THIS is How Your Lack Of Self-Awareness is Messing You Up.

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[@thedrumknight]

Jocko is the internets dad

[@edwinrivera6549]

He is Everybody’s Dad. (Will sasso)

[@FPSMEGADETH117]

Lol nice

[@WilcoxNotreallythere]

I'm learning

[@traceeburris511]

Hahahaha.

[@nantumbwelinda5446]

True ...much respect

[@AddictionFreedom]

When dealing with addiction, awareness plays one of the biggest roles towards your path to freedom. Many people want to 'quit' an addiction, but they are not yet aware as to WHY they actually want to quit. People don't quit doing something because they want to. They only quit once their mind is ready.

[@biancaharman2518]

Yep! I totally agree and being aware of why we get addicted to something.

[@the.bonsai.samurai]

That's well said! We are often also not aware of WHY we are addicted in the first place.

[@TheRexTera]

As someone diagnosed with autism I had to learn to not be my own type or friend. I can’t use my own sensitivities as a guideline for other people. If I have to constrain myself and my behaviour to my own sensory processing I won’t get anything in life. I’ll just stay too quiet. But that also requires me to “brain” myself trough social situations instead of being intuitive and that’s severely exhausting.

[@carolynenochs9139]

If possible, can you explain what you mean by your “braining” yourself and that’s extremely exaggerating to effectively communicate to others?

[@soliloquy9702]

Be authentically who you are and you will find people who love you for you. Growing up with racism, I was told that who I was born as is wrong and there is a right way to be. I was taught to be who others wanted, and to disregard who I am. I had to relearn who I was, and, in the process, learned that other people did not know who they were. Therefore, I was told who to be by people who did not even know themselves, because it made them feel better about themselves.

[@TheRexTera]

@@carolynenochs9139 “Exaggerating” was a typo. I meant “exhausting” Autocorrect screwed me over without me noticing🤦‍♂️ it’s fixed… I think people who are neuro-typical and extroverted don’t need to “be in their head” that much because their natural impulses are attuned to people. For us autistic people we have to fight our natural impulses and act in social situations. It also requires me to be louder and more outgoing than I would like to be around myself. That’s what I meant to “not be my own type or friend”.

[@ABeautifulEarthForOurChildren]

I get what you mean and it took me a long time to understand but as long as you want to have an equal experiences between people, you'll fail because everybody has different expectations from friendships. You can't copy the intuition of other people, you have to figure out your own social intuition

[@1jakedizzle]

100% agree. Social situations are exhausting so I try to avoid them.

[@dbearden3232]

Honestly being a little unaware is probably better for your mental health than being overly aware. You become inhibited and too inward looking.

[@jeremybrimmer1990]

Jocko should check his water cause the videos have really changed the past few years lol and tho he doesn't talk politics he often comes across as left leaning in how he goes about using manipulation in his daily life

[@dbearden3232]

@@jeremybrimmer1990 dude I've never gotten even a hint of left leaning politics from him... He has outright said a few interviews too that he's definitely on the right.

[@jeremybrimmer1990]

@@dbearden3232 I said specifically the way he uses manipulation in his daily life. It's one thing to mess with a military team, it's another to do it to shoppers, commuters, and tax payers. I listened to jocko more after his Ted talk and thought he was very forward. There is also "Good" video by Akira the Don which resonates with me. Maybe I'm just getting old, when I see jocko taking advantage of people and grinning about it?

[@lkae4]

Or just admit you're not a good person, repent and work hard to be an honest and better person.

[@LookingAway359]

​@@jeremybrimmer1990How exactly is Jocko manipulating people?

[@Jackjack1978.]

I can't even express how true this is...

[@mewkatlol]

Type a yootoob cooment about it bud

[@BG-nl3hy]

That's why he did

[@nothanks1169]

A lack of self awareness can make others interact with you in the way that you want, but completely unaware that that conditioning is not allowing the truth of them to come forward. Like a father that tells his kids or wife that their feelings are invalid, but then is surprised when he finds they’re depressed and anxious due to suppression and lack of support. His lack of self awareness would tell him it’s their problem for not expressing themselves the way he easily can and is completely unaware that his reaction to their truth makes them not say anything, and is ruining their trust. Narcissists do this a lot.

[@g.swizzle]

There's a concept in social psychology called deindividuation. It refers to the loss of self awareness especially when you're part of a group that promotes conforming to their norms, and it can lead to people behaving in ways they never would consider individually, and often increased disregard for how they would be individually evaluated. When people identify themselves as part of a group or even as anonymous, you tend to lose your self-awareness and become more of a social robot than an individual with values.

[@LOSisBEAST2]

Roger that.

[@kieranlernihan3581]

Young guy’s idolising Tate when they could be listening to these guys. Sad.

[@deanjackson625]

Isn't that the truth. Either offensive a man or woman , take Accountability for your actions.

[@philipschifano5876]

To add to the conversation as well.. you don’t need to ask for credit from ANYONE EVER!! Just put your head down and to the RIGHT thing and have the RIGHT intent .. people are always looking and always talking .. even if you don’t notice .. THEY notice .. it will come out eventually. And it will be WELL worth the wait

[@sinisterminister9920]

Can confirm

[@JohnWicksSensai]

Exactly what I think when cops write tickets for tinted windows then go home in their limo tinted personal vehicles. #abolishqualifiedimmunity Abolish qualified immunity.

[@Jedry.s]

this is crucial. Finding out if your intent is good for everyone. Not as easy as it sounds; but possible.

[@chatttenn4814]

I think one of the few ways you can get credit, for some thing would be letting someone know about the life experiences and the things you learned from them. May not necessarily sound like bragging, Once they know all the hard work you had to put in to accomplish it. However, it should kind of apply to the situation at hand not just random topics spewed out. Being the person to help someone learn something faster than you had to,is the credit that you should be getting from it from yourself.

[@mariolongtin8271]

Unless your Gary Vee it takes much longer to expose him due to his connections. He defrauded investors for over $200M in the NFT market from 2021 to 2023

[@bigpicturethinking5620]

It took an incredible amount of self confidence to self publish that thumbnail. Well done.

[@alex94293]

About 15 min in Jocko was lacking in self awareness HARD. Like man you just talked for 15 min and echo sat and listened. Let the man make one statement and point before you cut him off and blurt out the point, which he was about to make lol

[@charliecarvin7222]

Dichotomy: Too much self awareness (introspection) when people act like jerks to us and we ask ourselves "Was I being a jerk to them? Did they misinterpret my actions? Did I offend them somehow? Did I do something wrong?"

[@v_north]

Thats self analyzing, not awareness😉

[@b_vtt8726]

I think it is the doubt regarding what’s right that is the problem. If you objectify your vision of yourself and others by using a standard (for example religion), you don’t automatically get doubt.

[@BrandonMirrors]

Demanding empathy erodes the essence of empathy itself

[@jimspotts3078]

Some people completely throw me off and I almost immediately lose my cool and self-awareness.

[@lsantilli]

Someone needs to force Donald Trump to wake up and watch this, every single day.

[@BradPitbull]

I agree 👍 with jocko We need Trump back immediately

[@jongkind18]

Love this vid. Jocko , thanks for being an amazing life coach

[@KP-ol3tc]

I really liked this because I'm constantly questioning my level of self-awareness. It's a thinker for sure

[@ryannelson2653]

13:41 “I’m just talking about the non-murdering psychopaths.” -Jocko

[@SoWestMeetsEast]

I love that you're still putting out good messages and content. To add to the promotion part: doing good work with good intentions usually doesn't get you promoted. In corporate America, it's not a meritocracy, it's nepotism and power moves. Make people look good, and you'll be in their hushed conversations.

[@theoxymoron8793]

I think that has to be taken into account as well.

[@david25876]

Jocko needs to lead our country!

[@MochaZilla]

Bro that thumbnail be making you look like jabba the hutt lmao. 😂

[@JMU365]

I really needed this one Jocko. Thanks brother.

[@danielg2946]

Listen to me Jocky, the BIGGEST PROBLEM IS lack of self esteem.

[@Fitingbros101]

Great advise for keeping yourself straight and confident. But being good all the time will get you stepped on, because that is easily seen too

[@Jackjack1978.]

People are obviously going to cringe at this, But All this teaching on intent is really just The foundation of Christian principles that Christ came to display to the world. Grace-free and unmerited favor, doing something freely without the expectation of payback. -quid pro quo is the economy of the world. No person is capable of unconditional love without something worldly attached to it whether it be pride, greed, acceptance, meaning, or purpose.. Christ came to show grace And no one is able to give grace or show grace outside of a relationship with Christ himself. Because He ultimately frees us from oursleves by giving himself to us. So HE becomes our INTENT. That is what is meant by (Christ shall set us free) When he is your acceptance, Your meaning, and your hope You're now free to give GRACE. To love unconditionally because you no longer have to compete with the world because Christ gives himself too us freely If we repent and trust in Christ. So we all have some self-awareness problems....

[@jackhubert]

Not cringy to me at all. It’s true. It’s very difficult to avoid quid pro quo in friendships and in life. It can be done at times but life demands both.

[@youcanthandlethetruth5433]

Great clip. Learned a lot. Very wise. Thanks boys

[@ChefofWar33]

It goes both ways guys. I have been diagnosed with hyper awareness and its fucking brutal. Extremely depressing living your life without any working copes. You know those little lies you tell yourself to help your self confidence? Yah, i dont do that. My inhibitions are so extraordinarily high that i dont do anything remotely fun or interesting. I weigh the risks and rewards in every single action i take in life. People hate hanging out with me because of this. They say im too logical and have the personality of a cardboard box. I wish i could have a little less self awareness tbh. I think it would help with my depression and anxiety. I wish my IQ was 20 points lower so i didnt have to live my life like this.

[@jeremybrimmer1990]

🤡

[@jareddietrich2345]

Positive reinforcement is also a driver, especially from a loved one, so I’m not on board with the example of cleaning the house for loved ones. Especially when a couple is raising kids, it’s a show of respect and gratitude and when dissed for effort to contribute towards the cleanliness of a household, that’s not cool…

[@melancholiusmonkey-mann5749]

I subscribe to the Underground Podcast. It is the only way I can actually demonstrate my support you both... For now. I can honestly say that I know where your heart is. I understand and support you.

[@EricHalverson83]

Couldn't agree more. This comes from my heart.

[@fallen1805]

My intent is to have no intent so I can win with no intent needed 😆

[@Oneofthetwelve]

I really appreciate this advice. Examine yourself and be authentic. Team first👍🏻

[@anishkatwal648]

Am i the first one 😁😁😊😊

[@FSTECVBDXC]

Im sure that most people cannot feel or know my intentions. Sometimes I dont know my intentions because I cant be intentional about every little thing in my life. I wish people could read each other's minds - that would be awesome, but it is not possible. If someone thinks he knows someone's intentions , he runs into risk of misunderstanding people

[@garyharnish2395]

Wife with intent on your head. Way to get slapped 😂😂😂Lol

[@John-tx5or]

Wacken it Dowwwn. I Quit it. S.A. I'm not A BAD Dude, That's Why I KeN. Yesseeee BOB. I Nys Tardy. Roll w the... FLAVOR UNIT On Cassette. I picked A Good 1 for Ya, Art Cheese Bunkerfish.

[@christianevans2956]

Vasana is actually the term in yogic culture for quality which directly translates to smell in Sanskrit

[@Warriordan44]

My Intent is I don't want to let people control or say what I cant an can do if I know in Gods eyes I've been trying my hardest to work towards these opportunities.. Someone can come along and say you haven't don't anything your self discipline your pain your wants don't mean a thing.. Be scared stay scared listen to me or else.. I don't want that to control my life especially if I feel I'm not harming anyone or starting problems just trying to better myself and get to a place where I feel I've achieved true success and happiness through my efforts and simply having faith..

[@eyesoffmysquanch8749]

Roger that.

[@vyndaio]

I never thought I'd say this but wtf Jocko? This whole dialogue is like listening to someone who doesn't live in a capitalist society. The intention is to SURVIVE. You kind of need money and usually a job to ensure your own survival. "Your intentions aren't pure." What and you think all these CEO's have pure intentions? They want to get rich no matter who they have to crush in the process. And you expect the people being crushed to put their own survival second to "pure intentions"? Your role at work is to help craft your CEO's personal lottery ticket. That's it. The most important skill a worker can have is their acting ability, to be able to act like they give a flying fuck about "accomplishing the mission", i.e., making the CEO rich(er). Jocko has spent way too much time on the executive side of the table.

[@garyharnish2395]

Psychopaths in Detroit. I agree.🤙🤙🤙🤙

[@bryanfox2735]

Sometimes you just come to terms with…. You can’t wash this shit off! Lol

[@noahizquierdo9008]

Before you develop self awareness you need to develop courage patience and acceptance people choose to be self aware and to be not self aware it’s not necessarily you are not self aware but you are purposely ignoring signals for whatever reason

[@kyristalsalter]

No seriously a part of me doesn’t want to heal just yet 😂 watching videos like this and being aware that I’m not self aware is the first step and I know have some work to do but I’m not ready to change my ways. But I probably should before my frontal lobe stops developing lol!

[@Windznite]

They treat people as their so much better. And people like me have too care and bow down WTF? If a person can't get away from their view. Unless you don't like what your looking at . Then it's a win win.

[@bitshiftme]

The notion that the world will notice you, acknowledge you, and promote you for doing the right things is complete bullshit. Jocko is a complete charlatan who years ago used his physical gifts to accomplish some tasks for the US government and now thinks as a result he is qualified to speak on areas of life he has never been involved in that operate under very different rules and guidelines. I'll tell you right now, ass kissers make it in the corporate world and being a hard worker who puts the team first just means you'll be putting in an extra 40 hours to pick up the slack your teammates drop on you. I have worked for several top 30 revenue companies in their corporate offices, both on technical and business side and so far it has been the same everywhere. Who get's promoted and recognized outside of your unit/team (and often within your team) is entirely political. People were hired and fired along racial lines, people were pushed out for daring to utter a word in contradiction to their boss, everything operated on rumors and back stabbing, etc. It was like a damn tv office drama and the whole time I was in the corporate space I could only think "Wtf are these people doing? Didn't anyone tell them we are adults and we need to act like we have some sense?". Most of my seniors were dying to exit or were just doing the bare minimum to stick around and get better retirement pay. Basically everything in this video is contradicted by all of my lived experiences and only applies in setting where people are intrinsically motivated to identify the best people and put them in charge i.e. a life or death situation. In modern life everyone is only looking out for themselves and their family and who can blame them when they work for soulless companies that would happily watch them die a painful death if it raised Q2 revenue?

[@telephonepolaroids]

What are you offering said other, what they want, or what you want? If you offer people what they want, at your own expense. Instead of theirs, right? That's cool. Hey!

[@PREPPERINES]

You know when the podcast is made for you when they call you out and use YOUR NAME specifically. Thankyou it’s the message I needed to hear.

[@Jerrysis]

You welcome Fred

[@metalkicker23]

Cool seeing Jocko give Analogies from the Bible

[@6gunbeaufordiii514]

4:24 intent has a smell and you smell funny Jocko, you've been sitting in an environment where you and your lackeys smell each others farts each day (with all due respect) without paying attention to the corner in the room. Your message sounds highly hypocritical.

[@ZacValentine]

Poor Echo needs to become a better person😂 So do all of us buddy!!!

[@mariorodriguez219]

I thought this was a stand up routine for a second (because of the thumbnail) and got excited

[@GismoTron]

I'm struggling to find this specific episode in full. When I search episode 80, that episode number is the Mussolini one

[@JohnCoffins]

Bro I'm sorry but you're doing it wrong. I'm already paying for KZbin

[@Windznite]

Self awareness? What if the person stopped giving a rats ass about what they see? If they don't like it they shouldn't look or hear.

[@jaylon.713]

Yea, my intentions have not always been good. Like the other guy said, sometimes it feels like I always do, but a part of me does want credit sometimes.

[@kennedykaleher]

JASON REDMAN SIR! TELL MY GODFATHER I AM NOT SAFE. WAKE UP PLEASE! I CANNOT BE TARGETED BY PEOPLE FOR INFORMATION... BEING SET UP AND NEED SAFEY

[@TEM1]

Self awareness? I’m as under duress as duress gets.

[@sherrysarpu5647]

Did you see I cleaned the living rooms that called borderline personality!

[@sifu64]

Alot of this woukd have applied in a tine ehen adults were running things and passing the torch. Nowadays i see leaders, management, etc who have no self awareness.

[@richc.3100]

Sounds like sound live advice to me. Thanks uncle Jocko.

[@jonathonfrazier6622]

I can think of at least one moment where boasting endowed greater credit. Alexander the Great and the little piece he dropped called the greatest speech in history.

[@jamessherwood2374]

If you’re kids are pretty awesome and you have no idea why I think that’s brag worthy

[@pramodacharya5866]

Its like you are covering up that one bald spot on your head and think nobody can see it and in fact everybody can see it.

[@NulJern]

Don't listen to Jocko - Ignorance is bliss, don't let him tell you otherwise lol

[@hdhellion4128]

The words Ignorant, cognitive dissonance, and ignorance come to mind.

[@carlosbravo6282]

Jocko is going to make me an army captain or something in west point like General Sherman.

[@chocolate4135]

My daughter's dad has no self awareness whatsoever. Makes him a liar and a hypocrite 🙄🤦🏿‍♂️

[@vv7299]

Did you mean to say "makes me a liar and a hypocrite"?

[@nothanks1169]

Why, because they’re experiencing it that means they’re doing it? That’s strange.

[@outwestloud3236]

Would it possible to send this video to every e5 and above with the title stating intent. #AskingForABattleBuddy

[@thornburymatthew]

JOCKO FOR PRESIDENT. PASS IT ON.

[@firesidestep4255]

He stopped there because KZbin isn’t cool.

[@Raimonds-x1j]

Oh so you saying I might need you when you not there don’t care than

[@cwhip2432]

Echo Charles needs to chill with the thumbnails bro

[@SlimeOhIm]

I know what intent I bring, I overtly present this image that I can’t be hurt and that most things don’t affect me. Ppl that see me sometimes speak as if “oh this guy doesn’t know pain or wtv” but in my personal life (my head) most days I do think about su, most days I don’t want to be here. But I’ll never show that, I’ll never allow myself to speak about that in real life. Been through crazy shit and I do my best to not speak about it because there’s no point, no one can fix it but me so why bother allowing someone in.

[@LEGGY3]

Couldn't agree more. I've kept everything to myself until 2022, when I met my girlfriend and had read online that 'talking about your problems makes them easier'. My girlfriend is the absolute best person I have met in my entire life, yet expressing my struggles has done nothing but make them worse. Keeping my issues to myself is key for me.

[@philipschifano5876]

Love hearing jocko talk about GOD. 🙏🙏. TRUTH comes from somewhere .. that somewhere is the BIBLE. GET SOME 🫡🙏

[@jasemkhl217]

Jocko for President

[@antoinebrown5171]

I learned one thing. Not living in Detroit. 13:35

[@knightofbrokenglass9237]

Jews - Jocko is talking about Jews

[@charleshallbert5022]

Jocks is Mat Damon on growth hormone

[@joshuacarr8677]

EC keeps doing the chip chipperson tss

[@Nervii_Champion]

Innocent situation: People in my neighborhood teaching their children to shoot at peoples pets, leaving beheaded kittens on the front porch of grandparents house, and another long list of 30 other things I won't name, but then I am the bad guy for thinking someone poisoned my unattended beer at the neighborhood bar with no cameras after I get home and have 3 teeth and my stomach hurting all at the same time. After what point am I allowed to be suspicious of certain people? Lmao. Some people just don't give a damn no matter what happens to you, as long as it isn't happening to them. (To help you believe me, I live in a gated community filled with stuck up passive aggressive manipulative cowards) Like can you imagine, people disrespect you but you are the bad guy when you barely even respond with a RIGHTFUL "No."

[@nautblue4284]

I just found out I talk in reverse. I start a conversation at my final thought. No context. No lead up. Just the end. Then when I realize folks are confused, I explain, which makes things awkward.

[@ShmoeLettuce]

Went to the ole HEB’s to buy some molk, however the shelf was “cleared”. GET SOME.

[@willivonen3886]

shit everyone went dont fuck with cat's documentary. Im just gana troll them with AI.

[@jayhendricks7487]

Waves were looking good at San Onofre/Trussels Jocko, south swell is picking up! 🌊 Hope to see you in the water someday. God bless gentlemen.

[@AshAndCream]

Every hour my phone dings to remind me to breathe deeply and become conscious. Breaking autonomy 12 times a day. Try it.

[@blakewallace1270]

What if your intent is good but you’re unaware that you’re coming off in a poor way. Example being kind but end up seeming like a kiss ass.

[@prod3362]

"YOU WANNA DEBATE WITH ME?"

[@gregorbingham]

My Sgt Major used to ask us 'are you switched on'. Or when we obviously were not the NCO's under him would all say 'switch on!'.

[@UnemployableFakeGuru]

That smell is also called intuition.

[@patrickmcneil5089]

1:20 to be continued tomorrow

[@lindathompson5472]

A lot of marital distress is due to that lack of self awareness and that unmistakable “stench” that an unaware spouse brings into the home. Also, your intent needs to be between you and God. Seeking praise or managing your image shows a lack of maturity and a bad intent.

[@GeoffCostanza]

I farted right before Jocko said "intent has a smell," and then he started wincing. Damn, he's calling me out!

[@shilohstodolka]

Fred always knows what's going on...religion is a part of a soilder...irreguardless which one he chooses...st shi

[@Lotusloveflower]

Wow alright I smell your intent real strong. Very nice to cut the video off like that saying if you want to watch the rest then you have to pay $8 ... Thanks for the message

[@rachlynn]

It all just boils down to living as Christ would. The rest are just details. WWJD.