Synastry Aspects- Pluto conjunct partner's ascendant

What it is like to have one person's Pluto conjunct to the ascendant of another person.
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[@flightharbinger7218]

Ok, I am the AC. She is the Pluto... but it is actually me that feels the obsession and attraction. Perhaps she does, but she’s in a relationship, so she doesn’t admit it if she does. I’ve never met her IRL, but I feel like I can’t breath, because I want her so bad. Her Venus is also on my Saturn, and her moon is conj. Her Pluto, conj. my AC / Mars. Her mars is within orb of my Pluto, and her Juno is conjunct my Nept. Holy shit I’m just sinking in obsession, every second of the day I can’t stop thinking of her.

[@thatMMFrmThrYonder]

This sounds agonizing to deal with though. Are you guys together today or did you move on?

[@dvotii]

"Virgo on the ascendant; too much information too soon!" 😂 lol loved the information so far! Thanks! Helped a lot :)

[@beatricefabian-avalos1438]

His ascendant is in Scorpio and my Pluto is in Scorpio. Our connection is very intense and deep. We’ve both been through a lot together and though our individual journey so we have a deep bond and understanding. I love it and appreciate it.

[@Sanctuarywithin514]

I'm in the same situation. My Pluto is in Scorpio and his ascendant is Scorpio.

[@atpskol1]

I am very curious. My TF has this with me. I have signicant Scorpio placements and aspects which make me highly Plutonic. She is not overly Plutonic. I am the Asc person and she is the Pluto in Scorpio. How do you show your love to your person? Are you very restrictive and not showing love to them? It seems like a one sided obsession for the Asc person. Do you as the Pluto person feel a strong obsession?

[@beatricefabian-avalos1438]

@@atpskol1 as the Plutonian expression, I don’t obsess but I show my love through devotion. He does obsess, but I’m comfortable with it and I’m devoted to him and only him. Hopefully that answers it a little.

[@natgeox]

@@atpskol1 Heyy, I have this with a potential partner, my Pluto in Scorpio conjunct his Ascendant in Scorpio. He has significant Scorpio placements (asc. sun, mercury, Saturn and Pluto) I also have my Saturn and Pluto in Scorpio but I also have Pluto natal aspects (Mars Square Pluto, Sun Square Pluto, Venus Trine Pluto, Neptune Trine Pluto, Pluto oppose Lilith, Moon quintile Pluto). He has 3 Pluto aspects in his natal as well. Our synastry is quite Pluto aspected too (my Pluto conjunct his asc., my Mars Square his Pluto, my Venus Trine his Pluto, my Pluto Opposite his Ascendant). My Venus also sits in his 8th house. I'm a lot of Leo in my birth chart and Venus in Gemini so I may show love differently than your TF, but I'm very equipped and used to Plutonic relationships, so, the Scorpios unconscious push/pull behaviour can at times be confusing and I forget about it for a hot second but I know it well and I also have a similar way of functioning. The MAIN reason for this I believe, for both people, is fear of vulnerability, and even though it's completely mutual (the love/attraction/physical chemistry), both parties STILL feel the fear of being the one who's more open, giving, demonstrative or "weak", even though this is not the innate desire. The innate desire is to merge 100percent together without fear or holding back. I'm not sure the chart of the TF you're with but that also affects things a lot how they interact with people/potential partners etc. Otherwise my Pluto conjuncting his Ascendant alone...I think his fascination was at first sight and mine grew eventually but quite quickly to meet his. It's like a mirror now and even though we have completely different styles of communication I believe we're mature enough to recognise that and adapt (more difficult for me as my Venus in Gemini wants to connect intellectually while we're apart/electronically and it's not as easy for him as it is in person). I show my love when I feel brave and comfortable without holding back, then I might feel fear and pull away, then come back intensely again and then pull back because I still have a doubt that it's not equally reciprocated even though it's made obvious but just not SHOWERED. But then my person is highly intense, quiet, maybe a bit shy and prefers to SHOW rather than say. Which is hard electronically. I think the "obsession" goes both ways, but that could be to do with all the other aspects.🤷‍♀ let me know when you read this and I'll delete it after. 😁🙈

[@mrs2blessed]

Will this work for a pluto libra in the 1st house, and the other person is aries ascendant

[@cosmikbreath]

I also see Pluto in someone's 1st house as the activator of power and control in the house person. I've been on both sides of the fence. It's interesting observation .

[@SmshAdms]

I'm the ascendant and have this synastry with a man who has been in love with me for about 12 years now. I couldn't handle the energy when I was younger so ran away from it, but nowadays I feel a natural, deep appreciation for his constancy. Funnily enough I never feel controlled by him, in fact I feel the more dominant person and that he would walk through fire for me if I asked him to. But I know he can't give me what I want romantic relationship wise, so I'm conscious of keeping it at loving friendship level. Love that soul :)

[@aysenuri2419]

It’s such an twisted to keep plutonic people on a leash. This is why Scorpios don’t trust people. It’s people like this who realize the value someone gives them and tries to use it not realizing that 12 years of obsession with you is 12 years of pain for them.

[@chocolateccm1493]

Same here, thx for sharing.

[@gigid9606]

My dad is the pluto, right on my ascendant (cancer rising). He passed a few months ago, and it was very complex and I felt he was punishing me/controlling me all the way to the end. I can go on and on about it. I want to change some things physically now to represent my new found freedom.

[@icieberry]

This person is not even a partner to me. She is just a friend and is so true, she tries to control everything I do! From my hair color to what I eat! Gosh, I had enough of her.

[@anthea1017]

I have this synastry aspect with my best friend/roommate by the way... Uh-oh... And yes, I really like her physical features I was attracted to her (not romantically) the moment I met her

[@yourobserver1893]

Finally this answered my question: "Why is he so obsessive of me?" In our synastry, he has Pluto in Sagittarius conjunct my Ascendant in Sagittarius. Most of his planets(more like a stellium) in his birth chart had conjunct his Pluto and all of those had conjunct my Ascendant thus I can totally feel his Plutonic obsession so watching this video gave me stress now that I started to fear him but thank you so much for the information because I was able to finally understand how much that person was so Plutonic on me.

[@journeyinspirit]

I expierenced the same think. He was very controlling and I left him after a week of "dating". I'd would always be physical but thank God sex wasn't involved. I felt so emotionally empty, but now I'm changed 😊

[@olivtrees8749]

Wtf are you guys talking about- literally almost everyone you know has pluto conjunct your ascendant because pluto moves so slowly.

[@journeyinspirit]

@@olivtrees8749 I think it depends if you pay attention. with friends it's alright but becoming lovers, it's a different story

[@kssgpv]

@@olivtrees8749 it's what each of them bring with their pluto.. as she said, he had a stellium conjunct his pluto, not everyone in her generation has that.

[@meriemmeriem9727]

@@olivtrees8749 no he will be obsessed too not a question of slowly or not

[@PostcardsOfLife]

This is so interesting and it's a brilliant idea to have this on YT. I have someone's Pluto on my ascendant and, my Pluto is conjunct her ascendant!

[@alexandra9944]

I have a very deep bond with a man, his Pluto conjuncts my Ascendant. We both have good Pluto aspects in our charts though so we've been handling it well. It has been deeply transformative but beautiful as well. And funnily enough, he prefers it if I'm the boss! His Pluto also conjuncts my North Node, because my North Node sits on top of my Ascendant. So much Pluto, it really feels very deep and magnetic even. It would not work out as a long-term romantic relationships due to other external factors, but we are happy to keep each other as friends... platonic soulmates!

[@4000angels]

Thank you, Jewel. Your videos never have TOO much information. Your astrology content is always the best, and my favorite. What I love about your videos, is two things: Firstly, you are very intelligent and insightful and experienced, and secondly, you are very truthful and honest. You are, without a doubt, my absolute favorite astrologer on KZbin. Please keep up the great work, and thank you as always.

[@jewelb9433]

My hubby's Pluto is on my ascendant, and mine is on his. That explains A LOT 😁

[@TheJackpotQueen]

How is the relationship tho? Good or Bad???

[@kireinashinkou7260]

omg . its the same with me and my bf :(((((((( i hope you guys are working out

[@lok6314]

Based on your smileys, it seems it went bad for you

[@mockingbird6151]

Pp 00p00p0p0pmm^^mmmm^m00pm00p0p0

[@custommade4463]

I had a fling with someone younger who had Pluto rising tightly conjunct his ascendant but his ascendant was exactly opposite my libra descendent. So his Pluto ( which was square mars) was extremely prominent and while I dislike labels he behaved as someone with narcissistic personality disorder. He controlled me in all ways and then went through all the stages of love bombing, to me walking on eggshells. I was hooked for quite awhile and questioned if he was the devil. Healthy or unhealthy ( it was the latter) it was difficult to extricate myself. I gave my power away. I’d love to see a video with that combination. Love all your videos. You’re clear and have such a gift in explaining dynamics.

[@iamyou3080]

I know this only pertains to romantic relationships but I have this with my dad in Virgo (he’s a Virgo sun as well.) He used to be really controlling and wanted me to live by his rules growing up. Now as an adult he’s my favorite person and we have a great bond. He always pushes me to be better. He always supports me. I do admit that I’ve picked up a lot of traits from him and look up to him. The negative would be that he wants me to be in the house all of the time even though I’m almost 30 LOL. I have an exact moon opposite Pluto though so I really enjoy Pluto energy. What interesting is my sister is a Libra rising and my mom has her Pluto on it as well.

[@sheenalynne]

never too much information. I love all of your videos. i've learned so much from you.

[@jackpotwinner1260]

I have Pluto on my ASC he is very excited over me just sits and does not stop looking at me says he is sorry he cant stop stearing at me LMAO its too funny we have a trine not sure if thats better or worse tho.

[@fancylyrics.]

Hi.. U mean you have pluto on ur partners Ascendant right..??.. Or u mean nataly u have pluto on ur own Ascendant..??.. which of the two...

[@angelsub9184]

You mean you have Pluto-Asc natal and his Asc conjuct your Pluto-Asc?

[@gemmabee2444]

Coworker has their Pluto and Saturn exact on my ascendant. He acts very weird, awkward and nervous around me. Stares at me when thinks I don't see but openly tries to ignore me. So weird.

[@chocolateccm1493]

Same with women who conjunct my Ascendent. She acts weird around me-her little sister mailbox 📫 key was stuck and so I tried to help her. The Pluto person came and acted like I wasn’t there so I walked off and said nothing. Guys too, but I’ve grown accustomed of it.

[@vanessaroper3028]

same thing with a coworker

[@DevsEnd]

Had to compliment your accuracy! I've seen this play out almost exactly as you described. Her Pluto (Eros) and His Mars/ASC, in Scorpio too!

[@DaniFrederix]

hmm I have Pluto in her first. I don't control her at all but if she knows I like something she tries to become what I like. She also mimics me. She basically becomes me and anything I like. She is the ascendant. Scorpio Rising Gemini, Sagittarius moon. No control at all.. she does what she wants and what she does is becomes me or things that I like.

[@JewelMayberry]

+Elizabeth Jean The Pluto person rarely sees how they are subtly controlling the ascendant person. Thats the nature of Pluto...it's unconscious. Most people in the Pluto position would not be able to see how heavily they are influencing and often controlling the other person and will resist the notion that it is even happening at all.

[@DaniFrederix]

I realized when she changed her Facebook profile picture to be a lot like mine. Some color outfit and I haven't changed my picture in a long time and neither has she now. I don't bring it to her attention because shes my ex and I don't want to fluster her with talk about the subconscious yada yada. I also don't really want her to stop because I think it's very interesting. At the same time she either really doesn't know she is doing it or she knows very well and pretends not to know. She had even got a job at the same company I used to work for changing oil. There are zero things of consciously done in order to get her to mimic or copy me. The controlling influence I have over her is definitely subconscious but I am aware of it now. Though, for me it's confusing still as women who like me come at me in a very, very annoying subconscious way. So, say thing irrelevant to the current conversation but relevant to the underlying mutual attraction and that turns me off.

[@DaniFrederix]

Omg wow! Not sure how I'm benefiting. I don't go see her, I put my music and right now car maintenance first. I talk to her often though, ask about her day n such. She has a boyfriend though. She once told someone we'll get back together when we are 30.. that person told me then I asked her and she denied it.. but that trait seems to happen to me with a lot of women who like me.. I'm not allowed to know they like me type energy lol.. when I figure it out and I bring it up.. suddenly they don't like me.. no idea lol.. psychic vampire? There is definitely a lot of psychic stuff regard me and females that I haven't even mentioned lol Venus Conjunct Neptune, Uranus & Mercury trine Pluto.... I'd say maybe she thinks about me a lot and trying to figure me out.. I wouldn't say I'm sucking energy from her..

[@marshmallow167]

@@DaniFrederix are u a narcissist or have I mistaken

[@DavidJones-tl7hj]

@@marshmallow167 I dont understand. Where did you get that from

[@princessp1963]

Amazing. So true. Feels so hard to negotiate.

[@frhythms]

Great video, Jewel. I love your videos, I never feel like it's too much info ... but I'm Virgo sun.

[@kykykykyky10]

Thanks for the great interpretation Jewel :) I have this with someone that also had his sun mercury rahu besides pluto conjunct my Asc and jupiter in the sign of Scorpio :D you can't imagine how my life looks like and I'm always running from him but for some reason i met him by accident in the streets outings or whatever and this is very weird. This is so heavy for me.

[@euphylee6221]

I love how realistic you are in all of your relationship videos

[@JewelMayberry]

+Sae Cee I would love to meet you.

[@SK1MD]

Thank you! Love your videos!❤ Have this conjunction with my current partner, he is the pluto and I’m the ascendant. And I do think he is very obsessed and possessive with me. Every time we are apart for 2-3 days he will leave huge obvious hickeys on my neck. I think he is trying to signal or make sure other people around me know I have a boyfriend when he is not around. We also have another aspect where my pluto trines his sun. But because of our careers in healthcare I don’t think it’s necessary to leave marks on the other person.

[@ellie-tk4jy]

Tell him no if you dislike it. How is everything now?

[@SK1MD]

@@ellie-tk4jy We’re no longer together. Other than other factors I think it’s also because we have venus square pluto synastry, from both sides. Obsessive relationship that felt fated but didn’t workout in the end.

[@seerenita]

My mom has Pluto and Sun at 28° in Leo and that's exact my 28° Leo Ascendant. My mom was/is very controlling over me. She would even follow me places to see where I would go. She wanted to know my whereabouts at all times. She was not like that with my brother of sister. I'm a free person and she doesn't like that.

[@lucibonannevinte9200]

😣😣😣😥😥

[@atpskol1]

Thank you! I am highly plutonian person but I have someone dear to me that has their Pluto on my Ascendant. I am thankful that she is not as Plutonian as me or it would be excrutiating!

[@peacebewithyou247]

Thank you so much, Jewel!

[@geminim8]

My step dad has pluto conjunct my asc, also his moon conjunct my sun. I feel like we have a positive familial relationship.

[@eagillum]

I have this with my neighbor who is 11years younger than me. I'm the ascendant, and I'm super attracted to him. He knows this and doesn't care for me the same way. I'm always needing to stand firm in myself and breathe instead when I'm craving him.

[@lok6314]

so you did marry your neighbour then eventually right ^^

[@Heathcliffe123]

Final comment - most DEFINITELY transformative as she (and I ) are involved with a therapist, so many personal issues been unearthed, it’s profound- god willing my beloved Pluto person (whom I love still) will develop insight into their relational style , and hopefully understand the root or their control/trust issues 🙁🤞

[@Heathcliffe123]

AND - she always said that I ‘triggered’ her , at times she was violent towards me , said she had never been like that before . It’s eerie how accurate this aspect is, it’s so incredibly accurate

[@Heathcliffe123]

Totally recognise many of the key themes here as the ascendant person- the controlling nature of Pluto person , even though I have Pluto conjunct ascendant natal - she has sun square Pluto AND Pluto opposite ascendant natal . Quite frankly it was THE MOST INTENSE relationship…..known to man or beast . Has literally brought me (both of us) to our KNEES 😢

[@SheaButterBallin]

This was great!!!!!! My ex was a scorpio rising

[@dianawann6597]

I love your Videos!!!!! thank you.

[@oliviaroumelmusic]

o no no no noooo this one kills me. but i love your take.

[@moodswings5723]

My rising is in Sagittarius. everyone around my age has a Sagittarius pluto.

[@starseedps8637]

Excellent info!

[@yourobserver1893]

I would really love to follow your advice on 5:20 - 5:41 because its scary for me since I have Ascendant and Pluto in Sagittarius(born on 1999) so people who have the same age as me has their natal Pluto in Sagittarius conjunct my Ascendant within 1-3 degrees omg thank you for the advice as always Jewel!

[@jackmac6965]

Wow amazing interpretation.

[@DaliaMadrid]

I can confirm that I am attracted to someone's physicality (my Pluto conjuncts someone's else asc. The orb is 5 degrees) but I don't feel like I have power over him. I wish lol

[@JewelMayberry]

Are you actually involved yet? This aspects effects have the ability to attract and then sneak in, that is the nature of Pluto, he is not an obvious influence but a very strong one. It also depends on how you handle your own issues of control. If you are fairly balanced and healthy in your own right then it is not going to show up as so controlling.

[@DaliaMadrid]

+Jewel Mayberry yes we were or are (unsure). I think the attraction has always been there since we met. But he has also his Pluto in first so I think he's use to my Pluto on his asc. Both of our Pluto are in libra.

[@natsumi2911]

Fantastic thank you 🙏🏽 🌺🌸🥰

[@saradee8435]

thank you ... my husband has his pluto and mars on my ascendant :) fascinating stuff

[@JewelMayberry]

Oh man, a man with a Pluto/Mars conjunction. My ex husband had that one. The alpha male.

[@saradee8435]

+Jewel Mayberry haha so true he is a leo with a scorpio moon and cancer rising an interesting man to say the least.

[@jomontanee]

@@saradee8435 My god! That's my ex fiance. Sun leo, Moon scorpio and cancer rising!!! Wow!

[@saradee8435]

@@jomontanee interesting what sign are u?

[@filipinaislander]

I am the pluto person conjunct his nn and asc, opposite his mars and venus, i am the one feeling restricted, i sense both actually, as I am also the scorpio moon conjunct his uranus, I've never been obsessed with anyone in my life, i never exercise control over him because I don't want to be the reason he will abandon me or turned off by me. It has been so hard to be in this dynamic, i know his secrets he doesn't i know that hurts me too as he is not being honest about it, you really need to learn about self control and yourself in general to be a better person for him...

[@pugninja7037]

We have sextile here, moon conjunct pluto, so much actually, but hes extremely platonic, but hes taught me so much... hes worked so much on himself. And both traumatic but here tho I'm the pluto in synastry, I'm sorting my insecurity of my childhood, as I needed this once, and obsessed, I'm actually far more aware and grown in two years, but it's not about power but to love someone and be their equal.

[@cosmikbreath]

this is on the money!

[@anitachoco]

thank you for the great video! What about pluto oposition ascendant in synastry?

[@vondaleila7432]

Hi Jewel! Would you please consider making a vid about partner conjunct ones descendent. It’s brutal and I’d love to hear your take. Love you! Blessings, 🌟

[@lambssauce]

Had this on someone who's just a close friend of mine. Fast forward one year, the controlling Pluto emerges and even asks me to do what should I do? All I did was the opposite because I never wanted to be controlled by anyone so its just a no no to me.BTW I'm the ASC here. I think this pluto which conjuncts with mine. But in return, Its satifying to know that this was the reason why I find our friendship worthy thanks to the Pluto's self awareness :D

[@NaturalMobeauteHub]

My ex had this and it is clear he was trying to control me he said I was so smart and he loved my mind

[@boaquetzal8225]

This explains why I have a unrequited love to my friend pluto person. I thought he like me bcuz all the attention I got, we have so much in common, he took care of me n he respects me so much...but I was wrong he's just....obsessed with me 😅

[@Rosa-jt8up]

😅

[@mary-anneb2614]

Is ur ascendant libra or Scorpio?

[@boaquetzal8225]

@@mary-anneb2614 sagittarius lol

[@angelsub9184]

Is Pluto person like you or you Asc person like him (Pluto)?

[@misspisces6315]

Super vidéo ! , can you make a Pluto Square Ascendant synastry ? .. ❤️❤️

[@dianawann6597]

THANK YOU.

[@M0J0_]

I have this connection wit someone who is two years younger then me. His Pluto is in my first house 8 degrees from ascendant and 6 degrees from my Pluto which is also in the first house. This relationship is highly intense. My Mercury is in his first house in Aquarius, my sun is conjunct his Mars second house. His moon is in my midheaven point and my moon is conjunct his Jupiter. There are soooooo many critical placements that support us. But I am sure I saw him following me about a month into our connection.

[@4jimmycurtis]

So back story. I have this aspect with a friend of mine and I am crazy for him. (I’m the Pluto person) this scares me a bit. I value our friendship but I’ve noticed that I would get jealous and angry when he would tell me about his love affairs and it feel like I should support his freedom but in the back of my mind I’m like “why can’t you be with me?” I don’t ever want to control him because that’s not me, but this aspect explains so much on my side! How do you work out these feelings and still be friends with the person. Side note- He’s knows I have feelings for him but he isn’t bothered by it

[@4jimmycurtis]

Also, my sun is directly opposite his ascendant. Seems like these two aspects conflict each other

[@aquarius1986]

I have this aspect with a much older man who is socially inappropriate as a longterm partner for me...I am Pluto 7 degrees scorpio, he is ASC 7 degrees Scorpio. I have never been so attracted to someone that much older than me. Immediate and intense magnetism and desire...we also have his Pluto square my Mars...jumped into bed together quickly. He has pulled away saying he's bad for me (it's hasn't lasted long, but has been SO intense for me), and I am in extreme pain. I know the whole relationship also has to do with my father wounds, and it is agonizing. How do you detach as the Pluto person? I keep trying, everyday, to let go, but I keep having crying spells and wanting to connect with him. I know I need to let go, but how?! I just want MORE, I want to experience him more...it was too short!! It's just crazy, would make no sense to anyone else as there is no potential for us to have a 'real' relationship. We also have his Saturn exactly square my Moon...so painful...not to mention all the Neptune squares in our Composite. Cringe. It has definitely been very transformative and brought up so much of my own psyche to heal, but I fear a 'regular' relationship after this will feel so boring and passionless. There have been points in the past 3 months where I was completely losing my mind, and I've had some weird karmic/Pluto relationships in my past, but this probably takes the cake for weirdest with the most glorious highs and most dismal lows. I am sure if I try to keep it going, it will just crash and burn really fast. I know maybe it's best to keep the positive memories instead of push it to the point of wreckage. But how when the emotions are so overwhelming? I've never in my life felt compelled to 'win someone back' the way I feel now, and it makes no sense because it won't work anyway!

[@rarecombo]

I had this in a former relationship with 0 deg orb & although I was the Pluto one, I felt like he was the controlling one. He has moon in scorpio & an aries south node. I'm a pisces asc/venus, cancer moon & libra mars so I felt like the one mowed down by his controlling & insecure nature. Also my pluto is mostly positively aspected in my chart, so I never exercise power just for the sake of having power. Eventually I broke it off, as it was not working for me, but he still wants to get back together & it's been 12 years...actually all my exes want to get back together with me because I treat people really well in relationships :)

[@ismaellima9625]

How does the Pluto person feels, I mean do the Pluto person feels the same attraction than the Ascendant person? and if so, why the Pluto person sometimes (in my case) pretends not to feel anything when its obvious she does. is this part of the power games?

[@gigiemma3192]

@@ismaellima9625 I'm the Pluto person. My Scorpio Pluto squaring his Leo ascendant 0.64 orb. I'm completely obsessed with him but he will never know that because I act like I don't care because that is what feels safest to me in terms of power. Really unhealthy but that's what happens when your own pluto is badly aspected in your chart. But yeah in short: she just hides it way better.

[@pufpufpuffin]

I have this aspect with an actor (I`m the ascendant). I had no idea who this person was until very recently when I saw them on tv. They felt SO familiar, like… I just knew them? I’m still not sure if that’s caused by this aspect (there are other aspects), but it was definitely weird feeling such a strong pull towards a stranger, through a screen. Thanks for all this i formation!

[@ranjitahazarika9520]

Haha we are on the same page😅

[@custommade4463]

I would love to hear a video of other persons 1st house Pluto (conjunct their own ascendant) conjunct partners descendant.

[@Ibhorscrazi]

These are awesome videos!! makes a lot of sense..I’ll bet u pissed off a lot of people with these 😬😂

[@JewelMayberry]

+Northernlights1111 oh yes, and I will piss even more people off today with more videos.

[@cinnamon1089]

i will add that talking seems really good between us in part from My Mercury 13°36' Gemini, in House VII -7th house sun too... My Gemini Mercury is opposite her Sagittarius Moon orb +3°06' Mercury trine Jupiter orb +0°58' Mercury sextile Sun orb -4°43' Mercury sextile Saturn orb -3°31' Mercury sesqui-quadrate Neptune orb +1°03' Mercury trine Uranus orb -5°44' i'm loaded with Mercury from a Gemini sun & Mercury - Moon ,Mc Uranus Pluto in Virgo mostly all air and earth - with Sagittarius rising - she is mostly fire with her Venus ,sun & Saturn all conjunct in Aries in the 5th house , mercury in Aries too - 6th house tho - but Mars is Retrograde so not loud spoken - her Mars and Pluto are both retrograde so it seems to tame things down quite a bit i guess ...and the 5th house Saturn.

[@heartgrounding]

Thank you, Jewel! Haha now I know why I feel like we speak the same language, Virgo ASC friend! Curious what it means when someone’s *progressed ascendant* is conjunct another person’s Pluto in their 7th house in Libra? I can’t find info on this type of situation on the internet and I’m wondering how this might play out. Thank you !!

[@TN-ow7yd]

Wow Jewel…you’re always spot on. Dated someone with this aspects and I was quite obsessed and possessive, but it balances out Cus she has Pluto in 1st too. It’s the most triggering thing Cus she put a big mirror right in front of me.

[@kyleaarsen4966]

Im a Sagittarius rising and don't mind if the Pluto women a few years younger obsess over me. Fantastic video

[@kimspencer7096]

Oi vey. I met this guy, he's five years younger, and we became fast friends. But man, the attraction is intense, even though physically he's not my type at all. At least on my end it is - the attraction. I don't know about him. My Pluto Conjuncts His Ascendant (both in Scorpio, 3 degrees) AND His Pluto Conjuncts My Descendant (again, both in Scorpio, 1 degree).

[@JewelMayberry]

+Kim Spencer You may be sunk. That is a huge physical pull toward each other and he is Likely to view you as someone who can bring him the inner integration he is craving. I would take it as slow as you can.....it will be hard. Pun sooooo intended.

[@kimspencer7096]

Oh dear. I was afraid of that. *sigh* It's also traumatic having my Moon, Venus, AND Jupiter all sitting (and conjuncting each other) in His 8th House (Gemini). My Sun (Gemini too) is in his 7th House by only 2 degrees. His Moon straddles my 4th/5th House cusp almost exactly (like my 5th house starts at 1.55 degrees Virgo, His Moon is 1.34 degrees Virgo), and His Sun is in my 11th House while His Venus is in my 12th House (both in Aries). *bangs head* I don't want to have feelings for him, but at the same time, I can't help it. Although I wonder now if it's just confusing intensity for emotion...but there is definite unconditional love. At least on my part. And a need to open up and share with him emotionally and intimately. I definitely feel like I could change or learn to re-open my heart because of him and I'm not sure what's going to become of me on the other side of that "change." Thank you for responding to my comment! Love your videos!

[@JewelMayberry]

+Kim Spencer Good luck with this, I hope it turns out excellent for you 💕

[@kimspencer7096]

Jewel, would you mind expanding on what the possible meaning of this aspect is? Pluto Conjunct Descendant. I'm curious as to what you mean when you say that he views me as "someone who can bring him the inner integration he is craving." A possible synastry video to expand upon this subject? Please and thank you! You're a wonderful astrologer with great tutorials and excellent explanations!

[@kimspencer7096]

Thank you! I sincerely doubt anything is going to happen between us (especially in regards to his perspective and emotions about our friendship/relationship and me), but who am I to predict the future? Looking forward to more of your astrology videos popping up!

[@jehan8860]

Thanks...can you also do a video on Pluto Trine Ascendant?

[@gracetshaka6252]

i love this i’m here for it . i’m the asc person and his the pluto ... i just found his birth time and compared our charts i’m down for it 😭 also he has venus square pluto sooo... the orb of this aspect between him and i is 4 degrees .

[@LegendaryMel]

Good luck with a Venus square pluto man…

[@gracetshaka6252]

@@LegendaryMel did you experience it ? or have any advice ?

[@alex.scaraoschi]

Cool video! Can you do one on Lilith conjunct Pluto in synastry?

[@Jenn_KittyThe3rd]

Great video! I've read Lilith is like pluto, would this be the same as you've described here if it's a female's lilith on a male's ascendant? Thanks!

[@popadoodledoo8913]

Hi jewel, would this be the same when it appears in draconic synastry charts instead of traditional synastry?

[@akada726]

Jewel I love your videos!!! Anyway so I have Pluto on his asc & his Pluto square my sun. 🥴 his venus opposite my Sun. moon in the 8th double whammy. this video is very accurate! I stay to myself. but he seems to ben obsessed - lowkey. although he denies his feelings for me.

[@meriemmeriem9727]

What about you

[@parmindetkaur5168]

Omg his Pluto is on my asc. His pluto squ my sun. His sun n moon in my 8th n also my vertex conjuct his sun n moon . I have 4 squ n opp aspects to pluto natally he only has one . The rest of his are tribe n sextile

[@queserasera87]

Jewel, I absolutely love the way you think, and I've always enjoyed your perspectives on astrology. Nevertheless, I would like to challenge your belief that love is sacrificial. To me, sacrificial love is Neptune at its worst; sacrificial love is codependency. It's not possible for a person to love unconditionally when they "love" others more than they love themselves.

[@JewelMayberry]

+Sera I agree with you. Love is not sacrificial. It is giving. That is different from sacrificial. Sacrificing is generally tied to an agenda and is not something done without demanding sufficient payment. The Pluto person has to sacrifice their need to control here. I’m not sure what I said that meant that love is sacrificial.

[@queserasera87]

@@JewelMayberry Hi Jewel, thank you for replying! Based upon your response, it sounds like we're on the same page. You did mention that love is sacrificial at about 15:37, though; I just wanted to bring attention to it because I consider that idea to be dangerous.

[@angelsub9184]

@@queserasera87 so how do Pluto let go of control if they and Asc person comes from different world? I know why Pluto has power, perhaps they are more popular, more rich, more knowledgeable, etc.

[@lschwippert]

Me and my boyfriend have a lot of Pluto aspects. Both of our Pluto’s are conjunct each other’s ascendants. His Juno conjunct my ascendant. His Pluto and lilith conjunct my Saturn and my Saturn squares his pluto. And all of these are in our 1 and 12 house besides the Pluto Venus aspect. Never been in a relationship like this before ….. would love your insight

[@Bananamilk-ff1pk]

Can you tell about Lilith on the partners ascendant? How it works? Because I’ve read so many absolutely different information about that. Please please 🙏🏻

[@atrevete_tete1445]

Hi Jewel lovely video, as always thanks very much. Would this apply to Hades conjunct 1º to the ascendant (from the 1st house) and,,,,,, Hades retrograde its same as Pluto Retrograde? cause he has it I included Hades in Synastry after watching your videos about Plutonic Relationship! Thanks very much for teaching us all, and for doing so, really well!

[@lisakest8107]

Omg you are amazing. Thank you. .... If there are other soft aspects like venus conjunct moon, sun trine venus, sun sextil ac, sun conjunct mars, venus conjunct uranus/pluto and.... Venus square saturn...(synastry) Should I run away? XD

[@kaylaburns8723]

question... when anything is in conjunction with the ascendant (or in conjunction with any other house)... is that conjunction determined by the sole degree at which the house begins and orb from there? Or does that conjunction encapsulate the entire house and its orb reaches into the surrounding houses?

[@cinnamon1089]

i am the ascendant person here, but the conjunction is 4 degrees , i think we will still feel that - and her Pluto-R is retrograde and she has a late Scorpio rising - But on the other hand my Juno-R in the12th house would want this Scorpio -ish connection also her Sagittarius Moon is in my first house . i'm a early one degree Sagittarius rising , & we have ascendant conjunct ascendant. and a lot of the houses match up quite a bit Ascendant conjunction Moon 9 degrees but still in the first house , and we have a Moon sextile Ascendant at one degree my Juno-R in Scorpio is only three degrees off of her Scorpio rising Vesta is two degrees apart in third and 4th house My Mars in Taurus is 2 degrees off of her Juno in Taurus ,

[@zashraf89]

our orb is 4.25 with this conjuction? does that mean that the affects are less? thanks love the videos!

[@RosaliesJourney]

Thank you

[@ashefelicisky2647]

I can't see if you already have this, but could you please do pluto in the descendant (synastry)?

[@user-og5uq5pm8i]

Just to give you guys an alternate perspective of how this can play out in a non-romantic relationship, I'm Pluto and my mom is the ASC. We also have other plutonic synastry. She has been controlling all my life and it was vey hard to break away and become sovereign. Now, when I make a decision for myself that she doesn't agree with, she is threatened and feels I am trying to control her. When really I am just in control of myself. So, just by being me, she feels controlled as if I am trying to put her in a position. But, it's really an opportunity for her to transform her fear.

[@cmewig373]

Jewel, could you do a video on Pluto square Ascendant?

[@jomontanee]

It must be in conjunction with either 4th or 10th house.

[@jenna7744]

Yes please Jewel!!!!

[@dianawann6597]

1. Does this hold the same with Pluto sextile Ascendant? 2. Will you please do a video on Venus conjunct the South Node?

[@mockingbird6151]

His pluto conjunct my ascendant both in scorpio with a tight orb. Maybe it is why we have venus and mars square pluto in composite... I don't know, because in synastry we don't have venus and pluto aspect. In synatry, my pluto don't touch him heavily, so i think he is the pluto person in composite too... His mars and saturn are in my 1st house... I think this relationship can be dangerous.

[@pugninja7037]

Hes the pluto, and we have sun sextile pluto, moon conjunct pluto, my eros is on top of his pluto, he has all 3 sun , moon, asc conjunct pluto and his pluto and moon 12th house.. my sun and mercury 12th, my venus is in his 12th .. pretty intense. But I tend to find ever so psychological..

[@elizabethhoover4672]

What about a trine aspect?

[@armani7923]

I wonder how this plays out in synastry progressions..have this coming up soon with someone

[@nenapatterson4168]

Can you do this with the sextile aspect? Love your videos btw.

[@misteriozan]

How about the trine ? Same as conjunct?

[@anaa3168]

How is does differ from the square? We are very much obsessed with each other, im pluto i try act like im not but truly im crazy in love. And she is the asc she lets me know shes crazy in love with me.

[@suzydias5554]

Can you talk more about it?! I have this one wi my gf too ... but like you .... my gf try to act she is not so crazy in love too hahahah

[@Anna-ft2mi]

Yes, dying to know about Pluto sq. Ascendant in synastry.

[@eversincemay2269]

Is it comparable with Pluto in Partners 1st house?

[@Fyhgvjc]

Would ascendant inconjunct Pluto synastry be similar to this?

[@ssr7736]

Not only does my partner have his Pluto conjuncting my Scorpio ascendant by 39 seconds, but my ascendant also conjuncts his descendant by a 4 degree orb. It was an intense bond from the very start. I honestly don’t mind it at all, and actually welcome the intensity of it all. We also have a Mars/Venus/Sun/Jupiter conjunction, our Venus trine each other, his moon conjuncts my Sun/Moon midpoint by 3 degrees, and we have that sticky and messy Sun square Saturn vibe for flavor. It’s not a faint at heart relationship.

[@user-ft7ck7fz4c]

Hi Jewel. Thank you for your video. What if pluto is opposite the other person's ascendant in synastry ? I have venus opposite mars(0'21), pluto conjunct venus, mars square mars, pluto square venus, pluto opposite ascendant with someone. We have a lot of "unharmonious aspects".

[@kamarafarai]

I have this with someone. he’s much older then me and his Pluto trines my Venus conjunct my asc. But in the 12th house . Right on cusp of my first house . I can feel his energy and it’s extremely uncomfortable and intense at times. It always feels like he hides and stalks quietly . It’s so strange!. like he knows everything about me without actually knowing me, if that makes sense . Like he can see right through me lol 😂 it makes me very uncomfortable. that’s all I know .

[@meriemmeriem9727]

What about him how he feels towards you he is obsessed or not

[@kamarafarai]

@@meriemmeriem9727 how would I know of the obsession when Pluto is hiding in the 12th house Lol

[@aquarius1986]

Interesting, I have this with a much older man (27 year age gap) but I am the Pluto. I think he has freaked out as he's kind of pulled away.

[@fishh3ad]

Love that for us... we've both got pluto conjunct eachothers ascendant. My rising his pluto scorpio, his rising my pluto sag. Both 4° apart 🙄

[@AmpleVibrations1]

Could the perception of an imbalance of power lead the Pluto to try to control the Ascendant person?

[@colettegutierrez7523]

If pluto was conjunct someone else's ascendant ruler could this have a similar interpretation?

[@gigiemma3192]

Is it similar to the square? My pluto (Scorpio) squares his ascendant (Leo) in an 0.64 degree orb but it's hard to find any article or video about it. My Mars is also in his 8th and his pluto opposites my Moon in an 4.40 orb. We have many pluto contacts but most are trines/sextiles. His sun is also in my 7th house and my Saturn squares his Venus. We can't stay away from eachother and he even cheated on his now girlfriend ( and they have Venus conjunct pluto tight orb)