JLO Divorce Details! Ben Affleck & Jennifer Lopez FAKED IT For Months! Were Diddy Tapes A Reason?!

[@HR4ever]

J Lo needs to take care of her kids and stop parading herself.

[@dibryan5061]

100% agree. 🇦🇺🦘

[@torrijones8434]

For real

[@stayinyourlanesugar]

👏👏👏stand up comment…the kids, just one time🥴

[@uva3088]

It's not that I disagree with you, but her kids are 16 now and they're used to her NOT being around and having nannies and having a revolving door of men in and out. Even during Covid when Lopez was with A-Rod, he said he loved the time at home with all the kids and she did NOT agree with him. She is thoroughly convinced she is a good mother and no one is going to tell her otherwise and the facts are she feels no real need to spend more time with them, she never did or she would have! Lopez would say she did not put her career above motherhood and those of us who are mothers and who are NOT narcissists would disagree, meanwhile all the narcissist mothers would agree with Lopez. Something has to give, the lie that women can have it all, is just a bold faced lie. There are not enough hours in a day, nor do humans have enough energy, to do it all, choices must be made and those choices are dictated by priorities. How a person lives their life, demonstrates their priorities. Remember to choose for yourself, what matters most and don't let the selfish desires of others, mislead you!

[@Theimperialone-o2g]

She needs to act her age. She's old and needs to stop trying to be the "hot" girl. It ain't 1997

[@katies3201]

It’s always the people who are loudest on social media (or in the press) about “look how happy we are” that are the biggest mess behind the scenes.

[@April-xs9tk]

Always!!

[@brett443]

Yes so true. One of my relationships was this way. We were a toxic mess, but you'd never know from social media lol

[@Bunny11344]

Bahahahhaa .. like that fitness couple Brandon handling and Jordy dix😂😂😂 always flaunting their relationshit until they broke up cause he cheated and she was insecure

[@candy2325]

I absolutely agree. The constant need for validation online makes me believe they’re overcompensating. It’s super phony. I see this with just regular people who aren’t famous.

[@Toni-fk3cz]

Also I think he was really hurt by her betrayal of making his letters public, pushed his feelings aside, & then Duffy final straw

[@robbin2755]

I got secondhand embarrassment for him.

[@judywright459]

Absolutely

[@LeahsMoods]

Why did she do that?

[@joannekle1060]

This reply is on point. I think the Diddy news did it.

[@cy318]

I heard she also sold his motorcycle collection??!! Control move!!

[@DezRD]

They were photographed seemingly arguing and Ben looking miserable, months and months before the separation. Remember the Grammy’s where JLo was smiling and dancing when Ben stood there looking mad. I think it was a separation in the making.

[@MariaG345]

He probably didn’t wanna be there

[@Sitchinite420]

Yeah. It’s like she wants a puppet not a real man. Look happy, have fun, no…pose like this, don’t tip that much they don’t even matter, ADORE ME! The next IRobot the JLO model. They look good and kiss your feet, the new adoration technology will always have a compliment ready. 😆😆😆👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@DezRD]

@@MariaG345 Yea, but I feel like they were still a new item then. And if he cared for her, he would at least give a bit of an effort lol Oh well. It’s over now.

[@evilpixiedance]

Yes, Ben looked miserable at the Grammy’s. I agree. I thought then Ben already had buyer’s remorse.

[@DezRD]

@@evilpixiedance Lmfao!!! Buyers remorse, good one😂👏🏼

[@litehold1144]

The fact that she was ever with Diddy is disgusting.

[@kamillab_ingham7718]

But that’s how she became famous, diddy promoted her

[@jessicajones3379]

@@kamillab_ingham7718she was also a dancer on in living color before we knew who she was

[@butterfliesarefreetofly6964]

She became famous when the movie Selena came out. Sure she was on Living Color but after Selena came out on movie, that made her really famous

[@butterfliesarefreetofly6964]

She became famous when the movie Selena came out. Sure she was on Living Color but after Selena came out on movie, that made her really famous. The fact that any woman was with sean combs is disgusting!! He has no looks whatsoever😂😂. It was the money😂

[@Dr__Feelgood]

Selena was what got her noticed initially, yes, but what made her really explode in the late 90s was when her first single "If You Had My Love" (that her then-beau Puffy -- who's also ironically getting his own long-delayed comeuppance this Year of the Karma -- stole from Chante Moore, who had already recorded a song that sounded almost exactly like it) became a huge hit & spent multiple weeks at #1 on the Billboard Hot 100, which then started a pretty impressive string of hit singles and albums (plus some hit movies), with her producers using the voices of real singers like the then-aspiring talent Natasha Ramos (who has videos here on YT telling her own stories about her JLow experience), Christina Milian, Ashanti, Brandy (from their demo recordings of the songs used) and various other unnamed singers who all did the main vocals or were used to "augment" JLow's own on most of the records but were either credited as "background" or were just totally uncredited. Till the mid 00s when she actually had a career slump for about 3 or 4 years. People forget she almost disappeared back then if not for the resurgence orchestrated by Medina in which he was able to get her the American Idol judge gig back when the show was still big. And then the explosion of social media occurred by perfect coincidence, which she was perfectly built for as the INSTAGRAM INFLUENCER that she actually is. All those things catapulted her back into the spotlight & high-earning power status more than ever before, even if she has never actually recaptured much of the big music career that got her up there initially. (Just to put things in perspective, her recent album "This Is Me...Now" debuted at #38 before completely dropping out of the Billboard Top 200 the following week, whereas "This Is Me...Then," her 2002 album that she also dedicated to Ben Affleck opened at #6 with sales of 314K in its first week & was eventually certified 2x Platinum by the RIAA.) So I'd argue former Sony Music President TOMMY MOTTOLA is the one who should be blamed for all this. He was so infuriated and bitter about Mariah leaving him that he tried to sabotage (though, he ultimately failed) her huge career that he had built through all sorts of shenanigans, including stealing her musical ideas so they could use and release them before she had even finished her own projects, thereby killing them before they had any chance to compete. (i.e. Jlow's "I'm Real" was built on a sample of an old Japanese record Mariah intended to use, while its #1 hit remix with JaRule was basically a ripoff of another record she had already just finished recording with him.) And by using a dancer who, prior to Selena (that she lipsynched all the songs of), was just one of Janet Jackson's background dancers (NOT backup singer, the salient point here --- watch the "That's the Way Love Goes" music video to spot her lol) and had never had any experience or even any intention to be a singer/musician, just to show his ex-wife that he could turn almost anyone into a superstar, and could also take it all away as he wishes. To show her just how powerful he was. Without Mottola, I believe most people would not have even heard of JLo because she'd probably be just a C or D list celeb with a minor acting career &/or as a reality TV show participant like the "Housewives" or something. So now for those who still weren't aware of it before, you finally get why MC famously said "I don't know her.' 😈🤣

[@rebeccaheuer3255]

Jlo.. Ben described her several times as an addict. He refers to the 12 steps multiple times in the documentary. He says she's an addict her addiction being fame, lime light, relevance, relationships, ect. Ben had a hard time living with her because her behavior is like an addict and it's hard for Ben to stay sober being around that. She filed because she's not ready to face her addictions and he drew boundaries and Jlo being the Narcissist she is, discarded Ben when he wouldn't let her violate his boundaries. That's what it boils down to. She NEEDS to work on herself and be single but she won't.

[@MizDBMe]

This is what I took from the movie too. I am in recovery as well, and I can only imagine how much of a struggle it has to of been to deal with this daily. I’m sure there was many more things as well, like the diddy connection and I’m pretty sure she secretly sold his bikes, his collector bikes, at least that’s what Ive heard, then the letters she publicly shared with sooooo many… it’s just not right. Anyway, I wish them both peace and happiness and most of all healing.

[@Twitch24]

Source?

[@desireereyes9043]

🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@desireereyes9043]

@@Twitch24 makes more sense than anything else we’ve been hearing. Based on everything that we know publicly.

[@cy318]

Wow, I haven't seen the documentary but, I thought it was too much for him being around all that and trying to be sober. He's lucky he has Jennifer Garner to bounce back on, she's a good mom.

[@lorettaharris4377]

She wasn't being patient. She was out there marrying other people in those 20 years.

[@Lynn22823]

@@lorettaharris4377 💯

[@thatretrogirlsblog]

@@lorettaharris4377 but, but... it's the greatest love of all time 😆😆😆

[@lianaintan3483]

And probably will continue to do that the next 20years 😂😂😂

[@Lynn22823]

@@thatretrogirlsblog 😂

[@TheNarcissistHunter]

LOL...collecting rings...I lost track of her track record.

[@intallpines]

Andy, A Bennifer 3.0 will never happen. Ben is done and gone. Peace.

[@stayinyourlanesugar]

👏gone like …”Gone guy” 🥴

[@Saintm-lk5iu]

@@stayinyourlanesugar 😂

[@katherinehicks1148]

I hope it's over forever. I don't want my grandkids to go through this!🤔

[@brett443]

I would be here for a Ben Jen Garner 2.0. could be sweet

[@uniquelyshonnie]

😂😂😂​@@katherinehicks1148

[@kzhemh]

The Greatest Love Story that should Never have been Told!

[@elenashubert3656]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 That’s right‼️

[@melrobertson2743]

Which one all of JLo's husbands and boyfriends have been "the love of her life"

[@blackorchidangel1964]

You got that right darling bang bang, boom bull’s-eye!! I really never followed her close enough to realize exactly how self-centered self-absorbed self narcissistic she really really is but it’s out there for the entire world now what an embarrassment the greatest love story never told!! 😂😂

[@rhoe116]

Cringe

[@AnaAcuraErica]

That movie was awesome! I wish I could have something like that made for MY love life! She paid for it, don’t hate! It was a beautiful film 🎉

[@Blueheen]

If she really wanted it to work she would have kept their relationship private this time after the last time 20 years ago, paparazzi all over their relationship. But no she made a documentary with both of them in it this time, shared his private letters, pictures and emails. I think she can't help herself by cashing in on him and their relationship. Sad because she has enough money. She should have protected their relationship this time round.

[@smiley2477]

I mean she’s in her 50s I think. You would think she would settle down chill out…

[@fifi69697]

agreed

[@nstout7139]

Just another day in the life of a narcissist

[@anne-gretelystrup8025]

@@nstout7139 💯👍

[@OG-Anetka]

So basically, Ben filed for Divorce... JLo begged him to _try again,_ he reluctantly agrees, just for Her to turn around and file for divorce, so that She gets the upper hand. Got it.

[@carvalone3076]

Exactly!

[@michelleponzio]

Pretty much.

[@nursepj6036]

Exactly how a narcissist would handle it! 🤣

[@KamiM1111]

Exactly what happened. He filed first, but once AGAIN she manipulated him, only to file to APPEAR like she was done with him.

[@coppersulphate002]

Exactly

[@Winston820]

After he saw her on the Diddy tapes he didn’t even try to make it work anymore.

[@bonnielee9570]

She lied. JLo did some sick tapes with Diddy.

[@rhondafarley7345]

Im curious about them

[@dr.jenniferma3914]

He realized she's not a good person. For the longest time he tried to dismiss her narcissism as just her need to have her art seen. Now he knows it's empty and dark in there.

[@KathleenBarrow-gh2ey]

Many a Woman has had a naughty Video or two.... That was years ago. Seems like old news.

[@theoriginalkrabbypatty]

He has to distance himself. She’s goin be in the thick of it at some point.

[@user-ov8st1zv9v]

His brother and best friend, Matt, didn’t attend the wedding --they both knew and so did we‼️🥳🤩🤨 I’m glad that circus left town😂

[@patriciabouchard5296]

He was there.

[@dr.jenniferma3914]

Even in their wedding pics, you never see him really looking at her. It's as though he hides his eyes because he already knew it wasn't real. She has her head thrown back but they never lock eyes.

[@seashellmermaid]

Leah Rimini her best friend for years was not there and they split up as friends as soon as Ben was in the picture.

[@smookypooch]

She probably coerced him into marriage and they all saw it, told him but he didn't want to acknowledge it

[@sarbriRN]

Matt was there. Didn't he say he married the right Jennifer this time. The shit poor Jennifer Garner has had to take. Now he's back beside her because he knows he fu**ed up. He had a woman who doesn't need the cameras around 24/7 and who doesn't walk the red carpet every night. Jlo would be too much for most women never mind a man.

[@cmh9932]

JLo is in a constant state of "ready to move on" 🤦🏽‍♀️ have the men in Hollywood not figured this out yet

[@xmorales1978]

@@cmh9932 she's met her match because Ben DGAF!

[@leonilamontgomery9464]

They want a taste

[@deed2157]

Big egos there so each man thinks she won't do it to them

[@suzannacoolest5241]

When you are as rich and busy you have no time to suck did.k

[@selenachan4230]

JLO is a Merry go around. Always hopping on another guy, I mean horse😂

[@missy7517]

Yay! Finally I can support Ben Affleck again! 🎉

[@monicamwaura399]

He will be on Raya soon.Try him there

[@AnaAcuraErica]

Really?! So he can go back to being an alcoholic? Nice 👌

[@Gforu81]

😂😂

[@benicio1967]

I just can’t believe that anyone in their 50’s could still be carried away so quickly and easily by their emotions. She says love is patient and love is kind but I will never forget the moment in her movie where he wanted to show her some camera equipment and she said “oh I don’t care!“ That is not patient that is not caring or kind.

[@rhoe116]

Yes I used to be Jlo fan, after no, she is no good person

[@SpikeLover1863]

The only thing that she cares about is herself! 🙄

[@mommom3172]

Or, when she calls him an idiot. She's too lose with her words to people she claims to love.

[@zenawarrior7442]

If it's not about her she does not care, typical of a grandiose narcissist. Ben's not perfect but a narc will ruin you in every way.

[@Toni-fk3cz]

Think it was a bit rude to be drinking & launch a co that sells alcohol if you’re married to someone who has issues w it

[@KatharinaK117]

Exactly! That's absolutely disrespectful! Not supportive and even...wicked!

[@monicamwaura399]

They don't manufacture alcohol in the house q

[@tonicobarrubias4052]

💯

[@Linda-qp9kp]

I felt sorry for Jennifer Garner when she and Ben divorced. Now I feel sorry for Ben. At least now he knows that JLo is not for him.

[@maybelline081]

Neither Jennifer Garner is for him, he had the chance to proove her good. Instead he trashed her about his drinking, what a loser

[@JoSpring]

Only someone who either is a narcissist or has never been married to a narcissist would say it "always" takes two to break up a marriage. Sometimes you have to end a marriage to save your life.

[@herroyalhighness5634]

I thought the saying was “it takes two to make a marriage work, but only one to ruin it”

[@carolmanning8367]

Exactly, from some one who knows.😊

[@caramelbilquees]

Yes I believe it's JLo both Ojani And Alex Rodriguez both said it wouldn't last because JLo is too much about her self only. His last marriage lasted over 10 years and he's still close to Jennifer Garner hers never last

[@zenawarrior7442]

So true. Hate that takes 2 crap. A narcissist says that or hasn't been in a terrible situation...it is your life in every way. Only takes 1 to ruin it period.

[@CM-lu5qq]

It must've been something concrete because he looks so done with her.

[@monicamwaura399]

So what was concrete with Garner cos he cheated through out the marriage

[@Catwoman748]

​@@monicamwaura399 addiction, not Jennifer Garner

[@josimpson7999]

I think he said he was so physically attracted to her and allowed that to cloud his judgment. I think it went emotionally deeper with Garner - without the same level of physical attraction.

[@loulou9978]

They were at odds from day one. She’s public and must publicize EVERYTHING. They couldn’t even have a private honeymoon. Narcissist are exhausting and completely manipulative. Her essentially “selling” his love letters was it!!! He’s relieved it’s over.

[@mariaj.medina-guarch476]

Jlo will keep making the same mistake over, and over and over again…thinking that she’s the center of the universe!! Go, Ben, gooooooo!!!!

[@renemartinez1289]

Not surprised. JLo is toxic and Ben Affleck should have been aware of that. Oh well. Karma is karma

[@user-yq8xl1mu8b]

BOTH OF THEM ARE VERY TOXIC.

[@loulou9978]

Ben has humiliated her so much there won’t be a 3.0. The on/off ring was all JLo. Narcissist have to be in control. She tried really hard to get him under control but ultimately it didn’t work. She was more interested in the “love story” than an actual marriage

[@GatorChristy]

She should have listened to Jane Fonda. She warned her about doing that movie.

[@RayneSaltair]

My husband has what I call his "toys" which are usually tech items. He gets so excited like a little kid and I love every single minute of it. Life is hard, relationships are hard, the least you can do is share those moments with your partner where they are truly happy and "playing." I thought at least this "great love story," was going to show her actually sharing a life with this man, I guess she really is a narcissist and incapable. Poor Ben.

[@margaretorban9750]

She tried for months? They’ve only been married a few months! He’s lucky to be rid of her!

[@JoanneAlgranati]

Ben must be dancing with joy.....

[@RosPal-Tesao15]

I think he was ready to file before her but to avoid more drama he was just, you go ahead

[@josimpson7999]

Agreed! I bet he’s relieved! That weight around his neck has gone.

[@janetr5929]

He looked miserable with her as soon as she got that ring on her finger.

[@LynneSheridan]

He never looked happy with her!

[@yanethkehr5896]

@@janetr5929 he is pathetic.

[@user-yp9od3lx6l]

Who can make him happy?

[@AnaAcuraErica]

This just isn’t true. Y’all some haters lmao

[@dianestephan8108]

It does not always take two to make a relationship end! People always say that, but sometimes one person can cause all of the trouble.

[@herroyalhighness5634]

It takes two people to make a marriage work, and only one to ruin it.

[@samjanejones4207]

I’m so happy Ben is free from this awful woman Lopez. I wish him well

[@monicamwaura399]

How well was his life before her?

[@user-yp9od3lx6l]

​@@monicamwaura399😂 Bottle rum for breakfast...

[@Catwoman748]

​@@monicamwaura399If he was single, that's his business what he was doing.

[@suzannacoolest5241]

Jlo is pretty Ben looks old like grandpa

[@rhoe116]

​@suzannaco 0:24 olest5241 Jho is wrinkly, look at her old Latina photos she tried so hard to be white

[@2young2stress]

He was completely hurt & humiliated when she share all his letters and played him as a fool.

[@juliemartinez4418]

JHO is done Ben made the biggest mistake of his life she's TOXIC

[@dreamersruleNOW]

She’s high energy, he’s low . She’s a high profile celebrity; he’s private, low key. A clash.

[@amietherealtor9991]

She is a snob

[@suzannacoolest5241]

He is aggressive to her in public imagine closed doors 🚪 is not good look also Ben and garner weird Public Humiliation of Affection PHA is sordid , decide if you broke with your ex before parading them on peoples nose whilst garner is dating miller for years now what is up with garner and Ben hot affair is strange and disrespectful

[@Nyteowl820]

JHo is too high maintenance and attention hungry. Ben’s the total opposite.

[@suzannacoolest5241]

@@Nyteowl820 Ben affleck looks old af grandpa looks , he is better matched to a stay at home retired mommy, Jlo is a megastar and sexy Latina woman and we love her for it we don’t want her to change as there is nothing wrong with her star ⭐️ benAffkeck wants to change a woman to be a housewife retired lounging pants 👖 like garner, ok if you are submissive like garner but not okay for Jlos fans who likes her because Jlo is sexy energetic healthy bubbly and outgoing and young visage looks 🥹

[@age-i1p]

人は衰え色々な所から体は変化していきます。 ロペスはブランドを活かしてビジネスにしてるんだから、維持しなければなりまん。 ガーナーは専業主婦ではありませんからね😂ちゃんと地道に自分のやりたい事を、選んで仕事をしてます。 そしてガーナーは自分をブランドとしてません。比べるのはナンセンスだ。 どうも、ロペスのファンはガーナーが、大好きで、あらゆる所に現れる哀れなストーカーですね❤

[@slyphwing]

“The Greatest Love Story Never Told” still cracks me tf up 😂

[@rhoe116]

I know right so cringey

[@thankyou5093]

Im So impressed that YOU called out that she's feeding these magazines/medias...the information SHE wants to make her "Look" good or not as bad as she thinks she looks now❤

[@annemariemcnamara8756]

She wants everyone to believe it was all his fault but her big narcissistic ego is the biggest problem. Ben has his issues for sure but he seems more down to earth, real, JLo is none of the above, I’d say living with her would be a nightmare

[@KimsSparkle]

It would have looked even worse for Jlo if the divorce happened while she was promoting the Greatest Love Story Never Told. Maybe they held off because of the release. 🤔

[@krystle4248]

BOOM!!! GOOD CALL!!!! Andy needs to do the timeline with that movie, when they were film8ng, when it came out, etc

[@lesley4115]

It was like a week or two after the documentary and the album was released when the rumors of the split started. I said it at the time, it must have been so embarrassing and mortifying for her to be rubbing our faces in "the greatest love story never told" only to promptly break up. 😂

[@Moms2good]

Ben is much better off. This was an issue when they were first together. He doesn’t like all the limelight. IMO

[@qhluvr77]

That’s true, I think they both thought the other would change.

[@blurpledragon2779]

She looks so stupid and selfish filing for divorce on their anniversary. She is awful.

[@rhoe116]

😂agree

[@OCDee-wg5qc]

She needs someone who is as in love with her as she is herself

[@darlenenoel2981]

@@OCDee-wg5qc that would be ARod. If given the chance, he would go back

[@Catwoman748]

She had them, her first husband actually loved her, Puffy loved her, plenty of nice guys loved her, gassed her up too much, and she left them 😂

[@user-jg2se2po8n]

Didn't he just go to Japan with his ex and kids, I imagine that pushed Jlo over the edge and the Full moon.

[@martystub3990]

Their kids are older and not stupid. They weren’t doing this all for the kids. She has been using his kids. I don’t see him on solo dates with her kids.

[@MissteryDiva]

JLo sold Ben's motorcycle collection without telling him, forbade him to drink or talk to girls. He said he "Didn't want his private life public" then she gave his love letters to her songwriters 🤦‍♀️Then JLo Diddy tapes came out. Also she smuggled the gun Diddy used to shoot that woman- then blamed someone else‼️Would YOU stay with her? Plus she left her husbands for other men AND she was a homewrecker~KARMA

[@cy318]

😮 I thought that I heard she sold his motorcycle collection, oh wow!! It's true !? She's lucky, he didn't he didn't sell her cars, dresses or shoes..Woweee!! My ex would have killed me if I did that!!! That's Crazzzy!!

[@Saintm-lk5iu]

Wow, JLo is disgusting if she did all of that.

[@rhoe116]

Yes poor Dayanara Torres

[@herroyalhighness5634]

To be fair, wasn’t Ben a home wrecker? Garner was married to Scott Foley when they started canoodling. I think people like to conveniently forget that about Jennifer Garner

[@Ana-bu3hh]

I'm sick of this story and I don't like JLo but here I am still listening to this story.

[@suzannacoolest5241]

I like Jlo 🤩😎😇

[@mariee.5912]

😂 I stopped like Jlo after Arod. I just got tired of her drama. I am just here for the tea

[@suzannacoolest5241]

@@mariee.5912 let’s hope and pray 🤲 Jlo doesn’t started this drama for Arod I feel like he stalked Jlo but she didn’t realize it

[@Ana-bu3hh]

@@suzannacoolest5241 What part do you like? That sh'es mean, greedy, money hungry or selfish? You see all this in her film.

[@marialombardi9892]

When Ben saw those tapes of her and P. Diddy, Ben lost it for her.

[@amysmiles9751]

Maybe she wants a Part 2 to her documentary😂

[@janicesolomon8714]

Always thought they weren't right for each other.

[@lizettewatson366]

J Lo is despicable lots to come out about her and Diddy🤮🤮🤮

[@mazm-g2612]

This has to do with Diddys and her past coming back to haunt her.

[@robynkahle7240]

The kids are definitely not her top priority.

[@rhondawilkins2017]

I totally agree on the “DIDDY RAID” finishing Bennifer! JLo… you going down with a lot of others in the DIDDY saga!

[@evelynemoise7543]

For what? Jlo dated Didi before married Ben, the media lies stop your nonsense.

[@pamelamorrow56]

Did jlo party like Duffy with all the sex tears and crap?

[@Twinkle_Toes88]

What are “sex tears”?

[@monicamwaura399]

Next scandals is Ben's sex scandals cos they r more than Diddys

[@BestAntiq]

Subpoena is what ended Benifer!

[@evelinacerna5673]

I knew it, I gave her 2 years. JLO loves herself

[@deealex1402]

i said this long time ago, she needs to stay the f alone for a while and work on herself first. i do not remember a moment where jlo was actually single and alone. she is always married or engaged as long as i can remember. sometimes the problem is not all of the men, but you need to reflect on yourself and what you do to make these relationships fail, it cannot always be the fault of others. the more she recycles these relationships ,the more fked up she will be, because she fails to work on herself.

[@tonicobarrubias4052]

SHE is the common denominator.

[@ArtByJulieE]

I still remember Ben's daughter talking about her memoir title "JLo WAS my stepmom". She saw it coming 😂

[@silverdoeGirl]

J Lo should take a note out of Jennifer's book on how to deal with a divorce with class..... Not ''lets spin it publicly for pity and attention.''

[@monicamwaura399]

Oh really?

[@littlest7738]

Well that's the one thing she does not have, "class". She wants attention and people talking about her, it does it matter how she gets it, and since in her "career" there's nothing that stands up, she settles with gossip

[@silverdoeGirl]

@@littlest7738 Totally agree!

[@fifi69697]

agreed, Jennifer has too much class, jlo will never add up,

[@rhoe116]

Diddy tapes

[@elizabethshollenberger9412]

The kids knew they were separated..how could they not !!! They are young adults!!They did all that fakerery to save face for Jlo...Ben went along with it because it was his decision and he felt guilt. He left her and she guilt tripped him in to delaying the announcement!!

[@ItsStillNotNicole]

Her kids probably recognize the signs and say here we go again.

[@lisanielsen550]

She lives her life through the media and has to have that attention all the time. He is opposite to that. She also lives her life with excess. She reminds me of Kim Kardashian. . Can you imagine Kim and Ben together? That’s why he left. Their lifestyles didn’t match or their intellects. I always thought he downgraded.

[@cristianadan6046]

Couldn't agree more. When they got married I was shocked. How could Ben Affleck be with someone like her! His flaws and all and still he is waaay much better than she is. She embarassed him in front of the whole world with that pathetic movie she made. Not caring one bit about his feelings. It was always about her "art". Jane Fonda warned her... but narcissists never listen to anybody, cause they know best. Of course she is not going to take any blame for what she did and we already see that. She is always the victim, she always "tried to make it work". Maybe to make it seem that it worked. She is all about her image and nothing else.

[@anarr7411]

Desperate to salvage her image. Sorry, too late.

[@Roxyd707]

She's been divorced so many times, she knows the routine--acted as own attorney---ha ha ha He is way better off with out HER.

[@bimblaq]

Ben must be relieved he doesn’t have to pretend anymore, he looked miserable with JLo. She paraded him around for publicity & embarrassed him as Pen Affleck.. Diddy stuff was definitely the last straw

[@sheldonspates6562]

Noooo not J-HOE!!!!🤣

[@SilentlyMe]

She’s heinous and he’s better off without her. She’s got a permanent case of “moving on”. Maybe the Diddy of it did her in?

[@Sitchinite420]

Ben told her he did want their relationship to be in the public eye this time around. To prove how much she cares and how well she listens she then proceeded to make an album, a movie, and a docudrama about “their love”. It was doomed. Who wants to be with someone who just does what they want and doesn’t care what you say or think? JLO is addicted to fandom. She’ll get married again, five or six more times, no one has any doubts about that. Bet Arod thinks he dodged a bullet.

[@odalysruiz4]

You're 💯🎯. Very sad, her behaviour.🙄😔😒 👍🏻👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@DonnaCosmas]

He did not just MOVE out just like that unless something happened. You’re right. Something happened because he did not even want to be seen with her anymore. Barely kissed her check the last time they were seen together. Something BIG and it was NO looking back!!

[@rhoe116]

Diddy tapes, Ben has daughters he adores, he dont want the associations with that

[@katherinehicks1148]

Ben was also sick of being JLo's chauffeur. JLo does not like to drive. With all the money she has she could hire a private driver.

[@MG-bf1zi]

It's April 26th not April 20th. But I really would like to know what happened on April 26th, even though it is absolutely not my business. I just can't help my nosiness lol

[@cecilia8621]

The Diddy mess pulled the trigger on their marriage.On top of all the things what already was going on between them..she loves the limelight 24/7 he’s not into that etc etc.

[@goldendiva725]

She’s full of it. This move is for her fans. He’s moved out months ago and bought and closed on a house on her birthday while she was playing fairy princess. Affleck has shown her in too many ways to count by actions without saying a word to the media that he was done. Control? 🤣 They will both get high powered lawyers eventually and fight it out. She better hope that affiliation with ole Puff doesn’t cause more problems. He was prepared for the filing. He also chose to be in CT with his family and returned on “their anniversary” with his family. There is no way he was blindsided by her filing. He welcomes his freedom and can now move in his new home without her paparazzi walks. ( I know her feet hurt)

[@jaymepeddycoart1808]

Many factors played a part in the end of their marriage, When he ghosted her birthday celebration he was done. I agree, Something caused him to run.

[@rhoe116]

Diddy tapes

[@stoutie18]

Is anyone surprised?

[@LisaTalcott-g2t]

Nope! lol

[@tinaevans6311]

Nope, seen it coming long ago before they even got married. Ben is a regular guy and so is Matt Damon I am sure Matt is over the moon, thank you God 🙏😂 bcuz one or any that craves the spotlight for everything...hmm. We have all seen this NOISE before by several divas that craves attention. Go figure. I was & never will ever be a fan to music and I am not a fan of movies anyway. Some people truly need to get OVER themselves.

[@laser-sj]

I think this has everything to do with Diddygate 😁

[@LynneSheridan]

I don't know why he married her in the first place!

[@marymotherofgod4861]

When Ben went to Japan to follow Jen G on vacay she bugged out 😂😂😂😂

[@ShellyBomb]

⚖️ Filing for divorce on your second wedding anniversary re August 20th is a total slap in the face to Ben & their short lived relationship ... 💔

[@Swansong321]

We ALL KNEW!..big announcement🙄...til next time

[@ilsemontejo3304]

The greatest story of love never told whatever who cares! She tomorrow will give us another husband or boyfriend and poor daughter Emme watching her mom jumping from one husband to another no wonder she is non binary.

[@mackgold50]

If she didn't make that vanity project, people would still talk about this, but possibly less intensely. Mama Fonda tried to warn her.

[@maC2much459]

I am so through with People magazine. People has turned into just another trashy rag, from Meghan Markle to JLo. Constantly telling us how wonderful these two sad excuses for women are. Their writers should admit they are just “fiction writers.”

[@YvonneCrean]

Yes. Absolutely trash now 🇦🇺🇦🇺

[@carolmanning8367]

People magazine has always been that way, very little it prints is true.

[@mezzamuddle]

Absolutely! Well said 👏 😊 Meghan Markle is another JLo, only Meghan has zero talent.

[@GatorChristy]

So when she was promoting Atlas, she had already separated. She went on Kimmel then talking about how big her ring was the first time she was engaged to Ben...interesting...

[@kendrahefner4702]

I speculate that Ben wanted JLo to come forward about the past or maybe he found out details about what she did and it completely turned him off to her or even disappointed that she didn't want to own up to what she did. I definitely think it has everything to do with what happened with Diddy that made this relationship fail

[@paulinathesalsadancer2659]

She tried hard???? What a joke Jlo. You dont make any efforts to make your marriagessssssssssss work!!!

[@EmpressScarletSmile]

Run free Ben run free 😅

[@triciaphillips741]

Ben should sue the s*** of JLo because the greatest Love Story never told it's a big embarrassment every second for the rest of his life.

[@merediths2cents]

I had no idea she was a singer. I thought she was famous because she married him… for real. Bahahahaha...😆😂

[@superheromoviesduh]

Lmaooo 😂😂 "Are you sure Girl". That's hilarious! She was delusional.

[@ismailasha5494]

😂😂😂

[@Giftshopgirl-hi7tx]

😂😂😂

[@pituk08]

Remember she got a tattoo with HIS name on February 💀

[@phoenixa.9951]

I think the way she had arranged to sell his entire motorcycle collection he had spent years and $$ accruing them, to sell them secretly while on their honeymoon would have been a dealbreaker for me. So selfcentered and controlling.

[@mezzamuddle]

Same as Meghan Markle making Harry sell the antique rifles that his grandfather Prince Philip left him.

[@kendellstewart2090]

J-Lo now officially has more rings than an Infinity Gaunlet😂

[@reynaestrella3918]

Jlow is super desperate!

[@LynneSheridan]

I agree she is desperate, but neither one of them is anything special

[@tektako]

What ended it is the same thing that ended it decades ago duhh

[@PureSparkles22]

ben's a narcissist. He cheated with the kids nanny

[@korger1481]

That is so disgusting.

[@rhoe116]

He didn't, separated already when he did the nanny

[@susanwallbrown7889]

@@rhoe116Still bad!

[@Katy-se2fn]

Im sure Ben's a handful but I'm happy for him 🤷‍♀

[@theresamahan8902]

He is lookin goood🔥 Divorcing the stress was good for him.

[@logic7753]

Not Diddy lurking in the back.

[@lisaboo5806]

I am in no way a JLo fan girl. A relationship requires work on both sides. I guess they can move on now at least. She needs to really do some self work and reflection and not rush into another relationship. Thanks Andy ❤

[@KathleenBarrow-gh2ey]

It makes me sad. So many of us are alone with no Soul Mate in sight. There they were, together again! You know you just have to be best friends, foremost. They knew their differences. They gave me hope that Love is still feasible once you are over 50.... 😢

[@christinaherren]

Wrong Popcorn, it takes two to make a relationship work, it only takes one to ruin it!