How to Grow Up From a Girl to a WOMAN 🔥

[@Sara-h2o2k]

I didn't know you're mother's passed away, i'm sorry to hear that and RIP 🙏 she raised an amazing beautiful woman who helps other women level up and reconnect with their femininity , thank u so much Jillz❤

[@JillzGuerin]

Aw thank you so much 🥹❤️

[@abundant224]

❤❤❤

[@NUM3R1S]

@JillzGuerin Sorry to hear that. I lost mine in my teens, which is exactly why I am grateful for videos like yours.

[@Educate1000girls]

Sorry for your loss

[@NikkiOutsideVlog]

My mother passed away too when I was 4 years old and I'm 29 already

[@jordanrintoul-thomas722]

Just came out of a toxic relationship last year. The red flags were there, but I chose to stay because I was so in love with him and also because I didn't want to be alone. Now, I'm single and loving it.

[@dannystanley_]

For low libido: breath work, Ashwagandha, read healing love through the Tao, hydrate with fresh pressed juices, less caffeine and refined sugars, less alcohol, connect with your womb (this can be done by simply placing your hands on your womb which brings awareness to it) KEEP CERTAIN MEN OUT, study root and sacral chakra info. So many solutions. I applied a lot of these things. Turns out I can have internal big O’s during segs. Not just external. Hope this helped someone.

[@seabreeze4559]

kroom chant

[@Holistretch]

Wow, you are divulging things I didn't learn till my 30s. You are SPOT ON!!! ❤‍🔥 I'm so glad you mentioned ageism and getting cat-called early on. I was 11 when I started getting perverted creepy comments from men almost constantly. It's so disgusting and primes us to feel UNSAFE around men at a young age and also that we ARE our sexuality, which is such B.S- that is only PART of the magic of who we are. ✨

[@kiaraeijo]

Tell me about it! Boys started making making really inappropriate comments towards me when I was 12 (I went through Puberty pretty early) and I’m just starting to trust men again.

[@Devil_Around_Midnight]

​@@kiaraeijopathetic woman. Spoiled. I love when women cat call me, I am priviledged to be attractive to women. You can bathe in your priviledge anf cry about it, you don't even know how to keep your own thoughts straight, you just go along with feminism you see on your screen. Absurd.

[@sulusu4812]

Me too

[@victoriaschluter4118]

I like to organize my clothes by types. Like office clothes, street clothes, t-shirts. Fancy clothes. It helps me dress based on how I feel. 😊

[@JillzGuerin]

Love that 🥰

[@Iolanthe333]

I stopped the pill last month after 14 years on it and my libido has gone from almost zero to distractingly high 😂 You're totally right, I have to relearn my sexuality now. I never realised how much impact the birth control pill was having on me and I feel a bit of grief about it now. It really feels like I'm reconnecting with my womanhood.

[@JillzGuerin]

Getting off the pill after many years means reconnecting with yourself for sure! It can definitely change parts of yourself which is crazy!

[@TheEvonneJoelle]

Same!! Was on BC for 8 years. I stopped last year & feel so much more connected to my sexuality & intuition

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

I’m not using birth control pills but I’m using pills to make my endometriosis reduce Sadly it’s not something that goes away so I’m forced to use these pills forever lol and one of the consequences of these pills is the libido that lowers, and tbh it seems ZERO to me now, not low, literally nothing. Since I’ve been using these pills for 3 months I hope this will change in the future 😂 I don’t have a bf so I’m ok for now but I don’t want my future relationship to be ruined because my body can’t get aroused 😱

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

@Retten can I ask you why you’re scared of giving up on pills?

[@Iolanthe333]

@Retten That's great! I was scared too and still am because it's only been a month. But so far my only side effects have been spotting and a bit of breast tenderness. I read a book on stopping the pill to prepare. It's called Beyond The Pill by Dr. Jolene Brighten. She gives advice on what to expect and what it means for your hormonal balance if you're having different symptoms. I gave up caffeine, sugar and dairy (for the most part. I cheat a little 🤭) on her recommendation, mostly because I'm terrified of my acne coming back. I also watched a lot of videos on KZbin by women who have stopped the pill. The stories were a little scary sometimes (acne, emotional turbulence) but so many women said that after six months or so they had regained a sense of self and mental clarity, so that gave me the push I needed.

[@evb1601]

Thank you Jillz for the courage to say, "...because at a subconscious level, you enjoy the chaos". That is a harsh truth that some of us took the better part of our lives and several partners to figure out. When chaos is familiar because that is how we grew up, we have to make a very big effort to learn otherwise. On another note, I am now 68 and I feel more beautiful than I ever have in my life. I believe that is because it comes from within and, it's a constant learning journey for those of us who continuously work at improvement. You are providing a wonderful service to women and I wish you much joy as you move forward.

[@saraleach5327]

I 100% agree with the havoc that birth control pills can wreak on a woman’s body. Most doctors, in my experience, do not take the time to explain what messing with your hormones will do, other than preventing pregnancy. I became a completely different person when I stopped years ago and am so much happier and at peace in my own body

[@ClaireEmilia]

Unrelated question: but did you lose pill without the pill?

[@Bunnidove]

I am a carrier of MD so I really cannot have a baby. I feel like I need to be on them...

[@senkanikitovic6606]

​@@BunnidoveIt's so sad😢

[@mssmagic3573]

Yes, but do not quite the importance that some women like me DON'T want to have a baby and I don't understand why we can not enjoy sex without being afraid and stressed of that but with birth control. I hate it

[@mssmagic3573]

And of course It doesn't matter if my partner use condoms I want it to make sure from my part that is not gonna happen.

[@josiebanks7086]

I desperately needed this video. Am 29 yrs but stuck in my 19yrs. My fiance constantly tells me u need to grow up. I didn't know how or where to begin. Much love from Africa -Uganda

[@lulululu2793]

I literally manifested this video! two three weeks ago I was looking for a video about the transition from being a girl to womanhood. I am so glad that you made this video. I too didn't know your mother passed away, may she rest in peace. Thank you for this amazing video, I love your content. Thank you!

[@Lakeshamonique]

You are amazing ! My mother passed away when I was 20, I’ll be 24 in 19 days and I definitely understand when you say she was your validation for everything because my mom was mines too. I just started living life on my own without her and it’s a beautiful journey ❤

[@vegankathy2583]

I lost my mom at 26. Definitely affects us as woman in so many ways. Excellent video, as always

[@ramparkash2318]

Vegan Kathy. It is so sad for every everyone. Mom is mom . She take care always for us.

[@AM-gt1yt]

I lost my dad 4 months ago and my sister 4 years ago and im trying to heal and it feels almost impossible some days. Im trying to give myself grace ❤

[@AM-gt1yt]

To all the people who have lost parents or siblings, I see you and I'm so proud of you and your journey. Us healing would absolutely be what most of our family members that we miss to our core would want. They want us to be happy and to succeed, and I wanted to say I am so sorry for everybody who has lost someone and is STILL trying to do everything to heal themselves. You all are amazing ❤

[@svetlanalena3208]

Hi sisThanks for this great inspo. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗

[@eiraantoinette6793]

Congratulations sis! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too

[@svetlanalena3208]

Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.

[@gracedaniels6172]

How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.

[@marcosalvatore673]

Congratulations that's a big big win

[@svetlanalena3208]

I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.

[@lianaadele7013]

your body language... my adhd's attentions is captured. you best believe I sat down and listened with no struggle. I loved this video.

[@thereneelaplante]

This is quite possibly my favorite video on KZbin. You are so wise and caring about women! Sharing this truth is invaluable and kind. Thank you for all you do Jillz 🙏 and Happy International Women's Day! 💝

[@hannahrebecca7649]

thank you for talking about the birth control aspect, and also about that we as women dont lose value when we get older. I am 21 now and have already got the impression, that women always have to stay young and girlish while i think its easier for men to stay attractive as they get older

[@barbiec4312]

I am 62 and feeling so healthy and beautiful and grateful. Happy to have found your channel.

[@lenaleclaire1210]

This green top looks amazing on you!! Such a beautiful color on you!

[@mykamelgar5061]

The message that stood out to me here is SPEAK UP. Being a woman do not be afraid to speak up

[@megiombro]

Absolutely mind-blowing! I'm not one to endorse things often, but "Women's Magic Truths on Borlest" is a gem of a book. Trust me, it's worth your time!

[@kiaraeijo]

In my case, being the baby in my family, Hispanic and neurodivergent, my growing up was slower than other women. I noticed that I had to grow up pretty quickly when I lost my dad when I was 26 1/2 almost 27 (I’m turning 31 in November), I was very close to losing my mom when I was 20 (almost 21) and again when I was two weeks shy of turning 28 but thankfully I still have my mom. I often have to tell my mom that I’m more capable than she thinks I am. I will admit that it wasn’t until my late 20’s and now my early 30’s that I have really started to see myself not as a little girl but a grown woman. I still have to keep reminding myself especially when I’m with younger women.

[@MaKaylaNicole01634]

I’m a routine viewer and I can’t recall a time when you mentioned the loss of your mother. Thank you for sharing that struggle and moments in your life where you had major adjustments 🤍

[@JillzGuerin]

❤️❤️❤️

[@Ana-ro7km]

This is another great video, thank you for sharing Jillz. 💖 And I also think that talking more about our natural feminine sexuality is very important. When you mentioned the part about always being 18 that sociality puts on us it reminded me instantly on situation that I was going trough. It was really ridicilous, my ex husband was telling me all the time in last months of our marrage that he wants that 18 year old Ana back, not "this woman" that I became and I am now. Well, let's say it did not work out for him in the end.😄 There is so much beauty and wisdom in getting older, it is privilge that many people do not have. 💕

[@Alexrex77]

Surprisingly good advice :) I would add a few more things to your list. 1) Learning that the world/universe is not about you is the key. Having wider perspective on the world is important. 2) Learn to care and empathize with others. Not only will it make you more human, it will support your parenting and relationship maintaining efforts.

[@frhrutklllwppw124]

Jillz, you look gorgeous! Especially the match of emerald top and red nail polish is chic! And thank you for all pieces of advice! They're so helpful!❤

[@JillzGuerin]

Ah thank you!!! 😘😘

[@ValentinaGulpe]

I agree! It's not easy to grow UP! I find that the more you relax into your feminine energy the easier the transition is between a girl to a woman! From one creator to another great video!

[@sailajamandada637]

Listening to you makes me feel serene.thanks for helping me come back to femininity. feels like having an elder sister

[@ЕкатеринаМоскалева-г7п]

That’s my first comment ever on KZbin, but I want to say how right you are about becoming the woman! I feel every word you’re saying and, please, keep going. Such a peaceful and comforting video❤thank you so much

[@ajohonly3721]

Your mom would have been so proud of you,in fact she’s really proud looking down how well you turned out without her here. I’m so so sorry I didn’t know that.. Great video as always you look amazing.

[@777nelsss]

I’m so sorry for your loss. You are such a strong woman.

[@toniariana3017]

This is solid advice. No filler info, just substance

[@hegyesialexa7617]

I really APPRECIATE your post

[@redqueen8806]

I'm glad your doing better darling ❤️

[@pauka9470]

One tablespoon of castor oil with 3 drops of tea tree oil everyday on skin might help (at least a month). If you will test it please document and share wider. Good luck ❤️

[@annaesmaeilpor3113]

It's so peaceful & calming listening to you🌱 Love u💗

[@Anemorta]

I can’t stop admiring your hair, they’re so beautiful like feathers. ❤ And thank you for what you’re doing!

[@urfavengdz_]

this woman is perfect

[@stev345]

OH GOONESS I CAN RELATE SO MUCH... I was like this 2 years ago, the me in the past, she relying too much on her mother and her opinion weighed so big. Then when one day just after my grandfather passed away it felt like she got strucked down by a lightning to break her into the realization to heal... I am thankful my mother is still alive however I am distancing myself from her to some extent to heal and so I would not rely too much on her opinion. Now I feel so, SO much better... Thanks for this video, you're amazing Jillz 😊

[@barefootjamie143]

Also lost my mom younger than expected. Jillz your whole demeanor is comforting. I went out to party life away to avoid the pain. 25+ years later and now 43 years young I am so ecstatic to have found you 🥰 Now I have nearly 17 years clean and almost 4 years sober and I have been dealing with some people who are dependent on me and I know they are so off from Jame it's really hard sometimes. Learning to not have to respond to every little comment and dirty look has been a huge level up. Thinking that deep down, I enjoyed them messing with me all along. As I learn more their comments and deliveries are bothering me less and less and I pay attention to how I feel before I respond 😂🎉 Thank you! This is helping me change my life to make sense 🎉 I love you and am so grateful that you have the courage to take us through these steps to make it a better world One smart small change at a time 🎉😅😀

[@prei6786]

emerald green looks good on you! 😍

[@kaylahevans8334]

The last tip is my absolute favorite, I feel like I just don't thrive the same way when I don't have other women to spend time with. As a military wife we move every couple of years and I always struggle a bit until I find girlfriends.

[@jailinstokes-uq8su]

i love your channel!!! growing up without a Woman role model it’s so hard to navigate myself. your videos help so much

[@JillzGuerin]

Aw I’m so glad! ❤️

[@zanchi_13anas79]

Y’all, coming from a typical Asian Pakistani family, literally everyone treats you as a “young girl” until you are actually married. And I aim to be different. I am to be so different from the women in my family. I want to stand up for myself rather than have someone else stand up for me. I want to be like my mom, who is probably the only woman in my family who is truly her own person. Videos like these really hype me up😂.. I just hate that after everything I’ve been through, people still treat me like a kid. I’m 21!

[@lanana939]

Arab 24 here! Same!

[@LovelyRose.-bo2ztgghh]

​@@lanana939 Arab also here

[@caitlinmeyer3219]

The whole cat calling thing really hit home. I remember walking home with my friend one evening in our hometown (probably like 16 years old) and this car drove passed like normal… then it turned around to drive passed us again… a group of guys in the car chucked change at us and I remember feeling so upset and confused

[@ashhmita]

i'm so sorry for your loss and i'm sure your mother would've been so proud if she saw how much you inspire other women! you're so strong for opening up to us, you're really a sweetheart.❤️

[@jessicawalton4690]

Wow I love the comments about style. I don’t fully know what my style is, but it’s easier to tell when you feel like wearing different types of things depending on situation, weather etc!

[@poetsandanalyzers]

Man you exposed us!! Thank you for being honest!! This is gonna really help, like you said, "We have to accept what is going on."

[@PlushNcompany]

You are the best! I own my own business and I need these morning pep talks. Keep it up!! We love you

[@georgefrazer2231]

We all to 'take responsibility' for ourselves. We need to recognise 'who we are' and do not 'sell yourself short'. You need to be who you are and 'accept' yourself for who you 'really' are. You need to walk towards the future, you may stumble and fall but 'get back onto your feet'. People need to 'accept you' for who you are and not the person they want you to be. You may 'loose' some friends, but you never had them in the first place.

[@Frida115]

I added everyone I knew from school on facebook, only to realise I’m probably never going to even say hi to them again on facebook, even less in reality. So that made it easier for me to be myself, because as u said, they weren’t my friends in the first place

[@maysaraali5772]

You look gorgeous in this dress Jillz❤

[@ramparkash2318]

MaysaraAli. Ur saying absolutely right. She is looking so gerogeous as you.

[@AForeverBeauty]

WOW, WOW, WOW!!! This was so good. Thank you for this content. It was super helpful

[@stephanieg.3361]

Such great advice Jillz! I love your videos, thank you!

[@Passion4Purple418]

Im so sorry about your mom. I feel it's important to share that I lost my dad my brother and my boyfriend in the last 3 years. My boyfriends 1 year anniversary of passing is around the corner and I have used your channel as one of my tools to help discover, heal, and find myself. I found you about a month after he passed. I still have a lot to do. I also was on birth control for 7 years and now I am working on healing my pcos with a holistic doctor. My boyfriends passing made me realize that life truly is a gift and since he didn't get to live out our dreams I still want to so im really doing the work to heal and become by best self. I am so grateful for your beautiful channel. Thank you for being here at a time I really needed to find you. ❤❤

[@sandralora3850]

I'm 19, and I have a strict mother and I'm so attached to her and till now she's the one that decides what I wear to go outside, to be honest, I really love my mother but this situation is making me feel like I don't have a personality 😢

[@SemekiIzuio]

19... yeah you need to start making decisions and learning to be independent

[@Jordan-tl4yp]

Im sure your mom is watching you from upstairs and very happy with what a good and kind woman you have become. Thank you for your videos

[@Crunchywoowoochic]

Thanks for your videos! Super helpful. Also I'm a makeup artist and I have to say that I'm obsessed with the way you do your makeup!! 😍💅

[@Ambs2023]

Going off the pill is honestly a wild ride. I'm now >1 year post-pill and still discover new things that I find attractive on the daily. A couple of days ago I was on my commute to work and saw a well-shaped thigh and was like whew love to see it. Hahaha.

[@warpdirection]

I am so glad I found your channel a while ago. I am very often thinking of you. Your advice helps me so much growing in life as a woman.

[@_Hibafathima]

Most of us have that relationship with our mother. We need validation from our mother from other than anyone.❤

[@io100x100]

I really enjoyed this video! And I agree with the cat calling! I was approached by men in the streets a lot when I was 15-19 which is crazy to think about... We were kids!!!

[@analon2270]

I do love your energy and sharing, thanks so much for all your content and genuineness ❤ Love from the UK, Ana

[@rebn8346]

January Donovan founded a School for Women because this is the stuff that isnt being taught, how to be a women. Its nice to see channels like yours and her's popping up!

[@michellabella10]

Wow! What a neat, excellent and informative material. It’s so good I have to say!👏🏻 thank you so much 🙌🏻

[@lovellytshotshi345]

Ugh I just loooooved this video. I think this is my favorite video so far 🤍🤍 So informative and it's the things that no one teaches you. Loved it Jillz, Thank you so much ❣❣

[@DhanyaDhanya-nf1tk]

Daaamnn I'm sooooo greaaat fannn of thiss womennn literallyy in love withh her all videosssss❤

[@The_girlfromclass]

i am trying to heal and grow up thank you for this advice's!!❤️❤️

[@glamourandmoore]

I am a newer subscriber and I really enjoy your videos! I have learned a lot! Also, what I really appreciate is your boundaries when talking about sexual intimacy and not talking going in to details or specifics. Very classy. And just in general you always explain everything very well. Thank you! ♥️

[@stephaniewilson5242]

Love this video!! A lot of parts really resonated with me, thank you for sharing 💜

[@dropinarte]

Loved this. Can't fully relate to it because I'm a lesbian, but I do have a lot of maturing to do. The only thing I'd say is, about the libido: asexual people do exist!! It's still different for every ace person of course but sometimes libido is just not a thing for people or a rarer thing. Doesn't mean they're broken :)

[@deboraporto7040]

I took birth control pills for 10 years and affected my body health, I had covid twice and I could feel my blood circulation struggling during this period, my skin still struggles with the change but in general I'm much healthier now without that on my system, also my libido increased extremely too! Love the video, your content is my absolutely fav now 💗

[@rgrandberry1234]

Hey hey Queen!!! Thank-you for your great video!!!!! xoxo

[@carimathews9286]

Thanks for these videos & lessons. I'm a life coach, therapist & mother of 3 daughters. I share your vids with my older two daughters & there friends. I work with single women & also love to share with them ❤ 🙏

[@JillzGuerin]

Aww thank you so much for sharing!! That means a lot to me and I’m so glad you find my videos helpful! 💕

[@sophiaisabelle027]

We appreciate your pieces of advice. God bless you.

[@JillzGuerin]

❤️❤️❤️

[@sydneyanderson3790]

Oh wow this just hit home for me, I resonate with you so much! I lost my mom at age 23 and was and am so lost. I always got her approval for everything and never wanted to disappoint her. To this day I’m 27 now I still want that but am having to just do it on my own.

[@pau5910]

thank you so much for this video

[@janal5186]

Red hair would you suit so much 😍but your current hair is so beautiful too

[@NohaKitsune]

I think one of the best methods to learn what fits you is through learning your kibbe body type and what suits your body for you to know your rules so when you want to break them it would be more intentional. Also, learning your skin undertone helps a lot as well as your color season. Finally, learning your Kitchener essence helps you develop a signature essence in all your different styles. Also, knowing what type of makeup archetype suits you best helps you find that signature look that when in doubt you can lean on. These things have really helped me get more in tune with myself and my femininity tbh.

[@randommotivation7085]

I was watching your videos for the past few days.... And I really resonate with your thought process. I also lost my mother when I was 21 and she was my best friend. So, knowing your experience and how far you have come in life is really giving me inspiration to carry on. Thank you ❤.

[@nathaliaclother3306]

Stopping the pill was the best thing ever for me as well ♥️♥️♥️

[@larissaehrbeck2414]

Such an inspiring video! the part about clothes resonates so much with me! I lovee to dress matching my mood ♡ and I just can't build something like a "personal brand", I'm way too playful and creative for that. So glad I'm not alone in this 😊😍

[@Asoola_Art]

Beside the elegant content, your voice performance is perfect for that such videos, quiet but clear and comfortable ✨ Best wishes ❤

[@lavish169]

Omggggggggg that cat calling fact is sooo true. I was being cat called at such a young age and sooo much by men

[@catlee3597]

I love this video!! I've watched it three times!! Thank you for being you and sharing all that you share

[@becoming_kara]

I’ve been going through a massive transformation since my mom passed when I was 30

[@suzankim9086]

I LOVE THIS VIDEO SO MUCH

[@ashleyoverholt449]

You could do a whole video, on sexuality. If you would like to.

[@JillzGuerin]

Ok noted! 💕

[@MulheresemAscensao]

This video was awesome! Thanks for sharing this tips! ❤

[@AvePalanthe]

❤ Thank you so much. You really make a difference. Be proud of yourself. Love and appreciation from Germany ❤

[@shelleyseokim]

more of this energy please!! lovee

[@marlaka4602]

Thank you, it is very helpful, I was waiting for this video 🙏❤

[@VZN2020]

Wow I needed this

[@Somethingintherain]

This is very good and useful content I have been looking for. Thanks I’m turning 30 lately and your content is the thing I feel.

[@fitwithbrittany2706]

So glad I never took birth control! Can’t imagine. So glad you got off it.

[@bloomsky007]

I needed to hear this! Thank you!

[@hafsahyasin]

Your channel is so so wholesome and I always gain so much from every video. You’ve been invaluable as I grow into my womanhood. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. God Bless! ✨💝✨

[@BethanyBuffington]

I love Jaiya’s work; I’ve been following her since MySpace. I’m a Sensual type. Great video.

[@christina8418]

Coastal grandma chic! 😊 how fun is that ❤❤❤❤

[@laurasagenhere]

I loved this episode a lot. Especially that you start with the points that I need to hear - taking agency and responsibility over my life and stopping the blame on external things and trauma... Honestly, whoever is watching this, if you're short on time just watch "The Most Important Tip" part! Thanks a lot Jill :)

[@lightofall]

You are beautiful in and out - thank you for embracing the divine feminine - a lot of channels are quite in the masculine energy which I dont relate to that much...xoxo

[@Bunnidove]

I needed this. Thank you, Jill.

[@alizay2340]

Jesus christ this is like my higher self speaking to me.

[@OmarwagadaHalima-td2nt]

I love your energy.