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@ChauletteMorrison5 ай бұрын
How to catch hes cheating
@JamieHirschfield-r9g14 күн бұрын
@@ChauletteMorrison u
@najirkhansaund59093 ай бұрын
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *Johnson spy*
@Surendra-n2e3 ай бұрын
I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnsonspy* on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the Great work mate well done respect....
@gregorybush14032 ай бұрын
As someone who's passionate about checking if my other significant is cheating, I'd honestly love to do this. It looks like a lot of fun. Also, the one cyber spy shouting encouragement when *Johnsonspy* was doing drills on the system was fantastic. I'd love to have that dude just follow me around and deafen me with motivation.
@BrookeSandra2 ай бұрын
The very best of them all! So inspiring! *Johnson* gave me access to my girlfriend's texts. He linked my girlfriend's cellphone with mine, so I'd get the necessary info I needed
@HansSolo-c3qАй бұрын
Especially while a child is born from that dirty deed.
@_YohAsakura_19 күн бұрын
Haha yea, oxygen thief
@Astartes012 күн бұрын
What's with these "Johnson". Comments everywhere..
@RipinBhil-rf8gi3 ай бұрын
In the novel of my legal battles, *Johnsonspy* emerged as the co-author of a critical chapter. Their prompt and discreet assistance, a literary revelation, turned the pages towards the successful acquisition of my children's custody. In the intricate plot, their on-demand support played a defining role. This evidence, a plot device, became the catalyst for the resolution of my marriage, ensuring the custody of my child stayed firmly in my grasp.
@Nilkanth-uk8it3 ай бұрын
Amidst the chapters of my legal novella, *Johnsonspy* wrote a compelling subplot. Their incredible help in gathering evidence acted as a dramatic twist in the narrative of winning custody for my children. In the literary tapestry, their expertise and efficient support were the ink that etched a victorious tale.
@manuytgaming2983 ай бұрын
Even for the recognition *Johnsonspy* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general.I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
@user-jn1zi2wk8k8 ай бұрын
As the pages of my life turned with the results of a DNA test, Johnsonspy entered the narrative as a silent guide. Their discreet assistance proved indispensable in the aftermath of learning that the child I thought was mine wasn't biologically. In the emotional tumult that followed, Johnson 's support became a stabilizing force.
@Laurus448 ай бұрын
Discovering my partner's infidelity triggered a mix of emotions: sadness, anger, confusion, and a profound sense of betrayal. *Johnsonspy* stepped in to assist me remotely, providing spyware access to their social accounts.
@TheresablueH8 ай бұрын
I appreciate your guidance and encouragement in helping me track my spouse phone . I would not have been able to do it without you *Johnsonspy* . I am impressed by the superb work you do, and this time is no exception. It was not easy, but I knew I could count on you. I hope that you continue to embrace your creativity and utilize it in your work for as long as possible.
@sarahihernandez51798 ай бұрын
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *Johnsonspy*
@tarenjohnson56618 ай бұрын
Expertise like *Johnsonspy* one in a million. You left no stone unturned to reach this result of getting me into my targets phone. I am proud of you. You are the gem of a person!. Scooping her phone activities opened my eyes to a lot of things.. Now I know who to trust. Best Of Luck Mate!!
@MaryJane-qx7pk8 ай бұрын
I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnsonspy* on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the Great work mate well done respect..
@hernadezrita42268 ай бұрын
As someone who's passionate about checking if my other significant is cheating, I'd honestly love to do this. It looks like a lot of fun. Also, the one cyber spy shouting encouragement when *Johnsonspy* was doing drills on the system was fantastic. I'd love to have that dude just follow me around and deafen me with motivation.
@heatherpuckett46157 ай бұрын
Hello....sorry I'm a month late to the convo...but what is Johnsonspy? Everyone in this chain seems to know what it is and appreciate it....but when I google it, there's so many things that pop up. I'd love to know what you guys are talking about.... thank you! And warm hugs and hopeful thoughts to all of you!
@user-ud4bp2uv7t6 ай бұрын
Is it right to leave a cheating husband I'm so confused right now that I don't know what to do or say anymore
@davidlangley99332 жыл бұрын
Getting cheated on hurts for years and it's hard to trust ever again
@gouldbergvariations Жыл бұрын
I agree.
@izelynnsparglin6057 Жыл бұрын
I'm still accusing other woman for her mistakes
@patriciarobinson484 Жыл бұрын
Speak for yourself because there's not a shortage of men and women in the world. Trust issues will leave you lonely and miserable.
@dcoded5217 Жыл бұрын
Only hurts as long as you refuse to accept reality....you are now free from a cheater .
@Ah-ed6ie Жыл бұрын
When you lose all your worth that's is when they ditch you. Their only anxiety is you being able to move on. I just found a face book account after I deleted mine because I was being accused of cheating and I still got accused only to found out an account was set up using my number. I never set it up I'm starting to think it's a deflection of what she might actually be doing to me as an excuse and diversion and constantly having petty arguments to go knowing I can't as much as I may want to it's hard. I know it's better to have nothing than to be in a harsh relationship, but it's the frustration to be built up and than to be dragged down and start again is the pain.
@janiceparkerson47272 жыл бұрын
Cheaters lack self control. Point, blank, period 💯👍.
@taleandclawrock2606 Жыл бұрын
And are deceitful.
@ceecee89244 ай бұрын
Nah they have self control they just CHOSE to make the decision. Most cheaters dont just have drunk one night stands, the other person usually been around secretly, they had to build up some kind of relationship to end up in bed. Man or woman. They had to text talk etc first
@plutobills53592 жыл бұрын
Being cheated on made me not trust nobody else
@womanwrapper_tv Жыл бұрын
Understandably. It does run deep. I feel you
@TerraDactyl-hc9ff4 ай бұрын
It sticks because I’m dealing with the repercussions of my boyfriend who’s been cheated on by his ex. I’m doing everything I can to make him feel secure but it’s damaging me at the same time. I’m so sorry you went through that because I’ve been in that situation as well but hopefully you don’t ruin something good with future relationships over what a shitty person did to you
@Micky_Frimps2 жыл бұрын
“If you’re a cheat watching this video then your time is up” - great words Jessy 🔥
@carlosverde-datingtips70012 жыл бұрын
I hear ya - Nketiah! Lol - Great Content - by Jessica! If you’ve been cheated on, don’t close off your heart to love - learn from it, and move on! (I know it’s easier said than done) You’re not the first person whose trust have been betrayed, nor will you be the last. It’s ok, it’s part of life. Just work on yourself before you get into another relationship, and you’ll be much smarter, and more alert this time - and you’ll be able to recognize the red flags a lot quicker when things are not going the way they’re supposed to. And remember, what doesn’t kill you - can only make you stronger! Cheers! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@OBAINO372 жыл бұрын
No if you are a cheat.. you need to change levels and step up. 🤣🤣
@Micky_Frimps2 жыл бұрын
@@OBAINO37 😂
@mikem95842 жыл бұрын
Cheats get angry when they are confronted with their cheating. They get angry, defensive, they countet-accuse, they basically throw fits just like in the movies when the bad guy gets upset when asked if he is responsible for a crime. It's a dead giveaway. That's not to say ALL cheats get mad. The real pro liars will act like they've done nothing.
@oguchelinus16412 жыл бұрын
Hey! My girlfriend breakup with me due to the fact that she traveled and claim not to be coming back to the same town where we once stay together, so she left me for someone else. And I now discovered that the both of them have been seeing each other even before she breakup with me, and guess what!!? She is back in town., so we decided to meet to talk about the whole issue, so she gave me an excuse that things were not working out well with us that's why she breakup with me so we talk for some while and then meet on two or three occasions and things started going on between both of us despite the fact that I know she has someone else although am still single.. Am just kind of confused..
@Ajaysingh-hf7js3 ай бұрын
Congratulations, Dale Valskov I am relieved that you are out there fighting these thugs, We musttake every precaution to protect the elderly and the general public from these despicable con artists. Congratulations to You!! You deserve the Nobel Peace Prize for ensuring our security.
@eddiesanchez69922 жыл бұрын
Cheats almost always accuse you of cheating. This is a fact and I’ve seen this personally done to myself and others
@mohammadkhamees66442 жыл бұрын
i never cheated even though i had the chance many times. and i accused my ex of cheating when she changed. and guess what she was cheating never admitted it but i found out from vids from her affair guy and affair lady as they sent it to me as payback since i helped them. also turned out she was a narc at the end of the relationship when i went for therapy. so nope what ur saying is false. cause my situation also happened to a close friend in a different way.
@eddiecolon8274 Жыл бұрын
@@mohammadkhamees6644 wow
@niqueallday2587 Жыл бұрын
@@mohammadkhamees6644 yes this so true people kill me when they say you are a cheater just because your accusing them thats not true at all
@smokey7927 Жыл бұрын
MY so called woman accused Me all the time and I'm about to go
@andreamcgehee5072 Жыл бұрын
Not true because I always accuse my man for cheating because he will do things that cause me to think he was
@rohitkumarprasad67943 ай бұрын
In both personal and professional realms, Dale Valskov shines as an outstanding individual. His work within the IT field consistently showcases reliability and excellence. Dale Valskov possesses a unique blend of passion, dedication, and profound knowledge that distinguishes him from others. His unwavering commitment to delivering exceptional results renders him an indispensable asset to any project or team.
@ffcup224111 ай бұрын
I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnson spy*
@gopinathmali79693 ай бұрын
As a person and professional you couldn't get any better than Dale Valskov is a very reliable person and an excellent professional in the IT field. He is the type of person you want to work that's passionate, hardworking and knowledgeable. You’re The Best 100%
@anesit2 жыл бұрын
So painful to be cheated because you automatically feel unloved..it hurts deeply.
@bobbyjohnson21622 жыл бұрын
LIES RUMOURS RUMOURS AND LIES 😕
@ishma21002 жыл бұрын
plus it makes it hard to trust the next person
@cyrilblaauw99272 жыл бұрын
Yes it's very painful when someone cheating on you you feel that you didn't ment anything to that person, you're betrayed, hurt, mentally and physically abused, and you feel useless at that point.
@anesit2 жыл бұрын
@@cyrilblaauw9927 very true..AND YOU FEEL USELESS AT THAT POINT.
@anesit2 жыл бұрын
@@ishma2100 you know truth hurts..IT REALLY BECOMES SO HARD TO TRUST NEXT PERSON
@RameshGavit-oi4rz3 ай бұрын
I'm literally overwhelmed, You are a blessing to the world. I can't thank you enough Dale Valskov for helping me with my account recovery. My prayers will always be with you and your team. Keep it up guys. Love from Maldives. There are many people out there I pray everybody get help.
@rdx__dinesh__10k______3 ай бұрын
Your work speaks volumes of the kind of man you are. efficient, organized and result oriented well done , Dale Valskov you're soo good at what you do
@LovelyChitra-wz5yg3 ай бұрын
It's amazing what you do Dale Valskov We need a lot of people with your skills and set who have good intentions and spread love
@MSASUnlimited Жыл бұрын
It's been my experience that a narcissistic cheater will never admit to it no matter what they will use plausible deniability and try and turn the whole situation around on you.
@Pennybeau-belles Жыл бұрын
Who u gonna believe? Me or your lyin' eyes!! Is what ex hubby would say
@Elikem2982 Жыл бұрын
@@Pennybeau-belles caught her and she said I should believe what she’s saying and not what I heard, she forgot to hung up using headphones after talking to me. Later she said it wasn’t her voice lol
@Pennybeau-belles Жыл бұрын
@@Elikem2982ohhh I can imagine ! Its baffing, they're caught hand in cookie jar and stil its 'Wazzant me 🙄"
@bigdadheefair73252 жыл бұрын
If you don't trust the person don't be in a relationship with them. Stay single.
@tanksmakau7672 Жыл бұрын
Correct.
@sweetmanjoshua8358 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@lloydmaliakal6256 Жыл бұрын
Well said. 100% agree. So much better being single than with a toxic liar
@SnowMan-qp7gc7 ай бұрын
That's what I do
@marlonmonsegue48532 жыл бұрын
Cheating is a choice not a mistake this I don't take lightly.
@bizdrone2 жыл бұрын
absolutely!
@brianyerger583 Жыл бұрын
I agree! Its zero tolerance. 1 and done.
@beaverg2348 Жыл бұрын
@@brianyerger583 That was my principle but I am starting to realize that It gets really complicated when underage kids are involved.
@kodaph Жыл бұрын
@@beaverg2348 compromising 😥
@kycuganda8087 Жыл бұрын
Thanks it's afraud nt amistake
@Atomic94_YT11 ай бұрын
Honestly, we need more people like you *Johnsonspy* if we had an army of people like you, we could stamp out these total loss in no time. I love that you are helping the victims, too its ultra gratifying when you are to save people in real time like you
@jacobx_smith11 ай бұрын
You have done an outstanding job and proven your merits with sincerity! You've proven to effectively handle any given job. With your help, I was able to track my boyfriend's activities. *JohnsonSpy* made a positive name out here for your excellent services!
@rachellarry580311 ай бұрын
True
@user-yb6kn8qz6g3 ай бұрын
The TIME and EFFORTS you had put into this work that is beyond excellence . Take my cordial thanks! You are really an efficient, organized and result-oriented man. I haven’t seen such quality work in a long time. Great job, Keep it up.And i will make sure the world knows more about you and the good deed you have done for me, people like you Dale Valskov, with your help i was able to catch my cheating gf
@dileepraj23113 ай бұрын
The efficiency of this Dale Valskov is next level. To juggle walk throughs of various angles on the topic delivered to-camera, differnet content per topic from various folks underneath the umbrella of the track list of the larger big band concert itself is engaging and refined. To make a dense taccess like this so digestible is really something. Awesome work jack!!
@gregorycarlson66328 ай бұрын
One I hear often in my profession is “It only happened once.” If you hear that, you can bet your next breath that it was a lot more than once!!🤔
@piusmc8693 ай бұрын
Heard that one before when in fact it was going on for a long time. Cheaters are nothing but heartless, empty souled individuals.
@rogerjoseph8846 Жыл бұрын
Do not be hurt, just use them for what they are made for, simple.
@arnelevans48033 ай бұрын
Very well said
@thammaiahr46563 ай бұрын
Dale Valskov . I really appreciate your efforts and dedication towards the work. May God bless you to keep showing your worth and skills like this in the future
@fokustanleytaboh9842 жыл бұрын
My goodness, Jessica deserves an award for best relationship advice ever on earth
@mcaldhan2 жыл бұрын
She deserves 🎖
@nyauskobies55222 жыл бұрын
Because she has experience, most of people talk of what they do or have done.
@8aams82 жыл бұрын
I second that
@cyrilblaauw99272 жыл бұрын
Yes.... Jessica's video's are helping me alot..... Jessica really you are helping alot of people keep it up you're doing the right thing
@kalumbasimuz99322 жыл бұрын
I'm looking for a beautiful and good woman I can trust and Marry, but it seems to be difficult 🥺😰💔
@stanleymukumbira51652 жыл бұрын
They always accuse you of having an affair every time whilst they are the ones who is cheating
@Maria-wr2lf Жыл бұрын
They accused me of cheating but he was cheating then said their was a misunderstanding
@karfeishaolyia9567 Жыл бұрын
It took me 10 years to realize he cheated I feel like shit
@amoywaid89075 ай бұрын
Learned this from my ex fiancée
@cooperphilips25212 жыл бұрын
Since my gf broke up with me, I’ve been depressed and I’ve been going to the pharmacy everyday for drugs just to relief the pain and sometimes I will get drunk😩 but since I’ve started watching your videos, it helps me to relief the pain and By God’s grace am now focusing on my life. But I still don’t give up on LOVE because I know there’s a good woman out there. Thanks Jessica. 🙏
@roselynealima36182 жыл бұрын
Me too here I started watching her videos it healed me am so super happy....moving forward...much love from KENYA
@ts-cg2fb2 жыл бұрын
People that cheat dont love themselves. Continue to work on your self..love on yourself. And dont date a women that dont love her daddy..I been married 3 times.all them cheated..most women out here have manly ways..Keep your heart open..and never talk about your pass..stay positive. Have fun.like its your last day.its a billion women out here.get to know them before you have sex..And never go backward on a relationships.
@eugenieholmes57692 жыл бұрын
Yes a good and special lady is there for you
@livisimon12852 жыл бұрын
Wow I am a woman, I have been cheated on it hurts. I can imagine what you went through.
@daviedood25032 жыл бұрын
Watch ams, Darius m and steph is cold. They'll show u the red pill. It helped me. I'm 1 year out after wasting 13 yrs w a single mom. Lost my 20s and 30s trying to do the family man thing. Don't attach to women, just hang out an hour or two about once or twice a week and THAT'S IT. Female nature and hypergamy will have them always trying to better deal u behind your back. Don't hate them or be mad at them, never take them seriously, never believe what they say. Just what they DO. Don't ever expect anything from them and it always ends it's just a matter of when. Always have more than just 1 ur dating not marrying them. Time to set down the fairy tale u were sold as a lie.
@tm_connect2 жыл бұрын
In addition, cheaters are quick to say "you don't trust me" they are doing that to defend themselves and making the other partner feel guilty
@bolajiibrahim95812 жыл бұрын
That is what my girlfriend use to say all the time but I don't she is cheating on me
@The1TheyCall2-Tone Жыл бұрын
emotional cheating is not only cheaqting but its also worse
@sefofccc4012 Жыл бұрын
It’s so crazy how my husband & I feel like we’re 1 of few that understand these principles in life as a unit & as individuals. It’s a rarity to find other ppl to have these conversations with especially with the ppl we know. Thanks to *BRIAN HACKS* for this powerful remote convo access. This will reach so many & we as ppl will become better. Thanks y’all!
@Jessica_OS12 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciated this dude for the great services. I gained access into my husband's phone without him knowing or suspecting! Had always thought it was impossible to monitor your partner without his notice, but all thanks to the above named, I am able to view his activities. It feels good and safe to know what he's doing!! Thanks so much for the helped so far!!!
@walkaminutewithme478711 ай бұрын
Be careful... red flag for cheaters
@michaelg74562 жыл бұрын
Another great job Jess! Here's another red flag. If the person you're with now cheated on their ex to be with you, they might cheat on you and use the excuse "well you knew how I was when we met." Stay True Green and live with Passion!
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
Spot on
@michaelg74562 жыл бұрын
@@JessicaOS and that was a personal experience from my first ex-wife
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
@@michaelg7456 phew
@enockwilliams64962 жыл бұрын
@@JessicaOS most at times she says, I don't like your comments cause it looks like I have another apart from you, anytime we are making call she includes me in many incoming call, as conference call buh there is a particular one she never did so, when I questioned, oh he is just a friend so don't be scared buh also scared.
@annettep.16052 жыл бұрын
I always heard that if he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you. Great video, Jessica. Any info I can get about detecting cheating is very welcome. Every man I've ever been intimate with cheated on me & I've been celibate for 15 years, & it's ok.
@bigdeal4168 Жыл бұрын
As somebody that has been cheated on many many times. The "he is just a friend" is a BIG BIG red flag. A man and woman can never just be friends. TRUST ME PLEASE. Set an ultimatum and walk if you have to. You will be saving yourself A LOT of problems. Worst outcome her falling pregnant and not knowing if your the father.
@pinkcarpet5947 Жыл бұрын
I know that ur being honest❤️..it's sincere and plus u make sense
@TeWandaJoven9 ай бұрын
I've had several Platonic relationships with men. My best guy friend has been my friend for 31 years and I have others in the 15+ years.
@inibeheetukudo42482 жыл бұрын
And this friendship thing will always be used...in fact u will be told they met the friend before you
@maybeAnn Жыл бұрын
& they will try to cheat on you with their “friends” saying “we are just friends there’s nothing wrong”!
@maybeAnn Жыл бұрын
They always will do excuses with their friends to cheat on you saying same “ohhh she’s my friend since many years ago & i that’s why I follow her I know her stop thinking wrong”!
@maybeAnn Жыл бұрын
Always a friendship between them is something more than “friendship” & they’re trying to fool us they don’t have a closer affair with them meanwhile they do!
@melchized32942 жыл бұрын
Another phrase cheats use is, "I don't love him/her. It's you that I love". Sometimes too they have this mood that comes intermittently and when it does, they don't talk to you for a certain period of time.
@geemoney2397 Жыл бұрын
So true !
@TacticsTechniquesandProcedures Жыл бұрын
This is typically vocalized as “I love you ONLY.”
@juliobello45614 ай бұрын
Last year I caught my girlfriend picture of her kissing with him on social media. I show it to her and denied it and told she doesn’t like him she doesn’t care about him. I told her you did made a choice and is clear and I walk away
@aprilN79822 ай бұрын
Like when they’re at work and they’re busy but they didn’t used to have issues with calls and all of the sudden family picnics don’t allow families, then you find messages on fb and then they delete them and tell you “you’re crazy” “you’re delusional” “I don’t know her” “I wasn’t messaging her” “there where no inappropriate messages” “I deleted them so you wouldn’t freak out cause you’re always so jealous”…not to mention the innuendo comments and post again “it’s just fb it’s not even real” “I was just being nice” I could go on but I still feel like I’m overreacting and I have no one to talk to about it because I don’t want to be the crazy wife or be controlling..idk I’m so confused
@steviedrummerTV6 ай бұрын
I am going through the storm guys please pray for me. I need to see a therapist I am miserable
@JustTeeTee7774 ай бұрын
Everything is gonna be ok. Things will get better. Storms are temporary 💕
@JustTeeTee7774 ай бұрын
Everything’s gonna be ok. Things will get better. Storms are temporary ❤
@SalmanKhan-hx6tf3 ай бұрын
In my case, I had no image of myself on it which clearly stated I am a step behind. Dale Valskov was God’s sent. I appreciate your tireless efforts in assisting me with the account recovery. Your professionalism and commitment to finding a solution were evident at every step. Thank you for making the process efficient and effective.
@ijazma54 Жыл бұрын
Kindness, being loyal and honest goes a long way. Cheaters dont know that whatever course of action they do, the pleasure of obtaining it is temporary and leads to greater consequences. Absolutely love your message and spreading care to the world.🙂
@piusmc8693 ай бұрын
God and Karma has a way of working these things out with these heartless and soul less individuals who cheat.
@stephenducharme6309 Жыл бұрын
you totally nailed it cheating comes in many different ways its not just physical but i would say most of the time it does become physical at some point
@JbDlalisa1 Жыл бұрын
You've helped me mature and to understand that people are really what they project themselves to be... Thank you Jess
@mackenzilowery27882 жыл бұрын
And if your partner has no respect for you and is quick to fight that shows they don't care anymore
@olutosinoyeneye3044 Жыл бұрын
Being cheated on in a relationship has put a lot of us into a phobia of the other gender. Like right now, I find everything my current partner does to be very suspicious and I am not very happy with that, especially for the love I have for her; but once beating is twice shy.
@mychicksrthick Жыл бұрын
Please be that way with politicians and people in authority too.
@BooneDraw Жыл бұрын
First you have to heal your inner child. To love someone is about trust and proper communication. You need to come to understanding your feelings set up new boundaries and never… never settle for less. Recognize red flags 🚩i have changed my manifestation. Become what i want to find in my future wife. I am always happy and positive and I surround myself with good kind loving people. Find the peace you need first before finding a new partner. Don’t live in the past, never compare your partner with a past experience, it will hurt your partner. Compassion and empathy is important and if they ask you can tell them. Some of us want to understand and love our partners feelings, but don’t dwell on the past be able to put it behind you and build a kinder loving future. I know that not all women are as bad as my wife is to me. I know that there is someone for me. I trust. But i am careful. If the relationship feels fake and I just get excuses, jokes. They are not worth my time. Find someone who loves you and is willing to put you first in their life. Never give you negativity. Look for someone who will never cross your boundaries and never settle for less.
@craigy69111 ай бұрын
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@LunaIlluminati-dv4id9 ай бұрын
It's a horrible feeling.. u question everything.
@olutosinoyeneye30449 ай бұрын
@@mychicksrthick I hear you sir/ma
@Just542 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica. I needed that. I allowed myself to be mistreated for 7 years and you have described her to a T
@raymondamumpaire2 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend for two years has been using 90% of these tricks to hide her cheating and I swear I could see her name all over each point shared on here. I am so heartbroken but I could swear I saw it coming.
@arandomguy.23092 жыл бұрын
Sorry my g
@joshuchipile112 жыл бұрын
Great insight thanks
@ishma21002 жыл бұрын
Every 2.5 years in our relationship. I request a lie detector test and hire a investigator to follow her if it's that serious. 😕 better safe then sorry 🤷🏿♂️
@michelleamaya64462 жыл бұрын
@@ishma2100 that’s actually crazy. If my BF did that I would brake up with him cause that’s just weird. If you don’t trust your partner leave them that’s it.
@michelleamaya64462 жыл бұрын
@@ernestabor most men cheat you mean.
@sarfraj_d_073 ай бұрын
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@portiaspeace59822 жыл бұрын
Cheats are gonna hate this one. I super love it! 😍🥂
@akborsk85843 ай бұрын
Your out-of-the-box thinking and unique perspective turned an otherwise mediocre presentation into a fantastic one *johnsonspy* . You did a good job of catching the mistakes and keeping us from wasting time and by taking the wrong path. Your attention to detail really sets you apart from the crowd. Great work! Jack, Your great work has resulted in tangible, beneficial results to me. You’re a force to be reckoned
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
@ayeniisrael8686 Жыл бұрын
Do you charge any fee to talk to you personally
@nwaezecaleb3888 Жыл бұрын
Truely, i really feel the pain of having a cheater as partner . Thanks jessica for enlightening the ward of relationship.
@2jtv4742 жыл бұрын
Jessy, the truth is cheaters come up with so many lies that u may end up gaslighting yourself! They keep evolving new indisputable lies that u end up questioning yourself why u even asked and end up apologizing to the cheater. It's just God not to fall victim.
@beaverg2348 Жыл бұрын
This is fact especially if they’re good at lying.
@FarFromSoft2 жыл бұрын
As a young man I enjoy watching your videos!!! You’re awesome!! I’ve been in a rs for 5yrs and been cheated on idek how many times but I found out until after it ended. Now I’m jumping out again and I find it a bit tough to let this young lady in, especially when she exhibit signs of cheating or toxic behaviors. I open to her about it to clear the air… and I’m certain she dodges the topic, quickly wants to lay it to rest, gets upset and tells me that nothings happened, this dude is only a friend who I tlk to wen I need guiding. A part of me wants to believe her but I’ve a gut feeling due to past experience this
@couragekmishio3498 Жыл бұрын
Don't waste time. It will consumate you and you can't achieve anything positive. Stay away before it is too late. Mind you, they will do it and do it again. There is always gonna be someone lurking in the shadows. Just consider it a lost and look out for that person who is genuinely into you. Just distant yourself, and the pain will vanish. Remain with her, and your sanity will be negatively affected. Stay away, nye bro.
@beogopauletienne92782 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessica OS.... By this video I found out that sometime when your partner is cheating on you and he is discovered, he either gets angry or plays the victim....... Pay attention. Don't be fooled
@cutedoodle190711 ай бұрын
We need more immeasurably wise and compassionate humans like you on this planet. Thank you for sharing *Johnson Spy* , Adam. I bet Im not alone when I say this video found me at the perfect moment, and there are a lot of things here that I needed to hear
@giogarcia40022 жыл бұрын
The secret to success in a relationship is to vibrate at a high energy. Doing this will make you very strong to endure anything.
@bro_chukzy2 жыл бұрын
How do you mean please? Explain?
@ts-cg2fb2 жыл бұрын
@@bro_chukzy If they energy level change..they stop laughing .tryin to get rid of you to soon...You can't love 2 people at the same time..75% of love is body language..like for imstsnce My wife use to get naked and touch her toes..and dsnce for me..that stopped..she was doing it for the other guy.I told my mona my wife is cheating..her energy has changed..she looks sad all the time.that guilt was setting in..So keep your energy level high..at all times.that means your heart is open..and if your heart is open your senses are flowing , all 5 of them..did you know a women can tell if you having sex or not..
@siphomali90242 жыл бұрын
The use of religion and friends is also a perfect shield for infedility. Thank you so much Jess
@couragekmishio3498 Жыл бұрын
Yes, you find them singing in the choir. Religion is their camouflage and that word..friend friend friend. They go about helping people to cover their tracks and find potential victims along the line, just in case you ditch them.
@AA-ob8yg Жыл бұрын
Lol This comment right here the definition of my current situation
@tylerhines1988 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Really helped a lot. If we had more people like you in this world…it would be a better place. Cause I’ve been in my share of toxic relationships, especially this one that’s coming to end I believe after 4 years and a “marriage” without a reception at that. That’s what I get for being kind hearted Fr.
@Mariacarline1986 Жыл бұрын
My partner told me it was my fault when I confronted him. He said I'm too miserable. I have never stepped out of my relationship. It's been 13 yrs of living together and nearly 16 yrs of knowing and talking to them. I might be miserable but that's because things are not going how they are supposed to go. Yes, people change after years of being together but it should be for the better, not for worse. Some men hate when you are also doing better financially that them even that can cause them to cheat. Sigh
@chinyeregodwin86872 жыл бұрын
My estranged husband was a chronic cheat, very abusive and a stunch Narcist. He gaslighted me so much that i became confused and frustrated. I gave up and was just there praying for him to change. Moreso, he made me look and think 50 years older than my self. Infact, my experience with him taught me that abuse is progressive and tortures the victim until you commit suicide, give up on life or be rescued by good people around you. Neighbours, friends, my employer, my colleagues and our Priest noticed I was suffering and gradually losing myself in trying to save the marriage in which I happen to be in all by myself. It took radical counselling, prayers and support to save me. Now the pain was more excruciating when I found out he not just cheating but, that he does it under my nose. Random unknown ladies he tag as long time family friends showing up at my house but were his girlfriends and lot's more. The one that broke the camel's back was physical and sexual abuse 😢 😪 💔 😔. Well, I thank God for everything 🙏 🙌. Still healing from the trauma and working on my divorce process......
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
Ouch! I'm so glad you eventually rose above that. Thanks for sharing to your story. ❤
@DG-EditsYT Жыл бұрын
Are you completely perfect in all of this? Did you or do things wrong or deceive, there is always 2 sides
@kimerabashir896411 ай бұрын
This video really talks about the relationship I'm in. Thank you so much Jessica for opening our eyes to such narcissistic partner in our life.
@Moses_MoyoMbewe202 жыл бұрын
Many thanks madam Jessica, I'm a staunch follower of your content all the way from Lusaka Zambia 🇿🇲
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
🥰
@jerryharris395 Жыл бұрын
I was told by a "woman" that they could "CHEAT" with a "FRIEND" as much as they want and it wouldn't be "CHEATING" because there's no commitment.
@taleandclawrock2606 Жыл бұрын
Open relationships are consentual. One partner sleeping around when other person wants monogamy is never goung to work.
@entrthedragon11 ай бұрын
Lying to themselves to condone their evil ways.
@charleskanyangi94162 жыл бұрын
Jessica your command of the Queens language is fantastic. And this talk is on point for all those who are in relationships.
@brendaleighton15692 жыл бұрын
I agree. Technology has taken cheating to another level. I recently got on IG and I swear I've lost my Innocence all over again..I told someone that if I had seen his IG activity before I met him, I would never have given him the time of day... it is about to become a deal breaker...
@royhollins42322 жыл бұрын
I dated a cheater that would stand me up and claim that she was doing it for me. For example, she'd say things like, "I knew your were tired so I was just letting you sleep". Another one of her favorites was to go somewhere and claim that she rode with someone else (mother, friend, cousin....), therefore coming/going is out of her control. 51 yr old woman acting like a 17 yr old high-school girl.
@chrisduhaime5689 Жыл бұрын
This type of behavior has been going since there younger daze . It's become 2nd nature. We know in our hearts 💔 when something is not right 🔎( your gut instincts never let you down = the six sense) . They are very good at misinformation. In the beginning the usual tactics work 🤔 (except TIME AND DATES ) Friday Saturday nights / whole weekends ECT . It typical starts out a night here a night there just so called friends. As the FIRE gets hotter it becomes more frequently to point they can't hide it ! Eye know this pain been thru it 3 times over 40 year's. 2 GF 1 30 year m = it hurts it takes about 1 year to heal ⏳🤤
@aleacejordan Жыл бұрын
Yep , they have patterns!!! Especially on their days off !
@antoniomitchell18834 ай бұрын
@@aleacejordanyou think so?
@NQuiz522 жыл бұрын
OMG! This info is so accurate it takes me RIGHT BACK to when I was in the middle of going through all of this. I can even feel those same feelings of extreme wrath and vengeance that almost robbed me of my whole life.
@2jtv4742 жыл бұрын
But just as a hardened criminal leaves traces, cheaters leave traces. But we tend to allow the strong desire for attention come first before reality. In Nigeria, when you hear someone saying you don't eat thesame type of soup, sometimes you eat egusi, ogbolor, Banga soup, etc, pull of your shoes, look for an excuse and run as far and as fast as you can! What the person is telling you is that he/she sleeps with different partners, that's his/her life. So getting married to you will not change that. ITS BETTER TO BE HAPPILY SINGLE THAN TO BE WOEFULLY MARRIED TO AN UNFAITHFUL PARTNER.
@harrymulenga8702 Жыл бұрын
Shifting blame..
@marvenobeng69362 жыл бұрын
Very educative I experienced most of these points with my gf and I’ve suffered a lot of heartaches because of her
@abrahammalik33892 жыл бұрын
A partner once got angry when i told her that i wasn't comfortable with her going out to a night club with an old male friend and she didn't even say how she was gonna get back home, it got heated and she straight up told me she's an adult and she can do what she wants and i have no right to tell her what she and she can't do, at that exact moment, I had to leave before it got bad
@Abobi_Jonez2 жыл бұрын
I've been having this female friend for some months now, she practically means a whole lot to me .. we've hunged out couple of times..and she understands me so much ... Damn she's such a sweet girl...she reciprocates so much and same energy too.... She is also In a relationship..but we are in a bit of a mix in telling ourselves the truth... Maybe, we are finding so much unexplained euphoric solace in each other
@kniiknii11962 жыл бұрын
Really waw I can imagine how fair slim and sweet girl she gonna be
@piyalidas22203 ай бұрын
Kudos to you, Dale Valskov for your extraordinary dedication and hard work in helping me recover my account. Your efforts are truly commendable, and I encourage you to maintain this exceptional standard as you embark on future endeavors. The path ahead is filled with promise for someone of your caliber
@divinemuoghalu94712 жыл бұрын
Cheats will also convince, their partners while an argument, that if they were cheating ( which is already the case) cheating, that their partners would never know. Just to calm and intelligently earn their trust
@Bumbledora Жыл бұрын
Wow! Great video, Jess! I've been cheated on and it hurts in every way. I didn't forgive but somehow overcame it and accepted it. Yeah, some would say "Why didn't you leave?". It's not that easy an answer. Having kids and actually, yes, still loving him. And I do. Still same question may occur for sure. I can't explain it. I don't have the answer. I think the answer is in ourselves. Thanks for making this video. Much love from Sweden 🌹💗
@kaleish4423 Жыл бұрын
It’s an easy answer when you love and respect yourself. Never use the excuse of children. You’re teaching them it’s ok to be disrespected. Your partner has unresolved trauma he needs to face and you need to look within yourself to answer deeper questions about why you choose to stay. Not to say it can’t be worked out but in cases like these…therapy and self healing needs to be done as a couple if both of you really want to make it work. Need to be comfortable with the uncomfortable questions as partners.
@rogree772 жыл бұрын
That emotional cheating is very very real….”if you don’t have proof it didn’t happen”, is what she said…..I had proof 💯
@vavtv3659 Жыл бұрын
Even for the recognition *Brian Hacks* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
@santokuol95922 жыл бұрын
Lucky me! that I watched this video she keep telling me she is a kind of person who likes having so many mail friends. Fuck she is cheating on me. Thank you Jessica.
@jboy9322 жыл бұрын
Male not mail
@patrickaharimpitsya10682 жыл бұрын
How to find someone who cheats on you in long distance relationship, we thank you for teaching us how to handle our love ones 👍👍
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
Good video idea
@ogunsijielizabeth60802 жыл бұрын
@@JessicaOS yes 🥰
@Fleefilmss11 ай бұрын
I dont know what I would have done without *johnsonspy* help in my divorce case. Your dedication, enthusiasm, and expertise were like a lifesaver. Youre my hero!
@jacobx_smith11 ай бұрын
You have done an outstanding job and proven your merits with sincerity! You've proven to effectively handle any given job. With your help, I was able to track my boyfriend's activities. *JohnsonSpy* made a positive name out here for your excellent services!
@nicolec835511 ай бұрын
Hi im new here what is johnson spy? My bf i feel is cheating and maybe worst so in need help!
@gregoryscott58732 жыл бұрын
Jessica is always on point to really deliver from a man's perspective.Women think they only cheated physically when they go into bed with men but rather emotionally too such as flirting.
@kevinirons17462 жыл бұрын
I think everybody flirts its no big deal
@lawrenceottih98482 жыл бұрын
@@kevinirons1746 it is a bog deal and not everybody flirts.
@joshuaomoyeni5232 жыл бұрын
@@kevinirons1746 not when you're supposedly meant to be in a committed relationship with someone. It's a huge disrespect for me. It's wrong totally. Sign of a potential cheater too
@bigcconservativeguy2534 Жыл бұрын
@@joshuaomoyeni523 Oh please, flirting is not a sign of a potential cheater. Paranoia like that is a sign of mental illness though, lol!
@pattitorres434310 ай бұрын
Omg, this made me actually smile. He said/did ALL of these, and blew them off as no big deal.
@naomiwilson94162 жыл бұрын
If you have 100% proof they are cheating LEAVE THEM. I was a serial cheater. Then I grew up I held my self accountable for my actions and made a promise to my self to never cheat on a partner again. I never have since then I never will. I don't ever think or suspect my partner is cheating, because thinking and believing that is #1 showing my own insecurities #2 you are creating a trauma bond. #3 I don't care if they are cheating, they know the relationship wll end if they tell me, so out of guilt they will leave me anyway. If you ever feel insecure in a relationship then it's probably not the relationship you need to be in. Move on.
@daviedood25032 жыл бұрын
No they'll actually stay with u for YEARS on end while cheating 😂 you'll never know lmao
@Va13chka2 жыл бұрын
@@daviedood2503 It’s crazy how they don’t even want to tell you 🤦♀️. They will stretch it out until they get exposed or finally tell you years later.
@daviedood25032 жыл бұрын
@@Va13chka bc it's fun. That's rhe "spice" and excitement they like. That's how low they see u. U don't do that to someone u look up to etc. The gossip group is above all. They need SOMETHING to talk about. Well gotta go start stuff to add to the stories. That's how boring their life is outside gossip and drama
@Va13chka2 жыл бұрын
@@daviedood2503 I understand how they see it as “spice” but I don’t don’t know about the gossip part lol. I agree that them doing that behind your back is disrespectful. Personally I’m never forgiving a cheater there’s no way I’ll ever respect you as a man or trust you lmao.
@mrquick67752 жыл бұрын
@@daviedood2503 And give you diseases; Stds/HIV/Aids! So what she said is really kind of naïve..
@StylesLady11044 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for Clarifying everything you have mentioned is what he says and doing to me along with cussing me out and telling me to go home, then later he asking me to come over and telling me it’s not me he just has things on his mind. I’m Out because I don’t deserve to be treated this way. I appreciate the confirmation.🙏🏽
@jivonstephen66772 жыл бұрын
Most of us cant even have a relationship with ourselves without cheating to whatever oath or moral values we swear by. Closer than anybody is a relation within self needs to be fixed in us first before we can progress within relations with others. Hi Jess thanks for the outsite to look inside.
@bigcconservativeguy2534 Жыл бұрын
Please speak for yourself. making a blanket statement like "most of us" is well beyond the scope of your experience or knowledge of others. There are a great many people in this world, and I wont guess as to the % or ratio vs not, that have their own stuff squared away, or as the great Jordan Peterson puts it, "they have already made their own bed" before venturing out into the world to tell others how to make theirs or to make themselves available to others in whatever capacity, and do so in a worthwhile, effective and genuine fashion!
@jivonstephen6677 Жыл бұрын
@@bigcconservativeguy2534 you take win bro and is because I studied my self is why ah cud say dat ok den bright man and is why I said most of US . Cus once you cheating yourself you will cheat on others plain talk fresh prints .
@blessingamadi1269 Жыл бұрын
Great video. Every issue raised in the video is absolute fact. More grease to your elbows, Jessy.
@RealLaone2 жыл бұрын
One thing about cheating, is that all excuses are the same. People say "women cheat better" yet all the TV drama is the same narratives & excuses they use. I'd like to hear something different from a cheater just once.
@mcaldhan2 жыл бұрын
You said something bro. They most times portrays these same negatives aspects in movies.
@RealLaone2 жыл бұрын
@@mcaldhan no originality whatsoever. Its weird to make someone seem like an idiot for loving you with all the hate in the world.
@geraldwaldrop51312 жыл бұрын
@@mcaldhan yes ...I like poetry too..
@mcaldhan2 жыл бұрын
@@geraldwaldrop5131 what you talking bout?
@geraldwaldrop51312 жыл бұрын
@@mcaldhan poetry in motion.... I've been cheated on a few times it gets old. You don't realize the red flags till after the fact. Everything always lines up when it is over.... same ole song and dance.
@qwonggamerfishing54911 ай бұрын
Hey *Johnson Spy* the work you did on the project completely changed the way I was looking at it. Thank you for giving. I can’t say enough how grateful I am that you always take ownership of your projects. It’s so nice to know that you’ve got it covered.
@user-ss7et2oe5q Жыл бұрын
When you know she’s cheating and you don’t care anymore.
@HapsMbambs11 ай бұрын
Having someone who is failing to commit is a real problem. 😪
@organicallymae Жыл бұрын
"Illegally investing their emotions elsewhere, apart from the partner their in a relationship with"🔥🙌 My ex not only cheated on me and is in a new relationship, but also has been violating my Domestic violent restraining order. Tried to gaslight me too. Great video!
@pinkcarpet5947 Жыл бұрын
Once u move on and u move away and are very happy and living it up and he sees it on ur FB or just simply finds out. It's gonna be the biggest regret of his life. ..losing u gonna devastate him. Mark my words
@organicallymae Жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying that!@@pinkcarpet5947
@ladybird491 Жыл бұрын
Yup!
@darkomanduric516Ай бұрын
Tnx for everything sister, you are real person and woman, BIG respect from Croatia, God bless you
@javountrail40442 жыл бұрын
I got most of these especially when I found out she just left me at a barbershop and was going to get something for our daughter and not even two minutes from where I was she made this guy stopped her and she said she nearly gave him his number she said she told him she lived with her baby father and he told her he doesn’t have to know and something happened and I could feel it and when I confronted her she told me about that and said I nearly lost her 🤔 to that guy who she made stopped her and she said she didn’t give him her number and that it didn’t meant anything because she didn’t give him but from that day and that’s about nearly a month now I don’t trust her until this day,she said when she thought about it and that I’m not working at the moment and to do that is not right 😒🤔 I told her if I really matter she wouldn’t have stopped especially when I was about two minutes away from where he stopped her while she was going to buy something for our daughter 🤦🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️ that messed me up
@benngoma537 Жыл бұрын
Truthfully, it sucks to have to restrict yourself to one single person if you don't want to ... Constantly trying to deprive yourself of things you really want all for someone else peace of mind
@lawrenceamevor3392 жыл бұрын
Described my current situation perfectly! Once again, very informative and helpful, Jessica.
@JessicaOS2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@because0011 Жыл бұрын
There’s so many signs. Some people choose to ignore it. Love is blind, so sad.