Derren Brown is both one of my favourite entertainers and one of my favourite thinkers. So glad he's getting an audience on the other side of the Atlantic, he's brilliant.
@cjgreen38366 жыл бұрын
For me, this video really hits on the truth of living a happy life. over the past 40 years, I have taken on some formidable tasks, both professionally and personally, and as Derren quite rightly says, this self inflicted stress and anxiety IS necessary for positive development and personal growth. As a carpenter, seven years ago I embarked on a project which (at the time) I considered the toughest challenge I have ever set myself in my life. I moved to Thailand and spent the best part of 2 years building my own 4 bedroom house, single handed (except when a bit more muscle was needed). I spent every waking hour on getting this task done. I broke every task into smaller chunks, and set myself daily targets. Eventually I got it finished, and it was such a relief to get my life back (I thought). Once I had time on my hands again, I felt empty and had the urge to do another project. Well, what do you do when you have just completed the toughest physical task of your life at the age of 50? What I did was to go enroll in University, and take a Masters degree in teaching. This undertaking is by far THE toughest thing I have EVER done in my life (especially when you take into account my working class upbringing and lack of proper schooling). After 3 long years I am now nearing completion. In 4 months I will be submitting my dissertation and the steep mountain will have been conquered :P I cannot see myself topping this feat, and I do not have the inclination to do so. I think maybe it is time to take the middle road and continue my necessary life long learning on a smaller scale :) The moral is, personal development and learning cannot be achieved in a 'comfort zone'. We need to step into the unknown to learn, which is scary, believe me. In my opinion, when you look back it is always worth the effort :)
@theviker4 жыл бұрын
Cycle Green good work fella
@will0063 жыл бұрын
I listened to Derren Brown's audibook "Happy". It is very intellectual at times but he has a great voice and his command of the English language is inspiring but the message of the importance of stoicism really hit a chord with me and I've been a disciple of this way of life ever since. Thank you Derren for introducing this to me.
@Whistfulthinking3 жыл бұрын
I'm struggling and considering suicide. But this video has helped me a lot. You have to embrace the struggle and accept it's ever present and an opportunity to grow. I'm going to try to take these lessons forward for the sake of my family and friends
@APinTheAK3 жыл бұрын
Just know your not alone. That you’re loved, wanted, and would be missed more than it ever seems at times, and that the pain and life altering effect this would have on your loved ones so much more deeply than you can imagine. I struggle with the ideation myself, daily, questioning, saddened, misunderstood, aching, broken.... We just have to constantly remind ourselves, to stay present, connected; to ones self aswell as our people(family/friends). And of course, to reach out, pride doesn’t go with us when we pass, please don’t hesitate. I hope you find some relief. Take care of yourself.
@Whistfulthinking3 жыл бұрын
@@APinTheAK Thank you for the kind words
@rexqt53372 жыл бұрын
Dont be a pusssssssyyyyy..... live the life that youre given, there are people in the hospital that would do anything to stay alive
@BenWilliams20112 жыл бұрын
Hey... how are you doing?
@Whistfulthinking2 жыл бұрын
@@BenWilliams2011 100,000x better thanks Ben
@Mutorcsym13916 жыл бұрын
Feeling sad about ending a book aboot happiness.....paradoxically perfect.
@NashHightauer3 жыл бұрын
He certainly said that on purpose.
@balkanjoker31112 жыл бұрын
@@NashHightauer either way, its true.
@tonymalhi97922 жыл бұрын
What's the full name of the book please?
@Mutorcsym13912 жыл бұрын
@@tonymalhi9792 The idea of Happiness
@Pbg_Gonefishing4 жыл бұрын
Life is weird. Ive been really getting into Stoic stuff, works of Seneca and Epictetus. Then I was recommended a Tedtalk with Derren Brown doing what he does and I was intrigued to know more about this man. Then youtube autoplay went and played a clip from this podcast about hypnosis. Then on the side I saw this one and thought I bet thats good and clicked it. And here I am listening to man that understands Stoicism. Life is neat. Welcome to the circle.
@23Robusto5 ай бұрын
I recommend the Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday
@_SliK_2 жыл бұрын
Have goals. But don’t tie happiness to the completion of goals.
@KainedbutAble1236 жыл бұрын
One of the reasons Joe is so great is that one minute he can be wise-cracking, dropping F bombs and the next he can be as eloquent and genuinely profound as he is at the end of this clip.
@obitouchiha69806 жыл бұрын
KainedbutAble123 lmao yeah once in a blue moon he says something I didn’t think he was capable of saying
@barry46496 жыл бұрын
KainedbutAble123 yeah the True Geordies like that too in his podcasts
@hamesansyiem18416 жыл бұрын
@JCmasters100 how is he a shill?
@AutonovaAI6 жыл бұрын
JCmasters100 explain then...
@AliceInPantera5 жыл бұрын
Exactly....well said
@Samgurney886 жыл бұрын
'How best should we live?' This is the question that sparked my love of philosophy as a teenager (and I've spent my life so far studying philosophy in academia as a result). We don't tend to ask or discuss this question seriously in our modern culture - we have 'life hacks' and gimmicky self-help gurus and 'motivational speakers' and time-management seminars and 'positivity' cultists and 'YOLO' idiots and 'you do you', and all sorts of comparable vacuities. Simple, time-worn words like 'wisdom' or 'nobility' now even sound a bit old-fashioned to our modern ears. And we rarely ask what the ultimate purpose of it all is - what really matters - without degenerating into frivolous and superficial nihilism. The loss this represents to our culture is hard to express. I'm in good company in history if I'm simply being curmudgeonly about my contemporaries, but I find it hard to imagine that there isn't something especially superficial about our Zeitgeist. How to reconcile ourselves to the human predicament is not a question that ought to be confined to academic philosophers - it's a question every living person has to address and to live with. It's beautiful to see this question being discussed in a popular format with such real wisdom and depth.
@aliensoup24204 жыл бұрын
Happiness is a choice, not something that happens to you as a result of circumstances. There are happy people living in the most difficult conditions, and miserable people living in the best conditions. Don't wait for it, just be it.
@JesusJr2695 жыл бұрын
I just watch one of derren’s Netflix specials and thought ‘wow i wish that he was on the joe rogan podcast’... hey presto the algorithm delivers again
@xhesitase97293 жыл бұрын
Happiness can not be found in the world. The reason one is happy after achieving something is because the tension and angst of doing the activity subsides once complete, and tranquility resides again. We all seek happiness outside, but we will be disappointed sooner or later, even if things go as planned. There will always be restlessness in outside affairs. If we can cultivate the indifference of external situations. If we just let things happen as they are suppose to, come what may, but we are not perturbed, we will remain in equilibrium. Cultivate the love to go within oneself. To become self attentive to pure awareness; awareness of nothing but awareness, and not awareness of phenomena, such as the body, mind, or objects.
@zanem4993 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how much I resonate to this dude
@AllanDavisArt Жыл бұрын
I love Derrens vocal tone, pace & delivery. It’s hypnotic. Reminds me of Hitch in some ways, without the modesty.
@evanpaluch61906 жыл бұрын
Constant happiness is overrated. Life is a balance and you can't exeprience happiness without equal struggle. Embrace the ride and the journey not the destination.
@Kube_Dog6 жыл бұрын
You're repeating bumper stickers that feel true. But they're not. Happiness cannot be reached, as such. It is a by-product of understanding and doing what is right.
@Eddy-dn1jx6 жыл бұрын
@@Kube_Dog happiness isn't the same for everyone
@Sanjovalentine6 жыл бұрын
Kube Dog your happiness ain’t mine dawg. My happiness is finding good porn
@savvageorge6 жыл бұрын
I think it's also possible to be happy while you are struggling if you have the right frame of mind and you see struggles as a way to grow and improve.
@evanpaluch61906 жыл бұрын
@@savvageorge well said.
@HaloWolf1022 жыл бұрын
One of the things I learned about Stoics, is that they channel their anxiety and stress into their morning called 'Negative thinking'. They recognize that the people I will interact with today will be mean, emotional, and unyielding. Or something like that. And that you should expect this. Negative thinking prepares you for the day, after the morning is over. You don't so negative thinking until the next morning. The rest of the day is dedicated to learning, and dedicated to teaching others.
@Keklic6 жыл бұрын
YES DERREN BROWN. Loved his trick or treat series
@vintagerealityvr2 жыл бұрын
I'm 1089 years old and I relate to this *insert story*
@palecurve6 жыл бұрын
Happiness is growth, change and embracing the fears that come with it. One needs to be challenged in order to get further ahead.
@philmirez6 жыл бұрын
Patrick Burns yep. Never stagnate within your comfort zone.
@Eddy-dn1jx6 жыл бұрын
Happiness isn't the same for everyone
@Sanjovalentine6 жыл бұрын
Alfred Rieder if you can’t tell he’s joking, you got a lot more joe rogan to watch
@MrDaraghkinch6 жыл бұрын
I've always preferred the image of a pliable sapling in a storm, to that of a rock unmoved by waves. In my image, the analog of the rock would be a great rigid tree. The greater and more rigid the tree, the more wind it catches, and the more brittle it is, compared to the flexible sapling.
@garsto97186 жыл бұрын
Happiness comes from having a break after carrying an adequate load for each given day.
@grantdouglas85236 жыл бұрын
Great interview. Rogan is a superlative interviewer no matter on what subject. He is always pushing the interviewee and trying to understand the subject and pushing aside agendas when interviewing.
@anejaG55 Жыл бұрын
4 years have passed. No tomorrow. 4 years of prime young age
@dinolupi98076 жыл бұрын
Life is not meant to be happy! Nor meant to be sad! Equal possibly? Good and bad, ying and yang? Amen
@savvageorge6 жыл бұрын
Aristotle said that happiness is the purpose and meaning of life. I think sadness is our brains way of telling us we are on the wrong path.
@999fieldsie6 жыл бұрын
I suffer from despression it so hard I do be up and down a lot for years
@skunkusmunkus93856 жыл бұрын
same here. Found out i had copper toxicity. Apparently a common illness. Went on TRT. all good now biiiiitch
@RU4REALDAWG6 жыл бұрын
Because of my situation it's very hard for me to find people to socialize with, it's killing me, I don't have any social issues what's o ever but being 18, in great shape, with no girlfriend and no friends to go out with really drops me in an endless pool of unhappiness
@RU4REALDAWG6 жыл бұрын
@Nukem Dukem a few more years of this...
@leemckerrow49906 жыл бұрын
What situation
@billysummers49852 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now?
@onezerooneo3 жыл бұрын
Sad that a clip about this topic has so little views compared to Joe’s other clips.
@wanderingtyson75906 жыл бұрын
Joe "Marshall is in studio but will not be interviewed" Rogan
@GRiMETiME6 жыл бұрын
lmaaao
@jennyd1265 жыл бұрын
In conversations with joe make me smile... how adult can have different opinions without it turning in to a fight... thank you grows ups for this discussion :)
@personal33144 жыл бұрын
Derren and joe’s views on happiness are a lot different to one another
@jakeblaze76633 жыл бұрын
Happiness before the money.
@A.I.musicIntelligence4 жыл бұрын
Derren Brown, the man who never makes eye contact!
@TIMG1284 жыл бұрын
yes he does
@L1VE3V1L Жыл бұрын
Only when he’s fucking with your brain. Here, with Joe, he’s not here to play tricks, just talk.
@AyitaIam3 жыл бұрын
I remember a show yrs ago called Mind Control with DB. It was awesome and I never understood why they removed it other than the fear we might learn 2 much..all his books r great, but my fave is Confessions of a Conjuror....alot of people just don't understand how this need to believe covers up from us seeing truth..Twain was right..easier 2 fool them rather than to convince them they r being fooled. Nothing 2 do with happiness, but was just what I'm 🤔
@CZRXCZR6 жыл бұрын
Ironically, I read his book after receiving a Happy Ending.
@bluelambo56 жыл бұрын
The comment directly belows is "how do I stop feeling clinicly depressed after I wank off" lol
@yuccatree42984 жыл бұрын
Nothing ironic about that; coincidence, yes, but irony, no.
@hamet12346 жыл бұрын
Joe is such a good listener
@CPAStrengthPassion6 жыл бұрын
what is happy ?
@evanpaluch61906 жыл бұрын
Well I think it's this emotion where you feel good at ease. I forget what that emotion is like.
@Kube_Dog6 жыл бұрын
@@evanpaluch6190 No.
@philmirez6 жыл бұрын
CPA Strength it’s up to you to define happy. 👍
@Kube_Dog6 жыл бұрын
@@philmirez No.
@philmirez6 жыл бұрын
Kube Dog Issa good boy. 🤗
@steveyray90316 жыл бұрын
The first step of a 10 mile is not the hardest.
@aliensoup24204 жыл бұрын
It is for me...the 1st 1/4 mile of a long hike is often the most difficult. I feel weak and don't think I can even make it 1/2 mile. Beginning is always difficult if you think about the huge journey ahead.
@willjackson65226 жыл бұрын
“Think of yourself more as a porous rock” Yo I’m not high, but I feel high right now
@vintagerealityvr2 жыл бұрын
I was born a man. then, I became a vacuum. it was this podcast that made me an actual Hoover. The articulation in this podcast is so great, I gained . 002 horsepower in my small vacuum motor, and I am now a better man (vacuum) for this
@Eddy-dn1jx6 жыл бұрын
Happiness isn't the same for each person. We're extremely different
@samabplanalp28016 жыл бұрын
Derren “I only wear one headphone” Brown
@snolan19906 жыл бұрын
Sam that is probably so he can hear what is happening in the room directly.
@dannhatesusernames4 жыл бұрын
Ask a Scientist, just not anything about audio or the perception of sound.
@phillipecook3227 Жыл бұрын
" Life, liberty & the pursuit of happiness". As an objective the last one's been around for a while and then some. It's only the latest generation of homo sapiens who've thought so much about happiness (probably because the previous 200 were too busy surviving). But how do you define it and how do you know you've achieved it? I don't worry about the first but waking up every morning looking forward to the day tells me I'm at least content. Reminding yourself that things could always be much, much worse helps too.
@FanMarleycalender3 жыл бұрын
Why is the full podcast gone?
@stu73993 жыл бұрын
As a ROCK, I like his use of the word "porous". Nice one Derren, maybe I'll absorb more.
@Bazic-jh6rz5 жыл бұрын
Wow didn’t know Darren came to joes podcast
@austin72516 жыл бұрын
Only 20.000 views? My people are missing out on great concepts.
@bigdave18853 жыл бұрын
Interesting to see Joe so quiet 🤫
@Avalon_19914 жыл бұрын
Yeah, shout out for the city of Bristol
@ijoeymatthews5 жыл бұрын
My name is Joseph Aurelio and I’m actually a defendant of Marcus Aurelius. It’s crazy how I’ve found Joe “DMT” Rogan and Derren Brown. I love you all and hope you have a fantastic life.
@memoryhero5 жыл бұрын
I actually found Joe's wisdom here in the video's second half the more profound!
@ham.ster1997 Жыл бұрын
why is the full show pirvate?🥺
@L1VE3V1L Жыл бұрын
Derren is so fucking clever.
@maulendemyrte99556 жыл бұрын
Joe “the weirdness of it all“ Rogan
@movieklump6 жыл бұрын
Happy people never talk about happiness.
@smartwater5982 жыл бұрын
Because it attracts jealous people
@vyouttar3 жыл бұрын
My perspective about happiness is happiness = peace
@jennyd1265 жыл бұрын
Having a purpose...
@jasonzcomedy5 жыл бұрын
I can not recommend his book strongly enough
@zanem4993 жыл бұрын
What is his book called?
@jasonzcomedy3 жыл бұрын
@@zanem499 Happy
@LocalFiveGuy3 жыл бұрын
A true secret of happiness that works best = Put a smile on your face all day, every day. It will make you happier than you've ever been. I walked around with a smile on my face, saying that "There is no reason not to smile!" That made me feel like I was the happiest person in the world. Give it a try.
@L1VE3V1L Жыл бұрын
I just might
@lukemccann6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@lucygilbertson37466 жыл бұрын
genius
@Sandlund93 Жыл бұрын
I guess my idea of happiness is the complete opposite of Rogan´s then. I´d say to each their own, I don´t think his philosophy works for everybody.
@EmperorsNewWardrobe6 жыл бұрын
First, what the hell is the definition of happiness?
@richardgates74796 жыл бұрын
Never mind what anyone else thinks, what do you think?
@EmperorsNewWardrobe6 жыл бұрын
Richard Gates, not looking for a mentor, thanks, but I am looking for applicants for the happiness definition wherever they may be
@samuelcharlton99815 жыл бұрын
Being content with life
@ManQ_4 жыл бұрын
It's the feeling you get when you take a massive shit after holding it in all day
@2dotGo3 жыл бұрын
Probably the purpose of the book...
@rayhan71526 жыл бұрын
Mad
@danielprice90466 жыл бұрын
What is this ‘happiness’ they speak of?
@philmirez6 жыл бұрын
Happiness is when you can embrace your dandruff while wearing a black shirt. 👍
@zedlovin26126 жыл бұрын
Phil Ramirez definitely not
@JM-fo1te6 жыл бұрын
*What?*
@eddiebaby224 жыл бұрын
Wow
@donluchitti6 жыл бұрын
Hitch 2.0 🍄🍄🍄
@shamanahaboolist6 жыл бұрын
That moment when you see that Joe Rogan has a better handle on wisdom than Derren Brown. Honestly... I really appreciate Derren's skills in manipulation and subconscious influence and I truly appreciate how much he has shared. But Derren is a lost soul. He'll feel much better once he lets go of his frustration with God, mans up and embraces a relationship with the universe.
@xydex996 жыл бұрын
haha you have some opinions ... life's hard man I think they're both doing real well
@shamanahaboolist6 жыл бұрын
@@xydex99 I'm sure they are. But Rogan is happier than Derren no doubt. I'm pretty sure that's down to Rogan's openness to the idea of consciousness in forms other than the measured and observable.
@thecaptain50266 жыл бұрын
@@shamanahaboolist I'm pretty sure you're putting your personal believes into this observation. Basically, that's just your perspective
@shamanahaboolist6 жыл бұрын
@@thecaptain5026 Yeah it's my perspective. Doesn't mean it's not accurate tho.
@MrRinoHunter6 жыл бұрын
2nd! Cause I'm a fan!
@thatguyoverthere55706 жыл бұрын
first cuz why not
@krisley51785 жыл бұрын
What in the fuck are these people blathering about? I heard not one thing relating to happiness. Jesus. Once you achieve success, I guess its easy to get lost in your own greatness.
@bekachanturia89016 жыл бұрын
Get dan bilzerian back on
@ImNotJoshPotter6 жыл бұрын
This guy's stoicism doesn't sound all that stoic.
@15seconds36 жыл бұрын
Derren Brown isn't that articulate. He tends to ramble. I'm guessing he doesn't deal with people on a daily basis.
@15seconds36 жыл бұрын
Yes really. If you are more precise in your communicaton you don't need to use hand gestures, rubbing your hands, moving your shoulders, etc. to appear more animated.
@patrickoneal40826 жыл бұрын
Happiness is for children like Santa and Heaven. We are here to procreate and further the species. That's it. Get over it and try to enjoy some moments. Grow up