Watch This If You've Ever Broken Someone's Trust. Jocko Willink.

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[@Chris-tg3qy]

The problem with broken trust is if someone breaks your trust then it kind of shows they didn’t think very highly of you to begin with. Watch them around someone you know they respect and you will see they treat you differently. If you work with someone like this, you still have to interact, but don’t give them any information you wouldn’t share with a casual acquaintance.

[@jeremybrimmer1990]

Yes.

[@thundergrace]

Yes. Exactly

[@martinm9877]

I completely agree.

[@kigstudios1604]

Jocko for President 2024 @Jocko Willink, @Mike Glover

[@OUTDOORSJM]

Jeff glover for VP

[@FirstOfTheMagi]

Not sure if you're just joking but Jocko has aleady said before that there pretty much no way he'd run because the people wouldn't like how authoritarian he'd be lol (IIRC)

[@MattMW3]

FIX 2020 OR NOTHING ELSE MATTERS

[@blackmcbain3145]

Why not his dad, Danny Glover instead?

[@troycassidy6177]

Tulsi for Prez Jocko as VP

[@Xercister]

Trust is important to me. So much that if someone willfully breaks it, it can never be given back. Sorry. Life is to short to trust the wrong people.

[@thundergrace]

Exactly

[@kendrafrench7198]

Do you have kids? I ask that because tossing that statement out without consideration of the future, could bite you in the ass in the most painful way.

[@scotty5658]

One of my high school teachers told me “trust takes a lifetime to build and a second to ruin forever.”

[@martinm9877]

True, I had a person break it and... gave them another chance, but guess what, they broke it again and one FINAL chance aaand... they broke it in a week again!

[@P2J2]

Realizing an individuals intent and motivations usually reveals how trustworthy they are. People use each other for some of the pettiest reasons.

[@GodsOath_com]

A narcissist can NEVER be trusted.

[@187pennywise]

Hey Jocko Thank you for everything I listen to most of your podcasts & your insight has helped me so much. I’ve had a weird 3 years & 33 days now the fog has lifted and searching for wisdom was incredible hard.

[@legionarulsquad6676]

the same happened to me 3 years ago. I discovered Jocko and everything changed.

[@lomba33]

333

[@MugambegyeJoshua]

Hang in brother

[@robturner7116]

Jocko, I'd be willing to make the statement that Trust is THE MOST valuable aspect, and is the foundation of everything & anything else. Without a fundamental level of trust nothing moves well, things & people are always some degree of hampered, and society as we want it slowly gets eroded. Trust is Everything

[@gunnysteele1233]

AGREE WELL SAID

[@denidc1]

I agree with you to a degree however, to trust anyone 100% makes you a fool, to believe that someone can infallible is ignorance to the flaws of human nature. Personal Integrity and honesty are the foundation that is voluntarily given, trust is just an paper thin expectation of the standard we set for others, waiting for a mistake to poke a hole in it, in my opinion.

[@michaelpetrus19]

The parable of the frog and the scorpion comes to mind. Plenty of people I don't trust along with industries. Chemical medicine would be a good example but at the same time, it has served me very well, especially the last few years. Best to move on and stay away from the untrustworthy. It's usually a character flaw and if you observe long enough you can catch it beforehand in how a person treats others before you become their next target. Keep the circle tight and trustworthy.

[@tomw485]

Part of a leader’s responsibility is to determine how much runway you give someone regarding their “lapses in judgement”. Maybe you don’t give big impactful projects to the new guy. Let him prove himself first on some simpler stuff. Maybe give him some opportunities on low impact activities to make some mistakes and learn. One flaw I’ve seen from leaders with an overly perfectionist mindset is they don’t give their people opportunities to learn and grow. They make snap judgements and discourage some really good people who just need some more experience. Then they wonder why they always have vacancies on their team and their progress overall has stagnated. If good intentions and high levels of effort are there then some coaching is always in order before losing trust in them. Sometimes the difference between failure and success is just a small nudge or pivot. Now intentional deception is of course completely different. That should not be tolerated at any level.

[@jazzy112]

Really well said I appreciate your perspective. I can be rash so this got to me

[@tomw485]

@@jazzy112 Thanks, glad it helped!

[@jeshuawilkinson9819]

Needed this right now

[@jameswalmsley5333]

E.C. and Jocko, I went through an example of "lapse of judgement" I considered less bad because of the dynamic of the situation. Here me out... So I met this woman at a basic non-denominational church who was 25 and divorced at 22 only married for 11 months. She deliberately got another boyfriend while married as an excuse to leave the marriage. She purposely played the villain. Her reasoning is complicated. She was raised in a Russian Orthodox culture where you MUST get married, then came to the US and carried the culture here. 5 of her siblings got married very young and dated less then 6 months because their father nearly forced them all to marry quickly or else they were sinners. She says "that's just what I thought I was supposed to do" so she went to online dating and got married quickly. She moved to Virginia with her husband and deeply missed her Russian culture here in PA. I sympathized with her situation and gave her a chance with me... We lasted 4 months until she started missing her feelings for her ex/exes, so I couldn't fill the void for her and broke up with her, even though I truly cared for her as a human. I'm still sad and want to love her deep down but feel as if I would never be able to trust her because of what she's done. She likes the chase more than the prize of marriage is what I've decided. Even though she says she repented, she constantly said she "doesn't care to uphold the moral highground.". That seems like a dangerous philosophy to live by... also she wanted to have many kids with me and take them on "vacation" to Russia... They might have never came back because she loves Russia so much and disliked Americans and Ukrainians very much. But now I'm questioning my own decision to allow her into my heart and life for 4 months, only to end it harshly, breaking my own heart. Was my empathy destructive? What would you do in this situation? She struggled a lot with eye contact too so that was a red flag among many others

[@m_0863]

"...class of humans..." 👈🏽 Facts-promise.

[@m_0863]

Innocent lapse of judgement: "I drank your whiskey." Was literally typing that as the words came out. LOL!

[@stephencirilo3515]

Keep doing the videos. I watched them daily and appreciate ur stories. I'm so happy u are doing good.

[@smiggy5768]

It depends on what you do and how severe what you did is. I believe it can be recovered if you play your cards right and own up to your error like Jocko said, I believe you can sometimes rebuild it fully and in rare cases, depending on how you manage it, the person can end up trusting you more possibly

[@Yog99504]

Forgive errors of Judgement, but not errors of Character.

[@Andrew-lp6sl]

One disadvantage Jocko and most military members have is it's all same team. IRL it's a freeway of self interest. Would love a Jockocast covering when double agents defect. Philly Ames Hanson everyone around them devastated. Philby had to wear a KGB uni in red Square in Pravda before his colleagues believed the events

[@DRFelGood]

Jocko for President, Echo for foreign affairs ❤❤🇺🇸

[@LivingInColumbus]

Broken Trust - 💔

[@roberthedrick3370]

Thank you Jocko

[@garyharnish2395]

How about when the feds and state police use your oldest best friend and every other friend to try to set you up for something that your not doing?

[@seraph6758]

Lots of trust issues these days.. in general. Personally, I tend to not do it or experience it, trust. ..

[@MissJen-78]

Try micro trusts to feel out if they can eventually be semi-trusted again. However, full trust is not on the table.

[@zenthegeneral]

Respect all Love some Trust few

[@deanhobbs7507]

Niiiiicccee

[@IamSeannyB]

Jocko for President. We need you.

[@elizabethsalvatore1633]

When I caught my son ( at 4) lying…, I told him later that afternoon that I was taking him to McDonalds, and then I didn’t. He asked me “ Mommy when are we going to McDonalds “ , and I said “ Oh , we’re not going to McDonalds. I lied”. He immediately started crying and I said “ well that’s what you did to mommy isn’t it “? He said yes, and He never lied to me about anything again. * I think .😂 Trust is incredibly important in teaching your children the way to do the right thing. Love you guys!❤

[@4TDsInOneGame]

Trust between 2 human beings would be hard for any non-human to understand.

[@craiglbeaumont]

As the Dutch say, trust arrives on foot and leaves on horseback.

[@jeremybrimmer1990]

"The ends justify the means, comrade" - the people who ask forgiveness rather then permission 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 😂

[@lunashynesparkles8913]

Gonna have this on when my bf sits down for breakfast. He has f'd w my trust enough. This is the last time. I hate having anger in me..

[@MarioJAyala]

¡Muchas gracias!

[@Adevine369]

He reminds me of Jesse on everything! I like listening to them

[@richardprice9730]

It's too late and I should severely limit my you tube internet time snd if anyone else did what you do I'd go what ..But it's that deep subconscious growl old school man's man tone that reminds me of me dad I'd look in his eyes it'd be like staring into a tunnel ,trust Jocko Jesus and Peter its degrees Jocko mountaineers know ,soldiers a question of love, humanity bonding and self knowledge ,a big one Jocko .TRUST it depends very very few would I really trust .

[@KahootaShoota]

I don’t think my ex can ever trust me again, I deserve it and it was my entire fault

[@yeahyeahyeahyeah1111]

Haters will say its fake, stinky poo poos ALWAYS finish last!r🏁🏁🏁🏁🏁🏁🏁🏁🏁🏁🏁🏁

[@jasongosnell2919]

What if it pertains to using intimidation, guilt-tripping and put downs to try to regulate your behavior....? Someone you're married to even....

[@redss111]

Leave them.

[@tylerjpitt3388]

Walk away don't look back.

[@Bpe5150]

Don't ever say you're sorry or ask for forgiveness when you do or say something on purpose because you're not sorry.

[@Zzxxxcvdgjhddjj]

Trusted u had courage, honor for kafasque constitutional honor

[@2kIntellect]

The path to hell is paved with good intention..

[@antoniosanders477]

It was Trust busting that knocked Ma Bell down to give birth to None Such.

[@abhiramas2004]

fuuuuuuck why did i get drunk on that day

[@davidharrington4374]

I don't trust you and you don't trust me. Keep it that way

[@gettybiggy5507]

i attempted suicide and failed about 8 years ago and I lost trust in myself and of course other lost trust in me and just pity me, I have been just numbing with weed and slowly trying to get off, I am a piece of shit and wish I never did it but I guess its on my record and all ive been doing is just staring at the long path to rebuild I have been stuck and havent even taken a step on that long grueling path back to life....thanks for the video. I was trying to be in that class of not caring if no one trusts me but I dont even trust me so...i dont know we'll try to walk the path

[@thelastcomputer4620]

Sorry what happened to you bro, remember you can completely heal and feel normal again. Check out Trauma Release Exercises (TRE), they were discovered by Dr. David Berceli. They use the body's natural mechanism to tremor out tension and trauma, eventually completely resolving chronic pain, fatigue, depression, anxiety, and other conditions after months or years. I recommend checking out a certified TRE practitioner, the longtermTRE community, and some videos to learn about it! If you start yourself, take it slow at 10-30 seconds every other day, less is more. Good luck, brother.

[@dumdumyumyum1888]

Who betrayed who.

[@chadwithautism]

I can't trust KZbin for even a second

[@enlightenedpreparingep4006]

We TRUST that the military will uphold their Oath Of Office. To protect and defend the Constitution. Trust in one hand poop 💩 in the other... The Republic can only be restored if we turn to the Principles & precepts of the Founding Fathers. AKA IN GOD WE TRUST

[@herrwahnsinn4229]

Jocko can you tell me some tips to be more comfortable around sigma males? They will kill you, you will die...

[@iNGryL]

❤

[@Thee-AmateurAn94]

I got “thrown under the bus” by my boss then he said “I didn’t really throw you under the bus… i…” Ok 🤡

[@toogrimly5]

#Jocko2024

[@thereelwon]

Anyone else tired of not having a voice? Not having a choice? I'm very bored of the echo chamber that is our society. There's a place where we can eliminate that‚ and all talk friendly and respectful politics. POLITORIUM. Good place to debate in an educational forum. Check it out.

[@riccaruso7791]

Post Scripts from HELL: BIG MACs hamburgers 🍔 are for us Men desiring a fatal HEART ♥️ ATTACK to get away from our Nag 🐎 { a narcissistic wife! }?!? lol 😭

[@jockogle5250]

Trump must repent.

[@xkj-286-86ho]

🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

[@blueglassog3600]

Echo Charles is actually the master mind behind this outfit. He outsourced the video editing years ago to focus on convincing Jocko to wake up at 4:30am to prepare for his podcast.

[@Dariothehungry]

😂

[@larryapl]

Trust is the problem with our Republic. You can't trust anyone outside of your tribe and sometimes them too. Trust and Integrity are not valued anymore.

[@blueglassog3600]

It's because we traded their privacy for convenience

[@SOLveteran111]

Jocko for President of the United States of America

[@jonesyboriginal9340]

Correct me if I’m wrong, but the difference in broken trust could be broken trust from malicious action/intent and broken trust from ignorance/misjudgment.

[@tylerjpitt3388]

Spot on

[@JoeBonnie77]

I think what you guys are talking about especially when it comes to "adults" is taking responsibility for your actions and an adult should really know better! Hold them to that standard, however each situation should be judged on its merit and be flexible accordingly. Now the younger they are it becomes a bit different in my opinion, because im more likely to give a youngster a pass, going by my own behaviour as a teenager and a young man, I try to remember what I was like at that age, and the shenanigans I got up to, but they're always must be some kind of consequence, but adults get one shot man, then your gone🤷🏼‍♂️

[@atypicalviking1369]

Thank you for your wisdom Jocko.

[@cherlyn_combs]

1st Time = Possible mistake or isolated incident. 2nd Time = That’s a choice. 3rd Time = Pattern. Bye.

[@GatorMH]

Yo that music at the end was unexpected. I was walking around with the headphones in and it transitions to some super melodic horror movie piano. good stuff as always!

[@M4HRed]

Jocko for President 🇺🇸

[@tyharland1906]

I broke my wifes trust about 15 years ago while overseas, very early in our marriage and life together. It finally surfaced a few days ago. I know where im at in life now and i can tell you things look pretty dark.Everything discussed in this video feels pretty relevant.

[@jazzy112]

Actually you broke her trust every day for 15 years cause your whole relationship was built on a lie.

[@tyharland1906]

@@jazzy112 appreciate you clearing that up, Doc.

[@tyharland1906]

@@b.t4604 I left the toilet seat up

[@tomasr64]

You are right, there is a class of humans who break another person's trust and don't care until it bites them in the ass. But by that time, I (or you) am long gone. In the crypto trading world is where these folks live. You will be asked to trust them with your money. If you do, Ask a bunch of questions, keep records, do not mix business and pleasure. Trust but don't trust. Don't be physically attracted to that hottie. Accept that you might lose everything plus more.. If it sounds too good to be true, it usually is. I'll never interact with the crypto world again....

[@Warriordan44]

I've broken trust although I'm beyond that now if anything I feel something in the background placing unnecessary blame and ruining my life although Its my life and my choice no one can make me feel bad for something I'm innocent of.. it would just be unnecessary blame that I would have to either try to better myself through or let it seep in an I'd be in pain some people don't forgive and hold things against you till your dead you have to wonder what's the right thing to do..

[@daittelcel9956]

Good advice as always.

[@greenpea889]

Really needed this

[@maxdavies5776]

Would U trust dirty harry

[@survivaldoggy]

JOCKO 2024

[@hgrimes9824]

Trust is the hardest thing to gain and the easiest thing to lose.

[@logsignup9887]

Who wnat Timestamp in his podcast *Want

[@animula6908]

Good morning.

[@misteroz]

I don't trust anyone completely - that would assume they have perfect competence, character and communication skills, and I've yet to meet such a person.

[@danielg2946]

As a rule I don't break it, however degenerating relationships will see this, usually the trust has gone well before it's broken in this case. Though to be real, you really should never break trust.

[@iamfuckingyourwaifuandther2743]

The only time I break peoples trust is when I'm literally too stupid to do what I say I was gonna do. Which happens to be a lot.

[@Milo19970]

Your name tells me you have some growing up left to do. Maybe start there first? Or perhaps you are still child. In that case, relax just keep improving. You have time.