk a lot so she can have her own space and not get overwhelmed by texts

[@noneqbusiness4693]

Get a woman with bare minimum eduction, someone who lives in a small village and you dont need all this MSc and PHd education on them.

[@evoextremeX]

I have a question for you JessicaOS How do I push someone away intentionally?

[@adeoyeadedoyin7508]

Hi good evening ma please if you actually told a lady you loved her and her response was she wanted you both to be friends and she doesn't want friendship to scatter. Does this mean she doesn't really have interest or she actually meant what she said about friendship

[@marwapaul7681]

JESCA THE RATE OF SINGLE MAMA'S IN KENYA ARE INCLISING BCZ OF YIU 😂

[@wisdomkabwita8884]

@Jessica OS!! Why do ladies want to date with bad guys but yet want to marry a nice guy 😢?

[@muchirigachirigachiri3839]

NATURE....The problem is you being that life insurance...aka...nice guy... Don't be a NGANUTHIA[nice guy]

[@lars1480]

So The modern area we are in seems to have made it Way more difficult to date due to it’s to Easy to Connect 24/7 Think about that 😊

[@VicknowledgeMk]

When she is taking too much time to reply to your text you must get busy by doing something productive effective positive invest in your dreams to make your vision come to light your absence will make her feel there's so much more to you....

[@Durion7]

Strange thing is, only women think this way. It's so unlogical. If the women goes all in the man will think, great finally a woman that knows what she wants and does not play stupid games.

[@skepo22]

Women can be weird lol when u give them attention some will take it for granted and pay less attention to u.

[@njumesnowl1328]

Hi Jessica , am just trying to know her and we're in a distance. I do the texting but once a day but she always respond. So should I stop texting first ?

[@roybrown3391]

No

[@aubreytshepondala8667]

How do I win her back and show her that I am no longer that guy I was in the past(cheater)? I have changed my ways and apologized for my actions a thousand times. He is till hang up on the past and doesn't wanna let go and work things out. Please advise

[@nanapoku5259]

I see "her and he" mixed up in your write up. Can you clarify?

[@online.hustlers]

😢Bro I think u gotta to move on

[@aubreytshepondala8667]

@nanapoku5259 she is still bringing things from the past. It was a typo error.

[@pauloluyomisotonwa847]

@@aubreytshepondala8667 you must have broken her trust and she has the right to protect herself from you going forward. It's best if you move on.

[@nanapoku5259]

@@aubreytshepondala8667 Bro, you got to move on ASAP! She is simply playing the power/manipulative games and you don't need that. I bdt she is thinking you can't have any other woman aside her and see your continuous apology as desperate and weak!

[@witnessmlotshwa2927]

Jessica, l appreciate you 🥂

[@kamzeez]

U dunno 9ja geh😂😂😂😂

[@MarvellousIwuji]

@@kamzeez u no lie my guy Naija girls no get joy

[@dukeperry5571]

❤

[@thetravarians3592]

srsly why does this all have to be so complicated...

[@leosdeals5462]

Now I know why women chase me

[@muchirigachirigachiri3839]

ITS EASY TO UNDERSTAND THIS IF N IF , I SAY IF U HAVE PASSED THROUGH Darius M

[@kennethyoung4892]

Great content 👌