Make sure you're safe from the big data breach and from data brokers sharing your information, Checkout my sponsor aura.com/behavioralarts to get a 14 day free trial and see if your personal information has been leaked online! Checkout Kjersti Flaa's response to this analysis which she called "Spot on." kzbin.info/www/bejne/rau9XqecfNB3iK8 Hey Everyone, hope you're enjoying the video 🙂. Here are a few additional thoughts. 1) In my experience, when english isn't someone's first language and an unexpected comment is made, the person often assumed they didn't get it due to the language barrier, in those scenarios, the person often just assumes the best until the intention becomes very clear. I wonder if that's what happened to Kjersti (the interviewer) at first, it's possible she was laughing along because her mind just didn't assume that Blake was starting an interview with guns blazing, until it became very clear that she was. 2) there's another contradiction in Blake's confusing speech at the end about meeting celebrities, in the first example she says that when you meet a celebrity "the DISAPPOINTING thing is when you meet the people they're so much more awesome." Then, immediately after, in her second example, as she talks about meeting celebrities again she says "That's ALWAYS NICE to see that your idea of someone isn't who they actually are." So in the same answer she went from meeting celebrities being "disappointing" to being "always nice." And although I think she went from talking about the disappointment in the media to the always nice of the celebrity themselves the structure of the sentence really sounds like she was making it up as she goes along without really knowing what she’s trying to say. 3) some people in the comments are shifting the focus from Blake’s behaviors to her intentions, maybe she didn’t want to talk about her pregnancy or maybe she took the physical comment as inappropriate. There’s nothing wrong with that, with trying to understand the “why,” but there are three very important caveats that have to accompany that focus. 1) if we’re going to talk about intentions, then we have to consider Kjersti’s intentions as well, even if some people may think it’s not right to comment on someone’s pregnancy, she didn’t mean any offense by it, TO HER it was a polite acknowledgement (regardless of wether that is objectively true), it doesn’t make sense to defend one person’s intentions and judge another person’s. 2) even if her intentions were to normalize not talking about pregnancy, the message was snappy and unclear, she didn’t clarify that that was causing an issue. Anyone who is saying that’s why she acted the way she did is speculating. There would have been a way for her to calmly explain her position on that, even today, I would personally love to hear it. But that never happened. And 3) intention doesn’t change behavior. Justifying why something may have happened behavioraly doesn’t counter the behavior. If I say that someone is smiling and therefore is probably happy, it doesn’t contradict the analysis to say “no they got a raise today, that’s why they’re smiling.” Whether she had a good reason to or not, her reaction was dismissive and snappy, to explain why doesn’t make it any less so. As a behavioral analyst, I call out behaviors and what they suggest. Saying “this is why she acted that way”‘isn’t a counter, it’s an agreement.
@darma992 ай бұрын
Please check also their another interview, cause years later they did another interview about another movie
@kimwalsh2 ай бұрын
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@catfreeny41452 ай бұрын
I actually thought about that first additional point! I’ve had plenty of visiting foreign friends who nervously laugh or navigate a social situation not totally understanding what’s happening. That additional possibility of her being nervous navigating a cultural difference makes it so unnecessary and heartbreaking.
@cheche8332 ай бұрын
@@mewho6199doesn’t justify Blake’s rude behavior
@LindaC6162 ай бұрын
@@mewho6199 the snapback from Scarlett was definitely warranted, because it was a question from man coming to a woman about her lingerie. Here, it was one woman asking another woman about the period fashions used in the film. My take on this, since I have a friend who was an editor / writer and hated these (what she called) "horde interviews", is that this may have been one of the last interviews of the day and Blake was simply tired of getting the same question (notice that she says "everyone asks..."), or that she was anticipating that the woman would ask her something deeper, and she's mad that she didn't. Not fair to the interviewer to put that on her, but it's a possible explanation. If someone is doing a period film, I would find it à propos to talk about the fashions.
@jillcooper67402 ай бұрын
Blake seemed really at ease with being mean. It looked like it comes natural for her which makes me think that's who she is on a regular bases.
@chrissynelson40652 ай бұрын
Exactly!!!!!
@tanyachef2 ай бұрын
Truly classy women (which Blake is obvi not) know that with fame/power comes with an obligation and respoisbility to be kind and classy above everything else. I live in a gated community where there are "high profile ppl" There is a wife of a guy that is fairly famous that is a mean girl like Blake is here. It just comes across as such 8th grade catty mean girl. The thing the sucks is how many women let her get away with it bc they are afraid of her "wrath" or finding themselves on the outside like this interviewer.
@ersheri2 ай бұрын
You put that statement so well. Blake seems very comfortable being rude and so does Parker.
@kits.36292 ай бұрын
Absolutely! And the other woman as well. The sneering facial expressions she made throughout the interview...wow. It felt like the high school smart girl who accidentally sat at the mean girls' lunch table. Wtf.
@troycambo2 ай бұрын
@@ersheri parker i can almost forgive since at first she was trying to include the interviewer and it could be argued she weighed things up and thought it was more politically advantageous to side with blake who is more powerful. she didn't seem to instigate but did enable so she might be salvageable. but yes you're very right to point out that Blake is VERY comfortable in this role. This speaks volumes as to how she truly is. It's pretty gross. Maybe she picked up this mean streak from her husband who seems suspicious with his "always on" character. He hides his contempt under a supposed 'character' but he's always in "character".
@Megz2072 ай бұрын
Seeing this interview before the movie made my decision to NOT see the movie. Adult bullies.
@Desert_Marcupial2 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@MichelleLyn842 ай бұрын
Ditto. Lost my support for sure.
@rgdssd2 ай бұрын
This interview made me realize that I never want to see anything with Blake Lively in it- what a horrible person.
@SS-in1ts2 ай бұрын
Ditto
@AmbersHouseDIY2 ай бұрын
Same here
@iyaabdo75242 ай бұрын
Blake’s body language and the way she was only acknowledging Parker literally gave me flashbacks of high school mean girls
@Jessgitalong2 ай бұрын
This interview retraumatizes MOST of us. The mean girls were few. Their victims were many.
@annab3062 ай бұрын
Unfortunately very common behaviour among some moms also, but now they're supposed to be adults. Sad.
@MimiRichardson-c9w2 ай бұрын
Sadly, relate to this so much. Narcissistic, mean girl behavior, lacking social and emotional intelligence. Its bizarre to me how difficult it is for some to just be kind. ❤ I'm sorry for everybody who has felt or hurt from someone else's entitled bullying. Very sad,breaks the frequency of human connection.
@arcanewolf50822 ай бұрын
@annab306 yea my mom acts exactly like Blake does here, super mean and condescending. Max narcissism. And Parker is my dad, falling over himself to please my mom and emulate her behavior, afraid to cause even the smallest of offense, lest he earn her ire. Even the tiniest of interactions with them takes me back to high school...except theyre like one of the snobby teachers instead of the other kids.
@TheMingez22 ай бұрын
@@MimiRichardson-c9wmany people believe if they are mean it makes them prettier.... but it really doesn't.
@priscilalondon2 ай бұрын
She got mad over a compliment about her pregnancy; she got mad over talking about wearing costumes in a period movie. But she is excited to talk about wearing floral dresses and cracking awkward jokes while promoting a DV drama.
@acatismansbestfriend57192 ай бұрын
that is an excellent point!
@grlinterrupted72912 ай бұрын
Right?!! There is also another clip with a different male interviewer from the same day as this. When asked what she would like to say about the movie…. She responds droning on and on about the costumes/fashion. #meangirlbehaviour
@ashleymitts2 ай бұрын
Blake got upset because the interviewer made the comment about her body instead of about the baby/pregnancy.
@Likewewereinparis242 ай бұрын
It’s from 2016. And we’ve never condoned discussing women’s bodies. The interviewer doesn’t have any idea what’s going on w Blake and her body in that moment.
@jdawgb76422 ай бұрын
@@Likewewereinparis24 It was well known by BLAKE, that she was pregnant. The interviewer made an innocent and benevolent comment. Blake made an intentionally malicious one. Even if Blake didn’t agree with the interviewer making the comment, it was a completely immature, unnecessary, and hateful comment she made back. If she really believed that she shouldn’t have made a comment about her body, the response to make an inappropriate comment back, is an absolutely ridiculous logic based on that premise. And Blake has a history of being a rude jerk. So there’s that.
@AltClev372 ай бұрын
That interviewer seems very sweet. She didn’t deserve to be treated like that.
@mkdau012 ай бұрын
And the pool lady was actually infertile, so when Blake said this, Flaa said it was like a bullet hit her. Poor thing. 😥
@annialm37662 ай бұрын
Actually she’s so cool, she maintains her dignity. Maybe that’s how you treat children - don’t show and act like you’re provoked by them.
@pallutus2 ай бұрын
Why did the journalist behave tactlessly? She draw attention to someone's belly? It doesn't matter whether the woman is pregnant or not - you don't draw attention to the belly, and the journalist did it. Why she you now dragging it into the light of day? she's spreading hate against the actress.
@Simplicity-pd2hp2 ай бұрын
@@pallutusshut up, Blake! 🙄✌🏼
@ducklingscap8972 ай бұрын
@@pallutusimagine gettin offended by someone who congratulates you on your pregnancy 😂😂😂
@cyb3r12 ай бұрын
I felt sorry for the interviewer, she did nothing wrong, she was 100% professional but she was outright disrespected
@Dizzle722 ай бұрын
@@sueq8862true, but it’s a double-edged sword. Sometimes, we cancel people unjustly and destroy their lives in the process. With great power comes great responsibility, and most of us aren’t fit to wield such a deadly sword.
@nostalji932 ай бұрын
@@sueq8862 We enabled this behavior ourself. These people are just symptoms and not the cause.
@tektako2 ай бұрын
@@sueq8862you should start by cancelling yourself
@cathymartin60852 ай бұрын
@@cyb3r1 same
@cathymartin60852 ай бұрын
@@redsoxexpat hi Blake👋
@simonebaker49152 ай бұрын
There’s no awkwardness, it’s plain rudeness.
@CreceTuAlmaTarot2 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@jdspetersgaming2 ай бұрын
idk why the OP is calling it awkward.
@scivirus35632 ай бұрын
HOW is it Rude ..she is advocating for men which is real lately .and the interviewer is Rude highlighting very personal things about Blake
@lesliea.71742 ай бұрын
Rudeness does lead to then the awkwardness bc it’s like what do you say next. Basically anything next is plain awkward bc Blake will make it AWKWARD. There’s both rudeness and awkwardness.
@made-line76272 ай бұрын
@@scivirus3563😭
@mykidsaresupercute2 ай бұрын
The fact that she won't apologize and is calling herself the victim speaks volumes. Blake is a mean girl.
@Gee-xb7rtАй бұрын
Parker Posey is a top tier improv actor, and I don't think people realize she is sending cues to Blake, Blake starts to be more open with the interviewer and Parker steps up her game to sabotage it.
@mykidsaresupercuteАй бұрын
@@Gee-xb7rt it is literally the opposite of that.
@FadingAway10Ай бұрын
I used to love Blake in GG and always saw her like Serena , I always get wrapped up in these characters and start to believe that they are the same way as their character in the show which usually is def not true.
@alcap-z5d29 күн бұрын
Her and her husband
@lisedale676723 күн бұрын
@@Gee-xb7rti do not interpret it that way at all.
@margaretsgirl2 ай бұрын
To my knowledge, neither of them have apologized still to the interviewer. That speaks louder than anything else.
@laurenm31482 ай бұрын
Great point! It's outrageous that neither of them have said anything after all this time
@shikhagupta4682 ай бұрын
Who is even the other actress clearly her career never went anywhere cause I’ve never heard of her. Also this interview is exactly what probably happened on set with it ends with us, her being nicey nice to everyone and shutting Justin out and everyone following cause she has the fame And money. Goddddd she reminds me of every rude, popular girl in HS just feeding off other people getting what they want and then disposing them. Doubt she’ll talk to any of the cast after this.
@ARosethatBloomsinEarlyMay2 ай бұрын
@@shikhagupta468 Parker Posey. She's labeled as "Indie Queen" bc she appeared in a bunch of indie films. (Although Lili Taylor deserves that label bc she's a better actress.) Parker is not that notable, except if you've seen Scream 3. But this incident with BL will be her legacy. This isn't prolly how she imagined her reputation would turn out in her 50s. Lmao.
@nicolegroves68802 ай бұрын
@@shikhagupta468 how strange that you think that just because YOU haven’t heard of a person that means their career has gone nowhere. As if you knowing a person means anything…lol. She is actually very accomplished with an impressive career as an actress, a writer and a producer for quite a few very popular films.
@shikhagupta4682 ай бұрын
@@nicolegroves6880 didn’t realize you guys were best friends.
@elle_sanchez2 ай бұрын
As a woman, it’s so annoying to see other grown women acting like they’re still in high school. I have been on the receiving end of this type of behavior and it’s awful. Shame on them 😒🙄
@ava14212 ай бұрын
Maybe Parker has written untrue gossip pieces about them? That is my feeling.
@ThisChangeIsAwful2 ай бұрын
@@ava1421 then why do the interview at all? showing up and self reporting in this way is dumb.
@bluewhale26002 ай бұрын
Same
@kristibrown60912 ай бұрын
@@ava1421Parker is the actress on the right. Kirsten (sp?) is the interviewer.
@kyliedavies16952 ай бұрын
Yep me too
@lemoncrash18142 ай бұрын
I love how she was trying to punish the interviewer but ultimately it backfired horribly on her, it just took 8 years for karma to catch up with her.
@elliotkatz69402 ай бұрын
Haha. 8 years and she got Karma w interest tacked on
@Nikki-T2 ай бұрын
She tried to do the same thing to Justin and it backfired. Ha
@calophone2 ай бұрын
@@Nikki-TDo you have links? 👀
@Nikki-T2 ай бұрын
@@calophone She tried to say "his kiss lingered too long" and throw him under the bus with other attacks...backfired.
@joanpiccardi8292 ай бұрын
Why did Parker keep her hand in Blake’s space?
@LonelyBetters2 ай бұрын
Being rude is forgivable. Refusing to apologize is not.
@LilyAmongThornsАй бұрын
100%
@jesssmith84012 ай бұрын
It looks like Blake goes out of her way to not look at the interviewer. This is gross.
@Debbie-y2t2 ай бұрын
Posey as well.
@charichari2 ай бұрын
I noticed that too, Blake HARDLY acknowledges her afterwards!! She's acting like a damn fool..
@roxanaalnatour59162 ай бұрын
Absolutely disgusting that they totally ignore the interviewer, like NO social etiquette, just plain RUDE
@LindaC6162 ай бұрын
Definitely queen bee behavior
@4craycray2 ай бұрын
Arrogance! Both of them are horrible.
@michelehoward41132 ай бұрын
And the journalist is there to help promote their movie! They aren’t doing her a favor by sitting here and “answering questions”. Yea it’s the interviewers job but it’s BL and PP’s job too.
@kelleyc.60492 ай бұрын
Not a popular opinion. But in my mind the interview was rude. Congratulating someone on their bump is never a compliment.
@ligairi2 ай бұрын
The interviewer has no social etiquette
@Milestonemonger2 ай бұрын
The poor interviewer was dying of embarrassment because Blake was being rude and dismissive. Horrible behavior by Blake
@AA-iy4gm2 ай бұрын
Plus Lively made her feel terrible for asking about clothing about a period drama movie where costumes are worn...wanting to play a victim of someone that has more substance than clothes but then on the movie premiere of her latest movie which is about domestic v!olence she mainly talks about dresses, her shampoo line, and her booze business...seems hypocritical and opportunistic.
@iricx79992 ай бұрын
They both were rude.
@lesliea.71742 ай бұрын
@@AA-iy4gmthis! 🙌🏼 yep, she’s a real b and no one buy her sh!t.
@alcap-z5d29 күн бұрын
She is terrible and so is her hubby
@nickybateleur2 ай бұрын
Parker's behaviour is the most interesting to me. She's super appeasing towards Blake - almost fawning over her - and then she starts self-soothing with the fluffy comforter on Blake's chair. She comes off like she doesn't want to upset Blake.
@kismetcaffet9862Ай бұрын
The "fluffy comforter" was a puppy. It not being bedding does make her petting it constantly a bit better, but she was overly invested in it for this not being a distracted-by-puppies themed interview.
@RCGWhoАй бұрын
Blake is definitely the "cool, popular" girl, and Posey wants Blake to like her. Pecking order.
@alyssarosexoxo5496Ай бұрын
Definitely. Once she realized Blake's shift, she went with it. You could tell she wasn't going too. She even tried to deflect the awkwardness at the beginning with her joke
@AlisonJohnson-v6iАй бұрын
Wanna be
@kkbird21Ай бұрын
I'm used to being the peacemaker among friends since childhood. I think I initially recognize Parker as trying to tightrope between keeping Blake in good humor and trying to get through the interview. But Parker is a bit of a quirky duck, so this was going to be a dumpster fire from the word Go. Blake isn't even trying to hide her disdain. I feel for that interviewer.
@meredithsickel27092 ай бұрын
It’s ironic…Blake is talking about being portrayed badly by the media and how people always are more awesome in real life, when it’s Blake herself who is ruining her own image right in this moment , not the media
@luluesparza73602 ай бұрын
…with crazy eyes too. IMO
@bsteggy2 ай бұрын
Right? I feel like the media has always been nice to her.. and evidentially too nice
@azii29732 ай бұрын
This is why she rarely does media interviews outside of movie promotions. Her team is well aware she is often perceived as rude/mean.
@taranightowl2 ай бұрын
Yesss, I was baffled at this! The irony of talking about celebrities being better in RL, while in that exact moment the interviewer is disappointed at how mean she is in RL. That's a serious lack of self awareness! Unless she's trying to persuade herself she's kind, knowing she's acting rudely... I know a lot of people like that haha
@juliettirina68292 ай бұрын
My goodness this woman "Blake" has no manners! She is soooo disrespectful, mean, and unprofessional. Making conflicts out of nothing, ignoring the interviewer, and playing the disgusting tough feminist role. Nothing she talked made sense, there was not a single interesting conversation coming from her. This interview really changed my opinion about Blake. Many "actresses and actors" are not well educated and the media label them as "celebrities=starts" which is a classification that enclose more than being such an excellent actor/actress. In my eyes, Blake is a terrible person.🤮
@rebeccagilstrap35072 ай бұрын
I love the fact this interviewer waited awhile and out of the clear blue sky, when celebrities have been exposed as being horrible humans, she dropped this interview out into the world like a bomb on Blake. That was a master move. Good for her!
@Raphael-lu7vj2 ай бұрын
I know right? The fking TIMING we love that lmao that video was waiting to be seen at the right time 😂😂
@BatshtPassionate2 ай бұрын
Yes! That's what I keep thinking when I see this lol she's great at her job
@palomitaflamenkita2 ай бұрын
Yes!... It was beautifully done.
@lewismatthews42472 ай бұрын
She only posted it because another interviewer had recently told her that Blake had bullied him. Turns out she has bullied 6 other interviewers at least
@nina22222 ай бұрын
Sonebody from a team asked her about experiences and said to release it
@Lumi14142 ай бұрын
Funny Blake pretends to be all “feminist” in a toxic way, while engaging in discussions about Parker’s butt and boobs, and body shaming and freezing out a fellow sister
@superara12 ай бұрын
EXACTLY
@ashleymorris66362 ай бұрын
That's what a modern feminist is
@MissMarg0tte2 ай бұрын
Let alone promoting your presence in a WOODY ALLEN movie, let me laugh here
@emilyabbott18172 ай бұрын
Well said
@___LC___2 ай бұрын
There is a whole movement by actresses about interviewers asking questions of women that they don’t ask men. Blake is getting far more attention than other actresses who have been confrontational over sexist questions because of who she is and her A-list status. It isn’t just Blake, she’s just catching all the hate.
@jazzandchocolat2 ай бұрын
No Blake. What's actually "disappointing" is not when celebrities turn out to be "more awesome", it's when they turn out to be mean, rude, tone-deaf and arrogant, and when they behave like they're better than everyone and above being kind.
@angieroute151922 күн бұрын
She acts like she's a mean teenager like 16yrs old!
@MNM-hx5rt2 ай бұрын
Watching celebrities teardown the illusion their fans have of them, is by far their best work to date.
@Lisa-x3n5x2 ай бұрын
Oh well said. Nothing to admire here.
@philosopherwithin2 ай бұрын
Well said!
@helenarichard2 ай бұрын
I was treated like this by toxic women at work and it made me quit and fall into depression. It really makes you think that you are bad at your job and that you are a failure which can give you very dark thoughts. Let people do their freaking job, it's their livelyhood. Narcissists!
@KristaHolden2 ай бұрын
This is how women bully
@SS-yq9ku2 ай бұрын
I’m in this same position now and it sucks. Oh well! Motivation to find something better ❤
@BatshtPassionate2 ай бұрын
Yes. Don't let them do that to you anymore, anyone. It only shows they have the guts to be nasty when others aren't, so just laugh to yourself because there's clearly something wrong with them that they're fighting with everyday
@SS-yq9ku2 ай бұрын
@@BatshtPassionate you’re so right. My mom always said to feel pity for them and not hate nor anger. They’re clearly unhappy and miserable with themselves.
@BatshtPassionate2 ай бұрын
@@SS-yq9ku Exactly. And normally people like that start checking themselves when they see others still being caring and kind regardless of their behaviour. They're trying to protect something in themselves when they're being that way so it's best to just stay focused on being good humans ourselves 💖
@storsve1232 ай бұрын
Kjersti is Norwegian. As a fellow Norwegian I can testify that politeness, kindness and good manners are THE most important virtues to us, so this kind of behavior is obviously extremely uncomfortable. Most Norwegians will go out of their way trying to avoid conflict, and another thing: Equality is so deeply rooted in our society that even the slightest hint that she is being sexist is above and beyond the worst insult a Norwegian could recieve. She was only asking about costumes for Christ's sake, and her answer that she would ask men the same question is obviously true.
@LilyAmongThornsАй бұрын
We (my husband and I) visited Norway recently and were wonderfully surprised at how nice and polite everyone is as well as the beauty of the land. Hi from Canada 🇨🇦 ❤
@susanhumphrey64272 ай бұрын
It’s about time Hollywood gets called out on their behavior
@ninalambrecht2098Ай бұрын
Oh they are, trust me they are.... see the headlines on P diddy etc etc etc ..... they are going down ....
@kellylott92962 ай бұрын
I'm really thankful you're covering this situation. I wasn't even there and I am highly offended. Blake needs to admit she acted unkind and apologize. The interviewer was incredibly kind and gracious to them. Far more than they deserved.
@loriru31352 ай бұрын
I have never seen grown women act this childishly rude in my life. I was a cheerleader in high school many years ago…I have seen mean girls, but ADULTS? I would have politely asked, “are you always this rude or is today a special day?” What does that say about me? Never, for any reason or any job, would I sit there politely. No human has the right to treat another like that in my world.
@leximarie38082 ай бұрын
You're my people.
@Beth-pf6oo2 ай бұрын
💯 And then I would have thrown them out. And then I would troll Lively's social media with pics of her old nose until she blocks me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Am I petty??? lol Yep 😁
@a.m.94742 ай бұрын
You never did?? I’ve seen it even in the work space!! I’d like your life if you’ve never seen that in adults
@sofialee492 ай бұрын
I've seen and still dealing with ADULTS MEAN GIRLS! It's sickening. They are big bullies.
@enidrivero95822 ай бұрын
@@Beth-pf6oo 😜😝🤪
@ladyhotep51892 ай бұрын
I really disliked the way they totally boxed her outta the conversation. Omg. It was so gross. It gave off "im better than you, I look down on you, ". It even gives "look you're not doing anything special, we can interview ourselves. We don't need you". Oh it was so uncomfortable. Most channels didn't play the whole clip. That convo went on for a minute. Disgusting dude. Disgusting.
@troycambo2 ай бұрын
yes they acted like she was not there. Effectively making her feel like "nothing". Horrible act.
@jelyfisher2 ай бұрын
That was the worst part!
@debraflowers76022 ай бұрын
Mean girls
@lindagray18092 ай бұрын
I came here willing to dislike Lively (who I don't know about) but ended cross with the interviewer. Why talk about someone's body (was it even announced?). Talk about the movie, the work!
@bella111102 ай бұрын
@@lindagray1809 yes, it was a known fact that she was pregnant and she just congratulated her like any normal person, didn't make the interview about that
@michaelhubert1153Ай бұрын
Two signs about Parker's eyeroll would indicate for me that her reaction was directed towards the journalist and not the situation : 1) her gaze follows the journalist exiting the room, indicating that the reaction is directed towards her AND making sure that Kjersti can't see her reaction as she is leaving and turning her back, 2) Parker is aware that Blake can see her and she doesn't try to hide her reaction from her, implying that her reaction is an extension of their little play there.
@leeallen28642 ай бұрын
The self importance of Blake Lively is palpable and disappointing. Both she and Parker Posey are being disrespectful to the interviewer. A very negative interview that did neither actor any good.
@Rated3142 ай бұрын
"The self importance of..." when talking about someone that is being INTERVIEWED. That's an actual importance lmao
@HelenKistler2 ай бұрын
The interviewer bears the first responsibility for being respectful to the guest.
@ChristaMints2 ай бұрын
@@HelenKistler she was. Blake thought she had a Scarlett moment. Backfired.
@lisathompson79662 ай бұрын
She was just gross.
@shirin86092 ай бұрын
@Rated314 No one is important except Jesus.
@Sarah-xj9il2 ай бұрын
This was SO cringe….and beyond RUDE. Mean girl status 🙄🙄
@bymilliebphotography82492 ай бұрын
Blake INTENTIONALLY set out to sabotage the few minutes Kjersti had to conduct the interview. It's obvious that Blake was demonstrating her power over Kjersti and the public can see and read Blake's microexpressions as well as her passive aggressiveness and intent. It's mean. Period.
@Happinessischosen2 ай бұрын
Unless the opening “bump” comment was not supposed to be brought up. Clearly she states that people get intrusive and include themselves into personal lives.
@troycambo2 ай бұрын
@@Happinessischosen stop making nonsense excuses for her
@Sunshine.24.72 ай бұрын
I was wondering the same @happinessischosen. I can see Blake’s publicist providing a list to interviewers of items not talk about. Her pregnancy would be the first item on the list.
@Kelly22222 ай бұрын
@@Happinessischosenpublic was aware of her pregnancy.
@crowmedicine38902 ай бұрын
@@Happinessischosen she could have graciously said "thank you." What a BS excuse.
@tracymetherell8744Ай бұрын
The way they isolated her was actively malicious. Every girl who has ever been bullied by the mean girls knows this behavior. There is no question that the answer Blake gives IS calling the interviewer out on mentioning her baby bump. The rest of that long answer is hostile. I used to think both Blake and Parker were wonderful actors who I enjoyed watching. I am no longer sure I can watch or enjoy either one. I cannot UNSEE this. Parker’s look at the end says it all. She KNOWS.
@codezero7981Ай бұрын
even worse the interviewer revealed she's infertile and Blake's response felt like a bullet
@kimbwf62926 күн бұрын
I found Blake’s answer correct though about assuming…. I assumed she was a nice person. I was indeed wrong. She is not.
@crunchybunnylady2 ай бұрын
Acts offended about being asked about clothes. Blake constantly talks about clothes.
@Petunia30012 ай бұрын
Exactly!! She’s been talking about clothes way more than DV with the latest movie, which is about DV (I’m not going to see it).
@piaauman90202 ай бұрын
@@Petunia3001 exactly. she's just a bully
@annapetryk2 ай бұрын
I think she wanted to act like Anne Hathaway or Scarlet Johanson. But those two were truly asked stupid offensive questions. Here I only see two rude women disrespecting the interviewer.
@eloeden20562 ай бұрын
@@annapetryk ive seen a comment saying something like "she wanted to be in that MOJO top 10 Celebrity clapbacks of all time so bad" and to this day it still makes me chuckle
@annapetryk2 ай бұрын
@@eloeden2056 OMG 😁
@ayleen75582 ай бұрын
I love how the interviewer maintained her composure. Blake was definitely being confrontational AND rude.
@rakhil18302 ай бұрын
I don’t know Blake personally, but I am getting mean girl vibes. She seems to be someone who partakes in this type of behavior more often than we realize
@gaysy1st2 ай бұрын
Agreed. I love Ryan & didn't want to think he'd be married to someone spiteful, but there's no doubt here that she's extremely rude to this interviewer.
@cristinacomstock33452 ай бұрын
Celebrities' PR teams can hide bad behavior very well. So I am glad that Blake's is finally being exposed!
@wittwitt28842 ай бұрын
The interviewer’s “crime” was being naturally pretty. She is a tall lanky blonde without surgery, instant threat to Blake’s “status” as prettiest blonde in the room. Blake instinctively moved to kill her perceived competition.
@normacaballero34812 ай бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking
@speechy_keen48782 ай бұрын
She is quite beautiful
@slopesmonteАй бұрын
Suddenly this all makes sense
@MicheleMaBelle67Ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly
@ashleys1992xoxoАй бұрын
Not supporting bullying behavior, but as far as beauty goes that interviewer looks much older and less naturally pretty than Blake. Behavior aside, obviously. Objectively, she’s no competition for Blake. Not an excuse by any means whatsoever. The girls that bullied me in school, whatever their reasons, were absolutely gorgeous. But she’s not the prettiest one in the room.. 😅
@imalexlaven2 ай бұрын
Parker Posey IS 55 YEARS OLD out here acting like a mean girl from highschool... truly pathetic, I will be sure to avoid anything they are a part of from here on.
@hisomeonetrackingmuch13092 ай бұрын
I get the impression that Parker was just trying to cope. She wasn't being mean. Of course she is afraid of Blake!
@Sarah85612 ай бұрын
Parker is trying to be cool with be popular girls, if she were alone here she never would have acted like this. Shame on her
@evenovick4812 ай бұрын
Well...she looks great! She is also doing some self-soothing, touching that white fluffy pillow? throw? on Lively's chair. She probably felt she had to stay on her good side. She's an indie actress & Lively is a name.
@LifeYahPeace2 ай бұрын
Parker Posie was attempting to distract from Blake’s fail. The over talking was second hand embarrassment…..
@Jprager2 ай бұрын
@@hisomeonetrackingmuch1309afraid of Blake? She’s got 20+ years on that girl, and she’s over here trying to sideline with her, pathetic
@VioletPersuasion2 ай бұрын
If I recall correctly, the interviewer (at the time) was in a department for FASHION AND DESIGN. 🤣🤣🤣 So her first, more specific question, was literally for the area of interview she was MEANT TO DO. Yikes, Blake.
@1annemwalters2 ай бұрын
Exactly, and it was coming off the comment of the cool style of the period reflected in the movie. The fashion in the movie was part of that vibe that they were all agreeing on.
@denisewilson97832 ай бұрын
Great content which makes the attitude even more offensive
@nancylk29462 ай бұрын
Interesting observation, back in 2013 when "The Avengers" was in theaters all the actors were doing a bunch of interviews and Scarlett Johansson was getting a little peeved by being continually asked about her costume; "how did she squeeze into it?" and "did she wear underwear?" and "what was her diet?" NONE of these sorts of Q's were asked to the guys. Scarlett said in many of these interviews "why arent the Guys asked about their clothes? Lively is copying Scarlett, but badly!! Pathetic!!
@pamelamorrison40862 ай бұрын
That's it exactly 💯 Trying to emulate ScarJo but getting it completely wrong! BL couldn't have behaved worse. Her true self, looking down on others.
@Michigoose2 ай бұрын
Ooh, I like this comment! Copying and trying to one-up Scarlett, who is the ex-wife of Ryan...
@jelyfisher2 ай бұрын
Yes I thought of this too, except this time the question was relevant to the movie and in no way sexualized! Blake was just trying to recreate that moment that Scarlett had.
@LindaC6162 ай бұрын
@@Michigooseforgot about that connection!😅
@LindaC6162 ай бұрын
In fairness, guys who have gotten ripped for films in the last 15 years have definitely had a lot of questions put to them about died in the workout. Think Hugh Jackman, Kumail Nanjiani, Alexander Skarsgård, etcetera. But no excuse for this mean girl Behavior here
@mrslaceknitterАй бұрын
At this point, I would not believe any excuse she offered. That behaviour was deliberate and horrible. It makes me question whether Ryan Reynolds is as nice a guy as he seems to be, actually. Why would he be married to such an unacceptably rude mean person unless he thought this was OK?
@hollybigelow53372 ай бұрын
Imagine announcing to the world with pride that you have a baby bump, and shortly afterwards going on an interview where the interviewer congratulates you on your bump (that you just intentionally announced to the world), and acting like the interviewer was somehow fat shaming you or something and responding by congratulating a women who is not pregnant on her “bump.” The interviewer clearly wasn’t calling her fat. She wasn’t even saying the bump was visible. She simply was using the phrase that so many were using at the time as a cute slang term for being pregnant. Ridiculous and vicious.
@fisleprut2 ай бұрын
Oh, I heard somewhere it was before the announcement and that was why she was mad. However, I don't know if it is true.
@hollybigelow53372 ай бұрын
@@fisleprut I have heard from MANY sources that this was right after she made the announcement. To be fair, I kind of took the quantity of sources at face value and didn’t truly do the leg work to make sure those sources were accurate, but it also makes a ton of common sense. I can’t imagine any interviewer today going into an interview and congratulating a woman on her bump if she hadn’t announced it. Even ordinary people know to be careful about congratulating a woman on being pregnant if she hasn’t announced her pregnancy yet. First, if she isn’t really pregnant it is a disaster for you. Second, even if she is pregnant, if she didn’t want the world to know yet, you might force her to admit her pregnancy before she’s ready and perhaps before she has a miscarriage. I have seen a case of a nasty interviewer with an ulterior motive pushing the issue and forcing a guest to make an announcement she wasn’t ready to make. Ellen did this on her talk show. But even she wasn’t so bold as to congratulate the guest on her bump. That’s too in-your-face. Instead, she danced around the subject, forced her to lie and deny it, and then tried to force her to drink champagne to celebrate not being pregnant. It was awful. But even the nasty interviewer takes a much less direct route on this topic because the direct route makes them look extremely bad. This particular interviewer doesn’t come off as being a bully at all. In fact, when Blake responds in such a confrontational way, the interviewer seems genuinely surprised and flustered. A true bully would be confident and would keep pushing the issue because they would “smell blood” because they would sense they had touched a nerve and only needed to go in for the kill to get those ratings that drive the bully behavior. Based on the reaction of the interviewer I don’t believe she anticipated in a million years the response to her comment, which suggests it wasn’t intentionally malicious. Anyway, once again I have seen many sources saying she had just barely announced her bump to the world before this interview, and the reason I haven’t felt the need to verify more are these reasons. Also, I find it funny that the announcement was so close to this interview that the interviewer just as easily could have been called out for NOT congratulating her. I could be wrong, but I actually think this was the first interview Blake did after the announcement. If that is true, can you imagine interviewing someone say two hours after they announced EVERYWHERE that they have a baby bump and conducting the interview as if that announcement hadn’t been made? The interviewer here was basically in a lose/lose situation, and I have a terrible feeling Blake would have acted like a victim either way.
@michellecurfiss4612 ай бұрын
It gets worse. The interviewer has had issues with fertility and Blake’s comment really stung.
@hollybigelow53372 ай бұрын
@@michellecurfiss461 I didn’t know that part. How sad and truly disgusting.
@elleee-lv3lw2 ай бұрын
I remember telling by godfather how lovely it is to see my godmother was visibly pregnant and growing a little bump (she was told after her firtsborn she would not be able to have another baby). And he looked at me like what do you mean a little bump, she is as huge as a whale. It was back in 2010?
@Diane_B_412 ай бұрын
Blake and Parker both seem to be cutting out the interviewer with the way they are sitting. It's like they are being high school children and letting the new girl join on their terms. I used to like Blake before this all came out. Now, not so much. They were both so rude and disrespectful. The way they looked at her when she walked out was disgusting. I kept wanting the interviewer to get up and walk out on them before the interview ended.
@MadScntst72 ай бұрын
Did you catch how toward the end, Parker was reaching over and running her fingers through whatever that furry thing was on Blake's chair, as if to say "There, there Blakey, I'm on your side, what bad questions this interviewer is asking." I never thought one way or the other about Blake because she tends to be in a type of romance film that I'm not usually that interested in. But I must say, based on this and the other news that's coming out lately, I'm biased now. Parker, I used to think was kind of cool, but I've been over her for awhile.
@Catalina-Winemixer2 ай бұрын
@@MadScntst7it was a dog which was so random to me
@conyates89592 ай бұрын
@@Catalina-Winemixeromg I didn’t even notice that it was a dog! Well spotted x
@pamelac.32412 ай бұрын
@@Catalina-Winemixer It wasn't a dog! It's a pillow.
@SusanaXpeace2u2 ай бұрын
@@MadScntst7 yeh, the assumption that lines were drawn. Handbags at dawn. So weird. And seeing as how the film was set in high society in 1930s then asking about clothes was not dismissive of them as female actors.
@SheLovesFubu2 ай бұрын
Blake announces pregnancy and then gets mad when someone congratulates her on her pregnancy? 🤡
@jagcf2 ай бұрын
I noticed Blake's wicked smile at the end (when Parker doing eye roll). Like she is very proud of herself.
@cindyrice97012 ай бұрын
Oof 😥 I just wanna hug the interviewer.. that was awful behaviour
@catfreeny41452 ай бұрын
Yeah, that’s a bunch of mean girl nonsense. Got sick just glimpsing it. I’ve been keen on picking up behavioral cues like that since before I was a teenager. It’s why I developed an unhealthy need for someone to accept me. That environment was dismissive and passively hostile, that poor interviewer.
@K.navery2U2 ай бұрын
When you learn to let it go, it’s amazing! 😉
@catfreeny41452 ай бұрын
Life is so much better without it! 😊
@robinyouman42752 ай бұрын
Omgosh! Me too!! I always say it’s a blessing and a curse for me.
@LindaC6162 ай бұрын
I've found my people!😅
@juliegerasimenko2002 ай бұрын
100%
@hattagiuseppe2 ай бұрын
Blake is a ScarJo wannabe. ScarJo shut down sexist questions about her clothings in Avegers, which was reasonable. Blake thought she'd look as bad ass for saying what she said, forgetting that it was a reasonable question as they were wearing clothes from another era
@laurie88572 ай бұрын
1000000!
@skyegroome2232 ай бұрын
Costumes are part of a movie, asking about them isn't misogynistic. Even if the men weren't getting asked about them, I don't see how it makes it any less relevant to being a part of the movie...
@justjosie89632 ай бұрын
Seems she is not very bright.
@gogobizarre17662 ай бұрын
THIS! Thats what I thought as well, maybe she was trying to be a good "feminist", but she was being a B...ad person
@cuculain782 ай бұрын
Interesting since Blake met Ryan Reynolds when he was still married to Scarlett Johanson
@christieheyblom2 ай бұрын
There’s absolutely zero doubt that Blake’s behaviour was malicious and narcissistic, and completely intentional !!! She’s obviously not a very nice person.
@lisalavender38182 ай бұрын
Absolutely painful to watch two adult women behaving like mean girls. The interviewer was just doing her job. Thankfully we now know who these egotistical narcissists really are. Thank you for educating us on human behaviors. Shame on them!
@nina22222 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@anncoombs86102 ай бұрын
Disgusting!
@GeekGamer6662 ай бұрын
That's a bit of a stretch from one interview with no context. I think they were a-holes in this interview, does that somehow justify calling them "egotistical narcissists", especially since the interview is old enough that they may have changed quite a lot since then.
@kellynantonacci78852 ай бұрын
@@GeekGamer666 narcissists are technically incapable of changing. It’s been proven that all time in therapy does it make them worse. So… If she acted like this eight years ago… She’s probably worse by now. 😂
@Belle1111Earthangel2 ай бұрын
I've been in TOO MANY situations exactly like this interviewer, just trying to be polite and do my job. Let me tell you, the feeling sucks.
@Beserious7952 ай бұрын
Same. But the more you deal with it, the less it will bother you, and the more you’ll be able to make direct eye contact, smile, while simultaneously acknowledging that you see them for who and what they are, and you dgaf. YOU have the power. 👊💥
@Belle1111Earthangel2 ай бұрын
@@Beserious795 you're very right, thanks 😊
@trancos76412 ай бұрын
@@Beserious795 do you have an example of a good answer for me?
@ashleypiper25582 ай бұрын
Me too. 😑 I used to work at a bank and all of the other girls there including the manager were mean girls. They would ignore me, single me out, talk about me behind my back. I am a nice person and keep to myself. There was no reason for it. They just didn’t like me because I’m nice.
@nflegal492 ай бұрын
Lively treated the interviewer like some people treat wait staff.
Worse actually. I don’t think I treat wait staff like that 🤔
@queenreg72 ай бұрын
She went to the J.Lo School of Etiquette.
@Jessicaiphon2 ай бұрын
@@queenreg7gurrrlllll😂
@LouisianaSaturdayNightАй бұрын
My dad told my sister and me to pay attention to the way a man treats a waiter or waitress. When people tell you who they are, believe them.
@soulsurfer55312 ай бұрын
PARKER: I was working as a Professional Massage Therapist where Parker Posey stayed in while she was on tour. Everyone in the production stayed there. I worked with several of the cast members who are wonderful people. As a LMT, my work revolved around reading my clients bodies & treating the tension they stored in them. When I saw Parker walk through the lobby of the hotel, her body language told me that she was holding every role she’s played. Watching your video, I believe that Parker has very little sense of self, and absorbs the energy of the people around her. A very sardonic example of a role that I feel exemplifies her is Fiona in “Josie & the Pussycats.”
@susanwalters95762 ай бұрын
She knew exactly what she was doing. It was rude as hell. The interviewer did nothing to bring that on her.
@o0Theresa0o2 ай бұрын
What was rude as hell was the interviewer wasting the very small amount of time she had with these women, who were there to talk about their work, making unsolicited commentary about their bodies and then asking them about clothes.
@abieasemota57352 ай бұрын
@@o0Theresa0o The interviewer is from a fashion magazine. Talking about the costume design of the movie is literally her job and Blake knew that. Plus she had already publicly announced her pregnancy. She just saw an opportunity to make someone feel small and she too it.
@chucknurrish83412 ай бұрын
Maybe the interviewer was rude before the cameras turned on. We have seen that before. Food for thought.
@wendilively5162 ай бұрын
@@chucknurrish8341 I think it was made clear by this video by The Behavioral Arts that this is NOT what happened one interview comes in is moved out and another comes in. There was LITERALLY no time for her to have done something rude. Blake took offense at being congratulated on her pregnancy end of story and this after just having announced PUBLICLY she was pregnant. How does this make sense?
@chucknurrish83412 ай бұрын
@@wendilively516 valid point.
@barbarawedan60682 ай бұрын
“I analyze behavior not character”. That is a profound statement that leaves room for growth and expansion for all.
@DixieC-vj2sg2 ай бұрын
In the corporate world, if you have a complaint/concern about someone you work with, you report it privately and report the behaviours that concern you, don't attack the person. Same thing when you are giving feedback to an employee - HR stuff, which is for the same reasons you mention. But sometimes behaviours show character - or lack of it.
@Stephanie-gx7bx2 ай бұрын
Blake hasn't left high-school yet. Mean girl for life.
@christinac26522 ай бұрын
Parker's arm leaning across made me wonder whether she's trying to protect/comfort Blake or maybe she knows that Blake is commonly rude and is trying to keep the peace
@Traveldelica2 ай бұрын
I get sick to my stomach for the interviewer when I watch this. The interviewer was so lovely and it is sad how they treated her. So not necessary!
@jaguarazul2 ай бұрын
👍👏👏
@Treatbar2 ай бұрын
I get sick to my bump.
@rydbthatsme2 ай бұрын
She was inexperienced and it showed
@stardustring2 ай бұрын
Both are just annoying and rude. I would leave.
@brittanyscott49712 ай бұрын
Yes, and the interviewer was struggling with infertility so Blake's rudeness about the pregnancy congratulations was especially bad 😢
@JustMe-px9qy2 ай бұрын
Parker Posey is unhinged. Blake is just a mean girl. And not particularly smart.
@lucecita0072 ай бұрын
@@mewho6199No it wasn't like that, she wasn't being rude at all, she was congratulating her on her new baby. She black lively it's a bully already being mean too.
@Cheezpopcorn2 ай бұрын
Umm, how does "Congrats on your little bump?" sound like "You're getting fat?" ...because that's what happened here.
@JustMe-px9qy2 ай бұрын
@@mewho6199 - Blake had proudly and publicly announced her pregnancy several months before the interview. Blake’s behavior is classic bullying.
@giulias.51042 ай бұрын
Agree 100%
@rvrotter12 ай бұрын
@@mewho6199. Blake was 8 months pregnant in this interview. She was being congratulated.
@Elliefurtado2 ай бұрын
Blake is just too cool for school. She was rude and dismissive and then totally ignored the interviewer and directed the answer to the question to Parker as if she asked the question. Disappointingly, Parker wanted to be friends with the mean girl so she went along and joined in Blake’s disgusting behavior. They should be ashamed of themselves. Typical Hollywood elite behavior.
@graceandangels2 ай бұрын
She’s not yet out of her “Gossip Mean Girl” role i guess.. such a B!!
@kathygibson25522 ай бұрын
100% Correct!
@neige42212 ай бұрын
These types get theirs in the end. Once Blake is no longer beautiful and replaced by all the newcomers in Hollywood, she will be miserable because in her mind she will always be the IT girl.
@alexp29152 ай бұрын
I saw Parker’s behavior differently. I think Parker did a better job than it seems at first glance walking a tightrope there. Parker was subtly trying to move the conversation away from the territory that was setting Blake off. She started talking about lighting and set design. Then when Blake interrupted Parker to make a sudden jab at the interviewer around 17:25 (“it’s not just the women that have the clothes”), Parker ignored Blake’s comment and immediately continued talking about lighting. And when Blake rudely said congrats to Kjersti on her “bump”, Parker self-deprecatingly turned the attention to her own “bumps,” so Kjersti wouldn’t be singled out. I think Parker was just trying to move things along and she had to be subtle about it because if Blake got the sense that Parker wasn’t on her side or if Parker called attention to the uncomfortableness, she probably sensed (or knew from experience) that Blake would become even worse.
@tonybernard44442 ай бұрын
@@alexp2915 So Parker's cringe at the end was an admission that, despite her efforts to the contrary, she did participate in the bad behavior. Notice her eyes and expression leaning away from Blake; if she really was into it, she'd have shared the cringe with Blake against the interviewer. I think you're right.
@CaliTata9770Ай бұрын
I hope these two jump on your breakdown for some points in developing a tiny shred of grace, and then send a giant bouquet & sincere apology to this interviewer.
@britneyserrano89082 ай бұрын
When the interviewer said “I would” she said it with such a kind voice like hey I meant no harm whatsoever! I’m the interviewer and the mean girls are always like this with me and I never even know why!
@jebby162 ай бұрын
They envy your kindness.
@ashleypiper25582 ай бұрын
This has happened to me a lot too in my life. Mean girls are envious of our kind nature. That’s what I think anyway. When you’ve done nothing to provoke someone and they treat you this way. It makes them feel better about themselves
@brytankak95982 ай бұрын
How can you envy kindness @@jebby16
@jessieyork45082 ай бұрын
Some people are just rude or evil. Don't waste your time trying to figure out why people do what they do. You deserve better.
@cheshirecat12122 ай бұрын
Bullies shop around for targets so they can suss out which ones won’t fight back. They never pick on anyone their own size. BL didn’t have to work that hard because of the power imbalance between her and her victim (I.e. Famous Hollywood actress vs. Dutch journalist).
@mpras6842 ай бұрын
The clothing question was quite relevant regardless of gender. The interviewer founded The Academy Of Fashion Arts and Sciences right?!
@farida29062 ай бұрын
And the movie is a period piece
@LindaC6162 ай бұрын
@@riceexperimentI'm not defending her queen bee behavior here, but I am wondering if this was the last interview of the day, because she says "everyone asks..."... so maybe she had heard the question 10 times already that day and was sick of it. A friend of mine used to do these interviews (she called them "horde interviews"), and she was constantly trying to find a way to approach the interview that would make it different and interesting for them. Ozzy man and Korean Englishman do a pretty good job of approaching interviews from a slightly different angle, so that the celebrity enjoys themself
@troycambo2 ай бұрын
@@LindaC616 stop with the nonsense excuses
@gabriellacorrea58462 ай бұрын
I don’t think Blake even cared about the interview or what the interviewer did and that’s why she was so rude and disrespectful.
@mpras6842 ай бұрын
@@gabriellacorrea5846 I read that the interviewer considered calling it quits because of this interview. Whereas Blake wouldn’t have given it a second thought.
@Bhoneyb3552 ай бұрын
Don’t stick up for Blake you guys she was being very rude! Also she was ignoring the interviewer! Blake is a B
@jennyd11112 ай бұрын
She was obnoxious, dismissive and RUDE . She's gross
@VCobalt482 ай бұрын
👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 😁😁 V
@sherryalexander70562 ай бұрын
I have lost all respect for her Blake lively
@sherryalexander70562 ай бұрын
I mean, she’s not really that great of an actor if he asked me kind of mediocre
@sherryalexander70562 ай бұрын
I definitely agree what a horrible person!!
@TheVioletWolfАй бұрын
So, I've been watching Spidey for years now, and as someone who has always been a fan of body language experts, I have truly appreciated how Spidey does an impeccable job of keeping any bias out of his results. So much so, that I've unfollowed other channels because it's so EVIDENT that they show their bias... I was thinking about that very thing right before he mentioned a bit about bias. I was also very excited to see that my analysis really lined up with Spidey, but always, he has so much more insight on little cues and how they can be interpreted individually and in clusters. I always learn something new. I did want to mention something that both my son and I noticed about Parker. We both noticed how she progressively became more and more leaned into Blake and showing her more attention throughout the "interview". We couldn't shake the feeling that she was somewhat interested or even attracted to Blake. Not to make it weird, but even down to her hand motions and movement and placement on the furry part of the cushion of Blake's chair. It was odd. I also want to mention that I am a HUGE fan of Parker's work and of Ryan Reynolds. I liked the movie It Ends with Us, so when I saw the backlash in the media, I thought, "No, this CANT be, I need to see this for myself." I wanted to be able to explain her behavior away sooooo bad, but this interview (and others), and her handling of it was disheartening to watch. I can't even imagine how frustrating that had to have been for K. I think Blake didn't even know what she was saying at the end of that. And maybe Parker's eye roll at the end was a little bit of both- acknowledging the awkwardness of the situation AND a bit of placating to Blake's-- for lack of a better word-- b*tchiness. I'd like to chalk it up to pregnancy hormones, but.... That doesn't explain away the other cringe things she's said in other interviews.
@TheBehavioralArtsАй бұрын
Hey thanks for the kind words! It really means a lot! I uploaded a follow up to this analysis today, you have to go watch it hahahaha, the reason I say have to is because you will learn something about Parker playing with that soft fabric next to Blake that NOBODY realized and it will explain why you couldn’t white figure out why she was doing that 😆 the good news is you’re very right about positive feelings.
@TheVioletWolfАй бұрын
@@TheBehavioralArtsi just now realized in a still of the interview that she was petting a dog 😂
@dianematheson2 ай бұрын
Blake. Is just a huge walking ego. Nothing special and she has a huge mean streak.
@johannacerna85212 ай бұрын
I don't even think she's cute.
@ptrpan612 ай бұрын
Remember when she was on the bullying princes catherine train?
@dawn35892 ай бұрын
@@johannacerna8521 she originally wasn't. Her nose job took her very far
@johannacerna85212 ай бұрын
@dawn3589 she had a nose job? Didn't know that.
@jiranma2 ай бұрын
@@johannacerna8521 Yes, she had a few things done, especially her nose. So she doesn't look quite different. However, she was never pretty, not pretty now either, nor cute, like you said. Just average. Thing is, if she was nice, more people would like her or get her into more films. I really don't know how Reynolds downgraded so much from Scarlett.
@goodbrian56882 ай бұрын
I'm glad my initial reading was correct. I thought that PP was initially trying to help the interviewer, but BL encouraged her to go full mean-girl.
@alexp29152 ай бұрын
I think Parker was helping the interviewer. Imo, Parker did very subtle conflict management throughout the entire interview. I think Parker did a better job than it seems at first glance walking a tightrope there. Parker was subtly trying to move the conversation away from the territory that was setting Blake off. She started talking about lighting and set design. Then when Blake interrupted Parker to make a sudden jab at the interviewer around 17:25 (“it’s not just the women that have the clothes”), Parker pretended to not register Blake’s comment and immediately continued talking about lighting. And at the beginning when Blake rudely said congrats to Kjersti on her “bump”, Parker self-deprecatingly turned the attention to her own “bumps,” so Kjersti wouldn’t be singled out. I think Parker was just trying to move things along and she had to be subtle about it because if Blake got the sense that Parker wasn’t on her side or if Parker called attention to the uncomfortableness, she probably sensed (or knew from experience) that Blake would become even worse.
@carolinacorreia94362 ай бұрын
Yes!@@alexp2915
@reginafallangie28672 ай бұрын
Blake’s personality seems MORE DISAPPOINTING in her treatment of the interviewer than I imagined her to be.
@charichari2 ай бұрын
I think Blake doesn't think first before she speaks most of the time esp during interviews.. if she makes a joke, it comes off as basically roasting the other person (intentionally or unintentionally, either way the delivery is not very funny)
@raquelfigueroa55392 ай бұрын
@@charichariit seems like she's always on sarcasm mode.
@charichari2 ай бұрын
@@raquelfigueroa5539 which quickly gets tiresome and VERY passive-aggressive, in my opinion
@unveilingwithvelia139Ай бұрын
Parker Posey seemed to be trying to make light of how the interview started off by bringing in her "lump". It seemed to be like she was trying to either shift attention to her or make light of it and now that I see the ending, I think Parker was relieved from the tension that there was in the interview which was started by Blake. I think Parker was even thrown off by Blake interrupting her to make the comment on how wardrobe question is not asked enough to men. Parker might even have identified herself with Blake (due to their status, career likeness, etc) and experienced some embarrassment, shame, and maybe even guilt or even empathy for the interviewer due to Blake's behavior
@jeffhidalgo60372 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you chose to cover Blake because this was such odd & rude behavior in her part
@quinn_m3362 ай бұрын
@mewho6199 the interviewer said she is not well versed in the English language and forgot how to say pregnancy and instead she said bump. Nothing was wrong with "little bump" no insinuating she's fat there 😮
@_tardigrade2 ай бұрын
Ok, Blake 😂😂 @@mewho6199
@EEmB2 ай бұрын
@@mewho6199 No. It's a very common, friendly, cute and nice way to congratulate someone on their pregnancy. It has nothing to do with looks.
@jkmotorcyclegloryroads5322 ай бұрын
@me who Victim much? Gawd.
@JazCue902 ай бұрын
@@mewho6199you’re ridiculous and reaching for anything. Blake was clearly rude and the interviewer was a sweet lady.
@erickavelez1972 ай бұрын
I've seen an interview from that interview in Popcorn Planet and she informs she is infertile. Blakes comment hurt her and she was confused bcs Blake was 8 months pregnant there and she already had announced she was pregnant.
@LindaC6162 ай бұрын
Uf!
@shailaprol65872 ай бұрын
I understand she kept it quiet then but it would have been the best slap back ever. When Lively said well congratulations on your bump, to say well I am actually infertile so whatever you are looking at is not the same bump as yours. They would shut TF up right away
@spoonlessvalkyrie75142 ай бұрын
@@shailaprol6587she’s European and not all of them are comfortable with clapping back. Plus she was probably afraid she would be blacklisted.
@nicolegallegos91452 ай бұрын
So the interviewer wasn't pregnant too? Lively was just calling her fat?
@rachelj38062 ай бұрын
@@nicolegallegos9145yes! So horrible 😤
@hdb802 ай бұрын
As a grown woman, if someone showed me a video of my behavior and I acted like this, I would immediately check myself, reach out and offer a sincere apology, take responsibility for my actions, and make amends. I hope Blake has done that, even if we never hear about it.
@melissaperez53702 ай бұрын
The interviewer said she hasn’t reach out to apologize which is wild!
@desert_moonАй бұрын
I would have quietly left the interview and waited to see how long it took them to notice. Lol
@maggies75722 ай бұрын
I've seen a ton of comments (*on other videos) saying the interviewer was wrong for commenting on her body via "little bump" but "baby bump" is so common! It's not even about weight gain, it's a visible bump that represents your baby! Also I believe Seth Meyers said "I understand you're expecting another baby" and she said "what makes you say that?" so it kinda seems like, for whatever reason, Blake just hates everyone acknowledging her pregnancies without her bringing it up in conversation first.
@billybro14032 ай бұрын
Weird woman. She is known best as Reynold's wife because her body of work is largely unimpressive
@zah9362 ай бұрын
She probably resented the fact that the baby was gonna change her beauty and hated the pregnancy
@caroleberreur95852 ай бұрын
@@zah936I don’t know about that but I think she got rebuked almost from second one. She probably didn’t want her pregnancy to be acknowledged at all, and from that moment it went badly. Perhaps it wasn’t well known she was pregnant or at least she didn’t want to discuss it at all (which is fair, she doesn’t have to… she handled it badly after that and dug a bigger hole for herself as the interview progressed).
@babayoga47122 ай бұрын
Then she shouldn't have made it public knowledge OR should have told the interviewer that any pregnancy talk or congratulations on air are off the table... Blake is a mean girl through and through.
@babayoga47122 ай бұрын
@@caroleberreur9585she herself made it public knowledge before this interview took place.
@dianacooper-havlik41152 ай бұрын
Blake doesn’t care. She thinks she’s untouchable.
@None-hx3sg2 ай бұрын
She thinks she is untouchable because of Taylor Swift
@enyo00472 ай бұрын
@@None-hx3sgshe's also a nepotism baby
@dianacooper-havlik41152 ай бұрын
@@None-hx3sg yup & because of her husband too.
@GailEm282 ай бұрын
Blake is always so darn arrogant
@mariel.88092 ай бұрын
I think she's starting to care because her reputation is on a downward spiral...think JLow.
@lisabrightly2 ай бұрын
Did Blake and Parker forget where & who they are? This is their *job.* Why are they being unprofessional? Also, is Parker on substances?
@stephaniejoy24962 ай бұрын
Parker on substances was my first impression too.
@NChorseluvr2 ай бұрын
@@stephaniejoy2496- same here
@ProgressIsTheOnlyEvolution2 ай бұрын
Good question, I had a similar thought. Parker seems high and Lively extremely rude and confrontational. This interview for me was like watching a Interview out of Hunger Games, but with the roles reversed.
@myfriendem2 ай бұрын
At least in 1997 Parker was a pothead. Don't know what she's into now. (I pursued acting back then and got a role in a film with a friend of hers.)
@imaginativegirl126Ай бұрын
At the end you get the acknowledgement from Parker that this was a very stressful situation. I think shes relieved it was over and not dissing the interviewer at the end. Which means on the inside shes acknowledging Blake made the situation very stressful because the interviewer wasnt stressing anybody out. The only person relaxed here was Blake.
@m.v.r94642 ай бұрын
They're so rudeeeee!!! They're talking like the interviewer is not there!!!
@beachybear382 ай бұрын
Not only is her mean girl attitude disgusting, but isn’t the whole point of the interview to promote the movie? She’s completely irresponsible.
@nkhamoza12 ай бұрын
NOT professional at all!
@gubu2 ай бұрын
Exactly!!! Maybe she doesn’t know? 😂
@sarahtrerice18142 ай бұрын
This is the height of the “me too” movement and Scarlett Johanson had just confronted an interviewer for commenting on her undergarments she could or could not wear during Avengers movies while the men were not asked that. I think Blake was trying to ride that vibe and go viral for being brave or something.
@kukukiki24602 ай бұрын
Yes agree
@andreacope80172 ай бұрын
Yes- and it backfired on her big time .
@SusanaXpeace2u2 ай бұрын
yeh, i was thinking about that too, but SJ handled it less reactively. There was a bit of humour in her remark. ''that's my question, diet?'' and there had been the comparison of a cast member right beside her who had just been asked a deeper question! It didn't make SJ look spikey rude or ungrateful (imo)
@spangol872 ай бұрын
@@SusanaXpeace2u scarlet's response was valid. This was bullshit from Lively.
@cynthiadaoust19922 ай бұрын
@@sarahtrerice1814 the movement started in oct 2017..this interview is from 2016..but Blake is still a witch
@Ofwaterandclay2 ай бұрын
This was so cringe. I don’t care if you don’t care for the interviewer. This is your job, grow up and be professional
@zoritzspetridis87312 ай бұрын
I knew nothing about Blake before the movie came out. I have been busy over the last 15 years not paying attention to "stars", never knew who she was and what she played. All the interviews I have seen since the drama started, Blake comes across as a narcissistic person. Very uncomfortable to watch. The fact that she did to Baldoni the exact same thing she did to this interviewer speaks volumes.
@sneakysnake28662 ай бұрын
Very much a mean girl that tries to come off as perfect and kind but really, she just thinks she's the absolute best when she's a narcissist.
@d.shidon2 ай бұрын
Such the quintessential Virgo: perfectionism FAILED!
@Lady.B04202 ай бұрын
Thank you for bringing up Parker's behavior. Parker had the ability to control the situation and bring the interviewer back in but instead, she followed her lead. Not impressed
@Sherry-uw4ri2 ай бұрын
YASSSSSS!!
@gizemguney24332 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@cathynuytten7982 ай бұрын
Parker was no better than Blake. She tried but knew who she should side with or her problems in Hollywood would escalate. I don’t think Parker is on the same level as Blake but my hunch is she’s not.
@emilyp31502 ай бұрын
I think Parker tried to make a joke out of the “bump” comment though, I give her some credit.
@sweetnsmiley2 ай бұрын
I think Blake's last comment was to say that if the interviewer did come out and say she was being mean that you couldn't believe everything you hear and that she is much more amazing than what the interviewer might say about her in that moment.
@denisewilson97832 ай бұрын
Even a hollow apology might have helped but to attack the interview again is abhorrent.
@danielsparrow37012 ай бұрын
Parker totally reminds me here of that girl who is nice and sweet to you when you get her on her own, but she gets sucked in by the mean girls whenever they're around. Growing up, I knew so many fairweather friends like that who were only nice to me when the "cool kids" weren't around to see
@jojoone10992 ай бұрын
I just Googled the costumes. The house of Chanel designed fancy, period costumes that were a big deal at the time. Some people might have gone to see the movie just to see the Chanel designs.
@eriope2 ай бұрын
Also, it's a movie, there are costumes depratments with people that work very hard and costumes are huge part of movies. BL seems to forget that movies do not revolve around actors only.
@NatureHarmony_2 ай бұрын
yet, she decided to play it a "victim". No wonder her movies don't do well.
@denisewilson97832 ай бұрын
I did
@esthercruzolguin15612 ай бұрын
Bad day- not a bad day, nothing justifies what happened here. Years ago I received one of the most painful news in my life and went to work. Catering for a wedding was not easy, but I gave my 100%, smiling to all the guest I had the pleasure to serve. Be professional and polite! Blake wants to be an actress, but is rude to those who help her to promote her work??? Just Rude.
@cheriek38722 ай бұрын
She’s one of the few actresses I used to actually like however in more recent years there have been too many little situations like this that have made me dislike her
@Emilie421182 ай бұрын
The real shitty part is the reporter can’t biologically have children. So heartless on Blake.
@denisewilson97832 ай бұрын
Oh no. Just a thank you was all that was needed.
@bgirl0184jАй бұрын
Blake had no idea just like the interviewer didn’t know how she would point out her body.
@jackelynv112 ай бұрын
Both of them were obnoxious to the interviewer
@interesante802 ай бұрын
It's funny that Blake responds that way about the clothes question, when in her interviews for It Ends With Us that's all she seems to want to talk about for that movie.
@BuruRaven24 күн бұрын
This gave me such intense high school flashbacks. A controlling bully attacking a random person and pulling the seemingly also frightened classmate into condoning her aggression. This made me really anxious and uncomfortable.
@Butterflies-are-free2 ай бұрын
This was so disappointing and completely changed the way I think about Blake Lively. My heart goes out to that interviewer….what a lesson in contrasts! A beautiful, kind soul vs entitled, mean girl brats 😡
@sandraabrahamsson66772 ай бұрын
Well the interviewer wins 🏆 👏🏻
@GracieL-t9w2 ай бұрын
My take on first watching it was that Blake was miffed that the interviewer made a personal comment, about being pregnant, rather than the movie. I remember when I was pregnant I felt like people no longer saw me as anything but an expectant mother, and it annoyed me, but it's also very much a part of our culture, and people don't really mean harm by it, in fact they are truly happy for you, so you let it pass. But it seemed to set Blake off. I wondered if it also had to do with the fact that her figure is really important to her career and she may have just been feeling very sensitive about commenting on her figure rather than just congratulating her. Then I recognized the game of ignoring the interviewer by focusing on her coworker. I had one retail job where men would come in and hit on us all the time, and the way we dealt with it was in this exact way--we'd start talking to each other and kind of ignoring the guy; he always got the hint. But to do this while on a press tour, while trying to sell your movie, was just bizarre. All I could think is that she thought the interviewer and her magazine or website were completely unimportant. I won't say Blake is a Mean Girl, but was definitely defensive here, and based on this clip coupled with her recent issues related to marketing her latest movie, she could use some marketing-interview training.
@wandapaul73672 ай бұрын
Blake Lively is a mean girl.... my perception of her changed when she commented on Catherine Princess of Wales, being absent in public because of health issues.....
@kathyevans29682 ай бұрын
Well said. I was so disappointed about her jumping on the bandwagon, with her mean comment. She sort of apologised when she found out Princess Catherine had cancer, but even then, only half heartedly. I thought it was ironic for Blake to be mean about Catherine’s absence when she asked for privacy while recovering from surgery, yet Blake kept her fourth child’s name & sex private for over a year!
@Rumi_Princess2 ай бұрын
The fact the interviewer said she's infertile. That really broke me and I found that to be so hurtful and sad. So, the fact that Blake made that disrespectful comeback was so hostile and mean that was so unnecessary. I feel so much for the interviewer so much. It was like watching highschool mean girls.
@SouthernMelle2 ай бұрын
That’s heartbreaking for the interviewer. You would think being a mother would make Blake be a kinder person. I find motherhood makes a woman much more aware of how people treat one another. Guess Blake is too good for that. Not a fan of her now. Knew very little about her before this.
@hees00092 ай бұрын
That's awful. Makes it so much worse. It can be hard for infertile women to even be gracious enough to congratulate someone. They'd love to have a real baby bump. I'm so disappointed they treated the interviewer this way. You should be an adult in a civilized society, not acting like Blake and Parker.
@nicolegallegos91452 ай бұрын
Yeah I was confused. Was the interviewer also pregnant or was Blake calling her fat with that "bump" congratulations? Do you know?
@timonza2 ай бұрын
@@nicolegallegos9145she is infertile so not pregnant
@TheYellow-RoseOfTexas2 ай бұрын
I have one child and wanted one more but couldn’t have one (because my medication I have to be on), even having my one child I still mourn not being able to have another that I wanted so bad. So seeing my friends having 2,3,4 kids is hard. Now imagining that I was totally infertile like this dear interviewer it would shatter me if someone said that to me. This hurts my heart for her. 💔
@sahanestАй бұрын
Ryan left Scarlett Johansson for this mean girl bully.
@m.v.r94642 ай бұрын
She became so full of herself bec she has a famous husband!!! If not for Ryan she doesn't really amount to anything
@mekylieme2 ай бұрын
I have to agree. Her acting is subpar. I do admire her style choices but besides that, her cool factor has left the building for me.
@teddyde61282 ай бұрын
@@mekyliemeShe looks Trixie from Lady and the Tramp.
@m.v.r94642 ай бұрын
@@mekylieme yes I love the way she dress!! But after her show and if Ryan didn't take notice of her she'll be just like her co stars like Lauren Conrad where is she??!!
@m.v.r94642 ай бұрын
@@mekylieme I can't stand her acting she always squints her eyes and blinks a lot!!
@82xmas-j7w2 ай бұрын
😂 i noticed blake way before her husband. didn’t you watch gossip girl…
@Evanthebat152 ай бұрын
I was a big fan of Blake Lively as an actress...but after this interview I was disgusted, she came off very rude, mean girl. The interviewer didn't do anything wrong from what I could see. Blake owes a massive apology to the interviewer. Have no idea who Parker is. Ryan Reynold seems like such a cool dude...that I am surprised about her behavior. One thing I will say that I find interesting is when Blake Lively starts talking about media perception and privacy, also how there's a certain image that's created. I always thought she was a pretty chill person, very fun. This interview changed my perception, especially as someone who did get bullied by the mean girls at school, there's no reason to put someone down.