Keep trying to win her ONLY if you see these signs

[@JessicaOS]

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[@noelneel9091]

@@JessicaOS Please i need your help. I'm seriously in pain. Please help me.

[@jakehill2010]

Hey Jessica! 😊

[@Steveaky]

If she turns to you to open up all of a sudden she sees you as her gay best friend

[@nulifmusic]

You are a genius where have you been all my life 🤦🤦💯🙏🙏

[@gershomphiri250]

BB BB b b be

[@gregorylatta8159]

Lack of reciprocity is the biggest red flag.

[@tevbuff]

@gregorylatta8159 Agreed 100%

[@alriyamy613]

🎉🎉 period

[@viomao1963]

If she's playing hard to get " leave her" chasing her will lower your self esteem

[@AhmedMourad2022]

@@viomao1963 exactly

[@timwattison4419]

Just done it mate. I'm 60, not 16 and ain't got time for the games, stress, and headaches.

[@mnickiel09]

_DON'T EVER LET A WOMAN MAKE IT A CHALLENGE SIMPLY TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER, PERIOD_

[@TeW33zy]

Yeah u want a woman easy which is understandable. But woman who are easy are open and other men will see that and try to sleep with her.

[@kwekswilliams6884]

​@@TeW33zyit's not about being easy but as a human being you know what you like so if she prefers you she's to connect the dot with you if it's the other guys she shouldn't. Period

[@KarlEmanuel-f4l]

@TeW33zy I can't go out there and do my best to provide for my family, only to be greeted with stupid mind games and attitudes.

[@iamflashin]

AYE FOR REAL DOE

[@azure8696]

​@@TeW33zyTF are you talking about?😂🤣😭

[@Trelznc]

I’m glad men are in sync here cause who wants to go through these headaches just to be loved ?

[@FF-bj4nq]

I doubt men will be loved even after going through these

[@jorammuwanguzi3698]

😂😂😂

[@briar35981]

This is good. Always look for reciprocal effort. Remember, your not the only one she's testing. She will have multiple suitors and she's trying to find the best and with the most resources. HYPERGAMY is real. Never be afraid to walk away.

[@YalaMan01]

Thank you. I needed this.

[@Requordman]

​@YalaMan01 Be very careful with some of these simp advisers. As a man, you also have the liberty to have multiple women as suitors. Then, choose the best for yourself!! Don't put yourself in an unnecessary competition with men you do not know. If the lady isn't ready to deal with you, walk away from her and move on to the next. Women make it easy for the men they like. Concentrate on your health, finances and peace of mind. If she isn't adding up to any of these 3, my guy, run. The dumpest thing a man will do is to tolerate a woman who plays mind games and seeks a man to prove himself to her.

[@YalaMan01]

@@Requordman You must be one of the best in the world ❤️🤗😂

[@Requordman]

@@YalaMan01 bro, as a man, you already have problems to figure out. So, why do you go for a woman whose intentions about you is also another problem for you to figure out? It doesn't make sense one bit! Deal with women who are ready to deal with you.

[@GB-gf3dm]

​@@UsmanAbiodun-or3hp Claiming someone is a golddigger just for looking for the best security in a relationship (which money provides) is ignorant. Golddiggers aren't looking for security (or even love) in a relationship. They are con artists.

[@odinakajulian7474]

My two scent here from my experience with women is that if she's interested she'll make time for you. If she's giving flimsy excuses walk away. Life is full of trial and error. Embrace rejection and move on. If she's interested but playing games she'll come back. It's up to you as a guy to decide if you still want to or not. Women are attention lovers know when she's using you as an option to feed her ego. Self respect will make you know your worth in people's lives. Don't be a nice guy. It never ends well because you'll definitely be used financially or emotionally.

[@odinakajulian7474]

Let me add this also. When someone wants something they go all in. So, if she's not reciprocating then she's not that interested in you. Rather she's just being kind not to hurt your feelings.

[@bennyasharukanda]

@@odinakajulian7474 I agree and I've experienced it. Just walk away.

[@isaiahsage2793]

Correct bro, I have been a victim of this , she left me without no concrete reason, after a year she is trying to come back.

[@Kingglory1997]

Romantic relationships require maturity and being intentional. Under 25s usually don’t understand the concept of love and relationships. Even data shows that couples married under 25 have the highest divorce rates. Mature up, get your life in order and look for compatibility.

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

You are right bro 💯

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

You are right bro 💯

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

You are right bro 💯

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

You are right bro 💯

[@godswilledison3722]

100percent fact

[@br_josh]

They won't 'test' the HR executive or play hard-to-get when they are looking for a job but something tells them they need to 'test' a man? Can you see why many of them cannot have a good relationship? Do you think that a high-quality man has much time for tests by one who should be an assistant to him?

[@TheVineAbiola]

@@br_josh who should be an assistant to him??? A person's wife is their assistant?? If many guys feel this way, then no reason why the rate of divorce is so high. Wow.

[@MUSIQ_IS_MY_LIFE]

@@TheVineAbiola Not married women but single ones

[@zodiacfml]

thanks! the comment I'm looking for! Unless both see each other almost every other day, tests is a waste of time and resources whereas a man can put it to someone else who has little mind games. I have plenty success during my crazy dating game more than 15 years ago and can't remember if any gave me tests because I was so busy with others.

[@cecildah7486]

Perfect video. Currently in this phase now and everything you said is right on point. She's worth fighting for. God bless you

[@Angel-fz8dr]

She is not, dude...

[@TS-eg8dm]

In today's date, men have no time to wait it out. Testing to see if she's gonna come back in, the truth is many of these women are sleeping with more than one man at the same time, whenever she's not available. And if she's unavailable too often, I definitely do not waste my time. I don't necessarily ghost her, but I stop texting her. I don't block her either, but I just won't respond too often, I won't prioritize reading her message, And when she decides to come around, I won't prioritize my time to focus on her. I'm not playing hard, but I just don't waste time with these modern women. When we date a woman, we spend money on her. I'm not gonna run her down so I can give her my cash. She better run me down and that's what's going on now, ha ha, ha. I'm not cocky. I'm just confident and smart. Reciprocation is what I responto very well

[@Requordman]

Bro, you said it all... I won't beg you to spend my money and time..

[@TS-eg8dm]

@Requordman Appreciate you sis👍🏾

[@davidmatovu4230]

The guy she loves doesn't do much

[@iamflashin]

DAM ALL FACTS BRO ❕❕❕

[@iamflashin]

@@RequordmanSHEESH DAT SHT HIT

[@lambypigs]

Definitely take it personally, we not kids/teenagers.. I have no time for "test" and games , chicks who's mutually interested in you will not play games

[@diingthiong3504]

We should withdraw our attention if they don't notice our efforts

[@Dr.Options]

1. She tests you but remains engaged. She just needs and wants affirmation and has no real interest, so move on, because that's a massive red flag for future drama.

[@dancowan5129]

Nah, if she can't show her worth to me immediately, she's gone. I don't play games, and if she wants to, she can play them with someone else. I don't have time for games and tests.

[@livermorej7238]

@@dancowan5129 fact my man big respect 🙏

[@ShaunTheNavigator]

THAT PART.

[@007-bourne]

Thank you Jess. Good advice once again, it ain’t easy though. Patience in a foggy situation can be testing!

[@JessicaOS]

Absolutely!

[@obinnadike3923]

We don't have time for games. Is either you are in or out. 😂

[@skepo22]

I met this girl that leave in my appartment on a cool evening we chatted, I collected her number then about 2 days ago I sent her message introducing myself, she didn’t reply until 3 days ago.. she was like hey mentioned my name and said morning… I asked her how was her night? It took 30min for her to reply it was good and she didn’t ask how was mine, already knew it was a red flag.. I asked her if she is working today? Haven’t gotten a reply. Am about to delete her number right away I don’t play games.

[@richardkimuyu1765]

@@skepo22 do it let her go we should see other people

[@ArniMuras]

My G 😂

[@iamflashin]

MAN IM TELL’N U

[@pfuxamutirikhotso4094]

@@skepo22 Wasted time

[@HiddenVocal]

The scales are callin off my eyelids thanks Jessica!!!

[@UguruSamuelAbaraogu-f6b]

I love you Jessica,you are the best of your kind. You are beautiful, confident and yes you hit the nail on the right spot. Thank you for being you.

[@MrYoooki]

Came just in time... Thanks Jessica

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

This video was timely. I needed to watch it Thanks Jessica for sharing❤

[@JessicaOS]

Glad it was helpful!

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

​@@JessicaOSyea

[@erickLukula]

I actually needed this..

[@kratosmarketanaletics456]

wow ...this was really informative..feels like a game of chess ,thank you for shedding some light on this

[@4hinson777]

Hey Jess, It's been a good miniute since taking in one one of your good videos. Lol ... Fellas, don't chase, just replace. Express interest but if she doesn't reciprocate keep it movin. No time for stupid games. Facts

[@promotarfx]

No time to entertain drama

[@michaeljewell53]

Good one Jessie your a wise woman,good things come to those who wait 👰🏾‍♂️

[@addoasante7437]

Jess we need a lecture on "Self Evaluation before Relationship"

[@JessicaOS]

good idea

[@Chosen_Wealth]

Thank You Jessica ❤.

[@LeteniPittard]

Your words are intelligent and meaningful ones

[@AbdoulieJarju-ji8cv]

Interesting my sister you really couch my heart may god bless you

[@JessicaOS]

Thanks for watching

[@olabisiabraham801]

Thank you Jessica! This is profound.

[@mn1994]

What are lovely conversation ❤❤

[@obinnadike3923]

Pass her test? Is this a job interview? Meanwhile, while we are at it, money is being spent😂

[@bhardnavares5903]

You damn right! Money is also spent while we make moves and we just get tested?! F*CK THAT!

[@dlakersnation2379]

Amen to that! lol

[@NineToes19]

Don’t walk away. RUUUUUNN!!!!!!!

[@greensidehealth]

Thanks for this

[@vensonleviticus]

Great video Jessica 📹 Precious my mentoress

[@jowurani]

Great video

[@Requordman]

Keep trying to win her?😂😂. That funny! The only thing men are winning here is our life goals and dreams. Nothing less!! Relationships should be mutual. If a man approaches a woman and she's interested, she should be direct with it. We already have problems to figure out. It is very silly to go for a woman whose intention about you is also another problem for you to figure out!

[@edwinalcantaradelarosa4691]

This is gold, just see your best friend, how difficult was to talk to him/her in the beginning? Exactly, it was mutual and easy, because you were BOTH interested in things to work

[@Its_superdave09]

Thank you God bless you for this Jess! 👍🏾

[@JessicaOS]

You are so welcome and just so you know, i appreciate the way you interact with my channel. Means a lot

[@Its_superdave09]

I'm honoured! 🙌🏾 @@JessicaOS

[@NJM4279]

They can pretend to be like that. Remember, they are also watching this video . Don't try so hard chasing a liability

[@ebenezaboadu673]

Haha 😅

[@MakelLevy-wu8rs]

You said it all 😅

[@HusseinAli-q4t]

So who’s gonna talk then 😂😂🤦🏾🤦🏾

[@scribemanjustice2028]

Good

[@goddey242]

😂

[@davidfreeman8091]

Thanks Jess

[@DabohChelsea-ik7bm]

Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤

[@JessicaOS]

You are so welcome

[@daima-v8s]

You have good skills personality and attitude.

[@JessicaOS]

🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@jamesbarnes1427]

Keep up the great videos Jessica! 👍👍

[@JessicaOS]

Thank you! Will do!

[@cheflewis]

Really appreciate this 👏👏👏

[@Boylayx]

I love you jesica ❤❤❤

[@RodneyDailey-df7sj]

Great content thank you Jessica

[@khozimajivanji5338]

I like your excellent advice thanks 👍

[@DicksonEli2024]

Hello Jessy, nice to see you again

[@JessicaOS]

You too!

[@CodeWithClinton]

There’s a girl I like, and I believe she feels the same way, but I’m not ready for a relationship right now. I had to block her on all platforms, which really hurts. I still have feelings for her, and I hope our paths cross again soon.

[@UsmanAbiodun-or3hp]

Bro are you a developer?

[@CodeWithClinton]

@@UsmanAbiodun-or3hp yes I am.

[@PrinceoftheLightSkins]

Take her, opportunities like that don’t come everyday. Trust me you’ll wish you had her with you when no one is standing at the end waiting for you.

[@CodeWithClinton]

@@PrinceoftheLightSkins thanks King.

[@KOSEUNTI]

@@CodeWithClinton don't block her.. let her always see you so you'd ring in her head.. be of impact to her make sure you keep her busy with things that can develop her for you. Give her books to read, advise her to learn a skill.. be busy and keep her busy.. she'd love you more.. make sure you're not distracted too

[@yrnbornstarr821]

The guy she wants doest have to try, remember

[@brianbrino4310]

Thank you sooo much Jessica!

[@JessicaOS]

You are so welcome!

[@felisco-multipurpose]

Really great tips. Love it 💕

[@samokoniha7022]

Thank u a lot for this....wat i really needed at this time

[@JessicaOS]

Always welcome

[@akandejoseph01]

God bless you for these tips 😅

[@sanelesithole5427]

Thank you, I really needed this

[@JessicaOS]

No problem 😊

[@petshopb]

I am trying to get a girl for 3 months long now... She shows 4 of these 5 signs. She is still coming back. I am thinking now to walk away and hope she will figure out quicker if she wants me.

[@Dr.Options]

Move on. She belongs to the streets!

[@cremildoreffel7161]

Make a lot senses what you have said. Thank you for that.😂😂🎄🎅

[@carllucas1072]

🎉Live Coach

[@DabohChelsea-ik7bm]

Good afternoon Jessica

[@dynamic9016]

Thanks much for this video.

[@dynamic9016]

I have a female friend name Jesse who does everything you explained with me..Thanks much Jessica..

[@Mindsspill]

Went thru these test and still walked away

[@iamflashin]

WELL U DEFINITELY FKN KEPT ME COOL PERFECT TIMING PERFECT VID 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@alexgodwinchinonso4531]

Some just take you for granted

[@modinxpression9513]

Thank you 🥂

[@CREDMANSR]

I'm choosing to exercise patience. She's worth it...

[@zico352]

Thank you so much

[@ChardinKinkonda]

I love this woman so much, she is so inspiring. i have learned a lot from your videos

[@JessicaOS]

Wonderful

[@OdoguKashimbi]

Hi pipo Smith here from Zambia n I just want to say I thank God for this ledy I mean Jessica like she has really really helpt me like that's me been honest on a normal day like this one this Jessica thin is something El's I thought I have lost everything I worked like I thought have lost the love of my life not until I started following this beautiful n intelligent Jessica n may God how can someone be this complete like Jessica you are one in a million otherwise much love from Zambia n God all might helpt you reach every were ur eye's are able to see

[@bernardthuo2455]

If she play games she is not that interested in you. An interested woman can do anything to get you. Just walk away and never chase her,period!

[@TheoplisFisher]

Naw…this a bad return on investment. She plays game and I’m On my way! Out the door. Absolutely no games period.

[@GB-gf3dm]

You can do that. But the point of the video is for you to consider the woman's comparable value. Fools walk away from gold that's hard to get. 😢

[@TheoplisFisher]

@@GB-gf3dm fools gold everywhere it’s cheaper not to keep her.

[@ugochuke]

Men deserve more 😢, we don't care about all this game.

[@ShaunTheNavigator]

Me, personally. I love GENUINE EFFORT from the BEGINNING. I know my worth, and I'm not jumping through any extra hoops, or hurdles. Fellas, I advise you to do the same.

[@allanbrown8655]

Last 3 relationships cost me a lot in monetary terms 😮

[@estebantv8395]

@@allanbrown8655 boss leave and have peace

[@AbednegoBitrus-ye9jt]

This massage is all about me and my girlfriend

[@korjaysamuel9499]

Exactly that's what she's doing

[@Maskman_original]

If a men is focusing on a better future for him and her, why the hell testing him so that you can distracting him so that you can have a better future; that makes sense. Why don't we as men start testing women with our friends to see how loyal women are.

[@GodBlessTheChild1]

All of needing these explanations means dump her. If she has to do all of this guessing then she should dump you. Learn to leave quick! This type of energy causes doubt. Life is too demanding on other points to juggle for someone to care for them. “Thank You!” for sharing 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

[@Shortenprecise]

Thank you, Jessica. I paused your video and followed your advice. You're a genius 🥰

[@chonga_j]

*never mind the games and all, i caught her she had cheated on me!*

[@reggresseau5427]

Men observe and evaluate too.

[@problemslayer3538]

Not if she's in a rebound. Head the opposite direction and never look back

[@MVD8796]

You have given us very good and sometimes wise advices related to relationships over the years, but I would like to know if you have already gotten engaged, if yet married? Peace ✌ from Luanda-Angola

[@mufadzimasviba3216]

That guy winding a tape took me back to my teenage years

[@ki-ka]

No - don't keep trying by chasing her! If you do - you will lower your value, and thereby her respect for you - and even if you get her eventually, down the road she will behave badly and self sabotaging to the relationship because her hypergamy is not satisfied.

[@curtisamoako8685]

Good idea

[@ErickSande-hb1kd]

Never chase a woman who is playing hard to get, by any stretch of the imagination. Be kind to yourself gentleman

[@QuietStorrm860]

@ErickSande-hb1kd well, I definitely dont want a woman thats easy to get. Cant take that seriously.

[@ErickSande-hb1kd]

@@QuietStorrm860 it's not about easy or hard to get. It's more vibrational. It's about protecting my mental health. I used to believe that a woman must play hard to get when I was young. Ugandan women are approachable, they get married at a high rate. Kenya women are not very approachable and the rate of singleness isn't very amazing. Women in their late 20s and mid 30s still playing hard to get. Lol

[@danieltob6362]

Make plenty of money guys

[@GB-gf3dm]

You're gonna need it. 😂

[@hayyarbrough]

Thank you

[@robertcarney6259]

not a test kind of man, Man of my word yes, test me Na i’m good.

[@nickislearning]

Or, you could find a woman who doesn’t play games. Just a thought ❤

[@Huncho-n7c]

That push and pull garbage is to confusing

[@Derickongo-ox7np]

I have noticed these traits in a friend

[@victorayodele2577]

Yeah thats right

[@iconerable]

Testing is the method used in the 90s. It doesn't work anymore; its either u r in or out

[@timwattison4419]

Not at my age of 60. I poured a lot of effort into the 1st date, a spontaneous 90 mile drive to be with her, it felt so bloody good to meet this girl. A week later she just came back with the one liners and backtracking on what i thought she wanted. Im gutted to have pulled the plug tbh, but I'm not prepared to fight tooth and nail for that 2nd date, that is not forthcoming, I've walked away, hard as it is 😢

[@GoldFash]

Thanks you

[@bhardnavares5903]

Here's the thing... I'm 30 years old and been single my whole life. I don't want that kind of headache... it's distressing and in a way a spat in the face of a man who is genuinely in love with you. Sure you might test someone but it gets to a point where she intentionally hurts you just to test how far you're willing to go and that's messed up. I'm currently in this situation right now where a girl I like is doing this or I don't know... she's making very subtle hints and also her friends to let me know that there's still a chance but made it painfully obvious weeks ago that she isn't really interested and that I should stop. I put a lot of effort in those weeks of courting her but end up getting rejected. And now I see these subtle hints that it got me bugging. My friends told me that they might be right that she only tested me to see how far I'll go and that I shouldn't have stopped. But should my love for her be payed with too much drama and heartache from the onset? This is why I'm really having huge trust issues especially in loving someone. 😞

[@eniolasamuel7754]

Thanks so much for this video but I will love to ask for more clarification. Based on the examples you gave for sing number 4, plz I will love to ask what then can I do and how can I go about it cous that what exactly am facing.

[@JessicaOS]

Hi Sam, Let jump on a private call so i can elaborate further. Sign up as a VVIP here: www.patreon.com/JessicaOS

[@Steveaky]

I sent a treble txt one of them mentioning I didn’t sleep all night and probably won’t go into work and hate letting people down…but also it it just happened to be my birthday and I told her that too! Guess what no happy birthday txt or any txt and I haven’t heard from her since.