Natal Moon Opposite Pluto- Potential Mastery

[@DafneMarchesan]

"You've got to expose your true feelings. Exposure is so humilliating to people with this particular aspect" Spot. On.

[@denisedoumbia1691]

I can't do this.

[@Hanna-bd7ow]

Nice profile picture!

[@akenyaseymour3407]

I come back to this video every so often and I cry every time. I will never be able to properly articulate my gratitude for you. I love you, Jewel. Keep spreading your light and knowledge.

[@akenyaseymour3407]

I have faith about integrating this one into my consciousness because Venus, the ruler of my Moon, is conjunct Pluto. It intensifies this as it is kind of like living with the opposition and the conjunction at the same time - going from puking up avoided pain to feeding on it, but the goal is transmuting it. Venus also rules my Sun, which happens to semi-sextile Pluto (what a Plutonic life I live). I believe I will achieve true transcendence in this lifetime. Been waiting many lifetimes for this opportunity and it is not an easy path to walk, but my God is it worth it.

[@TigerLily727]

My Venus in Scorpio also conjuncts my Pluto (in my 2nd house) and is opposed my Moon. I can relate, it's tough.

[@iamyou3080]

I do the same thing. Every year I watch this.

[@tanisrose3330]

​@@iamyou3080 Me, too. I've got moon in taurus 5h and pluto in scorpio 11h and I feel like I've been slowly healing over time.

[@smokesparkles777]

Good for you! 🙏🏼⭐️

[@adebowaleadesuyi1347]

Dude. Youe are intense and fuckin amazing. I literally grab pop corn, turn off the lights and watch your videos like a Miramax movie.

[@plutonianchild_4702]

Well, moon in Taurus opposite pluto in Scorpio, let's say that my entire life has been very emotional and intense, and every single thing you said in this vid was very, VERY accurate

[@plutonianchild_4702]

oh yeah forgot to mention, pluto in scorpio conjuncts my venus in scorpio in 8th house, i've never had a single mentally/emotionally/physicaly stable relationship in my life lol

[@rmichelle1996]

Same aspect!!!

[@kellyayala6582]

Same aspect 😔

[@kieraasmith5299]

Same hereee

[@寝坊太郎-h5j]

Same here. 🙈

[@dominique4432]

Pluto things we've experienced that leave a scar. You can't avoid your depths your truths your shadows your pain. Acceptance. You will be enlightened. You will face your fears. You will face yourself. Face your strength, face your power. Face how capable you are. Face your responsibilities. Set boundaries. You are in control

[@deniseserah8649]

Sheesh, I have sun opposition Pluto as well as moon opposition Pluto . And honestly everything you said dead on. I literally dream and day dream of the possibilities of how someone can break my heart or hurt me like it’s a movie . And because of the sun aspect I always evolve and transform that pain by doing drastic things , like changing my hair , moving, changing my phone number , isolating myself for months at a time . It’s the weirdest thing. I literally break my own heart . 🤷🏾‍♀️. And ive been known to be a soul digger Amongst my peers , it’s gotten me in a lot of trouble at times because I’m constantly triggering people , and on the other end I’ve helped people figure out aspects of themselves . 50/50 usually goes with either . Now listening to this .. I have more clarity .. and hopefully be able to stop the madness and deflecting and face my own shit 🙏🏾

[@Valeria-gi4jm]

Denise Serah dude it’s crazy how I can relate to everything you just said I also have my sun opposite Pluto and moon, mercury, venus all opposing Pluto as well

[@gigiemma3192]

Wow this is so scary.. I have my Moon opposite my pluto in tight orb and the thing you said about daydreaming about someone breaking your heart like it's a movie.. I do that exact same thing. It's like I glamorise it in my head or something. It feels good to feel it if that makes sense. I always thought it was because of my Neptune and Pisces placements but this all makes so much more sense.

[@SnoozeTheRecluse]

It seems so simple when you explain it. To expose my feelings...that's the solution. So simple, but so hard.

[@MichelleBlanca]

It’s the hardest thing ever.

[@isabelaalmeida24]

Wow, you've actually made me cry. This was truly, truly amazing. Lack of emotional connection has always been a struggle for me and for the other ppl I share this life with. And honestly, before this vid, I used to think that this aspect was this severe curse, but only now I'm able to see it's actually a real blessing. Now, thanks to you, my healing process is about to begin much sooner than I think. ❤

[@jody6233]

Ditto, i'm the same and I agree. It seems to make for a lonely life, always on the outside looking in!

[@rosemary_of_aragon]

Wow, I am blown away. I really feel this opposition on the daily. I'm guilty of not showing and expressing my true feelings to partners because I can not risk being vulnerable. Thank you so much, Jewel!! Edit: my emotions are my strength and I feel alive after a good scream and cry. I feel more connected to this Earth. I see the error of our ways. People lack true compassion and understanding for all walks of life: animals, children, insects, parents, veterans, rape victims, basically innocent people that feel they could never open up authentically. I felt fear for the right people in my life. I was scared of realizing that they truly do love me amd want to see me happy. I need to scream and feel those dark demons. These demons gave me strength to appreciate the light and beauty in this world. I love this planet. It is our home but many people are so seperated from it. I gave trust to the wrong people and suffer from ptsd. But meditation has allowed me to view my spiritual potential. I am the voice for those whos voices are ignored. Because I felt like an out sider looking in. I lost my ego. It left but a stronger sense of duty for those in need emerged. I am only trying to strengthen my third eye and I only hope that it grows stronger.

[@cc.99-b5v]

Yep yep yep! I feel all this sister ❤

[@cc.99-b5v]

A Virgo thing 😉

[@shellyjakes7065]

How many very attractive people have this aspect?? Your Pluto creates a smoldering attractiveness about your persona....but who you attract scares you.... AHHHHH

[@BoondocksRuckus]

shelly jakes lmao damn, true

[@banditboybanks5959]

Guilty

[@syntaxconduit4165]

The struggle is real lol.

[@charchar7897]

Shelly Jake's, so true. I attract the weirdest people. I'm not even dating anymore, I'm over it. I've done my inner work, and I love me without other people.

[@shellyjakes7065]

char char I have observed "social distancing" from people waaaay before the Corona Virus existed.

[@Imthebiggestbird124]

This is INSANE! The humiliation part at the end. “Exposure is particularly humiliating to those with this aspect”. If this isn’t the truth. In 2016 I met my boyfriend who I am still currently with. I’m a Scorpio sun, Mars, Mercury, Pluto in 6h, Leo moon 3h, Gemini rising. My boyfriend is a virgo sun, Mercury, Mars 10h, sag moon, Scorpio rising. Let me tell you, he’s made me face & admit some of the most HUMILIATING parts of myself, that I would totally deny to anybody else. He just knew what button to push, exactly what words to say, to make me get down to my lowest point. Humiliated isn’t even the word, something even worse than humiliated. I hate being humiliated. I have the moon square pluto transit. We are still together & our relationship is a lot better now that i went through some major healing. But everything you said is facts! At least on my behalf!

[@darkviolet69]

oh my you really hit the nail on the head with this one. I have this aspect. "To be alive is to be burning".

[@shannonleifer6439]

Sounds very similar to the Avoidant Attachment Style

[@st88ify]

You're my favourite astrologer on KZbin. It's really helping me move on from a guy that I had so many illusions about.

[@JewelMayberry]

+Kaushalya Tissera Keep moving on!

[@dnabart]

Excellent video on projection, healing and releasing trauma and how humility brings peace and equanamity, respect in relationships. really good stuff Jewel you know your subject matter

[@Willypineapple]

Glad I learned how to deal with this aspect and many others like this even before knowing about them. Life's like an onion, peel it! Then grow your own layers as you wish. All emotions and sensations of the human spectrum really are a blessing and should always be welcomed. I even named a painting after this aspect. Anyways, great interpretation :)

[@user-mq2bj6dk2q]

I have this opposition within my 6 and 12 house axis and it's funny because I always want to think it's not there. I was just thinking about how I've been treated at work before and how i treat people now. The idea that i allowed someone to influence the way I treat other people and cause me to have these power struggles at work is just scary to me. You have really opened my eyes and I will seek to learn to explore this pain even deeper.

[@soulspark3970]

"you have to face the humiliation from realising that you... are weak" Nice... very nice... I can relate to this a lot... especially the part where I try to push others to create a crisis where I have no other choice than to face the situation. I really dare them to keep pressing me and it's true that when i complain about a very personal issue, i almost puke it out like you said in an almost uncontrollable way, like a venom. Now I just gotta wait patiently for Moon opposite Saturn too as that seems to be a hard aspect too I believe ?! XD

[@soulspark3970]

Well lucky you, hahaha, I wish I could have that level of confidence more often ;-)

[@JDWood-oz1yo]

I have this aspect. and many that make me the warrior I am. But this is TRUTH. Dark night of the soul

[@rainieedayz8216]

I've got Saturn and pluto opposite my moon too x

[@annaanna8079]

What cab you advice on reconnecting with a moon - Pluto opposite person? We were getting close, now he's Running for me (But blushing at the same time) I dont know What would be best to communicatie with HIM...

[@HopeGraceTransformation]

This video is absolutely beautiful.

[@missmosh]

Wow Jewel! This is one of, if not the best, videos you have ever done! Thank you so much 💛

[@astrologamarinamoura]

My mother has this aspect and all very true. Not an easy person and the closest you are to her, the more she bites. She is such a bitter person and she only sees her own problems, her own pain. With her, I needed to learn to defend myself and put some boundaries between us. While I was growing up, she was sweet but as soon I started showing my own personality, world view.... she started seeing me as an enemy. It does not help that we became very different people, I am a moon in saggitarius, I don't tend to ressent ou keep enemys, I forget offenses very quickly and I prefer the better side of things. She is the total opposite of that. She has a lot of scorpio and pluto stuff in her natal chart too. I hope by learning more about her aspects I can fix a little bit of what is broken between us.

[@aml8760]

You can't. It's not yours to fix...

[@brookem0621]

i just (re)realised about having this aspect at the right time ... thank you soo so much. this was the missing piece. pluto is currently conjunct my northnode 29degrees atm, opposing my chiron (square the nodes shifting) ... I know i'm on the precipice of soul retrieval, and that my self-worth and how i give power to others to dictate how i felt must be at the root of it, based on what has been happening in my life at the moment, now it's to actually start conceiving how to expose myself , properly. 🙏💌

[@kavannahlight5378]

Amazing information, Jewel. I especially appreciate how you counterpoint the difficult aspects with the results of doing the difficult shadow work and potential spiritual mastery as the reward. Right on point!

[@Bstrang104]

This is my boyfriend to a T. You put everything so perfectly and clearly, and it is soooo helpful. Thank you!!

[@Sarah-vx6yo]

slow clap. Moon Pluto opposition exact degrees. thank you for the encouragement. I needed this video :) gladly subscribed.

[@elenibou.1297]

my moon in taurus is opposite pluto in scorpio. years of psychoanalysis proved less enlightening than this video. thank you for the dense and meaningful material you shared with us.

[@ThePlutoniian]

I really... Teared up because this resonated.

[@forangelests]

you are spot on. i cannot process pain whatsoever, i’ll act on it before i say something about it. & if i don’t do ANYTHING, that’s when everything go down hill.

[@forangelests]

i won’t tell no one my feelings are hurt, i cannot allow anyone one to get me to open up. i feel weak sometimes but if i do open up, i cling onto people lol. you're not gonna cause me great pain. also once i see you have access to my emotions, i do think of the worse possible way of me leaving you alone and pushing you away.

[@jonathanjames9435]

I have moon in Aries opposite Pluto in Scorpio- humiliation, abuse, abandonment, rejection, disrespect, been used - experienced them all and more. I would say I invest myself fully into people I connect to but that’s how I’ve gotten hurt, only recently have a pulled back and avoided nearly all people because I couldn’t handle any more pain and in that time I’ve done a lot of inner healing, soul searching and gained awareness of myself. I definitely struggle with not k owing if I’m feeling my own pain or if I’m empathicly feeling others. I’ve also recently realised I’m actually more hurt over the fact someone caused me to feel pain rather than what they actually did to me. I’ve found it very hard to forgive and let go of a lot of traumas. The pain has made me a lot stronger and wiser but I still avoid it at all costs

[@MissTweenn]

I was talking to a guy on the phone who had this placement. I'm surprised he even told me about his horrible childhood especially to someone who is still mysterious and not very close to him until i checked that night moon was transitioning in cancer. I would try to be positive about it and say "Those experiences made you who you are now" and he would get even more angry that I even said that and lashed out saying "No it wasn't, it was shit and complete shit." I figured after I would just listen, and after he sounded kind of teary told me he really wished that I could be there that night with him

[@hannahrempel]

I wish I could describe to you what this video has done for me… your gift is indescribable. I feel like I can face who I am because of the way you’ve exposed me to myself. Thank you 🤍

[@Bthething]

So touching 💜 this also describes the experience I've recently had with transiting pluto opposite my natal moon (I have a pluto moon square natally.) The most amazing liberation through facing what I was hiding from, only to see that the fear and power I gave others to hurt me, was just that....power I was giving others. The fear of things that once rationally examined, were never really going to happen. "It was a joke," in the sense that the fears didn't even make sense, in Reality. Only in the mixed up subconscious. I loved this, Jewel, thank you 💜

[@alchemist8064]

Oh my god I sobbed my eyes out watching this video. Ive never heard this aspect interpreted this way. Its so incredibly accurate. So true that it hurts so bad. I have this aspect. Thank you so much Jewel. Youve helped to peel back a layer to how I operate in this aspect. I hope that I can solve this puzzle. The more that i deconstruct myself the more that I see. Sometimes the beauty is too much to handle. I cannot contain it. I surrender.

[@JynCamille]

THANK YOU. This literally made me cry. I had to watch this 3x just today to process it thoroughly heart, mind and soul.

[@jaymesEo6]

Super cool Jewel! I have this aspect and have never heard it explained.

[@sinaloalusarr]

Very strikingly did I realize how right everything you said is in this video about me Jewel; thank you for your work and drive in this knowledge you provide. It was actually emotional to hear this video

[@Nyuffykah]

I am weeping now like i am weeping when i am making a real connection to someone once in a blue moon. Thank you for reminding me why am i here

[@roxannelucky]

I have this aspect natally. This was so helpful!!! Many thanks, Jewel!

[@BaritoneRicardo]

Thank you very, very much! Both Pluto and Saturn are opposite my moon. You've given me hope!

[@TarotTruthsbyYemi]

Ricardo Rivera mine as well

[@rubyrageous9987]

This is really insightful, I know a lot of Moon opp Pluto people and they are all so intense and interesting! Could you PLEASE do a video on natal Venus opp Chiron?? I find it so difficult to find information of any kind on that one.

[@jackvenator2020]

I sent this to two women I know who have this. Fantastic. You nailed it!

[@holliemarie7876]

Wow Jewel that was amazing, thank you.

[@vieuxcarre1313]

I just found your page this morning and like others have said this is the most in depth information I've ever come across about this placement but also felt like you were speaking directly to my soul. I learned about my Libra moon opposing Libra Pluto (in my fourth house). I am horrible at verbally attacking people and like you say claiming that I'm just being real but you're right its more hurtful than real.

[@WalkingMiracleMe]

My Soul may have asked for this Challenging energetic, humiliating sentence in Life! How do others cope with this energetic aspect? I am TIRED of this aspect, I am 42 years old now and Single. One life coach told me I am 'too emotional' and he finds it too challenging to work with me. SUPER Upsetting!

[@PeachyKins]

That's a bad life coach!!! Wow. Very bad karma for them. I'm here bc I keep meeting men with harsh moon Pluto aspects. To the point where I have decided never again. Because it's VERY PAINFUL FOR ME to be with them. (1.) They are self-destructive and sabotage the relationship with vile behavior no one deserves. (2.) They try to force a persona on me, as in, they NEED ME TO BE a certain "person" in order to justify their behavior. Like, provoke me to react... but, I'm not that person. ~~~~ The stuff they accuse me of is sooo out there. And it has proven to never even been about me, it's total projection. I'm one to self-reflect and appreciate criticism, to be my best self, but the stuff they say has absolutely NOTHING to do with me, it's always shocking and foreign. I know it's not me. ~~~~ Soooo, it's pretty disturbing. Anyway, idk why I keep finding these people. My parents projected all their shame on me as a child, so it's probably that. But yeah, I'm not a mirror, they sell those at target. My point is, maybe ppl with this opposition are catalysts for healing & enlightenment, like she said. But it's a choice who benefits. These ppl who have mismanaged their own energy bc it was harmful to me, are all older than me (so my Pluto isn't involved with their moon) Anyway I benefited from it. They haven't.

[@SMinerva22]

So deep and spot on.....i have pluto in my 1st in scorpio, opposite moon and both square saturn in my 4th. Why i chose this is finally all coming together now. ❤

[@reginacalado5531]

Accurate in many aspects. Thank you :) I have this aspect on my chart. Taurus moon conjunct fixed star algol in 8th house opposing Scorpio Pluto

[@JAWDIGGA]

I've got an 8th House Aries Moon (19 degrees) opposing Pluto (16 Libra)... I appreciate the insight since I'm also currently enduring the square from transiting Pluto in Capricorn... I'm definitely the 'lone wolf' type, and very intense. I tend to be very confrontational. God of War (Mars/Aries) opposing the Lord of the Underworld. It's not easy to channel.

[@MilaniHoward20]

This was A M A Z I N G Jewel....thank you....sooo much.

[@A...LA...LA...A]

I love listening to you, Jewel. The insight and drama you bring is incredible once you get going! I have this placement, 9th house Taurus moon and 3rd house Scorpio Pluto... I feel like the master of leaving them in limbo out of fear of my premonitions... I honestly try to be vulnerable and just let things play out to counteract the illusions of society (never works). I feel alone often, until I'm able to draw vulnerability out of another person, which isn't very difficult for me. It's like being a majestic dragon that no one can catch but wishes to possess or destroy, because of the majestic nature I bring lol. You are the best, and you know exactly what you're doing! I realize that relationships with me can not survive if they are superficial. I also have N node in 6th house Pisces and S node in Virgo 12th house. There is something really spiritual going on here, at times it's a bit dark and scary but illuminating.

[@aprilllc3622]

Thank you so much you really opened understanding of why I do this. Literally in tears because you explained what I’ve been missing all my life in relationships.

[@sarahpage6320]

Oh shit, this is so true..! Your understanding and articulation of astrology is the best, thank you so much. Your insights have helped me hugely.

[@cynergyyy]

Wowwwww Jewel you are so blessed and gifted 💟🙏 Every SINGLE WORD resonated with me! I have Pluto opposite my Moon in Gemini ♊️

[@adventurestar7777]

Wow, every natal aspect I have that I watch your videos for are so accurate and give tremendous insight...this video gave me goosebumps, so enlightening and empowering Thank you 💖

[@Sun.powder]

I have wondered about this aspect for years this totally nails it , and I am studying nondualsim which is the only thing that helps see that the pain is an illusion because it could kill me otherwise ,this video sums it up perfectly

[@andreac647]

This was another very inspiring video, thank you. I have been going through this by transit for the past years (I have the square in my natal chart) and it's true what you are saying about humility and that feeling through the humiliation experience is the key to real freedom. I needed almost 40 years to realise this but still, even though I see this clearly, a big part of me would rather die than feel the humiliation again. Pluto is dragging me into these situations daily almost, where I could just surrender and let it happen but I resist and fight and suffer, rather than just let it happen. A part of me feels that I cannot take this anymore, another part still has the energy to fight and because of the huge fear it would rather kill me than surrender...

[@ayaaly2866]

Very helpful can't thank you enough really❤️ I know now why I've never seen a good things about being in love with someone I always see them as a potential enemies

[@janflour7178]

Moon in Aries, opposite Pluto in Libra ... The Scorpio full Moon brought me to this video ... there's no escaping it now. Thank you, Jewel. It hurt in exactly the right way 😉

[@jessicajoerndt428]

I have this aspect and when I first started listening to this video, I didn’t get it. Because truthfully, and honestly, throughout my 20s (I started therapy at 21) I have become really good at expressing my emotions and seeking vulnerability with others. I also study acting which REALLY broke through that emotional wall. But the same time, there is still that part of me that insists on giving other people that I’m close to my intense feelings and emotions, where I become aggressively deep, making them bring out their pain and thinking that it’s helping me avoid mine. I most definitely have a lot of this aspect still in me, although it’s less and less intense overtime. There is definitely a deep discomfort and almost anger still slightly present in me, that I have weakness. And that I have to show that weakness in relationships in order to create intimacy and learn to be comfortable with intimacy. It’s crazy how subconscious some of this stuff is. This aspect really shows me my relationship issues more clearly than any other aspect in my chart. I feel insecurity and guilt around my emotional intensity that I project onto others.. This points to my deepest wounds with both of my parents. although I always believed that my dad gave me the most trauma, I never would’ve thought that my mom who was a loving and nurturing parent, could contribute to this, but now I see it very clearly. I was over nurtured, controlled, and not fully emotionally supported. There’s still a lot about this aspect I need to learn within me, I’m so grateful for these videos.

[@MichelleBlanca]

Wow. I resonate so much with everything you said.

[@skyflower2498]

Thank You for this Jewel - as always - Anouk

[@goldenaura949]

I have this aspect. Moon in Aries oppose Pluto in Libra.

[@a18sayavedra]

Golden Aura same here. The struggle is real.😭

[@jody6233]

me too! 13 degrees!

[@jody6233]

I keep watching this video, but still trying to figure out how to “meet the pain”.

[@syntaxconduit4165]

Me too!

[@annaanna8079]

Can anyone advice me Whats the right step or even the "protocol" is for connecting to these people?

[@olakamoku]

Wow. Pluto in first in Virgo opposite moon in Pisces. The info you share in this vid is so eye opening for me. I'm going to have to really integrate this!! Thank you!!

[@cc.99-b5v]

Beautiful beautiful beautiful explanation ❤✨

[@staceydalyn2947]

I have this aspect, moon opposing Pluto but I don't relate that much to this video. I am very honest and open with my feelings. I have no problem developing close relationships. I'm a water sign so I have no problem crying if I need to. Hmm. Perhaps it's subconscious? Or my other planets affect me more positively?

[@mariamxositashvili2795]

i think this is best video i ever seeen in my life ( sorry i dont know english very good) this video is so true! and really more then one year i am watching this.. i think it will change a lot of peoples life... and i hope you will make one more video about this aspect. it will be so so good for us 😔🥰 you are very strong, very good person and perfect astrologist. 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺

[@savscostumeshop]

wow! my last relationship in a nutshell/the shifts i'm working through currently. thank you for your insight. it's true, my life has gotten SO much easier since i've allowed myself to feel my feelings

[@ayeshaasma5646]

Ooh - how interesting! I learned the lesson that if people are close to you they can betray you and the conflict between being close and being vulnerable from a (now former) bff with whom I had composite moon in the 7th opposite pluto in the 1st. It's interesting to me how the composite and natal can be alike in this way. After I had confided something to her and she analysed and judged and criticised and tried to control me rather than empathised I stopped letting her in emotionally which she found really frustrating so she used all the things I had confided in her over the years to try to get a reaction and was spewing rage and psycho-analysis at me which I most definitely had not asked for, I suppose to try and make me open up. Some of what she said was startlingly accurate but it felt hurtful to me, and in the end I walked out of the relationship - I didn't want all my inner feelings exposed to her analysing or my life under her control! Too much of a threat! I generally felt that whatever I had, including relationships, she wanted to copy from me and have for herself, despite all the things and relationships of her own she also had. Over time it felt very unsafe emotionally. None of my personal life was off limits to her as far as she was concerned - she did not respect my boundaries. She accused me of being jealous of her, which I suppose I was occasionally but not all the times she accused me of it. Natally I have moon trine pluto. My friend also has natal moon trine pluto but her moon sign is trine mine. Not an opposition but she and I both have these same vulnerabilities. I have Pluto in the 1st house so I am a bit plutonic. She has libra ascendant with sun in the 8th so she is plutonic too. Probably we also have composite pluto conjunct the ascendant. We were both experiencing transiting Pluto inconjunct our natal suns at the time of our break up so there is more to it than just one aspect.

[@nademaksimova5489]

This video is so insightfull if one tries to understand the underlying dynamics of the soul. I wanted to share here two different examples of how this aspect can manifest. I have Pluto in my 1st house in ♏ in wide opposition to the moon in 7th ♉ (8° difference). Whole my emotional life was painted with relationships that were causing me a great amount of pain to which I was strongly attached. Somehow it seems it was the pain that was needed. I was always showing my emotions even agressivly in order to continue with some unhealthy relationships, always ready do expose myself. I have sun in ♋ and I am ♎ rising so these had surely contributed to my willingness to get myself deeply involved in relationships. However it was not until my late 20s around my Saturn return, that I started to deal with that pain in the right way. To not just feeling it and getting attached to it, but to also work with it to get better understanding of my persona. It was some kind of revelation when I accept it as something that was coming from within myself. I aknowledged I was the one who was provoking certain behaviours in the partners because I subconsciously needed the afrontation with myself. So, it was only after I embraced the pain and everything connected to it within myself that I experienced a whole new world in the relationship. This is getting so long.. :/

[@nademaksimova5489]

On the other hand, there is a girlfriend of mine, she has Pluto in her 4th ♏ opposing widely her 11th house moon in ♉. She is ♌ rising and has retrograde Saturn conjunct the cusp of the 7th. She is very much as described in the video. She gets involved with really nice people everything goes more than well and then she simply disappears from the person's life leaving a mess and then suffering because of that. The inability to step up and confront herself is maybe related to her ♋ Sun in 12th. Again around her Saturn return she started a very hard Plutonian relationship which hopefully will confront herself with the deepest issues of her soul. Again, so thankful for you work Jewel! Blessings

[@daisyg8384]

So beautiful... Thank you Jewel! A deep message, accompanied by a little nod of the universe with 222 comments. I'm not a Moon opp. Pluto but my Moon is opposite to my Jupiter and my Ascendant both in scorpio, and my Pluto in scorpio is in my 1st house. Don't know if it can be linked, but I felt really concerned by all that you talked about. And some months ago, I probably would have felt very emotional listening to that, but right now, I just feel in peace and happy, because I think I've just gone through all these emotions of fear and shame, and after a long period of suffering, having felt like almost dying of pain, I can feel I'm starting to touch this enlightenment of which you touched on. 🙏🌷

[@safehaven8802]

And you come to realize that it was never ever anything to fear!!

[@sjr1179]

JEWEL THIS WAS AMAZING. absolutely beautifully put

[@salomeml6161]

I have this aspect (exact) with pluto in the 11th, was bullied at 4 at school, physically abused to a point of stopping to breathe one day. And I saw it, this « nothingness », the inability to do this simple thing, breathing, suddenly everything felt silent and I felt annihilated, like I was disappearing. Thank you for your beautiful words 🙏

[@nmarcus7233]

Always come by your description of aspects because you get it down to the point. Please do one for Sun opposite Pluto 🙏🏾.

[@stacycastilllo]

The part about being honest and becoming humiliated..... holy shit. I dont know if i can face that. I have been having two relationships where i break up with one suddenly and then go back to the other and back and forth. Neither of them know but neither of them really ask me. However its causing such a pull within myself of not knowing who or what or when to let go. I start feeling so much anxiety and emotion at the thought of either of them being gone for good. Yet when i think about if they knew about what was happening theyd both be gone from me and that hurts even more. Im also viciously honest with both of them about their own issues and i hear myself and i dont like it. I think what needs to be done is obvious but pluto and my moon are fighting each other on it daily. I have this in scorpio and taurus. Also have venus conj scorpio

[@jbspradling]

Wow, this is sooooo true. Thank you for this. It really clarified a lot for me.

[@animatedsteps7109]

my natal moon in conjuction with venus in taurus are in opposition with my pluto in scorpio. this is all so true. i hate shallow people and apparent injustice unfolding in front of my eyes. hence, my love life is a proper disaster. however, i prefer being alone than around morons or bitches.... oh my, oh my....acting out again lol. i love your videos! thanx!

[@madamedessert9608]

please never ever delete this video. Please youtube, never ever delete yourself. Oh, I actualy can download it

[@madamedessert9608]

oh no its not free. ok jewel, never delete it.! moon/pluto speaking. this is serious.

[@JewelMayberry]

I’ll keep it up. And if it ever goes away you can find it on my website in the future.

[@madamedessert9608]

@@JewelMayberry much love!!!!

[@xuan5469]

I do not have this natally (I have Moon Trine Pluto), but I have been having this transit occur last year, and it will occur again this year and for the next 3 years. I find this hitting home in ways that I've been struggling to grasp for the past couple years. Thank you.

[@JewelMayberry]

I have the transiting square upon me now. I get it, too.

[@lew.parker]

I have 12th house Moon opposite Pluto... I recognise this house placement probably makes the whole thing even more difficult! but I'm willing to try and understand more!

[@chremma727]

This gave me goosebumps.

[@geminim8]

My bf's brother has taurus moon and he's mostly earth in his chart while my bf is mostly water. My bf feels like he is way more emotional than his brother and when I see taurus moon I tend to agree. they are waaaay more lucky in terms of not being emotionally overwhelmed like us water dominated people (me with scorpio moon especially) but I saw he has moon opposite pluto and I thought "ohhh so he does feel intensely and is closing himself off to overcompensate"..... because he also has chiron conjunct venus. My bf is way more heart on his sleeve with emotional expression and feels so deeply in comparison, but his brother really just is trying so hard /not/ to feel the overwhelm I think. I can understand wishing to avoid that overwhelm of emotion as a scorpio moon.

[@chocomilk4]

A guy I was interested in has this aspect and I have an exact moon/pluto conjunction. It was interesting seeing him puking his pain at me while I was very able to deal with it and soothe him. He kept pushing me away everytime we got closer, I tried to stay calm, now he's gone, oh well.....pushed me right back into my own pluto mess.

[@v15ualk3ys]

Thank you for this video. It is very informative and helpful, especially when it comes to dealing with my own issues and is really an eye-opener. I have Moon opposite Pluto at a one minute orb, the strongest aspect in my chart with my Moon in the 8th house. The only thing I can say is that I haven't exploded on people with my issues; I definitely have felt urges to many times but instead I keep it within myself. Sometimes I have regretted not emotionally opening myself up in such a way, but seeing this video helps me reassure that such is not to be regretted.

[@kdws3]

Couldn't believe my eyes!!! You rock Jewel!

[@iamyou3080]

I have a T square, Taurus moon opposite Scorpio Pluto squaring Aquarius Saturn. They’re all in fixed houses (2,8,5)

[@safehaven8802]

Sooooooooooooooo true!!! I have experienced that depth this past year.. I dared it and it came!! Ha!! I freakin love it because now I do feel again and the feeling is exciting

[@urbansanctuary4899]

To all of you who understand this, please help me understand this aspect!! I feel that I am a very enlightened soul who can understand the intricate workings of my psyche. But this particular aspect is a very painful blind spot for me. I dedicate my life to healing others, but so often I am blindsided by the most painful betrayals by the very people I cautiously allow past my walls. My response is the most intense raw lashing out, which only causes a greater level of rejection. I feel justified in my highly volatile reaction to the betrayal when it happens. This pattern is ongoing in my life, I'm now terrified to trust anyone. What am not seeing? What is at the root of this pain, this rage that festers in me and explodes in these times. What is it that keeps this unhealthy pattern going? I've been delving for years into this aspect and can't figure it out in order to heal it. How can I attach to it when I can't seem to understand where it comes from.

[@MissDrea14_]

Urban Sanctuary It’s your insecurities! I just had a spiritual awakening where I realized that the people I love were not out to get me like I believed, but that I was reacting to them because they were pushing my insecurity buttons. The insecurities are caused by the pain you went through that you never felt or faced. So every time someone is pushing the buttons, they are making you aware of the pain you are trying not to feel. The answer is to go back there, feel it and get the lessons out of the experience. This is what I’ve been doing and I’ve gained so much knowledge and peace in one week than I’ve ever felt in my whole life! Try it, it works!

[@ohsoran1099]

@@MissDrea14_ this is really insightful and makes sense. but how do i go back and feel it? and get the lessons? when its many many years ago?

[@mstwilight1612]

Your hatred towards your mother. Moon opposed Pluto. You were mistreated by her. That’s the root of your pain.

[@sophiegautron2838]

Thank you for this really profond and deep video. The only problem is that I am not weak ( sun, mars and pluto conjunct in scorpio) maybee I do not see and I don’t want to admit who I am really ... such a fatal placement to have on a natal chart.... thank you for your advice anyway.

[@LenaCaggiano]

you are the best!

[@tamasamoa1931]

Wow thank you for your wisdom I def resonated with your explanation.

[@JamarlThomas]

Virgo Sun, Virgo Asc, Aries Moon in 8th conjunct South Node opposite Pluto. The first time I watched I thought - I'm perfectly open. I haven't the slightest clue what this woman is talking about. In retrospect, she's jarringly right on some of this. The issue isn't power with my placement. I am pathologically independent - to the point where even the appearance of need, weakness, dependence are deeply humiliating and assiduously avoided in exposing. Something as simple as saying, "I love you" still requires a push. I had a mini-stroke one night, losing all eye sight in my right eye. My wife comes downstairs - I tell her I've lost my eyesight and that I was going to the ER. I drove myself, not being able to ask her for help. This obviously can create unfortunate situations as requiring help is endemic to the human experience. This is...complicated by a childhood and young adulthood full of medical emergencies and traumas. On the positive, irrepressibility is a virtue. Not to mention, much of emotional stuff I've either grown to ignore or at least know it's there. No power issues insofar as control is not exerted against me. The need to control my decision space is rather extreme though and ferociously defended...even from reality itself. Something else that is complicated with medical limitations over life. Limitation is not handled well or gracefully but with age far better managed. More or less. From the stand point of other people, I fully expect others to insist on the same right to choice and abhor people doing something they don't want to do, for my interest. This creates a deep need to understand people real motives to avoid presenting them with such a situation and blocking their action if I believe such is taking place. What people say matters less as people can say anything and do so far all sorts of reasons. It is imperative to know what's true. What are the incentives built into a context and how does it support or detract from what's being said. People believe I'm just being attentive to their wants. This is less about their wants and more about a deep seeded means of ensuring they know they're not needed. This I have not outgrown.

[@jujuaroha5822]

Hearing this was intense 😬 but so accurate

[@pluto_rising]

Incredible interpretation!!!

[@cc.99-b5v]

I also absolutely see this as it working through Synastry, in specific relation to the house we are learning about transmutation and transformation of (hidden complex illness and accidents that arise with regards to the themes of the houses….for sure, these are the shocks of the reality that the Square Threatened you with if you don’t change. Face to Face with our Inner Truth ❤ and the Darkest Sides of our psyche that needs expulsion, to respect what is the most important thing if we are avoiding thru distractions

[@aashidhaniya]

well thank you for walking me through it

[@pugninja7037]

Made me cry ..a guy who I thought so much of .. said I was so hateful , so thinking I was owed , egotistical. And tho he has his moon , asc, sun conjunctions with Pluto I saw projection from him but something told me he was right as well.. the mirror of my words..

[@amandagraves3024]

My moon is completely isolated on the descendant 6th house (only planet on the Western side and opposite Pluto ( on ascendant) so it makes this even worse. I just can't even force myself to even meet people. But I love uncovering the truth. I am definitely awakening. I see pain everywhere in the world it's rough, but at the same time I feel extra special why? I'm not even special in any type of way. I'm really good at not letting anyone into my inner world because i have an intense inner world that would be way too much for others to understand. Thanks so much 🙏💟

[@ogbrucelee3945]

I have moon in the 6th as well opposite Pluto. You are special you have to believe that for yourself. For me I know some of my trauma come from my parents I felt like didn't believe in me and told me I would be a failure in life but I believe it was meant to make me go harder

[@LeaguesBeneathUs]

My opposition is exact. Moon in taurus opposite pluto in scorpio.

[@catwoman7102]

I experienced this with a guy I dated. It was obvious he was scared of humiliation even in the workplace… over mediocre things which don’t matter

[@shanny7433]

Empath here finally divorcing someone with this placement and moon opposite Uranus. My heart is heavy, I feel so torn but my emotional needs have went unmet for years. I'm tired..💔